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I am doing everything and it's not working · Good Morning From The Chicken Coop!

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  Welcome to the good morning from the chicken coop, podcast with
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  Kim Johnson, your creative strategist and master mindset.
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  Coach filled with inspiration, distinctions, perspectives and
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  possibilities. We help you to cultivate a
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  mindset that leads you to create the best version of yourself.
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  You could ever imagine join Kim every morning from one of her.
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  Favorite happy places her chicken coop along with all her
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  chickens. Hey good morning from the
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  chicken coop so I have a Justin for you today.
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  Do you feel like you're doing everything?
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  I'm are quoting this, by the way, everything you can in order
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  to make your life, great, or get your outcomes or blank put in
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  whatever you want in that spot. But I feel like I'm doing
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  everything. Well, I get that conversation a
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  lot with people because they show up and they say, well, I'm
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  doing everything and it's not working and I swear to you, I
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  swear Kim, I'm doing everything. I'm I'm working extra hours.
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  I'm pouring into it. I'm still not getting the help
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  from my family. Still not getting the help from
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  my boss. They're not being nice.
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  I'm still not getting the clients.
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  I'm doing everything and this is a very hard condition to deal
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  with write everything. As you know, you really believe
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  you are doing everything. Well, I have a challenge for you
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  mentally with this because it is not about doing everything.
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  Always, I mean, yes, we have to do things.
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  We can't It on our rumps and hope that it all comes to us.
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  However, there is another part of this, which is really, I
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  think why you're here with me on this podcast to begin with
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  because this is where you get these little golden nuggets.
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  And you can take them into your world and crack the code, if you
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  will for yourself. And this is one of them because
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  it's not about what you're doing.
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  It's about who you're being. So, I'm going to give you a
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  concept of this because this is something I talk to my clients
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  about and I think think it is incredibly fundamental to the
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  piece of it. So, let's just say you're in a
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  business where you need clients. Most of us are in a business
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  where we need clients of some sort, doesn't matter what kind
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  of clients they are. And you're constantly thinking
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  about, I need more business, I need more business, I need more
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  business. Well that comes from a mindset
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  of typically comes from a mindset of, I see something
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  missing. I need more money, I need more
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  cash, flow, whatever, It might be, it comes from scarcity,
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  typically and you're very focused on the fact that there's
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  a high level of scarcity. So you run out and you try to
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  create more business and you're not necessarily doing it from a
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  level of excitement. Or, I can't wait to meet these
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  people, or I'm so happy. They're coming my way, you're
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  doing it from scarcity, and that's the energy and the
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  emotion you're in. So right away fundamentally,
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  you're attracting more scarcity into your life because you
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  haven't reset to get to that place of saying, okay well I'm
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  going to now focus on this from a different emotion, if you
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  will. Okay.
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  Just bear with me here on this because the concept is a little
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  deeper than some people have taken it.
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  So if that's the emotion you're in and you're out there and
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  you're really saying, I'm doing everything, I'm doing everything
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  in your Taking all the actions, you're putting off an energy, an
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  air, if you will of scarcity. So when somebody encounters you
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  a potential client, you're coming from that place of
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  desperation and we've all been with that person that feels
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  desperate and we want to move away from them.
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  We've all been. I don't care if it's in business
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  or personal how about somebody that wants to date somebody and
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  they're so desperate to just have anybody that you can feel
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  it coming off of them and then you're just like Like, you know,
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  I don't want anything to do with this person.
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  That's the energy I'm talking about because it's all about
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  what you think you're doing and not about who you're being.
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  And this is about who you're being.
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  So when you feel like you're doing everything, you probably
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  are doing a ton of it, but it's not who you're being behind the
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  scenes, something else is going on.
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  So when you want to make shifts in your life, your personal
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  life, your business, your family, like I will If you know
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  me personally, you will never hear me complain about clients
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  ever. I never will say a word, I don't
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  feel it. I don't get frustrated with
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  clients. I have a hard rule for myself,
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  that says they are absolute gifts and I refuse to treat them
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  and get upset with them for their actions that they don't
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  even understand themselves. And I'm not going to feel like
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  oh my God, why is this person being such a pain in my ass?
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  Right now, or why are they texting me at 6:00 in the
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  morning or 11:00 at night? Instead I just say, okay, this
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  is where they are. They're obviously desperate.
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  They're obviously having an emotion that they're out of
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  control. They're obviously feel like they
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  need help and therefore, I'm their resource now.
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  That doesn't mean I have to take the call.
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  That doesn't mean I have to answer the text.
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  What it does mean though, is I'm not shifting my inside, I'm not
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  allowing that to push my buttons just like other people in your
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  world. So if someone's pushing your
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  buttons, your boss is pushing your buttons and he's showing up
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  and acting a certain way and you know you you're doing everything
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  all of a sudden you see a way time allowing him to aggravate
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  me in the more I get aggravated, the more I push away from him
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  and the more he thinks I'm not doing what I'm supposed to be
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  doing. So it's like this big round.
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  Robin of screwed up - if you will and you have to be the only
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  person in the, in the formula that can change it.
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  You have to be because you're a significant part of the formula,
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  just like when, you know, if we're in a Nation ship in the
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  relationship goes bad. You are 50% responsible for that
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  relationship, but you are 100% responsible for yourself.
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  And that is a key to this, the component, to this.
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  It's a key component to it. You have to go back and say to
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  yourself, you know, how am I behind the scenes contributing
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  to this because it's not always about what you're doing
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  externally, it's about who you're being internally and that
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  my Friends is the key to starting this process off and
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  being successful with it is to recognizing you have to stop
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  thinking about just what you're doing.
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  And you have to start thinking about what you're being
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  internally. Make sense.
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  Okay? So I will see you guys tomorrow
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  and I really want you to think about this.
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  So take the time. Think about who you're being and
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  I'll talk to you soon. Bye.