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Johnjay & Rich Present: EMERGENCY SECOND DATE UPDATE (On a FRIDAY) · Johnjay & Rich On Demand

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  Speaker 1: It's type of second date. Update. You got a date
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  Speaker 1: because you met somebody.
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  Speaker 2: Either on an app or you know, old school, the
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  Speaker 2: grocery store. Friends set you up. You've got a date,
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  Speaker 2: you have a great time. Well do you expect her
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  Speaker 2: to be a second date? It doesn't happen. So you
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  Speaker 2: come to us, you tell us, we walk you through.
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  Speaker 2: You walk us through everything that happened, and then we're
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  Speaker 2: gonna call the purson went out with to find out
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  Speaker 2: why they're blowing you off. Jose, what's up, man?
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  Speaker 1: Hi? I met this.
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  Speaker 3: Girl, Lindsey through some mutual friends. It was actually through volleyball.
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  Speaker 3: We went on three really good dates. Things seemed to
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  Speaker 3: be going well. There's good communication and consistency from both ends.
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  Speaker 3: At one point she did say, you know, she needed
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  Speaker 3: to take some time to finish up school. She had
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  Speaker 3: a couple of weeks left in her program. I asked
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  Speaker 3: her if she needed to stop seeing one another at
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  Speaker 3: the moment or just slow down our pace.
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  Speaker 1: She said she.
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  Speaker 3: Wanted to take some time to think about it. We
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  Speaker 3: agreed to reconnect in a week, and then I reached
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  Speaker 3: out on the day and you know, I didn't hear
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  Speaker 3: from her. So it's been a little over two weeks now,
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  Speaker 3: haven't heard from her. I have reached out a couple
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  Speaker 3: of times, but still nothing.
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  Speaker 4: Wow, and you went on three dates.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, they they were really good dates, she said. She
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  Speaker 3: appreciated the effort in them, and she had really fun.
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  Speaker 3: She had a lot of good time. So it kind
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  Speaker 3: of leaves me just puzzled.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, so I.
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  Speaker 2: Have your text here, so you did text in so
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  Speaker 2: I'm reading the tech word for it, and so I'm
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  Speaker 2: not sure if you said this and that or not
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  Speaker 2: in the text. But she says to you she's feeling overwhelmed.
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  Speaker 2: At one point it needed to take some time to
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  Speaker 2: focus on finishing school. I asked her if she wanted
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  Speaker 2: to stop seeing each other or just slow our pace.
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  Speaker 2: To me, you've been on three dates and you're talking
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  Speaker 2: about stop seeing each other ready. It makes you makes
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  Speaker 2: probably made her feel that maybe, whoa, this isn't exclusive.
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  Speaker 1: I've seen each other just yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, So
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  Speaker 1: that's interesting.
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  Speaker 3: But you want us to call her, Well, I reached
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  Speaker 3: out a couple of days ago, so I thought you
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  Speaker 3: the second updates were like on a on a Tuesday
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  Speaker 3: type deal. Yeah, So I guess I just needed some
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  Speaker 3: some outside perspective too, because I said the uh, you know,
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  Speaker 3: she just wanted step seeing each other for her to
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  Speaker 3: focus on school, which I was completely okay with that.
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  Speaker 3: Didn't want to that pressure. I feel like if that
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  Speaker 3: was that's what she wanted, she would have taken be out.
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  Speaker 4: But I feel like she was trying to be nice
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  Speaker 4: and you were supposed to take the hint.
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  Speaker 1: Did you guys get intimate at all in three dates?
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  Speaker 1: Not really?
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  Speaker 3: Some stuff happened, but no, not then.
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  Speaker 1: Did go all the way?
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  Speaker 4: Do you know what you said? That sounds like the
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  Speaker 4: I think I'm kind of over this right now. Is
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  Speaker 4: when she said she appreciated the effort. That's not like
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  Speaker 4: I've had a really good time with you and let
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  Speaker 4: me just get through this and let's get back together.
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  Speaker 4: I appreciate the effort. It's kind of her saying, you're
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  Speaker 4: trying to date me, But I don't think.
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  Speaker 2: It's like that time you said, Joey bradfish up on
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  Speaker 2: the day with that girl and she said something.
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  Speaker 4: To your care, take care effort. Yeah, I appreciate the effort.
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  Speaker 4: It is like to take care text. Yeah. It seems
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  Speaker 4: like like if she was really into the day, you'd
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  Speaker 4: be like oh my gosh, that was so fun. Like
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  Speaker 4: I appreciate the effort.
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  Speaker 5: Is more like, Hey, I feel really bad that you're
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  Speaker 5: putting all this effort in and I'm not into it.
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  Speaker 1: Let's call her. It doesn't matter if it's Tuesday, we
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  Speaker 1: can do it now.
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  Speaker 3: Well, and maybe I missed I didn't say it communicate
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  Speaker 3: that correctly.
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  Speaker 1: She like.
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  Speaker 3: Over the course of the three days, you know, she
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  Speaker 3: said she was having a good time and she really
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  Speaker 3: liked the effort I was putting into the date.
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  Speaker 1: So let's call her. Doesn't matter, We'll do an emergency
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  Speaker 1: second update.
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  Speaker 3: First okay, sure?
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  Speaker 1: Well never why not? What? Okay?
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  Speaker 3: So let me let me add this important detail. This
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  Speaker 3: is an important detail that I said that before you
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  Speaker 3: guys call her. After the third date is when some
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  Speaker 3: of the intimacy that happened. She had received some unfortunate
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  Speaker 3: news about a friend of hers around this time. It
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  Speaker 3: was Easter. I thought, you know, maybe she just needed
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  Speaker 3: some uh, you know, small gift, a small gesture to
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  Speaker 3: bring her day. I did drop off a plant with
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  Speaker 3: like an easter balloon in it, and I texted her
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  Speaker 3: after I dropped it off, So I thought that would
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  Speaker 3: be easier, she said, she appreciated it. After that, you know,
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  Speaker 3: is when the whole conversation of her wanting to take
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  Speaker 3: some time to focus.
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  Speaker 2: On unfortunate thing that happen to friend. Did somebody die? Yes,
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  Speaker 2: and then you bring her like an easter balloon, like
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  Speaker 2: he has risen like maybe she's like, she's like, well,
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  Speaker 2: she thinks thinks you could bring my kid, my friend
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  Speaker 2: back to life.
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  Speaker 4: That was a nice just maybe the physical connection wasn't
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  Speaker 4: as good for her as it was for you.
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  Speaker 2: I'm gonna put you on hold for one second so
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  Speaker 2: we can get her number. We're gonna find out why
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  Speaker 2: she's blowing you off.
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  Speaker 1: Okay.
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  Speaker 2: Second Ate update continues next with John Jay and Rich.
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  Speaker 2: It's John Jayane Rich. We are in the middle of
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  Speaker 2: second Ate Update. We're gonna get her on the phone
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  Speaker 2: right now, find out what she's blowing you off.
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  Speaker 1: So you hang tight. Let us talk to her a
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  Speaker 1: little bit and we'll find out what happened.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, I can tell Actually nine h m m.
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  Speaker 1: M hm.
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  Speaker 5: Your car has been forward. It's a voicemail. The person
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  Speaker 5: you're trying to reach is not available at the tone.
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  Speaker 5: Please record your message said your basket. You may hang up.
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  Speaker 1: Try again. Lettas tell you what. I don't know. What
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  Speaker 1: you're doing works? It works.
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  Speaker 5: Come on Monday, your car has been forward. It's a
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  Speaker 5: voice and you're trying to target.
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  Speaker 4: What that's going to make all this in the world.
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  Speaker 1: Just watch.
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  Speaker 5: Your call has been for a voice names.
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  Speaker 1: What does she do for a living? She was therapy program? Okay,
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  Speaker 1: what do you do for a living? Yeah? I do?
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  Speaker 3: Uh, technical recruiting. You do what technical recruiting?
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  Speaker 1: I think should touch and go? Growing?
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  Speaker 4: Is going to grow or not? That's why?
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  Speaker 1: How do you tell if it's going to go or not?
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  Speaker 1: How did you meet her?
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  Speaker 3: I play volleyball every Tuesday. She brought a friend and
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  Speaker 3: she Yeah, she came one week, we started talking. I
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  Speaker 3: waited until the next time I are to get her number.
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  Speaker 3: And it turns out that maybe we had reconnected a
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  Speaker 3: couple of years earlier, because she had already had my
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  Speaker 3: number saved.
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  Speaker 4: What do we turns out we connected a few years earlier.
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  Speaker 4: Maybe that's what she's like, This dude doesn't remember me?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, No, like a like a college dating app. I
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  Speaker 3: think because we both went to n A U. So
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  Speaker 3: when I gave her my number, she had already she
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  Speaker 3: had in her contacts already.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, So where do you play? Volleyball? North Scott sal
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  Speaker 1: those parks up there, Gilbert Gilbert de side All right, all.
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  Speaker 4: Right, let's call you sound like a really good dude.
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  Speaker 4: Let's hope this works out for you or something works
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  Speaker 4: out for you.
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  Speaker 2: Have you have you seen her at the volleyball court
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  Speaker 2: since you stopped connecting with her? I've seen her once.
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  Speaker 3: Oh no, not not since we stopped connecting.
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  Speaker 1: Did you give her a plant? Then hung up on
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  Speaker 1: the port t give her a plant? There we go?
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  Speaker 4: Mm hm, that's him.
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  Speaker 5: Lindsay, your call has been hell.
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  Speaker 1: Did she just pick up in the middle of that, Lindsey?
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  Speaker 1: I think, Hi, this is John Jay and Rich radio show.
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  Speaker 2: Can we talk to you for a second, Lindsay, what
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  Speaker 2: did you do?
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  Speaker 1: She was like in class?
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  Speaker 4: She was in class or something. Should I text her?
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  Speaker 4: I'm going to text her, Yeah, text her really quick,
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  Speaker 4: going to say.
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  Speaker 3: What She might know what it is, because when I
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  Speaker 3: did share with her, I listened see you guys on
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  Speaker 3: online sometimes.
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  Speaker 1: Well that's good, so she knows we're trying to do
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  Speaker 1: second ate up there she hung up? What did you do?
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  Speaker 1: That's my feelings.
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  Speaker 4: But you seem like you sound like a sweetheart.
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  Speaker 1: It did sound like she was. She was in the
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  Speaker 1: middle of something.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, she was like a professor or something, sleeping with her,
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  Speaker 4: sleeping with somebodey.
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  Speaker 1: Sound like she didn't want to wake up the guy
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  Speaker 1: next to her. Sound like the other volleyball player.
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  Speaker 4: Okay, I just texted her.
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  Speaker 1: You got her, You got her to pa.
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  Speaker 4: I said, Hey, Lindsey, this is hating from John Jay
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  Speaker 4: and Rich. Sorry for blowing you up.
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  Speaker 2: Lol.
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  Speaker 4: We wanted to talk to you on the show.
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  Speaker 2: If you have free time, let us Okay, good, good,
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  Speaker 2: all right, jose So we'll follow but you okay, we
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  Speaker 2: got your number, all right.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, we've had good communications. I feel like if she
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  Speaker 3: would have had an issue, you know, she could have
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  Speaker 3: just said, do you think you.
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  Speaker 4: Would have taken the hint though she's still like, I
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  Speaker 4: don't think it's working out. Would you have been okay
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  Speaker 4: with that?
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  Speaker 3: I think so, And she would have hinted a little
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  Speaker 3: bit towards it, But she just kind of disappeared.
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  Speaker 2: We'll call her every day until she picks up and
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  Speaker 2: answers us does she respin?
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  Speaker 1: And she did pick up.
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  Speaker 4: No, she doesn't hit you back yet, all you know,
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  Speaker 4: and she does all right.
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  Speaker 1: Jose We got your number and we will call you
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  Speaker 1: if we get her on the phone. Okay, doc, okay,
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  Speaker 1: HEK you you got it. Thanks. That's secondly update John
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  Speaker 1: Jay and Rich