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- 0:00Speaker 1: It's Dirty Little Secret with Billy the Kid in the
- 0:02Speaker 1: Morning on Mix 102.9.
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- 0:19Speaker 3: It's Bailey the Kid, Candace Lopez. Producer Pooh is here.
- 0:21Speaker 3: If you've got a secret, let us know. No matter
- 0:23Speaker 3: what the secret is, just bring it. It could be
- 0:25Speaker 3: a big secret, little secret.
- 0:27Speaker 2: And you've got one. What is going on?
- 0:29Speaker 1: So I'm getting married soon, and my fiancée thinks that
- 0:35Speaker 1: she knows why I convinced her to basically elope, but
- 0:40Speaker 1: she actually has no idea. Originally, she wanted the whole
- 0:46Speaker 1: big wedding, both families, all her friends, and the huge reception,
- 0:51Speaker 1: the whole thing. But over the last few months, I've
- 0:55Speaker 1: slowly convinced her that we should do a destination wedding
- 1:01Speaker 1: with just a small group of people. And I've had
- 1:06Speaker 1: really bad anxiety. So I told her, you know, I
- 1:11Speaker 1: just don't think my mental health can handle a huge
- 1:14Speaker 1: wedding like kind of passed off that way. You know,
- 1:18Speaker 1: planning the money and the family drama like I just
- 1:20Speaker 1: can't do it.
- 1:21Speaker 2: But that's not the real reason.
- 1:23Speaker 1: No, that's partially true, but it's not the real reason.
- 1:27Speaker 1: The real reason is my family absolutely cannot stand her.
- 1:34Speaker 1: They've already told me they refuse to come to the wedding.
- 1:38Speaker 1: No way. She does not know that. She thinks my
- 1:43Speaker 1: parents probably won't come because they live on the East Coast. Like,
- 1:46Speaker 1: money is tight and, you know, my dad's health issues
- 1:49Speaker 1: aren't great. But the truth is they think marrying her is, like,
- 1:55Speaker 1: the worst decision I've ever made. Why?
- 1:58Speaker 2: Okay. Why do they can't stand her? Why?
- 2:02Speaker 1: Well, it's because of what she does for a living, basically.
- 2:06Speaker 1: She's an adult entertainer.
- 2:08Speaker 2: Oh.
- 2:10Speaker 1: Not like a dancer, but more like an OnlyFans type
- 2:13Speaker 1: of thing.
- 2:13Speaker 2: Oh, God. Okay. She is an OnlyFans girl. Not a dancer.
- 2:21Speaker 2: An OnlyFans girl. I'm shocked they know this.
- 2:23Speaker 3: Yeah.
- 2:24Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 2:25Speaker 3: Yeah.
- 2:25Speaker 2: Right.
- 2:26Speaker 1: And the thing is, my family is like really religious.
- 2:30Speaker 1: My parents are heavily involved in their church, like very strict,
- 2:34Speaker 1: very conservative. And when they found out what she actually does,
- 2:38Speaker 1: like everything just.
- 2:39Speaker 2: Kind of like. Did you tell them? I mean, I'm
- 2:43Speaker 2: just curious why you would. Maybe you didn't. How did
- 2:45Speaker 2: they find out?
- 2:47Speaker 1: Yeah, that's the crazy part. Like, I never actually told them.
- 2:50Speaker 1: I told them she worked in marketing. Then my crazy alcoholic.
- 2:56Speaker 1: My crazy alcoholic sister got mad at me one night
- 2:59Speaker 1: and decided to blow up my entire life. She told
- 3:03Speaker 1: my parents, you know, the truth and actually like sent
- 3:06Speaker 1: them pictures and videos of her stuff.
- 3:10Speaker 2: No. So they've seen it? Yeah.
- 3:14Speaker 1: Oh. Yeah.
- 3:15Speaker 2: I don't know. I don't even want to ask what
- 3:17Speaker 2: that is. Yeah.
- 3:19Speaker 3: I mean, I can kind of guess. So you said
- 3:22Speaker 3: to your parents, she's in marketing, which is not a lie, really.
- 3:24Speaker 3: I mean, there's a lot of marketing involved. She's marketing things,
- 3:29Speaker 3: certain things. So your sister, you said your alcoholic sister.
- 3:34Speaker 2: Okay. Man, I thought I had some drama in my family.
- 3:39Speaker 2: This is awful.
- 3:40Speaker 3: So you basically, you get all this drama for no reason.
- 3:45Speaker 3: Now your parents are like, no way we're going to,
- 3:48Speaker 3: deal with this. They just don't want anything to do
- 3:50Speaker 3: with her.
- 3:50Speaker 1: Yeah. Like since they saw that stuff, my parents have
- 3:53Speaker 1: pretty much stopped talking to me. I occasionally talk to
- 3:56Speaker 1: my dad, but it's, it's pretty rare and they want,
- 3:59Speaker 1: they want nothing to do with her. And they've made
- 4:01Speaker 1: it like super clear that they're not supporting this marriage.
- 4:05Speaker 1: And honestly, you know, my, my brother's probably the only
- 4:08Speaker 1: person from my family who might actually come.
- 4:10Speaker 2: And See, that's not ideal at all.
- 4:15Speaker 3: It's not ideal, but also to like for them to
- 4:17Speaker 3: stop talking to you. That's I'm not saying they'd be
- 4:21Speaker 3: happy about, you know, future wife and what she does.
- 4:24Speaker 3: But to stop talking to their son because of it.
- 4:27Speaker 1: And it kills me because they don't even know her.
- 4:30Speaker 1: You know, like she's probably the sweetest, most kind hearted
- 4:33Speaker 1: woman I've ever dated. And I've dated plenty of like
- 4:36Speaker 1: church going women in the past. And I can tell you,
- 4:40Speaker 1: you know, a couple of them were some of the
- 4:42Speaker 1: meanest people I've ever been with. So, you know, I'm
- 4:46Speaker 1: not judging somebody's heart based on what they do for
- 4:49Speaker 1: work or what they sit in the church every Sunday.
- 4:53Speaker 1: You know, I love her, honestly. And, you know, I'm
- 4:56Speaker 1: marrying her. If my family can't accept that, then honestly,
- 5:00Speaker 1: I'm prepared to choose her, I guess.
- 5:02Speaker 2: And you don't want to tell her what's going on
- 5:04Speaker 2: and just be honest about it?
- 5:06Speaker 1: I haven't told her. I just don't, I don't have
- 5:08Speaker 1: the heart to tell her. Like it was supposed to
- 5:10Speaker 1: be like one of the happiest times of our lives,
- 5:12Speaker 1: you know, and I wouldn't want to dump all that
- 5:15Speaker 1: on her.
- 5:15Speaker 3: Can you have a happy relationship in a marriage if
- 5:18Speaker 3: your parents and your family doesn't accept your partner?
- 5:21Speaker 2: That's difficult. That would weigh on me so hard.
- 5:25Speaker 3: Yeah.
- 5:25Speaker 2: Doesn't make it easy.
- 5:26Speaker 1: Right.
- 5:27Speaker 2: But is it possible? I'm sure it is.
- 5:28Speaker 3: Yeah.
- 5:29Speaker 2: I mean, if you're going to just disconnect from your
- 5:31Speaker 2: family and maybe they'll come around.
- 5:33Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 5:34Speaker 2: You know, I don't know if this is something she said.
- 5:35Speaker 2: Grandkids come someday and they're back in the picture. Right. Yeah.
- 5:39Speaker 3: I mean, I get they're really religious. And but sometimes
- 5:42Speaker 3: you just I don't know. You got to put things
- 5:44Speaker 3: aside and go. I don't agree with what you do.
- 5:46Speaker 3: It's like politics to me. I don't have to agree
- 5:48Speaker 3: on all your politics. I still will look at you
- 5:50Speaker 3: as a human.
- 5:51Speaker 1: Right.
- 5:51Speaker 2: If she treats you good, they should be happy with that.
- 5:54Speaker 2: But is she also going to do OnlyFans forever?
- 5:56Speaker 1: I mean, I don't know if it'll be a forever thing. But, yeah,
- 6:01Speaker 1: I would hope that there could be some possibility in
- 6:03Speaker 1: the future.
- 6:04Speaker 3: It doesn't bother you what she does? Obviously, you've kind
- 6:07Speaker 3: of accepted it. It sounds like it, at least.
- 6:09Speaker 2: It probably don't. She makes a lot of money. It
- 6:11Speaker 2: wouldn't bother me.
- 6:12Speaker 1: I've accepted it. It's like what she kind of enjoys doing. And,
- 6:16Speaker 1: you know, I try to support her. It's not my
- 6:19Speaker 1: favorite thing in the world, but... And, you know, it
- 6:22Speaker 1: is what it is. And I think she's a great
- 6:24Speaker 1: person despite any of it.
- 6:26Speaker 2: I don't think you'd be happy.
- 6:27Speaker 3: Pooh acts like he'd be happy if his girl was
- 6:29Speaker 3: doing OnlyFans and made money.
- 6:31Speaker 2: I don't think you'd be happy. Is she paying for everything? Yes,
- 6:33Speaker 2: I would. I would truly be happy. Pooh says she's
- 6:34Speaker 2: paying for everything. I'm just saying. I'm talking about in
- 6:37Speaker 2: my situation, not his. But in my situation, I'm not
- 6:39Speaker 2: going to argue with somebody who's bringing in all that money.
- 6:42Speaker 2: I mean, whatever makes someone happy. It wouldn't be my thing. Right.
- 6:46Speaker 2: That's all I'm saying.
- 6:47Speaker 3: I don't have the security in me to be able
- 6:50Speaker 3: to emotionally secure to deal with someone who does that.
- 6:53Speaker 3: But if you do and you're happy, that's all that matters.
- 6:56Speaker 2: So good luck with everything. And yeah, let us know
- 6:59Speaker 2: what happens if you can. Okay.
- 7:01Speaker 1: Sure. I will. Thanks.
- 7:02Speaker 2: And who wants to subscribe? If you want to drop it,
- 7:05Speaker 2: send me that link. I'm just playing. I say Pooh's
- 7:08Speaker 2: getting a little too old, though, to be a sugar baby.
- 7:10Speaker 2: Why do you say that? I mean, if there's a
- 7:12Speaker 2: rich girl, she's not going to go for the, you know,
- 7:14Speaker 2: an older guy.
- 7:15Speaker 3: I feel like if she's going for a sugar baby,
- 7:16Speaker 3: she's going.
- 7:17Speaker 2: To go young. I'm young-ish-er than what? What's the age limit?
- 7:23Speaker 2: It's definitely below 50. Below 40? What, for a sugar baby?
- 7:29Speaker 3: Yeah.
- 7:30Speaker 2: You got to be under.
- 7:30Speaker 1: A little 30?
- 7:31Speaker 2: You got to be under 30.
- 7:32Speaker 3: Okay.
- 7:33Speaker 2: Definitely under 40 to be a sugar baby. Yeah, for sure.
- 7:35Speaker 2: No one's out here with a 50-year-old sugar baby. What
- 7:39Speaker 2: is the woman, 90? She might be. And she got
- 7:42Speaker 2: a social security check. If you can't say it, you
- 7:45Speaker 2: don't deserve it.