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Dirty Little Secret: If You Love Me, You Must Pass This Test! · Billy The Kidd In The Morning

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  Speaker 1: This is dirty.
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  Speaker 2: Little secret makes one or two point nine. It is
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  Speaker 2: time to confess. If you have a secret, let us know.
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  Speaker 2: It's only the kid can slow past producer poo and
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  Speaker 2: you have one.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, So I need help because I put my boyfriend
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  Speaker 3: to a test and it backfired like miserably.
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  Speaker 4: Oh what do you mean a test?
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  Speaker 3: So okay, I've been dating him for like almost a
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  Speaker 3: year and I genuinely love this guy. But I'll admit
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  Speaker 3: I have some major insecurities when it comes to relationships.
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  Speaker 3: So okay, my mom like always drilled into my head
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  Speaker 3: like growing up that if a man really loves you,
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  Speaker 3: he'll fight for you. Right.
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  Speaker 4: Oh you know if you try to he'll fight for you,
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  Speaker 4: you said, okay.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, Like if you try to walk away and
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  Speaker 3: he just lets you go, then like clearly he didn't
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  Speaker 3: want you badly enough.
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  Speaker 4: Oh oh god, I don't know. I don't know where
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  Speaker 4: this is going, but I'm nervous now.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, okay, So okay, I just want to purpose
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  Speaker 3: by saying I've kind of tested guys with this before,
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  Speaker 3: which I know is terrible, and I did it. I
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  Speaker 3: did it a few nights ago with my boyfriend.
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  Speaker 4: What do you do.
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  Speaker 3: And him and I were talking and like I randomly
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  Speaker 3: told him I don't know, like maybe we should just
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  Speaker 3: break up, and I did not. Yeah, just I'll have
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  Speaker 3: you know. I did not want to, Like that was
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  Speaker 3: not I didn't actually want to break out.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, So you tell the guy I think we should
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  Speaker 2: break up and wait for his even though you don't
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  Speaker 2: want to, and wait for his reaction.
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  Speaker 3: He's supposed to freak out and like ask me what's
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  Speaker 3: wrong and tell me that he loves me and like
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  Speaker 3: that we could like fix whatever's bothering me and you know,
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  Speaker 3: like fright for me.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, so what did he say?
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  Speaker 3: This man sat there quietly for what felt like forever
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  Speaker 3: and just was like, yeah, I think you're right. What yet?
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  Speaker 4: Oh no?
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  Speaker 3: Yes? What?
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  Speaker 4: So this backfired on you big time.
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  Speaker 3: I was completely blindsided. Well, instead of admitting what I did,
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  Speaker 3: I like doubled me down. So now I'm like sitting
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  Speaker 3: there acting like yeah, you know, like I think this
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  Speaker 3: is for the best. Well, internally I'm like freaking out
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  Speaker 3: and now he's basically broken up.
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  Speaker 1: Oh well, he failed the test.
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  Speaker 3: I mean you asked for it, right, I really did.
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  Speaker 3: I really did. And the worst part is like every
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  Speaker 3: other guy I've done this with is immediately panicked and
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  Speaker 3: tried to stop me, and of course like the one
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  Speaker 3: guy I actually want more than anybody is like okay, bye.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean it's it's kind of sad, but this
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  Speaker 2: is the point of doing it. I guess if you're
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  Speaker 2: going to do this, even though I think it's a little,
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  Speaker 2: it's a lot.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, we all, especially out of nowhere, there's no contention,
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  Speaker 5: friction and any kind of test.
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  Speaker 3: No, I didn't even wait for a fight or anything.
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  Speaker 4: Oh yeah, any kind of test is usually going to
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  Speaker 4: come across the wrong way. What do you always saying, Billy,
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  Speaker 4: stupid game, stupid pero. Yeah, but this is not a
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  Speaker 4: stupid rise.
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  Speaker 2: I think this is actually what's meant to be because
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  Speaker 2: he's obviously your mom does.
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  Speaker 4: Have a point.
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  Speaker 2: He's not into you. Yeah, it is because if you
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  Speaker 2: love a girl, if you love a woman. Yeah, and
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  Speaker 2: I'm not saying you should test him, but there is
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  Speaker 2: something to her advice saying a guy a man will
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  Speaker 2: fight for you.
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  Speaker 4: I think that's true.
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  Speaker 2: If if you say, hey, I think we should break
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  Speaker 2: up out of nowhere, I'm gonna go why why would.
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  Speaker 4: You say that? Yeah?
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  Speaker 1: Right, where's this coming from?
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  Speaker 4: If I care?
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  Speaker 6: If I don't care, I'm like, yeah, you're probably right.
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  Speaker 6: Let's put a bow on it, wrap it up, DoD's
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  Speaker 6: dead bullet. Yeah, we're done. You just gave him out.
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  Speaker 6: He's been looking for so I.
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  Speaker 4: So are you? I mean, what can you do at
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  Speaker 4: this point?
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  Speaker 3: Well? I don't know. Like at first, I was like,
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  Speaker 3: do I swallow my bride and say, like I'm an
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  Speaker 3: insecure idiot and I never actually wanted to break up?
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  Speaker 3: And I was like testing you, or do I do
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  Speaker 3: what you just said? Like maybe this is maybe that's
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  Speaker 3: the answer, Like he doesn't really want to be you
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  Speaker 3: with me, Like I just hear my mom's voice in
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  Speaker 3: my head, Like right, I don't know. I mean with him,
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  Speaker 3: it's my fault.
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  Speaker 4: Would you do? Canus?
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  Speaker 5: I mean, it depends on how much you're actually into him.
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  Speaker 5: Are you just wanting to be in a relationship or
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  Speaker 5: do you really see a future with him?
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  Speaker 3: But like that will tell me a lot if he
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  Speaker 3: I know, I seriously think I just like ruined the
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  Speaker 3: best one of the best relationships I've ever had.
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  Speaker 1: Well, then you gotta talk to him about it.
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  Speaker 4: It's not the best relationship ever had. She goes back,
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  Speaker 4: he's going to be like, he got you. Yeah, but
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  Speaker 4: you know what I'm saying, he can.
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  Speaker 3: He doesn't trust me, yeah exactly.
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  Speaker 1: I mean I wouldn't, to be honest, I.
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  Speaker 5: Wouldn't trust but she told me you were testing me.
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  Speaker 2: You got to bring up your insecurities from the past,
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  Speaker 2: and you got to bring up your mom because there's
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  Speaker 2: got to be context to why you do this.
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  Speaker 4: Otherwise you're just going to seem like a lunatic.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 5: Or you wait for him to reach out, because I
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  Speaker 5: feel like when this breakups happen, like you talk and
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  Speaker 5: someone reaches out and it's sort of like a slow fade.
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  Speaker 4: Maybe my god.
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  Speaker 3: But if he doesn't reach out, maybe that's what that means.
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  Speaker 3: He's done.
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  Speaker 1: You got to accept he failed them test.
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  Speaker 2: It also depends on It also depends on what kind
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  Speaker 2: of guy Manny is like as far as is he
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  Speaker 2: really in touch with his feelings.
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  Speaker 4: Some guys shut down during stuff like.
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  Speaker 1: This you feel rejected and just be right.
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  Speaker 2: He might be just like this is how I handle
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  Speaker 2: you know, rejection, the rejection I go, I'm out.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: He's just gonna say whatever the easiest thing is, and
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  Speaker 2: he's gonna go. Maybe you're right, and that's probably a
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  Speaker 2: guy who needs to work on his own feelings too then,
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  Speaker 2: so either way, you the conversation has to be had.
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  Speaker 3: So.
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  Speaker 2: Your but you got to be completely honest with him
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  Speaker 2: about what you did.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, it can't get worse than this. You're broken up.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, so see see what he says, and good luck
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  Speaker 2: it'll be it'll be. Sorry that song is stuck in
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  Speaker 2: my head now. Well, thank you so much, and and
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  Speaker 2: good luck. And we got to stop trying to put
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  Speaker 2: people to test. Yeah for real that we all fail.
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  Speaker 2: Thanks for all right, good luck with everything though.
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  Speaker 3: Thanks