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Psychopath or Sociopath? · Johnjay & Rich On Demand

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  Speaker 1: God Love Pup Family Fest this Saturday, four pm. Bertuccio
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  Speaker 1: Farms Free Concert, Jim Class Heroes Fits in the Tantrums
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  Speaker 1: Saturday with.
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  Speaker 2: Party the Park though with Little John Pitbull Jennifer.
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  Speaker 3: Were you there, yes, good morning, Good morning. It was
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  Speaker 3: so awesome. I still cannot walk two days later.
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  Speaker 4: Well, then you did it totally right, if you're feeling
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  Speaker 4: the pace.
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  Speaker 3: Totally right. I had to hit up to that because
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  Speaker 3: we're on the same page. Neither one of us can
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  Speaker 3: walk two days later.
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  Speaker 5: That's so funny. Nick and I were sitting there watching it.
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  Speaker 5: I think it was either Little John or Shaggy who
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  Speaker 5: was on the stage, and we're like, you know, kind
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  Speaker 5: of like dancing, and these two guys walk right in
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  Speaker 5: front of us and just keep walking in One of
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  Speaker 5: them is like like complete while he's walking and then
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  Speaker 5: continues to keep walking.
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  Speaker 2: Were like, did that seriously take you?
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  Speaker 3: I am doing that. I did not see anyone throw up,
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  Speaker 3: but yes, I did. Its way too much and I
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  Speaker 3: still cannot move. I'm on my way to cold Plunge
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  Speaker 3: right now to see if I can fix myself.
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  Speaker 2: Where do you go Cold Plunge?
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  Speaker 3: Unchanged Psychiatry and Wellness and Gilbert. We got red light,
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  Speaker 3: cold plunge and for red Sana. They're amazing. What's it
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  Speaker 3: called unchanged psychiatry and wellness?
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  Speaker 2: Wow? I think the psychiatry thing would throw me off. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: it just seems like that.
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  Speaker 3: It's actually doctors to help with anxiety and depression. But
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  Speaker 3: they also have all the modalities for red light therapy,
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  Speaker 3: cold plunge, everything. It's amazing. I do it every Tuesday.
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  Speaker 2: Do you have to be a patient or can you
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  Speaker 2: just go there and do it?
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  Speaker 3: You can go in, Yeah, you can go in. They
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  Speaker 3: have everything Ala Carte. They also have amazing hyperbaric chambers,
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  Speaker 3: they have IV therapies, they have everything.
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  Speaker 2: Wow. They wouldn't let you leave, John Jay, Whyn't you.
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  Speaker 3: Check in right right? Sanday would be like his name
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  Speaker 3: would be on the door.
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  Speaker 4: Can we talk to you for a second here?
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  Speaker 1: Well, Jennifer, I hope you can make it to love
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  Speaker 1: Pop Family Fest this Saturday too.
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  Speaker 3: I'm coming. We're trying. I'm gonna bring my daughter so great.
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  Speaker 2: Well, thanks for listening, Jennifer, Thanks for calling in.
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  Speaker 3: All right, we'll see you this weekend.
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  Speaker 2: Got it? Yeah?
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  Speaker 1: So Family Fest is Saturday, Bertuccio Farms, four pm. It's
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  Speaker 1: gonna be awesome. Okay, So, Kyle, you have a thing
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  Speaker 1: the difference between a psychopath and a sociopath.
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  Speaker 5: Yes, so the terms are kind of thrown around like confetti.
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  Speaker 5: You always here, there's psychopath, there's a sociopath. But can
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  Speaker 5: you actually know the difference? And knowing the difference means
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  Speaker 5: you may be able to catch or spot the red
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  Speaker 5: flags before you know. One of these types of personalities
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  Speaker 5: crush your coffee date, steals your promotion, or ghosts you
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  Speaker 5: in the front group. They're both kinds of personalities that
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  Speaker 5: make you go yikes. But the differences are actually pretty wild.
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  Speaker 5: So first you go, were they born or made? Apparently,
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  Speaker 5: psychopaths are basically born with the brain that says emotions, no,
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  Speaker 5: not today, don't know, don't even know emotions. Sociopaths life
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  Speaker 5: is kind of like made them that way with trauma
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  Speaker 5: or rough childhood's bad luck, maybe even that one high
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  Speaker 5: school group project.
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  Speaker 2: You know they were made.
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  Speaker 5: So so if you've known this person forever and they
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  Speaker 5: were always that way, possibly psychopath Right, then you go, okay,
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  Speaker 5: what are their actual personality traits? Like, so, psychopaths are
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  Speaker 5: smooth operators, calm, collected, the kind of person who would
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  Speaker 5: just like lie through a job interview, you'd still root
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  Speaker 5: for them. Sociopaths have quick temper, they're very impulsive. Think
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  Speaker 5: like road rage level one hundred sociopath. Okay, So, like
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  Speaker 5: I said before, like sociopaths can sort of read a room.
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  Speaker 5: Psychopaths they look at your feelings and they don't understand,
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  Speaker 5: so like they'll just glaze right over whatever it is
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  Speaker 5: that you're feeling. In relationships specifically, sociopaths can actually love,
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  Speaker 5: like they're kind of like they see those emotions, they
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  Speaker 5: feel those emotions. But again, psychopaths not there.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, so weird listening to because I'm like, oh that's me,
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  Speaker 1: that's me. No, that's not me. Oh that's me.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 4: But if you're in a relationship with the psychopath, they're
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  Speaker 4: kind of like always level neutral, don't react, but the
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  Speaker 4: sociopath will go up and down emotionally kind of like
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  Speaker 4: react strongly.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, And so like when I was reading this article,
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  Speaker 5: I was really trying to think, like, is Dexter a
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  Speaker 5: psychopath was a sociopath because he did kind of try
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  Speaker 5: to have the feelings, But then again, I don't think
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  Speaker 5: he ever had the feelings feelings.
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  Speaker 2: He faked the feelings.
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  Speaker 4: What about Joe, because I feel like Joe really did
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  Speaker 4: love so so he's a sociopath.
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  Speaker 5: And think about Joe's temper. He got so mad and
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  Speaker 5: he killed people.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, he was made that way because remember the book,
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  Speaker 1: Guy locked him in the right.
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  Speaker 2: Yea, Joe is a sociopath. Was kind of born that way?
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  Speaker 2: Or was he?
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  Speaker 5: Because he was born into it.
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  Speaker 2: He was covered in blood, he saw his mom.
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  Speaker 4: He was created too.
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  Speaker 1: But those are all fake people. What about real people,
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  Speaker 1: real people that we know? Like me, I feel like
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  Speaker 1: I fit in one of those categories. I don't know
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  Speaker 1: which one's better.
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  Speaker 2: That's why.
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  Speaker 1: That's why when you say hothead, I go, hotead, Well,
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  Speaker 1: I'm not a sociopath, and then you go no emotions, okay,
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  Speaker 1: psychopath emotions you do like I've been spending a lot
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  Speaker 1: of time with my sister the last couple of days.
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  Speaker 1: In fact, tonight we're going to Sun's game, and I
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  Speaker 1: was going to tell her this tonight. I say, you know,
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  Speaker 1: you and I have spend so much time together last
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  Speaker 1: few days. I said, I feel that if one of
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  Speaker 1: us dies soon, the other one should have peace, like
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  Speaker 1: like we had a good relationship.
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  Speaker 2: We're in a good place. What does she say to that.
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  Speaker 1: I'm going to tell her that, and then I feel
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  Speaker 1: like I would just be like, I feel like we
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  Speaker 1: just really connected last few days.
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  Speaker 2: Everything is great. So if you do die, if you die,
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  Speaker 2: I'm good. If I die, I hope you're good too.
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  Speaker 2: We're in a good place. I think we're in a
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  Speaker 2: bad place. But so is that.
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  Speaker 5: Way of looking at it. You're feeling the feelings right?
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  Speaker 2: Is there more so neither?
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  Speaker 5: Well, they just gave advice. I'm like, if you find
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  Speaker 5: yourself in a romantic relationship and you're like, oh my god,
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  Speaker 5: these things are clicking and I'm definitely dating a sociopath,
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  Speaker 5: they just say, just expect an emotional roller coaster. They're
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  Speaker 5: going up and down. They've got a hot temper, so
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  Speaker 5: watch out. Set your boundaries, be clear about what behavior
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  Speaker 5: is unacceptable. Sociopaths can feel guilt, which sometimes like it helps.
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  Speaker 2: A little bit.
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  Speaker 4: Like I wonder if you could fix either one of them,
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  Speaker 4: if you're dating one of them.
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  Speaker 2: I don't think so.
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  Speaker 5: If you are with a psychopath, they say, focus on facts,
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  Speaker 5: not feelings. If you try to help make them empathize,
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  Speaker 5: it's not.
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  Speaker 2: Going to cut through.
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  Speaker 5: Just facts, facts, facts, facts, be cautious with trust, they
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  Speaker 5: are manipulative and may use terms strategically. And just avoid
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  Speaker 5: getting emotionally entangled.
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  Speaker 2: And if you're already there, get out.