Latest / Mindful Success Path / Phoenix Rising: Embracing Feminine Energy and Restoring Self
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- 0:32I've had a lot of women sending me messages lately saying that the energy of December is feeling very heavy for them.
- 0:38So if that is you, I want you to know that there's nothing wrong with you.
- 0:41And in fact, you should be very excited because what's going on is that your feminine energy is preparing you for a rebirth in 2026, my darling, you are going to be like a Phoenix rising.
- 0:54From the ashes, and today we're gonna talk about it.
- 0:57Hi, my name is Amanda.
- 0:58Welcome to this channel where we talk about how to manifest what you want in life without all the extra stress, chaos, and drama that most people are accustomed to.
- 1:06Lately we've been talking about feminine energy, nervous system, regulation, manifestation, a lot of really cool things based on my 15 years of experience, coaching women in different areas of their lives, being trained in a lot.
- 1:19Of different modalities internationally, and more importantly, having gone through my own transformation.
- 1:25With feminine energy where I went from a hyper independent, perpetually single, having a bunch of hormone problems, woman to meeting my husband, moving to another country, regulating my hormones, and having businesses that bring in a passive income in less than two years.
- 1:43So if that's something that you're interested in, make sure to subscribe and hit the notification bell.
- 1:47So you don't want me to say single video.
- 1:48That we have coming out on this channel.
- 1:51And as always, if I have additional resources for those of you who wanna go deeper, then I will let you know as we go through the video.
- 1:57There's two places where you can get started in today's video.
- 2:01The best place to start with today's video would be with our Enhance Your Feminine Energy Guide, which is a free guide.
- 2:07All you need to do is input your name and email and you will be emailed the guide, and you will also get access to our student portal, which I think I'm gonna start calling the Temple Portal, where you'll have access to it forever.
- 2:19And in that free guide, it'll walk you through the multiple ways that you can enhance your feminine energy in the next seven days.
- 2:25So you can start experiencing more ease and flow in different areas of your life.
- 2:30If you are on vacation right now, because it's the last two weeks of the year.
- 2:33Perfect time to get it and implement some of the strategies and energetics that we talk about in that guide.
- 2:41So let's get into why this heaviness is happening and why people are feeling it.
- 2:46So the reason why sometimes we end up feeling heavy at the end of the year is because endings pull up old energy for release.
- 2:55So especially once we get into the last two weeks of the year, even though there's a lot of wonderful things going on as well, there's parties, there's this, there's that, there's optimism for a lot of people.
- 3:05There's also a heaviness, there's a bit of a mourning process that happens.
- 3:09And this is completely normal because this is the time of the year where the old is asking to be released.
- 3:16And for many of you, what's going on is that the old is living in a constant state of stress.
- 3:23The old is living in a constant state of over function.
- 3:26The old is living in a constant state of survival, and that's asking you to release it and no longer live from that place.
- 3:37Like I said, it's the phoenix rising from the ashes, and what's happening sometimes is because we slowed down in the last two weeks of the year, many of you just do not feel safe.
- 3:49With slowing down.
- 3:50The minute that you slow down, you're all immediately like, is the shoe gonna drop?
- 3:54Is something gonna catch fire?
- 3:56Is this gonna happen?
- 3:56Is this gonna be a problem?
- 3:57What if I get back to the office in two weeks and everything's a mess?
- 4:00Like that's where your brain starts to go.
- 4:03Or maybe you're dating somebody and you slow down for two weeks and you're like, I haven't heard from him for a day.
- 4:08What's going on?
- 4:09Like, that's where your brains automatically go because your body doesn't actually feel safe.
- 4:14To rest.
- 4:15Um, and for many people what happens is if they've never taken the time to rest and release.
- 4:20A lot of those stories and those emotions are gonna start coming up and they're gonna start coming up very loudly.
- 4:26Now, this is normal if you've never really taken any time to rest, and for most people, let's be real, they don't rest all year long.
- 4:33These are like the two weeks a year where they actually get a little bit of a break if that, because some of you go, if you have a corporate job, for example, some of you are back at work on the 26th, right?
- 4:43So some of you don't even get that.
- 4:45Let's be real.
- 4:47Now, let's talk about the feminine relationship with endings.
- 4:51The feminine transforms through softness, not urgency.
- 4:57The problem is that many of you, myself included, have been trained into urgency.
- 5:02Everything's an emergency.
- 5:03Everything needs to get done quickly.
- 5:05Everything on the to-do list is a problem.
- 5:08That's how most people have been conditioned.
- 5:10But the reality is that the feminine, she needs space to dissolve old realities because she is the phoenix.
- 5:17She needs to dissolve'em into ashes, is what she needs to do.
- 5:20And the thing is that the feminine, she also feels a lot before she shed.
- 5:26So, for example, when I was going through my moment, and for me it ended up being a spiritual awakening, dark night of the soul.
- 5:33I call it my Phoenix moment.
- 5:34Basically, I lost everything and those voices and those feelings got really loud and I got very heavy.
- 5:42In terms of how I was feeling and my mind started going into some dark places if I am being very honest.
- 5:49But what happened was I understood the trick of the ego, and I understood I was smart enough, right?
- 5:54And, uh, well versed enough and trained up enough by that point that I understood something that my mother always says.
- 6:00She says it in Spanish, I'm gonna do my best to translate it for an English speaking audience.
- 6:04But basically she says.
- 6:08And essentially what that means is, um, she's Catholic, so I'm gonna say it like with Christian terminology, and I think everybody will understand it if I do that when the enemy shows up or the devil.
- 6:19But basically when the enemy shows up, it's a good sign because basically what's trying to happen is a breakthrough.
- 6:26What's trying to happen is a transformation.
- 6:29So rather than the enemy or the devil, you could also say when the ego shows up and when the ego gets loud, which is what's happening to a lot of you right now.
- 6:38It's actually a good sign because it means the transformation is about to happen.
- 6:44And when I was going through my own transformation, I at least knew enough because I've heard my mother say that my whole life, where I was like, ah.
- 6:53And I kept telling myself that over and over and over again.
- 6:56It didn't mean that it wasn't painful.
- 6:58It didn't mean that it didn't suck.
- 7:00It didn't mean that it wasn't challenging, it just meant that I understood the game the ego was playing.
- 7:05And for a lot of you, your ego is getting really loud right now because it's about to die.
- 7:10That's what is happening, so celebrate it and move through it.
- 7:15This is a normal part of the process, and what I need you to understand is that the solution to this or the healing to this might actually be somewhat counterintuitive, especially if you're a high achieving woman.
- 7:30You're going to think, oh, I need to go fix this.
- 7:32I need to go do this.
- 7:32I need to get, add this to my to-do list.
- 7:34If I add this many more zeros to my bank account, then I'm going to feel better.
- 7:37If my husband would just stop doing this, then I would feel better.
- 7:40Like that's kind of where our brains start to go.
- 7:42If I lost five pounds.
- 7:44And our immediate reaction is like, oh, there's a problem.
- 7:48I have to go fix the problem and then I'm going to feel better and I'm going to feel relief.
- 7:51I know, girl, I used to do the exact same thing, but your body's actually calling you to do something else.
- 7:57It's calling you to rest.
- 7:58It's calling you to slow down.
- 8:00It's calling you to release the hold that you have on everything and just give yourself a little space.
- 8:09And when you honor this.
- 8:11Yes, the voice is gonna get louder in the beginning, but it'll shut up.
- 8:15Trust me, it's gonna shut up.
- 8:16If you move through this sacred portal, it's going to start dying down.
- 8:21That little voice and your sacred signal, your intuition is gonna start coming back online, and that voice is going to sound calm.
- 8:29That voice is going to sound confident.
- 8:31That voice is not gonna be fighting for its own survival, because that's what the ego is doing right now.
- 8:36And when that sacred signal starts to come online, that's when clarity begins to land again, and that's when you can rebuild your life from a place of feminine energy.
- 8:47That is the exact process that I went through.
- 8:50So for those of you who are going through this work right now, and you're getting toward the end of the month and you've had some time to chill out, chill out, and you notice that your ego is getting stronger and you notice that the voices are getting louder and you've noticed that you're feeling heavy or tired.
- 9:05We're exhausted.
- 9:06It's normal.
- 9:07I need you to move through the portal and I need you to give yourself rest and honor this time rather than trying to anesthetize or trying to go fix external problems because no external problem that you're going to fix is going to give you the transformation that resting will right now.
- 9:23And the reality is that if you're afraid of falling behind when you take the rest, there's no such thing.
- 9:29It is not a thing because I promise you that whatever time you think you're losing by resting right now and allowing feminine energy to take over your life and allowing that sacred signal to come back online, oh, believe me, honey, you're gonna do things.
- 9:44In a year or two years, that previously would've taken you 10.
- 9:48And I know because I've lived it.
- 9:50I know because, for example, I spent years trying to move to other countries years and it wasn't until feminine energy came into my life and I really started embodying it and living from that place and nervous system regulation that I made it happen within a year, I had been perpetually single for 10 to 15 years, manifest my husband in four months.
- 10:09Uh, in this business right here, I started creating passive income, which I was never able to do in any of my previous businesses.
- 10:16By the way, in 10 freaking years, I was never able to do it.
- 10:19And in this business I was able to do it in a couple weeks.
- 10:22So when you start living from that place of feminine energy and you honor this time of rest, and you move through this portal of discomfort that some of you are feeling right now, I promise you, feminine energy and living from that place is gonna make up for a lot of lost time.
- 10:39So you don't have to worry about falling behind.
- 10:41There's no such thing.
- 10:43It's almost like when you slow down, you actually speed up in terms of your manifestations and this portal of discomfort, which may feel like heaviness is actually sacred.
- 10:53It's initiation energy because you are becoming the phoenix your ego especially is going through this process of dissolving and becoming ash and dying.
- 11:04And the woman that you become.
- 11:06On the other side of that, when you embrace Femin energy, you are going to be unrecognizable.
- 11:11You are going to look at your life and you're gonna be like, whoa.
- 11:16Just as I, you're gonna get whiplash from how fast things start to happen and how easy they start coming into your life.
- 11:24So I hope this video gave you something to ponder.
- 11:27I hope it gave you some confidence.
- 11:28I hope it gave you something to hang onto because I do understand that heaviness and I do understand how difficult and uncomfortable that feels.
- 11:37And I also know what it's like to come out on the other side of it when I gave myself the time to rest and I honored this death and rebirth process.
- 11:45Thank you so much for giving me your time today.
- 11:48Happy holidays and I'll catch you on the next one.