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Imagine having Beyonce as your sister and she doesn’t want anything to do with you? · Anele and the Club on 947

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  Speaker 1: Wake up with a bang, Hey, wake up Annelee and
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  Speaker 1: the club on nine four seven. Every now and then
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  Speaker 1: this conversation Papasi's ugly hit on social media, where people
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  Speaker 1: are like, oh, she's terrible, Oh she's very evil of
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  Speaker 1: her always known that she has a bad bone and
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  Speaker 1: that little body of hers, and every time it pops up,
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  Speaker 1: I'm just like, yeah, but what do you guys want
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  Speaker 1: her to do?
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  Speaker 2: Beyonce's father, Matthew Knowles, had an affair with a woman
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  Speaker 2: named Alexandra Wright while married to Beyonce's mother, Tina Knowles,
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  Speaker 2: back in two thousand and nine. During the affair, Alexander
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  Speaker 2: Wright became pregnant, which led to Beyonce's mother divorcing her father.
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  Speaker 3: Matthew Knowles.
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  Speaker 4: Beyonce's half brother, Nixon, is now thirteen years old, but
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  Speaker 4: according to his mother, he is struggling to have a
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  Speaker 4: normal life being the brother of Beyonce and often questioned
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  Speaker 4: why the singer doesn't love him. According to Nixon's mother,
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  Speaker 4: Nixon has never met his father or sisters, despite Beyonce
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  Speaker 4: living only ten miles away from him in her twenty
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  Speaker 4: million dollar Malibu home.
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  Speaker 5: Whoa whoa heavy?
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  Speaker 3: Hey, whoa heavy? Heavy?
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  Speaker 6: Heavy.
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  Speaker 3: And this is the thing.
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  Speaker 1: Now, your half sister is the most famous woman in
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  Speaker 1: the world and you've never met her because the conditions
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  Speaker 1: are that your mom had an affair with the man
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  Speaker 1: was married, so the kids that the man had from
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  Speaker 1: marriage don't want anything to do with you.
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  Speaker 5: And also the dad though, because that's wild. Yeah, I've
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  Speaker 5: never made his dad. That's so weird.
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  Speaker 1: And actually that much I didn't know. That's a new
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  Speaker 1: revelation for me. Therefore, he's the villain here because if
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  Speaker 1: he had a relationship with his own son, sooner or later,
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  Speaker 1: they'd be a relationship with your siblings.
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  Speaker 7: Yeah, yeah, yeah, no, you must be right. Look, I
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  Speaker 7: mean I think there's a lot of people who have
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  Speaker 7: siblings for you know, in whichever way a reason, and
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  Speaker 7: they haven't made them or they don't care to meet them.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, because everyone.
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  Speaker 7: The first thing you think is that Beyonce doesn't care
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  Speaker 7: to meet him, But that's mybe not the truth.
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  Speaker 5: Do you understand? This is very complicated?
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  Speaker 1: Said as is. I think it's tough for him because
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  Speaker 1: he's a child and he didn't ask to be in
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  Speaker 1: this situation now, and I think that his situation is
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  Speaker 1: exaggerated by the fact that it is Beyonce.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, of course no.
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  Speaker 1: But of course you know, because if it was some
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  Speaker 1: dolly that you don't know she works at a bank,
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  Speaker 1: you know you're.
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  Speaker 3: Not going to see her. It is what it is.
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  Speaker 1: Maybe by chance, in forty years times something happens, it
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  Speaker 1: would be one thing.
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  Speaker 3: But it is Beyonce.
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  Speaker 7: I think I think there's still trauma regardless of whether
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  Speaker 7: you work at a bank or not.
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  Speaker 8: Yeah.
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  Speaker 7: Yeah, yeah, it's a little bit tough to escape the
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  Speaker 7: fact that you are Beyonce's sibling.
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  Speaker 5: So what is the issue?
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  Speaker 9: Are people saying she should should have a relationship with Yes,
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  Speaker 9: I don't think there's any relationship that you should have
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  Speaker 9: with the people or even in your family.
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  Speaker 5: I just don't.
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  Speaker 9: I don't think that being being connected through black means
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  Speaker 9: you're forced to have any relationship if you've.
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  Speaker 3: I mean, it's nice, but it's not a necessity.
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  Speaker 5: In an ideal situation.
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  Speaker 9: Great if you could all get along, if you all
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  Speaker 9: fell to closeness. But I think you're allowed to say, listen,
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  Speaker 9: based on the events that led to how you came
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  Speaker 9: to be.
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  Speaker 5: I don't dislike you. I don't have an issue with you.
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  Speaker 9: It's just not a relationship that I can have because
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  Speaker 9: it could be connected, for example, to the pain or
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  Speaker 9: whatever the family went through as a result of what
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  Speaker 9: was going on. His dad and his mom are the
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  Speaker 9: only people will not with an obligation towards him because
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  Speaker 9: they are the parents.
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  Speaker 1: Is there a family member that is quite close to
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  Speaker 1: you in relation if we're looking at the family tree,
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  Speaker 1: but you've just never met them and you don't care
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  Speaker 1: to and you don't want to, and it's fine like
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  Speaker 1: that thumbs up, never want to see.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah.
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  Speaker 7: I don't think there's a wrong or right answer. Everyone
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  Speaker 7: has their own journey on this. But like you say, curious, Yeah,
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  Speaker 7: if there is someone.
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  Speaker 10: Yeah, no, it's horrible from both sides. But I agree
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  Speaker 10: with what Frankie initially said. I think because it is Beyonce, Like,
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  Speaker 10: it's not somebody who you could just go, well, I
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  Speaker 10: don't have a relationship with my half sibling.
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  Speaker 5: And move on.
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  Speaker 3: It's like in your face.
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  Speaker 9: I have a friend who doesn't have a relationship with
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  Speaker 9: their father right lives in the same city. It's made
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  Speaker 9: no effort to reconnect or build a relationship. And she
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  Speaker 9: will tell you today, at thirty five years old, that
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  Speaker 9: she also has no interest in going to where he is.
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  Speaker 9: She knows where he is in the city, but because
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  Speaker 9: of everything else that's happened, She's like, I don't dislike him,
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  Speaker 9: I just don't have space for him in my life currently.
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  Speaker 1: Is there a family member that you do not have
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  Speaker 1: a relationship with, You've never made them, you're aware of them.
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  Speaker 1: They thumbs up to you, well done, to your existence,
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  Speaker 1: well downe to your breathing, well down to your skin, keeping.
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  Speaker 3: Your body together.
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  Speaker 1: But I'm just I never want to meet you by chance,
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  Speaker 1: by design, none of it.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, you just said it's not for you.
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  Speaker 3: Run us through why.
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  Speaker 1: We're just curious, want to know why, because this is
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  Speaker 1: like and this happens everyone, to billionaires, to to Randolaiz, whatever,
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  Speaker 1: wherever you all in the economic spectrum, it happens to everyone.
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  Speaker 3: And this is what we want to know.
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  Speaker 5: His Beyonce is Beyonce is his sister.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, but we also want to Beyonce to be our sister.
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  Speaker 3: He can come down.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, but that was quite a change of heart.
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  Speaker 1: Oh one one eight thirty eight nine four seven, Jump
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  Speaker 1: on board on this. It might be a little bit
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  Speaker 1: difficult for you to talk about, but I think let's
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  Speaker 1: just have a chat anyway, we're all friends here saying
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  Speaker 1: that's a voice called zero eight four double zero double
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  Speaker 1: zero nine four seven. Is there something that's happening to you,
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  Speaker 1: something that you are aware, you are aware of that
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  Speaker 1: is happening in your family, your friends, your colleagues.
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  Speaker 5: Let us know, Beyonce has a brother that's thirteen.
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  Speaker 1: That's half brother, not stir brother, half brother, half brother
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  Speaker 1: because I share the same dad.
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  Speaker 5: Same dad.
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  Speaker 7: But the dad had an effet whilst he was married
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  Speaker 7: with the mom to Mama Tina. And apparently they got
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  Speaker 7: nothing to do with each other.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, not even the dad has met the brother. But
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  Speaker 1: here's the thing they're not saying that in this article.
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  Speaker 1: It's like, yeah, Beyonce doesn't want to meet me, does
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  Speaker 1: want to meet my son, But why don't you start
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  Speaker 1: with your husband?
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  Speaker 3: You and you had an affair with you.
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  Speaker 5: I can't believe her dad hasn't made him.
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  Speaker 3: Silly, silly, silly, Sam? Are you in sweat? Good morning?
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  Speaker 3: Good morning?
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  Speaker 11: How are you?
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  Speaker 3: We are great Samma.
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  Speaker 1: So the question we're asking here is is there a
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  Speaker 1: family member that you are literally blood related to that
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  Speaker 1: family tree is so close, right, and you've never made
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  Speaker 1: this person and you're okay with it.
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  Speaker 3: Our first time on radio.
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  Speaker 6: By the way, well it's.
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  Speaker 1: A serious conversation that got you out of the woodwork.
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  Speaker 3: But alas here you are.
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  Speaker 11: Actually I wouldn't even say I know this person.
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  Speaker 3: Actually I know her.
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  Speaker 11: But now the thing is both my parents say passed
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  Speaker 11: years ago, and then this lady just resurfaced out of
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  Speaker 11: nowhere and then telling us that we share father.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, when you look at her, does she look like you? Nothing?
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  Speaker 11: I'm lighting complexion, but she's way lighter, like, there's no resemblance.
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  Speaker 1: Nothing, No, not features, not hype, not a pinky toe,
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  Speaker 1: not a squiggly nose, not a tree, she eye, nothing,
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  Speaker 1: not even the he Okay, okay, plausible. Why don't you
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  Speaker 1: just go have a taste?
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  Speaker 12: Exactly because whenever I ask the question, how do you know?
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  Speaker 11: How sure are you that we shay the same father,
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  Speaker 11: it's always a problem.
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  Speaker 3: I'm like, but then bring someone.
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  Speaker 11: There should be someone, maybe an elderly or someone that
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  Speaker 11: can a taste to this.
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  Speaker 3: But no, what would she like out of this?
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  Speaker 6: A relationship?
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  Speaker 3: Yes?
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  Speaker 1: But what okay, great, a relationship comes up, I'll see
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  Speaker 1: you once say yeah, okay, but like, does it look
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  Speaker 1: like she wants money. Does she looks like she wants
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  Speaker 1: part of the estate that she looks like she wants
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  Speaker 1: to move in with you, she wants you to look
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  Speaker 1: after her kids. What's your apprehension to this relationship outside
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  Speaker 1: of the proof?
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  Speaker 11: I'm thinking at this point because my parents left as
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  Speaker 11: a house who are based in the Eastern Cape, by
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  Speaker 11: the way, So.
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  Speaker 12: Now, how the thing unfolded was where you were in
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  Speaker 12: December always on now, yes, so people who were drunk,
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  Speaker 12: and then that's how the topic arised. So my brother,
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  Speaker 12: because he's got a big heart, he's accepting it. Oh,
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  Speaker 12: he decided, you know what, this is my sister.
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  Speaker 6: There's no proof, none whatsoever.
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  Speaker 3: I'm just going with the story.
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  Speaker 11: So I, on the other hand, I'm like, no, no, no, no, no,
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  Speaker 11: that's not how things work.
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  Speaker 3: How sure are you?
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  Speaker 6: What proof do you have?
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  Speaker 11: Is there someone that we can ask? Perhaps? And then
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  Speaker 11: there's nothing And then now I'm being cessed. Yeah, just
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  Speaker 11: because of phone dealer, you're educated, you think you're better
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  Speaker 11: than us, which it's true.
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  Speaker 1: Yes, Like guys people will say you think you're better
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  Speaker 1: than me, they've already decided that you're better than them.
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  Speaker 1: My question is, okay, how did she get to know
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  Speaker 1: about umgidi because sherey. Then there's a family member who
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  Speaker 1: is communicating to her about the things that are happening
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  Speaker 1: in your family, because it could have been just a
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  Speaker 1: random stranger who saw a nice thing giddy. Then they're like, hey,
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  Speaker 1: it's actually going to be nice party time. You says Okay,
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  Speaker 1: there's no mom, there's no death. They've passed away, So
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  Speaker 1: there's an institutional knowledge that's missing.
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  Speaker 3: Ah, I'm in I'm famine me.
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  Speaker 11: I'm thinking it's definitely to my brother, the one who
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  Speaker 11: he is so accepting. He takes everything that goes. If
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  Speaker 11: you tell him something, he's so gullible actually, so he
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  Speaker 11: takes everything that comes. So that's how I found myself
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  Speaker 11: in the predicament.
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  Speaker 3: Where is she now? Where does she live?
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  Speaker 10: Now?
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  Speaker 11: They're only the Eastern Cape. I'm this side for work
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  Speaker 11: and wait in the.
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  Speaker 3: Eastern Cape that she lives in your in your home,
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  Speaker 3: in your homestead.
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  Speaker 11: No, I would say, in the same village.
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  Speaker 3: Oh, but but is she a regular person that goes
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  Speaker 3: to your house now, like eat and hang out?
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  Speaker 11: She never comes bad whenever they all of a sudden,
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  Speaker 11: She's just like I would see her A lot of us.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, I know, just tricky, tricky, it's just to the test.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, science wise, we can have we can have a
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  Speaker 1: taste where related and you don't need the parents in it. No,
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  Speaker 1: Oh okay, I guess I'm gonna do the taste.
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  Speaker 5: Babe.
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  Speaker 11: I don't even see the need of the taste because
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  Speaker 11: she has kids as well. Like it gets deeper she
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  Speaker 11: has And then when the whole altercation started, the kids
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  Speaker 11: stepped in and they wanted to beat me, And I'm like,
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  Speaker 11: I do.
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  Speaker 1: How could you just if now you want to beat
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  Speaker 1: me up because I refuse to accept you as my sister.
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  Speaker 11: That's why I nearly ran for the hills because what
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  Speaker 11: do you mean? I've never fought in my life. I'll
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  Speaker 11: never start now, what.
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  Speaker 3: Do you mean? You nearly ran for the hills? You
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  Speaker 3: did run? You in Joburg and then in Eastern Cape
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  Speaker 3: you ran?
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  Speaker 11: You ran?
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  Speaker 3: And grow do you now? Are you in Santan? Do
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  Speaker 3: you have a family member that you know about?
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  Speaker 7: There? There?
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  Speaker 3: They are lives and you just have no desire to
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  Speaker 3: meet them.
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  Speaker 6: Hi, And that's up.
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  Speaker 3: So let me.
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  Speaker 6: My situation is I am the rejected one. So my
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  Speaker 6: father has three kids, the eldest, the girl was born
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  Speaker 6: two weeks before me, and I would have known about
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  Speaker 6: the existence from a young age. I knew there's the
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  Speaker 6: three of them.
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  Speaker 11: Uh.
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  Speaker 6: And then I, you know, I was raised by my
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  Speaker 6: grandmother and my mother did well for myself. And only
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  Speaker 6: a couple of years ago, two three, and I'm thirty five.
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  Speaker 6: Now I get a call from actually it was a
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  Speaker 6: WhatsApp and I'm at work and this girl says he
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  Speaker 6: I would like to get to know my brother a
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  Speaker 6: bit more. And I'm like, who are you?
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  Speaker 5: Girls?
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  Speaker 6: I'm sorry you who's your brother?
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  Speaker 12: Say?
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  Speaker 6: You got your number from my dad and I was like, oh,
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  Speaker 6: he says our father, And I was like, oh, I
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  Speaker 6: don't know. I don't even identify him as that because
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  Speaker 6: also were still on the same street, just in town.
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  Speaker 6: But he never, you know, wanted to know me. Now
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  Speaker 6: he gives you my number, and then later I just
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  Speaker 6: block her and I go like, no, I don't. I've
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  Speaker 6: always known about your existence. I don't care to pursue anything.
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  Speaker 6: I don't have space for you. And even if I did,
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  Speaker 6: it's a bit strange. Then later Felicie has a aunt
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  Speaker 6: called and she's like, ah, yeah, you know, we must
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  Speaker 6: not broke too much on the past, and also the
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  Speaker 6: eldest one is struggling with the job.
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  Speaker 7: With me, it's always money, it's always money, a Lisa
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  Speaker 7: that I had in it.
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  Speaker 3: Your dad's your dad's sister, yeah, the.
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  Speaker 6: Laici the sister.
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  Speaker 12: Yeah.
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  Speaker 6: And then she also mentions how the second born is
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  Speaker 6: at UJ studying whatever if I could help her out
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  Speaker 6: because also now my my or the one identifies my
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  Speaker 6: sister is also also.
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  Speaker 1: Now that's that's your mom's sake and born, that's my
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  Speaker 1: mom's side, that's that's that's that's your sibling.
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  Speaker 6: That's my sibling. That's who identifies my sibling. And I said, no,
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  Speaker 6: it can't be that. Now you're gonna call now want
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  Speaker 6: something now? And then reference that we shouldn't do along
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  Speaker 6: the past. And so with this, beyond the situation, I'm
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  Speaker 6: not even wondering this kid does she want a relationship
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  Speaker 6: with the father or does he want a relationship with
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  Speaker 6: Beyonce for who Beyonce is, because then it sounds it
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  Speaker 6: sounds seems that they're isn't generous. And that's the problem
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  Speaker 6: I have with these siblings is that they don't start
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  Speaker 6: to acknowledge first where they come from and speak to
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  Speaker 6: the dad and thinking, how are we in this situation?
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  Speaker 6: Why is it that you left this kid and decided
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  Speaker 6: on us. We're only two weeks apart, imagine. So for me,
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  Speaker 6: it's just that point of saying, I think family should
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  Speaker 6: start having conversations around how did this happen and acknowledge
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  Speaker 6: it first. Then we can start having other conversations. But
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  Speaker 6: even then there's no capacity now to be developing new relationships,
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  Speaker 6: sibling relations with some I'm thirty five, How am I
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  Speaker 6: gonna now relate to this?
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  Speaker 7: It's it's it's DENI, it's accountability, because this is the
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  Speaker 7: thing now all the siblings are running around trying to.
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  Speaker 5: Sort this out dead. Accountability definitely lies with the parents.
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  Speaker 5: The parents.
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  Speaker 10: Dad is the dad.
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  Speaker 1: If the dad wants his kids to know each other
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  Speaker 1: and not not even get along, to just know each other,
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  Speaker 1: be aware of each other, then the dad, the dad,
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  Speaker 1: will do exactly that. But to Dene's point, why is
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  Speaker 1: it always money involved?
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  Speaker 5: Yeah? Because, but but this is the point.
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  Speaker 3: Why do you always help us this? This one is adversity?
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  Speaker 1: Why do you only need to find me then when
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  Speaker 1: the stature, when there's money, when there's something, why couldn't
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  Speaker 1: we just put on an almost Sunday where we need
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  Speaker 1: nothing from each other.
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  Speaker 7: And the reality is thirty five years later. Right in
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  Speaker 7: the Nios case, the thing is that there is now
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  Speaker 7: a history of non connection. Yeah, to start connection now,
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  Speaker 7: that's incredibly tough.
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  Speaker 5: No, this is very that's very weird.
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  Speaker 13: Yeah, my father drove a Cressida. So I tells you
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  Speaker 13: everything you need to know. I've got siblings for days.
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  Speaker 13: I think at last counts, there's about nine of us
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  Speaker 13: excluding me, and I'm like, it's been so I've been
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  Speaker 13: so long. I don't see the point of having a relationship.
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  Speaker 13: He's trying to introduce one or two of them to me,
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  Speaker 13: but I'm like, it's pointless.
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  Speaker 8: I've got an older step sister. She used to have
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  Speaker 8: somewhat of relationship with my father because they used to
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  Speaker 8: speak on the phone when I was young.
• 14:47
  Speaker 6: I was still in high school.
• 14:48
  Speaker 8: I believe when I was fourteen, I had asked to
• 14:50
  Speaker 8: speak to her on the phone and she refused. And
• 14:53
  Speaker 8: then I think two to three years back, she tried
• 14:58
  Speaker 8: to reach out to me and I'm not interested. I
• 15:01
  Speaker 8: don't want anything to do with you.
• 15:03
  Speaker 1: Goodbye.
• 15:03
  Speaker 3: Now it's back to making your morning. La and the
• 15:07
  Speaker 3: club on nine, four seven,