Latest / Reality with The King / EXCLUSIVE: Married to Medicine's Quad Webb PT. 2
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- 0:28Speaker 1: Welcome to Reality with the King.
- 0:30Speaker 2: It's me Carlos King, the King of Reality TV and
- 0:34Speaker 2: one of the most sought after executive producers in reality
- 0:38Speaker 2: television with over ten years of production experience. Once a
- 0:42Speaker 2: week on Reality with the King, we'll sit down with
- 0:45Speaker 2: my friends across the entertainment industry, recap our favorite reality shows,
- 0:50Speaker 2: and revisit unforgettable moments that we are still talking and
- 0:54Speaker 2: tweeting about. I have never seen you appear so hurt.
- 1:08Speaker 2: I mean when Saimon gave you the blow. I literally
- 1:16Speaker 2: even the episode before that, I think I said this
- 1:17Speaker 2: to you. I was like, I couldn't sleep that night
- 1:19Speaker 2: because it felt mean, girlish, and that's ever bring y'all show.
- 1:24Speaker 2: Y'all show has never been about like we're gonna ice
- 1:26Speaker 2: one out. It's just never been that. So when I
- 1:29Speaker 2: saw it, I was like, this seems weird and it wasn't.
- 1:33Speaker 2: I felt bad for you, of course, also felt bad
- 1:36Speaker 2: for the collective, like what are we doing here? And
- 1:39Speaker 2: then when I saw Simon deliver the blow to you,
- 1:43Speaker 2: like we don't want you here and we want you
- 1:44Speaker 2: to go home?
- 1:48Speaker 1: What I was.
- 1:50Speaker 2: Shaking and I saw you look said, then we saw
- 1:53Speaker 2: you cry when you got back to your hotel room.
- 1:58Speaker 1: In that moment, though, Quade, did you.
- 2:02Speaker 2: Did you feel embarrassed, hurt, disappointed?
- 2:09Speaker 3: For all of the above, I hate to even go
- 2:12Speaker 3: back there. It was so painful for me. I hate
- 2:16Speaker 3: to even have to emotionally be in that place. But
- 2:21Speaker 3: this is one of those times where it's just really,
- 2:24Speaker 3: really hard. This is the part of reality TV where
- 2:27Speaker 3: it's like three.
- 2:29Speaker 4: Times the blow, you feel it, you watch it and
- 2:34Speaker 4: again we will revisit it.
- 2:35Speaker 3: Of course, at the reunion and that moment, I felt humiliated.
- 2:41Speaker 3: I felt devalued, actually not valued at all. I felt hurt, disappointment, sadness.
- 2:56Speaker 3: I was confused. I kept on when I went back
- 2:59Speaker 3: to my room, trying to wrap my mind around, like,
- 3:01Speaker 3: why did you really do something to them this bad
- 3:05Speaker 3: to deserve this?
- 3:07Speaker 4: Did you really do something to deserve this? Squad?
- 3:15Speaker 3: And I thought back, and I replayed and I replayed
- 3:18Speaker 3: things I went through all the years, and I felt like.
- 3:26Speaker 4: It wasn't about an even exchange.
- 3:30Speaker 3: The decision had been made way before I even went
- 3:33Speaker 3: to NAPA. The decision was made way before I got
- 3:41Speaker 3: on the plane. This is what you guys are gonna do,
- 3:49Speaker 3: or this is what we're gonna do, and NAPA and.
- 3:56Speaker 4: That's it.
- 4:00Speaker 3: And it was devastated because I truly did not feel
- 4:08Speaker 3: that I had earned that, that I deserved it.
- 4:19Speaker 4: I didn't.
- 4:21Speaker 3: I didn't, and I felt like it was just a
- 4:25Speaker 3: pile up, let's all get together and let's do this
- 4:30Speaker 3: to her. There was not even one voice of reason
- 4:35Speaker 3: at the table, not even one, not even someone saying,
- 4:40Speaker 3: hold on, wait a.
- 4:41Speaker 4: Minute, let Quad respond, hold on, wait a minute.
- 4:47Speaker 3: Can you hear what she's saying, Quad, and allow me
- 4:50Speaker 3: to respond, and then allow me to say, this is
- 4:56Speaker 3: how I feel. I feel like there's been some courtesies
- 5:00Speaker 3: that's been extended to some people here that you all
- 5:03Speaker 3: don't give me. There's a level of respect that some
- 5:07Speaker 3: of you have that I just will never have and
- 5:10Speaker 3: have not had, because if anything could be said or
- 5:14Speaker 3: done to me on this show, it has been said
- 5:17Speaker 3: and done.
- 5:18Speaker 4: Now we all get it.
- 5:19Speaker 3: And I don't want people to feel like, oh, here
- 5:21Speaker 3: she has planned a victim and all of that.
- 5:23Speaker 4: You know what's funny about that word is.
- 5:25Speaker 3: When it's strong people, strong people are not extended the
- 5:31Speaker 3: compassion and the empathy.
- 5:35Speaker 4: At all.
- 5:36Speaker 3: And then when we speak up and have to tell
- 5:39Speaker 3: our side of the stories, Oh, now they're planning a victim.
- 5:42Speaker 3: I'm not a victim. I'm just here to tell my story.
- 5:46Speaker 3: I'm just trying to help you to understand. And can
- 5:49Speaker 3: we meet somewhere in the middle. Well, I can take
- 5:52Speaker 3: the responsibility of what I've done to you, but please
- 5:58Speaker 3: take the responsibility.
- 5:59Speaker 4: Of what you've done to me.
- 6:03Speaker 3: And that's all that I was actually trying to say
- 6:06Speaker 3: at the resurrection. I didn't even want to get into
- 6:11Speaker 3: the things that have been said about me. Hell I
- 6:14Speaker 3: think maybe Toya said did an interview or something with
- 6:17Speaker 3: you and was like.
- 6:19Speaker 4: Oh, quite as ugly and quiet is this? And quiet is.
- 6:22Speaker 3: Bad without her hair and without her makeup, and you know,
- 6:25Speaker 3: just carrying and carrying and carrying on.
- 6:27Speaker 4: I'm like, what is all of that? What is that for?
- 6:30Speaker 4: What is that about? You know?
- 6:32Speaker 3: Do you do you hate me, that's fine, and I
- 6:36Speaker 3: can leave you where you are if that's where you
- 6:39Speaker 3: want to If you want to stood there, then you
- 6:42Speaker 3: hold on it at anger, Toya. I'm not here to
- 6:44Speaker 3: hold on to that anger. And I was not there
- 6:48Speaker 3: in Napa. I didn't come with malice. I didn't come
- 6:53Speaker 3: with cruel intent. I didn't come being mad or negative.
- 7:01Speaker 3: I came with good heart posture, humble and supportive, and
- 7:10Speaker 3: it was completely looked past and stepped on.
- 7:14Speaker 2: So going back to the actual moment, the girl said,
- 7:22Speaker 2: we're not feeling a connection with you anymore, right, and
- 7:27Speaker 2: that was sad to see. But then to add insult
- 7:33Speaker 2: to injury.
- 7:36Speaker 4: This is it's difficult.
- 7:38Speaker 2: Yeah, no, I know, I know, and I appreciate you
- 7:41Speaker 2: being candid about your feelings because you know it was
- 7:45Speaker 2: hard to watch. So I can imagine being the person
- 7:48Speaker 2: on the receiving end of this phone call that took
- 7:52Speaker 2: place where they called you back.
- 7:54Speaker 1: Down to the room, and.
- 7:58Speaker 2: I want to get your feelings about that, because obviously
- 8:02Speaker 2: you were there.
- 8:04Speaker 1: The dinner scene was a lot, but then.
- 8:08Speaker 2: To get called down again, it's like in the middle
- 8:12Speaker 2: of the night, and it felt like, well, bitch, you
- 8:15Speaker 2: survived that.
- 8:16Speaker 4: One we want to get you, we want to get
- 8:17Speaker 4: you some out, you know.
- 8:20Speaker 2: And they pretty much emphatically said you need to leave,
- 8:25Speaker 2: like we want you gone. If you didn't, if you
- 8:27Speaker 2: didn't get that at the dinner, bitch, we're telling you
- 8:30Speaker 2: before you lay down, honey, and you wrapped these inches
- 8:34Speaker 2: up in a bonnet and cash the first flight out
- 8:40Speaker 2: that Phaedra will be not on. So when you got
- 8:44Speaker 2: that phone call and you were there and you heard
- 8:46Speaker 2: them say you should leave, what was that like for you?
- 8:50Speaker 5: Like?
- 8:52Speaker 3: It was awful. I would have never thought that I
- 8:58Speaker 3: would have been treated that.
- 9:03Speaker 4: I know, you know, like.
- 9:07Speaker 3: We have our challenges, we have, you know, some issues
- 9:12Speaker 3: that we need to address, But I never would have
- 9:16Speaker 3: thought that it would have resulted into that. It felt
- 9:24Speaker 3: like to me that it was almost like.
- 9:26Speaker 4: We've been waiting to get your ass. It felt like.
- 9:36Speaker 3: They've been waiting, just waiting for the moment, and it
- 9:44Speaker 3: was very hurtful. I was really just trying to think,
- 9:49Speaker 3: like no, quiet, really, go back, go back, girl, and think,
- 10:02Speaker 3: have you done anything.
- 10:04Speaker 4: This bad.
- 10:07Speaker 3: To be treated this way? Because honestly, in our reality,
- 10:11Speaker 3: we all talk about each other. It's it's just women,
- 10:16Speaker 3: It's part of it. But have you done something this
- 10:21Speaker 3: terrible that is unrefutable that you will be told we
- 10:34Speaker 3: don't want you, we do not want you.
- 10:40Speaker 4: That was her. I felt like.
- 10:45Speaker 3: A piece of paper that was balled up and thrown
- 10:49Speaker 3: in the trash. So if they were trying to humiliate me, bravo.
- 11:04Speaker 4: You done it.
- 11:06Speaker 3: I felt like it was planned. I felt like it
- 11:11Speaker 3: was already premeditated. It was a plot. It was a plan,
- 11:16Speaker 3: it was a scheme. It was already laid out. All
- 11:19Speaker 3: they needed was for me to be there. That's how
- 11:23Speaker 3: I felt. I felt like, as I said in a
- 11:28Speaker 3: green screen, I was like my head was in a
- 11:31Speaker 3: blender and it and it, and honestly, it really didn't
- 11:35Speaker 3: stop there, Like it didn't stop when I packed my suitcase,
- 11:39Speaker 3: you know, Like it was like when I got to
- 11:42Speaker 3: the table.
- 11:44Speaker 4: I was open, I was greeting everyone.
- 11:47Speaker 2: Hey.
- 11:47Speaker 3: You know, I was high energy the whole time. I
- 11:50Speaker 3: had great energy. I I even coming out to the trip.
- 11:54Speaker 3: I had great energy I had.
- 11:58Speaker 4: I was positive.
- 12:00Speaker 3: I was in a place of happiness, but knowing there
- 12:04Speaker 3: were some things that needed to be worked through, and
- 12:08Speaker 3: I was hoping that we could work through them. I
- 12:13Speaker 3: was very optimistic going into that dinner and going out
- 12:19Speaker 3: to Napa Valla to support Toya. Was extremely optimistic because
- 12:24Speaker 3: if I felt like it's a no go quad, then
- 12:32Speaker 3: I probably said I would have tried to speak with
- 12:35Speaker 3: the higher ups and say, right now, it's probably not
- 12:38Speaker 3: a good idea for me to be there. Is there
- 12:42Speaker 3: anything that I can do to wait until we work
- 12:48Speaker 3: some things out before I do something like support someone
- 12:54Speaker 3: who I know hates me?
- 12:58Speaker 2: And just some clar does she hate you because because
- 13:00Speaker 2: you made accusation that she was a thief or her
- 13:02Speaker 2: Eugene were thieves?
- 13:04Speaker 4: What's that?
- 13:06Speaker 3: I'm really happy you brought that up. I'm very happy
- 13:08Speaker 3: you brought that up first and foremost. Do I think
- 13:13Speaker 3: Eugene and Toya are thieves? Absolutely not. That is utterly ridiculous.
- 13:22Speaker 3: I will not cut his career down like that. The
- 13:24Speaker 3: man has worked hard to be where he is. He
- 13:26Speaker 3: is a doctor.
- 13:28Speaker 4: Absolutely not. I do not think that there are thieves.
- 13:32Speaker 3: This is how that played out. Carrie Wells, who was
- 13:38Speaker 3: Toya's close friend at the time.
- 13:40Speaker 4: You do remember Carry.
- 13:41Speaker 3: Wells because Carrie Wells and Toya in season one brought
- 13:47Speaker 3: up my mugshot when Doctor G and I had the
- 13:51Speaker 3: first physical situation when doctor g has a mugshot as well,
- 13:56Speaker 3: may I had, I don't know.
- 13:57Speaker 4: They didn't bring his up, but they was very happy
- 13:59Speaker 4: to show me.
- 14:01Speaker 3: However, Carrie and Toya had stayed in contact with each
- 14:07Speaker 3: other throughout the years.
- 14:08Speaker 4: Although Carrie was.
- 14:10Speaker 3: Not on the show, her and Toya had become very,
- 14:13Speaker 3: very very good friends. And Carrie came to us and
- 14:19Speaker 3: said that Toya told her word for word that there
- 14:25Speaker 3: was a hit out on Aneila in the neighborhood, that
- 14:31Speaker 3: there was a hit out on Anila in the neighborhood,
- 14:35Speaker 3: and heavily. And I like, wait a minute, you know
- 14:38Speaker 3: what you're saying.
- 14:39Speaker 4: And she's like, listen to me.
- 14:42Speaker 3: I don't operate like that. I don't know what's going
- 14:44Speaker 3: on with Toya. I'm telling you, this is when I
- 14:49Speaker 3: need I had to break from Toya.
- 14:52Speaker 4: This is Carrie speaking.
- 14:53Speaker 3: Said that she had to break away from Toya because
- 14:55Speaker 3: she did not want to be a part of it.
- 14:59Speaker 3: She didn't want to know, have any affiliation with it.
- 15:02Speaker 3: But she made mention to us that Toya told her
- 15:06Speaker 3: that there was a hit out on Anila in a neighborhood.
- 15:10Speaker 3: There was a whole situation here. Two days later, Aniela's
- 15:15Speaker 3: home was robbed.
- 15:17Speaker 4: Now here's the thing.
- 15:18Speaker 3: Do I think for one moment that Toya and Eugene
- 15:24Speaker 3: had anything to do with that. Absolutely not. I don't
- 15:28Speaker 3: think it. I don't believe it. I cannot even fathom it.
- 15:35Speaker 3: I'm not thinking that. You know, Toya is somewhere Jimmy
- 15:39Speaker 3: and locks and Eugene is scaling walls.
- 15:46Speaker 4: No, I honestly, Carlos, you're laughing.
- 15:49Speaker 2: Because that's not the asking the question because we're confused,
- 15:53Speaker 2: why is this big thing with you and Toya is
- 15:55Speaker 2: almost like, well, is it the thief thing? Because listen,
- 15:58Speaker 2: a lot of people can say it's a sassinate someone's character.
- 16:01Speaker 2: But I'm laughing because it's the visual of, like, I
- 16:05Speaker 2: don't see this prestigious doctor Eugene.
- 16:08Speaker 3: Exactly right scaling the walls with his mask on, his
- 16:13Speaker 3: black comeback boots and his black pants and his black shirt,
- 16:16Speaker 3: and he got all of the double Old seven equipment
- 16:19Speaker 3: and he's scaling the walls so they can break into
- 16:22Speaker 3: Aniela's house. Absolutely not. I don't think that at all.
- 16:28Speaker 3: When I said I'm going to stand on it, what
- 16:31Speaker 3: I meant was, Toya, you need to tell us where
- 16:35Speaker 3: did you hear that from.
- 16:41Speaker 4: Give us more.
- 16:42Speaker 3: Give this girl something where her investigators can go on,
- 16:47Speaker 3: because right now they're saying, your good friend Carrie Wells
- 16:51Speaker 3: is saying she heard it from you, Toya, Where did
- 16:56Speaker 3: you hear it from?
- 17:00Speaker 4: That's what I meant.
- 17:02Speaker 2: Hmm.
- 17:04Speaker 3: I don't think Toy is gonna break in anyone's house.
- 17:06Speaker 3: I don't think Toy is gonna steal anything from anyone.
- 17:09Speaker 3: I don't think Eugene is gonna steal or take anything
- 17:12Speaker 3: from anyone.
- 17:13Speaker 4: Eugene may do some other things in reference to.
- 17:17Speaker 3: Like DM and Anila and saying watch heavily and quad
- 17:22Speaker 3: you know this and that other, But Eugene is not
- 17:25Speaker 3: scaling walls.
- 17:30Speaker 4: He is not scaling walls.
- 17:33Speaker 2: No, he has a scaffold try to fix people's body
- 17:36Speaker 2: organ style.
- 17:39Speaker 3: Eugene is an er doctor who works each extremely hard
- 17:44Speaker 3: right to be a very good example for his sons. Yes,
- 17:51Speaker 3: he is not scaling walls and breaking into people's homes.
- 17:56Speaker 4: Well, I'm glad we.
- 17:56Speaker 2: Coult that of because the whole fad with you what
- 17:58Speaker 2: Toy was weird because there seemed to be this urgency
- 18:04Speaker 2: removing you from the trip.
- 18:06Speaker 1: And one of the things that.
- 18:08Speaker 2: I was thinking about was were you punished because you
- 18:12Speaker 2: missed five weeks of work on the front end? So
- 18:18Speaker 2: was it like, well, bitch, you missed five weeks of
- 18:20Speaker 2: work on the front end, so bitch you about to
- 18:22Speaker 2: miss five weeks of work on the back end? It
- 18:25Speaker 2: seemed too urgent that I'm gonna tell you where things
- 18:29Speaker 2: got a little fishy when the dinner table scene didn't
- 18:34Speaker 2: work and they called you down to the room, it
- 18:38Speaker 2: was like, why is this urgent? And that's when my
- 18:42Speaker 2: producing brain came and said, wait, is it a retaliation?
- 18:46Speaker 1: Is it punishment?
- 18:47Speaker 2: You missed five weeks of work on the front end, bitch,
- 18:50Speaker 2: we're gonna punish you in the back end.
- 18:51Speaker 1: That's what it seemed like.
- 18:52Speaker 4: To me, And that's what it felt like to me.
- 18:56Speaker 4: That's what it felt like to me.
- 18:59Speaker 3: And I never, like I said, I have never been
- 19:02Speaker 3: in a situation where it was wrong to negotiate, where
- 19:07Speaker 3: one would be punished for negotiating. I am never concerned
- 19:14Speaker 3: about what anyone else is making, the house that anyone
- 19:18Speaker 3: else has, the cars that they drive, that's not my business.
- 19:24Speaker 3: I don't tap into my friends or the girls that
- 19:27Speaker 3: the group. Girls in the group, and they're my friends.
- 19:31Speaker 3: People could say I could just still call them friends.
- 19:33Speaker 3: You know, it's tough. It's tough, but we have had
- 19:40Speaker 3: ten years together and for me, I want to be
- 19:46Speaker 3: the person who's going to focus on the good times
- 19:50Speaker 3: of those ten years.
- 19:52Speaker 4: I'm not perfect myself. I'm really not I'm really flawed,
- 19:58Speaker 4: really calling me a quad the flawed, not the fraud,
- 20:02Speaker 4: but the flood, the.
- 20:05Speaker 1: Exactly do you?
- 20:06Speaker 4: But do you?
- 20:07Speaker 2: A lot of people think you don't hold or have
- 20:09Speaker 2: any accountability when it comes to think, can you say,
- 20:12Speaker 2: like there's things you could have done differently?
- 20:15Speaker 3: Of course I said that, Carlos, even at the table.
- 20:20Speaker 4: It just fell on death for years there. Of course, every.
- 20:24Speaker 3: Single day I'm striving to be a better version of
- 20:27Speaker 3: who I was yesterday and the day before and the
- 20:30Speaker 3: day before that.
- 20:30Speaker 4: I am not perfect. I am not perfect.
- 20:33Speaker 3: I have made some mistakes in this group, and I'm
- 20:37Speaker 3: here to hold myself accountable.
- 20:40Speaker 4: You're not perfect.
- 20:41Speaker 3: You could have done a better, Quad, and I want
- 20:44Speaker 3: everyone to know that. You know, there have been times
- 20:49Speaker 3: where maybe I should have said some things differently right,
- 20:53Speaker 3: Maybe my delivery wasn't right for that moment. And so
- 21:01Speaker 3: in this time, what I've learned is to truly take
- 21:05Speaker 3: a moment and put yourself in someone else's shoes. And
- 21:12Speaker 3: I would hope that they would put themselves in my
- 21:14Speaker 3: shoes because I can tell you what I've gone through.
- 21:18Speaker 4: Maybe a lot of them couldn't. The average person probably
- 21:22Speaker 4: wouldn't be.
- 21:23Speaker 3: Able to sit here with you right now and have
- 21:27Speaker 3: this type of conversation.
- 21:30Speaker 2: What I've.
- 21:32Speaker 3: Honestly wanted to hurt themselves because that's how I felt.
- 21:40Speaker 3: And I'm not that type of person, you know, but
- 21:44Speaker 3: I felt I felt like at the table when that
- 21:50Speaker 3: wasn't enough, I felt like the girls felt like, oh,
- 21:52Speaker 3: that wasn't enough. Oh she survived that we were waiting
- 21:56Speaker 3: for some form of an erratic.
- 22:00Speaker 1: Reaction.
- 22:02Speaker 4: We wanted more of an argument or.
- 22:05Speaker 3: Whatever, because if they wanted me, I felt like, if
- 22:08Speaker 3: they really wanted me to hear my apology, then it
- 22:14Speaker 3: would have been an open dialogue. It was never an
- 22:17Speaker 3: open dialogue. It was them talking at me. And if
- 22:21Speaker 3: I did not say yes to what they wanted me
- 22:23Speaker 3: to say yes to, then anything else that I was
- 22:26Speaker 3: saying did not matter, did not have any validity at all,
- 22:33Speaker 3: And that was deflating to me.
- 22:40Speaker 1: What hurt more, was it.
- 22:43Speaker 2: You feeling like you were ambushed, or when it was
- 22:47Speaker 2: revealed that allegedly there were conversations that the cats were
- 22:51Speaker 2: privy to your contract negotiations and allegedly you said things
- 22:57Speaker 2: like me and Jackie should not make the same amount
- 23:01Speaker 2: of money, things like that that they were privy to
- 23:05Speaker 2: some of your contract negotiations.
- 23:09Speaker 3: First of all, I don't negotiate my contract. Let's start there.
- 23:14Speaker 3: So for them to say I said whatever about Jackie,
- 23:20Speaker 3: that's not a true statement. I am not concerned with
- 23:24Speaker 3: what someone else makes from where I'm from. What you
- 23:28Speaker 3: eat don't make me, you know. So that's a little
- 23:35Speaker 3: bit disturbed. I feel like I don't know if someone
- 23:38Speaker 3: threw that out there to get her upset with me,
- 23:41Speaker 3: to make her feel like I'm thinking I'm better than her.
- 23:47Speaker 4: It was said for a reason.
- 23:49Speaker 3: Jackie's energy at the table was completely different from who
- 23:52Speaker 3: she's been, so I don't know why that was thrown
- 23:57Speaker 3: out there.
- 23:57Speaker 4: But I don't negotiate my own contract.
- 24:05Speaker 3: All of it is wrong and it hurts, and it's
- 24:07Speaker 3: disappointing for.
- 24:09Speaker 4: Someone to.
- 24:12Speaker 3: From one of my castmates, to be able to openly
- 24:16Speaker 3: blurt out to whomever's watching your Instagram, live or YouTube
- 24:25Speaker 3: or whatever.
- 24:29Speaker 4: What happened to the confidentiality?
- 24:33Speaker 3: Like, I don't know, maybe I'm wrong, but you know, Carlos,
- 24:37Speaker 3: you've been in this business for a number of years.
- 24:41Speaker 3: You have been quite successful in this business. You have
- 24:44Speaker 3: a number of shows, you deal with a number of people.
- 24:47Speaker 3: You deal with networks, and you deal with your cast,
- 24:50Speaker 3: you deal with your showrunners, and you deal with your crew.
- 24:55Speaker 3: Do you openly discuss someone else's contract with other cast members?
- 25:02Speaker 4: Because I don't know.
- 25:04Speaker 2: It's it's it's it's it's a violation. And no, it's
- 25:10Speaker 2: it's I mean, the reason why I'm stuttering. I can't
- 25:12Speaker 2: even fathom saying, hey, so and so, it's making this.
- 25:19Speaker 1: I don't I don't have.
- 25:19Speaker 2: The words to express how crazy that sounds. I could
- 25:24Speaker 2: never do anything like that. I don't care if it's
- 25:28Speaker 2: a above the line, below the line show around his
- 25:31Speaker 2: PA's cast members and I when it comes to the
- 25:35Speaker 2: confidentiality of contracts, that's the only person privy to cast
- 25:41Speaker 2: contracts are networks.
- 25:43Speaker 4: And production companies. That's it.
- 25:44Speaker 2: That's it, and it's and a lot of times it's
- 25:47Speaker 2: really networks.
- 25:48Speaker 3: You know, so well heavily was able to you know,
- 25:52Speaker 3: and you know heavily and I have people don't it's
- 25:54Speaker 3: a weird dynamic and we can talk about that or whatever,
- 25:57Speaker 3: but you know it. Heavily was called me one day
- 26:00Speaker 3: and her and I was talking talking one day, and
- 26:03Speaker 3: she was just able to run me some things that
- 26:05Speaker 3: not all things were true, but some things were true.
- 26:09Speaker 2: About your contract.
- 26:10Speaker 4: Yeah.
- 26:12Speaker 2: So some things that she said to you about your
- 26:15Speaker 2: own contract, some of them are.
- 26:16Speaker 4: Accurate, some of them were, some of them were.
- 26:22Speaker 2: How do you think she found out?
- 26:28Speaker 3: But again, I don't run around and boast and talk
- 26:31Speaker 3: what's happening in my contract. My agent deals with that
- 26:36Speaker 3: with whomever he needs to deal with that with me.
- 26:39Speaker 2: And you have lots of conversation for the past over
- 26:43Speaker 2: decades that we've known each other. I literally don't know
- 26:47Speaker 2: how much you make. I've never asked you.
- 26:49Speaker 1: Never. I'm friends with a lot of reality stars.
- 26:52Speaker 2: We don't talk about money unless they come to me,
- 26:55Speaker 2: like for advice and whatever.
- 26:57Speaker 1: But you're very.
- 27:00Speaker 4: Private, extremely extremely.
- 27:05Speaker 3: When she was saying some of those things to me,
- 27:07Speaker 3: I was like, and I won't go in depth with
- 27:12Speaker 3: what she said, but there was.
- 27:15Speaker 4: You know, heavenly talks.
- 27:17Speaker 3: Heavenly talks, and some of the things Heavily says, it's
- 27:24Speaker 3: a telling truth and some of the things that she says,
- 27:28Speaker 3: it's for a reaction, it's for shock value, it's for
- 27:32Speaker 3: the attention of it all. But Heavenly has definitely told
- 27:37Speaker 3: me some things in which she should never know, and
- 27:39Speaker 3: I was like, wow, okay, okay.
- 27:48Speaker 2: Since the last episode has aired, Heavenly has tweeted a
- 27:55Speaker 2: public apology to you.
- 27:57Speaker 1: She says she is sorry.
- 27:59Speaker 2: She watched the episode in advance and she added you
- 28:04Speaker 2: and had a public declaration of apology towards you.
- 28:08Speaker 4: How do you feel about.
- 28:09Speaker 2: The apology that she made to the public about you?
- 28:15Speaker 2: Do you accept it?
- 28:20Speaker 4: Heavily can call me anytime she wants.
- 28:25Speaker 3: Heavily can call me anytime she wants, don't matter how
- 28:30Speaker 3: late it is, don't matter how early it is. You
- 28:34Speaker 3: made a public apology, and I'm not upset at that,
- 28:43Speaker 3: but you couldn't call me, so I can feel that
- 28:46Speaker 3: it's sincere. She texts me she did text me. Well
- 28:56Speaker 3: my phone and honestly, I'm gonna answer the phone for
- 28:58Speaker 3: any one of them, and right now I would answer
- 29:02Speaker 3: the phone for any one of those people who call me,
- 29:05Speaker 3: any one of them. But the public apology and the
- 29:14Speaker 3: text mentioned like why you text me?
- 29:16Speaker 4: You know better than that. You can call me. We
- 29:19Speaker 4: can talk. We talk a lot. Let me hear your voice.
- 29:25Speaker 2: Please have you heard from any of the girls since
- 29:28Speaker 2: the episode has been received by them?
- 29:32Speaker 4: I have not.
- 29:36Speaker 2: Where do things stand today with you and your castmates?
- 29:47Speaker 4: Listen?
- 29:48Speaker 3: Like I said, I'm not perfect, and I really want
- 29:51Speaker 3: you to understand that, you know, I am really A
- 30:00Speaker 3: lot has happened in my life, and for me, my
- 30:04Speaker 3: heart is open.
- 30:06Speaker 4: Life is very short colors. We talk about it, and
- 30:10Speaker 4: we like.
- 30:10Speaker 3: To we like to say things like if we hear
- 30:14Speaker 3: it so much, we sometimes can be tricked into thinking, oh,
- 30:19Speaker 3: it's just a saying or it sounds good for the moment.
- 30:22Speaker 4: It is real. So for me to walk around and.
- 30:27Speaker 3: Carry hatred or malice or anger, that's that's not gonna
- 30:38Speaker 3: do well for my spirit, and that's not gonna do
- 30:41Speaker 3: well for my mental and it's not gonna do well
- 30:44Speaker 3: for my peace. So for me, while I am at
- 30:49Speaker 3: a space and time right now, I'm hurting.
- 30:52Speaker 4: I'm hurting.
- 30:56Speaker 2: It's no joke.
- 31:03Speaker 4: I have to tell you that.
- 31:08Speaker 3: Myself and a lot of the other women on the show,
- 31:11Speaker 3: we begin to kind of make headway and talk about
- 31:14Speaker 3: some things on both sides. Some haven't even given me
- 31:21Speaker 3: words of encouragement. Some have even given me advice, and
- 31:30Speaker 3: I appreciate them.
- 31:31Speaker 4: Put it.
- 31:33Speaker 3: I appreciate them put it, and I'm grateful that we
- 31:38Speaker 3: are now if I'm talking about a timeline in a
- 31:49Speaker 3: better space, but we're in a place on the shop
- 31:58Speaker 3: that just snatched all the bandages.
- 32:05Speaker 4: Off of me.
- 32:06Speaker 3: And it's just snatched all the bandages, and now the
- 32:09Speaker 3: wound is open. I dreaded watching the last two episodes, dreadful,
- 32:20Speaker 3: dreadful to me. I didn't want to see him, didn't
- 32:24Speaker 3: want to watch them because I didn't want to be
- 32:26Speaker 3: in a place emotionally.
- 32:31Speaker 4: Where I am now. It's not a good feeling. It's sad.
- 32:39Speaker 4: It is. It feels like I'm grieving. That's what it
- 32:49Speaker 4: feels like.
- 32:55Speaker 3: When holiday happened, like I was so like, I was
- 32:59Speaker 3: so confused because I didn't eat, I was not getting
- 33:07Speaker 3: very good sleep. I wasn't sleeping, I wasn't eating. I
- 33:10Speaker 3: lost weight because I'm like, what did you do to
- 33:18Speaker 3: deserve this?
- 33:20Speaker 4: What did you do?
- 33:21Speaker 3: And I was beating myself up about it, like what
- 33:25Speaker 3: did you do quad to deserve this type.
- 33:29Speaker 4: Of treatment I kept breaking my brain.
- 33:43Speaker 3: I am willing to apologize for anything that I've done
- 33:46Speaker 3: to hurt anyone openly.
- 34:03Speaker 2: Would you like to continue being or Married to Medicine.
- 34:10Speaker 4: Colors?
- 34:10Speaker 3: I have given a lot of myself to Married to Medicine.
- 34:17Speaker 3: I have given a lot of my resources. I have
- 34:21Speaker 3: given a lot of my ideas. I have given a
- 34:25Speaker 3: lot of my energy and time.
- 34:28Speaker 4: I have given myself.
- 34:32Speaker 3: Like I have good intentions for Married to Medicine, I've
- 34:35Speaker 3: always had great intentions.
- 34:37Speaker 4: For Married to Medicine.
- 34:39Speaker 3: Sometimes I speak up for Married to Medicine and people
- 34:42Speaker 3: may say, like, oh, you know, like she's she's doing
- 34:45Speaker 3: too much.
- 34:46Speaker 4: But that's how much I believe in the show. And
- 34:50Speaker 4: I said just.
- 34:50Speaker 3: Recently at Bravo Cohn twenty twenty three, I was like,
- 34:53Speaker 3: you know, why are we the most underrated? Be most
- 34:59Speaker 3: Why are every week we're putting ourselves out there?
- 35:04Speaker 4: Why are we being looked over or not.
- 35:07Speaker 3: Giving the same concessions that some other shows are.
- 35:14Speaker 4: We're good.
- 35:17Speaker 3: People want to see us, people are learning from us,
- 35:19Speaker 3: people are inspired by us. People are navigating their lives
- 35:23Speaker 3: based on how we have overcome certain things we've gone through.
- 35:30Speaker 4: Why are we underrated. That bothers me.
- 35:36Speaker 3: With all the hurd of pain I got in me
- 35:38Speaker 3: right now, it still bothers me because we get up
- 35:42Speaker 3: and we give it every single week, so.
- 35:49Speaker 4: I don't understand it so that I don't want to
- 36:02Speaker 4: be so emotional. My god, I'm sorry.
- 36:06Speaker 2: No, you love the show, you helped build it. You
- 36:10Speaker 2: help build it, and that's.
- 36:13Speaker 4: What I saw.
- 36:16Speaker 2: Look, we love you know you're you're so theatrical and
- 36:21Speaker 2: show honey. We I don't know if you're on Twitter
- 36:23Speaker 2: a lot, but I'm not. You know, you know the Quasquad,
- 36:28Speaker 2: the rain drops, everybody. We we show your videos.
- 36:32Speaker 4: You know, Lisa to call Cla, you know, Aaron Oskalls,
- 36:39Speaker 4: you know, or you know. I ain't got this is
- 36:42Speaker 4: my real life. Got top of this message. It was like,
- 36:45Speaker 4: this is not about a show. This is my life.
- 36:49Speaker 2: You can Tyler Perry.
- 36:54Speaker 4: I don't know why Tyler Perry has he have.
- 36:56Speaker 1: To cast you on BT plots.
- 37:00Speaker 4: You are and I'm having fun with you.
- 37:03Speaker 2: Because I don't want to end on this because I
- 37:05Speaker 2: want you to know when you say what you're given
- 37:08Speaker 2: to the show. You are funny, you're theatrical, you're real,
- 37:14Speaker 2: You're emotional.
- 37:15Speaker 1: You're vulnerable. You know, we are on this journey with you.
- 37:19Speaker 2: You know we saw you being the scrawny girl from.
- 37:22Speaker 1: The South season one. You know I was.
- 37:25Speaker 4: Still to all the girls that with the eyeshadow, Baby,
- 37:33Speaker 4: I don't tell you listen.
- 37:35Speaker 3: That was a hot hot beam eyeshadow, the high beam eyeshadow.
- 37:40Speaker 4: Were you were on white diamonds too? No, no, I'm
- 37:43Speaker 4: not going to listen to tailor of the girl. Now,
- 37:45Speaker 4: don't listen to tailor the girl.
- 37:46Speaker 3: No, film, don't do. I was not laying, No, I
- 37:51Speaker 3: was probably what was that? Probably I was probably wearing
- 37:56Speaker 3: Chanel Chance said.
- 37:59Speaker 2: But we saw the already be solved, the growth And listen,
- 38:02Speaker 2: as your personal friend and as somebody who just who
- 38:06Speaker 2: simply adores you, I want you to hear from me
- 38:09Speaker 2: if you don't hear from from anyone else. I am
- 38:12Speaker 2: proud of you. I'm proud of you to be a
- 38:16Speaker 2: young black girl from Memphis, Tennessee.
- 38:19Speaker 5: Indeed, to rise above the standards of what people put
- 38:25Speaker 5: on your life, and to be on a show that
- 38:30Speaker 5: isn't as celebrated as even I would like it to be.
- 38:33Speaker 2: And what's funny about people? You talk about everybody else's Chelegy.
- 38:37Speaker 2: I am a fan of this genre. I want I'm
- 38:41Speaker 2: like you, I want everybody to win.
- 38:42Speaker 4: Yeah, I want it only helps us.
- 38:46Speaker 2: It's crazy to me that people and when people say
- 38:48Speaker 2: you love everybody, I might hate my heart.
- 38:50Speaker 4: For now, there's not.
- 38:51Speaker 2: One person I hate. I love people, but when I
- 38:55Speaker 2: see someone like you, there's there's a certain number of
- 39:01Speaker 2: people on reality who you can watch and say no
- 39:05Speaker 2: that one gives their blood, sweat and tears to that show.
- 39:09Speaker 2: And I feel like with this cast, I want you
- 39:12Speaker 2: guys to get to get past this. But that's my hope.
- 39:17Speaker 2: You know, we listen. We all love drama, we all
- 39:20Speaker 2: love shade. I think for the fans it was kind
- 39:23Speaker 2: of like, we don't like that, though, guys like, we
- 39:29Speaker 2: don't like that. My favorite mama from this show will
- 39:31Speaker 2: always be what you brought up earlier was when you
- 39:34Speaker 2: guys rally around Cecil and some mon and said, don't
- 39:38Speaker 2: get a divorced bitch.
- 39:39Speaker 1: Don't do it.
- 39:40Speaker 4: You were like, love se So that's that's a sweetheart.
- 39:43Speaker 2: And y'all y'all were like, y'all cried is like, no,
- 39:45Speaker 2: don't do that.
- 39:46Speaker 1: That's when I knew this show was different.
- 39:48Speaker 2: That no, we made cuss of outthrow shade read, but
- 39:52Speaker 2: this is real life, y'all.
- 39:53Speaker 4: We got we gotta stick by each other.
- 39:55Speaker 2: I want them to stick by you and and I
- 39:59Speaker 2: want you to also stick by them. And my hope
- 40:02Speaker 2: for the legacy of this show is the fact that
- 40:06Speaker 2: everybody can look at these past two episodes and say,
- 40:09Speaker 2: hm hmm, the way we wanted her to hold herself accountable,
- 40:18Speaker 2: maybe it's time we do that to ourselves. Maybe it's
- 40:23Speaker 2: time we do that too. The same mirror but we
- 40:25Speaker 2: held up for her to see herself. Perhaps we can
- 40:30Speaker 2: now reverse it and look at ourselves and say, Okay,
- 40:35Speaker 2: that wasn't cool, that wasn't cool. So that's my hope
- 40:38Speaker 2: for you. That's and I'm proud of you, and and
- 40:43Speaker 2: everything happens for a reason. I hope you know that.
- 40:47Speaker 2: And I'm gonna end being cheeky. Motherfucker's underestimated at the
- 40:54Speaker 2: quas I.
- 40:55Speaker 3: Mean, baby, the Quasmine is gets busy. They're very busy.
- 41:05Speaker 3: They are They're very busy.
- 41:06Speaker 1: They are God, And but you deserve it.
- 41:08Speaker 2: You deserve every single accolade that comes your way. This
- 41:11Speaker 2: is I feel like it's a rebirth for you and
- 41:16Speaker 2: sometimes you have to go through this so that God
- 41:18Speaker 2: can show you your worth and God can show other
- 41:20Speaker 2: people your worth.
- 41:23Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, y'all?
- 41:24Speaker 2: Have you received that Sometimes you have to go through it,
- 41:28Speaker 2: not only for you, so that other people can see. Like, hmm,
- 41:34Speaker 2: maybe we had it wrong the whole time. Yeah, we
- 41:37Speaker 2: mad she maybe three hours late to a scene.
- 41:43Speaker 1: Oh my god, so stop.
- 41:45Speaker 4: I know exactly where is coming from. I know exactly.
- 41:51Speaker 1: Can I address that?
- 41:52Speaker 4: Please?
- 41:52Speaker 1: That that fabulous role the works too? Okay?
- 41:56Speaker 4: Can I address that? Don't take baby, it just moves it.
- 42:02Speaker 4: Just her sister.
- 42:10Speaker 3: Let's talk about it, please, let's talk about that. I'm
- 42:14Speaker 3: so happy you brought that up. So okay, the whole
- 42:16Speaker 3: three hours late thing. First of all, I was not
- 42:20Speaker 3: three hours late, but I was late as hell. I
- 42:22Speaker 3: was not three hours late.
- 42:23Speaker 4: I will say that. I think that was a time
- 42:25Speaker 4: where it was me.
- 42:26Speaker 3: And Simone and Simone's at the restaurant in a beautiful
- 42:28Speaker 3: fandy's dress, honey, get into her, okay. And what happened
- 42:32Speaker 3: was I was coming from another scene and having to
- 42:36Speaker 3: fight Atlanta traffic to go to the scene with Simon,
- 42:40Speaker 3: and she was waiting an extensive period of time. And
- 42:43Speaker 3: for that, Simon, I do apologize. I am so sorry,
- 42:47Speaker 3: and I have really made it my business now to
- 42:51Speaker 3: be on time. I have not only done that, like
- 42:54Speaker 3: every time I pull up to the scene. Now, I
- 42:56Speaker 3: have a text message with the higher up at Bravo
- 43:00Speaker 3: and with the higher ups at the production company.
- 43:02Speaker 4: We're all on a group text. I just pulled up
- 43:05Speaker 4: to the scene.
- 43:06Speaker 3: I'm waiting to be miked. It's thirty minutes later. I
- 43:09Speaker 3: still haven't been miked. It's an hour later now I
- 43:13Speaker 3: still haven't been micd. But I am here and I
- 43:15Speaker 3: am fine. Everything's okay. Just wanted you all to know
- 43:18Speaker 3: that because I want to break down all of this
- 43:23Speaker 3: negativity surrounding quad as if I don't care about people.
- 43:27Speaker 3: I respect everyone who's brought what they've brought to this show.
- 43:31Speaker 3: The camera crew, the girls on the show. We're all different,
- 43:35Speaker 3: but every one of us brings something to the table.
- 43:38Speaker 3: Everyone ever read one, I mean everyone from the old
- 43:43Speaker 3: to the new.
- 43:43Speaker 4: You know what I mean.
- 43:45Speaker 3: The production company is saying, you know, to take this
- 43:48Speaker 3: show and truly believe in it and say, hey, we're
- 43:51Speaker 3: gonna cultivate it. I appreciate everyone for that and I
- 43:55Speaker 3: just want to say job well done, and I want
- 44:02Speaker 3: you all to hear that from me, like I want
- 44:04Speaker 3: you all to really hear that from me, you know.
- 44:07Speaker 4: And I don't know. If I said this earlier, you
- 44:09Speaker 4: could put it wherever.
- 44:10Speaker 3: But with Toya and Eugene, I know I said, I
- 44:14Speaker 3: don't you know, they're not scaling walls and all that.
- 44:17Speaker 4: But I apologize.
- 44:22Speaker 3: I apologize because I don't want to ever make anyone
- 44:28Speaker 3: feel that I am the person who is assassinating their
- 44:35Speaker 3: character and trashing their hard work. Eugenis went to school
- 44:40Speaker 3: for a number of years to be the man that
- 44:42Speaker 3: he is today, and they have little eyes that are
- 44:45Speaker 3: looking up to them. So I was wrong for repeating it, yes,
- 44:51Speaker 3: and for the way that it was stated.
- 44:53Speaker 4: I didn't mean it that way.
- 44:55Speaker 3: I just wanted to know, Toya, where did you get
- 44:58Speaker 3: it from? So again I apologize, and I stand.
- 45:02Speaker 5: On that I do.
- 45:05Speaker 4: Good good.
- 45:08Speaker 1: Well, Look, I appreciate you letting your home.
- 45:11Speaker 2: You have a fabulous cookbook and some seasoning. So bitch,
- 45:14Speaker 2: we're gonna end this interview. Yes, Qua's cookbook. Look at
- 45:18Speaker 2: the bottom screen. You see the website you could buy
- 45:22Speaker 2: it from, and the season and cook it for your grandma,
- 45:25Speaker 2: your mam and your aunt, teacher, uncles for Christmas. Holidays
- 45:28Speaker 2: is approaching. But we're about to go and cook some food, bitch,
- 45:33Speaker 2: so I'm began to oyster.
- 45:40Speaker 1: Don't want that's different.
- 45:49Speaker 4: That's different, Oh baby, just slurp it up, don't get
- 45:56Speaker 4: it some more. Gotta go ahead, But.
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