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381 El mejor lugar para equivocarse. · Reflexiones cristianas con José Ordóñez

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  Podcast number three hundred eighty- one. Make your house the best place for
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  your kids to make a mistake. Laconic title truth. Perhaps you were struck
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  by the fact that home is the best place for children to make mistakes.
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  Right. All parents want their children to make no mistake in life or to
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  make the least possible mistake. However, some humans do not have a training
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  ground to make mistakes. We send children with sports skills to the courts to
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  correct their mistakes, to school, to educate them and to correct more mistakes.
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  Not to mention the thought and judgment with which some parents take children,
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  churches, young people, youth gatherings and camps. There they think that we
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  pastors should work hard to correct their continuing mistakes. I know I was a
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  six- year- old pastor and really modern life has room for correction.
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  Gyms, for example, correct weight, dental clinics, dental malformations, ophthalmologists,
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  correct vision, therapists, posture, corrections and more corrections, all treated
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  normally in spaces created for that purpose. I have never listened to an angry
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  dentist because he gets clientele to correct, nor to gymnasiums canceling subscriptions because they
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  get tired of the fat guy, no matter how much he goes, not
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  getting down the stairs or even listening to the ophthalmologist cancelling the patient' s
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  appointment because he doesn' t even read at a karaoke. They do not
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  know that their job in life is to correct. They also know that their
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  spaces are designed for that. If they, who have only an economic interest
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  in our children, see normally and understand that in life there is a need
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  to correct and provide room to amend, why parents are angry at having to
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  correct their children, why they believe that there are also many places to make
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  mistakes outside the home, but please not at home. It is not supposed
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  that in homes are people who are most interested in children growing up understanding how
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  correcting mistakes allows your children to make mistakes in the home, because there,
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  unlike other places in society. You correct them for free, without financial interests.
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  You correct them because, as a father and as a mother, they
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  are the best people to have the credit of having formed a man and a
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  woman of character. You correct them because until that moment in life, no
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  one loves them more than you do. In society, your son, your
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  daughter, will meet people who want to correct them destructively, punitively, causing
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  them pain. Only you can potentially correct it the right way. Okay,
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  let' s go to practicality when your son' s wrong about something.
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  The first thing you have to ask yourself is whether your son, your daughter,
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  is correctly understanding the instruction you have given him or the standard he makes
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  implanted. If you have made a mistake, you have done so by mistake
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  or involuntary error, in which case you must repeat the instruction again and be
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  satisfied that it has been correctly understood or if, on the contrary, the
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  norm has been disobediently disregarded, haughty to go reluctant. You will have to
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  make sure that the rule is understood now and then it must be corrected disciplined.
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  And, finally, don' t forget this thing that it' s
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  important to shepherd the child' s heart so he won' t be knocked
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  down. And, in shame, there is more information about how to shepherd
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  the heart of the child in the Community. In any case, you can
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  ' t lose sight of the fact that it' s good for children to
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  make mistakes at home before eating out of it. There in the house you
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  will be able to instruct them in the right way, reminding them that only
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  you are willing, willing to do so, seeking that his character as your
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  child and as a son of God, be established one more recommendation, Do
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  not become the victim. Our parents said ironically what I would have done to
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  deserve a child. Thus, the parents of my generation made us feel that
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  they bore the heavy burden of our disobediences and that it was a problem for
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  them to try to solve those defects that the Bible parents had that base education
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  on God’ s word. They know that educating and correcting is a hard
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  job. What to do without manifesting fatigue or victimization Look at this Galatians verse.
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  Chapter number six. Verse number nine. Let us not therefore tire of
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  doing good because in due time we will blind ourselves if we do not faint,
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  see, do not tire of doing well the work of educating children and
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  consider it a blessing, for in due time you will reap the fruit of
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  that work. Nor do you feel like a terrible nuisance for your children to
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  delay learning processes or the times when they are unbearable. You must know what
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  is the challenge facing all the parents of the world, but only those who
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  do it right, those who understand that they are there to correct properly will
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  end up collecting the fruit of their patient, silent and resilient work. Don
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  ' t retire. Before we finish the podcast, I want to tell you
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  that today we upload lesson number eleven of the course on how to properly educate
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  and discipline children? In it I speak of the importance of valorizing the talents
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  of each child and the danger of comparing them with others, the dangers to
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  which children who are exposed are compared with others and the children who are used
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  as a model for others to copy their behavior, because the truth is that
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  the two classes of children are exposed to a dangerous model of malformation in their
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  character. So enjoy this eleven course choice of how to properly educate and discipline
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  children? Who is in the Christian digital community of José Ordonez for more information,
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  see right now José Ordonez Christian. As there you find not only the
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  previous three hundred and eighty podcasts but also articles, classes, our course about
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  infidelity, the school for parents, the workshop for marriages. In our humor
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  zone we have the shows that I have had the opportunity to present recently,
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  their we saw in the one I did in the Church of Dante Gaebel.
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  You will find paired, one paired, two materials for children. Anyway,
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  today you can become part of our digital Christian community. From José Ordonez.
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  For now, I wish you a beautiful day and that, if you are
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  still in that wonderful art and challenge of educating children, do not look like
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  the victims who have to strive to correct them, may God bless you