the myth of effortless friendship | ep. 186
this week i’m breaking down the myth of effortless friendship and the idea that real friends should just click instantly, never have conflict, and stay close without trying. growing up, we’re sold this story that friendship should always feel easy, and when it doesn’t we assume something is wrong. but the truth is that intentional effort, honest conversations, and showing up even when it feels uncomfortable are what actually make friendships meaningful. i talk about why effortless friendships are often just proximity friendships, how to tell the difference between healthy effort and emotional…
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