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Flash Back to Phylicia Rashad interview and more · The Breakfast Club

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  Speaker 1: slom a gay ha Yo, Carlo Man, whatout my ji?
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  Speaker 1: What ray? What happened? Are we lying the world's most
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  Speaker 1: dangerous morning show? Let me tell you something before before
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  Speaker 1: people get interviews, they say, yo, you cannot you cannot
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  Speaker 1: say this. We don't want to talk about want interview everything.
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  Speaker 1: No one benefits from getting in here just talking records.
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  Speaker 1: I gotta be honest. I didn't think it was gonna
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  Speaker 1: make it. Ten years man, ten years strong, Breakfast club man, right,
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  Speaker 1: so you know what that means. Ten years they've been nuts.
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  Speaker 1: They've been David David nuts. They just been nuts the
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  Speaker 1: breakfast club. Wake up in the morning, wake up, wake
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  Speaker 1: up ya. This is your time to get it off
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  Speaker 1: your chat with your man or blame. We want to
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  Speaker 1: hear from you on the breakfast club. Hello. Who's this? Hello?
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  Speaker 1: My name is Melissa melissam Long Island. Hello. How are
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  Speaker 1: you hey? Melissa morning? Get it off your chess? Melissa?
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  Speaker 1: All right? So um, I was thinking that I would
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  Speaker 1: much rather lick some more random as booty than takes
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  Speaker 1: this vaccine. First of all, you got you're out of
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  Speaker 1: context right now. You gotta explain to people what happened,
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  Speaker 1: because they're gonna be like, what is wrong with Melissa
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  Speaker 1: just calling up there early in the morning. Anything. Yesterday
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  Speaker 1: we had a topic what we asked you, would you
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  Speaker 1: rather take the vaccine a liquorandom scrange boom? Now, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: it makes sense, um, due to the fact that I
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  Speaker 1: don't feel people are really doing much research into the
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  Speaker 1: vaccines and don't realize that it's actually like a genetic
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  Speaker 1: DNA manipulation opposed to the traditional vaccine where you know,
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  Speaker 1: they just put a little bit of the virus and
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  Speaker 1: the body fights it off. Like you had said same here.
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  Speaker 1: I mean I took the you know, flu shot whatever
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  Speaker 1: growing up. Now that you know, I can make my
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  Speaker 1: own decisions and whatnot, people aren't realizing also, uh, this
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  Speaker 1: actually produces antibodies against a protein that is essential to
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  Speaker 1: reproducing to placenta. Oh no, what what you What you
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  Speaker 1: said earlier is what I read yesterday that there's no
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  Speaker 1: actual COVID nineteen in the vaccine. Like you know, in
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  Speaker 1: flu they put a little bit of the fluid in
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  Speaker 1: you so you get it to build a antibody. They
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  Speaker 1: don't have that in the vaccine. From what I read
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  Speaker 1: jested it. Yeah, no, this is actually like it's hygiene
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  Speaker 1: hijacking cell genes then causing you to be prone or
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  Speaker 1: I guess m immune from it supposedly, who knows. But
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  Speaker 1: I'm just saying I think people need to be doing
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  Speaker 1: their own research on this, and that includes, you know,
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  Speaker 1: looking in the ingredients in the vaccine and then researching
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  Speaker 1: the ingredients themselves. And don't nobody read ingredients on then
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  Speaker 1: somebody eating some cereal right now, I don't know what'n't it?
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  Speaker 1: But you know how many you know, how many people's
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  Speaker 1: butts is just dirty? You just want to eat all
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  Speaker 1: the type of issue. But huh, then take the vaccine. Yeah, sure,
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  Speaker 1: we'll just do some research on them. But baby, before
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  Speaker 1: you you don't want to poople snacking. Okay, well, I'll
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  Speaker 1: tell you what. You're right, these people need to do well,
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  Speaker 1: no doubt she thought about it. She's like, you know what, now,
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  Speaker 1: you're right. I do need to research you. But have
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  Speaker 1: a good one. Thank you, have a good jail you too. Hello?
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  Speaker 1: Who's this? Hello? Listen? Jared? What's up? Jared? Hey? How
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  Speaker 1: you doing? Man? What's going on? King? Not much? How
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  Speaker 1: you doing? Salo? Man? How you doing envy. Good. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: what I'm having to jail from somewhere he went to jail, right, jail. No,
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  Speaker 1: I don't don't play that game. I'm not I'm not
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  Speaker 1: Jared from somewhere. I'm I'm like Jared the Jeweler. We'll
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  Speaker 1: go with that, Okay, all right, get uf you ch Jared. Yeah, man, So,
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  Speaker 1: m I brought up my work. I don't want to
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  Speaker 1: talk about my job because I'm not trying to lose it,
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  Speaker 1: but I do have something to take off my chest. Um,
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  Speaker 1: My wife's a nurse. And you know, these hospitals are
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  Speaker 1: starting to get fuller and fuller, and it seems like
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  Speaker 1: people the more the worse it gets, the more they
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  Speaker 1: just say, no mask, I'm not going to social distance.
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  Speaker 1: I work with people who for nothing will put their
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  Speaker 1: mass and they don't want to put a mask. And
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  Speaker 1: they said, don't want a social distance. It's getting to
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  Speaker 1: the point where I don't want to come to working then.
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  Speaker 1: You know, um, no, I work card and it's important
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  Speaker 1: for me to work card. But it's it's really it's
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  Speaker 1: really getting a point where I don't even know how
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  Speaker 1: to feel about these people than one. Um. You know why,
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  Speaker 1: because they don't wear masks and stuff. Yeah, they're not
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  Speaker 1: wearing masks. And I mean they you're dealing with each other.
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  Speaker 1: They want to be up on you one feet the
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  Speaker 1: way to feet the way, you know, talking in your face,
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  Speaker 1: and you gotta be trying to tell them to separate
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  Speaker 1: all the time. That's right, Well, what's wrong with boundaries that?
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  Speaker 1: What's wrong with letting them know that? Like, look, I
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  Speaker 1: don't want you name and you ain't wearing no mask. Brother,
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  Speaker 1: I do that all the time. If you ain't got
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  Speaker 1: no mask, gonna back up, man. And that's what it is.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, we're telling them. But you know, at the workplace,
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  Speaker 1: they got to have regulations, and everybody got to be
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  Speaker 1: falling regulations. But certain people it's not expected at them,
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  Speaker 1: you know. And I just think that's a big deal.
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  Speaker 1: If we can't even get the workplace to you know,
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  Speaker 1: do things correctly, how we gonna get average people out
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  Speaker 1: there in the street, you know, putting masks on it,
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  Speaker 1: you know how we pict? Well, we can't. And that's
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  Speaker 1: the problem, and that's why we're in this situation that
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  Speaker 1: we're in now. Americans are spoiled, bro Americans don't listen,
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  Speaker 1: We don't follow a rule as well. Yeah, man, I
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  Speaker 1: just wanted today. I just want to shout out my
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  Speaker 1: mom um, Lazette Williams, I love you to death. My
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  Speaker 1: lover too. Yeah, my brother. I just want to say
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  Speaker 1: one thing about my boy and Savon the qube out
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  Speaker 1: of Miami is a really dope wrapper. I don't know
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  Speaker 1: if you guys ever heard of him, but check them
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  Speaker 1: out Sylvan. Look cute that guy. I'm telling you. Give
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  Speaker 1: the truth. Savone l get it off your chest eight
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  Speaker 1: hundred five eight five one o five one. If you
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  Speaker 1: need to vent hit us up now. It's the Breakfast Club.
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  Speaker 1: Good morning, wake up, wake up. Wait, you're time to
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  Speaker 1: get it off your chest. Your man or black, we
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  Speaker 1: want to hear from you on the breakfast Club. Hello.
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  Speaker 1: Who's this? Hey? This Nick? Nick? What up? Man? Get
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  Speaker 1: him in your chest? Nick on it? You like rain
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  Speaker 1: there in here? Help on the shelf, solo, man, car
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  Speaker 1: what's up? Man? Okay, we part a acing. What's happening?
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  Speaker 1: Aging much? Man, I'm standing up here in Columbia. I'm
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  Speaker 1: sorry I'm staying up here. And let's take the tucky
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  Speaker 1: right now. Okay, Yeah, I was. I was trying to
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  Speaker 1: get some advice man, because like I'm I've been standing
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  Speaker 1: up here since I came home from prison. I was
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  Speaker 1: locked up for selling drugs. But I wanted to change
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  Speaker 1: my life around, but I stayed. I came up here
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  Speaker 1: the person that I came up here with family, but
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  Speaker 1: me and the person I'm talking no more. So It's
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  Speaker 1: like I wanted to go back Hones, but acing South
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  Speaker 1: Carolina ain't the place to be, like, especially trying to
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  Speaker 1: get a good job, like anyway. But it's also hard
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  Speaker 1: for me up here because I ain't got no financial
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  Speaker 1: support or nobody to help me out of no common part. Well,
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  Speaker 1: it sounds to me like you know you already know
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  Speaker 1: you needed a change of environment. So if you know,
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  Speaker 1: if you know you don't need to be an aching,
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  Speaker 1: you can scratch that off the list. That's not that's
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  Speaker 1: not a that's that's not a thing, right, yeah, sir,
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  Speaker 1: So you just got to stay where you had and
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  Speaker 1: figure it out, make it work. What is it? What
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  Speaker 1: is it that you want to do? Like I've been,
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  Speaker 1: I've been working since i've been up to I'm working
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  Speaker 1: for the shimp Purvey's right now, but I could get
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  Speaker 1: I'm gonna be hard doing soon. But uh, it's hard
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  Speaker 1: because like I had rot y'all back a little while
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  Speaker 1: ago because all right, my windshield and got broke. Uh.
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  Speaker 1: It's like other things that I've been having to deal
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  Speaker 1: with doing during this pandemic that's going on. But it's
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  Speaker 1: like I said, this hard, not having nobody there in
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  Speaker 1: your corner for you. Well, listen, you're gonna be fine.
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  Speaker 1: My brother just takes patience. All right, Yes, sir, pushing on, brother,
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  Speaker 1: keep pushing all right. Thank y'all, y'all. Good day you too. Hello.
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  Speaker 1: Who's this? We'll help y'all. This is James from Minianapolis.
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  Speaker 1: What up? James? Get it up your chests brothers. First
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  Speaker 1: of all, I want to congratulate y'all for teen years man,
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  Speaker 1: a good content man, righteous and rats. Thank you kangy brothers.
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  Speaker 1: And I want to share my favorite breast club moment.
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  Speaker 1: What's that? Other than the Birdman situation? The Banie single
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  Speaker 1: situation was funny too, man. Why y'all like to see
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  Speaker 1: people trying to traumatize me? I thought that was pretty
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  Speaker 1: hilarious myself. It was cool, man, It was cool. Charlomy
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  Speaker 1: didn't buckley buckle. He didn't buckle that never buckle. He showed,
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  Speaker 1: didn't you write? He didn't he stood his ground? What
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  Speaker 1: is buckling? And yeah, thanks guys, man, I appreciate y'all.
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  Speaker 1: And my birthday this weekend too, Oh man, enjoy it? Man?
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  Speaker 1: I mean you can't where you from? You can't go anywhere? Right? Oh?
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  Speaker 1: No man? Not in Indiana. Yeah, I wouldn't want to
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  Speaker 1: date you. Your birthday too close to Christmas. And you
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  Speaker 1: got a penis. But you know that's a whole day
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  Speaker 1: because you're married and that too, Yeah that that too, married,
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  Speaker 1: you got peis. You know my type. But until earlier
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  Speaker 1: more than no? Whoa day? God? Why do people gotta
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  Speaker 1: scress that? I don't know? Right? Hello? Who's that? Hey?
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  Speaker 1: Instituition from Texas? How y'all doing from Texas? We're part
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  Speaker 1: of Texas, Dallas, Texas? So I have to listen on
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  Speaker 1: the app and I don't mind that at all? Oh
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  Speaker 1: what him? Bum as cowboys are from? Come on? I
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  Speaker 1: love Dallas. You know I love my cowboys. Don't listen
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  Speaker 1: to envy. Okay, So now, since congratulations on two years,
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  Speaker 1: thank you. Now, since you are an executive of my heart,
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  Speaker 1: I gotta hear you say, Lord, have mercy. It's something
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  Speaker 1: about the way you say that, darling that drives me
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  Speaker 1: and saying I love it and I laugh every time.
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  Speaker 1: Oh boy, Lord, have mercy. I can't believe you'd like
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  Speaker 1: to hear me say, Lord, looking with that man, that
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  Speaker 1: man married Mama. No, no, no, oh no, I'm not
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  Speaker 1: lening with him. And I love it. When you say
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  Speaker 1: I'm calling HR, I'm calling HR guys drives me and
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  Speaker 1: fat And since you guys won't be back until twenty
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  Speaker 1: twenty one, I needed to hear I'm calling HR at Lord,
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  Speaker 1: have mercy. Or the beauty of it is that we
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  Speaker 1: run a lot of We run best of shows until
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  Speaker 1: January the fifth, so you know it gives people an
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  Speaker 1: opportunity to catch up on breakfast club content they may
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  Speaker 1: have missed. Yeah, and I love it. I'm still gonna listing.
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  Speaker 1: Charlomagne had more time for me, Lord, have mercy. Why
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  Speaker 1: are you stressing me out? Early this morning? Got me
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  Speaker 1: repeating that over and over the yeah for good morning
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  Speaker 1: about love you too, get it off your chest eight
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  Speaker 1: hundred five eight five one oh five one. If you
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  Speaker 1: need to vent hit us up now. It's the breakfast Club.
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  Speaker 1: Good Morning, The Breakfast Club. DJ Envy Angela ye, Charlomagne,
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  Speaker 1: the guy we are the Breakfast Club was still kicking
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  Speaker 1: it with Kirk Franklin. Yee, Kirk. While you're at home
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  Speaker 1: during this time, have you been inspired musically just by
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  Speaker 1: everything that's going on around you? You knows. I can
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  Speaker 1: be honest with you. One of the reasons why I
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  Speaker 1: wore this shirt today is because I started back going
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  Speaker 1: to therapy during this pandemic. I can be honest now.
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  Speaker 1: It's I've been going to therapy now, off and on
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  Speaker 1: for about the last thirty years, you know, dealing with
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  Speaker 1: my dealing with my bandomin issues, dealing with you know,
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  Speaker 1: just a rejection I had as a kid, a lot
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  Speaker 1: of the trauma that I've suffered as a young man,
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  Speaker 1: and so therapy and my faith have been my They've
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  Speaker 1: just been my life boat. And so the trauma of
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  Speaker 1: first of all the pandemic, and then that what's happening
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  Speaker 1: now is that I started going back to my therapist.
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  Speaker 1: And I can be honest and tell you that the
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  Speaker 1: motivation to do a lot of music, it's been often
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  Speaker 1: own just because I've been just really struggling. I've been
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  Speaker 1: really struggling trying to get people just to hold on.
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  Speaker 1: It's it's almost like, where does the physician going he's sick?
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  Speaker 1: You know, I'm giving myself back together just because I
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  Speaker 1: think that y'all needed Sunday, But I needed Sunday too.
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  Speaker 1: Is I needed that versus moment too? Now, what have
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  Speaker 1: you been going through? You said you were going through
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  Speaker 1: a lot, and I'm sure people are going through the
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  Speaker 1: same thing. What were you dealing with that you said,
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  Speaker 1: you know what, I gotta go see a therapist right now.
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  Speaker 1: Was it anxiety? What was it that you say I
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  Speaker 1: have to Yeah, yeah, well, you know, I've always struggled
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  Speaker 1: with anxiety. And then you know, just as a creative,
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  Speaker 1: I think almost every creative and of course you're all
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  Speaker 1: three of y'all feel that's just because y'all are curators.
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  Speaker 1: And then the attention that y'all give and and and
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  Speaker 1: and just to grab your platform, you know, to whom
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  Speaker 1: much has given, much is required and a lot of
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  Speaker 1: times people don't know. And of course y'all can amand
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  Speaker 1: this when you live in the public eye, your highs
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  Speaker 1: and your loans are different, and so that type of
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  Speaker 1: pressure that you live up under, it's not realistic. So um,
• 12:29
  Speaker 1: you know, just in the pressures of the world or
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  Speaker 1: are people trusting that you always got to answer and
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  Speaker 1: that you're always having to be ready to give an answer.
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  Speaker 1: Um can be very discouraging, can be very heavy, and
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  Speaker 1: and and I carried the weight of people's hurt very
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  Speaker 1: real life bro, Like no cap, I'm telling you, I
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  Speaker 1: would not be doing this music if I did not
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  Speaker 1: believe in the dude that I rock with. So it's
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  Speaker 1: like I got to have somebody to be able to
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  Speaker 1: blow this. Tim. I can't go to white people with
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  Speaker 1: that every day. You know. She made me to be
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  Speaker 1: strong with it. So it's like I got to go
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  Speaker 1: to somebody who I can go. Man, These Christians me off.
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  Speaker 1: It's like, man, somebody else got shot. Man, what do
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  Speaker 1: I do? Man? It's like people ain't working right now,
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  Speaker 1: you know. And I got a whole crew that I
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  Speaker 1: got to take care of. Man. You know what you
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  Speaker 1: and show that type of pressure is I need somebody
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  Speaker 1: to pour into me so that when I get on
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  Speaker 1: these incredible platforms with y'all, I'll have something to be
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  Speaker 1: able to say absolutely and Kirk, you know what's so
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  Speaker 1: interesting man, Um. You know to prior to the quarantine,
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  Speaker 1: my therapists had been trying to tell me for the longest,
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  Speaker 1: let go of things that you can't control, you know
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  Speaker 1: what I mean. And I could never grasp that concept
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  Speaker 1: until the quarantine because we had never experienced anything like coronavirus.
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  Speaker 1: So you know what I did, I flipped it right it.
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  Speaker 1: I started leaning more into my face side because I
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  Speaker 1: already had gotten what I needed from going to therapy
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  Speaker 1: all of those those those past these past couple of years,
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  Speaker 1: I started leaning into my face side, so it was
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  Speaker 1: more Bishop TD Jakes more, Stephen Fredick more pastor John
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  Speaker 1: Gray more minutes of you know what I mean. That
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  Speaker 1: is the job that I want to be able to
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  Speaker 1: communicate to culture as well, is that at the end
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  Speaker 1: of the day, you are spiritual beings. Is that if
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  Speaker 1: you live your life dependent upon the natural world to
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  Speaker 1: be able to feel something that the natural world does
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  Speaker 1: not have the ingredients to do. That's why, that's why
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  Speaker 1: it don't matter how good sex has been for a
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  Speaker 1: lot of human beings. A lot of people don't stay
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  Speaker 1: with that same one. You're always looking for something different,
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  Speaker 1: no matter how much that drug made you feel at
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  Speaker 1: that moment. You're looking for the next high, just because
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  Speaker 1: the natural world can't speak to the depth of the
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  Speaker 1: crime of your soul. Your soul was created for something
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  Speaker 1: bigger that the human world is not able to be
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  Speaker 1: able to fulfill it with. And so that's why I'm
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  Speaker 1: always fond of That's why I'm always trying to be
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  Speaker 1: a messenger to clean up what a lot of the
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  Speaker 1: history of Christianity has messed up. Because Christianity and Jesus
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  Speaker 1: are not always synonymous. Explain a little bit well, Christianity
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  Speaker 1: is the form in which we've brought to communicate what
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  Speaker 1: the teachings of Jesus is or what the chief of
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  Speaker 1: Jesus was. But in the sinfulness of man, throughout the
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  Speaker 1: narrative of that historical context, there has been a lot
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  Speaker 1: of distraction. There's been a lot of abuse or power.
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  Speaker 1: There's been a lot of misuse of the statements of
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  Speaker 1: Jesus Christ. But that does not mean that the historic
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  Speaker 1: individual of Jesus Christ and what he stood for, as
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  Speaker 1: for what he preached, it's always reflective in the actions historically,
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  Speaker 1: whether through the Crusades, whether through the conquest, whether through
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  Speaker 1: Jim Crow, whether through colonialism. Christianity was always leading in
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  Speaker 1: those narratives, and we've got to confess those sins. In
• 15:54
  Speaker 1: order to get it right, we've got to confess what's wrong.
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  Speaker 1: And so that's why I'm always an advocate for platforms
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  Speaker 1: like Apologetics to be able to communicate the historical, accurate
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  Speaker 1: narrative of the Gospel of Jesus Christ, as well as
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  Speaker 1: pointing out the bull and the foolishness that Christianity historically
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  Speaker 1: has done. Absolutely, I got one last question question for
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  Speaker 1: Brother Kirk. I was watching UM Bishop TV Jake's Sunday
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  Speaker 1: and this is a conversation that a lot of me
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  Speaker 1: and my folks have been having. Do you believe, Kirk,
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  Speaker 1: that we're in the end of times? You know? And
• 16:31
  Speaker 1: I think that a lot of people can be so
• 16:34
  Speaker 1: enamored with the conversation of what does this mean versus
• 16:38
  Speaker 1: what do we do? As I think that it's easier
• 16:42
  Speaker 1: to try to figure out what's happening out there instead
• 16:47
  Speaker 1: of looking at this moment to see what needs to
• 16:49
  Speaker 1: be fixed in here? Does that make sense what I'm
• 16:53
  Speaker 1: saying perfect sense? And so I would encourage people. I
• 16:59
  Speaker 1: encourage people to stop trying to be so worried about
• 17:02
  Speaker 1: where God is instead of trying to be more focused
• 17:06
  Speaker 1: on it's God with me. Who think you m thank
• 17:11
  Speaker 1: you appreciate this, thank you, thank you man. Yes, sir,
• 17:17
  Speaker 1: all right, it's Kirk Franklin. It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning,
• 17:21
  Speaker 1: it's topic time. The phone called eight hundred and five
• 17:29
  Speaker 1: eight five one oh five. Want to join it to
• 17:30
  Speaker 1: the discussion with the Breakfast Club, talk about it morning.
• 17:34
  Speaker 1: Everybody is DJ Envy Angela Yee, Charlomagne the guy. We
• 17:38
  Speaker 1: are the Breakfast Club. Good morning, good morning. What's happening?
• 17:41
  Speaker 1: Happy holidays? What we're talking about today? And if you
• 17:43
  Speaker 1: just join us, we're talking about mail B. Now she
• 17:45
  Speaker 1: does something I think it's pretty odd. You want to
• 17:47
  Speaker 1: explain what she does. She actually got a tattoo removed
• 17:50
  Speaker 1: of her ex. You know, she's getting divorced, and she
• 17:53
  Speaker 1: got instead of lazy removal for that tattoo, she got
• 17:55
  Speaker 1: it cut out of her body and she keeps the
• 17:57
  Speaker 1: skin in a jar. That's weird. That is called route.
• 18:00
  Speaker 1: That is voodoo, black magic. All right, you cut the
• 18:03
  Speaker 1: name off your skin, put it in the jaw, have
• 18:06
  Speaker 1: a little witch doctor or something, put a little whammy
• 18:08
  Speaker 1: on it. Don't nobody touched that job, because if you do,
• 18:10
  Speaker 1: the spell will be broken. And as long as that
• 18:13
  Speaker 1: name is in that jaw, Stephen Bellefonte will have erectile
• 18:17
  Speaker 1: this function for the rest of his life, or at
• 18:18
  Speaker 1: the least call up a frog or two. Everything from
• 18:20
  Speaker 1: the past goes in the garbage. Nothing from the past,
• 18:23
  Speaker 1: no letters, no pictures, nating, everything thrown away. Yeah. I
• 18:27
  Speaker 1: actually have a lot of things from x'es. I actually
• 18:30
  Speaker 1: have all my letters and cards and knows that I
• 18:33
  Speaker 1: used to pass in class and all of that in
• 18:34
  Speaker 1: a huge box. Well, I mean, listen, how long you
• 18:37
  Speaker 1: been with your woman? Twenty four years married seventeen? I've
• 18:39
  Speaker 1: been my woman twenty years married four Okay, I'm forty.
• 18:43
  Speaker 1: There's no exes, all right, I don't even remember what
• 18:47
  Speaker 1: an X is. A X is really from high school
• 18:50
  Speaker 1: because nobody really wrote letters after that. What I'm saying, so,
• 18:53
  Speaker 1: if your woman is still saving letters from high school,
• 18:57
  Speaker 1: that letter really means a lot to her, and that
• 18:59
  Speaker 1: person makes a lot to her, and that a person
• 19:01
  Speaker 1: that wrote that letter, you know, could never be duplicated,
• 19:04
  Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. Like I grew up as
• 19:06
  Speaker 1: a as a writer, like when I was young, and
• 19:09
  Speaker 1: you know, and I read a lot, and so I
• 19:10
  Speaker 1: keep all of those things even from like my friends
• 19:13
  Speaker 1: who are women but married. G imagine being married for
• 19:17
  Speaker 1: seventeen years, all right, and you've been with this guy
• 19:20
  Speaker 1: that you married too since y'all was kids. But you
• 19:23
  Speaker 1: keeping letter from the exes? That mean you keeping letters
• 19:25
  Speaker 1: from when you was like seventeen eighteen, like those first
• 19:29
  Speaker 1: feelings of love, those first feelings of love having been
• 19:34
  Speaker 1: duplicated at all? Like, no, what are you talking? No
• 19:37
  Speaker 1: man has ever made you feel the way that that
• 19:39
  Speaker 1: first person, So I don't I don't know. Why don't
• 19:45
  Speaker 1: we talking about magic fingers earlier? No? No, no magic fingers.
• 19:47
  Speaker 1: But I burnt those letters up and let what are
• 19:50
  Speaker 1: you talking about? Just joined us? I'm not talking about nothing.
• 19:52
  Speaker 1: What are you talking about? And I ain't told nothing?
• 19:54
  Speaker 1: You sound insecure, Natasha, Hi, good morning, Natasha, Good morning.
• 19:59
  Speaker 1: You keep anything from your X? I definitely do not.
• 20:02
  Speaker 1: The only thing I kept for my exes our son. Oh,
• 20:04
  Speaker 1: and I'm glad you kept that. I wouldn't let that go.
• 20:08
  Speaker 1: We don't show to you that I had to get
• 20:09
  Speaker 1: rid of the cell phone that I used to check
• 20:11
  Speaker 1: him from because I would search and I tripe em
• 20:13
  Speaker 1: day and then he pop up, even though he was deleted.
• 20:15
  Speaker 1: He too like, oh, I text with pop Up. I
• 20:17
  Speaker 1: was like, we gotta get rid of this, all right,
• 20:19
  Speaker 1: I tell you the manager. Thank you Mama. Now as y'all,
• 20:22
  Speaker 1: what's baby? What's up? Mama? Did she call you ladies?
• 20:25
  Speaker 1: I don't know what she called me? She said baby? Oh?
• 20:29
  Speaker 1: Now do you throw everything away from your past relationships?
• 20:32
  Speaker 1: I'm throwing everything away, like I'm not keeping nothing. What's
• 20:35
  Speaker 1: like the memories of an ex for Like, I'm throwing
• 20:39
  Speaker 1: everything away like I used to live being my wife
• 20:41
  Speaker 1: used to them together, and like you would come over
• 20:44
  Speaker 1: and still say, oh you got my shirt? You do.
• 20:46
  Speaker 1: I'm just trying to find ways to come back. And
• 20:48
  Speaker 1: I'm just like, baby, I threw every dake away. You
• 20:50
  Speaker 1: know you ain't got to come back for nothing else. Now,
• 20:52
  Speaker 1: what did she give you a Rolex? Oh that's differently
• 20:55
  Speaker 1: not that that's my brother. Oh, it is all about
• 20:59
  Speaker 1: the cost of the gift. You ain't giving back no Bentley.
• 21:01
  Speaker 1: You ain't giving back no type of car, and you
• 21:03
  Speaker 1: ain't getting back no jewelry. Now, y'all gonna be picky
• 21:09
  Speaker 1: and choosy about what you keep and what you give away. Well,
• 21:11
  Speaker 1: some things that x gives you ain't got no choice
• 21:13
  Speaker 1: but to keep like herpes. So to everybody out there,
• 21:18
  Speaker 1: everybody out there who X gave him her fees and
• 21:20
  Speaker 1: then he got no choice but delivered that and keep
• 21:22
  Speaker 1: that for the rest of their life. Hello. Who's this.
• 21:24
  Speaker 1: It's Rocky from Louvall. Rock Y. Do you keep anything
• 21:27
  Speaker 1: from your ex? Bro? No need to. I've been four years,
• 21:32
  Speaker 1: my girl for seven, and there's no need to. Bro.
• 21:34
  Speaker 1: You gotta hold on for something the paths, Bro, you
• 21:36
  Speaker 1: might as well try to hand back in that direction. Yeah, yeah,
• 21:38
  Speaker 1: that's how I feel. I don't understand why, you know
• 21:41
  Speaker 1: somebody would hold on to something from their past, especially
• 21:44
  Speaker 1: if they've been together for so long, Like imagine being
• 21:46
  Speaker 1: it was somebody for seventeen, ten years old and twelve
• 21:49
  Speaker 1: years old that they would ten somebody? Why so close?
• 21:53
  Speaker 1: I'm telling you, I'm just telling you. You're gonna point
• 21:55
  Speaker 1: point of finger, point of magic finger at me. I'm
• 21:56
  Speaker 1: just somebody was writing letters to my wife when they
• 21:59
  Speaker 1: were ten years old. She kept it his memories, is all.
• 22:01
  Speaker 1: That's so cute, and I burned them. I don't like it.
• 22:04
  Speaker 1: Whatever is in the past, and you shouldn't, y'all. Been
• 22:06
  Speaker 1: married for forty years? How long you've been married? Seriously,
• 22:10
  Speaker 1: y'all been together twenty four, twenty four. You don't read
• 22:12
  Speaker 1: the verd to be keeping stuff. That's what I said,
• 22:13
  Speaker 1: and that's why I burned them letters up. It's so
• 22:15
  Speaker 1: crazy because I do have it. Like I said, I
• 22:17
  Speaker 1: have a huge box filled with like letters from my
• 22:20
  Speaker 1: friends when they went away out of town from XS,
• 22:23
  Speaker 1: like everything together in a box. I haven't even separated
• 22:25
  Speaker 1: about recent ex you used to Still this is off
• 22:29
  Speaker 1: from like high school and college. Ain't nobody Rolex in
• 22:32
  Speaker 1: high school? Yeah, I'm talking about a box of letters.
• 22:34
  Speaker 1: Oh but my whole thing is what I'm saying is
• 22:36
  Speaker 1: that it doesn't really I never thought of it like
• 22:38
  Speaker 1: it's something that would be offensive to anybody. I used
• 22:41
  Speaker 1: to be nobody letters Now. I even found a watch
• 22:43
  Speaker 1: that somebody gave my my wife when I think they
• 22:45
  Speaker 1: were like twelve thirteen. I definitely ran over that watch
• 22:47
  Speaker 1: with my cart. She still got all these little trinkets,
• 22:50
  Speaker 1: all those little twelve days of Christmas when you bind
• 22:52
  Speaker 1: her all this stuff, and she's still keeping watches from
• 22:54
  Speaker 1: middle school and ten years old. So maybe they just
• 22:56
  Speaker 1: little que Q two. I think that's cute. But they
• 22:59
  Speaker 1: all going going down and that watch I ran over times.
• 23:05
  Speaker 1: Little memories are so cute. Rebecca, Hey, good morning, Rebecca. Um. Okay, yeah,
• 23:10
  Speaker 1: so I have like an Xbox I like not like
• 23:14
  Speaker 1: the video games. Yeah, I was like, okay, me too. Yeah.
• 23:17
  Speaker 1: So I dated this guy from like eighth grade the
• 23:21
  Speaker 1: senior year of high school, and I kept literally everything.
• 23:25
  Speaker 1: But the weird thing that I kept was he gave
• 23:28
  Speaker 1: me a lemon. Lemon suhere to God. He gave me
• 23:33
  Speaker 1: a lemon, and I still have it in the box.
• 23:37
  Speaker 1: Its not like rotten or anything. No, it doesn't smell
• 23:44
  Speaker 1: or anything. It's like hollow and hard, and I don't
• 23:48
  Speaker 1: like him in his heart? Why are you keeping it?
• 23:51
  Speaker 1: That's disgusting. It was like the reason why we started
• 23:55
  Speaker 1: talking in the first place. Do you like convinced me
• 24:01
  Speaker 1: that it was like this really rare like lemon from
• 24:05
  Speaker 1: like Cuba or something like that. I like, I don't
• 24:08
  Speaker 1: even know. Sounds like a red flag to me. He
• 24:10
  Speaker 1: lied to you immediately. That came from stop the Shop. Well,
• 24:13
  Speaker 1: if you fell in love with a man, they give
• 24:15
  Speaker 1: you a lemon, waiting till somebody gives you an apple
• 24:17
  Speaker 1: or watermelon. You're gonna really be head over hereade out
• 24:21
  Speaker 1: of that. I'm not. Don't curse, all right, Okay, the
• 24:26
  Speaker 1: moral of the story is, man, let's say a prayer
• 24:29
  Speaker 1: and salute everybody out there who is keeping things from
• 24:32
  Speaker 1: their exes that they can't give back like her pies.
• 24:35
  Speaker 1: Keep a lot. This to Breakfast Club. Breakfast Club Morning.
• 24:40
  Speaker 1: Everybody is DJ Envy Angela Yee Charlomane the guy. We
• 24:44
  Speaker 1: all the Breakfast Club. We have a special guest on
• 24:47
  Speaker 1: the line, an icon, a legend, and a true queen,
• 24:50
  Speaker 1: Miss Felicia Rashad. Welcome, Thank you, good morning. I feel
• 24:55
  Speaker 1: like you're my mom. I've been watching you for so long.
• 24:57
  Speaker 1: I just feel like I know everything about you. I
• 24:59
  Speaker 1: feel like your mom. Hey Mom, I just want to say,
• 25:00
  Speaker 1: good morning, Mom, Good morning sun. How you doing. He
• 25:05
  Speaker 1: too ready to be yours? He too ready to be
• 25:07
  Speaker 1: your No, he's not, he's not. Now. I hate zoom interviews,
• 25:13
  Speaker 1: and this is one time I really hate zoom interviews
• 25:15
  Speaker 1: because I would love to be in your presence. Absolutely,
• 25:17
  Speaker 1: that's very kind of Well, you know what, when we can,
• 25:21
  Speaker 1: we will. How have you been maintaining through this whole pandemic? Well,
• 25:25
  Speaker 1: let's see. First of all, I've been very grateful. I've
• 25:29
  Speaker 1: been very grateful to be in my home and to
• 25:32
  Speaker 1: have a home to be in. I've been very grateful
• 25:35
  Speaker 1: that my family and friends are fine. I've been very
• 25:39
  Speaker 1: grateful to be able to assist people in the ways
• 25:43
  Speaker 1: that I've been able to do um and I've had
• 25:47
  Speaker 1: work to do. Of course, it's different because everything is
• 25:52
  Speaker 1: through the computer. I pray we will not live like
• 25:55
  Speaker 1: this forever same because it ain't natural and it ain't
• 26:00
  Speaker 1: good for the eyes either. What what have you learned
• 26:06
  Speaker 1: about yourself mentally and spiritually? Anything? Now? Yeah, you know,
• 26:12
  Speaker 1: you ask that question, and I'm always a little hesitant
• 26:15
  Speaker 1: to say these things because well, anyway, I'll just say
• 26:18
  Speaker 1: it because you asked. It's so important to find that
• 26:22
  Speaker 1: silent space inside the mind. It's so important to find
• 26:27
  Speaker 1: that space, especially now because it's so much clatter and
• 26:32
  Speaker 1: so much chatter, and so much pull to the left
• 26:36
  Speaker 1: and then pull to the right and just being pull
• 26:38
  Speaker 1: pull pulled if you allow it to be that way,
• 26:41
  Speaker 1: and then the mind, you know, it has its own
• 26:44
  Speaker 1: way of jumping around. Oh so it's so important to
• 26:49
  Speaker 1: fund the silence. You know, what if we stopped pining
• 26:54
  Speaker 1: for the things that we think we don't have, and
• 26:58
  Speaker 1: look at what we do have and what we can do.
• 27:01
  Speaker 1: It's a much better place to come from, I think, yea,
• 27:05
  Speaker 1: and it allows us to create a better place. Right. So, yeah,
• 27:09
  Speaker 1: there are things that I that I do miss. I
• 27:14
  Speaker 1: miss live theater. Yeah. Just the other day I was
• 27:17
  Speaker 1: thinking how privileged we've been for so long without understanding
• 27:22
  Speaker 1: the fullness of our privilege to be able to go
• 27:24
  Speaker 1: to a movie, right, yes, yes, and be able to
• 27:27
  Speaker 1: sit in a theater or in a restaurant, or to
• 27:29
  Speaker 1: hug people, or to or to be with people when
• 27:32
  Speaker 1: they're making their transition from this form to the next.
• 27:37
  Speaker 1: You know, it's we didn't understand our full privilege and
• 27:43
  Speaker 1: maybe you know when we if it changes, well I
• 27:46
  Speaker 1: should say when it changes. I just don't know what
• 27:48
  Speaker 1: it's going to change to. But we'll come into it.
• 27:51
  Speaker 1: We should come into a better understanding of just what
• 27:55
  Speaker 1: the privilege of being with people is and maybe will
• 28:00
  Speaker 1: be kinder to one another. How are your kids been,
• 28:04
  Speaker 1: How are they are they been around or they been
• 28:06
  Speaker 1: staying away? How has that been? Well? My son lives
• 28:11
  Speaker 1: on the West Coast. My daughter at the beginning of
• 28:16
  Speaker 1: this pandemic. Had just returned from Italy. She had been
• 28:20
  Speaker 1: in Italy, and she had just returned, and I was
• 28:23
  Speaker 1: just returning from work on the Empire in Chicago. Then
• 28:27
  Speaker 1: everything shut down and my daughter wouldn't come and see me.
• 28:32
  Speaker 1: That's right, she did. But what she did do when
• 28:36
  Speaker 1: I was returning home, she come to the house before
• 28:40
  Speaker 1: I arrived, and she had stopped the refrigerator and the shelves,
• 28:44
  Speaker 1: and she said, Mommy, you don't go outside. You don't
• 28:46
  Speaker 1: go to the store. You stay here. And she would
• 28:49
  Speaker 1: call to make sure I was not outside, and I
• 28:52
  Speaker 1: had to laugh at that. I said, you're monitoring me,
• 28:56
  Speaker 1: like I'm you, but I'm not you. I'm me. And
• 28:59
  Speaker 1: when it's time, I'm going outside. They said the same thing.
• 29:06
  Speaker 1: They were like, no, no, no, no, no, I'm your parent.
• 29:08
  Speaker 1: I'm going out when I want. No. But don't think
• 29:11
  Speaker 1: for a moment that what you did and what you
• 29:13
  Speaker 1: said was not appreciated me. Ask your question, the Queen,
• 29:17
  Speaker 1: have you ever had to go off on any of
• 29:19
  Speaker 1: your real kids the way you went off on Vanessa
• 29:22
  Speaker 1: for going to see the Wretched And you're down in
• 29:24
  Speaker 1: Boaltimore having big fun, weren't you Vanessa, isn't that where
• 29:29
  Speaker 1: you were? Didn't you go down there to Baltimore and
• 29:31
  Speaker 1: have big fun? Vanessa? Tell me didn't you go for
• 29:33
  Speaker 1: big fun? Mom? Shut up? Don't you dare open your
• 29:38
  Speaker 1: mouth when I'm asking you a question. I only hope
• 29:41
  Speaker 1: that you can have the same experience, Vanessa. I hope
• 29:44
  Speaker 1: that one day you come to realize exactly how it
• 29:46
  Speaker 1: feels to think that your child's life is in danger.
• 29:50
  Speaker 1: You have taken us from levels of frenzy, panic, distress,
• 29:55
  Speaker 1: and now that we know you're okay, range I said,
• 30:00
  Speaker 1: I was sorry, this is not gonna happen. I know
• 30:04
  Speaker 1: you're lying right now. God man, are you kidding? Of course,
• 30:12
  Speaker 1: so within your motivation when you did that episode, understanding
• 30:17
  Speaker 1: what that energy is was helped. Yes, I understood that
• 30:22
  Speaker 1: energy very well. Yes, yea. I mean, you know, people say, oh, oh, dad,
• 30:29
  Speaker 1: you were just a perfect mother, and I look at
• 30:31
  Speaker 1: them and smile and say thank you. But you know,
• 30:33
  Speaker 1: it's easy when you're scripted and the children are scripted too,
• 30:38
  Speaker 1: But in real life there are new scripts. Yeah, you know,
• 30:41
  Speaker 1: you know the beauty of that wretched episode. I've lived
• 30:43
  Speaker 1: long enough to where I knew exactly what Vanessa's character
• 30:47
  Speaker 1: felt like. And then I've lived long enough to know
• 30:49
  Speaker 1: exactly what your character felt like. And that's something. Yeah, yeah,
• 30:55
  Speaker 1: because teenagers children was sneak. I mean, it's part of
• 30:59
  Speaker 1: being a team, right, Yeah, it's oh, come on, it's
• 31:06
  Speaker 1: so it's so much scarier it is. And it's not
• 31:10
  Speaker 1: young people's fault. We are very, very, very distracted, and
• 31:14
  Speaker 1: our children were being inundated with some of the worst
• 31:19
  Speaker 1: kinds of diversions. And He'll look up and it's they
• 31:23
  Speaker 1: have a language that you don't even know what you know.
• 31:27
  Speaker 1: I think that if if we as adults were cognizant
• 31:31
  Speaker 1: of the fact that every single thing we say and
• 31:35
  Speaker 1: do creates a memory for our young we might say
• 31:39
  Speaker 1: and do differently. Absolutely, because what do you really want
• 31:44
  Speaker 1: the young person to learn? And here's the question, what
• 31:48
  Speaker 1: is the most important thing for your young person to learn?
• 31:51
  Speaker 1: The most important thing that I wanted my children to
• 31:55
  Speaker 1: learn was who are you really? And that's an energy
• 32:00
  Speaker 1: journey and you don't get to go on the inner
• 32:02
  Speaker 1: journey pointing fingers outside of yourself. Another disturbing thing I
• 32:07
  Speaker 1: heard recently from two different sources who don't even know
• 32:11
  Speaker 1: each other. They both work in the field of pediatrics.
• 32:15
  Speaker 1: They're both pediatricians, and one they're friends of mine. And
• 32:19
  Speaker 1: one of them said that in her waiting room she
• 32:22
  Speaker 1: has these books for children. Right, a three year old
• 32:25
  Speaker 1: child picks up the book and doesn't know how to
• 32:27
  Speaker 1: turn the page. She tries to scan it. Lord have mercy,
• 32:32
  Speaker 1: Lord have mercy. Now that hurt. But this okay. And
• 32:37
  Speaker 1: then somebody on the other side of the country told
• 32:39
  Speaker 1: me the same thing, because young people are being given
• 32:43
  Speaker 1: these devices and they know and they know that this
• 32:46
  Speaker 1: becomes your source of information and your only source of information,
• 32:52
  Speaker 1: which means you're going to receive what somebody wants you
• 32:56
  Speaker 1: to receive. Right, I think we want out young people
• 32:59
  Speaker 1: to think deeper than that. All Right, we got more
• 33:01
  Speaker 1: with Felicia Rashard. When we come back, don't move. It's
• 33:03
  Speaker 1: to breakfast club. Good morning, I fashioned morning. Everybody's DJ
• 33:12
  Speaker 1: Envy Angela yee, Charlemagne the guy we are the breakfast club.
• 33:16
  Speaker 1: We're still kicking in with Felicia RASHARDA. Now I'm gonna
• 33:18
  Speaker 1: say from Houston, what made you come all the way
• 33:20
  Speaker 1: to the East coast to go to college, to go
• 33:21
  Speaker 1: to HBCU And why was it important to go to
• 33:24
  Speaker 1: an HBCU. The second real HU book ahead. Yeah. Well,
• 33:29
  Speaker 1: I wanted to be an actor and I wanted to
• 33:32
  Speaker 1: study drama, right, And I was applying to all these
• 33:36
  Speaker 1: schools and my father just looked at me and he
• 33:37
  Speaker 1: let me do all that, and he said, you're going
• 33:39
  Speaker 1: to Howard. And I said, oh, but Dad, what about
• 33:42
  Speaker 1: this one? At this he said, you're going to Howard.
• 33:44
  Speaker 1: I never thought about going to a school that wasn't
• 33:49
  Speaker 1: an HBCU, and that was because of my experience from
• 33:52
  Speaker 1: a child. Before I started elementary school, I was a
• 33:56
  Speaker 1: nursery school on the campus of Texas Southern Universe, trying
• 34:00
  Speaker 1: to play, you know, trying to play. I just wanted
• 34:03
  Speaker 1: you to see the Hampton alumni. I just wanted you
• 34:05
  Speaker 1: to see that. So my grandmother went to Hampton. Oh yeah,
• 34:10
  Speaker 1: oh yeah, Vivian Elizabeth Graham, Yes she did. She made
• 34:15
  Speaker 1: a great decision. Oh yes, she did. I realized, in
• 34:19
  Speaker 1: greater measure, how very fortunate I am to have attended
• 34:23
  Speaker 1: an HBCU, not only for the astute professors who were
• 34:27
  Speaker 1: teaching there, because they were of the highest caliber, but
• 34:31
  Speaker 1: also for the other side of life, that's social life.
• 34:35
  Speaker 1: That's socialization that helps to develop you as a as
• 34:39
  Speaker 1: a as an adult. You know, did you ever did
• 34:42
  Speaker 1: you ever lose yourself playing such an iconic role as
• 34:46
  Speaker 1: Claire Huxtable, meaning that you know, did you ever forget
• 34:50
  Speaker 1: who you were? No? Okay, okay, now that that that
• 34:55
  Speaker 1: that wasn't possible because every every day I came home
• 34:58
  Speaker 1: to my family here none of that Claire Hustable stuff.
• 35:03
  Speaker 1: When you walk in the hub, well, you know, it's
• 35:05
  Speaker 1: like no, it's it's like okay. So my best friend
• 35:09
  Speaker 1: from college came to see a taping and she said, Felicia,
• 35:11
  Speaker 1: you be shaved yourself taking those people's money for being
• 35:15
  Speaker 1: yourself and at home. I mean when I say this,
• 35:24
  Speaker 1: people imagine. I always imagine what my life was like child.
• 35:31
  Speaker 1: They had no idea. I would come home and cook
• 35:34
  Speaker 1: and prepare dinner from fresh produce, no canned anything, because
• 35:41
  Speaker 1: I want my family to eat healthily. Some things you
• 35:43
  Speaker 1: can get it again, but most things, vegetables and stuff
• 35:46
  Speaker 1: have to be fresh. And I would do that every day.
• 35:50
  Speaker 1: And in the early years of the show, let's say
• 35:54
  Speaker 1: a third year, I had my baby with me. I
• 35:59
  Speaker 1: was a nursing mother. I took gondola to the studio
• 36:03
  Speaker 1: with me every day. Wow. Yeah, And you know it's
• 36:08
  Speaker 1: and I came home with her at night and I
• 36:10
  Speaker 1: was with my family. I wasn't out club and I
• 36:14
  Speaker 1: wasn't you know, I wasn't doing stuff like that. I
• 36:16
  Speaker 1: didn't have time for that. And then you know, there
• 36:19
  Speaker 1: was school, and then there was homeworker. Her brother's thirteen
• 36:22
  Speaker 1: years older than she wasn't he was in the eighth
• 36:24
  Speaker 1: grade when she was born. And I mean, you know
• 36:27
  Speaker 1: there I was. I mean, it's like you gotta hit
• 36:29
  Speaker 1: it every day. So your daughter was born to be
• 36:32
  Speaker 1: an actress. She grew up in it. She was all
• 36:34
  Speaker 1: around it, she lived it. So she was she was
• 36:36
  Speaker 1: born to be an actress. She know she did. She
• 36:38
  Speaker 1: grew up around the work, and she saw what the
• 36:41
  Speaker 1: work was. Her work ethic is incredible, you know, speaking
• 36:45
  Speaker 1: of the work, I think you got black Box coming
• 36:47
  Speaker 1: out on the six right, Yeah, on the sixth. Yep month.
• 36:50
  Speaker 1: You've held the name of America's mother for so years.
• 36:53
  Speaker 1: Are you intentionally accepting roles in movies like A Fall
• 36:57
  Speaker 1: from Grace and black Box to kind of shift that
• 37:00
  Speaker 1: image you, I guess the villain. Wait, wait a minute,
• 37:11
  Speaker 1: let's explore that concept for just a moment. Evil evil. See.
• 37:21
  Speaker 1: One of the things we learn in acting is not
• 37:23
  Speaker 1: to judge our characters. You have to always understand what
• 37:27
  Speaker 1: a person is thinking and why the person's thinking it.
• 37:29
  Speaker 1: In my freshman year, one of my instructors said to me,
• 37:33
  Speaker 1: I was having a fit about something someone had done,
• 37:35
  Speaker 1: and he let me carry on and carry on, and
• 37:37
  Speaker 1: then when I calm down, he said, miss Allan, there's
• 37:40
  Speaker 1: something I want you to remember. Even when somebody's being
• 37:43
  Speaker 1: and I'll say this and so ob they think they're right. Now,
• 37:48
  Speaker 1: think about the times you've seen somebody act a complete
• 37:51
  Speaker 1: idiot and they think they're right. Yeah. I call that, um,
• 37:55
  Speaker 1: I got a curse. I call that dead momentum. Yeah,
• 37:57
  Speaker 1: but they think they're right. Yeah, yeah yeah. And it
• 38:00
  Speaker 1: just keeps building and building and building and building. So
• 38:03
  Speaker 1: as an actor, that's my job is to get inside
• 38:07
  Speaker 1: what their thought is, you know. So I'm not I'm
• 38:10
  Speaker 1: not trying to depart from anything. There are all kinds,
• 38:14
  Speaker 1: and it's interesting because they're all mothers, aren't they. Diana
• 38:17
  Speaker 1: Dubois other right right, and Sarah in a Fall from
• 38:23
  Speaker 1: Grace was what a mother? I mean you know, there's
• 38:27
  Speaker 1: all kinds of women in this world, and all kinds
• 38:30
  Speaker 1: of mothers too. You sound like you're about to play
• 38:36
  Speaker 1: the villain in the next Black panther. Right, do you
• 38:45
  Speaker 1: ever feel like certain roles of beneath you. I wouldn't
• 38:48
  Speaker 1: say beneath me. I would just say they don't resonate
• 38:51
  Speaker 1: with me. I don't like to be critical of other
• 38:54
  Speaker 1: people's work, because that's the easiest thing to be. I
• 38:57
  Speaker 1: just try to find what resonates with me. So what
• 39:00
  Speaker 1: resonates with me. A good story that's told well resonates
• 39:05
  Speaker 1: with me. A window of opportunity to explore creativity in
• 39:09
  Speaker 1: a new way that really resonates with me. You know,
• 39:13
  Speaker 1: black Box poses the question do we run our minds
• 39:16
  Speaker 1: or do our minds run us? Isn't that true? What
• 39:20
  Speaker 1: do you think? The answer to that question is, well, I, well,
• 39:27
  Speaker 1: what do you think do we run our minds or
• 39:31
  Speaker 1: do our minds run us? I think our minds run us,
• 39:36
  Speaker 1: but we have the ability to get ourselves back on
• 39:39
  Speaker 1: the proper cause, because I think we live in this
• 39:41
  Speaker 1: world where it's so much noise that if you pay
• 39:43
  Speaker 1: too much attention to the noise, people can start telling
• 39:48
  Speaker 1: you how you're supposed to be, but that's not necessarily you.
• 39:54
  Speaker 1: So you can silence that noise and really tap into
• 39:57
  Speaker 1: your mind and figure out the path you're supposed to
• 40:00
  Speaker 1: be on, not the path people want you to be on. Right,
• 40:03
  Speaker 1: That's why I you know, you asked me what I
• 40:06
  Speaker 1: had learned about my mind, and that's why I said
• 40:09
  Speaker 1: it was important to find the silence within my mind.
• 40:14
  Speaker 1: I agree with you. I think that most oftentimes we
• 40:20
  Speaker 1: people are run by our minds, and the mind often
• 40:25
  Speaker 1: runs amok, and here we are. Yeah, yeah, absolutely, And
• 40:33
  Speaker 1: by the way, it's fine too, right, because healing looks
• 40:35
  Speaker 1: different for healing is healing and strange like that, Like
• 40:38
  Speaker 1: one moment you're fine, the next minute you're bugging out.
• 40:42
  Speaker 1: And I think that's okay. It's all a process, it is.
• 40:45
  Speaker 1: But but do we want to keep just going through
• 40:47
  Speaker 1: that like that? No, No, I don't think so. I
• 40:51
  Speaker 1: don't think so. And you've just brought up something that's
• 40:54
  Speaker 1: really very interesting. You said, one minute you're fine and
• 40:57
  Speaker 1: the next minute you're bugging out. That's that brings to
• 41:00
  Speaker 1: my mind imagery of a pendulum. Yeah, yeah, we want
• 41:05
  Speaker 1: to bring that thing to center, right, because it will
• 41:08
  Speaker 1: wing as far to the left as it does to
• 41:10
  Speaker 1: the right and brought center. Yeah, all right, we have
• 41:14
  Speaker 1: more with Felicia Richard when we come back, don't move.
• 41:16
  Speaker 1: It's to Breakfast Club. Good morning everybody, as DJ Envy
• 41:28
  Speaker 1: Angela yee. Charlemagne the guy we are the Breakfast Club.
• 41:30
  Speaker 1: We're still kicking him with Felicia RASHARDA. Now, you mentored
• 41:34
  Speaker 1: Chadwick Boseman when he was in Howard. How did the
• 41:38
  Speaker 1: loss of him impact you? And and for people that
• 41:41
  Speaker 1: don't know him personally, tell us something that we might
• 41:43
  Speaker 1: not know about him. He's he's been up here a
• 41:45
  Speaker 1: couple of times, and he's donated money to the causes
• 41:48
  Speaker 1: that we were fighting for at the time. From South
• 41:51
  Speaker 1: Carolina like me, he's always been a good brother. So
• 41:54
  Speaker 1: tell us how that impact was. Well, you want to
• 41:56
  Speaker 1: know something about him that you might not know. Chad
• 42:00
  Speaker 1: Wick was given to study. He loved to study. He
• 42:05
  Speaker 1: studied through the lens of theater. First as a writer,
• 42:09
  Speaker 1: he studied the meanings of words. I mean, he studied
• 42:13
  Speaker 1: and you can see this kind of thoughtfulness in his work.
• 42:18
  Speaker 1: It's so subtle you don't notice it at first, but
• 42:21
  Speaker 1: you go back and you look at it again. He
• 42:23
  Speaker 1: was a consummate artist and without question, one of the
• 42:27
  Speaker 1: kindest and bravest people I've ever known. Definitely rested. I
• 42:33
  Speaker 1: wanted to ask you about the Drake video. When when
• 42:37
  Speaker 1: Drake called you to be in that video? Did you
• 42:39
  Speaker 1: even know who he was? Because I knew where you
• 42:41
  Speaker 1: think I live under a rock, I knew he was.
• 42:49
  Speaker 1: I hadn't been able to give answer to the to
• 42:52
  Speaker 1: the inquiry. When I talked to my daughter, she said, oh,
• 42:55
  Speaker 1: you have to do it. I said, okay, okay, okay,
• 42:58
  Speaker 1: I had so much fun. That can't be the first
• 43:00
  Speaker 1: time you've been asked to be in a rap video though, right, Yes,
• 43:03
  Speaker 1: it was right? Yeah, Wow, that's insane. Wow, it's popularly.
• 43:09
  Speaker 1: If you've been for all these years, you know, things
• 43:12
  Speaker 1: come when they should and don't when they shouldn't. There go,
• 43:16
  Speaker 1: How do you think Black Hollywood has evolved over the
• 43:18
  Speaker 1: years since since since you first came in it? Um,
• 43:21
  Speaker 1: there was always there were black people in positions that
• 43:24
  Speaker 1: we weren't always conscious of, but not maybe so many,
• 43:31
  Speaker 1: and now you see black people on many different levels,
• 43:36
  Speaker 1: in many different areas and many different positions. It's one
• 43:40
  Speaker 1: thing for what you see on the screen, but you
• 43:43
  Speaker 1: wouldn't see what's on that screen if it weren't for
• 43:46
  Speaker 1: the work of the people who are not on that screen.
• 43:49
  Speaker 1: And they are fundamental and essential to what it is
• 43:54
  Speaker 1: we see. So we need a total equity in this
• 43:59
  Speaker 1: nation of our arts that includes all people. In my career,
• 44:05
  Speaker 1: I have worked with only one Native American actor. That
• 44:08
  Speaker 1: will makes sense to me. I have worked with only
• 44:12
  Speaker 1: one Asian American actor. That doesn't make sense to me.
• 44:16
  Speaker 1: There's more for us to do in the field of inclusion.
• 44:21
  Speaker 1: There's more for us to embrace, and I look forward
• 44:24
  Speaker 1: to us doing that because I think that as a people,
• 44:28
  Speaker 1: we are more than ready for it. Now. I look
• 44:30
  Speaker 1: back on all of those shows that I grew up
• 44:32
  Speaker 1: on in the nineties, and man, it just seemed like
• 44:36
  Speaker 1: they were so brilliantly black, and I learned so much
• 44:39
  Speaker 1: from them, whether it was cosby different world, living single,
• 44:43
  Speaker 1: I mean even Martin, Like all of those shows like that,
• 44:45
  Speaker 1: I'm like, what did those sets look like? Because they
• 44:48
  Speaker 1: were they were so black that you would think that
• 44:51
  Speaker 1: everybody on the set with black, all the writers, the directors,
• 44:54
  Speaker 1: the people behind the camera, was or not like that. Nope, No,
• 44:59
  Speaker 1: it was wow. Not there were black people behind the camera.
• 45:04
  Speaker 1: There were black people in the writer's room, but everybody
• 45:08
  Speaker 1: was not black, No, but everybody was on board to
• 45:12
  Speaker 1: deliver an excellent program. And that's what matters, because all
• 45:18
  Speaker 1: black people don't think alike. And there were interns who
• 45:22
  Speaker 1: were being hired every year, and a number of them
• 45:24
  Speaker 1: were black, and some of them were not. Our stage
• 45:27
  Speaker 1: managers were black, and they were young people, and mister
• 45:31
  Speaker 1: Cosby wanted that, so we had that and they were good.
• 45:35
  Speaker 1: It was sharp. Young people are keep it fresh, keep
• 45:38
  Speaker 1: it new. Yeah, I mean, you know, there was a
• 45:40
  Speaker 1: way of including people of different ethnicities. You see it
• 45:44
  Speaker 1: reflected in the Rudy's friends. You see her little friends.
• 45:48
  Speaker 1: You see how there you see that. Okay, there was
• 45:51
  Speaker 1: a way of including people of ethnicities and generations that
• 45:57
  Speaker 1: was just a marvel to be a part of. And
• 46:01
  Speaker 1: he was not going to have grandparents insulted and made
• 46:04
  Speaker 1: fun of the way some shows do make fun of
• 46:08
  Speaker 1: people for being older. He said no, he said, no,
• 46:11
  Speaker 1: we're not doing that. Our young people show respect and
• 46:16
  Speaker 1: it's not a forced thing, it's inherent. And he insisted
• 46:20
  Speaker 1: on that. He insisted on a lot of great things,
• 46:23
  Speaker 1: even when they introduced hip hop and they bought in
• 46:25
  Speaker 1: Erica Alexander, and it wasn't like she was just some ghetto,
• 46:28
  Speaker 1: old ratchet young lady. You know, she was just a
• 46:33
  Speaker 1: person whose circumstances didn't deal with the best card, and
• 46:35
  Speaker 1: she wanted a better life. Yeah, and he understood that.
• 46:38
  Speaker 1: He understood that by virtue of the way he grew.
• 46:41
  Speaker 1: You still speak to the other cast members, because watching
• 46:43
  Speaker 1: it seems like you guys will be on the phone
• 46:44
  Speaker 1: with each other all day long. You don't think it's
• 46:47
  Speaker 1: a job. Do you still speak to those other cast
• 46:48
  Speaker 1: members at all? Every now and then I will hear
• 46:51
  Speaker 1: from Malcolm and Keisha, and they have beautiful children and
• 46:56
  Speaker 1: they love him. And I told Malcolm he's a finished item.
• 47:00
  Speaker 1: He is a daughter and he just can't he can't
• 47:03
  Speaker 1: give enough love. He's just he's finished. And you're done, brother,
• 47:10
  Speaker 1: You're done. It upset you that they don't people don't
• 47:14
  Speaker 1: want to air the episodes of the Cosby Show. Oh no,
• 47:16
  Speaker 1: it doesn't upset me. It uh, people still watch, People
• 47:21
  Speaker 1: will find ways to watch. You know, I won't be
• 47:24
  Speaker 1: upset by things because things change, right, I won't be
• 47:28
  Speaker 1: upset And I won't be upset by by things people do,
• 47:32
  Speaker 1: because people change. We see that. It's something to see
• 47:36
  Speaker 1: and to understand. Years ago, someone who loves me very
• 47:41
  Speaker 1: much told me. She said to me, an image can
• 47:44
  Speaker 1: be broken. Try to find out who you really are. Wow,
• 47:47
  Speaker 1: that's a that's tough to do in this business. It's not.
• 47:49
  Speaker 1: It's not. It's not tough to do, but it can
• 47:51
  Speaker 1: be a process, just because everybody's always trying to tell
• 47:55
  Speaker 1: us what our image should be. And when you open
• 47:58
  Speaker 1: up a magazine or you read a blog, people have
• 48:00
  Speaker 1: a perception of you like, Oh, that's what they like.
• 48:02
  Speaker 1: Let me give them more of that. So you become
• 48:04
  Speaker 1: a character of yourself and things become performative without you
• 48:07
  Speaker 1: even knowing it. That's a very interesting observation. It's what
• 48:11
  Speaker 1: happens in interviews that isn't happening in this one, and
• 48:13
  Speaker 1: I'm loving it. You know, when people interview you, they
• 48:17
  Speaker 1: come sometimes they come with their answers already in their
• 48:21
  Speaker 1: heads to the questions they've decided to ask you. Right,
• 48:25
  Speaker 1: so you want, what are we doing here? Why? Okay?
• 48:29
  Speaker 1: What what is this? What? What? What? Okay? Why have
• 48:34
  Speaker 1: a conversation with me? If you already think you know, yeah,
• 48:37
  Speaker 1: you know, okay, so that that's me. Know one thing,
• 48:40
  Speaker 1: if nothing else, you will leave this conversation thinking of
• 48:43
  Speaker 1: the person that I'm speaking to. That person will leave
• 48:45
  Speaker 1: the conversation knowing only what they thought they knew before
• 48:50
  Speaker 1: the conversation began. Well, we enjoy you, Queen Rashid, and
• 48:54
  Speaker 1: we could sit here and talk to you forever, and
• 48:56
  Speaker 1: we appreciate you for checking and we're so grateful and thankful.
• 48:58
  Speaker 1: Thank you so much, thank you, thank you. Booth and
• 49:01
  Speaker 1: please when you are in New York, please stop by
• 49:03
  Speaker 1: the studio absolutely, okay, y'all will Yeah. We have the
• 49:07
  Speaker 1: rose petals on the ground for you to walk on
• 49:09
  Speaker 1: and we have all that for you, t coffee, whatever
• 49:12
  Speaker 1: it is you need. Thank you all right, thank you
• 49:15
  Speaker 1: so much, Thank you queen. Thank you so much. For
• 49:17
  Speaker 1: Licia Rochard. It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning. Thank you.
• 49:21
  Speaker 1: Don't you get you are? I'm gonna fatten all that
• 49:36
  Speaker 1: around your man to dog and blowers man. They wait
• 49:39
  Speaker 1: for Charlomaye to talk to make a judgment. Who was
• 49:43
  Speaker 1: gonna be on the donkey of the day. They chose
• 49:45
  Speaker 1: you the breakfast Club, bitch. You who's Dunky of the
• 49:48
  Speaker 1: Day to Day. Dunkey of to Day goes to a
• 49:51
  Speaker 1: young eighteen year old rapper named why being Almighty Jay. Now,
• 49:54
  Speaker 1: why being Almighty JA is an anti social distance? And
• 49:57
  Speaker 1: you know what I say about antisocial distances. They are
• 50:00
  Speaker 1: the same type of folks who wouldn't have gotten on
• 50:03
  Speaker 1: the arc when Noah told him it was about the rain.
• 50:06
  Speaker 1: And we've seen so many stories of antisocial distances getting
• 50:10
  Speaker 1: sick and in some cases like Bishop Gerald Glenn who
• 50:12
  Speaker 1: said God is larger than Corona, well he died. So
• 50:18
  Speaker 1: when we tell you that you need to practice antisocial distancing,
• 50:21
  Speaker 1: we are telling you not just for your own good,
• 50:23
  Speaker 1: but for the good of others. Because we all got
• 50:25
  Speaker 1: things to do. We all need to get back outside
• 50:27
  Speaker 1: so we can get back to the real hustle of life.
• 50:30
  Speaker 1: And we can't do that unless we social distance and
• 50:32
  Speaker 1: flatten this curve. You see, social distancing is working all
• 50:35
  Speaker 1: around the country, so we need to continue to do
• 50:37
  Speaker 1: more of it so we can get back outside. Now,
• 50:39
  Speaker 1: why being Almighty J is upset with us because of
• 50:42
  Speaker 1: this rumor report? Let's hear it. I Being Almighty J.
• 50:45
  Speaker 1: He was tucking at TMZ and he said that he's
• 50:48
  Speaker 1: just not taking coronavirus seriously. Here's what he said, I've
• 50:50
  Speaker 1: been playing the game. I don't know I had been
• 50:55
  Speaker 1: really taking it serious. I just really tried to go
• 50:56
  Speaker 1: to him, but I still didn't have a life for others.
• 51:00
  Speaker 1: Even though you're supposed to be social distancing, of course,
• 51:03
  Speaker 1: we don't social business. Are you checking their temperature or
• 51:06
  Speaker 1: anything when they come in? Like, are you taking any precautions? Man?
• 51:10
  Speaker 1: So well, he's a young man who also has also
• 51:13
  Speaker 1: has unprotected sex with randoms, I'm sure. So if you
• 51:15
  Speaker 1: have unprotected sex with randoms, you damn trying afraid with
• 51:17
  Speaker 1: no afraid of no coronavirus. Right, So even though he's
• 51:19
  Speaker 1: staying in the house, you can't just be meeting women
• 51:22
  Speaker 1: and inviting them over during this time. You could be
• 51:25
  Speaker 1: infecting them with coronavirus once they infect you and you're
• 51:29
  Speaker 1: spreading it around. It's really times and maybe just be
• 51:32
  Speaker 1: celibate for a second. But he's the young man who
• 51:36
  Speaker 1: I'm sure it takes chances with his penis and has
• 51:38
  Speaker 1: a lot of unprotected sex with randoms. So he responded
• 51:41
  Speaker 1: to that by posting that on his Instagram, and he
• 51:44
  Speaker 1: put this caption some things in this world. I would
• 51:47
  Speaker 1: never understand. I get judged so much by lame ass
• 51:50
  Speaker 1: mother fffs that don't know me in real life. And
• 51:52
  Speaker 1: mother f was that just try hate on young negroes.
• 51:56
  Speaker 1: This right here? Crazy Swipe left to see a different
• 51:59
  Speaker 1: response to the same statement at Breakfast Club. Am old
• 52:03
  Speaker 1: miserable bitches? First of First of all, why Being Almighty
• 52:08
  Speaker 1: J compared to you? You're eighteen, I'm forty one. I'm old.
• 52:11
  Speaker 1: I get it. I may even be a bit depending
• 52:14
  Speaker 1: on the circumstances, and I'm fine with that, But miserable. Never.
• 52:18
  Speaker 1: My life is amazing. My self worth is more than
• 52:20
  Speaker 1: my net worth, but my network, my net worth isn't bad.
• 52:23
  Speaker 1: What'll say you? Envy is pretty good. I'm all right out.
• 52:26
  Speaker 1: Here's what say you? It's decent. Yeah, I'm happy, Okay, okay, okay.
• 52:31
  Speaker 1: So nobody's miserable in the room. Yeah everybody got all right? Okay,
• 52:36
  Speaker 1: all right now. Now, the reason why Being Almighty J
• 52:38
  Speaker 1: is getting dunkey today is because clearly he just wants attention.
• 52:41
  Speaker 1: He's sitting in the house quarantine and he's happy he
• 52:43
  Speaker 1: got mentioned on the Breakfast Club. And listen, if you
• 52:46
  Speaker 1: didn't like what we said. Cool, Okay, you have every
• 52:48
  Speaker 1: right to respond, but let's state the facts. You're posted
• 52:51
  Speaker 1: a clip with a Breakfast Club talking to Bootsey, and
• 52:53
  Speaker 1: you're edited the clip to make it seem like we
• 52:55
  Speaker 1: had nothing that we had something like we had something
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  Speaker 1: to say about you being an antisocial distancer, but didn't
• 53:02
  Speaker 1: reply to boosting you said. Swipe left to see a
• 53:04
  Speaker 1: different response to the same statement. Can we hear the
• 53:06
  Speaker 1: clip that Y being Almighty J posted on his Instagram
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  Speaker 1: and speaking of strangers, how long you've been with this woman?
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  Speaker 1: Because you got to be quarantining right now, so you
• 53:13
  Speaker 1: should be a social distancing so you must that social
• 53:19
  Speaker 1: disc and all that you know. We just seen a
• 53:24
  Speaker 1: couple of I guess a couple of weeks ago. It
• 53:27
  Speaker 1: was not mad at possibly hollering that Rihanna. Now, last
• 53:31
  Speaker 1: time I checked this Booty interview we did on Breakfast Club,
• 53:33
  Speaker 1: it got like a million view So clearly you are
• 53:36
  Speaker 1: one of those people who watched the whole interview, or
• 53:39
  Speaker 1: maybe you didn't watch the whole interview. I'm thinking you
• 53:41
  Speaker 1: didn't watch the whole interview, but no, I think you
• 53:43
  Speaker 1: did watch the whole interview, but you decided to edit
• 53:47
  Speaker 1: it to make yourself look good, even though you know
• 53:52
  Speaker 1: we pushed back on Bootsey being an antisocial distancer. Let's
• 53:55
  Speaker 1: hear it speaking of strangers, how long you've been with
• 53:57
  Speaker 1: this woman? Because you gotta be quarantining right now out
• 54:00
  Speaker 1: so you should be social distancing. So you must notice
• 54:03
  Speaker 1: you're not quarantine anywhere. About all that social distance and
• 54:06
  Speaker 1: all that quarantine. We threw a part of ads everywhere.
• 54:10
  Speaker 1: We don't say it, just it you don't people really sick.
• 54:14
  Speaker 1: I wouldn't say, you know, you don't believe in coronavirus, Boosey.
• 54:18
  Speaker 1: I think I had it off, but I don't give
• 54:20
  Speaker 1: about no coronavirus. Kind of basically live on faith. People
• 54:24
  Speaker 1: are dying, o Boosey. Yeah, but people are surviving too.
• 54:28
  Speaker 1: I get what you're saying. But you know they say
• 54:29
  Speaker 1: faith without works is then so if they tell you
• 54:31
  Speaker 1: that you can social distance and wear a mask to
• 54:34
  Speaker 1: prevent from getting it, you can you can work towards
• 54:36
  Speaker 1: not getting it, I guess. But I ain't trying to
• 54:40
  Speaker 1: let this stress me out as far as like like
• 54:42
  Speaker 1: getting throwing everybody else every day. I'm trying to I'm
• 54:45
  Speaker 1: trying to have fun, get money, and turn no busy.
• 54:48
  Speaker 1: Coronavirus is killing people. We got to flatten this curve. All.
• 54:52
  Speaker 1: He needed a little social distancing for a couple of weeks, right, Boosey.
• 54:55
  Speaker 1: Gotta stay healthy out there now though, Man, we're gonna
• 54:57
  Speaker 1: be all right. Man. All y'all gotta do is pray
• 54:59
  Speaker 1: up out. But I ain't messed with the corona though, Boosey,
• 55:02
  Speaker 1: I ain't messing with that. I'm scared. Yeah, and I
• 55:06
  Speaker 1: worry about you, Boosey, because you got diabetes and corona
• 55:09
  Speaker 1: is really taking people out who have pre existing health conditions. Man,
• 55:13
  Speaker 1: So you gotta be cautious, bro. Yeah, that's what they say.
• 55:16
  Speaker 1: But I gotta live. If it's time for me to die,
• 55:18
  Speaker 1: time me to die. Come on, almighty, j you heard
• 55:20
  Speaker 1: that as well. You knew that, young man, but you
• 55:23
  Speaker 1: wanted to manipulate your followers. You really wanted to show
• 55:26
  Speaker 1: your followers that the Breakfast Club is talking about you,
• 55:28
  Speaker 1: so you had to act fake mad and edit a
• 55:30
  Speaker 1: Boosey interview to create a story. You're you are acting
• 55:33
  Speaker 1: like the media. You claim to be mad at what
• 55:35
  Speaker 1: you did. It's clickbait. This is Donald Trumps six nine
• 55:39
  Speaker 1: level trolling. You are doing what a lot of people
• 55:41
  Speaker 1: in your generation do, and that's cloud Chase. Look, you
• 55:43
  Speaker 1: got five hundred and fifty comments out of the deal.
• 55:46
  Speaker 1: Congratulations sir. Matter of fact, let's see if we can
• 55:48
  Speaker 1: double that this morning. Let's have a petty party this morning.
• 55:51
  Speaker 1: Let's go to YBN Almighty J's ig page. That's what
• 55:54
  Speaker 1: it is. It's y B N A L M I
• 55:58
  Speaker 1: g h T y j A Y Why Being Almighty J.
• 56:01
  Speaker 1: Let's go to his page and leave the donkey emoji
• 56:04
  Speaker 1: and some handclaps in his mentions because he got the
• 56:07
  Speaker 1: attention he's looking for and we can celebrate that with
• 56:09
  Speaker 1: a round of applause. Okay, round of appolosophy, your editing skills,
• 56:12
  Speaker 1: round of applosphy, attention you received from doing this. Because
• 56:15
  Speaker 1: I don't think we've talked about the young man on
• 56:18
  Speaker 1: here before. I know why Being Cordey has been here,
• 56:20
  Speaker 1: Why Being Cordey is fantastic artist. I don't think you've
• 56:23
  Speaker 1: ever talked about Jay. But Jay, in case you're upset
• 56:25
  Speaker 1: with what I was saying by you still sleeping with
• 56:28
  Speaker 1: randoms during a global pandemic, you probably all used to
• 56:30
  Speaker 1: sleeping with women unprotected, so you're used to taking risk.
• 56:33
  Speaker 1: But the moral of the story is King, don't take
• 56:35
  Speaker 1: risk with your health. Okay, you don't have to yolo
• 56:38
  Speaker 1: your life away. You wouldn't play a game of Russian roulette,
• 56:41
  Speaker 1: would you? So why I play Russian Roulette with your
• 56:43
  Speaker 1: health by having random women come over to sleep with them.
• 56:46
  Speaker 1: I wouldn't say it's your life. But in a case
• 56:48
  Speaker 1: like this, it's not just your life because you're putting
• 56:50
  Speaker 1: other people at risk too, because you get sick, don't
• 56:53
  Speaker 1: show symptoms, run around wherever you live and possibly infect
• 56:56
  Speaker 1: other people, and you, sir, are a rapper, enters a
• 57:00
  Speaker 1: canceled and tell fall twenty twenty one. That means no
• 57:03
  Speaker 1: show money. You know why, because people like you don't
• 57:06
  Speaker 1: want to follow the rules and social distance. Okay, we
• 57:09
  Speaker 1: got to flatten the curve. So not only are you
• 57:11
  Speaker 1: going to be possibly sick, you might be potentially broke.
• 57:15
  Speaker 1: That money gonna get low, okay, So excuse me for
• 57:18
  Speaker 1: looking out for you, almighty j okay by telling you
• 57:22
  Speaker 1: that you need the social distance for once again, antisocial
• 57:25
  Speaker 1: distances are the same type of people who wouldn't have
• 57:28
  Speaker 1: gotten on the ARC when Noah told him too. So look,
• 57:31
  Speaker 1: we can tell you all data social distance, but if
• 57:35
  Speaker 1: you don't want to let him drown, please give the
• 57:38
  Speaker 1: young man Almighty J the biggest he hull, all right right,
• 57:45
  Speaker 1: and make sure make sure you go to YB and
• 57:47
  Speaker 1: Almighty J's Instagram page YB and A L M I
• 57:51
  Speaker 1: G H T y J A Y. Let's have a
• 57:53
  Speaker 1: little petty party, give him a round of applause and
• 57:56
  Speaker 1: also put the donkey emoji in his comments. And maybe
• 57:59
  Speaker 1: tell a young man why he should, you know, be
• 58:01
  Speaker 1: social distancing. He's eighteen. He just needs to learn, that's all.
• 58:05
  Speaker 1: God bless him. And you know how I know he
• 58:07
  Speaker 1: probably was a uh have an unprotected sex. I'm taking risk.
• 58:12
  Speaker 1: That's what I was doing that eighteen, all right. That's
• 58:16
  Speaker 1: that's how I know the donkey of the donkey of
• 58:20
  Speaker 1: the day or not. Everybody, please just be safe, okay,
• 58:23
  Speaker 1: you never know what's gonna happen. We've seen a lot
• 58:25
  Speaker 1: of people who did not think they could potentially catch it,
• 58:28
  Speaker 1: didn't take it seriously, end up getting sick or else.
• 58:33
  Speaker 1: Please take it seriously. That's all. We're saying that to
• 58:35
  Speaker 1: anybody who's not following a thank you for that. Say
• 58:41
  Speaker 1: it's anybody because you said it about one of your
• 58:43
  Speaker 1: some of your cowboys players, including Jack Prescott, So that's right.
• 58:47
  Speaker 1: I did give it the donkey day for that, that
• 58:49
  Speaker 1: can see. Yeah, all right, well thank you for that
• 58:51
  Speaker 1: donkey of the day, You old miserable bitch. You. I'm
• 58:54
  Speaker 1: not miserable. Old may be maybe an old bitch, and
• 59:00
  Speaker 1: I'm not miserable. All right. We got more coming up next.
• 59:03
  Speaker 1: We're a breakfast club. The breakfast club the relationship advice.
• 59:11
  Speaker 1: Need personal advice, just the real advice. Call up down
• 59:15
  Speaker 1: for ask ye morning. Everybody is DJ Envy, Angela Yee,
• 59:20
  Speaker 1: Charlomagne the guy. We are the breakfast club, A time
• 59:23
  Speaker 1: for asking ye Hello? Who's this? Try? I don't want
• 59:26
  Speaker 1: to stay anonymous? All right, anonymous, what's your question for you? Okay?
• 59:30
  Speaker 1: So me and my husband have been married almost two
• 59:34
  Speaker 1: years now. Before I started dating him, I was dating
• 59:39
  Speaker 1: a lot of women, so I'm not really like experienced
• 59:43
  Speaker 1: with like the oral stuff for men. So I tried
• 59:47
  Speaker 1: and he didn't like it. So we haven't had boil
• 59:51
  Speaker 1: sex in a while. But I feel confident in my
• 59:55
  Speaker 1: ability to perform where he can be pleased. But he
• 1:00:00
  Speaker 1: don't take me seriously because it's been so long since
• 1:00:03
  Speaker 1: he's had it. Okay, so you know what you're doing now,
• 1:00:07
  Speaker 1: you feel confident? Well, I don't. I wouldn't. I don't
• 1:00:10
  Speaker 1: even know if I I feel confident, But I don't
• 1:00:13
  Speaker 1: know if it's gonna be right until you know, I
• 1:00:15
  Speaker 1: actually try. But he won't let me try because he
• 1:00:18
  Speaker 1: doesn't want to be a guinea pig and end up
• 1:00:19
  Speaker 1: with some abrasions on his penis. Yeah, so I'm trying
• 1:00:22
  Speaker 1: to figure out how to set it up to where
• 1:00:25
  Speaker 1: he can be comfortable enough to allow me to see, okay,
• 1:00:30
  Speaker 1: what progression I've made, and then go from there. Okay,
• 1:00:34
  Speaker 1: so look, this is what I think. Right before you
• 1:00:36
  Speaker 1: guys get to it, when you're doing your four play,
• 1:00:39
  Speaker 1: you should ask him, can I just kiss it? I'm
• 1:00:41
  Speaker 1: not gonna do anything more than that, and then you
• 1:00:43
  Speaker 1: should kiss it, and then you should ton kiss it,
• 1:00:46
  Speaker 1: and then you should just do a little bit more,
• 1:00:48
  Speaker 1: a little bit more until you know he's feeling good
• 1:00:51
  Speaker 1: about it, and then you know that's when you go
• 1:00:54
  Speaker 1: a little bit more. But just make sure that you
• 1:00:56
  Speaker 1: keep your mouth very lubricated, don't use your teeth, tuck
• 1:00:59
  Speaker 1: them away. Okay, but I think you just want I
• 1:01:03
  Speaker 1: just I think you're starting to feel less confident what
• 1:01:11
  Speaker 1: we're definitely not talking about that, but I just listen,
• 1:01:14
  Speaker 1: just started off. So just say, look, I'm just gonna
• 1:01:16
  Speaker 1: kiss it. I'm not gonna do anything else. And then
• 1:01:18
  Speaker 1: when you kiss it, right, kissing could mean anything. It
• 1:01:20
  Speaker 1: could be closed mouth, open mouth, and then you know,
• 1:01:23
  Speaker 1: just play around with that area and then if he
• 1:01:25
  Speaker 1: likes it, he'll be okay with you going a little further.
• 1:01:28
  Speaker 1: If he likes it, though, ask him because as a man,
• 1:01:34
  Speaker 1: he may he may just accept it just because the
• 1:01:38
  Speaker 1: love of me as his wife, but he may not
• 1:01:40
  Speaker 1: want to actually tell me that he's enjoying what's happening.
• 1:01:43
  Speaker 1: So I'm trying to like what signs I should look
• 1:01:46
  Speaker 1: for when well, first of all, there's nothing better than
• 1:01:49
  Speaker 1: asking a direct question, and you can ask it like, okay,
• 1:01:52
  Speaker 1: do you like that? Well, tell me what you want
• 1:01:54
  Speaker 1: me to do, and I'm gonna do it and be like,
• 1:01:56
  Speaker 1: how would you like it better? What? You know, just
• 1:01:58
  Speaker 1: ask those questions, but you could do it in a
• 1:02:00
  Speaker 1: sexy way so that he's gonna direct you to the
• 1:02:03
  Speaker 1: way to do it and just be like, leg, tell
• 1:02:04
  Speaker 1: me what to do. Uh huh. Okay, well I will
• 1:02:07
  Speaker 1: try that and I'll let you know how to go.
• 1:02:09
  Speaker 1: Thank you. I cannot wait to hear about it. All right,
• 1:02:14
  Speaker 1: you guys talk a good morning you too, And that
• 1:02:17
  Speaker 1: was another edition service all right, it really didn't sound
• 1:02:25
  Speaker 1: like you was talking about DJ Envy riding his bike
• 1:02:27
  Speaker 1: though I'm not gonna go why why, because that's what
• 1:02:29
  Speaker 1: he's visualizing. I had to think about talking about I'm
• 1:02:33
  Speaker 1: gonna marry man. You got these fantasies about me and
• 1:02:35
  Speaker 1: I don't like it. I'm starting to feel uncomfortable. You're
• 1:02:38
  Speaker 1: a liar. What's with you? I'm gonna keep a real
• 1:02:44
  Speaker 1: get some real advice with Anthela. Yet's ask ye morning?
• 1:02:48
  Speaker 1: Everybody is cj Envy and Ngela Yee, Charlomagne the god
• 1:02:52
  Speaker 1: be all the breakfast club. But in the middle of
• 1:02:54
  Speaker 1: ask ye what you want to go to ye yes?
• 1:02:56
  Speaker 1: Line for Hello? Who's this? Hey? This is poor show
• 1:02:59
  Speaker 1: called from Chuston. What's your question for you? Okay? So
• 1:03:05
  Speaker 1: I have a question. Um. Basically, I've been dealing with
• 1:03:08
  Speaker 1: some sexual harassment at my job with my supervisor m
• 1:03:12
  Speaker 1: so I took the appropriate steps we to hr even
• 1:03:15
  Speaker 1: talked to a lawyer about the situation, but it seems
• 1:03:18
  Speaker 1: like they're not trying to let this manager go. So
• 1:03:21
  Speaker 1: it was like, what's the next step. What should I
• 1:03:23
  Speaker 1: do from this point on? Should I just find another job?
• 1:03:26
  Speaker 1: Should I keep pushing the issue because I feel like
• 1:03:29
  Speaker 1: he's retaliaing. You feel like he's you feel like he's retaliating.
• 1:03:33
  Speaker 1: You said yes, like, give me some examples. Um, Basically,
• 1:03:38
  Speaker 1: like he tried to put me on third shift without
• 1:03:40
  Speaker 1: telling me, which was one thing. Another thing, he nick
• 1:03:45
  Speaker 1: picks at little things that he claimed I'm doing wrong
• 1:03:48
  Speaker 1: because I'm an industrial technician. So I worked through maintenance
• 1:03:51
  Speaker 1: department seeing that I'm one of the girls with a
• 1:03:54
  Speaker 1: bunch of guys. Um, he just kind of nickpicks at
• 1:03:57
  Speaker 1: me for little things that I feel like, it's like
• 1:04:00
  Speaker 1: not even serious to nick pick over because he never
• 1:04:03
  Speaker 1: did before until I went to HR about him. Okay,
• 1:04:06
  Speaker 1: so here's a couple of things. First of all, you
• 1:04:10
  Speaker 1: said that you've complained, right, yes, So I went to
• 1:04:12
  Speaker 1: HR twice and so their response is what, we're gonna
• 1:04:17
  Speaker 1: work on it. We're gonna work on him. We're gonna
• 1:04:20
  Speaker 1: try to figure out how we're going to make you
• 1:04:21
  Speaker 1: comfortable wire being here because we know you're not, but
• 1:04:25
  Speaker 1: that's pretty much it. And they're dragging their seat about
• 1:04:28
  Speaker 1: letting them go or you know, what are they going
• 1:04:31
  Speaker 1: to do with the supervisor? I had proofs that he
• 1:04:34
  Speaker 1: did that right, text message and everything. So you have
• 1:04:36
  Speaker 1: all of this in writing and you've emailed them and
• 1:04:39
  Speaker 1: they've responded via email. I highly recommend you get yourself
• 1:04:43
  Speaker 1: a lawyer. That's when they take things seriously, okay, And
• 1:04:46
  Speaker 1: you should not ever have to work under those circumstances.
• 1:04:49
  Speaker 1: You should feel safe and protected at work. If you
• 1:04:51
  Speaker 1: go to HR with a complaint and evidence that somebody
• 1:04:53
  Speaker 1: is doing this see you and making you feel this
• 1:04:55
  Speaker 1: way at work and you're uncomfortable and you're feeling belittled,
• 1:04:58
  Speaker 1: then you need to make sure that you take those
• 1:05:00
  Speaker 1: matters into your own hand, because you have the power
• 1:05:02
  Speaker 1: to do that. Okay, Well, I'll probably just go back
• 1:05:05
  Speaker 1: to the attorney I was talking to. She told me
• 1:05:07
  Speaker 1: that the only way she can take my cases at
• 1:05:09
  Speaker 1: the job was to fire me or there was no
• 1:05:13
  Speaker 1: changes moving forward. So because there's no changes, I'm just
• 1:05:16
  Speaker 1: going to go back to her. Yeah. Absolutely, And it
• 1:05:19
  Speaker 1: sounds like you have a legitimate case. You have these
• 1:05:21
  Speaker 1: text messages. Plus, I think you have to keep a
• 1:05:23
  Speaker 1: record of what's been happening at work since you've been
• 1:05:26
  Speaker 1: complaining to hr and all the things that he's been
• 1:05:29
  Speaker 1: Every detail that you can get, and anything that you
• 1:05:31
  Speaker 1: can get in writing as evidence you should try to
• 1:05:34
  Speaker 1: get and make sure you send those emails, make sure
• 1:05:37
  Speaker 1: you show what their responses are, present all of those
• 1:05:39
  Speaker 1: to a lawyer. You definitely have a case. And I
• 1:05:41
  Speaker 1: think this is great because you don't want this to
• 1:05:43
  Speaker 1: happen to somebody else. So it's great that you spoke up.
• 1:05:46
  Speaker 1: You've done what you're supposed to do on your part.
• 1:05:48
  Speaker 1: They haven't done what they're supposed to do on their
• 1:05:50
  Speaker 1: behalfs And now it's trying to move it to the
• 1:05:52
  Speaker 1: next level. Hey look, heah, you ain't got no You
• 1:05:54
  Speaker 1: ain't got none of your cousins that can come box
• 1:05:56
  Speaker 1: him any more. I mean, I do got cousins who
• 1:05:59
  Speaker 1: want to come ball walk him out now, but less
• 1:06:01
  Speaker 1: it's like, I don't this is a white man, So
• 1:06:04
  Speaker 1: I don't want my people to getting lonk off for
• 1:06:06
  Speaker 1: that though, And I ain't carrying a white man now.
• 1:06:08
  Speaker 1: That man ain't got no business trying to feel on
• 1:06:10
  Speaker 1: your bunkie at work now. Yeah, you be trying to
• 1:06:13
  Speaker 1: talk what you want touch to the tattoo and all
• 1:06:15
  Speaker 1: kind of stuff you want to touch the tattoo like
• 1:06:20
  Speaker 1: you damn man, you are not getting none of your
• 1:06:22
  Speaker 1: families locked up over there. Well, I need your cousin
• 1:06:24
  Speaker 1: to walker of course, relaxed, stay out of get you
• 1:06:28
  Speaker 1: full conversation, give me a face. I want to full
• 1:06:32
  Speaker 1: conversation now, stay out of the joke. Out of her
• 1:06:35
  Speaker 1: sexual harassment. No joke. I'm talking to her in our
• 1:06:38
  Speaker 1: native language. Just get you Charleston golor eight four three
• 1:06:41
  Speaker 1: all day. Yeah, but I'm at your girl. I know
• 1:06:44
  Speaker 1: it has to be tough for you to go to
• 1:06:45
  Speaker 1: work every day under those circumstances and not feel like
• 1:06:48
  Speaker 1: anybody cares. I'm so uncomfortable every day, and it's like
• 1:06:51
  Speaker 1: I left work today just to get away. It took
• 1:06:53
  Speaker 1: a sick day just to be there with them. Yeah,
• 1:06:56
  Speaker 1: that's a terrible feeling. So you have to nip this
• 1:06:59
  Speaker 1: in the butt and let them know you ain't gonna
• 1:07:01
  Speaker 1: keep this going. I have the power over you, and
• 1:07:03
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna make y'all look crazy exactly. Thank you, Charlomagne.
• 1:07:07
  Speaker 1: I love you, though, I love you, Mom. I'm city
• 1:07:11
  Speaker 1: is doing you got your cousins? I need to shut
• 1:07:13
  Speaker 1: up by punching them off. Thank you so much. I
• 1:07:15
  Speaker 1: was thinking about it. If you sneaking, sneak asking ye,
• 1:07:21
  Speaker 1: eight hundred and five five one oh five one. If
• 1:07:23
  Speaker 1: you need relationship advice, yeah, help you out. Now keep
• 1:07:26
  Speaker 1: a lock. It's the breakfast club. Good morning, the breakfast Club.
• 1:07:31
  Speaker 1: It's that time ask Charlomagne a dj envy anything up?
• 1:07:37
  Speaker 1: Pick it up, it up? It's time to ask morning.
• 1:07:42
  Speaker 1: Everybody is dj envy Angela. Ye, Charlomagne the guy. We
• 1:07:46
  Speaker 1: are the breakfast Club. Now it's time for as C
• 1:07:49
  Speaker 1: and e. Angeli is out, so Charlomagne and I will
• 1:07:52
  Speaker 1: be holding it down. So let's go to the callers. Hello,
• 1:07:54
  Speaker 1: who's this? Then? What's up? Bro? What's your question for?
• 1:07:58
  Speaker 1: C an E? Order me something? Man? All mean something? Man?
• 1:08:01
  Speaker 1: Give me something? Ain't Charlomagne? Yeah, listen, I got a
• 1:08:05
  Speaker 1: question for your real quick like Look I got I'll
• 1:08:08
  Speaker 1: be married for like so too. Ment me right. I'm
• 1:08:11
  Speaker 1: just saying with menitary, I got one hundred percent disabilities.
• 1:08:14
  Speaker 1: I originally called who say something about my wife? But
• 1:08:18
  Speaker 1: if this anyway, look I need your help. I needed
• 1:08:20
  Speaker 1: your help like a year ago because one of my
• 1:08:24
  Speaker 1: disabilities is that is and all the stuff, and I
• 1:08:27
  Speaker 1: almost cute my fla. I got two kids, right, and
• 1:08:30
  Speaker 1: so reasually, why I'm calling me is because you always
• 1:08:34
  Speaker 1: speak a mental health right, and I'm Domnicans, I'm Dominican, right,
• 1:08:38
  Speaker 1: so we don't believe in that stuff, just like black people.
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  Speaker 1: You know what I mean. I can see myself like,
• 1:08:44
  Speaker 1: not that I consider myself black, That's not what I'm saying,
• 1:08:47
  Speaker 1: but we are. You know what I'm saying. Okay, that's
• 1:08:50
  Speaker 1: what I'm Okay, cool, I want you to take my
• 1:08:53
  Speaker 1: number because I'm gonna need you. You know what I'm saying.
• 1:08:55
  Speaker 1: Because I'm getting help right now with my mental health.
• 1:08:59
  Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, And I'm getting better. But
• 1:09:02
  Speaker 1: what I'm saying is I try to call these organizations
• 1:09:04
  Speaker 1: before because I feel like, you know how sometime guy
• 1:09:07
  Speaker 1: tells you to like do something, and you you either
• 1:09:10
  Speaker 1: listen to it or you don't. You know what I'm saying.
• 1:09:13
  Speaker 1: So I was calling you back then when I was
• 1:09:14
  Speaker 1: in my darkest place because I feel that you had
• 1:09:17
  Speaker 1: the answer to help me out. Well, I'll tell you what.
• 1:09:20
  Speaker 1: I don't have all the answers, you know what I'm saying.
• 1:09:22
  Speaker 1: I'm still going on my journey, just like you going
• 1:09:24
  Speaker 1: on your journey. But I do have a lot of
• 1:09:26
  Speaker 1: resources and a lot of people that you can talk to,
• 1:09:29
  Speaker 1: people that you know have have helped me get through.
• 1:09:31
  Speaker 1: And I have no problem sharing those resources with you,
• 1:09:34
  Speaker 1: my my Dominican brother. Okay, hold on, hold one second.
• 1:09:37
  Speaker 1: We're gonna get your information. But I got a real
• 1:09:40
  Speaker 1: question for the brother though. Ok ahead, go ahead, ask
• 1:09:43
  Speaker 1: me a question. You're a Dominican, right, yes, sir? How
• 1:09:47
  Speaker 1: many pair of white jeans do you own? Or have
• 1:09:49
  Speaker 1: you owned? I knew it throughout your life? Seriously? Old on,
• 1:09:53
  Speaker 1: like seriously, probably like once or twice because there was
• 1:09:56
  Speaker 1: a white party and I needed everything white. Okay, okay,
• 1:10:01
  Speaker 1: so all the many kids don't have white jeans? Show
• 1:10:03
  Speaker 1: me hold on, man, yes to that man about his
• 1:10:05
  Speaker 1: white jeans. Man, I'm about to get your I'm gonna
• 1:10:07
  Speaker 1: get your number. Leave your number with the producer. I'm
• 1:10:09
  Speaker 1: gonna hit you up. I'm hit you in the show
• 1:10:10
  Speaker 1: over in like an hour. All right, goodness, gracious, hello,
• 1:10:14
  Speaker 1: who's this yo? This magic? Magic? Questions to me? Yo, man,
• 1:10:18
  Speaker 1: I got I got some questions, man, A little relationship
• 1:10:21
  Speaker 1: problem I got going on right now, go on my
• 1:10:24
  Speaker 1: girl for a year. She got three kids and uh,
• 1:10:27
  Speaker 1: she's pregnant now with the fourth one by me. This
• 1:10:31
  Speaker 1: is my first one, but like it ain't even she
• 1:10:34
  Speaker 1: got three from another man. She got three different baby daddies.
• 1:10:39
  Speaker 1: Well she has four now four baby daddy now, well ahead, okay, yeah,
• 1:10:42
  Speaker 1: and then it's been rough to me. Man, It's like
• 1:10:45
  Speaker 1: I go through hell. I do everything she hasked me
• 1:10:47
  Speaker 1: to do. Basically, I've been a dude boy for her
• 1:10:49
  Speaker 1: since she's been pregnant. And she called me selfish just
• 1:10:53
  Speaker 1: because like I complain or something like that for getting
• 1:10:57
  Speaker 1: up in the middle of the night doing something for her.
• 1:10:59
  Speaker 1: Like I'm wanted to sold to shut up. But she
• 1:11:02
  Speaker 1: don't respect you, bron. It's kind of hard to respect
• 1:11:05
  Speaker 1: the fourth baby daddy. You know what I'm saying. Yeah,
• 1:11:08
  Speaker 1: I'm scared for my life though for real, man, I
• 1:11:10
  Speaker 1: ain't say she put hands on you. Yeah she has
• 1:11:14
  Speaker 1: she has, Yeah, yeah, I ain't. You know what I'm saying.
• 1:11:19
  Speaker 1: This is this one time incident, but that's what she
• 1:11:21
  Speaker 1: used to know that in her path and I'm toxic woman.
• 1:11:25
  Speaker 1: I'm not that guy you know from you. I'm not
• 1:11:28
  Speaker 1: your eggs baby daddy or nothing like that. Want to
• 1:11:30
  Speaker 1: come home, get drunk and put you know, put my
• 1:11:32
  Speaker 1: hands on your stuff like that. You know, I communicate,
• 1:11:35
  Speaker 1: you know, just talk to me with whatever the problem is,
• 1:11:38
  Speaker 1: we'll try to solve instead of this argument back and forth.
• 1:11:40
  Speaker 1: But like I said, she ain't got the here hood
• 1:11:43
  Speaker 1: and not so pregnant now and Nazi time. I set
• 1:11:47
  Speaker 1: want to be with me, no mode, And that's not
• 1:11:48
  Speaker 1: what I wanted my wife, my first job. I wanted
• 1:11:50
  Speaker 1: to be old family, not just I feel bad for you,
• 1:11:54
  Speaker 1: BROI with somebody that's toxic. Oh man, are you taking
• 1:12:00
  Speaker 1: other three kids too? I'm thirty one having my first child,
• 1:12:03
  Speaker 1: and it ain't how I wanted to be a crazy
• 1:12:09
  Speaker 1: boy If you don't listen to me, are you taking
• 1:12:10
  Speaker 1: care of others? Three kids? Barely? Are you taking care
• 1:12:15
  Speaker 1: of them? So you are? You know what I'm saying,
• 1:12:17
  Speaker 1: Like I'll do what she asked me to do for
• 1:12:18
  Speaker 1: them or whatnot? Boy, listen if the roles were reversed
• 1:12:23
  Speaker 1: and you was dating a toxic man with four different
• 1:12:26
  Speaker 1: baby mamas who put hands on you what would your
• 1:12:29
  Speaker 1: girls be telling you to do? Leave? People sen telling
• 1:12:32
  Speaker 1: me to leave, But I just didn't listen. I don't
• 1:12:34
  Speaker 1: know why I really listen to goddamn girlfriends. Your girlfriend
• 1:12:39
  Speaker 1: right now, you said you fair for your life. She
• 1:12:42
  Speaker 1: puts hands on you, She makes you do everything. You
• 1:12:44
  Speaker 1: sound like you do everything, and you're about to lose it.
• 1:12:47
  Speaker 1: So you better leave her alone before she hit you
• 1:12:48
  Speaker 1: with an envy front pen greet your girlfriends. Envya's Joan Clayton.
• 1:12:55
  Speaker 1: We're telling you to leave Maya. Okay, Actually you would
• 1:12:59
  Speaker 1: be leaving this situation like this something Lynne would get
• 1:13:01
  Speaker 1: herself into. All right, you got she got three kids
• 1:13:04
  Speaker 1: already from three different baby daddies. He got one on
• 1:13:06
  Speaker 1: the way from you. Be a father to your child.
• 1:13:09
  Speaker 1: But this sounds like a very toxic human that you're
• 1:13:11
  Speaker 1: dealing with. And she needs to get some healing. And
• 1:13:14
  Speaker 1: when she gets some healing, it becomes the woman that
• 1:13:16
  Speaker 1: you need her to be. Then you can be with her.
• 1:13:18
  Speaker 1: I told her, I told her time about getting married
• 1:13:21
  Speaker 1: and stuff before the baby get here. I told her,
• 1:13:22
  Speaker 1: you want to do that, we gotta to go to
• 1:13:24
  Speaker 1: counsel and she told us he don't need that really,
• 1:13:27
  Speaker 1: it's a stressful, man, it's really putting a tote only
• 1:13:30
  Speaker 1: for real. You know what toxic people do. They never
• 1:13:33
  Speaker 1: let things go. They can't move forward. They bully, they intimidate,
• 1:13:36
  Speaker 1: they lie, they create drama, they play the victim, and
• 1:13:39
  Speaker 1: they act out of fear and insecurity. That's all that
• 1:13:42
  Speaker 1: person is doing to you right now. You gotta go, bro,
• 1:13:44
  Speaker 1: be a father to your child. That's a very toxic woman.
• 1:13:47
  Speaker 1: She sounds like the future of females. Repeat after me.
• 1:13:50
  Speaker 1: I am strong. I am strong. I will not let
• 1:13:54
  Speaker 1: her hit me anymore. I will not let her hit
• 1:13:57
  Speaker 1: me anymore. What do anymore? That's right? I am strong,
• 1:14:04
  Speaker 1: I am a good man, and I am a good father.
• 1:14:07
  Speaker 1: I am strong. I am a good man, and I
• 1:14:09
  Speaker 1: will be a good father. You go where you got
• 1:14:11
  Speaker 1: that written down? That envy? And why are you that's
• 1:14:14
  Speaker 1: your daily affirmation. I'm trying to give him the self
• 1:14:16
  Speaker 1: esteem to make him feel good this morning. Man, brother,
• 1:14:18
  Speaker 1: you go out there, you have a great day, and
• 1:14:20
  Speaker 1: you take care of business. I brother, eliminate all toxic
• 1:14:22
  Speaker 1: people from your life. Man, Why we always give people
• 1:14:25
  Speaker 1: more chances than they deserve? Why do we do that? Man?
• 1:14:28
  Speaker 1: A little self esteem all right, we got more coming
• 1:14:30
  Speaker 1: up next. We're a breakfast club. Call me and your
• 1:14:41
  Speaker 1: opinions to the Breakfast Club top on eight five five
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  Speaker 1: one five, one morning. Everybody is DJ Envy, Angela Yee,
• 1:14:51
  Speaker 1: Charlemagne the guy. We are the breakfast Club. Good morning,
• 1:14:54
  Speaker 1: Good morning, what's happening? Happy holidays? What we're talking about today?
• 1:14:56
  Speaker 1: Now if you just join us, we're talking about mail b.
• 1:14:59
  Speaker 1: Now she does something. I think it's prettydd. You want
• 1:15:00
  Speaker 1: to plame what she does? She actually got a tattoo
• 1:15:03
  Speaker 1: removes off her ex. You know, she's getting divorced, and
• 1:15:06
  Speaker 1: she got instead of laser removal for that tattoo, she
• 1:15:09
  Speaker 1: got it cut out of her body and she keeps
• 1:15:11
  Speaker 1: the skin in a jar. That's weird. That is called root.
• 1:15:14
  Speaker 1: That is voodoo, black magic. All right, you cut the
• 1:15:17
  Speaker 1: name off your skin, put it in the jaw, have
• 1:15:20
  Speaker 1: a little witch doctor or something, put a little whammy
• 1:15:22
  Speaker 1: on it. Don't nobody touch that job because if you do,
• 1:15:24
  Speaker 1: the spell will be broken. And as long as that
• 1:15:27
  Speaker 1: name is in that jaw, Stephen Bellefonte will have a
• 1:15:30
  Speaker 1: rectile this function for the rest of his life, or
• 1:15:32
  Speaker 1: at the least caught up a frog or two. Everything
• 1:15:34
  Speaker 1: from the past, goals in the garbage, nothing from the past,
• 1:15:37
  Speaker 1: no letters, no pictures, nating, everything thrown away. Yeah, I
• 1:15:41
  Speaker 1: actually have a lot of things from x'es. I actually
• 1:15:44
  Speaker 1: have all my letters and cards and knows that I
• 1:15:47
  Speaker 1: used to pass in class and all of that in
• 1:15:48
  Speaker 1: a huge box. Well, I mean, listen, how long you
• 1:15:50
  Speaker 1: been with your woman? Twenty four years married seventeen? I've
• 1:15:53
  Speaker 1: been with my woman twenty years married four Okay, I'm forty.
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  Speaker 1: There's no exes, all right, I don't even remember what
• 1:16:00
  Speaker 1: an X is. A X is really from high school
• 1:16:04
  Speaker 1: because nobody really wrote letters after that. What I'm saying, so,
• 1:16:07
  Speaker 1: if your woman is still saving letters from high school,
• 1:16:10
  Speaker 1: that letter really means a lot to her, and that
• 1:16:13
  Speaker 1: person that makes a lot to her, and that person
• 1:16:15
  Speaker 1: that wrote that letter, you know, could never be duplicated,
• 1:16:18
  Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. Like, I also grew up
• 1:16:20
  Speaker 1: as a as a writer, like when I was young,
• 1:16:22
  Speaker 1: and you know, and I read a lot, and so
• 1:16:24
  Speaker 1: I keep all of those things even from like my
• 1:16:26
  Speaker 1: friends who are women married. Imagine being married for seventeen years,
• 1:16:33
  Speaker 1: all right, and you've been with this guy that you
• 1:16:35
  Speaker 1: married too since y'all was kids. But you keeping letter
• 1:16:37
  Speaker 1: from the exes? That mean you keeping letters from when
• 1:16:40
  Speaker 1: you was like seventeen eighteen, like those first feelings of love,
• 1:16:45
  Speaker 1: those first feelings of love having been duplicated at all. No,
• 1:16:50
  Speaker 1: what are you talking? No man has ever made you
• 1:16:52
  Speaker 1: feel the way that that first person. I don't know.
• 1:16:58
  Speaker 1: Why don't we talking about magic fingers earlier? No? No,
• 1:17:01
  Speaker 1: no magic fingers. But I burt those letters up and
• 1:17:03
  Speaker 1: then she let what are you talking about us? I'm
• 1:17:06
  Speaker 1: not talking about nothing. What are you talking about? And
• 1:17:07
  Speaker 1: I ain't told nothing? He's sounding insecure. Natasha, Hi, good morning, Natasha,
• 1:17:12
  Speaker 1: good morning. You keep anything from your ex? I definitely
• 1:17:15
  Speaker 1: do not. The only thing I kept from my ex
• 1:17:17
  Speaker 1: as our son, and I'm glad you kept that. I
• 1:17:21
  Speaker 1: would let that go. We're doing so deep that I
• 1:17:23
  Speaker 1: had to get rid of the cell phone that I
• 1:17:24
  Speaker 1: used to chext him from because I would search and
• 1:17:26
  Speaker 1: I type in day and then he pop up even
• 1:17:28
  Speaker 1: though he was deleted. He threw like, oh I text
• 1:17:30
  Speaker 1: U pop up. I was like, we gotta get rid
• 1:17:32
  Speaker 1: of this, all right, I tell you the manager, Thank you, mama.
• 1:17:35
  Speaker 1: Now as y'all's baby, what's up? Mamma. Did she call
• 1:17:38
  Speaker 1: you lady? I don't know what she called me. She said, baby, Oh,
• 1:17:43
  Speaker 1: now do you throw everything away from your past relationships?
• 1:17:46
  Speaker 1: I'm throwing everything away, like I'm not keeping nothing. What's
• 1:17:49
  Speaker 1: likely memories of an egg for like I saw everything
• 1:17:53
  Speaker 1: away like I used to live, Me and my wife
• 1:17:55
  Speaker 1: used to this together, and like it would come over
• 1:17:58
  Speaker 1: and still say, oh you got my show you. I'm
• 1:18:00
  Speaker 1: just trying to find ways to come back. And I'm
• 1:18:02
  Speaker 1: just like, maybe I have to ever take away you
• 1:18:04
  Speaker 1: know you ain't got to come back for nothing those
• 1:18:06
  Speaker 1: Now what does she give you a rolex? Oh, that's
• 1:18:08
  Speaker 1: definitely not that. That's okay. It is all about the
• 1:18:13
  Speaker 1: cast of the gift. You ain't giving back no Bentley.
• 1:18:15
  Speaker 1: You ain't getting back no type of car. And you
• 1:18:17
  Speaker 1: ain't getting back no jewelry, no Nonday. How y'all gonna
• 1:18:22
  Speaker 1: be picky and choosy about what you keep and what
• 1:18:24
  Speaker 1: you give away. Well, some things that X gives you
• 1:18:27
  Speaker 1: ain't got no choice but to keep, like her fees.
• 1:18:29
  Speaker 1: So to everybody out there, everybody out there who X
• 1:18:33
  Speaker 1: gave him her fees and then ain't got no choice
• 1:18:35
  Speaker 1: but delivered that and keep that for the rest of
• 1:18:37
  Speaker 1: their life. Hello, who's this from? Rocky? Do you keep
• 1:18:40
  Speaker 1: anything from your ex? Bro? No need to. I've been
• 1:18:44
  Speaker 1: marriage four years, my girl for seven, and they don't
• 1:18:47
  Speaker 1: need to. Bro. You gotta hold off from the past. Bro.
• 1:18:50
  Speaker 1: You might as gonna trying to hand back in that direction. Yeah, yeah,
• 1:18:52
  Speaker 1: that's how I feel. I don't understand why, you know,
• 1:18:55
  Speaker 1: somebody would hold on to something from their past, especially
• 1:18:58
  Speaker 1: if they've been together for so long, like imagine, mean,
• 1:19:00
  Speaker 1: was somebody for seventeen, ten years old and twelve years
• 1:19:03
  Speaker 1: old that they would ten somebody? Why this isn't so close?
• 1:19:07
  Speaker 1: I'm telling you. I'm just telling you. You're gonna point
• 1:19:09
  Speaker 1: point of finger, point of the magic finger at me.
• 1:19:10
  Speaker 1: I'm just somebody was writing letters to my wife when
• 1:19:13
  Speaker 1: they were ten years old. She kept at his memories,
• 1:19:15
  Speaker 1: is all. That's so cute, and I burned them. I
• 1:19:17
  Speaker 1: don't like it. Whatever is in the past. Say you
• 1:19:19
  Speaker 1: shouldn't y'all been married for forty years? How long you've
• 1:19:22
  Speaker 1: been married? Seriously, y'all been together twenty four, twenty four.
• 1:19:26
  Speaker 1: Don't read the bird to be cheaping stuff. And that's
• 1:19:27
  Speaker 1: what I said, And that's why I burned them letters up.
• 1:19:29
  Speaker 1: It's so crazy because I do have it. Like I said,
• 1:19:31
  Speaker 1: I have a huge box fill but like letters from
• 1:19:33
  Speaker 1: my friends when they went away out of town from xes,
• 1:19:36
  Speaker 1: like everything together in a box. I haven't even separated it.
• 1:19:39
  Speaker 1: But recent exg you used to Still this is off
• 1:19:43
  Speaker 1: from like high school in college. Ain't nobody Rolex in
• 1:19:46
  Speaker 1: high school? Now I'm talking about a box of letters.
• 1:19:47
  Speaker 1: Oh but my whole thing is what I'm saying is
• 1:19:50
  Speaker 1: that it doesn't really I never thought of it, like
• 1:19:52
  Speaker 1: it's something that would be offensive to anybody. I used
• 1:19:55
  Speaker 1: to be nobody ring letters. Now. I even found a
• 1:19:57
  Speaker 1: watch that somebody gave my my wife when I think
• 1:19:59
  Speaker 1: they were like twelve thirteen. I've definitely ran over that
• 1:20:01
  Speaker 1: watch with my car. She still got all these little trinkets,
• 1:20:04
  Speaker 1: all those little twelve days of Christmas. Will you mind her?
• 1:20:06
  Speaker 1: All this stuff? And she's still keeping watches from middle
• 1:20:09
  Speaker 1: school in ten years old. So maybe they just little queq.
• 1:20:12
  Speaker 1: That's cute, but they all going now to grow up.
• 1:20:16
  Speaker 1: They are going down and that watch I ran over
• 1:20:18
  Speaker 1: that ten times. Little memories are so cute. Rebecca, Hey,
• 1:20:22
  Speaker 1: good morning, Rebecca. Um okay, yeah, so I have like
• 1:20:25
  Speaker 1: an Xbox I like, not like the video games. Yeah,
• 1:20:29
  Speaker 1: I was like, okay, me too. Yeah. So I dated
• 1:20:33
  Speaker 1: this guy from like eighth grade the senior year of
• 1:20:36
  Speaker 1: high school, and I kept literally everything. But the weird
• 1:20:40
  Speaker 1: thing that I kept was he gave me a lemon.
• 1:20:43
  Speaker 1: Lemon is great. Sure to God, he gave me a lemon,
• 1:20:48
  Speaker 1: and I still have it in the box. Not like
• 1:20:51
  Speaker 1: rotten or anything. No, it doesn't smell or anything. It's
• 1:20:59
  Speaker 1: like hello and hard and I don't like him and
• 1:21:03
  Speaker 1: his heart. Why are you keeping that? That's disgusting. It
• 1:21:07
  Speaker 1: was like the reason why we started talking in the
• 1:21:10
  Speaker 1: first place. Convinced me that it was like this really
• 1:21:17
  Speaker 1: rare like lemon from like Cuba or something like that.
• 1:21:21
  Speaker 1: I like, I don't even know. Sounds like a red
• 1:21:23
  Speaker 1: flag to me. He lied to you immediately. That came
• 1:21:25
  Speaker 1: from stop the shop, Mama. Well, if you fell in
• 1:21:28
  Speaker 1: love with a man, they give you a lemon, wait
• 1:21:29
  Speaker 1: until somebody gives you an apple. Oh, watermelon, you're gonna
• 1:21:33
  Speaker 1: really be head over here lemonade out of that. I'm
• 1:21:36
  Speaker 1: not gonna do that. Don't curse, all right, Okay, the story,
• 1:21:40
  Speaker 1: the moral of the story is, man, let's say a
• 1:21:42
  Speaker 1: prayer and salute everybody out there who is keeping things
• 1:21:46
  Speaker 1: from their exes that they can't get back like her pies.
• 1:21:49
  Speaker 1: Keep a lock. This to breakfast Club. Go Morning. You're
• 1:21:52
  Speaker 1: checking out the world's most dangerous morning show. Morning. Everybody
• 1:21:56
  Speaker 1: is DJ Envy, Angela Yee Schlamine, the guy the breakfast Club.
• 1:22:01
  Speaker 1: Good morning now, Charlemagne, Yes, sir, you got a positive note. Yes, man.
• 1:22:05
  Speaker 1: I want to tell everybody out there you can't live
• 1:22:08
  Speaker 1: a positive life with a negative mind. I want you
• 1:22:10
  Speaker 1: to sit back and think about this. Think about making
• 1:22:13
  Speaker 1: your life a masterpiece. Okay, imagine no limitations on what
• 1:22:17
  Speaker 1: you can be, have, or do. Breakfast clubs you'll finish
• 1:22:21
  Speaker 1: or y'all dumb.