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Why You Need To Marry A Farmer E-I-E-I-ooooh Yeah! · The Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous Podcast

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  Speaker 1: Hey, everybody. Brian Austin Green here for another episode of
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  Speaker 1: I Do Part two.
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  Speaker 2: I am.
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  Speaker 1: I'm here with Kathy Schwartz, and we are we are
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  Speaker 1: talking to our three farmers from season four Farmer Wants
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  Speaker 1: a Wife. We have Sean, Braden, and Brett sitting on
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  Speaker 1: the couch and I think we're gonna we're gonna jump
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  Speaker 1: right in. We're gonna do a little sort of fun
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  Speaker 1: rapid fire questions because we have the three of you
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  Speaker 1: guys in here. It's hot outside, we all have stuff
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  Speaker 1: to do. Wait, where are we? Where are we? We are? Well,
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  Speaker 1: we're in Los Angeles.
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  Speaker 3: We're in Solving.
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  Speaker 1: We're in Solving. I don't even know that I know it. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: well I don't. We're Shawn's farm. Okay, this is and
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  Speaker 1: and I said this before. This is not a farm.
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  Speaker 1: Do you guys like my phone?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah?
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  Speaker 1: This is like you look at this, Yeah, I would
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  Speaker 1: say before. It reminds me of like glamping when you're like, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: let's go to the farm, and then it's like, you know,
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  Speaker 1: it's and I feel.
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  Speaker 3: Right at home because he has two Texas longhorns. I
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  Speaker 3: just want to say one thing. I'm from Austin Texas.
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  Speaker 3: His longhorns are named Dallas and Houston, so I hope
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  Speaker 3: with Baby's on the way that's named Austin.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, I come on, let's push my name out there
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  Speaker 1: in the long in the longhorn division. So let's get
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  Speaker 1: should we get? We should jump in, we should jump
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  Speaker 1: in these questions. Let's start with Brett here. Okay, Okay, Brett,
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  Speaker 1: which do you prefer a woman in jeans or an
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  Speaker 1: evening gown? And you guys better listen up because you're
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  Speaker 1: all going to answer who do you prefer?
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  Speaker 3: Brett?
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  Speaker 4: Uh? Sun dress?
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  Speaker 1: Yes?
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  Speaker 3: I love that answer outside the box. Well, how about
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  Speaker 3: you Sean have.
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  Speaker 4: To stick with Brett. I'm gonna say a sundress as well.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, I might say I have one on how about Jesus,
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  Speaker 3: this is why you just knocked my hat right off
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  Speaker 3: my head? Okay, and how about you actually agree?
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  Speaker 4: I mean they made valid points.
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  Speaker 1: Three for three sundresses. I argued this before sundresses up.
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  Speaker 1: It's leaving enough to the imagination where you're then like
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  Speaker 1: you're excited to know what's Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: I'm sorry, I'm what about jeans and evening gown? Do
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  Speaker 3: you want a girl whom clean up?
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  Speaker 1: That's not clean to me jeans and that's not I
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  Speaker 1: want to sundress.
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  Speaker 2: Talking about Yeah, like, wait, do you say nightgown or
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  Speaker 2: an evening gown when you're going out to dinner type thing?
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  Speaker 3: Okay, Bratt, there's a difference between an evening gown and
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  Speaker 3: a nightgown. You and I will meet after this podcast,
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  Speaker 3: and I'm gonna explain to you the different.
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  Speaker 1: You guys are in for it romantic date, line dancing
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  Speaker 1: or camping under the stars.
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  Speaker 5: I'm gonna have to deal with camping under the star.
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  Speaker 5: I love camping. I love backpacking, especially here in California.
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  Speaker 5: It's plenty of places to see, so big outdoors guy
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  Speaker 5: at heart, I'm gonna have to definitely go with camping
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  Speaker 5: on the stars.
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  Speaker 4: Really, yeah, I'll have to agree.
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  Speaker 6: A couple of years ago, I think i'd say line dancing,
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  Speaker 6: But the older I get, the better.
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  Speaker 1: Line dancing hurts.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, exactly, exactly.
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  Speaker 3: Can I just say Brett taught me how to line
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  Speaker 3: dance today? Yeah, I'm just gonna tell y'all, you don't
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  Speaker 3: look anything alike, but I'm convinced you are Brett, and
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  Speaker 3: you are Brett your twin.
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  Speaker 4: I am Brett.
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  Speaker 1: No braid.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, we actually just switched just to braid.
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  Speaker 1: I say, we all just we we admit that the
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  Speaker 1: whiskey tasting went really well.
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  Speaker 4: Uh yeah, not on the stars all right?
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  Speaker 1: Would you rather have a woman who's a bad kisser
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  Speaker 1: or a woman who wants to do PDA all the time? Yeah? Right,
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  Speaker 1: it's a serious question though all the time.
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  Speaker 4: If it's a bad kisser, then bad kisser.
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  Speaker 1: Man I was saying it's a bad kisser is like,
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  Speaker 1: it's the end. It just completely tears down every It
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  Speaker 1: doesn't matter how into someone I am. As soon as
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  Speaker 1: the kiss is bad, it's like, no, there you go anything.
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  Speaker 1: I've got that one covered. Yes, I've done.
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  Speaker 3: I'm loving you getting closer. Okay, I get I get
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  Speaker 3: the next one. All right, guys, of course you get
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  Speaker 3: this one. Geez Okay, it's my party and I'll cry
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  Speaker 3: if I want to. Yeah, Okay, what attracts you first
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  Speaker 3: to a woman? Face? Butt, legs or butt smile? I
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  Speaker 3: think I just fell in love.
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  Speaker 4: I'm gonna have to say the eyes, the soul.
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  Speaker 1: You guys are winning crazy.
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  Speaker 3: Like you know that my daughter's married, but I'm might
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  Speaker 3: get her to get divorced just out of one of
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  Speaker 3: you guys, just to end it.
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  Speaker 6: Wow, Yeah, Sean took my want, she took my I'm
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  Speaker 6: gonna say eyes as well.
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  Speaker 3: Did either any of you say smile? You said smile,
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  Speaker 3: so eyes and smile, smile.
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  Speaker 1: Nobody said legs but fust faced?
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  Speaker 4: Okay?
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  Speaker 1: Fair? Biggest pet peeve for guys.
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  Speaker 4: When it comes to dating, yo, look at me go first.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, biggest pet peeve if they make a scene in public.
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  Speaker 4: Can't do it?
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  Speaker 2: Okay, if they're the time or something and they're like demanding, Yes,
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  Speaker 2: if they're the tie to cause a scene in public
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  Speaker 2: and have no shame about it, I'm out.
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  Speaker 1: I get it. It's a moral thing. Yeah, I'm the
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  Speaker 1: same way. Like as soon as somebody is rude to
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  Speaker 1: other people, especially a server, yeah.
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  Speaker 5: I'm done exactly, especially coming from the restaurant industry. I mean,
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  Speaker 5: I've worked alongside a lot of servers. I've even been
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  Speaker 5: a server before, and anyone that disrespects like the serving industry,
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  Speaker 5: it's just such a bad look, it really is, you know.
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  Speaker 5: So I would say, a girl that's disrespectful, a girl
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  Speaker 5: that's very tacky, that's immediate like a turn off, right
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  Speaker 5: off the bat.
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  Speaker 1: Uh.
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  Speaker 6: I agree with both of those. I'm trying to think
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  Speaker 6: of a pet peeve with dating. I have a pet
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  Speaker 6: peeve just in general. Okay, then just give us in general.
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  Speaker 6: I think I've said this before publicly, but when people
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  Speaker 6: take a phone call when it's just two people in
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  Speaker 6: a car, that drives.
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  Speaker 1: Me like a wall. It's agency.
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  Speaker 6: That's fine if it's valid, just like you need to
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  Speaker 6: take that. But it's like if we're riding in a
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  Speaker 6: car together and you're just like, I'm I'm just gonna.
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  Speaker 1: Call and then you're just sitting there listening to the conversation.
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  Speaker 4: Can't take it.
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  Speaker 3: I'm I'm going to take the next one because I
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  Speaker 3: want the answer to this. And we're gonna start with you, Brandon,
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  Speaker 3: because you've been going last, so now you're going first.
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  Speaker 3: Here's my question for you, what's the most romantic And
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  Speaker 3: by the way, i'm asking for a friend, what's the
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  Speaker 3: most romantic thing you'd like a partner to do for you?
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  Speaker 6: Honestly, during harvest, we're working long hours. So if like
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  Speaker 6: my mom always used to do this with my dad,
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  Speaker 6: she'd like bring out food and ride with him in
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  Speaker 6: the tractor.
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  Speaker 3: That's like I'm crying, Like you're touching my heart.
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  Speaker 5: For me, I would say, for me, a girl that
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  Speaker 5: just shows up and shows that she truly loves you.
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  Speaker 5: I'm a big quality time guy, So a girl that
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  Speaker 5: really shows up and shows that she loves you, I mean,
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  Speaker 5: that is a big one for sure.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I think that if you have a girl that
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  Speaker 2: makes you feel like you can do anything, that's the
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  Speaker 2: biggest thing, because supports if you have a girl that yeah,
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  Speaker 2: exactly like, I seriously believe there's not a single thing
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  Speaker 2: on this earth that a man cannot do if they
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  Speaker 2: have a good woman behind him.
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  Speaker 3: I'm literally goose.
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  Speaker 1: They say behind every great man is a great woman,
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  Speaker 1: and you.
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  Speaker 3: Guys are proving that you're three great men.
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  Speaker 1: Truly. I want to I want to jump around here
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  Speaker 1: a little bit because there there are a couple here
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  Speaker 1: that drive that. I'm just curious about the answer because
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  Speaker 1: I have my own. How long should you be dating
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  Speaker 1: someone before you say I love you?
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  Speaker 4: I think it's just whenever you feel it. Yeah, I agree,
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  Speaker 4: I don't think.
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  Speaker 5: And if you love someone, you should tell them, So,
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  Speaker 5: I mean, I think it is entirely dependent on the situation.
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  Speaker 6: I mean, I think you should wait more than ten minutes.
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  Speaker 1: But why I mean, if you feel it, why not
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  Speaker 1: just open up a conversation with I love you and
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  Speaker 1: get it out of the way, so then you can
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  Speaker 1: like put that aside and dolm with that. So I
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  Speaker 1: have the same thing. It drives me insane when people
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  Speaker 1: are like, how long do I wait before I text
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  Speaker 1: somebody or call somebody back or do because to me
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  Speaker 1: that you're creating some weird premeditated thing and you're starting
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  Speaker 1: off on the wrong foot. Yeah, yeah, absolutely, Okay.
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  Speaker 3: I have a question because we all know, I grew
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  Speaker 3: up with black and white television, but now social media
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  Speaker 3: is everywhere, and so I'm curious. Let's start with you, Sean. Sure,
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  Speaker 3: if you're in a relationship, do you share your phone
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  Speaker 3: password with your partner? Why or why not? Because social
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  Speaker 3: media it's all.
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  Speaker 5: About I think in today's day and age, social media
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  Speaker 5: can almost be like a dating app sometimes and I'm
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  Speaker 5: a big believer. And then you should have access to
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  Speaker 5: your partner's phone. I think there's also an aspect of trust.
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  Speaker 5: I think you should trust your partner, but also within
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  Speaker 5: that trust is like you should be an open book
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  Speaker 5: everything that is going on in your life. They should
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  Speaker 5: have full access to. And that's my belief system of it,
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  Speaker 5: and I live that in my modern day relationship. I mean,
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  Speaker 5: she's got all my.
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  Speaker 4: Passwords, she's got anything she needs, and she trusts me. Yeah,
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  Speaker 4: I agree with that.
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  Speaker 6: I think being in honesty is the best policy, you know,
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  Speaker 6: But I do think, you know, it's almost a double
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  Speaker 6: negative because it's like, you know, if you don't trust
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  Speaker 6: me enough to that you feel like you need to
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  Speaker 6: go through my phone. I think that's that's partly an issue.
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  Speaker 6: But I know with me, it's like, if you want
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  Speaker 6: to go through my phone, you can go through my phone,
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  Speaker 6: you know what I mean.
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  Speaker 4: So yeah, it's like you know you can have it,
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  Speaker 4: but you should never need.
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  Speaker 1: It, right why exactly?
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  Speaker 3: But yeah, you can be surprised, Brian, I'm actually surprised
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  Speaker 3: by those answers. I honestly thought the three of you
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  Speaker 3: would say, I don't know why, But I felt like
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  Speaker 3: you would say, there's no reason to go through my phone.
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  Speaker 3: She doesn't need my password because we trust each other,
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  Speaker 3: so there's no.
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  Speaker 4: In my relationship.
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  Speaker 5: I mean, she's got access to all my passwords or
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  Speaker 5: whatever she needs, but she never goes through my phone
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  Speaker 5: because you just trust me that much.
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  Speaker 4: I think that's what you need in relationship is trust.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm not. I'm not surprised by that answer. Like
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  Speaker 1: I think that's to have a true, healthy working relationship.
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  Speaker 1: There is something that comes with the person that you're
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  Speaker 1: with having complete access, but yeah, not needing it is
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  Speaker 1: the point that means that you've been doing a good
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  Speaker 1: job up until that point, so they feel safe and
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  Speaker 1: secure with you. But there is something too, because everybody
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  Speaker 1: has those moments where you're feeling insecure, you're feeling you're
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  Speaker 1: doubting things. Who knows what it is to be able
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  Speaker 1: to look through everything and go what am I freaking out?
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  Speaker 3: Okay, I'm gonna ask you, Brian, would you do it?
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  Speaker 4: Would I do?
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  Speaker 3: What baked chocolate cake on Sunday morning?
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  Speaker 1: What do I give access? Complete access to the woman?
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  Speaker 1: She has access to everything, everything, she has every password.
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  Speaker 1: She It's funny. She sometimes will let me know what
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  Speaker 1: message I had in like Instagram from soon She's like, oh,
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  Speaker 1: by the way, so and so reached out to you
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  Speaker 1: as I go. What'd you say to them? You know?
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  Speaker 1: And did you let them know that it wasn't me,
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  Speaker 1: that it was you? Would you rather that you date
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  Speaker 1: a woman that sends you long voice memos or a
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  Speaker 1: woman who facetimes you five times a day.
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  Speaker 3: Who you ask?
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  Speaker 4: I'm gonna go with FaceTime.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean, I'm a big FaceTime guy, but mostly
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  Speaker 5: in person. But I think FaceTime is the closest it
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  Speaker 5: gets to an in person interaction.
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  Speaker 4: Sokay, I'm gonna say FaceTime.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, okay, I've got one for you, Brandon, as a
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  Speaker 3: mom of three, I'm gonna ask you, if your mom
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  Speaker 3: loves her but your friends can't stand her, whose opinion
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  Speaker 3: are you considering? More?
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  Speaker 6: That's tough, I mean, because I you know, do value
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  Speaker 6: my friend's opinion. But I mean mom kind of trumps all.
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  Speaker 6: You know what I mean. Like, so if a mom
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  Speaker 6: doesn't like her, it'd be it'd be tough.
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  Speaker 3: And you do know every smart woman looks to see
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  Speaker 3: how a man treats his mother.
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  Speaker 4: That's right, That's right.
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  Speaker 1: I wish somebody had told me that in a long
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  Speaker 1: time ago. That's something that's in misson. I could have used,
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  Speaker 1: uh Brett. If she doesn't like country music, is that
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  Speaker 1: a deal breaker?
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  Speaker 4: Absolutely not? No, no, yes?
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  Speaker 3: What if she loves opera?
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  Speaker 4: Love whatever you want to it? Oh man, I gotta
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  Speaker 4: listen to it.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, what does she love death like speed metal?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, go for it. Okay, all right, fair well listen,
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  Speaker 2: we'll listen to it at some point.
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  Speaker 1: Cool, all right, Okay, I've got a really good one
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  Speaker 1: for all three of you. A woman who makes the
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  Speaker 1: first move attractive or too modern?
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  Speaker 4: Attractive? Yeah, I'll go for it.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, attractive, I mean yeah, I think it just kind
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  Speaker 2: of takes. I say that it take. It can take
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  Speaker 2: pressure off of the guy to be the first initiation
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  Speaker 2: or initiator.
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  Speaker 4: But I don't know.
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  Speaker 2: I mean some there's something about it. You know, when
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  Speaker 2: a girl knows what she wants and she goes for it,
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  Speaker 2: it is that long as it's as long as it's
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  Speaker 2: like welcome, you know what I mean. If you're both
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  Speaker 2: kind of in it together and they're just like they
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  Speaker 2: go in for it, it's like cool, it's awesome. I mean,
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  Speaker 2: if you don't want it to happen, then obviously it's
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  Speaker 2: not the best thing.
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  Speaker 3: I think what he's saying is crazy. You run from crazy.
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  Speaker 4: Oh yeah, yeah, that's yeah. Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: But I mean I say, I say, if they go
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  Speaker 2: for it, then it's attractive. I agree, I'll get back
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  Speaker 2: off that. I mean, I think if you do it
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  Speaker 2: with class. It's kind of like, hey, here I am,
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  Speaker 2: this is what I think, and like what I said before,
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  Speaker 2: say what you mean mood to say?
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  Speaker 1: And so I think I like drunk flashing her her boobs.
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  Speaker 3: That would be called crazy.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, all right, fair.
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  Speaker 5: I actually got kind of the opposite answer. I'm gonna
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  Speaker 5: go with. I believe a man should lead in the relationships.
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  Speaker 5: So I feel like I've always been one to make
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  Speaker 5: the first move. But I mean I do like a
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  Speaker 5: bold woman that knows what she wants. I guess a
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  Speaker 5: balance between it too interesting.
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  Speaker 1: So what's really funny is like I've never been one
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  Speaker 1: to lead like I always and I don't know if
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  Speaker 1: it was because of like my insecurities. When I was younger,
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  Speaker 1: I would kind of sit back and see if somebody
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  Speaker 1: was interested, then I might like start a conversation, but
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  Speaker 1: it was still very like I would babyfoot into the conversation.
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  Speaker 1: I never really wanted to put myself out there. That
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  Speaker 1: takes confidence, and I didn't have it when I was younger.
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  Speaker 1: I have it now, It's too late.
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  Speaker 4: But I mean I agree with you.
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  Speaker 2: It's I mean, you kind of outset, like guys are timid,
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  Speaker 2: a lot of times, especially with girls that they really like,
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  Speaker 2: they don't want to overstep or push too far or
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  Speaker 2: whatever it is. So if you know you're feeling it
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  Speaker 2: with somebody and a girl kind of makes that first
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  Speaker 2: move and they let you know that you feel the
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  Speaker 2: same way about them, then.
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  Speaker 1: And they're not big, They're not big things that you're
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  Speaker 1: looking for either. It's really funny like you can just
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  Speaker 1: kind of be sitting back and you can tell just
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  Speaker 1: in the conversation that there's interest there and then I'm
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  Speaker 1: not worried about rejection and all that.
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  Speaker 3: Can we end this podcast right now? I need to
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  Speaker 3: go over and make the first move on to find
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  Speaker 3: a guy.
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  Speaker 1: Yes, first, absolutely, absolutely, thank you guys for being here.
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  Speaker 1: It's been amazing. I know it's it's a crazy day
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  Speaker 1: what you guys are doing, but it's been a ton
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  Speaker 1: of fun. You guys.
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  Speaker 3: Are you guys amazing young men? Send this to someone
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  Speaker 3: who could be your mother. I really am impressed with
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  Speaker 3: all three of you. Can grab congratulations and on the
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  Speaker 3: show wait experience. It's great, very cool. Thank you, thanks guys.
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  Speaker 1: Tune in. Farmer Wants a Wife returns for season four
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  Speaker 1: on Tuesday, April twenty first at eight seventh Central on
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  Speaker 1: Fox