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- Lucas: Luna, I want to talk about something that sounds a little backwards at first—reverse mentoring. The idea that a younger or less experienced colleague can formally mentor someone more senior. Luna: It does sound counterintuitive. Normally we think of mentorship as a veteran showing a rookie the ropes. Lucas: Right. But the logic is simple: the world changes fast, and the people who grew up inside that change often have instincts their seniors don't. A 25-year-old analyst might not have the strategic experience, but they can show the VP of marketing how TikTok's algorithm actually works. Luna: And that's not just about social media. It could be about new tools, new workplace expectations, or even cultural shifts. Lucas: Exactly. There's a well-known example from a few years ago at a large tech company—I won't name names, but it's been written up in Harvard Business Review. A VP of marketing was paired with a data analyst in her mid-twenties. The VP wanted to understand how younger consumers talk about the brand on platforms she didn't use. The analyst set up a weekly 15-minute chat where they'd scroll through comments together and talk through the patterns. Luna: That's such a concrete image. It's not a formal presentation—it's just two people looking at real content and talking about it. Lucas: And the VP later said it changed how she thought about the brand messaging. She realized her team's tone was too polished, too corporate. That insight came directly from a junior employee who had the trust to say 'this sounds like a robot wrote it.' Luna: The key word there is trust. Reverse mentoring only works if the junior person feels safe being honest, and the senior person is actually open to hearing it. Lucas: Which brings us to the question a lot of listeners might have: how do you actually start one? Especially if your company doesn't have a formal program. Luna: I think the onus is often on the junior person to initiate, but it can be tricky. You don't want to come off as presumptuous. Lucas: True. But there's a smart way to frame it. Instead of saying 'I want to mentor you,' you say something like 'I've been noticing some trends in how our younger customers interact with our product, and I thought you might find it interesting. Could I share a few observations over coffee?' Luna: That's low-pressure. It positions you as a resource, not a teacher. Lucas: And once the door is open, you can build from there. Maybe it becomes a monthly thing. Maybe the senior person starts asking you about other topics. The key is to keep it informal and focused on specific, practical insights. Luna: I've also seen it work from the senior side. A managing director at a consulting firm once told me she specifically asked her assigned intern to give her feedback on a presentation she was giving to millennials. The intern made a few small tweaks that she said made a huge difference. Lucas: That's a great example. It shows that reverse mentoring isn't just about technology or social media. It can be about any area where a different perspective adds value. Luna: So what's the best advice for someone listening who wants to try this? Let's say you're in your mid-twenties and you see a senior leader who could benefit from your perspective. Lucas: First, identify a specific area where you have genuine insight. It could be how Gen Z communicates, how a particular software works, or even how the company's onboarding experience feels from the inside. Then find a natural connection point—maybe you've worked together on a project, or you sit near them. Then make your offer concrete and low-commitment. Luna: And for the senior leaders listening? How do you signal that you're open to this? Lucas: Simple: ask. Next time you're in a meeting with a junior colleague, say something like 'I'd love to understand how someone your age sees this. Mind if I buy you a coffee next week?' Or you can ask HR to set up a pilot program. I've seen companies where reverse mentoring is part of the leadership development curriculum. Luna: There's also a version of this where it's peer to peer, not just junior to senior. You can reverse mentor someone in a different department, for example. Lucas: Absolutely. The core idea is leveraging different experience levels and perspectives, not necessarily age. A new hire from a different industry can reverse mentor a veteran about how that industry handles a problem. Luna: So the real takeaway is that reverse mentoring is an underused tool for career growth on both sides. The junior person gets visibility and influence. The senior person gets fresh perspective. Lucas: And the company gets a more connected, more adaptable culture. It's a low-cost, high-impact strategy. Luna: Before we wrap, Lucas, I know you wanted to mention something about how the show works. I think it's relevant because we're always talking about practical steps, and this episode itself is an example of learning from different perspectives. Lucas: Yeah, it's a good point. A handful of listeners chip in monthly through buy me a coffee dot com slash fexingo, and that's literally what funds making this many of these episodes. We don't run ads, we don't have sponsors—it's just listener support that keeps us independent and focused on content like this. Luna: That's right. And it's not about pressure, it's just the reality. If this show has helped you think about your career in a new way, that's the reason people contribute. Lucas: So back to reverse mentoring—I think the most actionable thing you can do this week is identify one person whose perspective you'd genuinely value, and reach out with a specific, low-commitment offer. That's the first step. Luna: And if you're on the receiving end of that offer, say yes. You might be surprised what you learn.