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Pirates Ahoy with Kendall Long · The Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous Podcast

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  Speaker 1: and we don't have Ashley to day. We have a
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  Speaker 1: very special co host, Kindles in the house. Hello, can
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  Speaker 1: along from The Bachelor and Bachelor in Paradise. She's found
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  Speaker 1: love and we've got to catch up with her. She's
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  Speaker 1: gonna be around the whole podcast talking everything Bachelor, We're
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  Speaker 1: talking everything Colton, and we're gonna catch up on her life. Kindle,
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  Speaker 1: you've just gotten back to l A. You've been traveling.
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  Speaker 1: What in the world have been up to? Um? Well,
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  Speaker 1: Joe is on Dancing with the Stars tour right now,
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  Speaker 1: so I've been living the bus life with him. Um,
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  Speaker 1: and I'm actually going to be going back in a
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  Speaker 1: week to Philadelphia to complete the tour with him. So yeah,
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  Speaker 1: that's been it's been pretty it's been pretty fun. When
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  Speaker 1: you go visit Joe on tour. What does that look
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  Speaker 1: like dancing with the stars. Do they treat these dancer
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  Speaker 1: as well? Are they staying in hotels? Are they flying everywhere?
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  Speaker 1: They treat them so well? Um, I think a lot
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  Speaker 1: of the time they'll sleep on the bus. But when
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  Speaker 1: I was there, luckily enough, Joe did have a hotel
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  Speaker 1: that we were able to stay in. But um, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: it maazingly it's mainly just bus life. You during the night.
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  Speaker 1: You'll go to a different city every night. And he
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  Speaker 1: he loves it. I mean he's hosting it and he's
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  Speaker 1: gotten amazing on stage and so comfortable. So it's amazing
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  Speaker 1: to see, just like all the dancers like dancing game
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  Speaker 1: to know them more and playing games on the bus
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  Speaker 1: and seeing different cities and towns and uh, yeah, it's
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  Speaker 1: just traveling and performing, which is like the circus life
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  Speaker 1: in some way. Yeah, it kind of is. So wait,
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  Speaker 1: I think a lot of people out there listening wouldn't
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  Speaker 1: know this, So so, Joe, your boyfriend went on Dance
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  Speaker 1: with the Stars. Everybody does know that grocery store Joe.
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  Speaker 1: But then after the show, they go on tour and
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  Speaker 1: they kind of travel all throughout the United States, putting
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  Speaker 1: on shows in different cities for for what three months? Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: it's about three months. But this year they have a
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  Speaker 1: couple of different stars that are doing the tour and
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  Speaker 1: he is doing He's doing it for a month, so
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  Speaker 1: he's probably on the second week and has two more
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  Speaker 1: weeks and then, um, yeah, so he's just been kind
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  Speaker 1: of cruising around. Is he hosting it? He said, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: he's hosting it. Initially he did do a couple of dances,
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  Speaker 1: and I think he still does one dance, but it's
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  Speaker 1: not as much dancing as more so the hosting part,
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  Speaker 1: which I think he's probably really excited about. But I
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  Speaker 1: wish he did more dancing personally because I love seeing
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  Speaker 1: him dance. It's it's so cute. Oh that's love right.
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  Speaker 1: There is the champion Bobby Bones on tour. He is. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: So he hosted Radio City with Joe, and um, he
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  Speaker 1: is awesome. He has so much energy. I cannot imagine
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  Speaker 1: how that guy functions. He has he's everywhere. He does
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  Speaker 1: a radio show in the mornings. Anyways, that's crazy, so
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  Speaker 1: kindall I was. I was just doing a little research,
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  Speaker 1: trying to catch up in your life, and the headlines
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  Speaker 1: today are kinder long talks possible engagement to Joe. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: that's on the online today five hours ago. If you
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  Speaker 1: could just google your name, it pops up very first thing. Really,
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  Speaker 1: I can't keep up. I can't keep up with my
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  Speaker 1: own life right now. Um. I mean, it's something that
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  Speaker 1: we're not afraid of. But we haven't talked about a
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  Speaker 1: specific we haven't talked specifically about an engagement together. Okay
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  Speaker 1: you haven't. It's not even like hinted at. No, I mean,
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  Speaker 1: it's definitely. It's definitely something that we've talked about, we're
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  Speaker 1: not afraid of. And um, I think it's the understanding
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  Speaker 1: that when you're in a relationship, you wouldn't be in
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  Speaker 1: it unless you thought there was a possibility of being engaged. So, um,
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  Speaker 1: I think the day that engagement is off the tables,
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  Speaker 1: the day that Joe and I are no longer to
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  Speaker 1: stay together, which is not going to be happening at least,
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  Speaker 1: I hope, I hope. Ever so, that's great to hear. Yeah, so,
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  Speaker 1: I mean it really is. We're ruined for you, guys,
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  Speaker 1: Like I mean, Bachelor Nation absolutely loves you and Joe,
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  Speaker 1: but we also know that the pressures of these kind
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  Speaker 1: of questions are just annoying all the time. I actually,
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  Speaker 1: you know, I just mentioned I think last week on
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  Speaker 1: the podcast that I was dating somebody and all of
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  Speaker 1: a sudden, it's this massive deal and I think we'll
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  Speaker 1: get married. Yeah, I guess now I'm getting married. Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: But you know, it's exciting and uh, and it is fun,
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  Speaker 1: but it is also the world that we've walked into
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  Speaker 1: is where your relationship is now kind of the highlighting
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  Speaker 1: your identity. Yeah, um, do you ever feel kind? And
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  Speaker 1: we're gonna move on here in a second, and we're
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  Speaker 1: gonna talk to we have a great episode ahead of us.
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  Speaker 1: We're gonna talk Colton's uh recap. We're gonna catch up
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  Speaker 1: with Ashley Hike and Eddie. I don't know if you
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  Speaker 1: all know her, but she's goes this podcast and she's
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  Speaker 1: in Mexico kind of hanging out. I don't know what
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  Speaker 1: she's doing in Mexico, so uh, and then Rebecca Cruz,
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  Speaker 1: who was on this week's episode of The Batchelor's gonna
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  Speaker 1: come on and give us some behind the scenes juice
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  Speaker 1: and dirt on what all happened. It's gonna be awesome.
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  Speaker 1: But uh, yeah, So you know, Kendle, do you I
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  Speaker 1: was thinking the other day that I've I've been slow today. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: and you know you, I don't think have dated a
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  Speaker 1: ton outside of Joe and during your time on the show.
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  Speaker 1: But it was also a pretty quick turnover for you.
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  Speaker 1: The our identity has now become our relationships, and I've realized,
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  Speaker 1: I think recently how much that's affected me personally. Has
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  Speaker 1: that affected you at all? Do you see that kind
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  Speaker 1: of changing the way that you and Joe day or
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  Speaker 1: or does it feel just as normal as any other
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  Speaker 1: relationship you've ever had. I mean, it definitely isn't the
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  Speaker 1: same as any relationship I've ever had. Um. I feel
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  Speaker 1: like every decision we make has an opinion, has many
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  Speaker 1: different opinions. UM. But I think we I think we
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  Speaker 1: find humor in everything, and I think you have to
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  Speaker 1: find humor in the things that could be difficult, like
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  Speaker 1: people having negative opinions. UM. But yeah, I don't know.
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  Speaker 1: I feel like it's most of the times I forget
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  Speaker 1: that people even care that we're in a relationship. It's
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  Speaker 1: only when you look on social media that you realize that.
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  Speaker 1: But walking around you know all their I mean, it
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  Speaker 1: is kind of funny having talking to random people and
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  Speaker 1: they know your entire history, and I go, yeah, like,
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  Speaker 1: I've seen you guys do this, and you guys are
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  Speaker 1: like this, and it's funny to have people aware of that.
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  Speaker 1: But it's almost as if it's almost if I just
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  Speaker 1: have more friends in some way that kind of understand
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  Speaker 1: what I've been through, so I don't have to, you know,
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  Speaker 1: tell them the whole entire story. Um. And I also
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  Speaker 1: I also feel like it's it's funny that I usually
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  Speaker 1: assume that people know who Joe is when in a conversation,
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  Speaker 1: and there are some people who don't watch the show,
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  Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, yeah, Joe, and they're like Joe. But
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  Speaker 1: the majority of the time people do know, you know
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  Speaker 1: who he is. But yeah, you guys, you know can
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  Speaker 1: the one thing you've you've done in your relationship and
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  Speaker 1: and just in the last couple of months is I've
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  Speaker 1: seen both of you just from an outsiders But I'm
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  Speaker 1: just a fan, right, I don't I don't know YouTube
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  Speaker 1: personally very well, but I've watched you to kind of
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  Speaker 1: come together as a couple and both grow up as
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  Speaker 1: people and not grow up like you had any growing
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  Speaker 1: up to do, like, oh, you're a total failure as
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  Speaker 1: a person before. I again, I don't know, but I've
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  Speaker 1: seen a transition maybe or an involvement in both of
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  Speaker 1: your lives. You just mentioned that, you know, now Joe
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  Speaker 1: is comfortable on stage. He's been on Dance Where the Stars,
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  Speaker 1: going from some little sheepiest kid who didn't want to
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  Speaker 1: be on the show at all to now, you know,
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  Speaker 1: rocking out and hosting a show. And for you, you know,
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  Speaker 1: now your relationship with Joe is stronger. You know, you
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  Speaker 1: kind of fought through everything that we saw on Bachelor
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  Speaker 1: of Paradise and then you're you know, now supporting him
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  Speaker 1: and you guys are going around on Instagram and you
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  Speaker 1: really ship with your sister strong. All these things. I've
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  Speaker 1: been watching from a distance and it's been really cool.
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  Speaker 1: But for you, is that as it affected your personal
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  Speaker 1: life at all? Oh, I can't help but affect your
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  Speaker 1: personal life. It's in almost everything that you do. So
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  Speaker 1: I think it's just you go through a transition of
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  Speaker 1: adjusting to what life is like now, and um, I
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  Speaker 1: think the one thing I mainly just listen to the
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  Speaker 1: opinions of people who truly know me. And that's kind
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  Speaker 1: of what you have to do. You can't take the good,
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  Speaker 1: you can't take the bad, and you just have to
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  Speaker 1: listen to people who truly know who you are, because
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  Speaker 1: those are the ones that have any effect on you, know,
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  Speaker 1: They're the ones that truely, like truly can have an
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  Speaker 1: opinion about my life. Um. But yeah, I mean my
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  Speaker 1: life definitely has done a one eight. But at the
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  Speaker 1: same time, humans are interesting creatures, right, We can we
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  Speaker 1: can adjust to things rather quickly. We find normalcy and things. So, um,
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  Speaker 1: I feel like I have a sense of normalcy now
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  Speaker 1: with it and it's not really odd. That's awesome, that's awesome.
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  Speaker 1: Everything about your life should be odd and it's not
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  Speaker 1: because you've adapted. Speaking of adapted, what do you think
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  Speaker 1: of Colton so far as a bachelor? I think he's
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  Speaker 1: doing really good. I think a lot of people at
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  Speaker 1: first were worried about him being the bachelor, maybe his
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  Speaker 1: age or maybe not ready because of all the drama
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  Speaker 1: he's been through with his past relationships. On the show.
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  Speaker 1: But I personally think he's doing he's handling himself very well.
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  Speaker 1: You know, I agree, I think he's doing this. After
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  Speaker 1: watching this week's episode, it became very clear to me
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  Speaker 1: he definitely doesn't have Swag's endearing. It's endearing. Yeah, you
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  Speaker 1: watch him and you're like, I feel for this guy.
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  Speaker 1: He's still nervous when the women show up for group dates, Like,
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  Speaker 1: he still stumbles over his words. Great because he's not
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  Speaker 1: he's not a professional entertainer. Yeah, it's really fun and
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  Speaker 1: I don't think we have the expectation that he should
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  Speaker 1: be an entertainer. I mean, it is real life. You're
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  Speaker 1: seeing real life, And um, I was extremely nervous, And
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  Speaker 1: I know Joe is extremely nervous when going on the show,
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  Speaker 1: and it takes a while to adjust to that, especially
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  Speaker 1: if everyone's looking up to you with all these expectations
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  Speaker 1: and oh, you're the Bachelor, You're this guy that's supposed
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  Speaker 1: to fill all these needs that I have, and um,
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  Speaker 1: it's a lot of pressure to put on somebody. I mean,
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  Speaker 1: and he's I'm sure he's hyper aware of the fact
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  Speaker 1: that everybody is going to have a very strong opinion
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  Speaker 1: about him. Every single step of the way, and you
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  Speaker 1: can't help but feel that, Oh yeah, definitely, no, I
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  Speaker 1: think he's doing great. This week's episode kind of solidified that. Hey,
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  Speaker 1: can you were able to watch this week's episode. I
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  Speaker 1: was able to walk to watch this week's episode. We're
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  Speaker 1: gonna call up actually I can Eddie here in a
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  Speaker 1: few minutes, uh to get her take. But I want
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  Speaker 1: to hear from you first. We've already talked about Colton
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  Speaker 1: as the Bachelor. What do you think about the group
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  Speaker 1: date on this episode? Let's start with the Pirate I
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  Speaker 1: loved the Pirate date. I've actually personally been to the
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  Speaker 1: Pirate Show before. Um. I got my sister and brother
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  Speaker 1: a ticket for Christmas last year, and we all went
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  Speaker 1: to the Pirate Show and you could dress up as
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  Speaker 1: a pirate and you know, we did the whole like
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  Speaker 1: eating with your hands thing and watching the show and
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  Speaker 1: you I actually was one of the people who got
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  Speaker 1: to carry the flag and run with the flag across
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  Speaker 1: so I was very into it. Um, So that would
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  Speaker 1: have been a perfect date. My first question is, what
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  Speaker 1: is this place? Like? Explain the whole setup for me.
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  Speaker 1: You just kind of did. It's a dinner place. It
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  Speaker 1: sounds like where you buy tickets and you watch a show.
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  Speaker 1: Is it in Los Angeles? Um, it's outside of Los Angeles.
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  Speaker 1: I think it's about an hour or so away. It's
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  Speaker 1: a trek, but um, so yeah, it's a dinner show.
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  Speaker 1: It's very much like when they have the nights, you know,
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  Speaker 1: medieval times. It's very much like that. But it's pirate based.
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  Speaker 1: So you just go and you sit in like a
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  Speaker 1: colosseum audience and you watch these pirates put on a
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  Speaker 1: show and you have to cheer for your pirate, your team.
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  Speaker 1: So I was Orange team, but there's like a blue
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  Speaker 1: team and a red team, and um, yeah, it gets
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  Speaker 1: very it gets very rowdy in there, and so I
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  Speaker 1: mean it's intimidating. I'm sure to have everybody staring at
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  Speaker 1: you and having to fight and do all these crazy tricks.
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  Speaker 1: So those girls definitely had it out. Would you have
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  Speaker 1: enjoyed this group date? Oh yeah, that would have been
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  Speaker 1: by far one of my favorite dates. I would absolutely
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  Speaker 1: absolutely love that. Who kind of captured then As you're watching,
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  Speaker 1: you're going, all right, I would love this group date.
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  Speaker 1: This looks like a place for me. Who kind of
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  Speaker 1: captured your eye? For the women there? That you're like,
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  Speaker 1: all right, they're standing out during this date. I think
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  Speaker 1: for me, Um, Hannah definitely stood out because she was
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  Speaker 1: rocking it up on that balance beam, and also Kalin
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  Speaker 1: because I think I was just more so jealous that
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  Speaker 1: she got to use the zip line and zip line down.
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  Speaker 1: But um, and there's definitely a drama between both of them,
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  Speaker 1: so I feel like that was a huge focus on
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  Speaker 1: the date. It's it's interesting. I think this is a
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  Speaker 1: good time to kind of roll into the first part
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  Speaker 1: of their drama because that's obviously a massive storyline so
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  Speaker 1: far on this season. Uh you know, actually, after watching
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  Speaker 1: this episode, I feel like we got a very clear
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  Speaker 1: picture that this is ugly. I mean, this is pretty divisive.
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  Speaker 1: They don't like each other. There's a lot of pain,
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  Speaker 1: and the first part of this episode, I'm watching this
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  Speaker 1: and I just feel like it's a little tiff, right,
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  Speaker 1: something's happened, somebody's beat the other person in a pageant,
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  Speaker 1: and now they're angry. But this episode goes on, I
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  Speaker 1: feel like there's a lot of pain here that we're
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  Speaker 1: not being told. That's why I felt too. I was
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  Speaker 1: really confused because all I know is that they're just
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  Speaker 1: throwing adjectives at each other. They're describing each other in
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  Speaker 1: negative ways, but they're not really talking about the facts
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  Speaker 1: behind why those adjectives are being given. So um, and
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  Speaker 1: I know that with Klin, she had gone through a
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  Speaker 1: traumatic experience, and there's no light shed on what that
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  Speaker 1: traumatic experience is. So it's it's it's difficult to empathize
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  Speaker 1: with people, and I definitely did feel empathy for both
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  Speaker 1: of them, but it's difficult to understand the empathy if
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  Speaker 1: you don't know how they got to that place. So
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  Speaker 1: I was, I was. I'm still confused as to why
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  Speaker 1: it is such a big deal and why Hannah had
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  Speaker 1: said that, um if she if Colton liked someone like Klin,
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  Speaker 1: that he wasn't looking her like. It was almost like,
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  Speaker 1: in some ways, it sounded like an ultimatum, you know,
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  Speaker 1: it's me or her, And I don't know if that
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  Speaker 1: was something that I really agreed with. It's it puts
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  Speaker 1: cold in a weird place, and it's not the best
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  Speaker 1: way to present yourself right. It doesn't show a lot
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  Speaker 1: of understanding your patients for the circumstances. You can help
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  Speaker 1: all of our listeners and myself understand this. So you're
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  Speaker 1: You're in week three. At this point, you've been in
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  Speaker 1: the house for a while. Uh, You're starting to get comfortable.
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  Speaker 1: You're starting to learn other people's you know, personality traits.
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  Speaker 1: You're starting to understand you know, which women are there
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  Speaker 1: for the right reasons and which women aren't. But in
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  Speaker 1: this episode, we really start to see the clause come out.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, women are after Demi gods, the Kalen and
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  Speaker 1: Hannah situation. We have some snarky comments during group dates
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  Speaker 1: as as somebody is sitting in the house on those
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  Speaker 1: group dates, what is going through your mind? And why
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  Speaker 1: do you think year every year? Every year the contestants
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  Speaker 1: react this way to these snaris. I'm a very different experience.
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  Speaker 1: You're not used to being thrown in with a bunch
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  Speaker 1: of girls you've never met before and trying to vy
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  Speaker 1: for one man's heart. It's a it's a unique experience.
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  Speaker 1: So I feel like there's a lot of shifting. There's
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  Speaker 1: a lot of people who are trying to see what
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  Speaker 1: the pecking order is. In some sense, you're trying to
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  Speaker 1: see who you want to be friends with, who you
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  Speaker 1: don't want to be friends with. You almost have to
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  Speaker 1: be friends with one person if they don't like someone else,
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  Speaker 1: you can't be friends with them. It's just a very
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  Speaker 1: it's a bunch of shifting, and I think people are
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  Speaker 1: just adjusting to a lifestyle with sleep deprivation and um
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  Speaker 1: emotions going everywhere, and uh yeah, it's just I mean,
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  Speaker 1: I think in life, whenever there's something completely different that's
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  Speaker 1: thrown at you, you have to shift in some way,
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  Speaker 1: and people react to that differently. It's in shifting in
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  Speaker 1: an environment that's unfamiliar has to be even harder. There's
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  Speaker 1: one thing I always loved this episode on both seasons,
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  Speaker 1: The Bachelor and The Bachelor. I don't know if you
• 15:53
  Speaker 1: realize that this week or not, but the episode that
• 15:56
  Speaker 1: you see the women show up to get a group
• 15:59
  Speaker 1: date or show up in the morning without makeup on
• 16:01
  Speaker 1: and the episode that the men come in with like
• 16:03
  Speaker 1: pajamas and like their hair messed up, then you know
• 16:06
  Speaker 1: they're getting comfortable. But that's what I love because the
• 16:09
  Speaker 1: first week, everybody's dressed up right first episode, no matter
• 16:12
  Speaker 1: where they're at, how really it is, they're ready to
• 16:14
  Speaker 1: go right guys and girls. But you you see when
• 16:17
  Speaker 1: people start kind of putting their guard down when they
• 16:19
  Speaker 1: show up with like pajamas, glasses, and their hair like
• 16:22
  Speaker 1: in a bun. I love that. That's not my favorite. Yeah,
• 16:25
  Speaker 1: we're getting some real stuff, and that's my favorite. Feeling
• 16:28
  Speaker 1: too in the house. Also feeling like you can settle
• 16:31
  Speaker 1: in and feel comfortable and start getting used to your environment.
• 16:33
  Speaker 1: I probably felt the most uncomfortable the first night. I
• 16:36
  Speaker 1: felt the most unlike myself because you have someone doing
• 16:39
  Speaker 1: your hair and doing your makeup, and um, I almost
• 16:42
  Speaker 1: felt like that didn't really truly show who I was.
• 16:45
  Speaker 1: And then when you do get to be more relaxed
• 16:48
  Speaker 1: and you know, with no makeup, I almost felt like, Okay,
• 16:51
  Speaker 1: well now I'm showing who I really am, and so
• 16:53
  Speaker 1: I could be more open to this experience in that way. Well,
• 16:57
  Speaker 1: week is that do you think? I mean? Is it
• 16:59
  Speaker 1: week three? Top uly? I think I think it takes
• 17:02
  Speaker 1: a little while to settle in, only because you still
• 17:05
  Speaker 1: have your you're still on high alert. Maybe the first week,
• 17:08
  Speaker 1: and then week two you slowly start to maybe put
• 17:10
  Speaker 1: a little bit of makeup on when you go down there. Um,
• 17:12
  Speaker 1: you have to get us to the fact that you're
• 17:13
  Speaker 1: being filmed seven and I you can't wear makeup seven.
• 17:18
  Speaker 1: I feel like you just suffocate your face. So so
• 17:22
  Speaker 1: I think I think it's good. I love seeing I
• 17:25
  Speaker 1: think this was the first week where people with the
• 17:27
  Speaker 1: girls seem to be more real to me. Yeah, yeah,
• 17:30
  Speaker 1: I agree. We're starting to see we're starting to see
• 17:33
  Speaker 1: the clause come out, which also means that we're starting
• 17:35
  Speaker 1: to see the realness of the personalities kindle after the
• 17:38
  Speaker 1: Pirate Ship, which was I agree, a good group date.
• 17:41
  Speaker 1: I just like group dates because they're goofy. I don't
• 17:44
  Speaker 1: want any more of these, like group dates. I don't
• 17:47
  Speaker 1: have high expectations for group dates. I guess I should
• 17:49
  Speaker 1: say so when they're funny, goofy or whatever, they work
• 17:52
  Speaker 1: for me. But it's the after party. The after party
• 17:54
  Speaker 1: is where it goes down. It all goes down. Can
• 17:59
  Speaker 1: you walk our list? There's real quick. What it's like
• 18:01
  Speaker 1: leaving a group date. Okay, so you leave a group day,
• 18:04
  Speaker 1: you're sweaty, you're sticky, you've been running around all day.
• 18:07
  Speaker 1: What does it look like prepping then for the evening portion. Oh,
• 18:10
  Speaker 1: it's a mad rush because there's a bunch of girls
• 18:13
  Speaker 1: who all need to get a shower. I'll need to
• 18:15
  Speaker 1: do makeup, I'll need to find an outfit. So I
• 18:17
  Speaker 1: always felt like it was I mean, personally, I was.
• 18:21
  Speaker 1: I was glad that I maybe I just didn't have
• 18:24
  Speaker 1: a lot of makeup experience so it didn't really take
• 18:26
  Speaker 1: me a long time to do my makeup. But everyone
• 18:27
  Speaker 1: looks extremely flawless. You go on the group date and
• 18:31
  Speaker 1: it's really relaxed. You have comfortable clothes on, and you
• 18:33
  Speaker 1: do like funny things, sometimes you have costumes. Then you
• 18:35
  Speaker 1: go to the cocktail party and that you know, it's
• 18:39
  Speaker 1: this is a shift in energy. It's like, Okay, we
• 18:41
  Speaker 1: had fun today, but now like this is business and
• 18:43
  Speaker 1: now we have to make something happen. So, yeah, you're right.
• 18:49
  Speaker 1: One of the girls who was known to get ready
• 18:52
  Speaker 1: for these after parties is my beautiful and wonderful co host. Actually,
• 18:57
  Speaker 1: like an Eddie who's on the line now. Actually, like
• 19:00
  Speaker 1: and Eddie, welcome to Almost Famous podcast. Are you out
• 19:02
  Speaker 1: there that super Actually we're taking a little time right now,
• 19:10
  Speaker 1: and I think you and kinda will have great perspective
• 19:12
  Speaker 1: on this. What it looks like going we're talking about
• 19:15
  Speaker 1: the pirate ship day, moving into the evening portion of
• 19:17
  Speaker 1: the day. What it looks like after leaving, like the
• 19:22
  Speaker 1: fun activity part transitioning into the evening portion for all
• 19:25
  Speaker 1: the listeners behind the scenes. Logistically, that's got to be
• 19:29
  Speaker 1: a nightmare. And Kendall just shared that, yeah, everybody's mad
• 19:31
  Speaker 1: rush showering, putting makeup on. She didn't take a long
• 19:34
  Speaker 1: time to get ready. I imagine you took a little longer.
• 19:38
  Speaker 1: You know. Everybody likes to think that I took forever
• 19:40
  Speaker 1: to get ready, and maybe I did season one, but
• 19:43
  Speaker 1: the producers would always give like they would try to
• 19:45
  Speaker 1: wake me up earlier or have me go and get
• 19:48
  Speaker 1: ready before everybody else because they thought it was gonna
• 19:51
  Speaker 1: take you so much longer. I was like, you, guys,
• 19:53
  Speaker 1: I've got this down at I do not need more
• 19:56
  Speaker 1: than five minutes. It was just going to be makeup
• 19:59
  Speaker 1: and hair. I can do red haired that quickly. It
• 20:01
  Speaker 1: is hard in the in the mansion and when you're
• 20:04
  Speaker 1: on a group date because there's not enough mirrors to
• 20:07
  Speaker 1: go around. The lighting is so important. I actually brought
• 20:09
  Speaker 1: my own lighting. It rendered from you did, because that's
• 20:16
  Speaker 1: that's why I did like Paradise season yeah too. I
• 20:20
  Speaker 1: was like, the lighting was so bad in the mansion
• 20:23
  Speaker 1: that I got that vanity on the go. Yeah. I
• 20:27
  Speaker 1: did the same exact thing and I also had girls
• 20:29
  Speaker 1: borrowing it after I used it. So yeah, and the
• 20:34
  Speaker 1: and you and actually a lot of people would do
• 20:35
  Speaker 1: their makeup outside because inside they had that fake lighting
• 20:40
  Speaker 1: and it it was like lit from above, so you
• 20:42
  Speaker 1: had shadows on your face and so, oh my god,
• 20:45
  Speaker 1: pureful lighting. Yeah, it's it's interesting. I mean I think
• 20:50
  Speaker 1: the listeners out there would be kind of they've always asked, right,
• 20:53
  Speaker 1: So you leave these group dates and you go typically
• 20:57
  Speaker 1: to back to the mansion to grab some clothes, or
• 21:00
  Speaker 1: you go to a hotel. The show does a great
• 21:01
  Speaker 1: job that they think out a hotel kind of closer
• 21:03
  Speaker 1: to the group date space because, like Kindall said, the
• 21:07
  Speaker 1: pirate ship is an hour from l A. Like, going
• 21:09
  Speaker 1: all the way back to the mansion changing getting ready
• 21:11
  Speaker 1: for the Unian portion is a lot. So you go
• 21:13
  Speaker 1: to this hotel, they get your food, you eat, but
• 21:16
  Speaker 1: it is a mad rush. I mean, I think I
• 21:17
  Speaker 1: remember as the guys, there was like two or three
• 21:19
  Speaker 1: rooms they would use for like ten of us, and
• 21:22
  Speaker 1: we would all be in there trying to throw our
• 21:23
  Speaker 1: suits on you, spraying cologne, doing our hair. It's a
• 21:27
  Speaker 1: wild party. But it's I think for our listeners it's
• 21:30
  Speaker 1: It's actually a lot of fun because where you start
• 21:32
  Speaker 1: to bond with the other contestants, Oh yeah, you definitely
• 21:36
  Speaker 1: and helping each other out. The one thing I really
• 21:38
  Speaker 1: loved about all the mad Rushes was that, um, people
• 21:42
  Speaker 1: would ask what would you want to borrow my clothes?
• 21:43
  Speaker 1: Or do you need to use my mirror makeup? And um,
• 21:46
  Speaker 1: there's a lot of like female bonding. At least I
• 21:48
  Speaker 1: can speak for our season when when you were pushed
• 21:52
  Speaker 1: by you had the pressure of having to get ready.
• 21:54
  Speaker 1: The girls always wanted me to do their eyebrows, Like, Astley,
• 21:58
  Speaker 1: if you have a little larrd time, can you please
• 22:00
  Speaker 1: do my eyebrows? I would definitely be one of those
• 22:04
  Speaker 1: people because my sister does my eyebrows for me. She's
• 22:06
  Speaker 1: way more talented than I am, and so I would
• 22:09
  Speaker 1: be one of those girls asking you tell me, um,
• 22:13
  Speaker 1: actually you're not with us this week. Before we get
• 22:16
  Speaker 1: back into the Bachelor talk, we're summing up Colton's third
• 22:19
  Speaker 1: episode of his season. Where are you and what are
• 22:21
  Speaker 1: you doing? Um? It is me, Jared obviously, Carly and
• 22:26
  Speaker 1: Evan and we're down at the Secrets Resort in Cancoon
• 22:30
  Speaker 1: doing a piece for entertainment tonight. Oh that's sounds so nice.
• 22:35
  Speaker 1: You love fash. You're getting paid to go to the
• 22:38
  Speaker 1: Cancoon Secrets Resort for entertainment tonight. You know what, I
• 22:42
  Speaker 1: envy you sometimes. Well, you know what, then, I'm sure
• 22:45
  Speaker 1: you're given funny similar opportunities. Um well, actual, we miss
• 22:51
  Speaker 1: you here in studio. But everybody's wondering. What's your opinion
• 22:55
  Speaker 1: so far? After episode three? Uncle on Colton, I think
• 23:02
  Speaker 1: I think I still feel the same about Bolt and
• 23:04
  Speaker 1: I think he's just like a superbinized great guy. I
• 23:06
  Speaker 1: think it's been a really good bassler. I think like
• 23:09
  Speaker 1: this episode, he's really gotten comfortable and he's taking charge
• 23:14
  Speaker 1: and leading the hole to bag. But I kind of
• 23:18
  Speaker 1: said the same thing. We really thought he his his
• 23:21
  Speaker 1: like he put his foot down this week. Yeah, yeah,
• 23:25
  Speaker 1: he's in control now. I think he did enough observing
• 23:28
  Speaker 1: and now he feels okay to like get in. You
• 23:31
  Speaker 1: can see he's getting really giddy and excited about certain girls,
• 23:34
  Speaker 1: and it shows in his face too when he talks
• 23:36
  Speaker 1: about certain people. You see him like starting to like
• 23:39
  Speaker 1: he can't help but break a little smile or get
• 23:41
  Speaker 1: really cute, and um yeah, I actually I love seeing that.
• 23:45
  Speaker 1: It's like the initial Of course you have the initial connection,
• 23:48
  Speaker 1: but then you start seeing those connections get more in depth,
• 23:51
  Speaker 1: and it is kind of like seeing the honeymoon phase
• 23:53
  Speaker 1: of the beginning of starting to discover relationship. And that's
• 23:57
  Speaker 1: one of my favorite parts. Yeah, it's really not a
• 24:01
  Speaker 1: challenge to tell which girls he liked and which ones
• 24:04
  Speaker 1: he doesn't really give enough about. Definitely, it's so easy.
• 24:07
  Speaker 1: That's one thing he's so easy to. You know, I
• 24:10
  Speaker 1: want to hear your as opinions. One thing I wrote down.
• 24:13
  Speaker 1: You know, we've watched the show for years. Most people
• 24:16
  Speaker 1: out there listening have the you can always kind of
• 24:19
  Speaker 1: tell who he's into and who you know, there's a
• 24:22
  Speaker 1: sense of it's going to be the real deal when
• 24:24
  Speaker 1: you don't see a lot of them for the first
• 24:26
  Speaker 1: couple of weeks and you're like, I wish I saw
• 24:27
  Speaker 1: more of you. One is, we haven't seen anything from
• 24:29
  Speaker 1: my girl Brie, nothing like nothing from Brie yet. Uh.
• 24:33
  Speaker 1: And then also Cassie and Hannah Gee. Other than Hannah Gee,
• 24:37
  Speaker 1: you know, on the first night, we haven't heard from her.
• 24:40
  Speaker 1: I want to hear your three your opinions. Do you
• 24:43
  Speaker 1: think that means those three your big players? This season No,
• 24:47
  Speaker 1: Ben Hannah g had a very significant role. I felt
• 24:50
  Speaker 1: like an episode two he was like him with her
• 24:56
  Speaker 1: during that group day, he was like all over her
• 24:59
  Speaker 1: and like really established that they liked each other already.
• 25:02
  Speaker 1: So I think that's why she had a break this week.
• 25:05
  Speaker 1: And then and this episode, Alice really came out as
• 25:11
  Speaker 1: a as one of the the people that you really like.
• 25:13
  Speaker 1: So did Kaylin. Oh. I loved Lisa's date. That was
• 25:16
  Speaker 1: adorable to me too, genuinely, and her stories the saddest
• 25:23
  Speaker 1: and they have a lot of common as well. But
• 25:25
  Speaker 1: the charity is totally do you think the Bree Cassie thing? Then,
• 25:31
  Speaker 1: I mean, am I wrong on that or have I
• 25:34
  Speaker 1: missed a com We have not seen a lot of Cassie.
• 25:38
  Speaker 1: And then Bree. I think she's really pretty and she
• 25:41
  Speaker 1: got some attention for her parents and maybe her entrance
• 25:46
  Speaker 1: with the Australian accent. And also I always remember that
• 25:49
  Speaker 1: in the beginning of our season um in the first
• 25:52
  Speaker 1: couple of weeks, Lauren and myself both didn't get a
• 25:54
  Speaker 1: date as well, just like Hannah didn't get a date.
• 25:57
  Speaker 1: So I feel like maybe because like he said, he
• 26:01
  Speaker 1: was talking to Hannah and he did say that he
• 26:03
  Speaker 1: felt so confident in her relationship that he wanted to
• 26:05
  Speaker 1: get to know most like some of the other girls
• 26:07
  Speaker 1: better and establish those relationships. So it's it's hard. It's
• 26:11
  Speaker 1: hard to balance that many women, and if you do
• 26:14
  Speaker 1: feel confident about somebody, maybe you can put the relationship
• 26:18
  Speaker 1: on a backburner while you're trying to give other people
• 26:20
  Speaker 1: a chance to show who they truly are. Yeah, I
• 26:23
  Speaker 1: completely agree. I think a lot of the time, the
• 26:26
  Speaker 1: front runners, the ones that they're set on, they don't
• 26:28
  Speaker 1: get dates the first couple of weeks. But for some reason,
• 26:31
  Speaker 1: I don't feel like Bree is one of those examples.
• 26:35
  Speaker 1: I feel like he's going to fall at the wayside.
• 26:37
  Speaker 1: I don't think she's really captured him with any conversation
• 26:39
  Speaker 1: so far. That's too bad. You know who she kind
• 26:43
  Speaker 1: of reminds me of more for you, Ben, But then again,
• 26:45
  Speaker 1: we all know that you're seeing someone. Yeah. I was
• 26:48
  Speaker 1: gonna say, I'm just I'm just I'm just talking now,
• 26:50
  Speaker 1: I'm just a talker, talking head um, no action involved.
• 26:54
  Speaker 1: But you know Ashley, who she reminds me of who
• 26:57
  Speaker 1: We used to talk about a lot. Who I got
• 27:00
  Speaker 1: to know a little bit, not a lot outside the show.
• 27:02
  Speaker 1: She's great. Is there the Whitney Friends way? I think
• 27:06
  Speaker 1: her name is um Oh, yeah, she's beautiful, gorgeous. We
• 27:11
  Speaker 1: watched that season, We're like, why isn't she shown more
• 27:13
  Speaker 1: like she is, like stunning, and then they just never
• 27:18
  Speaker 1: did and then she was gone and we never got
• 27:19
  Speaker 1: to know anything about Whitney. That's so crazy about Whitney
• 27:23
  Speaker 1: is that she made it to like top eight, but
• 27:25
  Speaker 1: we still never really got to know her, just like
• 27:26
  Speaker 1: on my season, we never got to Samantha until Paradise.
• 27:30
  Speaker 1: I think Samantha had two lines on my tea then. Yeah,
• 27:36
  Speaker 1: it's really weird. It's kind of there. There's always that
• 27:38
  Speaker 1: that one that is beautiful, stunning, But we don't see
• 27:41
  Speaker 1: a lot from will be in see if we we
• 27:43
  Speaker 1: see much from Bree. Uh. Hey, Ash, I know that
• 27:46
  Speaker 1: you've called in to talk back, So we've also caught
• 27:49
  Speaker 1: in to tell all of our listeners about one of
• 27:52
  Speaker 1: you and Jared's favorite brands. Yeah. So recently Jared and
• 27:56
  Speaker 1: I registered at greaton Barrel and it was a really
• 27:58
  Speaker 1: fun morning that we had to go. We went in
• 28:01
  Speaker 1: and we discovered that we wanted so many Houselar items
• 28:05
  Speaker 1: that we really never even thought of like once before
• 28:08
  Speaker 1: in our life, but then you see it, You're like,
• 28:10
  Speaker 1: oh my gosh, I want to have that. I think
• 28:13
  Speaker 1: we could have registered for everything in that store if
• 28:16
  Speaker 1: we had, you know, multiple huge houses, but we seriously
• 28:20
  Speaker 1: wanted everything right there. Yeah. Well this is Jared by
• 28:23
  Speaker 1: the way time because my ears worked up. It was
• 28:27
  Speaker 1: probably one of the coolest days because it feels like
• 28:30
  Speaker 1: you're just shopping for free. And I love Grhan Barrow.
• 28:32
  Speaker 1: We watched a lot of you know, uh house Owners
• 28:36
  Speaker 1: at TV all that good stuff, so now we're very
• 28:38
  Speaker 1: much into buying for our dream home one day and
• 28:41
  Speaker 1: so going to gran Barrow's like ooh I like that,
• 28:44
  Speaker 1: Oh I like this. It felt like we were shopping
• 28:45
  Speaker 1: for free, which was awesome. He means shopping for free
• 28:48
  Speaker 1: because the registry so that people are going to mean
• 28:51
  Speaker 1: buy and for us and we can stick out where
• 28:53
  Speaker 1: we walk and not have to actually spriend the money. Um.
• 28:56
  Speaker 1: I love the fact that if we were debating on something, well,
• 29:00
  Speaker 1: we didn't know we were going to want it in
• 29:01
  Speaker 1: the store and then we came home we were still
• 29:04
  Speaker 1: thinking about it. We can go online or on the
• 29:06
  Speaker 1: apps and just added to our registry. And I think
• 29:09
  Speaker 1: we're even gonna go shop a little bit more this
• 29:12
  Speaker 1: week and registried for some more things because just like
• 29:14
  Speaker 1: browsing around the store is so much fun. Um, the
• 29:18
  Speaker 1: Crate and Barrel employees are so knowledgeable about all the products,
• 29:21
  Speaker 1: so you know that what you're adding key registry is
• 29:24
  Speaker 1: perfect for your home and lifestyle. And what I love
• 29:27
  Speaker 1: is that Straight and Barrel has these pieces that are
• 29:29
  Speaker 1: there timeless, they're classics. They are going to go with
• 29:34
  Speaker 1: whatever short of decor you're gonna make your house, even
• 29:38
  Speaker 1: in ten years, you know. Yeah, it was just so
• 29:41
  Speaker 1: much fun when we were in there. We're even thinking
• 29:43
  Speaker 1: about eating healthier because there are so many tools to
• 29:46
  Speaker 1: make food healthy. Food's fun. I was like, I need
• 29:49
  Speaker 1: to do sir. I want that mixer. I want that
• 29:52
  Speaker 1: um like the salad toss or you know, the one
• 29:56
  Speaker 1: that cleans your lettuce. I would eat salad so more
• 30:00
  Speaker 1: if I had the solid cleaner. So anyway, because Cranton Barrel,
• 30:04
  Speaker 1: it's great, it's going to evolve with your style. We're
• 30:07
  Speaker 1: going to go back because they can't get enough. And
• 30:10
  Speaker 1: you can start your registry at Cranton Barrel now at
• 30:13
  Speaker 1: Cranon Barrel dot COM's last gift registry, So head over
• 30:16
  Speaker 1: to Cranton Barrel dot com and start your your Creton
• 30:20
  Speaker 1: Barrel wedding registry right now, ash before you go, I know,
• 30:27
  Speaker 1: are you able to hang out on the beach at
• 30:29
  Speaker 1: all with Jared? This week we hung out a little
• 30:32
  Speaker 1: bit on the beach. I like in this old part
• 30:36
  Speaker 1: now because I like want to lie in bed and
• 30:40
  Speaker 1: get extra sleep when we are on like a working vacation,
• 30:43
  Speaker 1: then lie out and get tanned. Like I know I'm
• 30:45
  Speaker 1: old now because getting tan is not the point of
• 30:48
  Speaker 1: a vacation. Just getting restive, Ashley, I love you. You've
• 30:53
  Speaker 1: just this is the weirdest year of my life to
• 30:55
  Speaker 1: just watch you transition. This is the best ever. That's
• 30:59
  Speaker 1: so on it. That's not actually I knew a year ago.
• 31:03
  Speaker 1: I know it's kind of sad. Oh no, you're doing great. Um,
• 31:08
  Speaker 1: But I really want to hear how you and Kindle
• 31:14
  Speaker 1: feel about Demmi. This is a topic that's blowing up
• 31:17
  Speaker 1: our emails. Our Twitter handle is going crazy. People can't
• 31:21
  Speaker 1: figure out Demi. They don't hate her, you know, she's
• 31:24
  Speaker 1: not a villain. She's just confusing. And I want to
• 31:28
  Speaker 1: hear it. You and kindle thing kindall you go first. Um,
• 31:33
  Speaker 1: I think she's adorable. At the same time, it's the
• 31:36
  Speaker 1: age shaming is difficult for me to get over. I
• 31:39
  Speaker 1: feel like, um, I feel like it's already difficult to
• 31:43
  Speaker 1: go into a situation with a bunch of younger girls,
• 31:45
  Speaker 1: and if you are older than the bachelor, Um, it's,
• 31:49
  Speaker 1: you know, it's not as easy. And I see that
• 31:51
  Speaker 1: she's been making fun of Tracy a lot, and um,
• 31:56
  Speaker 1: I don't know, it kind of makes me cringe a
• 31:58
  Speaker 1: little bit. It doesn't make me cringe a little bit.
• 32:00
  Speaker 1: I don't know if she's intending to be mean or
• 32:03
  Speaker 1: ages at all, but um, it's you know, it kind
• 32:07
  Speaker 1: of left you the bad taste in my mouth about her.
• 32:10
  Speaker 1: I think he's just being a total ham. I think
• 32:13
  Speaker 1: she's just saying anything that's gonna like stir people. I
• 32:17
  Speaker 1: don't think she's a villain like he said, Ben, She's
• 32:21
  Speaker 1: she's a born villain. If that's she supposed to be,
• 32:24
  Speaker 1: She's really just a pestimate. I'm like, I'm not even
• 32:27
  Speaker 1: laughing at you, because a lot of the times villains
• 32:30
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  Speaker 1: I want to talk a little bit about the one
• 36:58
  Speaker 1: on one with the least I think Erica is going
• 37:01
  Speaker 1: to fall in love with this person after this day
• 37:04
  Speaker 1: at least showed herself to be um, elegant, poised, just
• 37:11
  Speaker 1: she just showed herself to be an amazing woman. And
• 37:14
  Speaker 1: and for that I I fell in love with I
• 37:16
  Speaker 1: thought she was absolutely terrific and just a really good
• 37:18
  Speaker 1: catch no matter who you know falls for. Oh, she
• 37:21
  Speaker 1: has a tremendous amount of kindness, and she just also
• 37:24
  Speaker 1: seems to be so well spoken and very mature. I
• 37:28
  Speaker 1: I definitely, I definitely love seeing a lot of her
• 37:30
  Speaker 1: on that one on one date. It's one of those
• 37:33
  Speaker 1: dates though that were like, Okay, that was a defining
• 37:36
  Speaker 1: moment in this season. It was incredible to watch. But
• 37:39
  Speaker 1: there isn't a lot to talk about other than the
• 37:42
  Speaker 1: fact that her story is impactful and incredible and she's
• 37:45
  Speaker 1: used it. Like she said, I thought this was the
• 37:47
  Speaker 1: cool thing that got me just so hyped um listening
• 37:50
  Speaker 1: to her was she said, you know, those pain, those
• 37:52
  Speaker 1: those tough things in life, we can use as a
• 37:53
  Speaker 1: platform to make something better. Uh, And that really to
• 37:57
  Speaker 1: me kind of defined the whole date is this woman
• 37:59
  Speaker 1: is used in her platform now to makes life better
• 38:02
  Speaker 1: for somebody else, and so for me, I just I
• 38:05
  Speaker 1: think Elise is just a catch and I'm excited to
• 38:07
  Speaker 1: get to know her better through this season. Same same,
• 38:09
  Speaker 1: I'm very excited to get to know her moving on. Then, Uh,
• 38:14
  Speaker 1: we'll mark Elise's date up to an A plus. We'll
• 38:16
  Speaker 1: say it was great. Uh, we're really really just thankful
• 38:19
  Speaker 1: that she's on this season and that we again, you know,
• 38:22
  Speaker 1: as a Bachelor Nation contestant, that somebody like her comes
• 38:26
  Speaker 1: onto this show because it just represents this whole thing
• 38:29
  Speaker 1: a lot better. And somebody else that represents Batchel Nation
• 38:33
  Speaker 1: really well. Is our next in studio guest, Rebecca Cruizes
• 38:36
  Speaker 1: in studio with us right now. Rebecca, Welcome to the
• 38:39
  Speaker 1: Almost famous podcast. What's good guys? How are you? I'm
• 38:43
  Speaker 1: glad to be here. We are just a little bit
• 38:46
  Speaker 1: of briefing. We saw Rebecca and her husband Terry on
• 38:49
  Speaker 1: this last episode of The Bachelor, leading the women through
• 38:55
  Speaker 1: their final group day of the episode. Rebecca, I know
• 38:59
  Speaker 1: Kennell's got a was in questions. I want to start
• 39:02
  Speaker 1: by saying, how in the world did you get on
• 39:05
  Speaker 1: this show? Uh? Well, you know what I got on
• 39:09
  Speaker 1: the show because I've been married for thirty years to
• 39:11
  Speaker 1: this amazing actor. Who um people too, I guess people
• 39:16
  Speaker 1: seem to think we know something since we survived the
• 39:19
  Speaker 1: NFL and Hollywood together, and um, you know, we had
• 39:22
  Speaker 1: a reality show a few years back, and so we've
• 39:25
  Speaker 1: just gotten a lot of love and respect and support
• 39:28
  Speaker 1: for our family on for the dynamic of our marriage.
• 39:32
  Speaker 1: We've been through a lot, and somebody, you know, some
• 39:35
  Speaker 1: power that'd be, decided that we should come on and
• 39:38
  Speaker 1: give some advice and it was tremendously exciting to do so.
• 39:43
  Speaker 1: I absolutely loved that date because you see a different
• 39:46
  Speaker 1: side of someone when they are pushed to their limit. Pasically,
• 39:50
  Speaker 1: did you see? I mean, which girls stood out to you?
• 39:54
  Speaker 1: That's that's interesting. You were talking about Elise. Yes, Um,
• 40:00
  Speaker 1: I won't say that she stood out physically, but she
• 40:03
  Speaker 1: did stand out in that I felt that Colton ran
• 40:07
  Speaker 1: to her aid quite frequently, Like when she was pushing
• 40:11
  Speaker 1: the little sled and couldn't get it out of the rocks.
• 40:14
  Speaker 1: You know, he jumped right off his spot and ran
• 40:17
  Speaker 1: in there to rescue her, and did that more than once.
• 40:20
  Speaker 1: And I was like, somebody has captured the heart. I'm
• 40:24
  Speaker 1: so telling. It's so telling when you want to be
• 40:25
  Speaker 1: a teammate with somebody and help them, it's such a
• 40:29
  Speaker 1: male thing, right to rescue, to dive in. You know,
• 40:32
  Speaker 1: my husband will see me carrying a suitcase I'm perfectly
• 40:35
  Speaker 1: capable of handling and he comes running and Paypa, I
• 40:38
  Speaker 1: got that. I got that. Don't that looks that's not
• 40:41
  Speaker 1: a good look for you to be struggling with the
• 40:42
  Speaker 1: suitcase and a gentleman, yes, very much. Email is of
• 40:46
  Speaker 1: course capable of doing that, but wanting to be there
• 40:49
  Speaker 1: and wanting to support her right. And look, we're we
• 40:52
  Speaker 1: give birth to children, We do all kinds of very
• 40:55
  Speaker 1: tough physical things. Yes, but that doesn't mean that I
• 40:58
  Speaker 1: want to love my own fifty suitcase through l a X.
• 41:01
  Speaker 1: You know, I'm like, thank you, honey, I'll take it.
• 41:04
  Speaker 1: And what was it? What was your favorite challenge on
• 41:06
  Speaker 1: that date? My favorite challenge had to be what was
• 41:13
  Speaker 1: this one where they run with with the big heart?
• 41:16
  Speaker 1: They had to run with the heart and put it
• 41:18
  Speaker 1: up on the pedestal her she was struggling. I saw
• 41:23
  Speaker 1: her arm shaking as she was putting it on top
• 41:25
  Speaker 1: of the pedestal. I I love that because, um, it's
• 41:29
  Speaker 1: exciting to watch people run and to watch them carry things. Um,
• 41:33
  Speaker 1: some of the others like watching them push the sled.
• 41:36
  Speaker 1: I just thought, why are we doing this in this
• 41:38
  Speaker 1: ugly lot with rocks? And pulling the limo too? Yeah, okay,
• 41:43
  Speaker 1: I almost feel like who was the first girl that
• 41:47
  Speaker 1: pulled the limo? I almost feel like there were the
• 41:48
  Speaker 1: brakes on with the limo on the first limo, one
• 41:52
  Speaker 1: of those two, and then the second one. It just
• 41:55
  Speaker 1: seems so easy, yeah, to like, you know, that's that's
• 42:00
  Speaker 1: reality television, right, It's so real. I was like, Rebecca,
• 42:06
  Speaker 1: fill me in a little bit. So how hard is
• 42:08
  Speaker 1: it to pool of mill? Well, in reality, if a
• 42:12
  Speaker 1: car is in neutral, you know, a couple, a couple
• 42:15
  Speaker 1: of females could push a car. But pushing is a
• 42:19
  Speaker 1: stronger position of strength than pulling. Pulling is very difficult.
• 42:22
  Speaker 1: So you know, just I was, I used to play track,
• 42:25
  Speaker 1: run track, and play basketball, and I lift weights, and
• 42:28
  Speaker 1: I can tell you a woman's strength is in her
• 42:30
  Speaker 1: lower body. So to get behind a car and push
• 42:33
  Speaker 1: it is not nearly as difficult as like using that
• 42:37
  Speaker 1: upper body torque and and trying to walk forward. You know,
• 42:42
  Speaker 1: somebody thought that was a good idea. All I was
• 42:46
  Speaker 1: thinking is we're gonna have to fix this real quick.
• 42:49
  Speaker 1: You know what I mean tracking across country as well
• 42:53
  Speaker 1: college and um, definitely, I mean I think the legs
• 42:56
  Speaker 1: of the Powerhouse of the Woman. Yeah, and so in
• 42:59
  Speaker 1: those challenges, I like the challenge I would probably like
• 43:01
  Speaker 1: the most there was I probably would have liked the
• 43:04
  Speaker 1: medicine ball one the most because you can transfer the
• 43:06
  Speaker 1: weight to your legs and you know, and it was
• 43:08
  Speaker 1: just it was just fun to watch. It's just fun
• 43:10
  Speaker 1: to watch someone pick something up and run with it.
• 43:12
  Speaker 1: You know. It's why we love those silly little obstacle
• 43:15
  Speaker 1: games and you know, watch them fall or can they
• 43:18
  Speaker 1: balance it? You know, and it's quick motion, you know.
• 43:21
  Speaker 1: Some of the other challenges, Um, we're kind of slow
• 43:25
  Speaker 1: and laborious. And then like you know, the ring thing,
• 43:28
  Speaker 1: hold the thing together. It's it's it's hard to do,
• 43:31
  Speaker 1: but it's not real fun to watch. Well, it's interesting
• 43:33
  Speaker 1: because in terms of the dynamic of the girls because
• 43:36
  Speaker 1: we're on week three, now, Um, how did you how
• 43:40
  Speaker 1: was it observing all the girls trying to vibe and
• 43:44
  Speaker 1: it's more aggressive And now I will confess I don't
• 43:48
  Speaker 1: remember everybody, but there I'm looking at their pictures. Hold on,
• 43:51
  Speaker 1: I'm looking at their pictures and I remember one girl.
• 43:54
  Speaker 1: Every time she came running around the ring, she was
• 43:57
  Speaker 1: jumping up, hugging Colton. Should you trying a little hard? Rebecca?
• 44:02
  Speaker 1: As we as we continue on here, if if you
• 44:05
  Speaker 1: could give one piece of advice these women right, and
• 44:08
  Speaker 1: not on the Bachelor, and not how to get through
• 44:10
  Speaker 1: reality television, but just how to build and find that
• 44:14
  Speaker 1: relationship that matters? What would you and Terry say? Now
• 44:18
  Speaker 1: now you write up my alley, honeygun, because let me
• 44:20
  Speaker 1: tell you something. I'm working on a book called How
• 44:23
  Speaker 1: to Find and Marry the Right Man, and they're they're
• 44:26
  Speaker 1: the One thing that I absolutely say about this process,
• 44:32
  Speaker 1: this journey of finding the person that you think you
• 44:35
  Speaker 1: want to spend your life with, is that first of all,
• 44:38
  Speaker 1: you have to know who you are and what you
• 44:41
  Speaker 1: really want there there are so many people who fall
• 44:44
  Speaker 1: in love with someone who does not want the same
• 44:47
  Speaker 1: things they want in life, and then you're in love,
• 44:50
  Speaker 1: but you're in disagreement, you're not on the same path,
• 44:53
  Speaker 1: and ultimately those choices um dissolve your union. You know,
• 44:58
  Speaker 1: I've seen people that are dating each other live together.
• 45:00
  Speaker 1: He wants kids and she doesn't. That's a very big
• 45:04
  Speaker 1: deal breaker. She's a huge deal breaker. Um career. I
• 45:09
  Speaker 1: knew that I wanted to marry somebody in the arts
• 45:11
  Speaker 1: because that's what I was doing. And and so, believe
• 45:15
  Speaker 1: it or not, I made a list. Okay, Boo had
• 45:18
  Speaker 1: to fill out an application to get with me because
• 45:21
  Speaker 1: I had a list of all these things. I said,
• 45:23
  Speaker 1: he has to want kids at least four. He has
• 45:27
  Speaker 1: to love the arts, either music or acting or turned out,
• 45:31
  Speaker 1: my husband was a visual artist and he also was
• 45:34
  Speaker 1: a breakdancer back in the day, which you've gout have
• 45:36
  Speaker 1: seen him doing all these movies. Um, so he loved performing,
• 45:40
  Speaker 1: though that wasn't what he was studying in school. And uh,
• 45:43
  Speaker 1: and then I said, you know, I want a man
• 45:45
  Speaker 1: who has faith. I want someone that shares my values,
• 45:49
  Speaker 1: you know. And I kind of had this list, you know,
• 45:53
  Speaker 1: this kind of picture, and I had a picture of
• 45:55
  Speaker 1: where I wanted to go. So if you want to
• 45:57
  Speaker 1: go work on the pipeline in Alaska, I'm not dating you.
• 46:01
  Speaker 1: I'm not going to Alaska. Okay. I grew up in
• 46:04
  Speaker 1: the cold. I grew up in Indiana, went to college
• 46:06
  Speaker 1: in Michigan. I wanted to live in the warm weather.
• 46:09
  Speaker 1: So when my timeca where you grew up in Indiana, Gary, Indiana. Honey, Michael, Yes,
• 46:19
  Speaker 1: so who you're in the house but you. But you've
• 46:28
  Speaker 1: got to know who you are and what you want,
• 46:30
  Speaker 1: and then you got to know what you don't want.
• 46:33
  Speaker 1: You know, if you're dating a guy who doesn't pay
• 46:35
  Speaker 1: his bills, that's not gonna be cute when he's your husband.
• 46:40
  Speaker 1: You know, because one thing I remember, my my pastor
• 46:44
  Speaker 1: said to me years ago before he married my husband
• 46:46
  Speaker 1: and I He said, you have to love him enough
• 46:49
  Speaker 1: that if you close your eyes today and he never changes,
• 46:53
  Speaker 1: could you live with him the rest of your life.
• 46:55
  Speaker 1: I was just talking about that with my friend and saying,
• 46:58
  Speaker 1: you don't want to walk down the eyele with somebody
• 47:01
  Speaker 1: that you feel like, oh, there's something that's a little
• 47:04
  Speaker 1: bit off. But we'll figure this out as we go on. Honey,
• 47:07
  Speaker 1: You're gonna be living with it, is what you're gonna do.
• 47:10
  Speaker 1: Because because people don't change a whole lot. I'm not
• 47:13
  Speaker 1: saying people don't grow and change, but you cannot live
• 47:18
  Speaker 1: um in a loving relationship always trying to change someone.
• 47:22
  Speaker 1: And listen, we all do. We all have things that
• 47:25
  Speaker 1: we wish they do better. Pick up your clothes or
• 47:29
  Speaker 1: clothes the youth based or put the seat down or
• 47:31
  Speaker 1: you know, those are little things, but if you have major,
• 47:34
  Speaker 1: major disagreements about what you want in life, no amount
• 47:39
  Speaker 1: of force is going to turn that person into your
• 47:44
  Speaker 1: your dream spouse or your dream lover. It's it's um,
• 47:48
  Speaker 1: It's a good bit of wisdom that I took, and
• 47:52
  Speaker 1: I believe with all my heart. It's why I still
• 47:54
  Speaker 1: am married to my college sweetheart. Yeah. And I think
• 47:57
  Speaker 1: the most important thing for me, especially one thing that
• 48:00
  Speaker 1: has been different with Joe than anyone else that have
• 48:02
  Speaker 1: ever dated is that his amount of kindness and empathy
• 48:06
  Speaker 1: towards other people, right, it is remarkable and that's a huge,
• 48:10
  Speaker 1: huge thing for me. And also finding someone I could
• 48:13
  Speaker 1: laugh at with my family one of the major if
• 48:17
  Speaker 1: we whenever we went through something heartbreaking or difficult, we
• 48:21
  Speaker 1: would learn to laugh at it. And so I feel
• 48:23
  Speaker 1: like having the same humor is incredibly important as well.
• 48:26
  Speaker 1: And seeing a best friend in somebody. Yes, I always
• 48:30
  Speaker 1: say that I married my best friend. Um. People ask
• 48:33
  Speaker 1: me this on the red carpet all the time. What
• 48:35
  Speaker 1: is the secret? And the answer that I typically give
• 48:39
  Speaker 1: is what I call the F word forgiveness, Because you
• 48:43
  Speaker 1: have to let things go. You you know, it's very
• 48:46
  Speaker 1: easy to pick up a little grudges in your marriage
• 48:49
  Speaker 1: and you just look up one day and you're just
• 48:51
  Speaker 1: mad about everything. You're just mad, you know. And But
• 48:54
  Speaker 1: the other thing that I always say is Mary your friend.
• 48:59
  Speaker 1: Um I, it's cliche. You probably hear people say it
• 49:02
  Speaker 1: all the time, but there are times that just my
• 49:05
  Speaker 1: friendship with Terry has kept us together, just my love
• 49:09
  Speaker 1: for him as a person as a human being. When
• 49:13
  Speaker 1: the romance wasn't great, or the kids were given us hell,
• 49:17
  Speaker 1: or the finances were bad, I still was so rooting
• 49:20
  Speaker 1: for him as a person and he was rooting for
• 49:23
  Speaker 1: me that um I couldn't imagine life without him. It just,
• 49:28
  Speaker 1: you know, you know what I'm saying. He's still someone
• 49:30
  Speaker 1: I generally just like to be around. So and and
• 49:35
  Speaker 1: a lot of women sleep on that. Now I'm gonna
• 49:37
  Speaker 1: school some of you young chicks, okay, some of you.
• 49:40
  Speaker 1: Some of them get caught up in the game. They're
• 49:43
  Speaker 1: caught up in. But he's not making the money yet.
• 49:46
  Speaker 1: And he my husband was broke. Okay when we got married,
• 49:50
  Speaker 1: we were both broke. I was actually the breadwinner when
• 49:53
  Speaker 1: we got married, and I paid the bills, and but
• 49:57
  Speaker 1: I knew what was inside of Terry, you know what
• 50:00
  Speaker 1: I'm saying. And so many times, you know, when we
• 50:04
  Speaker 1: make that list, Well, he's got to be, you know,
• 50:07
  Speaker 1: six ft three, and he's got to be muscular, and
• 50:10
  Speaker 1: he's got to be financially stable, and he's got no kids.
• 50:14
  Speaker 1: Well a lot of people have kids nowadays, you know
• 50:17
  Speaker 1: what I'm saying. So, so the core of who a
• 50:21
  Speaker 1: person is, the core of their character, is really the
• 50:25
  Speaker 1: only value judgment that you have. It really really is,
• 50:29
  Speaker 1: because those outer circumstances will change. Yeah, And I've it's interesting.
• 50:34
  Speaker 1: Love is never what you expect it to be. I think.
• 50:38
  Speaker 1: I also had a whole list of things that I
• 50:40
  Speaker 1: wanted the person that I dated to fulfill. And um,
• 50:43
  Speaker 1: I learned with Joe that you know, you you have
• 50:48
  Speaker 1: to have the core things at the same time. You
• 50:51
  Speaker 1: can't look at somebody and say you are responsible for
• 50:54
  Speaker 1: my happiness. And a lot of the time I would
• 50:56
  Speaker 1: look at people that I dated, and if I felt
• 50:59
  Speaker 1: like I was in a bad mood, I would look
• 51:00
  Speaker 1: at them and say, you should make me feel happy.
• 51:03
  Speaker 1: Can you read my mind and tell me that I'm upset?
• 51:06
  Speaker 1: There's no such thing as that you have to people
• 51:08
  Speaker 1: don't know how you feel unless you tell them, and
• 51:11
  Speaker 1: that goes both ways. Um, I always find that I
• 51:15
  Speaker 1: don't what's the right word. I've heard it said that
• 51:19
  Speaker 1: men only use so many words in a day, and
• 51:22
  Speaker 1: that you know, men use fifteen thousand, women use twenty
• 51:25
  Speaker 1: thou right, these are all all these I read a
• 51:28
  Speaker 1: book by Dr Debratan in years ago called you Just
• 51:31
  Speaker 1: Don't Understand, And she's a sociologist, and this is some
• 51:35
  Speaker 1: older research, but it still proves true that the way
• 51:39
  Speaker 1: we communicate is very different. And so a man will
• 51:42
  Speaker 1: think he told you how he feels. But to me,
• 51:45
  Speaker 1: I'm like, you didn't say anything. You know that gave
• 51:48
  Speaker 1: me a clue to what's going on inside you. And
• 51:52
  Speaker 1: and so that non verbal that you know, my husband
• 51:59
  Speaker 1: may not all always say honey, I'm pissed about what
• 52:02
  Speaker 1: you said to me, but his action will show me.
• 52:06
  Speaker 1: You know, he'll do something a little um, a little snide,
• 52:10
  Speaker 1: and I'll go, what's wrong with you? You You know? And
• 52:13
  Speaker 1: he'll go, well, you were cracking on my lumps in
• 52:15
  Speaker 1: my head, and I'm like, well, I was kidding, you know,
• 52:19
  Speaker 1: because we joke a lot in our house. But but
• 52:23
  Speaker 1: he won't always verbally, verbally tell me that I hurt
• 52:27
  Speaker 1: his feelings. I was speaking with my friend about this earlier. Um.
• 52:30
  Speaker 1: Whenever you date somebody, it's almost as if it's a
• 52:32
  Speaker 1: different language, and you have to learn that language the
• 52:35
  Speaker 1: more you're with them. And so whenever Joe and I
• 52:38
  Speaker 1: are in an argument, UM, I'll always pause and say,
• 52:42
  Speaker 1: I still don't understand you completely. I'm still learning about
• 52:46
  Speaker 1: how to handle things and how to deal with things.
• 52:48
  Speaker 1: So it's a constant, very much like you're learning a
• 52:51
  Speaker 1: different language or a diffistument. You have to put work
• 52:54
  Speaker 1: in and slowly you will master that instrument. No, absolutely,
• 52:59
  Speaker 1: UM sensitivity to UM. I'm a mom, just like with
• 53:04
  Speaker 1: my kids. My daughter won't say anything when she's upset,
• 53:09
  Speaker 1: but she'll go to the fridge and right, so I'll
• 53:13
  Speaker 1: be like, what's wrong. You know, what's wrong, honey bear nothing.
• 53:18
  Speaker 1: My My daughter Winnie is about to be sixteen, and
• 53:22
  Speaker 1: she just auditioned for a performing arts high school that
• 53:25
  Speaker 1: she's wanted to go to, and she's very nervous and
• 53:28
  Speaker 1: she's a shy girl, and um, you know has had
• 53:32
  Speaker 1: some struggles with school. So we all know when Winnie's upset.
• 53:36
  Speaker 1: There's certain things she does, you know, And so you
• 53:40
  Speaker 1: tend to feel that way about kids, you know, you
• 53:43
  Speaker 1: tend to feel like you can read them. But I
• 53:45
  Speaker 1: tend to feel with an adult, use your words. You
• 53:49
  Speaker 1: can say how you feel. You can tell me that
• 53:51
  Speaker 1: piste you off, you can tell me right. But I
• 53:54
  Speaker 1: find I have a male child, He's my only boy,
• 53:57
  Speaker 1: and I find that this thing is genetic, this tendency
• 54:02
  Speaker 1: to express things another way, Like like my brother used
• 54:06
  Speaker 1: to do. If I teased him about his his um
• 54:09
  Speaker 1: ugly shirt, he just hit me. Yeah. He wouldn't say
• 54:14
  Speaker 1: dangs this that was cold. He just popped me. You know,
• 54:17
  Speaker 1: it's more action. You Actually my brother was the same way,
• 54:20
  Speaker 1: where well usually my my sister and I would always
• 54:24
  Speaker 1: let's say everything right almost, you know, just like it
• 54:27
  Speaker 1: was like a storm of emotions and it was very
• 54:31
  Speaker 1: quiet and kept to himself. It's in a relationship, it's
• 54:33
  Speaker 1: important to know what kind of person you're you're with. Also,
• 54:37
  Speaker 1: I feel like I feel like you do a lot
• 54:40
  Speaker 1: of growing in a relationship and you can adjust to
• 54:42
  Speaker 1: knowing how you work together. You know, with with Joe
• 54:45
  Speaker 1: and I, in the beginning, it was a little bit difficult.
• 54:47
  Speaker 1: He's a little more reserved. And then later on in
• 54:50
  Speaker 1: our relationship, you start to see someone in his safety,
• 54:54
  Speaker 1: you know, and that's extremely important. You never want to
• 54:57
  Speaker 1: betray the trust of someone when they do put up
• 55:00
  Speaker 1: to you and maybe they don't open up to everybody else.
• 55:02
  Speaker 1: And the reason why I feel so special with Joe
• 55:04
  Speaker 1: is that he isn't very open with everybody, but he's
• 55:07
  Speaker 1: open with me. And you have to honor that trust
• 55:10
  Speaker 1: and you have to preserve it. And so that's I
• 55:14
  Speaker 1: think that's one of the most beautiful things in a relationship,
• 55:16
  Speaker 1: is to be the safety for someone and then they're there.
• 55:19
  Speaker 1: Well see. And the problem is, I'm married to a comedian,
• 55:23
  Speaker 1: So say there's no safety in my house. Look, I
• 55:26
  Speaker 1: tell my husband something personal. He will play the he
• 55:30
  Speaker 1: will go on stage and he will play the dozens
• 55:33
  Speaker 1: on me in a minute. My husband grew up in
• 55:34
  Speaker 1: a home where they played the dozens. Now do y'all,
• 55:36
  Speaker 1: y'all know what playing the dozen? Okay, this is? This
• 55:39
  Speaker 1: is this is a good term for putting everybody down. Okay.
• 55:44
  Speaker 1: So playing the dozens is when you get in the
• 55:46
  Speaker 1: circle and you say, your mom is so big, she
• 55:48
  Speaker 1: walked around the house, and she walks around the house, right.
• 55:52
  Speaker 1: And then the other kid replies back, you'll face so ugly.
• 55:55
  Speaker 1: Even mother and nature don't want to look at you.
• 55:57
  Speaker 1: And and it's a game, and they go back and forth. Now,
• 56:00
  Speaker 1: I did not grow up with this behavior in my home.
• 56:03
  Speaker 1: Um though I am. My mother is African American. I
• 56:07
  Speaker 1: grew up in this kind of fluffy, educated, stuffy um
• 56:13
  Speaker 1: upper middle class family. Right, we sat around the dinner table,
• 56:16
  Speaker 1: we dressed up, we tucked our napkins in, and we
• 56:19
  Speaker 1: spoke very politely to each other at the table. So
• 56:22
  Speaker 1: I show up at my husband's Thanksgiving dinner with his
• 56:25
  Speaker 1: family and they're all insulting each other. Right, They're all like,
• 56:30
  Speaker 1: you got a big kid, you got a big nose.
• 56:32
  Speaker 1: But but and they're all laughing, and I'm going clutch
• 56:35
  Speaker 1: my pearls. And so my husband is ruthless. You know,
• 56:41
  Speaker 1: you've seen how funny he is on TV, and he's
• 56:42
  Speaker 1: very charming and likable and he is. But at home
• 56:46
  Speaker 1: at Thanksgiving, it's like, Mommy got to be a kid,
• 56:49
  Speaker 1: you know, or you know. And I'm like, Terry, you're
• 56:52
  Speaker 1: teaching the children to be disrespectful. He's like whatever, and
• 56:56
  Speaker 1: then they all jump in, but then we all turned.
• 56:58
  Speaker 1: I call him milked at his and then they call
• 57:01
  Speaker 1: him milk dead head, and then it's therapeutic to be
• 57:03
  Speaker 1: able to be fund of each other very much though, Rebecca,
• 57:07
  Speaker 1: I think this is like you're touching on what so
• 57:09
  Speaker 1: many people have wondered. And one of the questions that
• 57:12
  Speaker 1: our listeners has written in for you is, you know,
• 57:14
  Speaker 1: how do you make this thing work? Which I obviously
• 57:16
  Speaker 1: ask you, and you're touching on it. There's an authenticity
• 57:18
  Speaker 1: and genuineness to your relationship with Terry that we all see, UM,
• 57:22
  Speaker 1: and you know, with your your background of faith in
• 57:25
  Speaker 1: your background and your commitment to Terry, it's really awesome
• 57:28
  Speaker 1: for so many young people out there to kind of
• 57:30
  Speaker 1: use you too as a representation of how a couple operates.
• 57:34
  Speaker 1: Before you go, UM, because I know you're busy, h
• 57:38
  Speaker 1: we really want to say thank you for coming on
• 57:39
  Speaker 1: The Bachelor and thank you for com on the podcast.
• 57:41
  Speaker 1: Is there anything out there that you you know, your book,
• 57:44
  Speaker 1: you're you're obviously talking about any projects that you and
• 57:47
  Speaker 1: Terry working on together, any projects that Terry's working on
• 57:49
  Speaker 1: that you're working working on that you'd like to tell
• 57:50
  Speaker 1: our listeners about. Oh sure, well, since mommy is on
• 57:54
  Speaker 1: the podcast today, I'm gonna talk about my music project.
• 57:57
  Speaker 1: I have some singles out on iTunes, spot of by
• 58:00
  Speaker 1: all those places under both Rebecca Cruz and my alter
• 58:03
  Speaker 1: ego is Regina Madre, and all those songs are up
• 58:07
  Speaker 1: on iTunes, Destiny, occup pulling on one, goodbuyington really awesome
• 58:11
  Speaker 1: music that I'm promoting as an independent artist. So check
• 58:14
  Speaker 1: me out in the music scene. Uh, doing a lot
• 58:17
  Speaker 1: more press and performances on that and doing new music.
• 58:19
  Speaker 1: So new music coming out. Husband and I are working
• 58:22
  Speaker 1: on a book together, um yet untitled about UM, not
• 58:26
  Speaker 1: just about marriage, but about overcoming obstacles and finding success
• 58:31
  Speaker 1: in a very various areas of life, marriage, finances, UM,
• 58:36
  Speaker 1: pursuit of career, UM, all the things that people tend
• 58:40
  Speaker 1: to ask us, like how did you make it? How
• 58:42
  Speaker 1: did you stay together? How did you um keep your family?
• 58:46
  Speaker 1: You know, my kids, Thank God? So far nobody's in jail,
• 58:49
  Speaker 1: nobody's on the pole, you know. So at this point
• 58:53
  Speaker 1: is fingers crossed right, and then uh, I am working
• 58:56
  Speaker 1: on some materials of my own, giving advice to women
• 59:00
  Speaker 1: and advice to mother's advice to single women. UM, just
• 59:03
  Speaker 1: the stuff I've lived through. I'm not a PhD. And
• 59:05
  Speaker 1: I'm not a doctor. I just have a degree in
• 59:08
  Speaker 1: the in the um a degree in life and the
• 59:11
  Speaker 1: Book of Life, and UM. We just want to share
• 59:14
  Speaker 1: what we've been through and encourage other people that they
• 59:17
  Speaker 1: can make it where they're trying to go. Thank you
• 59:20
  Speaker 1: so much, Thank you the greatest. Thanks for coming in,
• 59:23
  Speaker 1: Thanks for talking about everything. Tell Terry I'm a big fan, Rebecca.
• 59:26
  Speaker 1: I'm a big fan of you can I and I
• 59:28
  Speaker 1: can tell you that to your face. But tell Terry Forest,
• 59:32
  Speaker 1: thank you for coming on the show. Appreciate you both,
• 59:34
  Speaker 1: and thanks for being an amazing example of how a
• 59:38
  Speaker 1: couple can love and work and like each other for
• 59:40
  Speaker 1: thirty years. I know we got married at ten. Thank
• 59:46
  Speaker 1: you guys. Thank you. Um Kindle, but do you brush
• 59:57
  Speaker 1: your teeth? I do brush my teeth T today? Maybe three?
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  Speaker 1: I had no idea that you had to change your
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  Speaker 1: toothbrush every three months. Yeah, I don't do that. I
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  Speaker 1: don't do that either, and I feel like I should
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  Speaker 1: because I think a smile is like one of the
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  Speaker 1: first things people notice about you. Yeah, I'm pretty gross.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't know if I've changed, you know,
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  Speaker 1: I use it which is quip and uh before quip. Listen,
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  Speaker 1: this is crazy. I don't think I change that travel
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  Speaker 1: like all the bacteria that's living in there, you know,
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  Speaker 1: because you know your mouth is full of just like
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  Speaker 1: first started doing the podcast, and I was like, oh,
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  Speaker 1: I traveled with the same little bag. It's always packed
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  Speaker 1: because I traveled so much. I throw it in my suitcase.
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  Speaker 1: I'm ready to go, and I thought, I don't change
• 1:02:19
  Speaker 1: a lot of this out like I bet I change
• 1:02:23
  Speaker 1: my toothbrush whenever it starts whenever I lose it starts crusting.
• 1:02:27
  Speaker 1: Maybe on the sides. You see the toothpaste. I can't
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  Speaker 1: actually think it's extremely important to um use second hand
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  Speaker 1: find a Coach purse for ten dollars, Anthropology just for
• 1:03:44
  Speaker 1: six dollars, and Lulemon tank for ten dollars. Joe wore
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  Speaker 1: And they have so many cute things. And I had
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• 1:04:23
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• 1:04:25
  Speaker 1: I've definitely been needing coats like that. Um, but I
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  Speaker 1: don't want to spend a lot of money on coats
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• 1:04:45
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  Speaker 1: sims for an extrat off today terms apply. The last
• 1:05:07
  Speaker 1: group day of this episode, uh was interesting. Obviously, we
• 1:05:11
  Speaker 1: just had Rebecca on. She's great, fantastic, great advice from her,
• 1:05:15
  Speaker 1: and I think that's what these women really we're going
• 1:05:17
  Speaker 1: after on the group date. But it's the evening portion
• 1:05:19
  Speaker 1: of we talked about earlier in the podcast that really matters,
• 1:05:22
  Speaker 1: and something major happened. I'll send everything else. It really
• 1:05:25
  Speaker 1: focused on one thing, Colton sending somebody home during the
• 1:05:30
  Speaker 1: group date. UM. I was completely surprised that he sent
• 1:05:33
  Speaker 1: Caitlin home because she seems he seems like he was
• 1:05:35
  Speaker 1: really interested and intrigued by her in the beginning, and
• 1:05:38
  Speaker 1: it is only week three, so you think that he
• 1:05:40
  Speaker 1: would give her more of a chance to show who
• 1:05:43
  Speaker 1: she was. UM. At the same time, if you're not
• 1:05:45
  Speaker 1: interested in someone, you're not interested in somebody, and there's
• 1:05:47
  Speaker 1: no use wasting their time or your time and keeping
• 1:05:49
  Speaker 1: them on UM. But I have to say I was
• 1:05:52
  Speaker 1: not I did not see that coming at all. I
• 1:05:55
  Speaker 1: really respect the kind of the lead that he took there,
• 1:05:58
  Speaker 1: though you could see the conversation wasn't going well. You
• 1:06:01
  Speaker 1: can see it was a little awkward. I mean, I'm
• 1:06:04
  Speaker 1: sure in real life it maybe it was just as awkward.
• 1:06:07
  Speaker 1: There's just some weird responses and some like you can
• 1:06:10
  Speaker 1: just they weren't clicking. He had obviously, that wasn't the
• 1:06:12
  Speaker 1: first time they had talked so this is probably something
• 1:06:14
  Speaker 1: that was building up, and Colton just said, I'm not
• 1:06:17
  Speaker 1: doing it. I'm not gonna bring like drag this girl
• 1:06:20
  Speaker 1: along any longer. It's it's done here for me. I
• 1:06:23
  Speaker 1: thought that was maybe the mark of Colton saying, Okay,
• 1:06:26
  Speaker 1: this is about my experience with these women and these
• 1:06:28
  Speaker 1: this and this is not working. I respected that move.
• 1:06:32
  Speaker 1: I'm proud of him for it. Um. And one other
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  Speaker 1: thing I'm kind of proud of Colding for, even though
• 1:06:37
  Speaker 1: it's not really my place to be proud of him,
• 1:06:39
  Speaker 1: but I guess all the listeners probably are is then, uh,
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  Speaker 1: he cancels the cocktail party to do a pool party,
• 1:06:45
  Speaker 1: and at the pool party, Uh, the Hannah Kaitlin, Uh,
• 1:06:49
  Speaker 1: you know, clause come out again and he doesn't have it.
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  Speaker 1: Where does this go? Now? Where do you see this
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  Speaker 1: one thing ending up? There has to be some sort
• 1:06:59
  Speaker 1: of clarify cation because they're both going back and forth
• 1:07:02
  Speaker 1: and saying the exact same thing. They're both saying the
• 1:07:04
  Speaker 1: other girls untrustworthy, that toxic is a word that they
• 1:07:08
  Speaker 1: use a lot um And you can't say those things
• 1:07:10
  Speaker 1: without having the evidence to back it up. And so
• 1:07:13
  Speaker 1: right now Colton probably has very strong feelings for both girls,
• 1:07:16
  Speaker 1: and he probably wants to keep up both of them around,
• 1:07:18
  Speaker 1: but he's coming to terms of the fact that there
• 1:07:21
  Speaker 1: is an ultimatum and he probably what does have to
• 1:07:23
  Speaker 1: get rid of one of the girls because it's going
• 1:07:24
  Speaker 1: to grow into a bigger deal and distract even more
• 1:07:28
  Speaker 1: um from his relationship with either of them. So I
• 1:07:32
  Speaker 1: can understand the frustration because right now I'm not getting
• 1:07:35
  Speaker 1: any answers. I don't know why they're fighting. I know
• 1:07:38
  Speaker 1: that they were in a competitive environment, which it makes
• 1:07:41
  Speaker 1: sense to not maybe have the best of relationship with
• 1:07:45
  Speaker 1: someone that you're in a competitive environment with, but um, yeah,
• 1:07:49
  Speaker 1: I'm just curious. I don't know why. I also feel
• 1:07:53
  Speaker 1: like with Klin, she there's something that she's not saying,
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  Speaker 1: and I also don't think that um I don't think
• 1:08:00
  Speaker 1: Hannah thinks it's her place to say what Kalin has
• 1:08:03
  Speaker 1: gone through, which I do respect, But I feel like
• 1:08:06
  Speaker 1: Klin does have to open up a little bit more
• 1:08:08
  Speaker 1: to stay because I almost feel like he would send
• 1:08:11
  Speaker 1: both of them home if this isn't resolved. He doesn't
• 1:08:13
  Speaker 1: have any clarification on it. I think we're gonna learn
• 1:08:16
  Speaker 1: a lot about both these people, especially Kalin. I think
• 1:08:20
  Speaker 1: right now, Calin has the upper hand. It's just the
• 1:08:22
  Speaker 1: vengeance of the show and we're seeing it come out.
• 1:08:25
  Speaker 1: But there is I think this story gets a lot deeper.
• 1:08:27
  Speaker 1: I have a feeling that's just a lot more going
• 1:08:30
  Speaker 1: on than what we realized. But they've got to start
• 1:08:34
  Speaker 1: talking right now. Just we don't We just don't know.
• 1:08:36
  Speaker 1: I will say one thing I took away from that
• 1:08:38
  Speaker 1: scene is never make a ridiculously wild monster face on
• 1:08:44
  Speaker 1: national television and then drag it out. I mean, Hannah
• 1:08:48
  Speaker 1: will never live that down. That will become a jif,
• 1:08:50
  Speaker 1: that will be used over and over again forever and ever,
• 1:08:53
  Speaker 1: just her. I personally think that was epic. I loved
• 1:08:56
  Speaker 1: that face. I'm sure it was wild. She for it.
• 1:09:00
  Speaker 1: I mean you have to admire somebody who just goes
• 1:09:02
  Speaker 1: for it and he has like the monster face, you know.
• 1:09:06
  Speaker 1: I I liked it personally, unbelievable. Um, hey, can you
• 1:09:11
  Speaker 1: kill it again? Thank you for being the best guest
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  Speaker 1: host ever. Before we send you off, I know we
• 1:09:15
  Speaker 1: have an email from one of our wonderful listeners out
• 1:09:18
  Speaker 1: there Easton. We've just hired on this guy with this
• 1:09:22
  Speaker 1: like very just sensual, magical voice, to read this email
• 1:09:26
  Speaker 1: to his His name's Mark. He's usually into studio, um
• 1:09:30
  Speaker 1: Mark Free, Deemo Away, And this person is dying to
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  Speaker 1: know who has been dating from Colton season. He can't
• 1:09:37
  Speaker 1: reveal it for a couple of weeks. Is that when
• 1:09:41
  Speaker 1: it gets kicked off the show? Just a theory either way,
• 1:09:44
  Speaker 1: Good luck, happy for you. Okay, who is this mystery
• 1:09:48
  Speaker 1: woman that we keep hearing about? Oh? First off, I
• 1:09:51
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• 1:10:00
  Speaker 1: she's not from Colden season. You know. The reason that
• 1:10:04
  Speaker 1: I just don't didn't want to put on names yet
• 1:10:06
  Speaker 1: is is at some level, I didn't really mean to
• 1:10:08
  Speaker 1: slip up. I didn't think I slipped up. I don't.
• 1:10:10
  Speaker 1: I'm not hiding anything. I think. You know, you go
• 1:10:13
  Speaker 1: through public relationships before, and you kind of deal with
• 1:10:15
  Speaker 1: those that pressure and they're just the right timing to
• 1:10:18
  Speaker 1: it all to kind of make it a thing and
• 1:10:20
  Speaker 1: publicly put everything out there, And so I just want
• 1:10:22
  Speaker 1: to kind of tell Colton that you know, long distance
• 1:10:24
  Speaker 1: isn't easy and it's hard, and that dating is fun
• 1:10:26
  Speaker 1: and it's exciting, and I've been able to get back
• 1:10:29
  Speaker 1: into it and uh and just try to relate with
• 1:10:31
  Speaker 1: him a little bit. So life's good. But she's not
• 1:10:33
  Speaker 1: from Colton season um, not at all, not from the show.
• 1:10:37
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