Latest / Drama, Darling: A Real Housewives Comedy Podcast / Jax's Diagnosis, Tamra's Brow Lift, BELOW DECK MED RECAP
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- 0:05Speaker 1: Drama Darling, Drama Darling, Drama Darling. Well, hello and welcome in,
- 0:21Speaker 1: Welcome into a shortened week at Drama Darling. And that
- 0:26Speaker 1: is because we did not have a show yesterday. It
- 0:28Speaker 1: was a labor day and I did not labor. Emily,
- 0:32Speaker 1: Emily Desis is here. Emily. I know you were laboring.
- 0:36Speaker 1: I could see I was getting text. I knew about work.
- 0:39Speaker 1: You were like, I gotta work.
- 0:41Speaker 2: I like to labor on a Monday, even if it's
- 0:44Speaker 2: a holiday. If I if I am in town, I
- 0:46Speaker 2: will labor.
- 0:48Speaker 1: Okay, well, you know, listen, I like to labor also.
- 0:53Speaker 1: But and there was I guess I maybe did a
- 0:56Speaker 1: hint of laboring. But baby Dwater was you know, she
- 1:00Speaker 1: had her friend over. We were in the pool. It
- 1:02Speaker 1: was it was a last minute kind of labor day.
- 1:05Speaker 1: Let's order pizza and hat that's perfect. But Brett labored.
- 1:09Speaker 1: Brett was gone most of the day.
- 1:11Speaker 2: So you know, there you go.
- 1:14Speaker 1: But yeah, we uh, we had a great long weekend,
- 1:17Speaker 1: a ton of laundry. And might I say I did
- 1:20Speaker 1: not need any color beads to complete my laundry.
- 1:24Speaker 2: Anew exactly is that?
- 1:27Speaker 1: Well, I don't know. By the way, we're talking below
- 1:29Speaker 1: deck men today and we well, why don't we just
- 1:34Speaker 1: get to it in a second.
- 1:35Speaker 2: Well, you know what I mean? Okay, yeah, i've because
- 1:37Speaker 2: I googled, But go ahead keep it.
- 1:39Speaker 1: I don't think it's a thing that people do unless
- 1:41Speaker 1: you're a stew you know what I mean. Well, we'll
- 1:45Speaker 1: get to it, okay, But let's just say I didn't
- 1:48Speaker 1: have any problem finding where people's laundry went in in
- 1:53Speaker 1: the home here.
- 1:55Speaker 2: Good good, Yeah, I killed it.
- 1:57Speaker 1: Also, you know, did a lot of irony this weekend, which,
- 2:01Speaker 1: let me ask you a question, do you prefer And
- 2:05Speaker 1: this goes to the darlings too, but Emily, let me
- 2:08Speaker 1: ask you this, would you prefer being in charge of
- 2:11Speaker 1: folding or ironing? In ironing? We would make a great team.
- 2:18Speaker 3: Yeah.
- 2:18Speaker 2: I absolutely love folding.
- 2:20Speaker 1: I adore ironing. I mean I adore it. It is
- 2:24Speaker 1: so soothing. And you know, and I don't mind steaming either,
- 2:30Speaker 1: like that whole because they go hand in hand. We
- 2:32Speaker 1: all know, and I would know the difference between what
- 2:35Speaker 1: to iron and what to steam. So I think that
- 2:38Speaker 1: we really would be a great team.
- 2:41Speaker 2: Well, let's can we get a job on below deck
- 2:45Speaker 2: and only do laundry as I've said I'd like to do.
- 2:48Speaker 1: Okay, I know Captain Sandy percent, I know, like the
- 2:53Speaker 1: executive producer below that we are so going to be
- 2:55Speaker 1: a team.
- 2:56Speaker 2: Oh get us in.
- 2:58Speaker 1: I can't I get violently seasick. Oh that's a no
- 3:03Speaker 1: for me. AnyWho can we.
- 3:05Speaker 2: Do crew laundry at the hotel?
- 3:08Speaker 4: Love?
- 3:09Speaker 1: Oh? Now that would be great. Just watch TV and
- 3:13Speaker 1: like Iron and fold. What a great life, you know?
- 3:16Speaker 2: I watch the dailies from below deck?
- 3:19Speaker 1: Yes, yeah, yeah, it has a big gre that's.
- 3:22Speaker 2: What we need to do.
- 3:23Speaker 1: Can we need that? Tell Sandy just so you know. Okay,
- 3:28Speaker 1: all right, I will I'll tell Sandy. I'll tell Sandy.
- 3:31Speaker 1: Now we will talk about below Deck. I hope all
- 3:33Speaker 1: of you had a great Labor Day weekend. It was
- 3:35Speaker 1: wonderful to have that extra day. Gosh knows the kids,
- 3:39Speaker 1: the kids have started school. Maddie had already started started school.
- 3:42Speaker 1: So we needed a hot break, you know what I
- 3:44Speaker 1: mean to reset? Yeah, and it's it's picture day for
- 3:48Speaker 1: Maddie today.
- 3:49Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, already.
- 3:51Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 3:54Speaker 2: A lot of schools in Maryland didn't go back until today.
- 3:57Speaker 2: And that's because when he was the governor. Governor Hogan
- 4:01Speaker 2: wanted the Ocean City and all the Maryland beaches to
- 4:05Speaker 2: get that last wave of vacation and tourism. Yeah.
- 4:09Speaker 1: Smart, exactly. You know what you're doing there, not not here,
- 4:14Speaker 1: not here? Weird weird yeah, picture day Yeah already m hm.
- 4:22Speaker 1: So it's not that it was especially in you iron
- 4:25Speaker 1: that outfit, right, I didn't need to It didn't need
- 4:29Speaker 1: to be ironed. It was like it's like a Schiffani outfit.
- 4:34Speaker 1: Oh anyway, it didn't need to be iron or steamed.
- 4:38Speaker 1: But they was oh so yeah, no idea.
- 4:42Speaker 2: What I was going to say, Oh no, I was
- 4:45Speaker 2: so wrapped up in my ironing, so I can't get
- 4:49Speaker 2: into it.
- 4:54Speaker 1: Oh I know what I was going to say yesterday
- 4:56Speaker 1: when she had her little vestie over here. What they
- 4:59Speaker 1: love to do is after they swim, they love to like,
- 5:04Speaker 1: we're going to play, you know, dress up, and they
- 5:07Speaker 1: play fashion show and they go all out and they
- 5:10Speaker 1: put on all these different costumes and things that Maddie
- 5:13Speaker 1: is you know, built up over the years, things that
- 5:16Speaker 1: are also way too small, and then they ask, oh,
- 5:22Speaker 1: can we do makeup? So I was like, well, okay,
- 5:26Speaker 1: but only in the bathroom because last time it destroyed
- 5:28Speaker 1: her rug, and I was scrubbing that rug. Yeah, it
- 5:32Speaker 1: was not a good thing anyway. So they're in the
- 5:34Speaker 1: bathroom and then they come out and my gal, my girl,
- 5:40Speaker 1: from a forehead down to her chest green, she was
- 5:45Speaker 1: a witch green with face paint green. And it didn't
- 5:52Speaker 1: dawn on me that today's picture day, you know what
- 5:54Speaker 1: I mean. And I thought, oh my god. So and
- 6:00Speaker 1: I was like, oh wow, great job. And then and
- 6:05Speaker 1: then they came back out and she has like makeup wipe,
- 6:08Speaker 1: so they were able to get a lot of it off.
- 6:10Speaker 1: But later when it was bathtime, I mean, there was
- 6:14Speaker 1: green popping up in places that I was like, oh
- 6:16Speaker 1: my gosh, I think, you know, hopefully, I think I
- 6:19Speaker 1: got it all off. But there were some lingering sparkles,
- 6:22Speaker 1: to say the least, this morning, and her eyebrows may
- 6:25Speaker 1: have been a little darker than usual regardless of these
- 6:29Speaker 1: rubbing that we did.
- 6:32Speaker 2: I can't wait to see these. Yeah.
- 6:35Speaker 1: It just it's a lot to put on parents to
- 6:37Speaker 1: have picture day the day after a holiday, because people
- 6:41Speaker 1: are going to be going bonkers, the kids are going
- 6:42Speaker 1: to be tired, and you have to get up early
- 6:44Speaker 1: and really make sure their hair looks good and they're
- 6:46Speaker 1: dressed really nice. It's a lot to ask.
- 6:50Speaker 2: It's a lot, yeah, especially if you are staying one
- 6:57Speaker 2: extra day. Sometimes happens, then you're gonna miss pictured day.
- 7:03Speaker 1: Then you got to do that makeup and then it's
- 7:04Speaker 1: like it doesn't feel the same, you know. Yeah, and
- 7:07Speaker 1: then you won't be in the class photo because they
- 7:09Speaker 1: take the class photos.
- 7:11Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 7:12Speaker 1: Not good anyway. The only good thing about it is
- 7:15Speaker 1: that you know, with them going back so early, they
- 7:18Speaker 1: have the longest, They've got a lot of breaks, you know,
- 7:20Speaker 1: and then Christmas is like three weeks practically.
- 7:24Speaker 2: Oh I remember that a little too sometimes. Yeah, I
- 7:28Speaker 2: remember that from last year. You were like, it's time, yeah,
- 7:31Speaker 2: day after Christmas.
- 7:35Speaker 1: Yeah, well uh okay, but you know what time it
- 7:40Speaker 1: is actually for real real, it's time to serve up
- 7:43Speaker 1: some dish shaving dish okay, Emily. Over the weekend, we
- 7:49Speaker 1: got a little something something from a mister Jacks, or
- 7:52Speaker 1: shall I say Jason Taylor, who took to his social
- 7:56Speaker 1: media account and said a little over a month ago
- 8:00Speaker 1: into an intensive inpatient treatment facility, scared of the unknown
- 8:04Speaker 1: and what I would find out about myself after many
- 8:07Speaker 1: years of knowing something was wrong, but not knowing exactly
- 8:11Speaker 1: what it was. I recently learned that I was diagnosed
- 8:13Speaker 1: with bipolar disorder and PTSD. It's been a lot to
- 8:17Speaker 1: process and an emotional time for me. However, I've come
- 8:21Speaker 1: home to my son with a new found sense of peace.
- 8:25Speaker 1: I'd be lying if I said I wasn't scared for
- 8:27Speaker 1: the future, but my focus is just trying to be
- 8:30Speaker 1: a better version of myself than I was yesterday. Mental
- 8:33Speaker 1: health is a lifelong battle of not letting it control you,
- 8:37Speaker 1: but rather you learning to control it. Thank you to
- 8:41Speaker 1: everyone who was reached out in support and who also
- 8:44Speaker 1: shared their own personal struggles with me. Your messages have
- 8:47Speaker 1: helped me more than you know. And it's a picture
- 8:51Speaker 1: of Jack's and he has he's looking down, he has
- 8:55Speaker 1: his group therapy journal next to him, and he is
- 8:59Speaker 1: doing the work. Jackson is doing the work, So you know,
- 9:04Speaker 1: this is such a wild discovery that he's had. I'm
- 9:11Speaker 1: thrilled for him that he's gotten some answers, that he
- 9:14Speaker 1: took the time to work on himself, that he has
- 9:19Speaker 1: been officially diagnosed with bipolar. He didn't say bipolar one
- 9:24Speaker 1: or two, so I don't know the specifics there. I
- 9:27Speaker 1: know there is a difference, but you know, looking back
- 9:32Speaker 1: and I am no to vuant when it comes to
- 9:35Speaker 1: psychology and knowing things. However, it totally makes sense. Yeah,
- 9:45Speaker 1: I wonder if he will follow the protocols and take
- 9:49Speaker 1: the medications and do all the stuff that he needs
- 9:53Speaker 1: to do. Because when you have a mental disorder and
- 9:58Speaker 1: you don't know it, and you're struggling with yourself and
- 10:03Speaker 1: your thoughts and your manic behavior what have you your
- 10:07Speaker 1: whole life, you start to self medicate in ways to
- 10:12Speaker 1: try and fix that, to try and cope. And so
- 10:16Speaker 1: obviously that's been a pattern, allegedly, I want to say,
- 10:20Speaker 1: perhaps the reason why he has dabbled in the certain
- 10:26Speaker 1: things that you get on the streets that you're not
- 10:30Speaker 1: supposed to help that mania, you know, because a lot
- 10:34Speaker 1: of the times when I would see him so manic,
- 10:36Speaker 1: I would just assume it was because of cocaine or
- 10:40Speaker 1: adderall or whatever drug of choice, and that could have
- 10:45Speaker 1: been it as well as having the bipolar and.
- 10:49Speaker 2: Also the drinking and the drinking. Yeah, I mean, you're
- 10:55Speaker 2: just chasing good to bad to bad to good, and
- 10:59Speaker 2: with the depressants and the stimulants, so right, Yeah, I
- 11:04Speaker 2: mean it really does make sense.
- 11:08Speaker 1: And Jacks, it does, and and honestly, I just didn't
- 11:13Speaker 1: I don't know what I thought. I just thought that
- 11:15Speaker 1: he was a very narcissistic person with with issues. I
- 11:24Speaker 1: didn't necessarily even think about any diagnosis. I just thought
- 11:29Speaker 1: he's narcissistic and he wants to be on reality and
- 11:33Speaker 1: he's really good at reality television, so he's going to
- 11:37Speaker 1: put on airs for that.
- 11:40Speaker 2: Well, he still could be all those things, all those
- 11:43Speaker 2: things bipolar. I think that the bipolar would probably just
- 11:51Speaker 2: heighten a lot of those tendencies.
- 11:54Speaker 1: But I mean, yeah, that's a glad, great point.
- 11:57Speaker 2: That Brittany is not going to be dealing with it.
- 12:01Speaker 2: But although I do wonder if now Brittany will like
- 12:07Speaker 2: come back to it. But I don't know. This is
- 12:12Speaker 2: a this is gonna be a tough time. Hopefully, yea,
- 12:15Speaker 2: hopefully if if she comes back around, hopefully it's like
- 12:19Speaker 2: in a year or something.
- 12:21Speaker 1: Oh gosh, I have a feeling she won't. I have
- 12:23Speaker 1: a feeling that she will stay away and hope for
- 12:29Speaker 1: the best for co parenting. I don't know if she
- 12:31Speaker 1: do it. Like I think that she has really found
- 12:35Speaker 1: herself again and feels so empowered that I don't think
- 12:38Speaker 1: that she would go back.
- 12:39Speaker 5: I I know, I think she would, especially because now
- 12:45Speaker 5: there's a diagnosis and there's like something that like they
- 12:49Speaker 5: can get their hands around.
- 12:51Speaker 1: But he'd have to prove to her that he he'd
- 12:55Speaker 1: have to be.
- 12:56Speaker 2: Medica a while to like, yeah.
- 12:59Speaker 1: You know, do all the things. And that's the thing.
- 13:04Speaker 1: You can't like, you know, two weeks in of the
- 13:07Speaker 1: medication or whatever, maybe that won't even work. He's gonna
- 13:09Speaker 1: have to try different medications, right, you know, it's such
- 13:12Speaker 1: a journey finding the right ingredientss for your for your body. Yeah,
- 13:22Speaker 1: so I just you know, it's not like it's not
- 13:26Speaker 1: a simple thing. I'm sure you know, or maybe it
- 13:28Speaker 1: is for some people. They get on medication, it's like okay, great,
- 13:32Speaker 1: but then after a while, you know, I know I
- 13:35Speaker 1: have some people in my life where after a while
- 13:37Speaker 1: the medication starts to not work and then you have
- 13:41Speaker 1: to switch it and things like that. So there may
- 13:44Speaker 1: be impending episodes. And so if you are someone who's
- 13:49Speaker 1: willing to go through that with your partner, that's great.
- 13:53Speaker 1: I wonder if she's just is she so burned out
- 13:56Speaker 1: by him that she wouldn't even be have any patience
- 13:59Speaker 1: at all to deal with with even one little thing,
- 14:03Speaker 1: one glimpse of what he struggles with. And and really
- 14:09Speaker 1: that wouldn't be fair to her if she doesn't have
- 14:11Speaker 1: the bandwidth to deal with that. I could completely understand that.
- 14:16Speaker 2: Yeah, I just think I don't think Britney's gonna change overnight.
- 14:21Speaker 2: And by that I mean I think that she will
- 14:23Speaker 2: get back with Jack's for it might not be immediate,
- 14:28Speaker 2: but it will be eventually.
- 14:30Speaker 1: Okay, have you seen her stories?
- 14:33Speaker 2: I have.
- 14:35Speaker 3: I get the sparkle bike. Hey, everybody, don't lose your sparkle.
- 14:39Speaker 3: I got a sparkle that would say bringing a fucking
- 14:41Speaker 3: take it from me.
- 14:43Speaker 1: I mean it is like she gone, you know what
- 14:46Speaker 1: I mean, like gone, girl gone, I don't listen. Uh,
- 14:51Speaker 1: if you would have told me a year ago that
- 14:55Speaker 1: he was diagnosed bipolar and PTSD, isolutely thinks she would
- 15:01Speaker 1: have stayed and saw it through. But the abuse that
- 15:04Speaker 1: the alleged abuse thow that has happened to her because
- 15:08Speaker 1: of him, she is going to need time to repair.
- 15:11Speaker 1: And I do not think if she's in therapy and
- 15:14Speaker 1: if she's like dealing with I really do not think.
- 15:16Speaker 1: But anything is possible, because yes, I you know, she
- 15:23Speaker 1: has always been mis positive. She wants to have her
- 15:25Speaker 1: family be together. But she did the best thing for
- 15:28Speaker 1: her family. She did the best thing for Jack. She
- 15:30Speaker 1: did the best thing for her son by having the
- 15:32Speaker 1: strength to leave him so that he ultimately checked himself
- 15:38Speaker 1: into this mental health facility to where he actually had
- 15:41Speaker 1: these tests done. I'm so curious if he's ever had
- 15:45Speaker 1: this done before and he didn't imagine it really, i.
- 15:49Speaker 2: Mean, who knows. Like he was going to this spiritual guide, right.
- 15:54Speaker 1: All the bullshit stuff that which, believe me, like in
- 15:57Speaker 1: tandem we all agree, you know, West meets East and
- 16:01Speaker 1: you know, all that stuff. But he was like, yeah,
- 16:05Speaker 1: he was going to a raiki person. He was going
- 16:07Speaker 1: to all the bullshit things that don't really work.
- 16:10Speaker 2: Okay, I'm gonna say ten dollars. They are back together
- 16:13Speaker 2: within eighteen months.
- 16:16Speaker 1: Eighteen that's a good number. Fair, Okay, I see you
- 16:20Speaker 1: your eighteen months. And I am gonna say never, I'm
- 16:25Speaker 1: gonna say no. I'm gonna say co parenting spectacular.
- 16:31Speaker 2: Okay.
- 16:32Speaker 1: By so by next filming of The Valley.
- 16:36Speaker 2: They with this season.
- 16:37Speaker 1: No, no, no, not this season, because there's too there's
- 16:42Speaker 1: too much to work out. I don't think it's gonna
- 16:44Speaker 1: be great by the end of this season. I think
- 16:46Speaker 1: it's gonna be like a lot of tears and Britney's
- 16:50Speaker 1: still gonna be angry.
- 16:52Speaker 3: Lotta head to get to this pullet Jakes, you know,
- 16:54Speaker 3: like I tell ye, Jake's.
- 16:57Speaker 1: Like, it's gonna be a lot of that. She's gonna
- 16:59Speaker 1: be fear still by the end of this. And now
- 17:02Speaker 1: by the end of this he's going to come out
- 17:04Speaker 1: of this and be like, look and he's going to
- 17:07Speaker 1: like bring the paper and the receipts to Jackson's studio,
- 17:11Speaker 1: Bar and he's going to you know, swap them out
- 17:14Speaker 1: for the divorce papers. He was served with the divorce papers,
- 17:19Speaker 1: but ultimately at the end of the day that divorce
- 17:22Speaker 1: could be halted and they could stay together if she
- 17:25Speaker 1: had a change, Bar.
- 17:26Speaker 2: I know, see this is what's happening. Amy. Now you're
- 17:29Speaker 2: coming around to my side. Eighteen months or less, what
- 17:33Speaker 2: do you think.
- 17:34Speaker 1: We still think she's going to go through it?
- 17:36Speaker 2: A val renewal, a season a season of val renewal preparation,
- 17:42Speaker 2: and then.
- 17:43Speaker 1: I mean, I like the sounds of all that, you know.
- 17:45Speaker 2: Jackson Brittany's val renewal episode. Look, I want her to
- 17:51Speaker 2: be I just we know Brittany and we know how
- 17:54Speaker 2: she was raised.
- 17:55Speaker 1: This is also Brittany. This is new. This is a
- 17:58Speaker 1: new Brittany.
- 17:58Speaker 2: But in Brittany his mind and in fairness, this could
- 18:03Speaker 2: be a new Jacks. So now then they have a son.
- 18:08Speaker 1: I would love to see a new Jackson.
- 18:10Speaker 2: This are new Jack is like.
- 18:14Speaker 1: This new Jack studio City bar By Rocos. I would
- 18:23Speaker 1: love to see a Jacks that is finding his balance
- 18:28Speaker 1: and like I don't we don't know what that looks like.
- 18:30Speaker 1: I mean, that would be amazing to see somebody come
- 18:33Speaker 1: through this and having watched him all these years.
- 18:37Speaker 2: Darlings, sound off in the comments. What do we got?
- 18:41Speaker 1: Volume are sound off? Okay, teen eighteen months, you've got
- 18:47Speaker 1: choices less never or eighteen months. Those are your only
- 18:51Speaker 1: two choices. Let me tell you something. I don't know
- 18:56Speaker 1: what one of my exes what it is like. I
- 19:00Speaker 1: don't know if he is bipolar or schizophrenic or like
- 19:05Speaker 1: I'm not sure, but there was something major going on
- 19:08Speaker 1: and I don't know because he was never diagnosed. Like
- 19:10Speaker 1: when I was with him, I ultimately got out of
- 19:12Speaker 1: the situation, But I was with him for so long.
- 19:17Speaker 1: I will say, once you get to that point where
- 19:21Speaker 1: you've been so abused and hurt and you've been through
- 19:26Speaker 1: the ringer with this person for so long, they could
- 19:29Speaker 1: literally change into Jesus himself and you would still never
- 19:36Speaker 1: go back. So that's why I think she won't on
- 19:40Speaker 1: my weakest day, That's why I always would go back.
- 19:43Speaker 1: But once you cross over and you finally get it
- 19:47Speaker 1: and you actually get the strength to go, and it's
- 19:50Speaker 1: for real that time, and you yeah gone. Your issues
- 19:54Speaker 1: rise to the surface when you have a baby and
- 20:00Speaker 1: things change for you and things like start to Yeah.
- 20:03Speaker 2: I mean his life was insane. I mean, he opened
- 20:08Speaker 2: a bar. He's filming a reality show. He's also filming
- 20:12Speaker 2: Bander Pump Rules like it like not just filming a
- 20:15Speaker 2: reality show. He's filming The Valley, which they had no
- 20:17Speaker 2: idea what it was going to do. They're coming out
- 20:20Speaker 2: of some difficult financial times. They don't know if they
- 20:23Speaker 2: can keep their house. Jack's was soft canceled, like there
- 20:28Speaker 2: was a lot going on and riding on this year,
- 20:32Speaker 2: So I am sure that. I mean, but like we've
- 20:37Speaker 2: seen this, We've seen Jack's acting as like like appropriately
- 20:44Speaker 2: to this diagnosis for many years. So, I mean, I
- 20:47Speaker 2: don't think it's just this year.
- 20:49Speaker 1: Yeah, there was that situation, that horrible situation that happened
- 20:54Speaker 1: to him with his parents that when his dad was
- 20:57Speaker 1: so sick, his mom did not tell him and then
- 21:02Speaker 1: he was never able to go see his father before
- 21:04Speaker 1: he died.
- 21:06Speaker 2: I mean, who knows, And then he.
- 21:08Speaker 1: Never talked to his mother again. Remember, like she wasn't
- 21:11Speaker 1: invited to the wedding, and so there's big stuff with
- 21:14Speaker 1: regards to his mother there, and who knows.
- 21:18Speaker 2: What if that's the that's not probably the first thing
- 21:22Speaker 2: that went down with his mom and dad.
- 21:24Speaker 1: No no, no, no, no, that's the only thing that we
- 21:26Speaker 1: know of. Yeah, yeah, you're right. I'm sure it goes
- 21:28Speaker 1: way back.
- 21:29Speaker 2: Yeah, So I mean, who knows. I think he'll share
- 21:35Speaker 2: it because he's on reality television.
- 21:40Speaker 1: I was reading this Reddit article on the Jack's situation
- 21:45Speaker 1: and him being.
- 21:45Speaker 2: Reddit article by the journalist that read it.
- 21:49Speaker 1: I said that in so much seriousness that it's making
- 21:54Speaker 1: me lol. I was reading this incredible.
- 22:00Speaker 2: The hard hitting, the hard hitting reading Reddit journalists go
- 22:06Speaker 2: on it's my.
- 22:07Speaker 1: Go to right after the Washington Post. So they there
- 22:14Speaker 1: were several. There were some people that were pointing out
- 22:16Speaker 1: a couple of things the hyper sexuality mm hmmm, which
- 22:21Speaker 1: goes along with like bipolar, and I don't know one
- 22:23Speaker 1: or two, So please forgive me. I apologize, And maybe
- 22:25Speaker 1: it's not the case with every diagnosis. When he stole
- 22:29Speaker 1: remember when he stole those sunglasses, that was so fucking weird.
- 22:34Speaker 1: That was one of the weirdest things that I've seen
- 22:38Speaker 1: on reality television. And I know, it seems like a
- 22:42Speaker 1: small thing.
- 22:44Speaker 2: Yeah, because nothing motivated it. There was nothing like that
- 22:48Speaker 2: was going to come out of it.
- 22:50Speaker 1: It was out of no way. It was like, this
- 22:53Speaker 1: is part of who he is and it was nothing
- 22:56Speaker 1: to him and that scared me so bad. I was like,
- 22:59Speaker 1: this is who you are? Whoa I mean that jumped
- 23:03Speaker 1: out to me more than the cheating and more than
- 23:05Speaker 1: the lying.
- 23:06Speaker 2: Yeah, so yeah, I agree.
- 23:10Speaker 1: So there were a lot of red flags that may
- 23:12Speaker 1: have been pointing to that. You know, when you think
- 23:14Speaker 1: about it, in the lying, compulsive stuff that you just
- 23:16Speaker 1: never know what he's saying. So it'll be interesting to
- 23:21Speaker 1: find out if the cheating rumors about him are true.
- 23:25Speaker 1: They're true, okay allegedly allegedly, and I mean, it's great
- 23:31Speaker 1: for him. He can take all that and blame it
- 23:33Speaker 1: on his diagnosis, which is like really like a free pass.
- 23:37Speaker 1: I mean, to be honest with you, I'd be like
- 23:39Speaker 1: that thrilled.
- 23:40Speaker 2: Yeah, And that is why I think eighteen months or
- 23:44Speaker 2: less for Brittany, you know, just things to put bets
- 23:48Speaker 2: on if I'm not a Look, we're not in Vegas,
- 23:52Speaker 2: so we I don't know the odds.
- 23:54Speaker 1: So let's move on to one other piece of news,
- 23:57Speaker 1: and that is Tamera Judge's eyebrowl that is scaring the nation.
- 24:03Speaker 1: Thank you, Tamra for being so transparent. I know Emily
- 24:06Speaker 1: loves it. We all love it.
- 24:08Speaker 2: I do.
- 24:10Speaker 1: My god. It is such a jump scare and it
- 24:13Speaker 1: is the thing that will keep any person from doing
- 24:18Speaker 1: what she's doing because it is so terrifying. Do you think, yes,
- 24:25Speaker 1: it's really awful to see. I mean I could never
- 24:30Speaker 1: do it. I mean I could never do it before
- 24:32Speaker 1: Maddie was like thirteen years old, because can you imagine
- 24:37Speaker 1: have you seen the pictures of her?
- 24:38Speaker 2: Oh yeah, yeah, I think I'm just like I can't
- 24:42Speaker 2: wait to see the after right, as not fun as
- 24:46Speaker 2: this looks, this is what it is.
- 24:49Speaker 1: Yeah, no, right, right right, okay.
- 24:51Speaker 2: No matter what you're gonna get. And she also had
- 24:54Speaker 2: like that and like that thing where they what's the
- 24:58Speaker 2: injecting thing, because that's why you're that color.
- 25:01Speaker 1: So it says that she she did a brow lift,
- 25:07Speaker 1: a CO two laser, and a blue chemical peel. Why
- 25:12Speaker 1: all that at once, that's insane.
- 25:16Speaker 2: Well, I mean it wasn't like she did it herself.
- 25:19Speaker 2: The doctor did it.
- 25:20Speaker 1: Yeah, but she chose to do it.
- 25:22Speaker 2: Yeah, but it's probably like because she had she was
- 25:26Speaker 2: under anesthesia and you're not going to keep going, so
- 25:29Speaker 2: like once you're under, like, let's get it doing.
- 25:33Speaker 1: She was in so much pain yesterday on labor day,
- 25:36Speaker 1: and she couldn't get the steroids because the pharmacy was closed,
- 25:42Speaker 1: so she had to see it through in all that
- 25:48Speaker 1: pain and just I'm sorry, it's so tough to watch.
- 25:52Speaker 1: She also looked so good because she already had the
- 25:56Speaker 1: lower face lift, and that was what her explanation was
- 25:59Speaker 1: that she said that she had a lower face lift,
- 26:01Speaker 1: but skip the upper like painting the house, but forgetting
- 26:04Speaker 1: the trim. And look, I'm here for these updates. I
- 26:09Speaker 1: am all over it. But by god, it is and
- 26:12Speaker 1: it is really disturbing. Now. Her mom sent her a text.
- 26:17Speaker 1: Did you see this?
- 26:18Speaker 2: Yes?
- 26:20Speaker 1: Oh my god. Her mom sent her a text yesterday
- 26:24Speaker 1: and she was trying not to laugh because her face
- 26:27Speaker 1: was in so much pain. And her mom says, your
- 26:29Speaker 1: face literally makes me want to throw up. It looks
- 26:32Speaker 1: so painfully and you don't look like yourself. And then
- 26:37Speaker 1: she said, one of my friends called and asked if
- 26:40Speaker 1: you had been in a motorcycle accident, and this is
- 26:46Speaker 1: what it looks like. I mean, she is brave to
- 26:49Speaker 1: show us all of this.
- 26:51Speaker 2: Yeah, I get I hope it's like that. She's not.
- 26:56Speaker 2: She didn't get it. Well, I don't know. I always say, like,
- 26:59Speaker 2: don't get it to count on that stuff, because.
- 27:03Speaker 1: Oh yeah, no, yeah, you always do. She but she
- 27:05Speaker 1: already went to these people for her lower facelifts, so
- 27:09Speaker 1: I think she totally trusts them. And she's worked with
- 27:11Speaker 1: these doctors a million times. It's doctor Donald uh Moulds
- 27:18Speaker 1: in Newport Beach and he works alongside doctor Amby, and
- 27:22Speaker 1: doctor Amby is like her go to plastic surgeon, cosmetic person.
- 27:29Speaker 1: But she has to be getting some sort of discount
- 27:31Speaker 1: because this thing is she's putting every single update on there.
- 27:37Speaker 2: Yeah, well, I wish Shannon would have because I would
- 27:43Speaker 2: have loved to have known everything she did because she
- 27:45Speaker 2: just looks amazing.
- 27:47Speaker 1: M m. You mean everything she did during her healing.
- 27:52Speaker 2: For Shannon's face, whatever Shannon did between last season.
- 27:56Speaker 1: And this season, right, didn't she get a full face
- 28:00Speaker 1: or No?
- 28:01Speaker 2: I don't. I don't think so. I don't think you
- 28:04Speaker 2: do that. I think she did like parts, and then
- 28:08Speaker 2: obviously there's something going on with the skin. And that's
- 28:12Speaker 2: what I'm wondering if.
- 28:13Speaker 1: She because she got a new face. That's why that's
- 28:16Speaker 1: what the seventy five thousand dollars or whatever that portion
- 28:19Speaker 1: that John Jansen gave her. She got a facelift.
- 28:22Speaker 2: Yeah, well she got parts of it. In the Bravo
- 28:26Speaker 2: doc they talk about it.
- 28:27Speaker 1: I see, okay, it was like, yeah, piecemeal.
- 28:31Speaker 2: Yeah, which is what you do now, you don't just
- 28:34Speaker 2: like pull it all up right right right?
- 28:36Speaker 1: Yes, I remember this, and we actually did know what
- 28:39Speaker 1: she had done. I just don't remember what it was now.
- 28:43Speaker 1: If you don't follow Evan ross Kats he had put
- 28:45Speaker 1: something up yesterday and it was a picture of Glenn
- 28:51Speaker 1: Close in The Deliverance twenty twenty four, directed by Lee
- 28:56Speaker 1: Daniels and the character she's playing. And this is the
- 29:00Speaker 1: picture of what Glenn Close looks like in this movie.
- 29:04Speaker 1: And it took everything in me to not post, Oh
- 29:08Speaker 1: my god, I thought this was Tarmra after her browlift,
- 29:11Speaker 1: and I should have, but I just didn't want to
- 29:13Speaker 1: like hit her while she was down. But then I
- 29:15Speaker 1: saw in case she were to have seen it, if
- 29:18Speaker 1: she you know. But then I saw her mom's text,
- 29:22Speaker 1: I was like, I should have just commented, but can
- 29:26Speaker 1: you like, there's really I mean, if you do a
- 29:29Speaker 1: side by side, honestly, it's pretty coloring, especially it's the coloring. Yeah,
- 29:36Speaker 1: it's totally that that yet so look, I know you
- 29:40Speaker 1: love it and that's great, you know, And that's.
- 29:44Speaker 2: It's what we keep demanding as an audience. It's like
- 29:49Speaker 2: when they show up what you're scrolling through Jack's Wait.
- 29:54Speaker 1: Now, I want to show the side by side of
- 29:55Speaker 1: Tarmra Yeah, and Glenn Close.
- 29:57Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, yeah, for sure there is a similarity.
- 30:02Speaker 2: But you know, like when when they show up looking
- 30:05Speaker 2: one hundred percent different and say, I don't know, I
- 30:08Speaker 2: just like I've been eating better.
- 30:11Speaker 1: It's like eating better, right, No, it's great, but there's
- 30:17Speaker 1: a question is it too far? You guys, like, is it? No?
- 30:22Speaker 1: I'm asking everyone else, I know how you feel.
- 30:24Speaker 2: They agree with me, it is not okay?
- 30:27Speaker 1: All right, Well, she's getting a lot of praise, like
- 30:30Speaker 1: we love you, Tamra stays strong. You think that she's like,
- 30:35Speaker 1: you know, finding some sort of disease or whatever. Anyway,
- 30:38Speaker 1: all right, well let's put Tamra's space aside. I think
- 30:43Speaker 1: she's through the worst of it. From here on out,
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- 35:37Speaker 3: Me callb duh.
- 35:41Speaker 1: Beads, color beads, laundry beads, anal beads. That's that's what
- 35:48Speaker 1: we need. We need to code.
- 35:52Speaker 2: And they all had They were all like, yeah, yeah,
- 35:54Speaker 2: I get the beads. Sorry, oh my god. It's an
- 35:56Speaker 2: easy thing to google color bead for organizing lawn and
- 36:00Speaker 2: it's all like those tied it's all like the scented
- 36:04Speaker 2: beads that you get for your down.
- 36:07Speaker 1: That's all you found. Okay, yeah, okay, that's very strange.
- 36:12Speaker 1: How are you going to put a bead on a
- 36:14Speaker 1: shirt with a pin? Who wants a pin in their
- 36:18Speaker 1: shirt all the time? You know, what I'm saying, who's
- 36:22Speaker 1: to me?
- 36:23Speaker 2: I'm just also like, what, yeah, what is the what
- 36:28Speaker 2: you're going to be digging through looking for this pin?
- 36:30Speaker 2: Is that what it is? It's a pin, a safety
- 36:33Speaker 2: pin with a bead on it.
- 36:34Speaker 1: That's what I think, Because how are you going to
- 36:36Speaker 1: put a bead on a shirt?
- 36:38Speaker 2: I don't know, That's what I'm saying.
- 36:40Speaker 1: It has to be. I'm now I'm looking on Pinterest
- 36:44Speaker 1: because I'm like, well, they might have it, but they don't.
- 36:47Speaker 1: They don't. Okay, God, you guys, this is like crazy.
- 36:52Speaker 1: I mean, it's crazy Janney Beads. What was funny is
- 37:00Speaker 1: that Sandy came in to that laundry room after being
- 37:03Speaker 1: told like Joe had to pull Sandy aside. It's like,
- 37:06Speaker 1: I can't believe it. I don't have a polo. I'm
- 37:09Speaker 1: just working with this one. It's filthy, right.
- 37:11Speaker 2: He told Asha that and gloves not wanting to like
- 37:17Speaker 2: understanding the dynamics at play with three and just going
- 37:22Speaker 2: right up to that line with her, and then Sandy
- 37:25Speaker 2: walks in and sucky bunch of good morning.
- 37:29Speaker 1: Hey, where the fuck is my shirt and my underwear? Huh?
- 37:33Speaker 1: Why are you moving? My why moves my fucking clothes. Huh,
- 37:36Speaker 1: And she really does throw an F bomb out there.
- 37:38Speaker 1: She's like, I gotta, I gotta tell you something. You
- 37:40Speaker 1: are fucking up with a laundry. What is it? Let's
- 37:46Speaker 1: ask ourselves. Let's let's dig deep, you know, let's go
- 37:49Speaker 1: deep inside and say why am I fucking up so
- 37:52Speaker 1: bad in laundry?
- 37:53Speaker 2: Like?
- 37:53Speaker 1: Why can't I get it straight? We're almost done with
- 37:56Speaker 1: a charter season. What is it? You know? Ask yourself that.
- 38:00Speaker 1: And then and then she's like, you have to figure
- 38:03Speaker 1: out the system. What is it? And then she's like, beads.
- 38:08Speaker 2: What me?
- 38:12Speaker 1: And then Sandy's like, yeah, beads, I'm gonna get you
- 38:15Speaker 1: what you need. And then she just like she supports it. Yeah,
- 38:20Speaker 1: and then they are calling in the bead patrol.
- 38:24Speaker 2: Yeah, they both knew me. Asha and Sandy both knew
- 38:28Speaker 2: immediately what that was and how to order it. And
- 38:32Speaker 2: Provisions would know too.
- 38:34Speaker 1: Provisions would know I mean god, how would Provisions know? Okay, fine, fine.
- 38:42Speaker 2: This is something that everywhere I guarantee we this is
- 38:48Speaker 2: called something else here. Because I can't understand how I'm
- 38:53Speaker 2: not getting it.
- 38:54Speaker 1: I should have joined that group that Bree was on
- 39:00Speaker 1: stews and like, you know, okay, I got doc walk
- 39:08Speaker 1: dot com a Chief Stew's guide to Yes, I'll accept
- 39:12Speaker 1: your cookies because I have to get to the bottom
- 39:14Speaker 1: of this. Uh, they've got label instructions, they've got good
- 39:22Speaker 1: what do they have? They've got some other things on here.
- 39:24Speaker 1: Oh man, this is an article. It doesn't show pictures
- 39:26Speaker 1: of anything.
- 39:27Speaker 2: It's just it's just word safety pin with beads on it.
- 39:32Speaker 2: I don't I just don't see her taking the time
- 39:35Speaker 2: to figure that out.
- 39:37Speaker 1: That's going to be more complicated because then she's going
- 39:40Speaker 1: to be like, whose beads are colored this color?
- 39:44Speaker 2: Yes? Are that?
- 39:44Speaker 1: How is she gonna It's just not going to solve
- 39:47Speaker 1: the problem. It's just not I think that she clearly
- 39:51Speaker 1: has some sort of ADHD and cannot organize and keep
- 39:57Speaker 1: things straight. That's just it. That's a challenge, you know,
- 40:00Speaker 1: like some people just cannot do that, and that's a
- 40:03Speaker 1: big hurdle. And and honestly, at the end of the day,
- 40:06Speaker 1: if that's what she has, it's really not her fault.
- 40:09Speaker 1: It's just like now we know what she what her
- 40:13Speaker 1: strengths are, and what her weaknesses are, and she can't
- 40:15Speaker 1: be in any kind of position where she has to
- 40:18Speaker 1: be in charge of organizing.
- 40:20Speaker 2: She can be in a situation where she has to
- 40:24Speaker 2: do some organizing. Also with the hell Ian, why didn't
- 40:28Speaker 2: you look through your shirts? Like, why didn't he check
- 40:32Speaker 2: to see that it's Joe's shirt?
- 40:35Speaker 1: Why would he bother? Why is that his responsibility?
- 40:38Speaker 2: It's not And I don't think he should have covered
- 40:41Speaker 2: for anybody. But I'm just like everybody knows this is
- 40:45Speaker 2: a situation. Can everyone check their polos?
- 40:48Speaker 1: I mean, I agree, but I mean we're dealing with
- 40:50Speaker 1: Ian here. Clearly Magruber doesn't have anything to do it,
- 40:56Speaker 1: but for them to all be covering for her for
- 40:59Speaker 1: this long, they're just wearing like dirty rags.
- 41:04Speaker 2: You know. Yeah, so funny to me.
- 41:07Speaker 1: I actually thought that Bree was gonna go confront Joe
- 41:11Speaker 1: about ratting her out, but she didn't, Thank goodness.
- 41:15Speaker 2: Yeah, I think she hadn't. Do you think did she
- 41:19Speaker 2: put it? Did Asha say? I guess Asha did say it?
- 41:22Speaker 1: Yeah? Or Sandy? I'm not sure somebody did. But the
- 41:26Speaker 1: jig was up right.
- 41:29Speaker 2: Okay, But it goes to how cool Brie is too,
- 41:32Speaker 2: because they all.
- 41:34Speaker 1: Have She's so cool.
- 41:36Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, I'm saying to work with because usually
- 41:39Speaker 2: that would have been like blowout, blowout, blowout, but because.
- 41:44Speaker 1: They very nice of everybody to do that, very nice.
- 41:47Speaker 2: But that's probably because Brie is cool, Like they're not
- 41:51Speaker 2: going to do that for just anybody.
- 41:53Speaker 1: Yeah, for that. Nathan's friend Tommy, who would cancer passing
- 41:58Speaker 1: away was really tough to watch and I felt extremely
- 42:02Speaker 1: bad for him.
- 42:04Speaker 2: I thought it was interesting because I didn't picture Nathan
- 42:09Speaker 2: to be that kind of a griever. And I know
- 42:13Speaker 2: you don't know until you're in it, but the kind
- 42:16Speaker 2: that was like, I'm going to shove you, like emotionally,
- 42:20Speaker 2: so that we fight and I don't have to think
- 42:23Speaker 2: about this, And because like Gail is like an angel
- 42:29Speaker 2: from above descended on I don't deserve Gail and even
- 42:34Speaker 2: absolutely doesn't deserve Gail. And so when he snapped at her,
- 42:42Speaker 2: I was like, wow, yeah.
- 42:46Speaker 1: Well it just goes to show how real grief is.
- 42:48Speaker 1: And I was like, you just pinpointed it, and you
- 42:51Speaker 1: pinpointed exactly how different people deal with it. And that
- 42:55Speaker 1: was so wild to watch. And for him to later say,
- 43:00Speaker 1: I'm doing what my family does, yeah, hiding things, pushing
- 43:05Speaker 1: it away.
- 43:06Speaker 2: Yeah, it doesn't look like the scenes for next week.
- 43:10Speaker 2: Don't look like he is fully over his grieving process
- 43:15Speaker 2: in terms of with Gail, because it looks like he's.
- 43:19Speaker 1: Yeaheah's that's tough, ye And seeing her in that shuttle
- 43:24Speaker 1: bus sad. I mean, Asha was right, She's like, oh,
- 43:27Speaker 1: I can't see sad. Like she had the sweetest still
- 43:32Speaker 1: trying to have like a sweet look on her face,
- 43:34Speaker 1: and you could tell she was hurt.
- 43:36Speaker 2: And she's like, I'm sorry, guys.
- 43:39Speaker 1: Everybody, I'm sorry.
- 43:42Speaker 2: And then when Nathan told her what happened, she was like, okay, man,
- 43:46Speaker 2: it's okay, man, let's go man, let's look it out. Man,
- 43:49Speaker 2: like a.
- 43:49Speaker 1: Pal, you know, and that's what you want, you want
- 43:52Speaker 1: a friend.
- 43:53Speaker 2: Yeah. Uh, the whole thing was shot. I'm still like,
- 43:59Speaker 2: I like those two together. I'm surprised they're together.
- 44:01Speaker 1: Though, but well they're convenient. They're just around, you know.
- 44:07Speaker 2: Yeah, like yeah, yeah.
- 44:10Speaker 1: Yeah, that's how any things happen.
- 44:12Speaker 2: Clear that Joe has a problem with it, oh oh
- 44:16Speaker 2: my gosh, because he had a thing for her at
- 44:19Speaker 2: the very beginning, remember when they were all meeting each
- 44:22Speaker 2: other and everything, and he found out that she had
- 44:24Speaker 2: a boyfriend.
- 44:26Speaker 1: He is so much more of a narcissist than than
- 44:30Speaker 1: I even gave him credit for, and somebody who wants
- 44:36Speaker 1: to control women to the point where if he doesn't
- 44:39Speaker 1: have them in a sexual way and in a power
- 44:42Speaker 1: like if he doesn't have a powerful if he doesn't
- 44:46Speaker 1: have control over them in a powerful way like the
- 44:48Speaker 1: upper hand, be it like an attraction, a sexual attraction
- 44:51Speaker 1: from them to him, and he doesn't, well I'm just
- 44:57Speaker 1: gonna stop there. Then, Yeah, he and he talks down
- 45:01Speaker 1: and he's cruel. He can't handle an independent woman that
- 45:06Speaker 1: has nothing for him when it comes to attraction, and
- 45:10Speaker 1: it's really disgusting to see and for him to have
- 45:13Speaker 1: such an issue. She said it perfectly that the closer
- 45:18Speaker 1: that she and Nathan get, the more passive aggressive Joe
- 45:22Speaker 1: is with her mm hm.
- 45:24Speaker 2: And she's better seemingly at his at Joe's job than
- 45:29Speaker 2: he is, so that makes it even worse in terms
- 45:35Speaker 2: of like that dynamic. But yeah, he's awful.
- 45:39Speaker 1: He really is. He's such a sleeper. He's an awful sleeper,
- 45:43Speaker 1: you know what I mean, Like he's not as front
- 45:45Speaker 1: facing as so many of the other deck decies that
- 45:49Speaker 1: we see that are such douchebags. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah,
- 45:55Speaker 1: So we get a new interior stew Carrie from Scotland,
- 46:00Speaker 1: who's seen it all, from tampons on the wall to
- 46:03Speaker 1: hookers in the middle of sex acts.
- 46:06Speaker 2: Yeah, they did that thing. I guarantee you this is
- 46:09Speaker 2: what they do. They're like, off camera, tell us crazy,
- 46:12Speaker 2: introduce yourself, and then tell us the craziest thing you've
- 46:14Speaker 2: ever seen. So then when they introduce these people mid season,
- 46:19Speaker 2: they sound like they are berserker because it's just like, yeah,
- 46:26Speaker 2: I watched the inside of this girl's vagina and it's like, oh,
- 46:34Speaker 2: but really it's clearly being teased up and they're just
- 46:39Speaker 2: editing accordingly. But it's like, it's not like him, Emily,
- 46:42Speaker 2: I need to tell you this right out of the gate.
- 46:44Speaker 1: Yeah, they filmed like eight hours of footage with it.
- 46:50Speaker 1: That's all that they put up there. From her confessionals,
- 46:56Speaker 1: Oh yeah it does. It's great. Yeah, I mean it
- 47:01Speaker 1: highlights the YACHTI life and what you deal with, and
- 47:05Speaker 1: you know her history where she's come from, what she's seen,
- 47:08Speaker 1: and she's a seasoned YACHTI let's just say that. So
- 47:14Speaker 1: apparently Carrie, Carrie out ranks Ellie and Bree, but Asha
- 47:22Speaker 1: doesn't want to upset anyone. So she's gonna make her
- 47:24Speaker 1: a floater. And this is already causing big waves, you.
- 47:30Speaker 2: Know, with Ellie.
- 47:33Speaker 1: But also I did think it was funny now that
- 47:34Speaker 1: they have this third stew well fourth I should say,
- 47:39Speaker 1: JOHNO says, can we put personal stuff back in the
- 47:42Speaker 1: laundry now? I just picture them like at the dock,
- 47:47Speaker 1: like with those old scrubbing laundry boards, just like with
- 47:50Speaker 1: bar soaps, scrubbing and doing their own laundry and hanging
- 47:54Speaker 1: it to try because they can't send it to laundry.
- 47:57Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 47:58Speaker 1: Yeah, oh my god, Ellie is losing her mind, especially
- 48:04Speaker 1: like they go to that crew night out and Carrie
- 48:07Speaker 1: says to Ellie about her shoes because they were out
- 48:11Speaker 1: of control, those shoes were.
- 48:13Speaker 2: I didn't like it though. I still didn't like Carrie
- 48:16Speaker 2: coming in and kind of like, I don't know, it
- 48:20Speaker 2: was like a it felt it wasn't like slutshaming, but
- 48:23Speaker 2: at the same time, it was like what are you
- 48:25Speaker 2: my mom?
- 48:25Speaker 1: Like, yeah, she did put a dig in there. She said,
- 48:29Speaker 1: we need to get you a stripper pull for your
- 48:31Speaker 1: stripper heels.
- 48:33Speaker 2: Yeah. I just didn't like it. I'm like, who are you?
- 48:38Speaker 2: And also I get like maybe in terms of the show,
- 48:42Speaker 2: it was good to set that out there and make
- 48:44Speaker 2: it weird. But I don't like when people comment badly
- 48:49Speaker 2: about Like when you walk into a room and someone's like,
- 48:52Speaker 2: what the fuck?
- 48:53Speaker 1: Oh they were full on stripper shoes, no doubt, but yeah,
- 48:57Speaker 1: she doesn't even know her, they don't know each other.
- 49:00Speaker 1: The last thing you want to do is essentially insult someone,
- 49:05Speaker 1: or maybe it's a compliment and and but she just
- 49:09Speaker 1: certainly didn't mean it that way, you know, so there
- 49:12Speaker 1: was no way for Ellie to take it in a
- 49:15Speaker 1: good way, even though she's like, how dare you check
- 49:19Speaker 1: out my only fans? Like it is kind of funny
- 49:22Speaker 1: where it's like, yeah, well you're essentially you know, putting
- 49:26Speaker 1: it on over there.
- 49:27Speaker 2: But I think, like I think that she uh, in fairness, Ellie,
- 49:34Speaker 2: Ellie could have made that weird for the rest of
- 49:36Speaker 2: the night.
- 49:37Speaker 1: But that is where she shines. She does a great
- 49:42Speaker 1: job with that. That's the only place that she shines.
- 49:45Speaker 1: Nowhere else does she well she but yeah.
- 49:49Speaker 2: It's weird because like she doesn't let anything else go.
- 49:53Speaker 2: And right, I know that's.
- 49:55Speaker 1: What's so ironic about it. Well, Crewe night Out. It
- 50:02Speaker 1: looks like Asha and Carrie are really hitting it off,
- 50:04Speaker 1: like they're having a blast together. And so immediately Ellie's like,
- 50:08Speaker 1: oh no, what is gonna happen to my position? Right?
- 50:14Speaker 1: And then does Ellie realize how.
- 50:16Speaker 2: Weird that would have been if Asia sit next sat
- 50:18Speaker 2: next to Ellie and Brie and then like was rubbing
- 50:23Speaker 2: elbows and doing bits and bonding with them. With Carrie,
- 50:26Speaker 2: like Ashia did the perfect thing like just welcome this gallon.
- 50:32Speaker 1: Welcome in, Yes, welcome in Carrie from Scotland. Yes, she's
- 50:37Speaker 1: just so threatened. She wants she wants it all, you know, yeah,
- 50:42Speaker 1: she wants it now. She is like an alpha elva
- 50:44Speaker 1: elfa alpha elva elfa alpha.
- 50:48Speaker 2: Yeah she wants to be yeah she yeah, she just
- 50:52Speaker 2: wants the titlesh My god.
- 50:56Speaker 1: Yeah. When she went up to Asia and she's like, hi,
- 51:01Speaker 1: I'm Ellie, if you don't seen me on this yacht,
- 51:05Speaker 1: and I was hoping you can tell me what else
- 51:07Speaker 1: I can do to be trained for Chief Stu because
- 51:12Speaker 1: when I leave here, I'm going to be Chief Stu
- 51:13Speaker 1: somewhere else.
- 51:15Speaker 2: Then Asia just Asian in her face like oh.
- 51:20Speaker 1: You did, kid, and then oh my god, right, and
- 51:26Speaker 1: then she so then Ellie's response is exactly like what
- 51:30Speaker 1: you honed in on last week when you were talking
- 51:32Speaker 1: about Ellie's accent that it's, as we know, Slovenian, but
- 51:36Speaker 1: it's also like Brooklyn because she goes, all right, here we.
- 51:41Speaker 2: Go, all right, here we go. Aisha Asian, by the way,
- 51:50Speaker 2: gave her nothing.
- 51:52Speaker 1: I know.
- 51:54Speaker 2: She was like, that's great, just keep walking on this boat.
- 52:00Speaker 6: A ah yeah, just put your shirt on and keep
- 52:16Speaker 6: on walking.
- 52:18Speaker 2: All right.
- 52:19Speaker 1: Yeah, that's good talking to you.
- 52:21Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, okay, shut yah.
- 52:28Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 52:28Speaker 1: I mean it's the weirdest, most awkward because you can
- 52:31Speaker 1: see in her face she's like, don't forget about me.
- 52:34Speaker 2: Eh yeah, And what was there was not? I mean,
- 52:40Speaker 2: Ellie's had every task you can do on this boat,
- 52:42Speaker 2: and she's had to do everything at the top level
- 52:46Speaker 2: because of st there's just not the personality. The personnel.
- 52:50Speaker 2: I'm just gonna say the personality. But uh yeah, so
- 52:55Speaker 2: you showed it yourself, you did great, We're now not
- 52:58Speaker 2: going to do that. Yeah.
- 52:59Speaker 1: She's like, oh, I'm.
- 53:00Speaker 2: Seeing you now.
- 53:00Speaker 1: I gotta see what she can do. Somebody blues get
- 53:04Speaker 1: this right?
- 53:05Speaker 4: Oh are water wolf.
- 53:10Speaker 3: Please?
- 53:12Speaker 1: I mean that then at like when she put her
- 53:15Speaker 1: on and she clearly said with the assignments, Asha was like,
- 53:18Speaker 1: she's gonna be a floater. Everything's gonna stay the same.
- 53:22Speaker 1: I'm going to see what Carrie can do, so I'm
- 53:24Speaker 1: gonna put her on service. Mm hmm. And then the
- 53:29Speaker 1: second she was on service, Ellie was just up in
- 53:33Speaker 1: her grill and just freaking out. She's like, am I
- 53:38Speaker 1: gonna get demoted? You know? Oh? Man?
- 53:42Speaker 2: Yeah? And then Ellie's like looking for problems because she
- 53:47Speaker 2: just got weird. When Carrie is like, oh, the door,
- 53:50Speaker 2: I think I know what you mean, and Ellie's like,
- 53:52Speaker 2: hmm no, all right, Ellie, we get it. It's a latch.
- 54:01Speaker 2: She was so pissy.
- 54:03Speaker 1: Well, okay, I will say this. Carrie did interrupt Ellie
- 54:07Speaker 1: when she was trying to tell her something, and that
- 54:10Speaker 1: rubbed me the wrong way because she was trying to
- 54:14Speaker 1: be a know it all for a second and that
- 54:16Speaker 1: was a little annoying. So she said Carrie said too, Ellie,
- 54:21Speaker 1: I put the waters in here for right now because
- 54:25Speaker 1: and then Ellie, well, actually Ellie cut her off. Maybe
- 54:29Speaker 1: she cut her off at first, but anyway, then Ellie's like,
- 54:33Speaker 1: this door does not shut or she's like, is if
- 54:37Speaker 1: you're putting in here, and she's like, if you're gonna
- 54:38Speaker 1: tell me that there's a story that I know, it
- 54:40Speaker 1: doesn't work. So that's why I'm putting in here. And
- 54:41Speaker 1: you want to put it in here until they're and
- 54:42Speaker 1: you open this up, put it in there. She's like, no,
- 54:46Speaker 1: it leaks, you know, So she didn't really let her finish. Yeah,
- 54:52Speaker 1: but that was funny. I love an awkward moment, and
- 54:55Speaker 1: it was like they were both like, oh yeah, uh
- 54:57Speaker 1: oh oh yeah, oh oh oh oh oh okay, uh
- 54:59Speaker 1: huh Yeah, it's cool, it's cool, it's cool.
- 55:05Speaker 2: Yeah. I don't want to work with Ellie. Oh god,
- 55:10Speaker 2: nil another week. I don't want to work with her.
- 55:12Speaker 1: No, never, I don't want to work with Brie or Ellie.
- 55:15Speaker 1: Let's see what Carrie's got. She seems like she's can
- 55:17Speaker 1: great at cocktails.
- 55:19Speaker 2: I could work with Brie. I couldn't work with Ellie.
- 55:24Speaker 1: I mean, good luck you. You love laundry and you're
- 55:30Speaker 1: gonna let her run a muck in there like that
- 55:32Speaker 1: and be okay with it?
- 55:34Speaker 2: Dude, you know your laundry. I'm gonna have her cleaning cabins.
- 55:39Speaker 2: Oh but yeah, I mean, I don't think I'm just
- 55:44Speaker 2: saying personality wise, there's a lot more I could forgive
- 55:46Speaker 2: and be like, all right, let's figure this out with
- 55:48Speaker 2: Breee than I could with Ellie.
- 55:51Speaker 1: Interesting, Okay, okay.
- 55:53Speaker 2: Because Bree knows she's not good at her job and
- 55:55Speaker 2: wants to learn, Like Bree's excited to learn from Carrie
- 55:59Speaker 2: versus that's like, I don't know why she's here. I'm
- 56:02Speaker 2: so good at everything.
- 56:09Speaker 1: What is her inner monologue about Carrie?
- 56:13Speaker 2: Like? What is hey? Forget about it? Shy Lee said,
- 56:20Speaker 2: the get out.
- 56:25Speaker 1: Else you do like a lip in some way that
- 56:28Speaker 1: makes me die so funny. No, it's like one of
- 56:31Speaker 1: those whistles, like you know those little whistles that you
- 56:35Speaker 1: go down and up the slide whistle. Okay, So then
- 56:42Speaker 1: they get the preference sheet meeting for the next charter,
- 56:45Speaker 1: and Sandy's like, God, I didn't think this day would
- 56:47Speaker 1: ever come. They've requested specific toys, a pirate tower. Fuck, yeah, they're.
- 56:58Speaker 2: Gonna get it.
- 56:59Speaker 1: So you're gonn that'll be delivered right quick. I just
- 57:03Speaker 1: sent up the water toy bat signal.
- 57:10Speaker 2: Yeah. And then but the mood drastically changed when there's
- 57:14Speaker 2: maybe going to be a shellfish allergy, and everybody's like, Jonah,
- 57:20Speaker 2: don't kill them.
- 57:22Speaker 1: I mean, but who's writing maybe a shellfish allergy.
- 57:27Speaker 3: You either have it or you don't.
- 57:32Speaker 1: Maybe that's not gonna cut it. I honestly think Johnnah
- 57:36Speaker 1: was like, saw shellfish allergy, and he was trying to
- 57:41Speaker 1: like dumb it down because he knew he'd be getting
- 57:43Speaker 1: called out. And he's like, sort of kind of a
- 57:46Speaker 1: shellfish allergy and maybe perhaps so. And Sandy's like, don't
- 57:53Speaker 1: forget that. She was so serious. Yeah, all right. Uh,
- 58:03Speaker 1: the guests arrived, they're from Ohio in midwest Midwest area,
- 58:09Speaker 1: and then they're leaving the doc and Ian is on
- 58:13Speaker 1: the lines. He's not talking to the captain, and she's
- 58:16Speaker 1: passed about that, which I don't blame her. It's insane
- 58:21Speaker 1: to me. What is he doing?
- 58:22Speaker 2: Yeah, and again Ian is much as he's like Ellie
- 58:27Speaker 2: in that way where it's like you think you're really
- 58:30Speaker 2: great at your job and you're not.
- 58:32Speaker 1: Dude, right, And Gail has to answer. She's the only
- 58:37Speaker 1: one choos. She's like, yeah, there are deck people. No,
- 58:43Speaker 1: the lines haven't been tied, you know, Like she's like,
- 58:46Speaker 1: no one's answering, so I have to say something not
- 58:49Speaker 1: even Joe.
- 58:50Speaker 2: Sandy was very cool in terms of I need you
- 58:55Speaker 2: to communicate. I liked her tone. I just uh. I
- 59:02Speaker 2: was like, Ian, you're an idiot sitting there with Joe's
- 59:06Speaker 2: shirt the whole time, like.
- 59:09Speaker 1: Not bring Joe's shirt. He doesn't even look. Ellie drops
- 59:16Speaker 1: a tray of glasses.
- 59:18Speaker 2: Oh no, Well did she drop them or was that
- 59:22Speaker 2: because of the boat?
- 59:23Speaker 1: And maybe maybe I was it probably.
- 59:28Speaker 2: Yeah, because then later that glass broke and the when
- 59:33Speaker 2: with the wind and Asha had to like hold them
- 59:36Speaker 2: off because Allie's like, God, let's go ahead and bring
- 59:38Speaker 2: the plates and then he was like no, I didn't.
- 59:46Speaker 1: Ask him by stand by.
- 59:49Speaker 2: Meanwhile, I'm like, Asha, stop grabbing broken glass with your
- 59:53Speaker 2: bare hands.
- 59:55Speaker 1: Yeah, we already saw you do that earlier in the season.
- 59:58Speaker 1: And then you had to leave the boat to get fixed up.
- 1:00:01Speaker 2: Yeah, so lesson not learned.
- 1:00:05Speaker 1: So were there two sets of glasses that fell down
- 1:00:07Speaker 1: that tray?
- 1:00:08Speaker 3: That?
- 1:00:08Speaker 1: Uh? And then another one at.
- 1:00:11Speaker 2: The table and then another single glass like the wind
- 1:00:14Speaker 2: not wow, That's why the guess is like, well, wait,
- 1:00:16Speaker 2: I guess you got to fill them up?
- 1:00:18Speaker 1: Okay, gotcha, gotcha? Gotcha?
- 1:00:21Speaker 2: Yeah?
- 1:00:21Speaker 1: Yeah, I said stand by okay, but if there's anything
- 1:00:26Speaker 1: I can do for Chief stew let me know. Yeah, listen,
- 1:00:32Speaker 1: listen to what I say and do it. Okay, And
- 1:00:37Speaker 1: then it ends with Joe calling Gail princess. He's such
- 1:00:40Speaker 1: an asshole.
- 1:00:42Speaker 2: Because he already knows it's gonna upset her.
- 1:00:45Speaker 1: Yeah, we have issues issues.
- 1:00:49Speaker 2: Yeah for sure.
- 1:00:50Speaker 1: All right, anything else you want to chime in about
- 1:00:53Speaker 1: with below?
- 1:00:53Speaker 2: Deep mead, Nope, I think we covered it.
- 1:00:57Speaker 1: I think we did. I think we did. It's very exciting.
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- 1:01:30Speaker 2: We're getting into it.
- 1:01:31Speaker 1: Yeah, big time. You can follow Emily at mdreesis over
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- 1:01:39Speaker 1: So thanks so much for listening. Emily. I'm gonna do
- 1:01:42Speaker 1: some ironing. You're gonna do some folding.
- 1:01:43Speaker 4: Now, yes, okay, drama, Darling
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