Saving vs. Leading

The Powerful Man Show · Dec 10, 2020 · 24m

Episode #286

When your spouse is going through something, do you feel the urge to "save" her or do you want to lead her?

We tend to try and solve other people's problems because we want external validation. We'd love to help other people because it makes us feel good about ourselves and makes us feel significant in the world that we live in.

Saving seems to be the most honorable thing, but in reality, it's the last thing most people want. If you want to help her, allow her to go through the process. That's leadership.

Make her feel emotionally safe and trust you fully. Once you're solid…