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- 0:05Guess how the amazing Universe always works.
- 0:09We are going to change up our intro and at first, I wasn't
- 0:14sure. And then I was like, you know
- 0:16what, wait a minute, let me go revisit that.
- 0:18I am expanding Consciousness intro and just hearing the first
- 0:22couple minutes of a. Okay, yes, it is time for an
- 0:24update especially with all the new episodes that you'll be
- 0:28hearing. And the integration of
- 0:31trauma-informed and somatic informed, as well as the somatic
- 0:35experiencing informed upcoming mine site.
- 0:38So, all of the lovely addition to our human elements, the
- 0:42intro, this one's going to be kind of short, and I'll revisit
- 0:45them. Probably, according to when time
- 0:48will ask me for a new one again, in the meantime, anybody who's
- 0:51new welcome, you can find in really the description of all of
- 0:56the podcasts since their standard.
- 1:00The nation of what we're all about.
- 1:04And so, I'm just going to break it down, where enlightened Soul
- 1:08age group. And so people who are in their
- 1:105D self empowered and letting State of Consciousness, and what
- 1:14this means and human terms is people who are functional
- 1:18adults. They are differentiated selves
- 1:22differentiate itself. You can find that in family of
- 1:25origin, therapy stuff, and we also Have mindfulness brain and
- 1:31mind frame. So we are able to use our lovely
- 1:34brain and the neuroplastic way and just using words to describe
- 1:37Concepts that my regular listeners know about, but that
- 1:39anybody who wants it's in, you know, you would want to know
- 1:43about, otherwise you can't follow the conversations also
- 1:46and like mental age, when people are in their ventral vagal
- 1:49system. So we are always safe and social
- 1:53with Humanity. In fact, we love humanity and
- 1:55Life to death, the death of us. In fact, we're all still
- 1:58breathing for now, right? And I wake up tomorrow.
- 2:00I'm still breathing and we don't suffer.
- 2:03We actually experience emotional pain in its natural form,
- 2:08allowing it to flow and do its thing and we don't sit and
- 2:11create stories. There's a way that I can explain
- 2:14this. By the way, it's always
- 2:16Neuroscience, psychology education and we only have love
- 2:19Cycles, but I do look at those who might have shame Cycles
- 2:23because I know that everyone is always going to be looking to
- 2:27expand. So there are people who will
- 2:29choose move out a 3D 4D and or other Soul age groups and so
- 2:33they will begin to be able and see wait a minute, my body heart
- 2:37and mind. They speak something.
- 2:39And I actually want to listen to it, I want to be the grown-up
- 2:43version of myself. So taking those emotions and
- 2:46sting, you know, I'm going to pay attention to what I think
- 2:48and feel and I will be able to move forward with respecting
- 2:54others by being able to be Economist because see, when you
- 2:57are a functional do. That means you're forgiving and
- 2:59nuanced because you're Using again, your mindfulness brain
- 3:01and I forgot you're in a state of physiological compassion.
- 3:06You're actually able to sit in your psychological floor.
- 3:09It's called a neocortex. It has six neurons to for the
- 3:12hearing now, to for the implicit memory stuff that every human
- 3:16being body holes, and it goes all the way back to fishies.
- 3:19Thank you Dan Siegel, for that explanation.
- 3:22They meet in the middle where there's other two neurons, which
- 3:24creates our subjective reality. So everybody's emotions or based
- 3:28for our own self survive, Evil, but it comes in begin since we
- 3:32were little. So again, when you are in the
- 3:34enlightenment still age group, you're actually aware when the
- 3:37implicit memory stuff is coming off and you're able to sit in
- 3:40this zero place. And understand, I'll wait, these
- 3:42are my motions in to talk about them and in every one of our
- 3:46episodes, we look at different things to inflame.
- 3:48So mates, over Soul because I have a person who's also in that
- 3:53community of the mystics. Mystical is a terrorism
- 3:56metaphysics. So besides the human elements
- 3:58and oh spirituality. Sadhguru lovely, yogic Sciences.
- 4:02He's the one who I learned from. They took his inner engineering
- 4:05course and I also did some Bobby Korean.
- 4:08I'm doing another thing with him.
- 4:10So I listened to him when it comes to spirituality.
- 4:13He's my room of choice and the other subject matter experts,
- 4:18I'd aim as I as it goes, but long story short, we're in a
- 4:22physiological state of compassion.
- 4:24So we know how to be able and sit with a orange and apple.
- 4:29And actually, Enjoy our conversation.
- 4:31You get to learn about this and more from both the perspective
- 4:36of again, Mystic as well as a person.
- 4:38It's the infinite higher human consciousness expression.
- 4:41Potential etc, etc. That's why in our growth is All
- 4:44Me, What comes forth and we don't have regret.
- 4:48We don't have any of that, we don't suffer again, we don't sit
- 4:51in our Temple Junction. So explain all these things and
- 4:54more through our topics. There's also subscription-based
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- 5:00practice because there are some episodes that are for practice
- 5:04and then there's also the light workers life that's where I
- 5:06share my personal, Claire stories, and relate it to you
- 5:11from an indictment. So age group perspective we do
- 5:14have, I'm Consciousness expanding Consciousness but I
- 5:18evaluate month to month, we have at least one episode, you can
- 5:21sign up. It's a five or six dollars in
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- 5:31be but meantime thank you for tuning in to the intro and I
- 5:35hope you stay for the episode and if not thank you for
- 5:38stopping by and I share with you my unconditional love and wish
- 5:42you the best to my lovely usual listeners and time but it is
- 5:55new. Today, we have some table talk.
- 6:01While I sip my coffee, and I don't remember what we specified
- 6:07in today's episodes, but I'm sure it has everything to do
- 6:10with the lovely things and energies about for our table
- 6:14talk. We're going to talking about
- 6:17Enlightenment. And in this case, How can I
- 6:24break this one down? So as you move forward, the
- 6:30knowing that I want to share at least once throughout every
- 6:35episode in case there's any new listeners is that the
- 6:38enlightenment Soul age group is obtainable quite easily and
- 6:42straightforwardly and it does not only involve one of the
- 6:48subject matters. It's not only about
- 6:50spirituality, not only about Being a functional adult.
- 6:54So when it comes to our psychological floor, the self
- 6:58and it's not only about the spiritual stuff, metaphysics, is
- 7:02a terrorism, it's actually what a person has all of these and
- 7:07more because you know that perspective it's not just a
- 7:11perspective, it's an actual way that you feel about life.
- 7:14So 5D body type, I'm using this word from having gathered at 3D
- 7:194D body type and this is throughout the years of my own
- 7:22Ascension. And just everything that I'm
- 7:24learning, especially from the psycho Educators, by the way,
- 7:27because they are the ones who make it clear.
- 7:29So the 5D body type. And the individual who is in
- 7:35there, and let my soul agent in this 2023, they are person who
- 7:40is in a complete state of compassion and they've only
- 7:43known a love cycle. We do no, shame has the word and
- 7:47the feeling we all feelings. Actually, that's the point.
- 7:50And the difference though is that we explore all feelings
- 7:53from a love cycle, we don't do the same cycle and I know that
- 7:57the psycho Educators, like, every time I'm taking a class
- 8:00because I have many classes, but the ones that are my usual
- 8:03weeklies I get to interact with a bunch of consistently.
- 8:08Excuse me, the panels to panels of experts, they talk about the
- 8:11topics that we dive into and they keep on reiterating similar
- 8:16Notions, according to all their studies and research.
- 8:19And, you know, one of them is that shame is Emotion.
- 8:23Which instead from those who are trauma, experts, they say shame
- 8:27is not an actual emotions that we feel and it's a posture,
- 8:30remember system, but it is something that is a part of our
- 8:33evolutionary species because that's actually cowering down
- 8:39and it's in the middle. It's in fact held between the
- 8:41heart and the gut space which is you know funny enough or not
- 8:46funny enough but it's that heart chakra and the solar plexus.
- 8:49So you're the way to love and your actual confidence and Some
- 8:53people, they say in a herd mentality.
- 8:55So this shame thing leads their life, which is where we got a
- 8:58bunch of other sole troops and masculine 's basically.
- 9:01And I use this word because, you know, when you're a whole person
- 9:06which is when you're in 5D and whole person doesn't mean about
- 9:10pieces of your obviously, hopefully, but that's not what
- 9:12makes us a whole person. It's how we're able to address
- 9:16life, a whole person when you're an adult is basically being able
- 9:20to have more than just Just Mastery.
- 9:23So some people, they don't believe you can be at ease with
- 9:27your emotions as the point is because their body is not in
- 9:31this state, and that's where again, the cycle Educators, they
- 9:35keep using the word there has to be shame because they're under
- 9:38the illusion that the shame cycle is the only thing that has
- 9:41kept the hierarchy because of course, they get to work with
- 9:44people who need them. The people who are in and
- 9:48indictments will age group or 5D body type, the people who live a
- 9:51day to day with compassion. We don't make a big deal out of
- 9:55things and we don't turn to revenge or spite or Envy or tell
- 9:59me don't have these experiences and what I mean by that is when
- 10:03they take place when they're hinted at.
- 10:07So like revenge or Spike they've been hinted at with me.
- 10:10Any one of us, we've all grown up.
- 10:12We were all children. So I mean there's plenty of
- 10:14time. Now you're doing this out of
- 10:15spite know what I'm not doing this out of spite and the person
- 10:19in the indictments will age. You will have thought about
- 10:21those words because we actually hear the loved ones that speak
- 10:24to us to this day. We hear them.
- 10:26Meaning we care about what they're saying.
- 10:28So we care about their thoughts and feelings.
- 10:30Here's where remember the enlightenment.
- 10:32So each person is a differentiate itself, is an
- 10:35individual who is independent, with their thoughts and feelings
- 10:38from their family of origin, so we don't cancel ourselves and we
- 10:43don't sit in shame. This is where I would say When I
- 10:47think of how this is possible. I know that the mystical people
- 10:50like to create stories, because between dreams and then the
- 10:54conspiracy theories. There's the atlanteans, the
- 10:57Vikings, aliens, you know, and believe me, when I say I've had
- 11:02amazing. So the lightworkers life is
- 11:04where I will share some stuff for you guys but it's a
- 11:07subscription-based model content and will only be at a certain
- 11:10point. When I see that we have you
- 11:12know, a nice community and stuff like that or maybe when I have
- 11:16the The moment because right now my priority is sharing with
- 11:18people who want to be in their Enlightenment still age group or
- 11:23who want to access their infinite higher human
- 11:26consciousness. So to be able to live, this
- 11:28isn't this life, it is about you and your free will of choosing
- 11:32how to explore your emotions, is very practical for the 5D body
- 11:37type. The 3D 4D.
- 11:39Not so much for the people who lead with the herd, not so much.
- 11:44In fact, here's where I'm trying to had today with with the part
- 11:47about life is not a race. And all of the episodes, when I
- 11:52share, what I share, it's to give you again a perspective and
- 11:55a modality to work through things.
- 11:58And again, the perspective is, of course mine.
- 12:01It's not a truth. It's a perspective from one
- 12:04person to another, it can guide and support, but the person who
- 12:09must quote, unquote is not, even must for me, the person who
- 12:12decides how to live your life is you not me?
- 12:15I'm supporting the people that love to tune in and I'm
- 12:18supporting anyone in my life. Life to be their own self.
- 12:22This is the foundation of everything I'd pee is you being
- 12:25yourself, following your heart. So I will do my best to always
- 12:30make this clear, because this is where we all are here together.
- 12:35The reality is for an indictment still age.
- 12:37Group person. Nobody's the actual leader of
- 12:39anything and in fact, when we learn about this word, so see
- 12:42for me, if I have to use the word disappointment, I'll use
- 12:45it. But, you know, this is where I
- 12:47always remember. It's unfair to Even bother with
- 12:50this concept because leadership would require High intellect
- 12:55which requires High compassion, which I actually don't see
- 12:58enough. I can see a said Guru and he's
- 13:01one out of all the others and then I can see some other people
- 13:05there in subject matters, though they're doing specific things,
- 13:08they have objectives. And so you know, if I have to
- 13:13look at the world this is one of the reasons why I know for a
- 13:16fact that for me, that evil doesn't exist Besides the fact
- 13:20that I know everything there is and I'm still learning more on
- 13:23the human body and really, people are just in shame,
- 13:26especially the ones who get labeled evil and I will be using
- 13:30an example in a minute of what I'm talking about.
- 13:33And this is where the only people who instead keep on
- 13:36thinking that evil triumphs and evil.
- 13:38This and he are the same people who live based on the shame,
- 13:41based on the heard based on being told by whoever it is,
- 13:45that is already there clan leader because they got a
- 13:48leader, he better bad weather. Bunch of text, or if they a
- 13:51person, they got someone telling them what to be.
- 13:53Who want to be? And they're like yes sir, yes,
- 13:55ma'am. Well I'll never forget when I
- 13:58was introduced to these Concepts, my twin sister and I
- 14:00both and thankfully we have a Neapolitan mother and my lovely
- 14:05Neapolitan. Mother told her lovely family
- 14:09household. Yeah, don't don't bring this in
- 14:11the house. Thank you.
- 14:13You can do that at your workplace.
- 14:15We don't do the we're not little soldiers in our homes.
- 14:19We were free. Free to be ourselves and our
- 14:21homes. So just like, I can't even begin
- 14:27to express how much a person who's in Enlightenment will not
- 14:32in any way, shape, or form bow down to something like that.
- 14:35I remember contemplating joining the military because I am a
- 14:38military brat and I was like, you know what, I even have some
- 14:41person yelling my fucking face. There ain't no shitty way, just
- 14:45so that I can get somebody to go to college.
- 14:47And then, you know, and then I was like, I think the fact that
- 14:49I might No, I don't want to really go to where I want to
- 14:51kill people. I want to do any of that.
- 14:53So you know and then the whole part about how to be respectful,
- 15:00here's where people talk about Freedom, the fact is there's no
- 15:04Freedom. When you go to school with a
- 15:06bunch of people and this is college.
- 15:09I'm not talking about my high school, I had fun in my high
- 15:12school. Luckily they were all cool kids
- 15:14and we because they travel they were all so open-minded and
- 15:18cultured and differences. Has and stuff like that.
- 15:20So but I was talking about University, oh my gosh.
- 15:26Is like what I thought? It's Heinz were extreme with
- 15:28their politics and see that the Americans are just as extreme
- 15:32because there was an illusion because of my growing up with
- 15:35military brats. We all love different countries
- 15:39and cultures and people and very much, you know, so the whole
- 15:42part about what to do and Boot Camp or whatnot, that's just you
- 15:46know, style. Like I said, I was just happy.
- 15:49I have a Neapolitan The mothers, I could be free to be myself.
- 15:52And then, you know, that's one of the things I love about the
- 15:56culture in their politics would complain about each other
- 15:59because, but that's every city, every town I've ever went to
- 16:02people from their own place. This is they all have something
- 16:06to say about their own hometowns.
- 16:07Like, what, why would you have something to complain about?
- 16:10You know? I mean, no place is perfect,
- 16:12but, you know, so here's where again.
- 16:16In Lightman still Asia, we don't complain about.
- 16:18We're grateful for For everything.
- 16:20Because we appreciate, why wouldn't we?
- 16:24This is the part. We don't know why we would
- 16:26complain about something. That's a part of our life,
- 16:28there's no reason to it, makes no sense.
- 16:31We automatically are in a place of abundance in our bodies,
- 16:36okay? So here's why I'm trying to
- 16:37create this. This fact is that we have love
- 16:41in our bodies or in that ventral vagal system.
- 16:44We're safe in our body. And so, we don't have a reason
- 16:48to think of lack. We don't feel lack and we don't
- 16:51feel afraid. And when I say, we don't feel
- 16:54afraid, it's not if somebody starts to get angry.
- 16:57Now, if somebody starts to get angry and agitated, my body will
- 17:01begin to protect itself because I'm in front of a person who
- 17:05starting to get. And I'm a small person.
- 17:08So that's where fear begins to take place or actual
- 17:11physiological. Stuff like the panic, attacks,
- 17:14anxiety attacks, but other than that, when it comes to I
- 17:16shouldn't conversation. No, no fear.
- 17:18When it comes to people insulting, there's no fear.
- 17:21There's no, like, oh my God, I'm going to take spite Revenge.
- 17:24So right here, is where the difference for those who have
- 17:27shame Cycles is that when they come into contact with the love
- 17:34cycle person, there can be a feeling of disgust, a feeling of
- 17:40mistrust, a feeling of Envy of feeling of jealousy
- 17:44automatically. I've seen this time again,
- 17:46Again, and again, again and the cycle Educators recently,
- 17:49because right now we're talking about Envy jealousy.
- 17:51They are explaining this very, very well how it handles and how
- 17:56it deals with our evolutionary science.
- 17:57But how would deal is with lack of trust.
- 18:00So if you remember that, trauma behavior is equal to safety
- 18:04behave 3D 4D, body type and all masculine energies who have the
- 18:08feminine outside is why they don't do the spirituality.
- 18:11They may think they are on one because they were a mantle
- 18:13because they talk about Consciousness facts.
- 18:16No, so here's why the indictment so, a trip.
- 18:19So that would be the five days of empowered enlightened person.
- 18:22Choosing them. I cancel a trip because it is a
- 18:25state of compassion. So you are a differentiated self
- 18:28again. It means that you have your own
- 18:30thoughts and feelings. They're not the same as your
- 18:33families or other societies. You've moved away from the word.
- 18:37I think grab my notes is something along the lines of
- 18:41Legacy. So you've moved away from Legacy
- 18:45burdens. And or you're aware of them and
- 18:49or you've transcended them because we actually don't move
- 18:52away, meaning distance that we allow ourselves to see what is
- 18:56ours, where it comes from and we are able to move in a space of
- 19:00equanimity again. And again, again, that's why
- 19:02we're doing always Dharma and not Karma.
- 19:05So it gets easier. I was recently exchanging notes
- 19:08with the persons that I've been trying to do this to transcend
- 19:11and transmute feelings and thoughts.
- 19:14And I said, well, I've been doing it since I was a teenager.
- 19:16Sure, but the past couple years is where I've noticed.
- 19:19There's no charge stick. When you learn about the
- 19:21psychoeducation, the charged State.
- 19:24We all can notice are charged States because we all accumulate
- 19:29drama, we all will have at the very least secure attachment and
- 19:32so that's where you move into your own self differentiate
- 19:37itself. In time by your own choosing 5D
- 19:39body type will have done this naturally which is why we have a
- 19:42group of people that are in their environment.
- 19:43So age right now and the one those who come out of masculine
- 19:48and are their own feminine, they're out of their shame cycle
- 19:51and in a love cycle. So they're able now to feel and
- 19:55think freely because they are aware of their fears blocks and
- 20:01resistances from those parts, and they're aware with
- 20:06compassion of this stuff. They're also aware of potential
- 20:10Legacy burden. So, if there's been things
- 20:12passed down, that's a mother. And father talked about being
- 20:15rich and famous This. And that's all that's important.
- 20:18And the person felt the burden to have to bring that to the
- 20:22Forefront because you know, that's just what it is and
- 20:25they're realizing again. It's not my burden, it's not my
- 20:28opinion. I don't have to live this out.
- 20:30I don't have to achieve richness because my mother and father
- 20:34taught me this or I don't have to be like a little soldier
- 20:37because that was my upbringing was not mine and the indictments
- 20:42will each person will easily be in compassion with both sides.
- 20:46We do. Don't judge our parents, our
- 20:47Legacy, our species. We don't judge in this sense.
- 20:52We are aware, we have preferences, but we don't make a
- 20:56statement in our preferences, in our own - why we're always
- 20:59transmuting. Transcending, a phone intervals
- 21:02mindset is what person who's in that inclined and, like mental
- 21:06age before always be doing and or be appealed, meaning, you'll
- 21:10be attracted to. And so again, I want to
- 21:13differentiate because when I move into the subscription Model
- 21:16content to do the actual integration of exercises because
- 21:21I want to get the courses online but I want to start giving you
- 21:25things that you can do to integrate mind heart and body
- 21:29and I'm thinking of how to ensure that I have the love
- 21:33cycle people but also for the same cycle people because it's
- 21:37very straightforward. When a person in shame cycle, it
- 21:41can be shame blame for Revenge, they won't call it that because
- 21:45shame has this Lot of things associated to it.
- 21:48But as I was saying, I never evolutionary species when we
- 21:52were out with the herd, we learn to follow the herd, we learn to
- 21:57not be in modalities of sadness because that would endanger us.
- 22:02Our body remembers its past as some people are more connected
- 22:08to their Reptilian Brain to their animal instincts, if you
- 22:12will to us as fishies, okay? And this is where the Heard is
- 22:17still the pack leader. And so, the individual will feel
- 22:22and will sync with the herd in mind.
- 22:25And in fact years were one of these psychologists
- 22:28psychiatrists, this was wrong mentions this as we're talking
- 22:32about and being jealousy. He mentions, if they cannot sit
- 22:35and gratitude, because there's shame still doesn't use the word
- 22:39shame, but it's because a person will have the heard in the
- 22:43Forefront. And so that's where shame is at
- 22:45because you coward down to follow your leader because you
- 22:48don't want to be kicked out. Because if you get kicked out,
- 22:51then you're going to starve to death or get eaten by lions and
- 22:54bears. So people don't actually look at
- 22:57each other this way, they just use the word evil because that's
- 23:00where all the aspects of Shame have been allocated.
- 23:04So, when we look at revenge or spite, when we look at
- 23:07manipulation, when we look at gaslighting, the things that
- 23:10people do when they do the cancel, they talk about each
- 23:13other. As toxic, they use all these
- 23:14words, they don't actually Actually no, the in-depth
- 23:18version of the trauma-informed stuff or the somatic inform
- 23:22stuff. Even though I save experts don't
- 23:24believe. Don't hear about the somatic.
- 23:26You'll hear in future upcoming episodes.
- 23:29There's one part where it says, I think on the 27th that I share
- 23:33that one. But yeah, that's where I'm going
- 23:36to save it for my regular store. So at the end of the day, what I
- 23:42was trying to get at is The mask and store their own feminine or
- 23:46not. In this little shame thing, they
- 23:48realize we're in 2023, don't need to be afraid of the herd
- 23:51kicking them out anywhere and that the feeling is actually
- 23:55physiological thing. It's not an action tendency
- 23:57here's why excuse me, the emotion because they're not
- 24:00interchangeable emotion, arises physiologically I did some
- 24:04research as you know by now for emotions and suffering.
- 24:08And so the emotion this shame is actually something that They
- 24:13feel in the pit. That's why there's the numbing
- 24:15agents when they become addicted to alcohol drugs.
- 24:18Sex food, these with these Lifestyles that people talk
- 24:21about, as that's just human nature, the Roman Empire or the
- 24:25Roman times or whatever times. They're just disgusting these
- 24:28judgments that people have. So, you know, it's very
- 24:32different when you're coming at something from a place of
- 24:35compassion and infinite Consciousness were like, wait a
- 24:38minute, but that doesn't add up. But what can a top is what I'm
- 24:41learning over here. Obviously, this is why.
- 24:43It's Respected because people will always add up.
- 24:45So if I got a person who's thinking of the heard they're
- 24:49adding it up from a whole different perspective because in
- 24:51their mind they got the herd in mind.
- 24:53So they still have their shame stuff in mind.
- 24:55They're going to have everything that they were told how they
- 24:58should think and feel about something.
- 25:00And they're not going to be aware of it.
- 25:01That's their implicit memory the right brain and left brain is
- 25:04moving on like nothing's happening in the background.
- 25:08In fact, this is somewhat structured Association because
- 25:13They will get charged if you start to interact from another
- 25:17place, like, with the military stuff but people you can talk to
- 25:20are open-minded the people? You can't, they're not, they're
- 25:23close-minded. And their closed-mindedness
- 25:24though is a charge state of the younger parts that got drilled
- 25:28with authoritarianism. They did not get the freedom to
- 25:31express their own thoughts and emotions.
- 25:33They got basically drilled like little soldiers and in fact,
- 25:37that creates a disconnect from the body and the mind of a
- 25:41person because they can't keep Paying attention.
- 25:44They're their children. They need to.
- 25:46Uphold whatever's being told there's going to be fear if
- 25:49you're being scolded and if you're being told no, I don't
- 25:51care what you're feeling. You're going, you're ignoring
- 25:54you know like know what you're feeling is not true.
- 25:57That a very simple, it can be. I have a tummy ache.
- 26:00No, you don't, you know, you're making it up.
- 26:01I don't care. And it doesn't matter if kids
- 26:03are lying or not. The part is about how they get
- 26:07addressed Gabor. Maté gives the perfect example
- 26:10of him reacting with his trauma to his His three-year-old not
- 26:14wanting to sing at his birthday party.
- 26:16And him saying, then you're not getting any cake and
- 26:19interrupting the Creator process and really the independent
- 26:22individual, the three-year-old, which was making statements.
- 26:26As he was saying, this is who I am.
- 26:28I don't want to sing a song and big adult.
- 26:31The big scary adults because this is what it's going to be
- 26:34now. Threatening me making me feel
- 26:36humiliated if you will or bring forth a type of dot, that's
- 26:40where the words don't matter because it's the pop, the
- 26:42posture of the body. The purse that they'll take on
- 26:46and then they'll, they'll remember that.
- 26:48And so here's where that's part of how we all have narcissism.
- 26:53But when you grow out of it, it's something that makes you
- 26:57have the ability to be happy for others.
- 27:01This is disrupted with many people who have Hannah type of
- 27:06authoritarian parents type of not being able to express
- 27:09creatively in a safe environment.
- 27:12Now, here's where As we learn about trauma and they're
- 27:16spreading the word and somatic experiencing stuff and just a
- 27:20somatic narrative, the body as we are, now learning about how
- 27:25to support our growing up, a way that allows a person to
- 27:30flourish, we're going to be using different methodologies
- 27:35the psychologist. They talk about.
- 27:37It's not where you're not supposed to yell at your kid at
- 27:40all. It's about the right balance and
- 27:42obviously really They're starting to say it's about
- 27:45tending to your own trauma, your own charge state.
- 27:47So the conversations for the actual people who are in the
- 27:51fields, then who care about Humanity because we care.
- 27:56So we're not yelling at each other.
- 27:57We are actually saying we're not perfect, and we're learning a
- 28:01lot of new things about how our species is made.
- 28:03So many people who are in a whole politics, social
- 28:07economical and yelling at each other, they're all adoptive
- 28:09children, and they all have some belief.
- 28:11Some conspiracy theory, and Some power play going on, they none
- 28:15of them trust each other, none of them, trust the institutions,
- 28:18no one trusts anything and just start reading books.
- 28:21I mean my major is Political Science and I have a master's in
- 28:24international relations and diplomacy and I'll never forget
- 28:27all the lovely things that I learned.
- 28:30And yeah, it's quite interesting as you grow up what you get to
- 28:35realize which is there are not really leaders if there were
- 28:38leaders then we'd all be really having very pleasant
- 28:41conversations. So in the 5D book, If there were
- 28:44leaders, we would all have people that are pretty much
- 28:47like, said, Guru and us who say, you know, you can sit down and
- 28:52talk to each other. Stop yelling at each other.
- 28:55Thank you, adults, let's show the example to the children
- 28:58growing up of how to be actual, emotional thoughts.
- 29:01But again, here's where our species is evolving and this is
- 29:04what 5 D is. The IV is adults. 5D is because
- 29:09we now know, we're emotional beings not thinking beings the
- 29:13Anil is because The Reptilian Brain, this lovely little
- 29:16survival part of our brain. It's made it three three parts.
- 29:20There's The Reptilian. There's the.
- 29:22Let me go. Grab my little infographic from
- 29:25an ICBM calm. So just in case we have any new
- 29:30listeners guys, they don't know about it.
- 29:33Maybe I'll find out a quick and simple way to think about the
- 29:37brain, The Reptilian Brain, the brain stem and the cerebellum
- 29:41that's for our Survival and maintenance.
- 29:45And then we have the mammalian brain.
- 29:47This of cortical region, that's for feelings and memory
- 29:51formation. In fact, that's where the
- 29:53hippocampus has. I believe that's also where they
- 29:56make the Le is, and that's where they get saturated with cortisol
- 29:59when we start to get angry, which is why people who get
- 30:01pissy, they start to black out or really their mind gets fuzzy.
- 30:05And I remember as a teenager when I was like, you know, I get
- 30:08all passionate which was really my body still is getting angry.
- 30:13Me and my brain is starting to not work well and I'm not able
- 30:16to get my words out. I want to work on this because
- 30:19otherwise how am I going to be a speaker?
- 30:21Since I had already decided I was going to do politics even
- 30:24though I didn't get into politics at all not even close
- 30:29to my lovely regular losers though that story primate human
- 30:33brain. Cortex is the third.
- 30:36Now, this part of the brain, in fact is roughly triple has
- 30:41roughly tripled in volume of Last three million years of
- 30:45evolution, okay? So the cortex is the larger and
- 30:48more sophisticated than the other two layers.
- 30:51Thus, we link this part of the brain to primate and human
- 30:54evolution and it is for higher mental functions and here's
- 30:58where the need that is met or that we would want to be met is
- 31:03what we feel loved when the need is not met.
- 31:06We feel heartache. This regulates attentions
- 31:10feelings, desires complex region reasoning, I want to talk about
- 31:14the brain too much the prefrontal cortex and the
- 31:18cortex, the neocortex, excuse me.
- 31:21The neocortex is our psychological for and so when it
- 31:24comes to tax man Styles, that's where our self will have a
- 31:29study, if you have secure. So, that means you'll be able to
- 31:32handle your charge States easier, or easily than, if you
- 31:37don't have a self that has been wired in in a way of having a
- 31:42solid foundation, And so here's where anxious avoidance
- 31:46ambivalent disorganized. They have many different words
- 31:49for them. I learned my attachment from my
- 31:52an ICBM course in line would be secure avoidant ambivalent and
- 31:57disorganized. But there's this other person
- 31:59that I saw their Tick-Tock and they called it secure anxious,
- 32:03think it's fearful or avoidant avoidance and fearful and then
- 32:09for fearful they have this organized, which involves
- 32:12anxious avoiding a I'm fearful. So there's different ways.
- 32:14You'll find these words, what you want to understand about the
- 32:18attachment style in and of itself?
- 32:21It's your brains actual wiring. So the right brain, hemisphere
- 32:24is the first part of the brain that develops.
- 32:27And that's thank you. Sue.
- 32:28Martin, my lovely teacher from my trauma-informed, certificate
- 32:32class of somewhat Opia. It's a trauma.
- 32:35Educational certificate. And it was my last class my last
- 32:39class is was with Sue Martin who taught me about the charge
- 32:43States and we all have them and they she was even asked will
- 32:47only borderline? No, she says.
- 32:48No borderline is where there's an actual rupture taken place
- 32:52where it was with people with different personalities.
- 32:55There's a ruptured, so they're actually not even able to
- 32:57handle. They have to have separate and
- 32:59usually, you'll find that people who they are voice has changed.
- 33:03Now, you'll notice though all of our voices can change the fuel,
- 33:07Listen to things you learn. Like, I paid attention their
- 33:10moments where I'm like, how wait a minute when I'm ending an
- 33:13episode or when I'm doing something?
- 33:15My, my voice my pitch goes into another modality.
- 33:18So, I actually evaluate if there was an emotion behind it, you
- 33:24know, just because that's how we get to know our own self, which
- 33:29is you it's trying to get up before to before I forget,
- 33:34there's a beauty and being able to be In that infinite, higher
- 33:38human consciousness potential in addition to that is Miss, that
- 33:42comes with the enlightened Soul age group and waking up every
- 33:45day, in a state of love and compassion.
- 33:48And when you go through any type of situation, you're always in
- 33:52the inner growth mindset. You're always able to move into
- 33:54transcending transmuting, transcending transmuting.
- 33:57So this is where, for me, the past couple of years, there's
- 34:00been no charge State as I was saying, but I've worked up to
- 34:04it, so I'm 42. Right now I'll be posting this.
- 34:08Yes, the 25th. So I'm shortly going to be 43.
- 34:13That's why I'm like trying to make sure I don't you know, not
- 34:16that it matters but oh I have another debate.
- 34:19That's that's a funny one but I'll see that my Italian friends
- 34:23they make jokes every time. The my birthday is around
- 34:28because of this whole year thing.
- 34:30But The people who associate expansion of consciousness, only
- 34:38conceptually there's this guy followed and I was just laughing
- 34:41my ass off. I said, I need to share this
- 34:43with my community because these are the various.
- 34:46So he has this short of area shorts and he says, how to
- 34:52become a genius, you know, and he's talking about how
- 34:55Consciousness is energy. Obviously, which we know, we
- 34:58know that everything in the universe is a sound.
- 35:01And so he goes on to say, Say, there is no human particle.
- 35:07I'm going to keep saying it until I get to drill it into
- 35:09your brains and he's just very he's taken on his identity.
- 35:13Very well, you know, but he has he has value to offer.
- 35:18It's just the way he's going about it, he's like all these
- 35:21words we've created them but they don't mean anything.
- 35:24They don't exist. See, they don't exist.
- 35:26You know, and he's going on and on he says the only things that
- 35:29exist, let me go grab it because I have to share this.
- 35:33The only things that exist. He says our induction
- 35:39capacitance discharge and resistance or something like
- 35:43that. I mean, induction for sure.
- 35:46Yeah, it's capacitance discharge and resistance.
- 35:51He says this defines the entire interview, the entire universe.
- 35:56So to be able to rid the name and explain something.
- 36:01You know, he keeps saying here Your name is nothing, you are
- 36:04nothing, you are not, you know, because a human particle doesn't
- 36:08exist. Only this exists and he's
- 36:11breaking everything down into energy which is really cool.
- 36:14I love that but I was laughing because as he's trying to
- 36:18explain not to use words, it's like okay dude you know we have
- 36:22to the way of using words for a reason but here's where this
- 36:26person will appeal to group of people, it's kind of like the
- 36:30flat earther is there are people that will identify with
- 36:33Formation. Which is where others play.
- 36:35Germs are, which is where the 3D 4D are.
- 36:38They want to be a part of a herd.
- 36:41And so, back to the difference and why I use 5D body type,
- 36:45because there are group that are in this body type and that are
- 36:49here right now in this Enlightenment so age group, and
- 36:53they are in a state of open-heartedness their entire
- 36:56life, even if they have shame Cycles, their heart will be
- 36:58open. And here's where sad.
- 37:02Guru. When your heart is full of joy,
- 37:05it does not occur to you to cause harm to anyone, because
- 37:08you do not feel threatened by anything.
- 37:12Psychologically speaking, our emotions are here for our own
- 37:17self-preservation. Nothing got your body chooses to
- 37:20do, does it to keep you In Harm's Way?
- 37:24That's the point safety. Behaviors.
- 37:26And so when people feel disgust because of joy and love which
- 37:30has happened more often than not to me, I've always known it for
- 37:35what it is, it's called human suffering and now I know it for
- 37:38what it is. It's called this shame thing
- 37:40that the psychological Your stink, we need in order to
- 37:43organize ourselves because it's what the past heard has used.
- 37:48And that's really just because they have this on file, you
- 37:51know, if you will of how the hierarchy of our this is where
- 37:56they're using the past, not the present.
- 37:58So to use the past is fine, but you to apply it and say, well,
- 38:02always will be. So this is where we will always
- 38:06for now different ill. It's that infinite higher human
- 38:10consciousness that Leads the way and we don't have that yet.
- 38:13We're just right now. Beginning to tap into this is 5D
- 38:17space. I've these space is realizing
- 38:20the past exists. We build upon it, but we don't
- 38:23necessarily replicate it. And in fact, we actually don't
- 38:27because we're always in a state of flow and evolution and so our
- 38:30brains, they've tripled in blah, blah, blah.
- 38:32A years, however, I need a set, right?
- 38:35How do you know the sacred, your taters?
- 38:37They don't, they don't actually remember this data point as
- 38:39they're explaining a concept because They're not in the
- 38:43tapping into their own infinite so as they look at their
- 38:47material, they're focused with their material, their focus with
- 38:50their findings. They're explaining the concept,
- 38:52they're not coming at it from the other end of the spectrum.
- 38:54I don't know everything. I just learned a little bit of
- 38:57something that is going to keep on expanding and how I'm going
- 39:00to learn because the body of a human being, the brain of a
- 39:03human being continues to expand. So when you're trying to prove a
- 39:06point, this is where you're not seeking.
- 39:09You're just believing in the point you're making, which is Is
- 39:11where you're not open to infinite possibilities.
- 39:14And nothing is really different. For the person who doesn't have
- 39:19this visibility. It's only for those of us who
- 39:21are here in the indictment so age.
- 39:23We can tell always when somebody's coming at something
- 39:26from the infinite or no. This is my belief.
- 39:29This is what I've come to conclude.
- 39:31And this is why it's proof, and we will sit and listen to their
- 39:35proof because we're interested in it, but we will not take it
- 39:38as a truth because it's not, it's your own truth.
- 39:42That's it, you know, will will will know what those main facts
- 39:45are, and really it's down to energy like this guy points up.
- 39:49So we'll know that nothingness is, what is?
- 39:52And so we don't need the guy and, you know, who's talking
- 39:56like we're aliens. I love him.
- 39:58He's so cute though. But what I'm trying to get at,
- 40:01that's also why we don't need spirituality and we don't get to
- 40:04it until later on like with me which said grew one.
- 40:08It's because of a who I know. Well.
- 40:11Has various aspects of said, groom for me and why, but I love
- 40:16being able to add the spirituality.
- 40:18I'm just going to leave it at that because knowing about Karma
- 40:22Nana bhakti in Korea is essential for me to bring the
- 40:25wholeness of that Enlightenment. So a trip because we're not only
- 40:29in the human elements again or mysticism as a tourism holistic.
- 40:32Not, we're also with we know enough spirituality is part of
- 40:37us. We are it's and it is us and
- 40:40really being a humanist. As being a particle, it's about
- 40:44the experience of being conscious.
- 40:46The essence of life cannot be, you know, it always gets me how
- 40:51people don't realize if you didn't have a mouth to speak and
- 40:54if you didn't have a brain to think it.
- 40:57If you didn't have other people to engage in, you want to talk
- 41:00about being energy when it's hot, what would you do?
- 41:03You would do 20? You do none of this when you
- 41:06become abstract the fact of life which is every day when you
- 41:11become Um in involved in these conspiracy theories.
- 41:14You know, their people that they live their day-to-day very much
- 41:19in this Imaginationland and they really get all, you know, but
- 41:23again those are other soldiers. So, long story short, no 3D 4D
- 41:27and other sole troops when they're able to expand expansion
- 41:33happens for other Soul age groups and 5D in a way of being
- 41:37able to be open-minded to different opinions.
- 41:39This does not mean they disengage from the her, in fact.
- 41:41We'll stay with their hurt. So they unlike us will
- 41:45potentially have and be jealousy.
- 41:48Spite Revenge. All these things come about.
- 41:52And that's why the shame cycle is something that I will keep on
- 41:55a company. And the subscription-based model
- 41:59content for those exercises. And what I have in mind, I will
- 42:04be creating a way to always involve the to, so anyone who
- 42:10has a life cycle, but also somebody who has a shame cycle
- 42:13because this is where, as I was saying, we know of all emotions.
- 42:18Of course, we do. The difference is very easily.
- 42:21We're able to easily be already like, oh wow, I get to learn
- 42:24something new today. And even if there's a charge
- 42:28State, we still will be able to say, okay this is my motion.
- 42:31So we won't use the emotion to preserve anything because we are
- 42:34not needing to be preserved in our emotional state where
- 42:38knowing. Okay this is coming up and we're
- 42:40using our brain to think. So here's why we actually don't
- 42:44ever ever want to harm anyone, not even when pain when people
- 42:48take revenge and they are doing it not because we did anything,
- 42:52we didn't do anything. They rejected us.
- 42:56They Ejected, everything of who we are, you know, because this
- 42:59is where people will basically be very spiteful and many times.
- 43:06Again, different different types of things throughout the years.
- 43:09There will be spite because you're kind and you will know
- 43:12that this isn't evil. You'll understand, because see
- 43:15where somatic empath, so we feel the suffering, we don't feel
- 43:19that their word evil doesn't exist, the word, shame exists.
- 43:23And we don't even feel the shame, because what we're going
- 43:26to be feeling Uh, is the persons charged parts that are
- 43:29protecting them from us, will feel their suffering will feel
- 43:33their temporal Junction. Then, whatever they tell us
- 43:35obviously or whatever you do is going to tell and explain
- 43:38whatever is happening and why it's happening.
- 43:41And so here's where let me use an example because I had an
- 43:47example to give you. So again, this is table, talk
- 43:52were chit-chatting and there's no main point that I'm trying to
- 43:56make stuff. Anything was left hanging reach
- 43:58out. I'll try my best to answer it
- 44:00and remember what we're talking about.
- 44:04The love cycle. People live deep self,
- 44:07empowering people in Enlightenment.
- 44:08So a trip we don't have Revenge at all because we can't
- 44:13physically again will feel that it's something other that's
- 44:17going on. And, you know, there's just like
- 44:22just move away, you know, it's more like, just move away, get
- 44:25away, just don't engage, and people will interpret that as
- 44:29fear, but it's actually not. And then once you so for me,
- 44:33every time I'm learning, Something about shame.
- 44:35There's moments where I just begin crying because of thinking
- 44:38of all these people and their suffering bodies, it's not even
- 44:41funny. You know, when they're
- 44:43describing, how one of the stories was this Grandma who did
- 44:48not have a mother who was able to tend to her?
- 44:51And when her daughter had her grandson, the first meeting this
- 44:56Grandma, felt unbe in jealousy as the grandson was being tended
- 45:01to, by the by the daughter. And she went Her therapist,
- 45:05like, I feel so guilty. I feel such a shame, you know,
- 45:07I'm so embarrassed, even to mention this to you because it's
- 45:10so shameful. And the therapist is like this,
- 45:14you know, she listens. And then she says, do you think
- 45:16perhaps? It's because, you know, you're
- 45:18seeing that and you do as the infant, you didn't have this.
- 45:22And then she says, where do you feel it in your body can.
- 45:24See, this is a somatic part important to know where you feel
- 45:28the shame in your body and it will usually be at the heart of
- 45:30the gut. And so it's this torn disgusted.
- 45:34Feeling of One's Own Self. And this this emptiness just
- 45:38like we I feel in the heart and the gut, you know, and so she
- 45:40gives her this exercise does. How about, you know, first you
- 45:44normalized it she says, you know, remember here, here's
- 45:47where you come from, here's what happened to you as a
- 45:50one-year-old. So it's normal that you feel
- 45:52this way, it's normal that you have Envy or jealousy because
- 45:55you didn't have this, this is where there's jealousy time.
- 45:58Be is lack of trust, its lack of abundance, it means abandonment,
- 46:02it's a child's way. Feeling when they were not
- 46:06tended to, it's an emotional weight.
- 46:08So here's why it's in the body, and it comes up the shame
- 46:11through other emotions and here's where it's something that
- 46:16an adult. When you can start to learn how
- 46:18to be in that middle, ground yourself.
- 46:22And that's where some people, they need the mediators some
- 46:26people. They can do this on their own.
- 46:27So for the 5D and kind person, they can do it on their own
- 46:30because they're open to only unconditional love with
- 46:33Humanity. They want to be compassionate so
- 46:36you don't need to have somebody once you understand the
- 46:39mechanism because it is very straightforward.
- 46:41It's normalizing that you're going to have charged States but
- 46:43it's also being able to apply your free will.
- 46:45I'm going to stop myself from using it time.
- 46:49Again again again that's the rewiring part that you take upon
- 46:52yourself. But while you're rewiring what
- 46:54you also want to do is Transcendence, transmute those
- 46:57charge States, otherwise they're going to stay there.
- 47:00So it's very practical, but it's a again and again, again, which
- 47:03is why your Of ones as Ram Dass points out, if you think you're
- 47:07enlightened spend two weeks with their parents.
- 47:10So this is where the parents and siblings are key.
- 47:13But if let's say, you're not concerned with wanting to do
- 47:15that your partner, or if you have a spouse or whatever, then
- 47:19it's that, you know, because you've done marriage and or
- 47:22whatever and your unfinished, business will be being dealt
- 47:25with, in the home, your own new home.
- 47:28And, you know, the reality is, you never leave the old home
- 47:31either. So, in light mental age, with,
- 47:32by the way, we don't actually Separate.
- 47:34So here's that other part but everybody has their own life.
- 47:38This is why it's important to note the other.
- 47:39So age groups are important to know also shame Cycles.
- 47:43Some people will always want to be with that heard like Ron
- 47:46Siegel points out, so you will address your own staff with the
- 47:51heard in mind, which is, as long as you're aware of it, and
- 47:54you're managing your own self and you're working to get your
- 47:57emotions 20, it's not about emotion that's it's about you
- 48:01being able to express your emotions with equanimity People,
- 48:05but this is only a goal that people will want if they're
- 48:08actually intrigued with being their own self as an adult, as a
- 48:13functional adult. Which is where, you know, again
- 48:16there is 3D 4D, people who are with the conspiracy theories
- 48:19too, busy, not trusting, anything outside of them, and
- 48:22too busy sitting in a body. That is rigid ignoring that too,
- 48:25but again, I'm running out of time.
- 48:27So let me close this up. The exercise that the therapist
- 48:33gave the grandma I was to feel love in the heart and the got
- 48:38essentially and, as they were holding their grandson to
- 48:42imagine that they were giving their own child self, that love
- 48:46and see if that helped and it did.
- 48:48And the therapist though said she was in therapy, though.
- 48:51It had already been six seven years.
- 48:52So we already had been working on shame and her trauma and all
- 48:55this stuff. So I would say any person who's
- 48:58able to know I'm not evil, I have shame.
- 49:01I haven't heard, you know, like to know that you're human.
- 49:04We're all imperfect. That is the first step.
- 49:07So if you can be compassionate towards your body, heart mind
- 49:09and know, your body would never do anything to put you in danger
- 49:12and emotions their of self-preservation.
- 49:15So the charge states are normal because that's called again.
- 49:18You are not connected to the higher self yet.
- 49:21It's once the adult in the room to real points, it out very
- 49:25easily. He says you know you take some
- 49:27breaths. You slow it down.
- 49:29You remember any time there's Envy jealousy or any of these
- 49:32charge States? The child?
- 49:34Is coming forth in the protector lenses, are there.
- 49:37So, it's about being able to sit with those and say, I am the
- 49:40adult here, these are anything charge is from a younger time
- 49:45because it means we want others to help us.
- 49:48It means we were not helped furthermore, okay?
- 49:51So simply simplified and to close up this table talk, the
- 49:55sociopath meeting. She actually has this website
- 49:59that she created for revenge and Spike.
- 50:01And I wanted to put things in perspective because I know she's
- 50:04Going to be judged by people as a she's evil seed.
- 50:07Yeah, I disagree with using revenge or spite but, you know,
- 50:11here's the funny part. I've met a couple of people that
- 50:14have used the same words she uses and those same people there
- 50:17on a personal development jury. So they still have shame blame
- 50:20fought Revenge Cycles, they still have their protector
- 50:22lenses on. There is still incomplete in the
- 50:25sense of not their masculine feminine and they're not,
- 50:28they're functional adults and they're definitely not a
- 50:30differentiate itself. And so here's where she says,
- 50:34You know, once she calls Revenge, a good motivator to
- 50:38improve yourself. She says, there's nothing more
- 50:41satisfying than taking revenge on someone who has screwed you
- 50:45over in. This is where a couple of people
- 50:47have used the same word, satisfying and then you can
- 50:51achieve so much through spite so that again, Spite and revenge
- 50:54are being used as motivators. And then though when she's
- 50:57closing out, she uses these words, she says, women are used
- 51:01to taking shit, but not throwing it back out.
- 51:04And then also she states people act differently when they know
- 51:07what you are capable of. Both of these are
- 51:10self-preservation both of these indicate to me that there's a
- 51:14suppression of, I can be myself. What does it mean suppression?
- 51:19There's an anger that's not being thrown out in a healthy
- 51:22way, for example, and that angers masking a fear and, or a
- 51:27shame and or basically an area of a child that was not given
- 51:31the opportunity to be free to create.
- 51:34Date to create who they are and so to be humiliated is the word
- 51:39that comes to mind. And therefore, you know what,
- 51:42here's what I'm going to do, I'll show you the part about
- 51:45satisfaction. It's because you were hurt by
- 51:49being able to hurt another. You feel satisfied,
- 51:52quote-unquote? Why?
- 51:54Because you've taken back, what has been taken away from you
- 51:57which is equal again to humiliation not having
- 52:02humiliation, so feeling that you are You are someone something
- 52:06this is based on interacting with another.
- 52:09So in the absence of that interaction, you are nothing.
- 52:12It's the part about people thinking that these aspects are
- 52:18emotionally satisfying, but the part that really is clear to me,
- 52:22is they're still in the same cycle without any awareness.
- 52:26So their body still experiences the Child who was abandoned, who
- 52:32was not given the equanimous and unconditional love and therefore
- 52:37was not given a safe and social environment to play in to be
- 52:42their own Creator and creative self as Gabor maté points out in
- 52:47his example. He's like, I'm not criticizing
- 52:49parents and that's what he also. Just uses himself, my son.
- 52:53He starts fussing about not wanting to sing.
- 52:55I say you have to sing. He says, no, I say you have to
- 52:58and you. Okay.
- 53:00Fine, no cake for you. I don't remember if he does slap
- 53:03him or not. I don't think so.
- 53:04But basically, the even just a threat alone, he says, I imposed
- 53:09my and he talks my trauma because it was my humiliation
- 53:14was my stuff. I forget his exact words but
- 53:17this is the example. And so when this woman is saying
- 53:21what she's saying and she's opening up this website, there
- 53:23people that are going to navigate their to the 5dc person
- 53:28is not evil. This is a Who isn't grown up
- 53:31yet, and what they don't realize is that what they think is
- 53:34satisfying, is not empowering, their satisfaction comes from a
- 53:39place of lack because it's a place of lack that happened.
- 53:43When they were too young to remember and that emotion is
- 53:47feeling and thinking that it has what it has.
- 53:50But it's a vibration that is not even close to what it can be to
- 53:54instead be able to sit and compassion.
- 53:59But to be able to sit, And compassion means that you will
- 54:01learn to love who you are, as you are with your flaws and
- 54:04Imperfections. And so, here's where the 5dc
- 54:07person with Enlightenment is, when it comes to revenge or
- 54:09Spike. Not only do we not have the
- 54:12capability and I'm saying, I mean, since I can remember
- 54:16whenever I've been accused you're doing it out of spite and
- 54:18now I'm not, I know what Spike would mean because I've been
- 54:21involved in it. It would mean that I with intent
- 54:24wanted to spite you with my brain that I will want to do
- 54:27something to make you unhappy. This has never happened.
- 54:30You know, I know my brain, I know what I'm thinking.
- 54:33I know what I think. So, when people want to make
- 54:35these false accusations or even here, everyone has such a shame.
- 54:38No, not everybody does. We actually don't, we don't lead
- 54:42with Shane. We lead with love.
- 54:44So this is where, you know, it's not provable because the reality
- 54:47is they can't prove it, they can't unless they trace every
- 54:51infant from the moment, they are born, you know?
- 54:53So letting that one move away because people are always going
- 54:56to try and say what they're going to say for the 5 DC and
- 54:59Lightman. So a true person, we have a love
- 55:01cycle so whenever I was accused as a child of this fight stuff,
- 55:05I was like no I'm not doing anything out of spite.
- 55:07I'm reacting is two different things, you know, like and so
- 55:11tend to the emotion but I would know what is true and I would
- 55:15not feel shame or not feel guilty.
- 55:16No matter how many times even as an adult.
- 55:18Now when I get said you're doing it out of spite, no, I'm not
- 55:22revenge is something that's actually been more obvious, of
- 55:26course. So when people have done the
- 55:28spider Revenge, Since I was a teenager, I realized it's a lack
- 55:34of trust in the relationship, but it's really a lack of trust
- 55:37that the person has and it's a lack of well-being and it's a
- 55:42suffering. So I will not and I don't, in
- 55:45fact do anything because well the saying is straightforward.
- 55:49Sweet Revenge comes. You know and it's not even
- 55:53funny. How can I explain this?
- 55:54I'm going to use not a specific example but it is something that
- 55:58I have been. Been through and when things
- 56:03began to take place and I share this with my close friends, I
- 56:08said, you know the way you do anything it always comes back to
- 56:13you. Because if you're doing
- 56:15something with spy or intent or fear, you've done it with that
- 56:19charge State. And so, I knew in time, we don't
- 56:23have to ever do anything. People will use the word God and
- 56:26they'll use their belief systems.
- 56:28But for those of us in the enlightenment silly, Troop.
- 56:30We actually know your actions carry on with you because
- 56:34they're, they're done with your own emotions and thoughts.
- 56:37So you will always know what what you did while you did it,
- 56:39it will carry in your body. It's like Educators confirmed
- 56:43this. So for for me as a teenager, I
- 56:46was more still with only the belief, I hadn't known about
- 56:50Akash and all these things of now I said and always said to my
- 56:54friends, there's nothing that I actually have to do because
- 56:57anything. Somebody does will be carried
- 56:58with them in their soul. You know, it's how it works and
- 57:02PR, but the evil evil, you know, and always talking about how
- 57:05evil triumphs even though it doesn't, if you look at a
- 57:08person's life, you'll know where they are at with their life,
- 57:10all, but that doesn't mean anything money is everything.
- 57:13This is everything. So they keep talking about this
- 57:15shit. When I see a person suffering
- 57:17and I hear any person who's in shame, blame fault Revenge.
- 57:20I feel compassion and very much so, and the psycho Educators
- 57:24help me feel it. Even more I cry because I feel
- 57:28bad for their bodies because they The way out, but their way
- 57:31out, even is negotiated by the same therapist, okay?
- 57:34So this is where there is nothing.
- 57:36Funny about a person who doesn't realize that revenge is not
- 57:39satisfying. That's a child who was a band.
- 57:42Like there's just all these other things.
- 57:44So for me when I realized that what I knew would come true came
- 57:48true, I did everything in my power and I did succeed to clear
- 57:53this energy that was between situations that I knew how it
- 57:58took place. What took place in that I really
- 58:00Didn't have any animosity towards because for me, I was
- 58:03being I was done a favor. In fact I'll never forget have
- 58:06has done a huge favor, you know? Like thank you.
- 58:09Thank you so much. So long story short though, when
- 58:13I saw that what I knew would be, I cleared it all and I was happy
- 58:17to see that you know this is where we're one big ball of
- 58:21energy. So when you hold love and only
- 58:23love, you don't need to interact with people in order to allow
- 58:28love to be what stays Between you and all those love the
- 58:32oversoul pieces. In fact, this is the part of 5G,
- 58:35C person and Enlightenment silly trip is one with all life and we
- 58:40do not hold anything except for love with life.
- 58:43Because we understand that the only true threat is a physical
- 58:46life threat, which we will not be having if you're feeling
- 58:48emotions. And if we're thinking thoughts,
- 58:51it means that we are contemplating something,
- 58:53something's going on, we're not threatened and so we'll sit with
- 58:56it and we won't be ashamed and won't be angry.
- 58:59Won't Lock it out because we're able to just sit with whatever
- 59:02it is and to see it, for what it is, because we get to see the
- 59:07two sides because we're not criticizing ourselves.
- 59:09We're not criticizing another, we're not criticizing the
- 59:12situation and we don't deny the emotions that are coming up.
- 59:15We don't resist them. We allow them to flow very
- 59:17easily because they are emotions.
- 59:19We don't criticize the emotions. In fact, when I realized I was
- 59:23judging the emotions that were in the category of sad because
- 59:27people talk about them as negative as like shit.
- 59:29I've been Doubling down on this. That's dumb.
- 59:32Okay, let me move to exploring them both as neutral versus the
- 59:37one would be bad or good because they're both emotions, they're
- 59:39all emotions. None of them are bad or good.
- 59:42And so, here's where others would again want to put their
- 59:46mouths in places, but it's all about our own ability to move
- 59:50into our adult self with our emotions and our thoughts, which
- 59:54is all in the psychological floor.
- 59:56So those of us who have a 5 DC body type mind type inclined
- 1:00:01type are in this indictment. So a troop at this point, those
- 1:00:05who are not if they want, they can those who are triggered.
- 1:00:08That's where they get to choose. They get to choose.
- 1:00:10If they can see that their trigger, it's not a good or bad
- 1:00:13thing. They're not evil, but that
- 1:00:16revenge or spite or Envy or jealousy are a lack of trust in
- 1:00:20oneself. First of all, because there's an
- 1:00:22abandonment. There's a Charged state from a
- 1:00:25child. Who was not given the it's safe
- 1:00:29to be you in your creator space but was yelled at.
- 1:00:32And here's where be for a person, might even Explore their
- 1:00:36own self, they may have to begin 21, separate them from their
- 1:00:41parents and then allow their parents not to be parents, but
- 1:00:44to be human. And that's where you begin to
- 1:00:47grieve the loss that you didn't get that to be, you know, loving
- 1:00:51and cared for, you know. So there's a grief that takes
- 1:00:54place for the loss of your childhood.
- 1:00:56Yada yada, but it's also you, creating you and parents and so
- 1:01:00differentiated cells. Your you, your family of origin
- 1:01:03is and they're human beings too. We all can have, we all do have
- 1:01:07trauma because we all were infants, when we were born, we
- 1:01:10all begin life in in vitro, right in the belly.
- 1:01:14And that's where those moments have an effect on us, too.
- 1:01:18And this isn't because of some demonic Force.
- 1:01:21Now, this is all explainable by science and it's all explainable
- 1:01:25by energy. So, You know, at the end of the
- 1:01:27day, what I do love about people like this one guy that saying
- 1:01:30nothing exists. There's no human particle him
- 1:01:33alone. Dismantles.
- 1:01:34Every single one of the theories that the 40 people want to keep
- 1:01:36on bringing about about anything of their entities, you know.
- 1:01:41So again, we'll talk more about those things because with my
- 1:01:44Claire's and experiences, I have acknowledged many aspects that I
- 1:01:49know will support those who want to be out of 40, who know about
- 1:01:53the difference with 5D 3D 4D. And who are in And again
- 1:01:57unconditional love. Charlotte e were all human
- 1:01:59infinite. Higher human consciousness is
- 1:02:01what we're about. It's about human evolution and
- 1:02:03it's about a lot of different topics, and human stuff
- 1:02:07spiritual stuff, spirituality stuff, it's all awesome.
- 1:02:10And we'll keep talking. So, tune on, in, in other
- 1:02:13episodes and have a wonderful day.