You're Not Holding Him Together. You're Holding Yourself Back
In this episode I'm unpacking the steady hand pattern, the woman who organizes, soothes, preempts and backstops a grown man until she can't remember what she actually wants. You're capable, you're caring, and the people around you have always counted on you to hold things together. But if you've started to wonder why you're exhausted inside a relationship that looks fine from the outside, it might not be devotion running the show. It might be a much older job you never meant to take. We talk about where the managing instinct actually comes from and why it feels like love, what you lose when…
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