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Episode 7 - What we need to learn from the Fox Soul Situation With Al Reynolds, and Armon Wiggins situation. · You Minding Your Own Business

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and their purpose to a new embtter them through self discovery. Now let's get
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into this very uncomfortable conversation. Now we all heard about the armand situation as
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far as what happened between him and our Reynolds when it came down to them
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roasting him for his birthday. And now I just found out today that that
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show has been canceled. Well, first of all, the first mistake was
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everybody's saying that this was gonna happen anyway. No, I'm sorry, but
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I'm gonna have to blame Armand for this. I don't even know why Armand
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would even roast that man the way he did. I felt it was wrong.
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I felt like it shouldn't have happened like that. If you have an
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opportunity to basically go from a social media platform to being on television or being
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on a major stage or a major platform, you got to leave that YouTube
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mentality where it's at, or TikTok or face or Instagram or wherever you came
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from. You got to leave it where it's at. And i'm'a explained why,
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because opportunity for YouTubers don't come, but so much so by you going
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on there and disrespecting a man that hasn't done anything to you and get on
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there and roast him the way that he was roasted. I I felt like
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that was absolutely wrong. Second of all, I don't even know why Claudia
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Knew even came up with that, so I don't even know what made them
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decide to do a roast like that. If you gonna do a roast like
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that, then you need to do something where you have a few people that
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are calling in and roasting him that way, it wouldn't have been so bad.
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If they would have been like call ins where they had people talking about
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al and talking about how great a person that he was, then that would
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have been one thing. But to do a roast on somebody that, in
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all honesty, is very very I don't know what the world they was saying.
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I don't even know why in the world they would even remotely do this,
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which makes absolutely no sense to me because me personally, I just wouldn't
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have done it because to me, it would've just it woulda just been bad.
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So the fact that they did do this is beyond crazy to me because
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me personally, I wouldn't have done it, especially knowing how sensitive some people
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are when it comes to being, you know, roasted. I just feel
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like it just isn't something that they should do, to be honest, So
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I don't even know what what made them to decide to do it. I
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don't know why they decided to do it, but I just think it was
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a bad idea and all honesty, I think it was a stupid idea for
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them to do and it was the worst thing they could have done, because
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now you have a situation where you have somebody that really literally is pissed off
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and now going to HR and saying, look, I want this man fired.
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It wasn't about him wanting Claudia fire. He just wanted Armand gone.
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So do I feel like armand is gonna be the scapegoat fall of this?
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Probably? Probably? He probably is gonna be the scapegoat fall of this,
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more than likely. But it just is what it is. But it's said
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that you got this situation going on that shouldn't have happened in the first place.
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Like I said, when you get an opportunity, don't go on there
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doing something stupid because they ain't gonna do nothing but be bad on you.
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It really is because I know on social media you can do certain things,
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but people need to understand there's a difference between being on social media and just
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being a commentator and someone that's professional. That'd be like saying Ryl from the
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Talk, being that she's a comedian going on there just blatantly just disrespecting the
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people that's on there. That's that's like the wrong thing to do. The
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last thing you wanna do is sit there and do somebody dirty and talk to
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somebody you know, it's sensitive. You don't wanna do that. That to
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me is wrong. So the fact that you got people up here saying,
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well, the s you know when Funky left and everything went downhill. But
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here's a thing. If Armand would have just m kept it cute, kept
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it simple, that should have been it. But he went too personal.
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Some people cannot take you saying something too personal. And not only that,
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people today are sensitive, very or very sensitive. Some people you can not
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joke with. They will shoot you with our question. So some people you
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just for real, for real, just cannot joke with, even though you
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wanna joke with them, even though you want to. You know what I'm
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saying, You know to have that type of that typical type of conversation.
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But I need you to understand that in some cases that may not be the
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case. So you just got you just gotta pick and choose your battles wisely.
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But if you know any type of professionalism, you know that joking on
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people like that is not something you wanted do. It ain't. So a
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lot of people in the African American community are proving why they're not ready to
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go to that next level. As far as Caucasian people are going. Because
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if you think about it, y'all, talk about Whoopy Goldberg, you talking
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about Shirl from the Talk, and you'll notice them may have one, maybe
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two black people and all the rest of them are cofee. But do you
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know what Cheryl had to go through to get that on the Talk? She
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really had to be able to let go of that ghetto ratchet behavior and go
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in there and be professional. Y'all remember what happened with Sharon when Sharon Osbourne,
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when she ended up losing her position because of something she said that she
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shouldn't said. When you in a professional realm, there's just certain things you
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can't say. It is no different than being a regular nine to five job
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and you on social media. I experienced losing my job because social media and
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I was going after a sex coach. Didn't even mention my job, but
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the fact that I went after a sex coat was the reason why this happened.
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I'm telling people you cannot be on social media saying certain things and think
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people are not gonna find your job. They're going to find it, and
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then when they do find it, you're mad because they found it, and
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you're like well, how in the world did this person find my job?
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Uh, they found it because they look for it. That's how they found
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it. So you can't be mad because somebody found your job. They found
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it. So all I'm telling you is you just got to be mindful of
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the fact that you got people out here that will tell your business. You
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got people out here that will sit there and tell you don't go out there
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and do that nonsense. There are a lot of people that have lost they
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jobs because they get on social media and they're either going after something or somebody,
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or they're saying something. And then next thing you know, you got
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people trying to get you fired for absolutely no reason. You ain't done nothing,
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nobody. All you doing is you you on your platform, just m
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just doing your content. Another example of this is when you have a second
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job, you have jobs now telling you, oh, why do you have
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a second job. I have a second job cause I'm not getting paid enough.
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So now they want you to quit your second job to go to your
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first job. So it's no different than that. It's even if you you
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leave a job or you get let go from a job and all of a
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sudden they're telling you, oh, you can't talk about the job and you
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can't do this, and they make you sign a piece of paper. I
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I'm telling you wanna know, this is what they do. Unfortunately, sadly
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enough, but that is really, truthfully speaking, what they do. So
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you gotta be mindful of that when you on social media because people i'm I'm
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I'm I'm being real, I'm being honest. They will sit there and they
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will they will tell you, well, you need to do something because you
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know this is what's going on, and that's what's going on, and that
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is definitely gonna be something that you have to think about. So I just
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want people to understand I get it, I really do. But at the
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same time, you gonna have people that's gonna say something and you're gonna end
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up being in a in a situation where it's gonna be hard for you to
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manage. So I just want people to be mindful of that. You got
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to be careful when it comes down to certain things because you don't know how
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people what people are willing to do to in all honesty, destroy your life
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because you got people that will absolutely do it, and then you're upset because
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this person done messed up your life, and they done did all these things
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to you, and now you're pissed off. So I'm here to tell you
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you gotta be mindful full of the things that you do because there are consequences,
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and there are recussions and there are parma to your acs. So just
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be mindful of that. I know a lot of y'all don't wanna hear that,
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and you'll be like, well, how is it that this person can
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can do this? How is it that these people can do this? Because
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they can, They absolutely can if they want to. So there's not really
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much you and all honesty can do except you know, deal with it.
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So be mindful of that. When you're on social media, people now will
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mess around and destroy your light and they don't care and they'll sit there and
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and talk about it. So while you just lost your job, these people
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who coming after you are gonna continue to make your life a living hell.
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They'll call your family, they'll call your friends, they'll they'll call your landlord,
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they'll call the police, try to get you locked up. All well,
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it is for yous. You be amazed what people who don't know how
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to do real content will do destroy a to destroy a real person's contact.
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I mean for ours to mess up somebody who's actually a content creator, I'm
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here to tell you they will do anything because people make money off other people.
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You see how all these people on TikTok and all these people on YouTube
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talk about Charles and Netta. You see how all these people talking about all
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these celebrities. So that's why I said, you gotta be careful. So
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you just got to understand that you're gonna have people that are gonna sit up
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here and just tryna make your life a live a namare. But the one
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thing I think Armand needs to understand is he's got to learn to balance the
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difference between being on social media and being on a natural professional outlet. A
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professional outlet, you can't say any and everything that you wanna say. It
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doesn't work like that. It's not the same as you have in your own
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website where you're actually on your social media platform saying whatever it is you want
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to. But even on social media can't because there's a thing called lawsuits.
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So that's what I want people to understand. You may not you know what
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I'm saying, think that there's no consequences for this, But I knew when
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al went to HR. I knew cause the last time Al was on a
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show, I distinctly remember that he I distinctly remember that he went in and
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some similar this happened before, so I knew when they had him on the
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show, I said, if somebody get on there that he's not gonna like,
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it's gonna be a problem. I forgot what short was he was on,
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but he was on the show before and the same thing happened. So
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that's why I said, you know, you got to be you got to
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be mindful of these things because people grazy. You have people in this society
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is very very sensitive. So you can't say what you want to, you
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can't do what you want to. There's just certain things you just you just
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can't do. Why because you ain't gonna be able to get away with it.
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Even on podcast. If I sit here and I talk about Chris Brown
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and I say the wrong thing, you best believe you gonna have people come
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for you. So i'm'a give you an example of what I'm talking about.
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There was a video of a girl that was with Chris Brown. I don't
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know if they were together or what the situation was, but he was with
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this female and it wasn't neither one of his baby mamas. Anyway, long
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story short, I ended up noticing that every female that Chris Brown dates,
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when they walk, they always look down. And so I knew that it
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was a you know, culture thing because with the Asian w Asian women and
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when they're with their men, they know me to look down because they're not
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trying to look at other men. And it's a form of submission. That's
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pretty much what it is. So when it came down to that and I
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made that comment, I had two people come in my you know who commented.
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One called me weird and the other one talking about, well, this
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person said this, so you know this and you need to read the comments.
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I said, first of all, let me go ahead and pull up
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the receipts. So I pulled up the receipts and attached the person that did
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the d that sent the actual comment. So then another person comes and that's
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when they said what they said, and I'm like, let me go ahead
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on and pull up some more information. So I ended up pulling up some
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more information about the fact of that when it comes to submission and all these
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other things. So I guess the person thought I was trying to be mean,
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which I was not. But I don't know cause I ain't been on
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the the day to see it, they responded to the com to the video.
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But my thing is for me, I'm gonna always, always, always,
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always have receipts. I'm never not gonna have no receipts. Every time
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I do something, I'm gonna make sure I have receipts because even in a
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job, you got to cover yourself. People ask me when I do notes
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and stuff for jobs, why it is my notes are so descriptive. Uh,
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because I'm gonna make sure that my notes are where they're pretty much descriptive
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because I'm prote. I'm protecting me cause nobody's gonna protect me if something go
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wrong. So let's say I didn't write a specific note and somebody call in
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and say, well, I, this is what's going on, and this
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and this and this, and then there's no notes breaking down the situation or
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the conversation. This person gonna give them what they want, and then they
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gonna be like, wait a minute, her n her notes are too broad.
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I've had that happen when I first started doing customer service. They'll say,
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oh, your notes are are too broad, they're not broad enough.
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Then when you make your notes very broad, they're might well they're too broad.
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Make up your mind. So at I tell you all the time,
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protect yourself. Protect yourself, because at the end of the day, people
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are not gonna defend you. And and the way people are letting people go
17:22
on jobs, the way people are being laid off now and who have done
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absolutely nothing, you got to protect yourself. And then if you're somebody that's
17:33
doing good at certain things, they gonna keep you in that position. So
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at the end of the day, all of this stuff that we've been told,
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as far as the chance for advancement, the chance to be able to
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retire, you gonna retire in the same position. Cause nowadays they're bringing they'll
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say, oh, I need you to work this position until this amount of
17:56
time. And then they tell you, oh, by the way, I
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brought somebody else in the position. What do you mean you brought somebody else
18:03
in the position when I've been doing this position for this whole entire time.
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So again that's why I said, make sure that before you do something,
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make sure that you understand when you start doing well at what you do,
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they gonna be coming to you talking mom some we want you to do more
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work. You doing three jobs and and w and one job and only getting
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paid for one, So just be just be mindful of that. So,
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like I said, you just gotta be very very careful of that because some
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people at the end of the day, that's what's going on right now.
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So you just gotta be careful because, like I said, it's just like
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what happened with Chris Rock and Will Smith when Will Smith slapped him at the
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Oscars and the only thing they did was tell him he couldn't basically do the
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Oscars for five years. But yeah, he's got the number one movie in
19:03
the country last time I checked. So he ended up still making a making
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up, making a you know, still doing well despite what he did.
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So, like I said, do y'all really prunish negative people when they do
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something wrong? Do you really make certain people have to face consequence? Nope,
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Hobby Rystein did what he did, and next thing you know, now
19:29
he's he's all his charges have been overturned. So that man is getting out
19:33
of prison. But yet Bill Cosby his stood they still trying to suit him,
19:41
and that man is almost eighty ninety years old and they still trying to
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get money out that man. And the crazy part is Camille. Camille is
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still staying with him despite what he's done. I think she's like this here,
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he get ready to pass away soon, and I've been here this long.
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I'm'a go ahead and just stay until I get what what blown me.
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So, like I said, you know, it's it's crazy. So you
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just gotta you just gotta be very mindful of that. So, like I
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said, I just want people to understand that when you are on a public
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platform or you on social media, there's a difference. But between just wanting
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to be a content creator and somebody making a career out of it. It's
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just like k Kyle Sanet. Kyle Senet is another example of a content creator
20:44
who's now doing very well for himself. But if you'll notice when Ki was
20:49
basically talking about Kendrick Lamarsson, honey, he was very mindful of that,
20:59
very mindful. He was like, let me let me tread lightly, hang
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on, you know, do anything to piss off Drake. So you gotta
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understand Ky Sannick. When he's watching it, he said, I wish I
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could be a thug but he's like, man, I'm not thug. At
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least he was honest about it. So I I'm at least he was.
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At least he was you know, he was honest about it. So I
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can't be mad at somebody that you know is being being honest and telling the
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truth. I I can't necessarily be mad about it. So I'm just telling
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people when they come down to these situations, y'all better understand. If you're
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gonna be a content creator, you got to decide is it about making going
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viral or is it about being syndicated? That part right now. Being syndicated
21:56
means you get paid a specific amount per episode. I'll give you an example.
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I think Seth Rogan makes about I think it's twenty four million a year.
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He makes twenty four million dollars a year doing podcasts. You have Joe
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Budden that got that. I think when he first started it was like twenty
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thousand an episode. No, I forget how much it was, but he's
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like in twenty thirty thousand an episode. So when you getting paid twenty thirty
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thousand dollars an episode, you're doing pretty well. But see the difference is
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these Joe and them are getting paid yearly. So in other words, there
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if their salary is gonna be one hundred thirty one hundred thousand dollars a year,
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that means it might be a thousand per episodes somewhere, or ten thousand
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per episode. It just depends. But if you're somebody making twenty four million,
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that means you got to be getting paid fifty episode. But either way,
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that's a lot of money. But then it also includes sponsors. That
23:07
also includes you know, being able to interview certain you know, guests.
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So that's why Seth Roding gets paid more because he interviews actual guests. You
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got Jay Shetty, you got Ryan Howes. These are all people that get
23:26
paid per episode. They're syndicated. So you have to understand when you syndicated,
23:33
it's a whole different ballgame here. When you syndicated, the type of
23:38
content you gonna do is gonna be number one, child friendly and number two
23:44
is gonna be something that ain't gonna piss people off. You're gonna be very
23:48
professional. You gonna go in there and do what you need to do,
23:52
and that's just gonna be it on that So you got to be mindful of
23:56
that and a lot of y'all do not know how to be mind. A
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lot of y'all think that when y'all do these podcasts, y'all sitting up here
24:04
cursing, and you're disrespecting women and disrespecting this person and that person. What
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y'all don't understand is there are consequences and repercussions and karma to your actions.
24:19
So I just want people to understand that. I get the fact that you
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got people out here that are sitting up here. You know, you see
24:29
all these podcasts, but if you look at their numbers, they get the
24:33
same numbers every week. They get no new followers, they get know nothing.
24:38
So at the end of the day, when people don't understand is you
24:41
got to know what your who your audience is, who your niche is.
24:45
And you also, once you start getting bigger, start having people that you
24:51
trust to moderate your channel. Don't let any of these people that's on social
24:57
media be your moderate. I'm gonna tell you why because it happened to me
25:02
personally. When you allow just any and everybody to be your moderators, if
25:07
they don't like somebody, they are not going to They're gonna end up,
25:15
you know, doing something to where their person is blocked off your channel.
25:19
So you're gonna have people that's gonna start controlling your channel and start blocking people
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for no reason. It ain't done nothing. I've seen this happen when I
25:27
was going after a sex code. I've seen people do this and other platforms
25:33
where I've seen other people's channels and you come in there, you speak or
25:40
you're trying to give them money. The next thing you know, you're being
25:45
blocked for absolutely no reason. You ain't done nothing to nobody, but yet
25:51
you're being blocked. And then when you go to the person and you let
25:55
look, this person is constantly blocking me for no reason. That's why I
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stopped going into a lot of people's channels that I used to watch when I
26:03
was going after a sex code. I don't watch them no more because every
26:07
time I go in there, they end up blocking me. So I don't
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go in there at all. So I just want people to understand that when
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it come down and stuff like this, you have to be mindful because your
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fans can also be a problem. So it's just like with Cardi B.
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I think Cardi B is more in fashion now. I don't think she wants
26:26
to do another album. That's why I think she's modeling now. I think
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she is transitioning to something else, and that can happen too. See,
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what people don't understand is it's about getting in the door, and then once
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you get in the door, you can decide what it is that you really
26:44
do wanna do now. It's just like with Taylor Swift. For example,
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Taylor Swift does not do any sponsors or endorsements. And the reason she does
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not because she knows her fans are not rich and wealthy people. And I
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appreciate her for that because not everybody else do things like that. So this
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girl makes enough money to where she does not need to do any endorsements.
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People have been trying to get that girl to do endorsements and she just will
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not do it. She wears stuff that when she's not on the stage,
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she wears things that are actually affordable that people can actually buy or mimic.
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So, for example, she wears a lot of these little dresses. I
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think are so cute, and I forgot they're like baby doll dresses. I
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think they're the what they are. And I like Taylor's Taylor Swifts style.
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It's very you it's very normal. So I love the fact that she has
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done that, that she's thinking along the lines that she's she's basically understanding that.
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So I love that for her. I I love the fact that she
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is basically thinking about her her fans, because not everybody thinks like that.
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They don't care nothing about they fans. All they care about it is they
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gonna make as much money off they fans as they can make. And that's
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the one thing about Taylor Swift. Taylor Swift knows her fans don't make but
28:18
so much money. That's why she makes her concerts affordable for her fans.
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See, a lot of y'all don't even think about your fans, and that's
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something that a lot of people don't understand. When you think about your fans
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and you understand your fans don't have money like that, then you definitely want
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to, you know, think about that before you say, oh, okay,
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I'm just gonna I'm just gonna do this. No, you need think
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about your fans and think about what they have to do deal with, and
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what they have to do and how much they have to pay for your concerts.
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Some people are well aware that there is a recession, and they're really
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like, okay, we' I'm not just gonna, you know, make my
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fans spend all this money. That would be unfair. So some people really
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do think about their fans. It's just like for me, when I write
29:06
this book and I do this book signing, I'm not gonna charge a bunch
29:11
for my book. I'm gonna make it where it's affordable, because if it's
29:15
affordable, more people will buy it. If it's expensive, everybody's gonna buy
29:19
it. It's just like with Savage fenty and The Sacred when it comes to
29:25
that, you know, the shampoo, the actual sets or whatever, they're
29:30
not affordable. One hundred and something dollars with some shampoo. Absolutely not in
29:33
my paying for that. So there are a lot of people that's not gonna
29:37
pay for it. But yeah, there will be people that will pay for
29:40
it. But the problem is these people don't know the people that actually got
29:45
money are not gonna pay for that. It's too expensive. They're not gonna
29:48
pay for it, even though they they're like, Okay, I support ri
29:52
Leanna, I s I support Beyonce, but no, hm, hm,
29:56
absolutely not. So there are a lot of people that's not gonna sit up
29:59
here and pay for something like that. They're they're just not gonna do it,
30:03
and I don't blame them. I wouldn't either, So a lot of
30:07
people are you know, that's what people need to understand. So I I
30:15
get it, but a lot of people don't understand that when it comes down
30:22
to doing certain things. I need people to understand that when it comes down
30:33
to doing these things, I need people to understand that you gotta think about
30:38
your followers. A lot of y'all don't care about your followers. You don't
30:41
care about them. You use them to get paid off, to pay money
30:45
off of I seen one content creator telling people that she's a l she has
30:48
light skinned privilege, and that sh y'all ain't nothing. See that's what I'm
30:52
saying. A lot of y'all on social media are just run saying things to
30:57
basically get people to support you and then turn around and do your audience dirty.
31:03
What is wrong with y'all? I don't I don't get it. I
31:07
don't get it at all. So I really want people to try to understand
31:15
that when it comes down to your audience, you are nothing without them.
31:21
They're the ones that make you they're the ones that basically are the ones that
31:26
keep money in your pocket. It's just like if I had a course,
31:30
for example, that was twenty five hundred dollars and I only had twenty people
31:33
to buy it, I would be okay with that. Why because if them
31:37
twenty people get the course and they're like, this course is absolutely fabulous.
31:42
This course changed my life. This course helped me. I'm glad I bought
31:48
it because that course is not just for them, it's also for their children
31:52
and their children's children, because they can pass it down. And then not
31:56
only that, not only would I give them extra bonuses of extra stuff or
32:00
extra courses, I would also give them something where they can create their own
32:04
course for they kids. Yeah, a lot of y'all wouldn't know I would
32:07
do that. So I mean, that's what I'm saying. It's not just
32:12
about me selling courses or you know, selling a book. It's about the
32:15
fact that I hear people say they learned from it, they went through the
32:20
course, they read the book, the book has helped them. They get
32:23
a free journal with the book, so they get a free journal with the
32:28
book. So as they're reading the Book of Recovery, they're actually doing the
32:30
journal, and the good thing about it is it's something they can continuously continue
32:36
to use. So all they gotta do is say it with a ca their
32:38
computer and then they'll have the main copy. And then if they lose the
32:43
copy, they can contact me and say, well, I lost the copy.
32:45
Is there anywhere that I can get another copy of the of the Word
32:47
book? Okay? Cool? If I prove that they they actually bought it,
32:53
then yeah, absolutely so. I need I need people to understand and
33:00
that, you know, when it comes down to stuff like this, I
33:02
just want people to understand you are nothing without your people. And I know
33:08
a lot of y'all don't wanna accept that. A lot of y'all be like,
33:12
well, you know, I feel as though that you know, my
33:19
fans don't Matt, Your fans do matter. Chris Brown says it all the
33:22
time. He appreciates his fans. Now, the fact that they paying thousand
33:27
dollars to go see him backstage's crazy to me, cause I ain't doing it.
33:30
Mm I see him out in about I'm like this, I'm somebody.
33:37
If I see a celebrity, I am not walking up to that person.
33:40
I'm not I'm leaving them alone. So i'm'a give you a good example of
33:44
how I am with people. I met Joe Claire twenty some years ago.
33:51
I was a mar I think I was like in my early probably late twenties
33:54
when I met Joe Claire. It was around the time, a little bit
33:58
after Rap City, after he Rap City on BT, he did a concert
34:05
where my parents live and my friend was taking pictures with him and he saw
34:12
me and I'm just standing there. He said, would you like to take
34:14
a picture. I said, Uh, okay, say I ain't taking a
34:19
picture with me, So, you know, I I really appreciated the fact
34:22
that he was nice enough to to take a picture with me. And I
34:27
don't have a picture anymore because my phone my old phone. I don't I'm
34:31
not to the same phone company anymore. So I just want people to understand
34:36
that there is nothing wrong with giving celebrities their space. And if you happen
34:42
to see them and you be like, you know, I'm sorry to bother
34:45
you, but I just want to say that I'm a fan of yours and
34:49
hi. But this is what a lot of y'all do. Before I get
34:52
into that, the first thing y'all do you'll disrespect the spouse to talk to
34:57
the celebrity. No, you wanna talk to the spouse first. So let's
35:00
say, for example, y'all talk about Anthony Macki and how he doesn't like
35:06
taking pictures when he's with his family. Well, if y'all know that,
35:08
they're don't approach him, leave alone. Some people, when it comes to
35:13
the off time, it is their off time. Give them their privacy,
35:16
give them the space they should be able to go out and do whatever it
35:22
is that they need to do outside of social media. But yet y'all don't
35:30
want to get these people no space and no race. It's just like with
35:32
Jada Waiter and when it comes down to her and who her baby daddy is,
35:37
and nobody even knew she was pregnant. Don't even know she's pregnant.
35:40
Now she got a baby by a man that she's not married to. I
35:45
already went through this with little baby. Now you're gonna have a baby,
35:51
but another man that left a woman that has triplets, So you see what
35:55
I mean. I can sit here and talk about celebrity news all day long,
36:00
but I don't want to because me personally, number one, what I'm
36:05
gonna do differently, is I'm actually gonna have a blog where I write about
36:09
celebrities, and I actually you do the blog, and then I might come
36:14
on social media and do a review of everything. But that's just to bring
36:19
people to my website. So I need people to understand, don't just be
36:22
on social media. Just be on social media. Please turn it into a
36:25
business, even if that means you do digital marketing, even if that means
36:30
you being a life coach, even if that means you have a blog where
36:34
people can read on what you said about celebrities. A lot of y'all just
36:37
don't want to do that. You're on TikTok talking about celebrities, but yet
36:43
you're not getting paid to do. So. Please forgive me for my confusion
36:47
because and I understand I'm confused because me personally, I ain't doing nothing for
36:53
I'm not. Now, if you're somebody like myself, and you wanna do
36:57
morning inspirations, and you wanna give people morning inspirations, and you see something
37:01
that may catch your attention, and you might say, Okay, yeah,
37:06
I am gonna talk about this, But that does not mean I'm gonna sit
37:08
up here every day and talk about celebrities. I'm just not. And at
37:14
the end of the day, when you on social media, you gotta know
37:15
what great power comes responsibility, cause it just does. With great power comes
37:20
absolute great responsibility. No matter what you do, it's great responsibility. So
37:27
at the end of the day, for some people, yes, your your
37:29
podcast may not pick up right away, your your your your YouTube channel or
37:37
your TikTok channel may not pick up right away, but eventually you gonna say
37:42
something that's gonna catch people's attention and then they're gonna come on your channel and
37:46
then listen. So it's okay. If right now you're not you're not doing
37:51
well. It's really literally okay bigcause like I said, if you if you
37:55
do your f your videos once a day and they'll leave'em alone. And
38:00
and and also nothing is it's cool when you wanna stitch things, but put
38:06
it on a channel where you know that's all you're doing is stitching. Because
38:10
with TikTok, if you stitch videos, you're not gonna get paid for it.
38:15
So if you're doing where you just stitching videos, which I gotta change
38:19
one channel to another channel because of the fact I'm stitching videos. So if
38:23
you really wanna get paid on TikTok, don't don't stitch any videos unless that
38:29
channel specifically just for that. Make a channel that's strippy for stuff that you
38:32
stitch, so if you see something you wanna talk about it, you can
38:36
actually do so. And then I also have a channel where you're actually doing
38:39
nothing but your actual real content, so there's nothing wrong with it. So
38:45
I I mean, cause that's what I did at one time. I I
38:47
I'll do a channel and then somehow, some way, I'll end up stitching
38:52
something. And I realize when you try to get on their program, they
38:55
gonna tell you any videos that you stitch are not gonna get paid because some
39:00
it's content attached to it, which is fine. So I thought about,
39:02
you know what, let me go ahead and change this particular channel, cause
39:07
I'm about to change the channel's name because of the fact I do a lot
39:13
of stitching. So that's what I intend to do. So, like I
39:19
said, that way you have a channel that's strictly for stitching, and then
39:22
you have a channel that's specifically for real content. I recommend that you do
39:29
it from your computer. When it comes to stitching. When it come to
39:32
doing these videos, because if you have an iPhone, you're gonna be completely
39:36
and utterly screwed because with iPhones they're very funny like that. So all I'm
39:43
all I'm saying to y'all is I I get it. I do. But
39:46
when you are trying to do anything, you gotta ask yourself are you serious
39:52
about it? Or you just doing it just because you wanna get followers because
39:55
you wanna go viral. If you wanna go viral and that's the reason that
40:00
you're doing it, is not really a legitimate reason to do it. So
40:05
I just want I want people to understand that if you're serious about being a
40:08
content creator, then you also need to have products that you're selling because you
40:15
may not make money off that. So having sponsors is definitely gonna help you
40:19
out. A lot of y'all put your pay pals and cash apps up,
40:22
but here's a problem. In twenty twenty five, you might be getting it
40:28
ten ninety nine form asking why. So if you're on social media and you're
40:31
getting pay pals and cash apps, you better make sure they put the reason
40:37
they send me your money you better not put on. Now that you're sending
40:40
somebody money, you better you better explain why, because I'm here to tell
40:45
you now them ten ninety them, ten ninety them, ten ninety nine,
40:51
ten ninety five, see S or S forms. It's coming to your door.
40:59
But if Donald Trump gets in office, we may not be having taxes
41:06
next ye that come the year of the next because they're trying to stop income
41:09
taxes. They tryna stop you from getting any type of inco income tax money.
41:15
So if anything, you gonna be paying money more so than you gonna
41:19
be s then you gonna be getting money back. So it's it's about to
41:22
get pretty crazy. Unfortunately, it really, truthfully speaking, it is.
41:27
It is about to get insane. So I don't like what's going on,
41:35
but it's happening. So I hate the fact that this even has to be
41:42
a a situation, but unfortunately it is. It's it's sad that we even
41:51
have to deal with this nonsense, but unfortunately we have to. It don't
41:59
It don't make sense why we have to, but we do. Don't HM.
42:08
So I just want people to understand that you're gonna have situations that are
42:15
going to be downright ugly. So if you're trying to be a real content
42:20
creator, then you need to make sure that you have all your stuff on
42:25
fleets, point blame period. Just make sure you good. Because I'm saying
42:31
I'm here to tell you you gonna have people that's gonna say, oh,
42:37
well, you know you're you're doing this, you are, but just be
42:45
mindful, That's all I will say. Be mindful because people Christy people are
42:53
peert and completely and utterly nuts. So I just want you to be prepped
43:00
that. So just be mindful of that situation. So I get the fact
43:13
that for a lot of y'all your life, well okay, well we're gonna
43:16
do this, mm kay. So I just want people to just make sure
43:24
they're prepped for you know, what is going to happen. Just be prepped
43:31
for work and just prepared for work because you never know what may or may
43:37
note have. So I just want people to just you know, be be
43:44
be mindful of that and that. So I'm saying, I'm not saying that
43:51
people don't deserve to be happy, or they don't deserve to be in love,
43:52
and they don't deserve whatever it is they gonna get. Everybody deserves some
43:58
type of happiness, but just be mindful that you gonna have people that just
44:06
you know what I'm saying, just be mindful of it. So I hope
44:12
this information helps y'all out as content creators, because, like I said,
44:17
I I get the fact that for a lot of you, y'all won't to
44:22
be happy, and you won't to be in a relationship, and a lot
44:28
of y'all wanna be successful. But don't listen to people that are making you
44:34
feel less than what you are. Please don't do that because you gonna end
44:37
up regretting it later. At the end of the day. You deserve to
44:40
have, you know, to be happy, and you deserve to have somebody
44:45
that really cares about you. So I just want people to be mindful of
44:53
that. That's all I'm saying. So with that beings that, I appreciate
44:58
y'all for joining me for this episode. I mean, as God is ash
45:01
Maria, I'm a thank you guys for joining me for this episode. If
45:05
you guys are interested on coming on my platform as a guest, please hit
45:07
me up at A s H A dot M A r I A M A
45:13
zero one at gmail dot com. If you are someone that'ma say it
45:20
again A s H A dot M A R I A M A zero one
45:24
at gmail dot com. If you are someone that basically is going through something
45:31
and you want to basically talk to me about it or one on one coaching,
45:38
you can reach me the email address as well. You can send me
45:43
Dear Asher letters. I love Dear Osh letters because of the fact that it
45:49
means a lot to me to know that I'm able to help people through their
45:52
journeys. So I'm definitely willing to help. All you got to do is
45:57
just, you know, give me, send me a letter and I can,
46:01
you know, talk about whatever topic y'all wanna talk about. If there's
46:05
a topic that I've talked about and you wanna get more information about it,
46:08
that by all means you can email me there as well. Like I said,
46:12
I'm all about health being. I want people to succeed. I want
46:15
people to thrive, I want people to grow, I want people to evolve,
46:20
and that's all I want people to do. So that being said,
46:23
I am going to go finish my work and I will talk to y'all a
46:28
little bit later. But just understand that success is not about what you obtained.
46:34
It's about what you maintain. It's not about just something being handed to
46:38
you. It's about you doing the work to make it happen. Cause anybody
46:42
can sit up here and get something for nothing. The question is did you
46:46
work to get what it what it was that you wanted, And if you
46:50
didn't, then you know what I'm saying. That's just my point on that.
46:54
So with that being said, that's all I got to say about that.
46:59
So with that being said, I will talk to you guys a little
47:05
bit later. Have a good day off. Hi,