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Is He Love-Bombing You or Is He Just Excited? · Secrets They'll Only Tell a Matchmaker with Gina Hendrix

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  Boy, this comes up a lot in my programs when I'm dealing with
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  women. We are trying to navigate the
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  waters of is he love bombing you or is he just excited?
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  OK, let's talk about it. So first of all, in my world,
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  because most of my guys are super wealthy, they go big when
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  they're excited about a woman. But it doesn't necessarily mean
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  at all that they're love bombing.
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  They're just used to. They have a lot of money, and
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  they are used to going big, swooping her away to San
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  Francisco for dinner out of LA or them flying in to meet her
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  for a first date and then taking her to her favorite restaurant
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  and whining and diet. That's normal, OK?
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  But I know that when you're meeting a guy and you don't have
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  my help, you don't know how to navigate the waters.
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  OK? So I want to give you a few
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  things to kind of think about and look for, to discern whether
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  or not it's real or he's love bombing you.
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  Hang on, number one, I think based on my experience as a
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  matchmaker for 15 / 15 years, I would say, is he picking things?
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  Like if he's doing like really grandiose things for you, does
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  it have anything to do with you? Is it something that you told
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  him you wanted to do, that you really like and are excited
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  about and therefore he went and he got tickets or he made
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  arrangements to have to make it happen for you?
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  That, to me, tells me he's at least listening and is a better
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  sign than him just doing something over the top that
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  really has nothing to do with you.
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  You know, he doesn't know your favorite flowers, yet he brings
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  in all these great flowers, or he's doing things that he
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  probably would want to do anyway, First row of the of the
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  Guns and Roses concert or whatever.
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  And he hasn't asked you what you like.
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  That, to me, would be a red flag.
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  All right, hang on, #2. He's not really asking
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  authentic, deep, meaningful questions about you.
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  He's talking about himself. Or he's talking about, like,
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  fantasy stuff you guys can do together.
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  And there is zero depth happening.
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  Zero depth. He's not wanting to know, like,
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  you know, what was your favorite childhood movie?
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  Or are you close with your family because these guys care
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  about that stuff, You know? He's not asking anything of
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  depth. Hang on, there's more.
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  Last but not least, he is rushing, rushing, rushing you
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  into everything. He wants to rush you in right
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  away to a relationship. He wants to rush you right in to
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  this full blown commitment. Getting off the apps and you
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  barely know each other. And he's talking about future.
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  And maybe you'll get married. Maybe you'll move in together.
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  Maybe he loves you, but he barely knows you.
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  OK, so this is what I help you ladies with.
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  My God, so much to know about dating these days, right?
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  From leveling up your photos to attract better men to knowing
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  how to weed them out, knowing what to look for.
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  Spotting the red flags. Gina, read my message.
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  What? How should I respond to this
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  guy? What do you think about?
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  Because it's all this stuff that I cover when you work with me
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  through my one-on-one program. It's super unique.
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  You get up close, personal access to me.
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  I'm your bestie for six weeks, OK?
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  And I'm raising the price here very, very soon.
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  The clock is ticking until the price goes up because I've got
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  you ladies coming at me. I've got so many success stories
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  happening constantly. Constantly.
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  Hundreds at this point now, hundreds since I launched the
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  program in July, of success stories just raining down and it
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  never gets old, but I still want to help more and more and more
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  of you. OK, so if you want my help, DM
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  me on IG with the word love. DM me on IG with the word love
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  to get this kind of help so that you can cut through the BS, stop
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  sitting on the sidelines, and get to the part where you're
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  dating the guys you actually want to meet.
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  OK? Because that's what's happening
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  when you work with me one-on-one.
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  All right, Hope it helps.