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Is it time to say "I Love You" · Johnjay & Rich On Demand

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  Speaker 1: Hello, Good morning, John Jay and Rich Good morning.
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  Speaker 2: How are you good?
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  Speaker 1: What's up?
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  Speaker 3: Oh, it's just funny.
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  Speaker 2: Mean what you wanted me to call in?
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  Speaker 4: Why?
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  Speaker 1: What do you mean why we wanted you call in?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, because on the radio you said call us, and
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  Speaker 3: I'm here calling you.
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  Speaker 1: Well generally speaking like, hey, if you want to jump
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  Speaker 1: on the radio, there's something on your mind, call us
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  Speaker 1: at eight seven seven nine.
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  Speaker 3: Well, I'm glad.
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  Speaker 1: I'm glad you called. But is there anything on your mind?
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  Speaker 1: You just calling to say just because I said call?
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  Speaker 2: Well, good morning.
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  Speaker 3: I don't know if you're having a great thing.
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  Speaker 5: No, that's nice. I love that.
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  Speaker 3: Well, thank you're talking to you.
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  Speaker 1: What's your name?
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  Speaker 3: My name is Chloe.
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  Speaker 2: I'm on my late at school.
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  Speaker 1: Where do you go to school?
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  Speaker 3: I'm in Salem.
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  Speaker 2: I'm in college.
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  Speaker 3: This is my last day, last day.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm graduating.
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  Speaker 4: Hey what you graduate with? What's your degree?
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  Speaker 3: Associates in art and computer science.
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  Speaker 5: That's a big one. What are you gonna do with that?
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  Speaker 3: Just kind of going with it. I was laid off
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  Speaker 3: in October, so going with it.
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  Speaker 1: Well, thanks for calling in, and good luck with your career.
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  Speaker 1: We're glad you listened.
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  Speaker 3: Thank you all.
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  Speaker 1: Right, bye bye, Hello, John Jay and Rich Can I
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  Speaker 1: help you?
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  Speaker 5: Hi?
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  Speaker 3: I got too miss calls from December?
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  Speaker 1: Oh did you text or call our radio show?
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  Speaker 3: Yes? I sent a text to the text line. It
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  Speaker 3: was the message about whether or not I should tell
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  Speaker 3: my boyfriend I lived. My name's Adley.
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  Speaker 1: Oh, yes, yeah, walk us through that. Can you tell it?
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  Speaker 1: Because yeah, I saw your text yesterday and I'd really
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  Speaker 1: want to talk to you.
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  Speaker 3: So we've been stating for like about five months, and
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  Speaker 3: I say things are getting serious, and we've been like
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  Speaker 3: dancing around the idea of saying it to each other,
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  Speaker 3: but neither of us has really said it. And I
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  Speaker 3: really want to because I feel like I can't hold
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  Speaker 3: it in. But I don't know if I should be
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  Speaker 3: the one to say it first, because only the guy
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  Speaker 3: should say it first, and I'm scared that maybe he
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  Speaker 3: won't like reciprocate it back to me.
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  Speaker 1: Here's the text. I've been listening to you guys for
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  Speaker 1: ten years. I love you guys. I need some advice.
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  Speaker 1: I've been dating my boyfriend for five months and I
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  Speaker 1: want to tell him I love him. Should I tell
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  Speaker 1: him or should I wait for him to tell me?
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  Speaker 1: Because I don't know if I can keep it in
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  Speaker 1: any longer. Kyle, your advice, Ah, I knew you're gonna do.
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  Speaker 6: That, Dad, Just go for it. Just go for it.
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  Speaker 3: I mean, I know there's a whole like.
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  Speaker 6: You don't really want to put yourself out there because
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  Speaker 6: if he doesn't say it back, it's like whatever. But
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  Speaker 6: it's how you feel, it's how you feel.
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  Speaker 3: Uh, yeah, that's true. I'm scared, Like one it's said,
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  Speaker 3: it's said, and I feel like so much can change
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  Speaker 3: from that.
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  Speaker 6: It's not like it's not like you're telling your best
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  Speaker 6: guy friend of seven years. It's your boyfriend, you know.
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  Speaker 1: Five months though. Okay, wait wait I think I know, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: what do you think? What do you think she should do?
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  Speaker 5: Well, I'm curious about one thing you said. You guys
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  Speaker 5: have been talking about saying it right.
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  Speaker 3: Well, it's not so like talking about it. It's just,
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  Speaker 3: you know, like when you're with your partner and you
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  Speaker 3: guys have like that longing look huh, and it feels like, oh,
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  Speaker 3: you're gonna say it, like that's kind of what's been happening,
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  Speaker 3: and like it's been like happening like more frequently because
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  Speaker 3: like we've technically kind of been like living together for
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  Speaker 3: like a little over a month, so it's been like happening.
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  Speaker 5: Like more, Hadley. I'm the biggest believer in romance, and
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  Speaker 5: if you're the one that's got to push it to
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  Speaker 5: the next level by declaring your love, I say, be bold.
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  Speaker 5: History favors the bold.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, Peyton, what do you think?
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  Speaker 5: Okay?
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  Speaker 4: I guess my question is do you know if you're
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  Speaker 4: actually in love with him? Or are you falling in
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  Speaker 4: love with him?
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  Speaker 5: Oh?
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  Speaker 3: I think I'm like fully in love like any like
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  Speaker 3: X that you would get in the beginning, like that
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  Speaker 3: completely like that those things like don't bother me. Honestly,
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  Speaker 3: I could see myself except for like really long term.
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  Speaker 4: Then I think you absolutely should tell him. It doesn't
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  Speaker 4: matter if you've been together for two weeks, two years,
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  Speaker 4: two months. I think you should absolutely tell them exactly
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  Speaker 4: how you feel because you you're gonna wish you did.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, let me ask you this. So when you say X,
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  Speaker 1: what are some of the X that he had in
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  Speaker 1: the beginning that you had for him?
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  Speaker 3: It was just this is like really like weird, but
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  Speaker 3: it's just like when you like shower together, it's how
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  Speaker 3: he would shower. But it's just like that. I was
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  Speaker 3: just like, I over twitched that it's just because you know,
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  Speaker 3: like when you like clean yourself, and then.
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  Speaker 2: It's like, it's just like the positions he would put
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  Speaker 2: himself in, because that could send me.
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  Speaker 4: If he's in positions, and that tells me he's probably
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  Speaker 4: getting in the cracks and crevices and it's probably clean.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, let me ask you this. Let's this is how
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  Speaker 1: I tell all right, if he died, would you cry? Yes?
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  Speaker 1: Would you cry for a long time or like a
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  Speaker 1: day and get over and start dating?
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  Speaker 3: I think I would cry for a long time.
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  Speaker 1: So for me, since you're like our friend and you
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  Speaker 1: listen to the show, I would tell you, like my
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  Speaker 1: advice would be my advice would be to go ahead
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  Speaker 1: and say you got nothing to lose. And they always
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  Speaker 1: say it's better to love than not loved at all
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  Speaker 1: or something like that. Right, But at the same time,
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  Speaker 1: if he says it to you, which is what I
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  Speaker 1: did to my my wife said it to me first,
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  Speaker 1: and I put my finger over her lips and I
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  Speaker 1: was like.
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  Speaker 5: Now, now, how did you snag?
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  Speaker 1: And she tried to say it again and I couldn't
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  Speaker 1: stop her. I was like, I know, I know you do.
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  Speaker 1: So you got to think about it. What if he
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  Speaker 1: says it to you, what's your response going to be?
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  Speaker 1: I love you too?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, do you want us to call it? I would
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  Speaker 3: probably tell him uh no, because like you're you know,
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  Speaker 3: he's working, he's about to come home for lunch, probably
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  Speaker 3: in like the next like thirty minutes.
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  Speaker 5: You have to tell him, Yeah, you gotta do it.
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  Speaker 3: I gotta do it when she comes from lunch, why not?
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  Speaker 4: Or whenever you the moment, like you do it like
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  Speaker 4: hanging up with okay, love you by like you know
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  Speaker 4: what I mean, Like whenever you feel it is when
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  Speaker 4: you say it.
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  Speaker 6: Next time you're in the moment where you're staring into
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  Speaker 6: each other's eyes and you feel that, say it, yeah,
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  Speaker 6: don't force it, Just say it when you feel it.
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  Speaker 1: And come up with one of those speeches like in
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  Speaker 1: those romantic movies, like if they're standing in the rain
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  Speaker 1: and like I love you, and you'd be like, I
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  Speaker 1: love you. I love the way we stare at each
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  Speaker 1: other in each other's eyes. I love I even love
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  Speaker 1: the way we shower, the way you lift your lego
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  Speaker 1: right behind your hand, h your hand. But I love
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  Speaker 1: the way that you moan when you wash your armpits
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  Speaker 1: and coming home for lunch, the way you stick your
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  Speaker 1: finger in your ear and massiges your ear drum. I
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  Speaker 1: love you, damn it. Anyway, I'm glad you called us.
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  Speaker 1: Good luck and by the way, honestly having fun. Being serious.
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  Speaker 1: I think it's wonderful what you're feeling. It's great to
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  Speaker 1: feel that way, to love someone that much, that is awesome.
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  Speaker 1: I hope to find.
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  Speaker 3: That regulation on getting married.
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  Speaker 4: Oh my gosh, thank you.
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  Speaker 5: See if she hadn't said I love you, she would
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  Speaker 5: have never gotten married.
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  Speaker 4: I know, and I actually I actually made Could he
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  Speaker 4: even tell me he loved me? I refused to I
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  Speaker 4: remember saying it. I was like, just say it, just
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  Speaker 4: say it. I know you feel it, just say it,
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  Speaker 4: and I would say it.
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  Speaker 1: They have a great day. Thank you for this. Will
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  Speaker 1: you please keep us posted?
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  Speaker 3: Okay, thank you, so thank you, good luck, bye bye.
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  Speaker 1: What a wonderful situation, so exciting.
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  Speaker 6: Love