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- 0:00The psalm that we read together, Psalm 116.
- 0:04I'm going to look at the whole of this psalm together.
- 0:06We'll just read at the beginning.
- 0:07I love the Lord because he has heard my voice and my pleas for mercy.
- 0:12Because he inclined his ear to me, therefore I will call on him as long as I live.
- 0:20As you go through this psalm, you find the recurring theme of calling on the Lord
- 0:26and praying to the Lord, crying out to the Lord, recurring again and again.
- 0:32It's a reminder to us of the great blessing and privilege that there is
- 0:36in having the Lord to be called upon, being able to come in prayer to God.
- 0:43But we can all acknowledge, I'm sure, there are times when maybe prayer is a struggle for us all.
- 0:49A time when we find it hard to come to God in prayer.
- 0:53Maybe we feel angry towards God.
- 0:57We feel undeserving of God.
- 1:00We feel just a distance from God at times.
- 1:04For a number of different reasons, we can find prayer a struggle at different times.
- 1:10The words won't come.
- 1:12We're easily distracted.
- 1:13We start thinking about other things.
- 1:16We fall out of the habit and the routine of coming regularly to God in prayer.
- 1:21And it leads us to ask the question then, what can we do?
- 1:25We know we're struggling.
- 1:27We know maybe finding it hard.
- 1:29What can we do about it?
- 1:31How can we get back into that intimate bond with God?
- 1:36How can we get back into that close relationship with him?
- 1:39In coming to him regularly and lovingly and with great joy, coming to him in prayer.
- 1:47Well, we have God's word.
- 1:52And that is where we come to.
- 1:54If we are struggling and finding prayer hard, we come to God.
- 1:59We don't stay away feeling he won't want to hear us.
- 2:02We don't stay away feeling we're not deserving of him.
- 2:05We are to come to him.
- 2:07And we are to come through his word.
- 2:10Because his word, it brings us back to him in such an intimate way.
- 2:15And especially in so often as you look at the Psalms, you find the Psalms help us once again to come and even just pray through the Psalms.
- 2:25Reading the Psalms, we're reading them in a prayerful sense.
- 2:28And this Psalm that we've been reading together here, Psalm 116, it reminds us of that great relationship that the Psalmist had here with God.
- 2:40Everything wasn't straightforward.
- 2:43Everything wasn't perfect.
- 2:44Things were hard for the Psalmist.
- 2:47And yet the opening words of this Psalm reminds us of that great relationship and that great intimacy that every Christian has with the Lord.
- 2:57I love the Lord.
- 2:59I love the Lord because he has heard my voice and my pleas for mercy.
- 3:05There's this wonderful reminder from the outset that God listens to his people as they pray.
- 3:13And so as we come to God's word, if we're struggling ourselves to pray, as we read through this Psalm or other Psalms or other parts of Scripture,
- 3:23we find that God's word begins to melt our hearts, reminds us maybe not so much of our love for him first, but of his love for us.
- 3:34Of what a wonderful God we have.
- 3:37And so if you find yourself in that situation, if you are in that situation, then come to a Psalm like this and read through it, meditate on it,
- 3:47and not just be challenged by it, but be moved by it, by the love of God towards his people.
- 3:57The first few words there, I love the Lord.
- 4:00That's what we're going to focus on this evening, our love for the Lord.
- 4:04And that question, do you love him?
- 4:08Because the Psalmist is able to say here, he does.
- 4:12And he goes on to expand on that by giving reasons why he does.
- 4:18And that's why we want to look together at this evening.
- 4:21Do you love the Lord?
- 4:23And if you do love him, how much?
- 4:27How much do you love him?
- 4:29The gospel and the word of God, it often asks us these questions.
- 4:36You find Jesus so often challenging crowds of people with deep and meaningful questions.
- 4:43Not just those who are his followers, those who are close to him, but those who are his enemies.
- 4:50He challenges them often with searching questions.
- 4:52For example, in Matthew 22, verse 41.
- 4:58There, Jesus is with a crowd of Pharisees, those who are antagonistic towards him.
- 5:04And he asks them a searching question.
- 5:07He says to them, what do you think about the Christ?
- 5:12Whose son is he?
- 5:13They're hearing so much about the Christ, the Messiah, but they don't realize he's there before them.
- 5:22And so what does he say to them?
- 5:24What do you think about the Christ?
- 5:27It's not searching.
- 5:29We think of that question for ourselves tonight.
- 5:32What do you think about the Christ?
- 5:35How would you answer that yourself?
- 5:40Well, there's so many searching questions.
- 5:44And this psalm highlights for us other searching questions too.
- 5:48And there's three questions arising from this psalm that I want us to think about this evening.
- 5:54The first question is, do you love him?
- 5:58The second question is, why would you love him?
- 6:02And the third question is, how can you love him?
- 6:07So the first question we think about is, do you love him?
- 6:12And when we think about coming to God in prayer and our struggle sometimes to come to God in prayer,
- 6:19this is where we have to begin.
- 6:21Do you love him?
- 6:22When we feel a distance sometimes from God or an unworthiness of coming to God, ask yourself this, do you love him?
- 6:34And when you think of that question, do you love him?
- 6:38Is there a particular part of scripture it takes you to?
- 6:43Or a particular individual it makes you maybe think about?
- 6:46Well, it brings us to the New Testament and to Peter.
- 6:54And when Jesus had risen from the grave and he appeared before Peter and he restored Peter,
- 7:02but he restored him with this challenging question.
- 7:06Do you love me?
- 7:08Put yourself in Peter's shoes after all that he had been through, after all that he had seen, after denying the Lord Jesus.
- 7:17And then Jesus, John 21, verse 15, it says,
- 7:22When they had finished breakfast, Jesus said to Simon Peter, Simon, son of John, do you love me more than these?
- 7:31And what was Peter's response?
- 7:33He said to him, yes, Lord, you know that I love you.
- 7:38You know that I love you.
- 7:40Now, to us, as we read these verses in John, we see the word love.
- 7:48But when you read it in the Greek, there's two different words used.
- 7:53When Jesus asks the question, do you love me?
- 7:58He uses a word called agape.
- 8:00And that's a deep, a deep, deep love.
- 8:06A love that goes beyond any love that we can imagine.
- 8:10It's a love that's rooted in God, rooted in Christ.
- 8:15A love that's unconditioned.
- 8:18A love that is no matter what.
- 8:21That's what Jesus is asking him.
- 8:23Simon, do you love me?
- 8:25This agape love.
- 8:26But what you notice with Peter is when he says, you know that I love you, he doesn't use the same word.
- 8:36He uses the word phileo, which means like a love between friends.
- 8:44A friendship love.
- 8:45A close bond of love, but not with the same depth of this agape love that Jesus is asking him.
- 8:53And Jesus asks him this question three times.
- 8:58The second time he asks it in the same way.
- 9:01Simon, do you love me?
- 9:03With this agape love.
- 9:06And Peter's response, the second time is the same.
- 9:08You know I love you.
- 9:10Phileo love.
- 9:11A friendship.
- 9:12A close love.
- 9:14And the third time Jesus asks him, Simon, do you love me?
- 9:19The third time he uses phileo.
- 9:24This friendship love Jesus is asking about now.
- 9:28And Peter replies that third time in the same way.
- 9:31Lord, you know that I love you.
- 9:34Phileo love.
- 9:37It's almost like he doesn't quite have the depth of love that he knows he should.
- 9:41Because of all that he's gone through.
- 9:44Because of all that he experiences.
- 9:46He almost can't come to say, Lord, I love you.
- 9:48With this agape love, I've let you down.
- 9:53I've failed you in so many ways.
- 9:56But Jesus comes to him, seeking to restore him to that way.
- 10:00And praying that you would come to love him with this agape.
- 10:05This deep love.
- 10:07Now, why do we go there?
- 10:08Well, because in this psalm, the word used in that verse, verse one, I love the Lord, is agape.
- 10:19This deep, rich, unconditional love.
- 10:24And it's this love that the Lord wants his people to have.
- 10:30To come more than phileo love.
- 10:32This friendship love.
- 10:33But to come to this depth of love.
- 10:36To love God, no matter what.
- 10:40To see our sins as they are.
- 10:41But to know that he loves us.
- 10:43And to say, I love, agape love, the Lord with all my heart.
- 10:49Because he has heard my voice and my prayer.
- 10:53And so that's the challenge for us in these opening words.
- 10:57I love the Lord because he has heard my voice.
- 11:03Now, there's no doubt Peter would have gone on to love the Lord in that way.
- 11:09To love the Lord and serve him with all his heart.
- 11:12And that's what Jesus was doing in restoring him.
- 11:16Moving him on from just that close bond of relationship, of friendship, to this agape love.
- 11:23And that's the love that as Christians we are to have towards him.
- 11:28Because that's the love he has towards us.
- 11:31And in the opening four verses, the reasons for the psalmist delight is clear for us.
- 11:41He loves the Lord because he has heard his voice.
- 11:44Am I pleased for mercy?
- 11:46He inclined his ear to me.
- 11:48Therefore, I will call on him as long as I live.
- 11:51This relationship is there.
- 11:54This depth of relationship is there.
- 11:57And that's where we are to come to.
- 11:59That's the Lord that we are to come to.
- 12:02And we are struggling to pray.
- 12:05To remind ourselves of what God has done for us.
- 12:11The psalmist here is saying,
- 12:13I love the Lord because he has heard me.
- 12:16And I will call on him no matter what.
- 12:20No matter what comes my way.
- 12:23I will call on the Lord.
- 12:25I will pray to him no matter what.
- 12:28Because I love the Lord.
- 12:30That is this depth of relationship.
- 12:34So whatever our circumstances, this is the relationship we have with our Lord, with our Father.
- 12:41That we can love him with his love because he has loved us with it.
- 12:45So whether we are going through hardships or highs, whatever it is, we can enjoy this relationship with God.
- 12:56And you just look through the Psalms.
- 12:58You see it so often in the Psalms, the varying experience of the psalmist.
- 13:03And so often as you're reading through the Psalms, whether it's challenging times or joyous times, the real heart of the matter, the question is the relationship with God.
- 13:16And so whether the psalmist is angry with God and questioning God, or whether he's rejoicing in God, there is always this certainty, this surety that God is there.
- 13:28And that's why we remind ourselves again and again, that God is with us.
- 13:34David in the Psalms, for example, he so often shows how varying our emotions can be and our experiences can be.
- 13:42And yet the constant nature of God.
- 13:44Psalm 142, it speaks of David being surrounded by enemies.
- 13:52And yet in verse 4, he says, look to the right and see, there is none who takes notice of me.
- 13:59No refuge remains to me.
- 14:01No one cares for my soul.
- 14:03There's no one there for him.
- 14:06But then verse 5 says, I cry to you, O Lord.
- 14:09I say, you are my refuge, my portion in the land of the living.
- 14:15The Lord is with him.
- 14:18Despite being surrounded by enemies, the Lord is with him.
- 14:23In Psalm 18, which we sang together, that psalm is in the experience of David having been delivered from his enemies.
- 14:30And he says there, I love you, O Lord, my strength.
- 14:34The Lord is my rock and my fortress and my deliverer, my God, my rock in whom I take refuge, my shield and the horn of my salvation, my stronghold.
- 14:46The Lord is there with him.
- 14:49You see two differing experiences.
- 14:52Enemy surrounding and everyone's deserted him, yet the Lord is with him.
- 14:57In one instance, delivered from the enemy and rejoicing in God.
- 15:02In the other, I love you, Lord, O Lord, my strength.
- 15:08So whatever our circumstances, do we not have reason to rejoice in God?
- 15:16Isaac Watts, he was a famous minister and a hymn writer.
- 15:21And he had to leave the ministry in his late 30s due to ill health.
- 15:25And he spent pretty much the rest of his days confined to house.
- 15:30He couldn't serve the Lord in the same way as he had done.
- 15:35And yet he was inspired to write various hymns over the years.
- 15:42Five years after he left the ministry, he wrote the hymn, I Love the Lord.
- 15:48And it's a paraphrase of Psalm 116.
- 15:51And as him says this,
- 15:54I love the Lord, he heard my cry and pitied every groan.
- 15:59Long as I live and troubles rise, I've hasten to his throne.
- 16:04I love the Lord who heard my cry and chased my grief away.
- 16:08O let my heart no more despair while I have breath to pray.
- 16:13Despite the situation and the circumstances of where he was and how his lot had changed so quickly,
- 16:22he was still able to hasten to the throne, to pray while he had breath and to rejoice and say,
- 16:30I love the Lord.
- 16:31He heard my cry and pitied every groan.
- 16:35So the question is, do you love the Lord?
- 16:41Do you love that he hears your prayer?
- 16:46And do you hasten to his throne?
- 16:49That is where we are to come, to come to him.
- 16:53Even if we are struggling to pray, to know that we love him because he first loved us.
- 16:59The psalmist goes on here and he says to us, why would you love him?
- 17:07And in verse 5 down to verse 11, he outlines for us various ways where we can delight in God and why we should love him.
- 17:16And the first way is this.
- 17:19Do we know who God is?
- 17:22Do we know God as he is?
- 17:26Gracious is the Lord and righteous.
- 17:29Our God is merciful.
- 17:33Look at the way he starts.
- 17:35It's all about the Lord.
- 17:36Gracious is the Lord.
- 17:40Righteous and merciful.
- 17:43As a reminder to us here, as we come to God, we remind ourselves who we are praying to.
- 17:51The Lord is the one who is gracious.
- 17:54The Lord is the one who is righteous.
- 17:57Our God is merciful.
- 17:59The Lord preserves the simple.
- 18:02He is there for all.
- 18:04So we begin by looking to God.
- 18:09Reminding ourselves of who he is.
- 18:13And again, it's a great reminder to ourselves as we pray to always begin with our focus on God.
- 18:19Just like the Lord's prayer.
- 18:22An outline for how we are to pray.
- 18:24As the disciples were asking us in their own struggles to pray.
- 18:28Lord, teach us to pray.
- 18:31For the Lord Jesus said, our Father who art in heaven, hallowed be your name.
- 18:37It begins with the Lord.
- 18:40Our Father who art in heaven.
- 18:41Our Father who art in heaven.
- 18:43And so he goes on.
- 18:46The focus is first and foremost on the Lord.
- 18:49Because in prayer we can so easily make it just a list of requests.
- 18:53And we go through our requests and feel that we have prayed to God.
- 19:00That we are in this close relationship with him just because we've brought all our requests before him.
- 19:06And that is part of our prayer.
- 19:09But the first part of prayer is always adoration.
- 19:14Always looking and reminding ourselves who God is.
- 19:18If we just begin with a request, we can so easily forget the one who is able to answer our prayers.
- 19:26And so the psalmist here is reminding himself almost who the Lord is.
- 19:32Gracious, righteous, merciful.
- 19:35The one who preserves.
- 19:36The one who has rescued.
- 19:37He has delivered all of these things.
- 19:40He's kept them from stumbling.
- 19:43He goes on with this list.
- 19:44It is the Lord who has done all of these things.
- 19:48Who can compare to this God?
- 19:52There is no one.
- 19:53We pray to the only one who is able to do any of these things.
- 20:01Gracious, righteous, merciful, preserving, bountifully just.
- 20:05And all of these things.
- 20:07He is the only one who is able to do it.
- 20:11And so he's humbled before God.
- 20:15And so should we.
- 20:17So should we be as we come to him in prayer.
- 20:20Be humbled before him for who he is.
- 20:25Who can compare to this God?
- 20:28Just like Job in the Old Testament.
- 20:31In chapter 38, verse 4.
- 20:34The Lord is saying to him.
- 20:35Where were you when I laid the foundation of the earth?
- 20:40You know, can anyone thus say that we have made anything of the created world that we see around us?
- 20:46Where were we when he made it?
- 20:49We were nothing.
- 20:49We were no one.
- 20:50This is the God who has made the heaven and the earth.
- 20:55He has made all of these things.
- 20:57And we are reminded here in verse 8 too.
- 21:02He has delivered my soul from death.
- 21:04My eyes from tears.
- 21:07My feet from stumbling.
- 21:10Where would we be without this God?
- 21:13Lost.
- 21:14Completely lost.
- 21:16Completely lost.
- 21:16And yet here is the Lord.
- 21:18The one we are looking to.
- 21:20And who longs to be in relationship with us.
- 21:25There is no one else who compares.
- 21:29In the love of God towards us as we see in Christ Jesus.
- 21:34How he has rescued us from death.
- 21:39How he has come to save us from our sin.
- 21:43With that agape love.
- 21:45That unconditional, undeserved love.
- 21:48That he has brought to us.
- 21:52In 1 John 4 verse 9.
- 21:53In this, the love of God was made manifest among us.
- 21:58That God sent his only son into the world.
- 22:02So we might live through him.
- 22:05Away from death to life found in him.
- 22:10So there is this nature of who God is.
- 22:15And who we are in comparison.
- 22:19We are nothing.
- 22:21And yet God longs for us to be in that relationship.
- 22:25To come to him.
- 22:28Why should we love him?
- 22:30Well, because of who he is.
- 22:33And what he has done for us.
- 22:36Do you love him?
- 22:42The third thing we see in this psalm.
- 22:45The final thing is.
- 22:46How can we love him?
- 22:50The psalmist brings things to a close in this psalm.
- 22:53With a question for himself.
- 22:56What shall I render?
- 22:57In verse 12.
- 22:59What shall I render to the Lord?
- 23:00For all his benefits to me?
- 23:05What can I possibly give to God?
- 23:09For all his benefits.
- 23:10For all his love towards me.
- 23:14We feel maybe we can offer nothing.
- 23:18What can we possibly give to God?
- 23:21Who has loved us in such a way.
- 23:25Well, the psalmist as he began says.
- 23:26I love the Lord.
- 23:29Because he heard my voice.
- 23:31And my pleas for mercy.
- 23:35So what can we give to the Lord?
- 23:38For all his benefits.
- 23:40We can come to him.
- 23:43We can worship him.
- 23:45And that's the first thing that the psalmist answers his own question with.
- 23:50I will lift up the cup of salvation.
- 23:52And call on the name of the Lord.
- 23:55I will pay my vows to the Lord in the presence of all his people.
- 24:01You have this sense of the psalmist reminding himself.
- 24:05Going on.
- 24:07I will call on the name of the Lord all my days.
- 24:10No matter what.
- 24:12I will keep coming back to the Lord.
- 24:15I will lift up the cup of the salvation.
- 24:17I will call on the name of the Lord.
- 24:22I will keep coming back.
- 24:25I will worship him with all my heart.
- 24:29There's a sense of public worship.
- 24:32And there's also this sense of private worship.
- 24:36And that's how we are to live ourselves as well.
- 24:40What shall we give to the Lord for all his benefits?
- 24:44I will give public worship to him.
- 24:48I will make clear to all that I love the Lord because he has heard my voice.
- 24:53And I will make it clear to all that I will love the Lord no matter what.
- 24:59No matter my situation.
- 25:00So people would say, well, it's easy for you to worship God when things are going well.
- 25:06But what a witness it is to still say, I love the Lord because he has heard my voice and my prayers.
- 25:13But even when things are going wrong with us, even when things are hard for us, we will still say, I will still call on the name of the Lord.
- 25:25I will still lift up the cup of salvation.
- 25:28I will still pay my vows to the Lord in the presence of all his people.
- 25:34I will love the Lord no matter what.
- 25:37Because that's the love he showed to me.
- 25:41That's the love that Christ showed to me.
- 25:45He loved no matter what.
- 25:47Even in the garden of Gethsemane, as he was praying with the Father, not my will, but yours be done.
- 25:56Even as he went to the cross and suffered there in our place, they said to him, he could call down anyone to come and help him at that point.
- 26:06But no, thy will be done.
- 26:10No matter what.
- 26:12That is the love of Christ to us.
- 26:15That agape love.
- 26:16And so that is the love that we are to show to him.
- 26:21To give our worship.
- 26:23To give our all for him.
- 26:28And so is that the love that we have for him.
- 26:33Is that the love that we are seeing in ourselves towards him?
- 26:38Do we love him in that way?
- 26:43This is a living sacrifice.
- 26:46This is what Romans 12 verse 1 and 2 speaks of.
- 26:51Being living sacrifices to God.
- 26:55Loving God no matter what.
- 26:59And that is the way that we witness to those around us.
- 27:04That is the way we show that we love the Lord.
- 27:08No matter what.
- 27:10Dwight Moody once said, show me a church where there is love.
- 27:16And I will show you a church that is a power in the community.
- 27:20The love that he was speaking there was a love for the Lord.
- 27:25A love for the brethren.
- 27:27And a love for the lost.
- 27:30Show me a church where there is love.
- 27:32And I will show you a church that is a power in the community.
- 27:37And we think of where we started.
- 27:40When we think of the idea of maybe we're struggling to pray.
- 27:45Well, the more you go through this psalm, the more you realize how much reason we have to love God.
- 27:52And where that love leads us.
- 27:55How can we show our love for God?
- 27:58It's about public worship, but it's also about service of thanksgiving.
- 28:03In verse 17, I will offer to you the sacrifice of thanksgiving and call on the name of the Lord.
- 28:09I will pay my vows to the Lord in the presence of all his people.
- 28:17He is saying this in light of what?
- 28:20Of being a servant.
- 28:22In verse 16.
- 28:25Oh Lord, I am your servant.
- 28:29I love the Lord because he has heard my voice.
- 28:34And now he is saying, Oh Lord, I am your servant.
- 28:39I am your servant.
- 28:42I will love you and I will show your love in worship and in service for you.
- 28:49This is the great depth of the love that God had for us.
- 28:57Being returned by his people.
- 29:01By loving the Lord with all our hearts.
- 29:04By being his servant.
- 29:06By worshiping him with all our hearts.
- 29:10Going back to another hymn that Isaac Watts wrote.
- 29:15Love, so amazing, so divine.
- 29:19Demands my soul, my life, my all.
- 29:24That's exactly what this psalm is saying.
- 29:29I love the Lord with all my heart.
- 29:33Do you?
- 29:34Do you?
- 29:34Do you love the Lord with all your heart?
- 29:39Do you worship him with all that you are?
- 29:42Do you serve him as you ought?
- 29:48When we come back to the heart.
- 29:50The love of God for us.
- 29:53Drives us in prayer.
- 29:55The call on the name of the Lord.
- 29:57And to love him in the same way.
- 30:00With all our hearts.
- 30:02With all our souls.
- 30:04And with all that we are.
- 30:06So may the Lord help us to pray.
- 30:10And help us to see the wonder of his grace.
- 30:14And the wonder of his love.
- 30:16And to serve him with all our hearts.
- 30:19Let us pray.
- 30:22Our Father in heaven, we rejoice in your love for us.
- 30:27We thank you for the depth of it.
- 30:29For it being unconditional.
- 30:31For Lord, that you showed mercy.
- 30:33Even when we were your enemies, you loved us.
- 30:37And you brought us by your grace.
- 30:39And by your mercy to see your love shown to us in Christ Jesus, your son.
- 30:46And we pray, Lord, that you will help us.
- 30:49To see him always before us.
- 30:51To set him before us always.
- 30:54So we will be able to call upon the name of the Lord.
- 30:57That we will be able to pray more earnestly.
- 31:01Recognizing our unworthiness of it.
- 31:03But yet, oh Lord, knowing that it is a love.
- 31:06For your people.
- 31:08So Lord, help us that we will love you.
- 31:11Love you with all our hearts.
- 31:13For you have heard our prayers.
- 31:15You have heard our cries for mercy.
- 31:17And so Lord, teach us always to pray.
- 31:21And to look to you.
- 31:22We ask it in Jesus' name.
- 31:24Amen.
- 31:25Amen.
- 31:25We can conclude.
- 31:30We can conclude.
- 31:30We can conclude.