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Shenseea Talks Debut Album "Alpha", Drake Rumors, Sex Tips+Stigmas, Pretty Privilege & More · The Breakfast Club

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Speaker 1: In the morning Breakfast. What's up? It's the Breakfast Club,
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Speaker 1: and y'all know this is exciting for me because normally
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Speaker 1: I'm surrounded by guys all day, but today I have
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Speaker 1: an Alpha in here for Freaky Fridays. My girl, Shancia, Sancia,
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Speaker 1: what's up, Shancia? You have an album out today. It
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Speaker 1: is called Alpha. This is your first time on the
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Speaker 1: Breakfast Club. The guys were a little intimidated. Really yeah, why,
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Speaker 1: I mean, they're always get intimidated by alpha females, you
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Speaker 1: know what. I think part of it is also, like,
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Speaker 1: you know, some of your lyrics like okay, like you
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Speaker 1: say you love Big D and these guys are very
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Speaker 1: insecure about so they're like, I don't even know if
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Speaker 1: it could be in the room. Oh my god. Well
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Speaker 1: they made the right choice not being here. That's not
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Speaker 1: because we're taking over. It is Freaky Friday. So I
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Speaker 1: want to talk about a lot of things. You know, obviously,
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Speaker 1: your album Alpha is out. We're so excited. This is
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Speaker 1: your debut album. How does it feel if he is like,
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Speaker 1: I've been waiting for this for a very long time.
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Speaker 1: As you know, I've been working on this album for
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Speaker 1: quite some years. So for it to be finally here
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Speaker 1: and I it's like nerve wracking. I'm anxious, excited, everything
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Speaker 1: in one How did you know the timing was right?
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Speaker 1: Because it's about to be released, like it's released, so
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Speaker 1: it's like what other time than now? And then now
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Speaker 1: it's my first time coming on Breakfast Club and a
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Speaker 1: lot has been happening for me since the past year,
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Speaker 1: so I feel like if it was before that, then
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Speaker 1: I wouldn't get a full impact like what I'm getting now.
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Speaker 1: I love for my debut album. I know a lot
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Speaker 1: about you, but let's introduce you to some people who
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Speaker 1: may not know as much you know about how you
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Speaker 1: even got into don't get nervous because you gave me
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Speaker 1: a vibrating Oh my god, it just had to. But
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Speaker 1: let's talk about how you even got started in the
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Speaker 1: music business, because I think that's an interesting story. Yeah. Well,
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Speaker 1: I was once a promo girl before I come tons
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Speaker 1: and assist manager first, and then I went on to
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Speaker 1: you know, a promo girl after the birth of my son,
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Speaker 1: and then I was working with Ramish who is now
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Speaker 1: my manager, who was my boss at the time. I
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Speaker 1: was doing like covers and just doing ciphers, broadcasting them
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Speaker 1: throughout my social media and being the fact that he
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Speaker 1: was my boss at the time, he was in my
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Speaker 1: contact list and so he got my videos too. And
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Speaker 1: then he pulled me aside one day and be like, Yo,
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Speaker 1: you got talented. I see something in you. We should
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Speaker 1: definitely work together more than from boss to promo girl
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Speaker 1: and more like a manager to artists. And I was like,
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Speaker 1: you know, actually, I've been working with him for quite
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Speaker 1: some time, and I was like, I love his energy.
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Speaker 1: He treats people around him like family. You know, he's respectful,
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Speaker 1: he gets the work done. So I was like, I
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Speaker 1: have no doubts. And to be honest, he I didn't
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Speaker 1: even know him as somebody who can manage anybody at
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Speaker 1: all because he wasn't doing that. So it was literally
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Speaker 1: just like a chance of me believing in him while
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Speaker 1: he believes in me. That's good because I also feel
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Speaker 1: like trust is important when it comes to management. Sometimes
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Speaker 1: you think you need like a huge manager. No, they
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Speaker 1: don't to the next level, but an other times it's
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Speaker 1: good to have somebody that's focused just on you. Yeah. Yeah,
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Speaker 1: a boutique management company too. It's like, it's like really
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Speaker 1: cool to know that yo, when you get attention, that's
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Speaker 1: where your career literally flourishes because you can be with
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Speaker 1: the biggest people in the game and it's like you
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Speaker 1: get no attention, so it's like nobody's focusing on you
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Speaker 1: to take your career to the next level. So I'd
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Speaker 1: rather to go for the underdogs, to be honest, that's me.
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Speaker 1: So what was the plan for you guys? Initially when
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Speaker 1: you're like, okay, he said he sees the potential in you.
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Speaker 1: He knows that you could be a huge artist. So
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Speaker 1: what did you guys sit down and say, Okay, did
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Speaker 1: you come up with the marketing plan? Like what was
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Speaker 1: the strategy marketing? Where we don't know nothing. We just
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Speaker 1: go with the flow and just going with God. Because
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Speaker 1: when I met him, when we started the journey, I
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Speaker 1: recorded my first ever single in life with him, like
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Speaker 1: that's the first song I've ever recorded, jiggle Jiggle, And
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Speaker 1: before that I only wrote like through your four songs,
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Speaker 1: so to show you, like, my career has moved so fast,
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Speaker 1: but I kept up with it because I had to
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Speaker 1: be writing day and night also to keep up with
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Speaker 1: the pace of how fast it was going. So it
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Speaker 1: was like it was like a lot of pressure, but
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Speaker 1: I pulled through and I'm happy that I'm here today.
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Speaker 1: I endured it, and even up until now, it has
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Speaker 1: molded me to just get used to working hard and
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Speaker 1: I always like, always still on the go. You had
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Speaker 1: a big song with Vibes Cartel early too. That was
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Speaker 1: my third song. How did that even happen? Because imagine
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Speaker 1: a third song is with Vibes Cartel, Like he's still
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Speaker 1: in jail, right. Everything that I told God that I wanted,
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Speaker 1: I have received and I'm about to receive. Trust me,
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Speaker 1: because I always said I wanted a song with Vibes Cartel,
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Speaker 1: and you know, I looked up to him as a
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Speaker 1: lyricist growing up. So I said that, Yo, he had
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Speaker 1: his own clique like Empire and stuff, and I said
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Speaker 1: that I really don't want to be a part of
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Speaker 1: a whole clique, but I would really love to have
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Speaker 1: a song from ViBe's Cartel. And it's so came to
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Speaker 1: be that I got it and it was a single
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Speaker 1: that bringing in history. It was crazy. Did you guys
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Speaker 1: have a conversation? How did that go? Like? Have you
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Speaker 1: ever gotten to Sea? We have, No, I haven't seen
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Speaker 1: him in person, but we have spoken a couple of
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Speaker 1: times for sure. And what did he say to you? Like, yeah,
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Speaker 1: he backs me up, Okay, yeah, he backs me up,
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Speaker 1: straight up. He gives me advice, you know, he just
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Speaker 1: just normal stuff. But yeah, it's good to know that
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Speaker 1: it's no bad blood or anything. You know. Now, being
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Speaker 1: a really pretty girl in the business, how is it
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Speaker 1: for you when you want to work with people. Does
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Speaker 1: it make it sometimes like guys trying to hiller at you?
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Speaker 1: Does it sometimes make people not take you as seriously
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Speaker 1: as they should? Actually it's a bit of both. For me.
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Speaker 1: When I stop into a room, I make it known,
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Speaker 1: like with my presence and my whole ara, that yo,
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Speaker 1: I'm here to work. If you mean so, I don't
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Speaker 1: really get that thing a type of vibe when we're
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Speaker 1: actually in the room. Maybe off any year, but even
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Speaker 1: then I still don't pay any mind because it's not
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Speaker 1: my focus. If you mean, I just want to work,
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Speaker 1: Just want to work with other artists and maximize my
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Speaker 1: full potential. And I don't want anybody trying to use
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Speaker 1: pretty privilege to try to put me in that type
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Speaker 1: of category that, oh, because I'm pretty, that people work
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Speaker 1: with me, because no, my looks can't saying my looks
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Speaker 1: can't write my songs. I feed me so I meet
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Speaker 1: that known when I'm linking up with other artists, So
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Speaker 1: I don't. I don't receive. I receive a lot of
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Speaker 1: respect from me as an industry. To be honest, there's
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Speaker 1: nobody that really passed their place with me where I
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Speaker 1: have to say, yo, I don't. I don't miss with
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Speaker 1: this person because he's disrespectful. No. Now, part of what
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Speaker 1: comes with more attention is more people even trying to
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Speaker 1: come at you, Yeah and talk crazy online. How do
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Speaker 1: you handle that? Like, is it ever stressful for you? Nah? Stressful? No,
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Speaker 1: definitely not because I've never received that in person ever. Right,
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Speaker 1: people would talk all crazy online, yeah, always crazy online,
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Speaker 1: but never I've never received that in person. All right,
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Speaker 1: So let's go through some of these rumors. Ah, she
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Speaker 1: couldn't wait to get to that. I'm just saying, all right,
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Speaker 1: d there was a rumor that you were dating Drake.
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Speaker 1: That's a lie. Light Listen, me and Drake we never
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Speaker 1: even kiss, much less for him to get even get
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Speaker 1: me pregnant. Right there. I saw that. I was like,
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Speaker 1: because that was after we met you on lip service,
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Speaker 1: and I was like, is pregnant? By Drake Girl. You know.
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Speaker 1: The wordest thing is I saw the article online and
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Speaker 1: I sent it to one of my managers and I
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Speaker 1: was like, can people really just lie on me like this?
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Speaker 1: Like everything in the article and came to my attention
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Speaker 1: that everything that that person wrote about me is a lie,
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Speaker 1: like telling people that I don't work for promoters. I
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Speaker 1: don't lose shows the promoters now, I only do my
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Speaker 1: own shows. Like it's it's just ridiculous stuff. Man. I
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Speaker 1: was like, Yo, you're going to hell do you know
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Speaker 1: that person? Like I don't know the person? So I
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Speaker 1: hate my legal team and be like yo, oh okay
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Speaker 1: when you get this down. That was before it even
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Speaker 1: blew up. I saw it because someone sent it to
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Speaker 1: me and I was like, Yo, this is crazy and
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Speaker 1: they were like no, um, people really can just do that.
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Speaker 1: And I was like that's unfair. Yeah, they could just
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Speaker 1: lie and say no, that's very unfair because it's like
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Speaker 1: none of this is true and people put this out.
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Speaker 1: And then on top of it, I was grieving because
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Speaker 1: my mom died and it was my mom's death month,
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Speaker 1: so it's like I came off social media for the
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Speaker 1: whole month and to know that I came off social media,
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Speaker 1: and this is what people were saying about me. It's
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Speaker 1: just like, I'm not coming on social media just to
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Speaker 1: clear the shop. I'm not doing it. I saw you
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Speaker 1: also posting on Twitter about your mother passing and having
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Speaker 1: missed her all the time. How does it like, do
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Speaker 1: you still talk to her? You know how sometimes when
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Speaker 1: someone's not with you anymore. But she was such a
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Speaker 1: huge part of your life. I don't I talk to
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Speaker 1: God and telling him talk to her. I don't really,
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Speaker 1: I don't. I feel like when somebody passes, just like
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Speaker 1: it's a mind thing when you tell yourself that, oh,
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Speaker 1: they're here, and you know they're not here. To me,
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Speaker 1: it's like they're gone. And the more I present no,
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Speaker 1: and the more I think about it is, the more
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Speaker 1: I just get sad. Right, you know, So I don't
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Speaker 1: tell myself that, oh, she's with me everywhere like she might.
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Speaker 1: But I'm not dwelling on that. You know, God is
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Speaker 1: with me. That's That's what I feel for sure. Last, Yeah,
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Speaker 1: how about your father? Has he tried to reach out
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Speaker 1: to you, like, does he know? I don't know if
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Speaker 1: he's even alive. I heard he's a gang member and
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Speaker 1: he's in a part of a Korean gang, so I've
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Speaker 1: never met him. He had to leave my mom. She
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Speaker 1: was six months pregnant, she said, when he had to
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Speaker 1: leave to Mexico. Right, so, no family. You think he
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Speaker 1: even knows that you're like his daughter? No, because if
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Speaker 1: he never saw me, how would he know? And then
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Speaker 1: at the location where we were in Saint Elizabeth, Jamaica,
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Speaker 1: we migrated, so it's like, how do you even know
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Speaker 1: what I look like to even find me? You know?
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Speaker 1: All right? And so now for your son. We talked
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Speaker 1: about this the other day, but I know everybody might
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Speaker 1: not have heard it, but we talked about how excited
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Speaker 1: that your son is. But he also was not trying
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Speaker 1: to be all in the spotlight like that. Yeah, he's not.
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Speaker 1: He told me that he don't want to be too
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Speaker 1: famous because when we go out, people are asking for
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Speaker 1: pictures on me and him time, and I kind of
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Speaker 1: stopped that too, because it's like time I was in
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Speaker 1: the supermarket with him and I my funds came down
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Speaker 1: and asking for a picture and I was like, no,
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Speaker 1: I gotta watch my son. And then they were still pushing,
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Speaker 1: like no, we just want one picture, and then my
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Speaker 1: son ran off and I was so mad because I
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Speaker 1: was like, it was me alone with him. I was like,
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Speaker 1: y'all name, you're not letting me get to supervise my
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Speaker 1: kid because y'all still bombarding me for a picture. So
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Speaker 1: I kind of stopped when I'm with my son and
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Speaker 1: knowing that he doesn't like that, I stopped. It's like,
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Speaker 1: when you see me out with my son, don't ask
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Speaker 1: for a picture, Like I'm focused on my boy. Okay,
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Speaker 1: that's respectful. Yeah, I think people should respect that. Now
10:36
Speaker 1: when we talk about things online that you've had to address.
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Speaker 1: I saw you on live talking about people were trying
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Speaker 1: to say that Spice was coming at you. I don't
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Speaker 1: know what ladies saw. I had to say our minister
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Speaker 1: and marrying her. That lick song really really lick a
10:49
Speaker 1: lot of people, right, But did you anticipate that, because
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Speaker 1: I would think I did not. I did not, not
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Speaker 1: gotta because even after the song dropped and like weeks past,
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Speaker 1: that was still going on. I was like, what is
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Speaker 1: the matter with y'all? Like over one song? If you mean,
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Speaker 1: but it's not I don't think that they were. Well
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Speaker 1: maybe a lady saw, but mm I don't think Spice
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Speaker 1: was really trying to come at me. It was more
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Speaker 1: like everything else that was happening around the song, if
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Speaker 1: you mean what tarted, you know, whatever else it branched
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Speaker 1: off into. But no, I didn't feel no heat from
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Speaker 1: her towards me. I think it would be dope if
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Speaker 1: you and Spice work together and did something together personally.
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Speaker 1: I think that would be a huge statement because y'all
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Speaker 1: are so huge right now for the culture. Yeah, I
11:37
Speaker 1: mean I reached out a couple of times if he mean,
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Speaker 1: but I mean I don't know, no, seriously, that would
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Speaker 1: go because you see the guys working together all the time.
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Speaker 1: I feel I mean I could be wrong, but I
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Speaker 1: feel like you don't see that as much, um you
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Speaker 1: know with what sorry, I see like the guys like
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Speaker 1: I see, you know, like Shaggy Sean Paul, like you know,
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Speaker 1: we see them working to yea though all the time.
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Speaker 1: But I've been trying to work with femian artists though,
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Speaker 1: right yeah, like I said it on my life too,
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Speaker 1: I've been trying to work with female artists. The only
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Speaker 1: female artists that work with is nyla blackman from a
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Speaker 1: Caribbean Trinidad and Mayan from Jamaica. If he mean, it's
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Speaker 1: not like I haven't tried an even male artists that
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Speaker 1: I have not collabed with yet either you know, I've
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Speaker 1: sent songs or I've hit up like yo, let's make
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Speaker 1: a song, and I feel like everything is time too,
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Speaker 1: you know, right, So it's not it's not anything that
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Speaker 1: I'm chasing. It's just that I would I always try
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Speaker 1: to do things for my culture that would lift my
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Speaker 1: culture up, if I mean, that's that's what I am about.
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Speaker 1: But you did a lot for the women with let
12:38
Speaker 1: because now all these guys know what they gotta do
12:41
Speaker 1: because listen, it used to be a big topic that
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Speaker 1: they don't do that. Now let me ask you this,
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Speaker 1: since it is freaky Freaky Friday and we're taken over. Yeah, okay,
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Speaker 1: so let's just say a guy's like, look, I've never
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Speaker 1: done that before and I don't know how to do
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Speaker 1: it right. What advice would you give him? Well, first
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Speaker 1: of all, you gotta eat it like you really want
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Speaker 1: to eat it. Don't be enthusiastic. Yeah, don't go down
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Speaker 1: on me and you know you're just trying to please me. No,
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Speaker 1: try to please yourself and then please me, because if
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Speaker 1: you're not, if you don't want to do it, and
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Speaker 1: you're just forcing it. I'm gonna feel it, but Janet's
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Speaker 1: gonna tell me, and you're just not gonna do it. Right.
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Speaker 1: But when I hear you moaning, that's a turn off
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Speaker 1: of females, right, you like it sloppy like? Yes, like
13:24
Speaker 1: my whole everything is like a swamp. Yes, don't don't.
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Speaker 1: If if you hear me say I'm on the verge,
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Speaker 1: do not, I repeat, do not switch up your tongue movement.
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Speaker 1: You gotta keep it exactly like how it was before.
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Speaker 1: When you change up the rhythm and it's about to happen,
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Speaker 1: it's like you gotta start all over again. Yes, that's
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Speaker 1: the one, trust me. That's the one that gives me
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Speaker 1: most ignorant. Like I feel like men really need to
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Speaker 1: know that you need to keep that in the same position.
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Speaker 1: Don't go too fast, don't go too slow, keep the
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Speaker 1: same ything. Do you think we need to do that
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Speaker 1: too when we go down on guys like we need
14:05
Speaker 1: because I feel like sometimes I like switch told you
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Speaker 1: I'll go down on guys. You definitely do equal opportunity person, Yeah, definitely,
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Speaker 1: I love to do it. To be honest, I'm being
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Speaker 1: quite honest, but um, yeah, I feel like it's pretty
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Speaker 1: much the same. I think guys like sloppy Head too, right,
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Speaker 1: they do, because dry Head is probably terrible. Yeah, I
14:31
Speaker 1: think I got a lot to work on when it
14:33
Speaker 1: comes on to that too. I think I'm a bit
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Speaker 1: made in between. Really. Yeah, your hands on? No hands,
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Speaker 1: hands un no hands? Okay. It depends on how I'm
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Speaker 1: feeding and how he's reacting and are you spit, swallow
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Speaker 1: or move? What she asking me? Oh, he's either swallow
14:51
Speaker 1: or or um. I don't move. But yeah, some people like,
14:56
Speaker 1: all right, you get me somewhere now. You Also, I
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Speaker 1: had a song called four Play, which I love that song.
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Speaker 1: I know it it's older, but I like that song
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Speaker 1: because I've always said that I feel like, um, fingering
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Speaker 1: is underrated. It is like I don't do it as
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Speaker 1: much anymore for me. That's the starting yes that four
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Speaker 1: Play with because you went right into it in the
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Speaker 1: beginning of the song, like, yeah, you got to because
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Speaker 1: the word singing is I told my team that I'm
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Speaker 1: going to write a fingering song, right, they were like
15:26
Speaker 1: they all made their faces up at me. They're like, yo, all,
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Speaker 1: are you gonna do that? And I'll say, just watch.
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Speaker 1: I've never heard anybody done it before. And I started
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Speaker 1: in New York's lobby in a hotel and started writing
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Speaker 1: that song with all the beat. Wow, but that is
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Speaker 1: my joint right there. I love that song, and I
15:42
Speaker 1: agree with you because I do feel like I remember
15:45
Speaker 1: I was talking about it on lip service and people
15:47
Speaker 1: told me that I was childish. Why they're like, because
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Speaker 1: no one does that. Like, yeah, that's that's to show
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Speaker 1: you that you all got a lot more to learn.
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Speaker 1: What me? You gotta do that with me now? Yeah,
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Speaker 1: so you have to. You gotta get it ready. Yeah,
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Speaker 1: you're getting it ready. It's either lick or a finger,
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Speaker 1: actually both, but either one can really start me about it. Quickie.
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Speaker 1: I love quickie. She's like, whatever, I love quickies. If
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Speaker 1: we're doing a quickie, you don't need to just get
16:17
Speaker 1: it right on in there. We don't have time for
16:19
Speaker 1: already be horny. It's a quickie, to be honest, because
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Speaker 1: that's going to turn me on crazy. Now in the
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Speaker 1: new song, because I did get a little preview before
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Speaker 1: I came out. You have body count on there? Oh yes, indeed. Yeah,
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Speaker 1: So let me ask you this, because body count has
16:33
Speaker 1: been a topic lately. I saw a little Dirk talking
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Speaker 1: about it a million dollars worth of game. And so
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Speaker 1: how much do you think a guy does need to
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Speaker 1: know about your past? Because he doesn't need to know
16:41
Speaker 1: shit about your past? But what about like what if
16:43
Speaker 1: he's like, have you ever been with another woman? Then
16:46
Speaker 1: I mean, it's up to you if you want to
16:47
Speaker 1: tell them. I don't feel like any female need to
16:49
Speaker 1: tell any nigger about what they've done sexually unless they
16:53
Speaker 1: want to, Like if you saw must for you for
16:56
Speaker 1: them to tell you, and shit, we ain't gotta be together.
16:59
Speaker 1: I feel like I ask you that because they want
17:01
Speaker 1: to figure out if think I have a threesome. And
17:02
Speaker 1: that's the real reason when they're like, have you ever
17:04
Speaker 1: been when another woman? And then they want to hear
17:06
Speaker 1: what you're gonna say so they could figure out. Well.
17:08
Speaker 1: As I said, it's still up to the female, right
17:10
Speaker 1: if you want to make that known, or even if
17:12
Speaker 1: you're not comfortable with that, then don't do it. What
17:14
Speaker 1: about have you ever? What do you think you need
17:17
Speaker 1: to know about a guy? Nothing? You don't need to
17:18
Speaker 1: ask him anything about his past. I'll be asking niggas
17:21
Speaker 1: about their past to be honest, you're an alpha, So
17:24
Speaker 1: like what kind of what kind of questions are important?
17:27
Speaker 1: Freshen sea to know about the guy? There's nothing too important,
17:31
Speaker 1: but it's like I would have to see how the
17:32
Speaker 1: guy is with these traits and I'll be like, yo,
17:35
Speaker 1: is this how you were before? Like is this how
17:37
Speaker 1: you've always been? And then I'll try to change, but
17:40
Speaker 1: it's nothing like unless I know the girl who is
17:43
Speaker 1: with then I'll be like, yo, so what happened or
17:46
Speaker 1: that's just just my main question. What happened in your
17:48
Speaker 1: last relationship or what's the worst relationship or what's the
17:51
Speaker 1: best relationship. That's that's it for me. I always think
17:54
Speaker 1: it's important and if guys have a good relationship but
17:56
Speaker 1: well not a good relationship, but they don't hate their
17:58
Speaker 1: exescause I feel like it's a red flag when a
18:01
Speaker 1: guy's like I hate that bitch. Yeah no, I don't
18:04
Speaker 1: play like that. First of all, don't call no female
18:06
Speaker 1: no bitch around me your whope? If you mean as
18:09
Speaker 1: I said to you yesterday, I really stunt with females.
18:12
Speaker 1: It's like if because if you disrespect her like that,
18:16
Speaker 1: then you're gonna do that to me, right If he
18:18
Speaker 1: me that's how I look at men fee me. So
18:22
Speaker 1: it doesn't matter like whether or not y'all how to
18:24
Speaker 1: fall out. It's still I still got to see how
18:26
Speaker 1: you deal with a female. Now you have a song
18:29
Speaker 1: about your exes on there. Yes, Oh that's one of
18:33
Speaker 1: my favorites. Okay, good, so that song. So let me
18:37
Speaker 1: ask you this about that. So is this about any
18:39
Speaker 1: particular person or just all of your exes like a
18:43
Speaker 1: particular person and in some parts in general? Is this
18:48
Speaker 1: a guy who cheated on you? Yeah? Yeah? Do you still?
18:52
Speaker 1: Are you still okay with him? Like do you ever speak? Yeah?
18:55
Speaker 1: We cool. I don't like to have bad blood with people,
18:58
Speaker 1: so that's why I would say that, Yo, you gotta
19:01
Speaker 1: be you don't have to be cool with your export.
19:03
Speaker 1: You don't have to hate him. It's also nice when
19:05
Speaker 1: things are going well. Yeah, I talk to my ex's,
19:07
Speaker 1: but it's not like a flurting nothing because I've never
19:10
Speaker 1: taken back ax in my life. But I do like
19:14
Speaker 1: to be cool with people because I love peace. I'm
19:16
Speaker 1: a liberal, you know. If I can choose peace, I'm
19:18
Speaker 1: always choose peace. And it's the best thing where your
19:20
Speaker 1: life is going really well. And yeah, you see it,
19:23
Speaker 1: and you're like, yeah, going off. I've been showing off
19:26
Speaker 1: because I'd be letting up because I will. I leave
19:29
Speaker 1: niggas for sure, and I am a saint when I'm
19:33
Speaker 1: in a relationship because I like to have the upper hand.
19:36
Speaker 1: What's the longest relationship you've ever been in? Three years? Okay,
19:40
Speaker 1: well you're still young, so shit, that was a lot
19:43
Speaker 1: of my time because we're in together now. But at
19:46
Speaker 1: least y'all still cool. What's the craziest thing that a
19:48
Speaker 1: guy has done to try to get you back after
19:50
Speaker 1: y'all broke up? Because we've been seeing like your friend
19:53
Speaker 1: Kanye trying to pursue his ex wife and doing all
19:56
Speaker 1: kinds of stuff. Has anybody ever done anything that was
19:58
Speaker 1: over the top to try to get to your attention again,
20:01
Speaker 1: I'm not just harassing me, just texting me, calling me
20:03
Speaker 1: like nothing's crazy, like you pop up where I'm at. No,
20:08
Speaker 1: I don't message stuff like that. I take that seriously.
20:11
Speaker 1: Matter of fact, I left somebody just for that, to
20:13
Speaker 1: be honest. For popping up on you, yeah, like it
20:16
Speaker 1: was how he did it. You can pop up on me,
20:18
Speaker 1: it's cool. But when you pop up and you're trying
20:20
Speaker 1: to hide and then I catch you and then you lie.
20:23
Speaker 1: It's that starcker that's just been a starcker. No, you
20:25
Speaker 1: gotta explain this story. How could he hide after he
20:28
Speaker 1: popped up on exactly? So it's instant a way that
20:31
Speaker 1: he was asking me, like where you are? Told him
20:33
Speaker 1: I was at like a wingsplace. I don't remember. It
20:35
Speaker 1: was Buffalo Wings or something here in New York too,
20:38
Speaker 1: and listen, New York got too much memories for me, man,
20:41
Speaker 1: And he I told him where I was, and then
20:44
Speaker 1: I walked out of the restaurant and I saw him
20:49
Speaker 1: in a vehicle right. He was like just looking through
20:53
Speaker 1: the through the windshield looking at me. And then I
20:56
Speaker 1: just literally turned my head quick not to look at
20:58
Speaker 1: him or anything because I don't know. I know that
21:01
Speaker 1: he's there. And then I glimpsed him for a while
21:04
Speaker 1: and now we're like, yo, what's hard? So I texted
21:07
Speaker 1: him and be like, yo, are you here? He's like here, weird,
21:09
Speaker 1: I said, at the place where I told you I was.
21:11
Speaker 1: So he's like no, I said, where are you? Then
21:14
Speaker 1: he's at home. I was like no, no, I know.
21:16
Speaker 1: He didn't try to lie, and then he drove off
21:19
Speaker 1: and I said, you know what video called me, then
21:21
Speaker 1: he could even video called me. So I just left
21:23
Speaker 1: him literally for that. That's weird to me. Don't do
21:25
Speaker 1: that shit to me. But you know what you did,
21:28
Speaker 1: tell him where you were, and yes, yes, but if
21:30
Speaker 1: you're gonna up right, no, if you're gonna pop up,
21:34
Speaker 1: pop up, But to pop up and lie and say
21:37
Speaker 1: that's not you who I saw, that's weird. That is weird.
21:40
Speaker 1: That's silly reason to lie. It is creepy. So I
21:43
Speaker 1: don't mess say that. But just harassment normally just texted
21:47
Speaker 1: and sending back all memories, all that stuff. Nothing too crazy.
21:50
Speaker 1: Now let's talk about some of your tweets too. Yeah,
21:52
Speaker 1: all right, you said it's hard to find real love
21:54
Speaker 1: on your famous You just don't know who has your
21:56
Speaker 1: best interest at heart. So now what do you do?
22:00
Speaker 1: Pray and hope for the best, take a chance. Is
22:03
Speaker 1: I feel like even with females just watching from the outskirts,
22:06
Speaker 1: because you know, I've never I think it's only one
22:10
Speaker 1: person one or two two actually persons that I've only
22:13
Speaker 1: been within this industry. But I've looked, I've been looking
22:17
Speaker 1: out and I've been seeing how they may classify females
22:21
Speaker 1: as whos because they break up with this one, they
22:24
Speaker 1: break up with this one, and they get with another one.
22:26
Speaker 1: The truth is you can as a female when you
22:29
Speaker 1: got so much going on for you, when you have
22:30
Speaker 1: your money and you have fame. You don't know how
22:33
Speaker 1: to just people out a regular guy and say he's
22:38
Speaker 1: good for me, because you don't know if they want
22:39
Speaker 1: the money. You don't know if they want the fame.
22:41
Speaker 1: You don't trying to stet you up because they really
22:43
Speaker 1: ain't got nothing to lose. You need to be with
22:45
Speaker 1: somebody who also got something to lose. And then even
22:48
Speaker 1: if that happens, if you're with somebody who got a
22:51
Speaker 1: lot to lose, if it doesn't work out or they're
22:53
Speaker 1: abusing you, what should you do? Should you stay about
22:57
Speaker 1: to please the public? Nah? So I always say that
23:01
Speaker 1: people will say that because you are not in the limelight,
23:04
Speaker 1: and I'm talking because it's not like I've even been
23:07
Speaker 1: classified as such, if you mean, and that's why they're
23:10
Speaker 1: coming up with humors. I've seen it happen to a
23:12
Speaker 1: lot of women looking in and I don't like it
23:14
Speaker 1: because I'm also in the spotlight. And I'm telling you
23:17
Speaker 1: that I've been single without having sexual intercourse for a year, right,
23:23
Speaker 1: And I'm telling you that it's not easy. But because
23:26
Speaker 1: I don't feel like to take a chance or whatever,
23:29
Speaker 1: I try to get trying to be getting caught with somebody.
23:32
Speaker 1: And I really try to stay to myself because I
23:34
Speaker 1: pride my reputation. But at what falls I don't get
23:36
Speaker 1: no dick. Well, thank God for toys. Yeah, I use
23:40
Speaker 1: my toys like crazy. But it's like they always classify
23:43
Speaker 1: women and such when it's really not that easy. You
23:46
Speaker 1: actually have to just not care. Yeah, you have to,
23:49
Speaker 1: that's what I think. And you have to single and
23:51
Speaker 1: you're not fucking nobody's man, and you're not cheating a
23:54
Speaker 1: you're a man and you know, and you just I
23:57
Speaker 1: feel like we're famous woman kind of dope. It's just
24:01
Speaker 1: that you gotta be mindful of how you move with
24:03
Speaker 1: that person, whoever you're dating. You can't be seen with everybody,
24:06
Speaker 1: right if you mean, and if the person don't understand that,
24:09
Speaker 1: then you just you just already know that that's person
24:11
Speaker 1: is not for you because you gotta see if it
24:13
Speaker 1: will work out behind closed doors first before you even
24:16
Speaker 1: try to go on a public date. Right, And if
24:18
Speaker 1: you're going out, you need to be going somewhere real
24:20
Speaker 1: exclusive where there's not going to be paparazzi. Yeah, let's
24:24
Speaker 1: talk about that, because you were a picture but learning
24:25
Speaker 1: on the track and people trying to say, oh, look
24:28
Speaker 1: she's dating Lending on the track, and it looked like
24:30
Speaker 1: you're always holding hand. Yeah, I mean we were holding huns.
24:32
Speaker 1: You know, hold huns with everybody on my tea. You know,
24:35
Speaker 1: London is on my team right, like my monagers everybody,
24:38
Speaker 1: but London is a cool dude to me, Like we've
24:40
Speaker 1: been working together. We'll be making music and nobody. And
24:44
Speaker 1: when I say nobody, I mean nobody knows. So what
24:46
Speaker 1: I'm dating body public, I'm gonna find out. I don't
24:51
Speaker 1: care why y'all be seeing a line. You don't know
24:54
Speaker 1: who I'm dating. That's a fact, so you won't. In
24:57
Speaker 1: other words, you ain't gonna see a picture if that's
24:58
Speaker 1: the person who I'm dating. I ain't say never, say never.
25:01
Speaker 1: I'm just saying you just never know you're happy, like
25:04
Speaker 1: you really into somebody right now? Yeah, I'm into somebody
25:07
Speaker 1: for sure. Yeah, it's been going good. Are you cool dude? Yeah? Shoot,
25:12
Speaker 1: now it's a time. Have y'all been on vacation yet together. No,
25:16
Speaker 1: I've been working so hard. I've been so focused on
25:18
Speaker 1: my career because you deserve that. And if he's smart,
25:20
Speaker 1: right now, he'll be playing in something. I mean type
25:24
Speaker 1: of something, because I mean actually actually coming out to celebrate. Actually,
25:28
Speaker 1: we were supposed to go away last weekend, but it
25:32
Speaker 1: didn't get to hop in. I had studio that I
25:34
Speaker 1: had to just put it off and just deal with priority.
25:37
Speaker 1: You know, my music comes first, so I would definitely
25:41
Speaker 1: take a vacation soon, but no, he's album time. How
25:44
Speaker 1: does he feel when he sees like okay? Like, so
25:46
Speaker 1: there was that picture of you with the four guys
25:49
Speaker 1: surrounding you. One guy was for real sucking your toes. Yeah,
25:52
Speaker 1: and it wasn't even like he was had his face
25:55
Speaker 1: bout it, like his your toe was in his mouth.
25:58
Speaker 1: Does that bother him? No, it doesn't, And I love that.
26:00
Speaker 1: That's amazing. I love that this is work. Yes, he
26:04
Speaker 1: understands that it doesn't bother him at all, And I
26:07
Speaker 1: love that because I cannot be with somebody who stops
26:09
Speaker 1: me from entertaining my fans. I'm an entertainer if for me,
26:14
Speaker 1: so I have to be with a confident man and
26:17
Speaker 1: just know that, Yo, I'd be doing this online, but
26:20
Speaker 1: you know at the end of the day that it's
26:22
Speaker 1: you and only you because I'm not a cheater, right,
26:27
Speaker 1: So if you understand that, you just got to support
26:30
Speaker 1: me and let me do what I do to make
26:31
Speaker 1: my money, to make my fans happy, and do what
26:34
Speaker 1: I love and be happy doing what I love. Yeah,
26:38
Speaker 1: my toes sucked. Now you also co directed Lecky the video.
26:44
Speaker 1: So what I love is that you are an alpha
26:46
Speaker 1: as in taking charge of every aspect of your career.
26:49
Speaker 1: So what are some other things? Because I already know
26:51
Speaker 1: you thinking of more than just music. Yes, I want
26:53
Speaker 1: to go into acting. I want to go into merge,
26:55
Speaker 1: you know. Closing, I want to have my own vibrator line, right,
27:00
Speaker 1: And I was telling you should get a vagina too,
27:02
Speaker 1: like a mold of your virginia. Not this again, but
27:05
Speaker 1: so people could buy it. I don't think. I don't
27:08
Speaker 1: think my future housebuddy's gonna like that. To know that
27:11
Speaker 1: Yo is wife and my son too is like I
27:16
Speaker 1: was sickle to vibratories. I mean, not for me, not
27:19
Speaker 1: for me all right, but I could definitely see you
27:21
Speaker 1: and I appreciate you for giving me this. I was
27:23
Speaker 1: waiting for you to come up here before I um,
27:25
Speaker 1: you know, before I use it. I think you're gonna
27:28
Speaker 1: enjoy it. And I got this lollipop that I could
27:31
Speaker 1: lick on as well. But I know you have a
27:32
Speaker 1: lot going on because you know today is the album release. Yes,
27:37
Speaker 1: so I just want to thank you so much for
27:38
Speaker 1: coming through. I'm a big supporter of your life. I know.
27:40
Speaker 1: I thank you so much. And I love seeing like
27:42
Speaker 1: where you started from, watching where you're going, and to
27:45
Speaker 1: tell you to keep pushing. I see like everybody paying
27:47
Speaker 1: attention to you. We all know you were on Kanye's
27:50
Speaker 1: album two Songs. Yes, you know, we see the guest
27:53
Speaker 1: apparent you got on your album. You got twenty one Savage.
27:56
Speaker 1: You know you got Megan Offset, Tiger Sean Paul it's
28:01
Speaker 1: her royalty. Yeah. I can't wait for you guys to
28:04
Speaker 1: hear this album on your album as well. And I
28:06
Speaker 1: love your versatility. Thank you so much. You're not just
28:08
Speaker 1: in a box and so I can see you just
28:10
Speaker 1: doing absolutely anything you put your mind to me, and
28:13
Speaker 1: I love your work ethic and grind. So Shancia woman,
28:18
Speaker 1: now listen, I love it like I love to see
28:21
Speaker 1: it because I just remember first talking to you. Mad cool.
28:23
Speaker 1: You're still super cool. Yeah, girl, you can expect that
28:27
Speaker 1: from me. I do not change the same people who
28:29
Speaker 1: I've been working with five years ago, at the same
28:30
Speaker 1: people on my team. No, we just add other people
28:32
Speaker 1: to the team who also can reciprocate my energy. Like
28:35
Speaker 1: I'm really done to earth a girl, and I only
28:38
Speaker 1: surround myself with such all right, hold this for two years.
28:40
Speaker 1: Let's see what happens when she comes back. Promise, look
28:44
Speaker 1: at it. You're gonna promise. All right, Shancia is out today.
28:48
Speaker 1: Make sure y'all get that. Yeah,