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Steve Harvey's Closing Remarks - 01.29.25 · Daily Inspiration: The Steve Harvey Morning Show

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  Speaker 1: I got some clothes and remarks for you. I've thought
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  Speaker 1: about this and so in this new year, I want
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  Speaker 1: to remind people because we you know, most of us
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  Speaker 1: are good people, are trying to become better people, are
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  Speaker 1: you know, doing the best we can. So we have
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  Speaker 1: to be considerate of others. But this year, I want
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  Speaker 1: you to be careful in your consideration of others. Don't
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  Speaker 1: ignore yourself. And I'm talking especially to women, because women,
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  Speaker 1: you are you are about the nurturing of so many people.
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  Speaker 1: To true you're the the fixer when it comes to feelings, emotions,
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  Speaker 1: and you make sure everybody's okay, and sometimes you ignore yourself.
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  Speaker 2: I want you to beware of that.
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  Speaker 1: But I'm talking to men too, because I do so
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  Speaker 1: much for other people, but sometimes I forget to take
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  Speaker 1: our time for myself. So this is for everybody, but
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  Speaker 1: I'm especially talking to women. Be very, very aware in
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  Speaker 1: this upcoming year of people who lay the most useless
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  Speaker 1: emotion of them all on you, which is guilt. If
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  Speaker 1: you think about the emotion of guilt, it's the most
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  Speaker 1: useless emotion that we have because it only serves one person,
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  Speaker 1: and that's the person applying the guilt, who's using it
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  Speaker 1: as a form of manipulation. Oh so you don't forgot
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  Speaker 1: where you come from. I remember when you used to
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  Speaker 1: help me. You know, I know you got it.
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  Speaker 2: Man.
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  Speaker 1: You sit over there, man, God and bless you with everything,
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  Speaker 1: and you just don't you don't remember us. Man, Man,
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  Speaker 1: stop stop. You really are not my obligation.
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  Speaker 2: You're really not. You're really really not. You know.
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  Speaker 1: A funny thing happened recently. I had to release somebody,
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  Speaker 1: and the conversation I had I had to release them.
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  Speaker 1: It was a very fair I had given this person
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  Speaker 1: ample opportunity and many chances, but in releasing the person,
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  Speaker 1: I still gave them a wonderful out. But you know
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  Speaker 1: what the person told me. What am I going to
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  Speaker 1: do now? He said, mister Harvey, you don't understand what
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  Speaker 1: it's like. And I'm just looking at him and I'm
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  Speaker 1: trying to figure out what it is that's happening in
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  Speaker 1: your life that you think I have no awareness of
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  Speaker 1: a new experience in And he said to me, even
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  Speaker 1: with this severance package you're giving me and the ability
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  Speaker 1: to work in other areas of your company, I would
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  Speaker 1: not have signed my new lease had I known this.
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  Speaker 2: I said, wait a minute. Man, Hold, I don't know
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  Speaker 2: when your lease is up.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know when, Lisa, But you still have work,
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  Speaker 1: you still have opportunities, you still have jobs. And so
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  Speaker 1: he just continued to try to make me feel guilty
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  Speaker 1: about a decision I had made when clearly you were
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  Speaker 1: no longer servicing your end of the bargain the way
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  Speaker 1: you could. But now, all of a sudden, what am
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  Speaker 1: I gonna do? Well? I got to think it too.
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  Speaker 1: What do I do when they cancel my TV shows?
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  Speaker 2: Now? Nobody give me no notice.
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  Speaker 1: I just come to work one day and they tell
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  Speaker 1: me show gone.
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  Speaker 2: I got to deal with it.
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  Speaker 1: I came to work one day and they told me
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  Speaker 1: Little Big Shots is gone and your talk show gone,
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  Speaker 1: and just walked away out of my face, no warning,
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  Speaker 1: no nothing. I remember in two thousand and five, Shirley
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  Speaker 1: and Tommy was with me when they told me I
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  Speaker 1: lost my TV show and then my radio show in
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  Speaker 1: the same month. I had no entertainment contracts at all,
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  Speaker 1: and they just told me it's a rap.
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  Speaker 2: So what am I going? I don't know.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know what you're gonna do, but you better
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  Speaker 1: go to work and fix it. And I still gave
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  Speaker 1: him out, but they were trying to make me feel guilty.
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  Speaker 1: No more, no, no, no, no, that's not how this
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  Speaker 1: works anymore. Listen, be considerate of others, others, but don't
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  Speaker 1: ignore yourself.
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  Speaker 2: Remember what you do. See I tell people all the time,
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  Speaker 2: if you didn't have my number, what would you do?
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  Speaker 2: Well get to doing that then.
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  Speaker 1: See, you ain't got to feel guilty because somebody got
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  Speaker 1: access to you. Having access to you don't mean they
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  Speaker 1: should have total access to you. Just because you know
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  Speaker 1: my number. Don't give you an end with me. In
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  Speaker 1: every aspect of your life. You are not responsible for
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  Speaker 1: the life of other people. Because when you get in trouble,
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  Speaker 1: when you and your husband or your family get in
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  Speaker 1: the situation, who you got to call Probably nobody. So
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  Speaker 1: stop being the one that's always made to feel like
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  Speaker 1: you owe them, you owe somebody, cause you don't. You
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  Speaker 1: don't people. Take some time out for yourself in twenty
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  Speaker 1: twenty five. Get yourself a hobby that you enjoy doing.
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  Speaker 1: You want to go down there and take a spin class.
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  Speaker 1: You want to go down there and take yoga. You
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  Speaker 1: want to go down there and do breath work, Go
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  Speaker 1: down there and do it. You want to go sit
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  Speaker 1: in therapy. Go down there and do it. You want
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  Speaker 1: to set up a tea with your girlfriends every Wednesday evening,
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  Speaker 1: go do it. You want to have a card night
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  Speaker 1: on Saturdays, go do it. Man, Go enjoy your life
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  Speaker 1: and stop allowing people to make you feel as though
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  Speaker 1: you owe them when clearly they have made a conscious
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  Speaker 1: decision not to owe you anything. You ever gave somebody
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  Speaker 1: some money and they ain't give it back and then
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  Speaker 1: they come back for some more that ever happened to you?
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  Speaker 1: I bet it has gave them some money, they didn't
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  Speaker 1: pay it back and came back for some more.
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  Speaker 2: What man like? I said?
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  Speaker 1: Oh this dude on Instagram, he said, you must think
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  Speaker 1: I'm some new kind of stupid.
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  Speaker 2: Well, you can do something to me.
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  Speaker 1: Let some time go by, think I'm gonna forget it,
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  Speaker 1: and you come back to me like a nothing happened.
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  Speaker 1: You must think I'm some new kind of stupid. Well
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  Speaker 1: in twenty twenty five, stop being that.
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  Speaker 2: Way you considering the marks clothing law, have a great
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  Speaker 2: with today, y'all. Talk to God. You got to really
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