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How To Get What You Desire & KEEP It (This Will Blow Your Mind) · Beyond Limits With Olivia Marie

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  SPEAKER_00: Welcome to the Live Well Podcast.
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  SPEAKER_00: I'm your host, Liv, a naturopathic doctor, mentor, energy healer, akasha breeder, intuitive, energetic business mentor, and honestly, so much more.
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  SPEAKER_00: I help you heal on a physical and emotional level so that you can feel delicious in your health, body, relationships, career, and bank account.
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  SPEAKER_00: And with that, let's get into the show.
• 0:57
  SPEAKER_00: Hello, hello, welcome back to another episode of the Live Well Podcast.
• 1:03
  SPEAKER_00: Again, very excited to be here, as always, because we have another juicy episode for you.
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  SPEAKER_00: Thank you for being here.
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  SPEAKER_00: Thank you for listening.
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  SPEAKER_00: So today we have a short and like juicy one.
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  SPEAKER_00: Well, I'm not sure how short it's gonna be, we're gonna see.
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  SPEAKER_00: But how to really get what you desire and keep it.
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  SPEAKER_00: And like this is like a little, it's like an expanded riff from the portal, which if you are not joined the portal, it is my free community.
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  SPEAKER_00: Um, and I also take questions from there for the podcast.
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  SPEAKER_00: We'll leave a link for that down below.
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  SPEAKER_00: But I learned to talk about because like understanding this concept will blow your mind.
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  SPEAKER_00: How to actually get what you desire and keep it.
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  SPEAKER_00: And we'll see kind of also why you may not be getting what you desire and or why you cannot keep it.
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  SPEAKER_00: So if you feel like things are stagnant, if you feel like you know things are not coming in, you're not able to receive things, whether that's you know, clients in your business, whether that's money, a promotion, love, friendships, health, anything and all everything, self-love, all of it.
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  SPEAKER_00: Why that might not be coming in, and or if it comes in, it's like not consistent.
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  SPEAKER_00: So it's like a roller coaster.
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  SPEAKER_00: It comes in and then leaves and comes in and then leaves, or it constantly feels like a big roller coaster of up and down, and it doesn't really feel like sustained growth for you in whatever area of life this is most relevant for you.
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  SPEAKER_00: Like I said, health, money, relationships, etc.
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  SPEAKER_00: So when we see someone who is magnetic, you know, it is because there has been so much release of energy, emotions, trauma, etc.
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  SPEAKER_00: If you feel like you're stuck, it's probably because your physical body needs healing.
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  SPEAKER_00: There is releasing to be taking place.
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  SPEAKER_00: And the thing is, is that your physical body, the physical plane, is the bridge between the emotional plane, this uh, you know, mental plane, so like your emotions, your thoughts, and what happens in your life.
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  SPEAKER_00: When that's clogged up and you have physical symptoms, maybe you have digestion issues, maybe you're constipated, SIBO, IBS, hair, I don't know, hair loss, weight that like doesn't fall off, whatever it is, it's all stuck energy.
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  SPEAKER_00: So if we think about it like stuck energy and you're trying to get in what you desire, your pipeline is not clear.
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  SPEAKER_00: Right?
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  SPEAKER_00: It's not able to recede because of the gunk that's in the way.
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  SPEAKER_00: Kind of like you have a clogged artery, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: The blood can't get through because it's clogged.
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  SPEAKER_00: So, in order to actually get what you desire, you do actually have to remove the emotions and blockages that are in your body that end up causing physical symptoms, and of course, things with your business, things with wealth, things with relationships, etc.
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  SPEAKER_00: But also note by the time it reaches your physical body as physical symptoms, it's probably been there a while.
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  SPEAKER_00: Like physical symptoms is actually like the last step.
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  SPEAKER_00: So if it's manifesting there, think about it like you have to you have to like crawl before you can walk, before you can run, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: So you have to deal with the you always have to deal with the physical symptoms first for things to change, then on other levels.
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  SPEAKER_00: But so often what I see people do is I I see them try to work on a more emotional level without necessarily clearing the physical symptoms.
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  SPEAKER_00: Yes, from an emotional standpoint, of course, because they're emotional blockages.
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  SPEAKER_00: So just ask yourself where do you want to be in four months' time?
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  SPEAKER_00: Where do you want your business to be?
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  SPEAKER_00: The physical symptoms need to be cleared up first.
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  SPEAKER_00: Like you have to be in good health first.
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  SPEAKER_00: That's why we do glow level one and then glow level two, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: Because we clear the physical symptoms.
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  SPEAKER_00: Now, also knowing that it does not have to take time.
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  SPEAKER_00: Things move very fast.
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  SPEAKER_00: When you heal, like things shift very quickly.
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  SPEAKER_00: So the more things that are released from your body in your field, the more you can move into alignment and the more magnetic you become because of the more safety you have in your body to receive all the things health, wealth, love, bliss, etc.
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  SPEAKER_00: You are able to hold a higher level frequency because you are not carrying around the stories, structures, beliefs, traumas, and emotions that have made you deviated from your full authentic self.
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  SPEAKER_00: The one who has what you desire has a clear channel.
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  SPEAKER_00: So you can't possibly think that that is going to come in if your channel is not clear.
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  SPEAKER_00: Your channel then becomes so clear when you do this healing that your life force energy is just radiating, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: And you come back to your authenticity because underneath that is you.
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  SPEAKER_00: I always say I don't fix you, I bring you back to who you are, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: So it's about getting rid of those layers of beliefs, programmings, symptoms, et cetera, that have left you like this.
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  SPEAKER_00: So that's what it can feel like you're not able to receive what you desire, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: Because your system is clogged up by all the stuff that shouldn't be here.
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  SPEAKER_00: What we need to do is clear that vessel so you can actually receive what you desire.
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  SPEAKER_00: And your nervous system has to feel safe to receive it.
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  SPEAKER_00: So if you listen to my podcast episode on why expansion feels unsafe, this is like getting more primitive with it.
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  SPEAKER_00: If your nervous system, like star underline this, if your nervous system is not safe, you will have trouble receiving.
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  SPEAKER_00: Trouble receiving love, money, health, wealth, expansion, doesn't matter.
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  SPEAKER_00: Safety in your nervous system is first.
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  SPEAKER_00: Otherwise, you either won't be able to receive it, and or it will come in and then leave again.
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  SPEAKER_00: Right?
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  SPEAKER_00: So symptoms that go away but then come back again tells me your nervous system needs work.
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  SPEAKER_00: Money that comes in but seems to always go out, the nervous system needs work.
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  SPEAKER_00: Clients, you know, in your business, you feel like you have a bit of a win and then it tanks, tells me you need nervous system work.
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  unknown: Right?
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  SPEAKER_00: All of it, there's a reason why everything I do is tied to nervous system.
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  SPEAKER_00: Now, the important thing is that building sustainability in your nervous system to be able to hold all this, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: Because we obviously do not just want to be limited by having the health we desire, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: Sure, we want the health.
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  SPEAKER_00: We don't want to struggle with any of our physical symptoms anymore.
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  SPEAKER_00: But we also want more than that, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: We want love, we want wealth, we want expansion, we want money.
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  SPEAKER_00: Let's just be honest.
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  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, of course we want wealth and money.
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  SPEAKER_00: That's good too.
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  SPEAKER_00: But so often, and you know, I struggled with this too back in the beginning, when you actually clear your physical symptoms and afterwards you're no longer struggling with physical symptoms, you're like, oh, like it's gone and it's amazing, but then it's like, oh, what next?
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  SPEAKER_00: Right.
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  SPEAKER_00: And so we don't want to just clear your symptoms to make you feel fine and normal, quote unquote normal or good.
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  SPEAKER_00: We want you to have more than that.
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  SPEAKER_00: We want you to be in like overflow of all the love, money, bliss, and joy in the world, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: Overflow with money, overflow with whatever it is.
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  SPEAKER_00: But your nervous system needs to feel safe.
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  SPEAKER_00: Otherwise, it will not come in or it will come in and then you lose it.
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  SPEAKER_00: So your primary objective before anything and everything should be sustained sustained the sorry that again.
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  SPEAKER_00: Your primary objective should be sustained safety in your nervous system.
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  SPEAKER_00: Top number one.
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  SPEAKER_00: Why?
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  SPEAKER_00: This is where like the subconscious mind comes in.
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  SPEAKER_00: That's why healing can be unsafe, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: Even though it's positive for you, it'll try to bring you back to its normal because its normal of safety is like being dysregulated and being miserable and having health symptoms and struggling with money, etc.
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  SPEAKER_00: The only way to build sustainable, stable safety is to do the work on your nervous system.
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  SPEAKER_00: This is how to actually get what you desire and keep it.
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  SPEAKER_00: We're gonna give an example.
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  SPEAKER_00: It's gonna be magical.
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  SPEAKER_00: So let's use the lottery example.
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  SPEAKER_00: Now we've all heard of the lottery example of you know, people who win the lottery, you know, they win it and then they lose it all.
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  SPEAKER_00: Or even like celebrities, like, you know, quick rise to frame, flame, quick rise to fame, and then they lose it all.
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  SPEAKER_00: Why?
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  SPEAKER_00: Because their nervous system isn't actually calibrated to feel safe enough to hold it.
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  SPEAKER_00: So let's say we're gonna use the lottery example, you're struggling with money, and you're putting your focus on like bringing more money and bringing more money, and maybe you want to win the lottery, you could do all that, and maybe a bit of money comes in.
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  SPEAKER_00: But if your nervous system isn't actually safe, then you haven't actually built the sustainable foundation to hold more.
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  SPEAKER_00: Right?
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  SPEAKER_00: You want to manifest more love in perfect, focus on manifesting love, perfect partner, great relationships, beautiful.
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  SPEAKER_00: But if you haven't done the nervous system work to either heal your attachment style or your trauma or your inner trial, even if you do happen to receive it, like the lottery example, what's it gonna do?
• 11:45
  SPEAKER_00: Go out again because your nervous system is not safe in your business, and I see this, you know, all the time.
• 11:53
  SPEAKER_00: A client or two might come in, you might get, you know, a few blips of sales, but your nervous system isn't regulated, it's not built for safety.
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  SPEAKER_00: What does it do?
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  SPEAKER_00: Then it feels like it's a struggle again, and it's this roller coaster ride.
• 12:06
  SPEAKER_00: Look at all the different areas of your life of where things are a roller coaster, either up and down, or you can just can't seem to receive it all.
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  SPEAKER_00: Those are where the focus on doing the nervous system work.
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  SPEAKER_00: I hope this blew your mind because understanding this, building safe stability in your nervous system should be your primary focus in all areas of life.
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  SPEAKER_00: Love, money, health, wealth, expansion, relationships, business, career does not matter.
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  SPEAKER_00: Nervous system first, everything else after.
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  SPEAKER_00: Because, like I said, you could receive it, but then you'll lose it because your nervous system can't actually hold it, which is not what we want, right?
• 12:40
  SPEAKER_00: Obviously, you don't want to bring in the perfect relationship, and then your nervous system is dysregulated because your attachment style is anxious from dad not being around, and then you end up being clingy and needy to the man or partner who's actually the perfect person for you, but you're so clingy that it's just too much for them, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: Not that you'll ever be too much for the right person, but it can just make that relationship more tension, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: It's just not gonna feel as delicious as it could.
• 13:02
  SPEAKER_00: Wouldn't you want to feel more secure and not question it, right?
• 13:08
  SPEAKER_00: Nervous system first.
• 13:10
  SPEAKER_00: That is actually, and also, I'll add on to this doing the nervous system work to bring safety in all these areas is how you quantum leap.
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  SPEAKER_00: Because your nervous system needs to feel safe first before you quantum leap.
• 13:22
  SPEAKER_00: If your nervous system, I like to always use pool examples, if your nervous system is scared to put their toe in the water, you think it's going to go ahead and jump into the deep end?
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  SPEAKER_00: No, it's not gonna feel safe.
• 13:35
  SPEAKER_00: Right?
• 13:35
  SPEAKER_00: And so you need to like start putting your toe and get comfortable with the water so that you can then start cannonballing into the water and quantum leap because of the safety in your nervous system.
• 13:44
  SPEAKER_00: But if your primal response, if your survival mechanism is operating in whatever area of your life, how's it gonna feel safe?
• 13:53
  SPEAKER_00: It's just not nervous system regulation is the key to everything you want and more.
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  SPEAKER_00: Simple as that.
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  SPEAKER_00: In every area of your life.
• 14:01
  SPEAKER_00: This is why we have all the different programs.
• 14:02
  SPEAKER_00: So say this episode, listen to it twice, have it blow your mind more than once, start to see the ripples and the out bring awareness to all the different areas of your life and where your nervous system is dysregulated, where you need support with that.
• 14:17
  SPEAKER_00: Of course, if you want to work with me for wealth expansion, obviously we have wealth recode for healing or attachment style.
• 14:24
  SPEAKER_00: I've obviously we have attached, we have one-on-one for money and business.
• 14:28
  SPEAKER_00: We also have the Alliance League Mastermind.
• 14:30
  SPEAKER_00: We have a bunch of different containers depending on what area of your life you're looking to work on, to bring safety in.
• 14:35
  SPEAKER_00: And of course, you can always join multiple if you're looking to expand in multiple areas.
• 14:40
  SPEAKER_00: But in order to actually get what you desire and keep it, your nervous system has to have safety and regulation in it.
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  SPEAKER_00: Simple as that.
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  SPEAKER_00: Your primary focus in all areas of life should be nervous system first.
• 14:54
  SPEAKER_00: Otherwise, it doesn't matter if you're eating clean, it doesn't matter if you're working out, it doesn't matter if you have the perfect strategy for your business, it doesn't matter how many affirmations you do, it doesn't matter how many visualizations you do or how much you get into the vibe by walking around Louis Vuitton, if it doesn't feel safe, it doesn't feel safe.
• 15:11
  SPEAKER_00: Also, you'll know if your nervous system doesn't feel safe if you can like you feel nervous walking into those doors.
• 15:16
  SPEAKER_00: I don't know if you feel like, oh, I shouldn't be here.
• 15:18
  SPEAKER_00: Who am I to?
• 15:19
  SPEAKER_00: You know?
• 15:19
  SPEAKER_00: All these little stories, you can kind of see where your nervous system doesn't feel safe.
• 15:23
  SPEAKER_00: So that being said, take this in, digest it.
• 15:29
  SPEAKER_00: This is a game changer, a game changer for everyone.
• 15:32
  SPEAKER_00: So I love you guys so much, and I will see you in the next episode.