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5. Happiness Mapping with Lynn Winter · The Woo Report: Everyday Spirituality

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  What makes you happy?
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  Your kids?
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  Your best friends?
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  A spa day, a warm beach.
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  Sure. All of those things, right?
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  But when you zoom all the way in to the thousands of decisions you make every day, is your life optimized for your happiness?
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  Lynn Winter is a happiness mapper.
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  First of all, how freaking cool is her job title?
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  Also, what the heck does that mean?
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  Lynn believes we all have a unique happiness thumbprint based on our values, our strengths, and our love language.
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  And if we can pinpoint how our brain is wired to feel fulfilled and accomplished every day, then we can rearrange our tasks to more easily reach a state of flow.
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  Now here's a spiritual word I get flow being in a flow state or being in the zone.
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  It's when you are so immersed in your present activity, You're deeply focused and enjoying the task at hand.
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  That time and all other distractions slip away.
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  For me, I find flow when I'm creating something I love.
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  I'm in the edit bay and six hours will go by and I look up and it felt like six minutes.
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  And unlike some of the other work I do, I walk away from a flow state, energized instead of drained.
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  It's joy wrapped up in the sense of accomplishment and editing for six hours, probably sounds terrible to a lot of people.
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  So this is going to be different for everyone.
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  So how do we each find our own unique flow state?
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  How can we slip into it on purpose every single day?
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  By knowing your happiness map.
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  Hi, I'm Laura Scarrpati, filmmaker, and woo woo enthusiast here today.
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  To cut through the noise, pull back the veil, and cozy up in this space between reality and spirituality.
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  Thanks for listening to the woo report.
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  to understand your own happiness map, Lynn has you take three different tasks before you meet with her.
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  A values test, a strength test, and the love language test.
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  I've dropped all of these in the episode description for you a heads up.
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  They ask you like 789 questions, and I'm exaggerating, but there are quite a lot.
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  But the tests do do a damn good job of discerning this from that.
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  So the values task ranks your value systems concepts like love, fairness, honesty, appreciation of beauty and excellence, humility, prudence the love languages.
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  And some of you may be familiar.
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  This was big about a decade ago, but there are five love languages, words of affirmation, quality time, acts of service, gifts, and physical touch.
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  I do actually believe that knowing this about yourself and your partner is such a couples hack.
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  Those two tests are free.
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  The strengths test. The third one is $25.
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  but this one is, I think, the most interesting.
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  There are 34 strengths and it ranks your top five things like discipline.
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  Analytical.
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  Adaptability. Achiever. Consistency.
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  I didn't get any of those on mine, but you might.
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  My husband got a few of them.
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  The mapping part itself looks a little like a therapy session.
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  So get ready to intimately learn how my brain works and I hope we can still be friends.
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  Here's Lynn Winter unhappiness mapping.
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  Lynn, thank you so much for being on the report.
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  I love thank you.
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  I love what you're doing.
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  so let's jump into it.
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  What is happiness mapping.
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  What is it? Together look at your specific strengths. Values and values.
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  And and situation like incredible.
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  So like why would somebody do it.
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  Why is somebody like I need to go and do a happiness mapping.
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  people, if they have any kind of I'm wondering what to do with different career.
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  What is having difficulty at work?
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  I don't my spouse and I are but also I think it's very much so. Let's say somebody.
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  Like, they really want to flow in their life.
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  Test Leadership.
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  Strength.
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  As the restaurant.
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  I had to find a way.
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  this was not just.
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  That.
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  That. Was.
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  So that. Was.
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  Started.
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  And so.
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  That student.
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  But you know, when.
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  What comes after that?
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  Students.
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  Satisfaction.
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  And so that's what I discovered was, The most.
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  So, as long.
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  So I have.
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  Just.
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  So. You know, just.
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  Put ourselves in a situation.
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  That.
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  So the process.
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  And develop.
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  Skills.
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  So I started doing it.
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  It was word of mouth.
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  It does.
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  your figuring out people's strengths and then what?
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  what does, what does the map look like?
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  Feels right.
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  You don't love them, but will.
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  Yeah. Yes.
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  You know, I wanted to ask this question, so. Yes.
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  We are friends in.
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  Hey, we're friends now.
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  As you.
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  Are connected as well.
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  So, something.
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  Yes. I mean, also connectedness and that we are all one is kind of a basis of spirituality, I'm on this new path of spirituality in the last few years, I've always believed in something bigger than myself.
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  but the idea that we are all connected and that we are all one, it hasn't resonated until recently, now a new understanding of the universe.
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  We are all connected.
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  Up to that. Yes.
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  So right when I look back, my, my baseline was a turbulent mind, so I thought I was happy.
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  I mean, on paper I looked happy and photos I looked happy, like, I still think I don't think that I was sad, you know, I just I just I did not have peace.
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  Which now for me post accident and like on this spiritual journey, I have found a sense, a calmness in my head that is so much better to hang out in.
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  Than it was before. Yes.
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  Yes. Yes.
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  Oh, yes.
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  Yes I huge I mean basically it changed my life.
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  Like the I say the accident was the best thing that ever happened to me because it became this reset and this new perspective.
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  And all I did was grow through it and recognize, you know, all the little things, spirituality that you maybe even glaze over when you think about spiritual things.
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  You're like meditation, manifestation, all these kind of like big ticket items.
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  But it really is how you talk to yourself in your head that is for me.
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  I had a really sharp tongue with myself that I think was one of the biggest changes because I just kind of I be like, oh, I messed that up.
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  I can't believe I messed that up.
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  Just like, why did you mess that up over and over and over again on a on a repeat tone and, you know, and then of course, of course, my mind is turbulent if that's my cycle for as I go through the day.
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  Yeah.
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  Just.
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  Part of the process of that.
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  Because everyone's.
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  Thoughts?
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  Realize that someone.
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  Best friends. Has.
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  Issues.
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  Doesn't matter what.
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  Well, it's.
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  It's so interesting because since Matt, my husband Matt met with you and you did a mapping together, and, he came down so animated, so excited.
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  He was, like, lit up.
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  He was like, oh, my God, I know what makes me happy in a day.
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  It was incredible because, you know, Matt is very chill.
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  He is a very chill guy.
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  He's such he's a such a sweetheart in the not a whole lot gets him lit up.
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  The Buffalo Bills get him lit up.
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  Michigan football used to do that.
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  And otherwise he's pretty even keeled.
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  You know, he loves a dance party.
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  He's got a little bit of swag.
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  He's like, he's cool guy.
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  But to get him to come down and be like, I want to tell you about my happiness snapping.
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  I was like, when we get on the Flynn, we need to talk.
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  That was incredible because he really felt like and I've thought about it so many times because, you know, with our work schedules being so different right now than they used to be, we're in this new place where I'm now thinking, okay, what's Matt doing today?
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  What's he got on his list so that, you know, he feels like he can check those things off.
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  I can help him make a list.
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  I'm happy to help him make the list of things to check up.
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  I got stuff I want to get done.
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  Yes. When?
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  Oh my gosh, when I try, I'm like, can you go get groceries?
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  He's like, what do we need?
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  And I'm like, well, you know, the regular things that we get every time, the things that aren't in the fridge open the door.
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  I can look at that, I know, but he was pacing around this morning and I, you know, I was about to walk into my office and I was like, all right.
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  He's like, he he was like trying to figure out what we should eat this weekend.
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  And I was like, okay, so we could do tacos because you we could do Casa Diaz.
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  Like, I could just, like, here's what we could do for the kids.
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  I know, but it really but it's so helpful because it's helpful for me to know because otherwise I would just be like, can't you just do it?
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  Because I wouldn't I wouldn't ask him.
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  I'd say, got anything to add?
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  Because anything extra that you need.
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  Because I would have, like, already thought about the weekend, thought about the list, figured it out.
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  And just like you need what? Deodorant.
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  I'll add it to the list.
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  Yeah.
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  Honey is not.
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  Yeah, yeah.
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  Love.
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  Help with that.
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  I mean, like, judge him because.
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  I, I mean, you are a modern day marriage counselor, but it's cupcake.
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  Call it happiness being.
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  And do it separately and then, like, help me figure out how to make it work.
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  Yeah, because it is it is.
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  Oh, wow.
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  Oh, man, that's so interesting.
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  I would love to do my seven year old.
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  I see two young.
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  Wow. Not funny.
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  But you know.
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  Wow. That's incredible.
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  But you know.
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  So I feel like it's harder with my own kids.
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  I feel like I've been better.
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  I was better with kids like, before.
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  They were mine.
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  I think that I have a lot of eye blind spots with my own kids that I have, that's all.
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  I haven't got a lot of work there to do.
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  but the developer, I feel like I've always kind of been a mentor in the workspace.
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  As soon as I started to become a producer.
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  And, you know, you're always have an associate producer, a production assistants, and they don't know how to do anything.
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  You're literally you.
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  I felt like I was I was constantly teaching people the ropes.
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  And I have, you know, women now that I've taught them everything that they know and they are producers now and doing great and beautiful things, and they'll be like, you taught me everything I know.
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  Yes, I love that.
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  Yes, I.
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  Am. And.
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  So that's where I get.
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  I'm a good coach.
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  Well, we all.
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  What I've noticed is we all have, one of the strengths of, like.
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  I have.
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  And I was always to this guy that I never told.
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  I was like, I'm always telling you I love you one right?
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  So I started to, realized it was in the room.
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  Was I was putting a little kiss on because touches of language, we never heard him, because he never wanted to spend a lot of time learning together.
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  let's say, Some people are when they're in the same room doing different things, and some people feel.
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  Like, I feel, I love you. So.
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  Love languages.
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  That's what this.
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  Yes. I feel like when I saw my strengths.
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  So, what their their positivity, connectivity, developer belief and woo.
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  Which.
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  Okay.
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  Which is hilarious.
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  So will I just I, I laughed out loud.
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  I ran into the other room and showed Matt.
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  I texted it to my friend Amy.
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  Shout out Amy Dirksen is the reason why I'm here with Lynn.
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  and was just like, I love that.
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  One of my five strengths.
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  On how many strengths are there?
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  There's 31st shrinks one, two by five.
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  After you answer all of these, you know, so many questions is Will.
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  It's will.
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  And this is it's just this is the this is the epitome of what this podcast is about.
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  That is a synchronicity for me.
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  That is a that is showing me I am on the right path.
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  Know the woo in the strengths test does not mean woo woo doesn't mean woo woo.
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  It means winning others over.
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  But belief does okay, so belief means woo woo, right?
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  Believe is like the spirituality piece.
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  That's so funny.
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  So I feel like all five of those is encapsulates what I'm trying to do with the woo report, which is to develop people one on one.
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  I'm connecting with you, but I'm also connecting with people that are listening.
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  And I'm trying, you know, I'm just trying to unlock the light within people whether, yeah.
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  Yeah.
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  You know.
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  I just it just makes me feel like this is exactly what I should be doing, you know?
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  And we're recording this. Thank you. Let.
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  We're recording this, of course, before episode one is even live. So.
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  Feels like we're on the right path.
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  but, you know, this is all very.
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  It's all very new.
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  So the it's a new endeavor.
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  And the, you know, I it's also I'm a filmmaker, a filmmaker, a producer first.
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  So what you say about connectivity and, you know, wanting strangers to be just another friend.
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  I mean, that's what for me, documentary filmmaking is all about being curious about other people's journeys and being curious about their lives and why they're there and what got them there, and what belief system got them there.
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  And, you know, I just I finished documentary on this nonprofit hospice is all about death and dying.
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  you'd think that that would be sad, but it's full of compassion and love and hope and it you know, it lifts the veil a little bit because there's there's woowoo in there.
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  There's a lot of goo and dying.
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  but yeah, it all aligns.
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  You know.
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  I would say 100%.
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  but but I'm waking up happy every day because I feel a sense of purpose around all of these things that I want to create.
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  All I want to do is create and make things.
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  Have you ever heard about human design?
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  Yes. Okay, so I'm kind of like you know, new into it too, but I'm a manifesting generator, and, you know, one of you, it maps out all of your gifts.
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  And my number one gift is creating things.
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  And I've been creating things my whole career, but I haven't been creating things for me.
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  I've been creating things for Disney and The Ellen Show and, you know, a bunch of others.
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  yeah.
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  Yes, yes.
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  Well, I just I just saw a quote, which I'll probably butcher, but it's like.
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  Hope and fear are both things you cannot see like, but you it's your choice.
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  They're both things.
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  You can't see it.
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  You get to choose which one.
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  you know about my story now.
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  Like I came out of my body and after that I have not fear dying.
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  And so I think that once you don't fear dying, like, really what is there to fear?
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  Do you know what I mean?
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  Like, isn't that the ultimate I don't know.
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  I just started, I don't know, I just, I had this idea that I wanted to sort of.
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  Started writing notes.
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  And so, it's kind of that.
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  I love this.
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  This is right up my alley.
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  you know, I always thought of death as, like, an old.
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  Do you know, kind of where I.
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  That's what we see in the movies. Yes.
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  Of course that's not my.
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  I'm still investigating, like, kind of like an investigation. I.
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  Write not about all these forces.
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  So what?
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  So now I'm going to ask you the question I've been asking everyone else on this podcast that is super existential.
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  What do you think happens when you die?
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  Well, I, you know, I just read a profile of.
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  I wrote a poem about this.
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  Is, I will.
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  Sleep.
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  So I will.
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  I will, so I guess I see it as.
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  I love that that's so beautiful.
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  But. Life is finite.
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  And I feel that.
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  Yes, I.
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  Know.
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  Come out of that.
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  I would agree with you.
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  Yeah.
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  Cracks you open.
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  About that. Not.
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  Relationship.
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  So you said you almost died many times.
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  Do you?
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  But, You know.
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  Oh my gosh.
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  Oh my gosh.
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  And then.
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  Oh my God.
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  So those.
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  I think it's because I identify now, this shift, this big shift that happened in my life from this moment of the accident.
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  And I just to me, I've just kind of, like, earmarked that time of my life as, like a spiritual awakening.
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  people see spirituality and woowoo and they're like, okay, like we can't see those things discounting them.
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  And I was the same way.
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  I was kind of the same way, you know, my dad's I had a therapist.
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  Oh, no.
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  Oh my gosh.
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  Well that's good. Yeah.
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  You're like allowing, you're trusting and in yourself.
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  Oh my gosh I love it.
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  Yeah. He used to do those comedy hypnosis shows too.
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  But now he, you know.
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  But I've been rolling my eyes at him since I was a kid.
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  Like, okay, dad, you're hypnotized.
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  People go like, that's really awesome.
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  Well, yes.
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  He claims all of my success is from these sleep tapes that he used to make me.
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  He's like, yes.
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  He's like, oh, I used to play these tapes.
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  When you would fall asleep about how successful you're going to be.
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  And look at you now.
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  so but yeah, he's, he's, I mean, he is a healer in his own right.
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  And, he is very positive and yes, he's he is a lover of life.
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  And he definitely I definitely get a lot from him.
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  I believe it now, way more than I ever did after this accident.
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  Like, I knew he could help because during Covid, you know, Matt's a little bit of a hypochondriac.
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  And during Covid, he was really unwell at the top.
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  Yeah. Like as he was scared my dad was in Philly.
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  We were in LA.
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  He's like, let me just let's do a zoom and I'll, I'll have the chat as you it's like, what do I got to lose?
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  I'm sitting here. Will was napping.
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  I'm working in the other room.
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  I was at the Ellen show at the time, and they did a session.
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  And Matt was like, he, you know, he just closed eyes.
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  He felt like really heavy.
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  And it changed him.
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  It helped him.
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  And he would be the first one to be like, no, it didn't work.
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  And it totally did because it it really changed.
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  It really like unclick something in his unconscious that helped him feel safe and not be afraid.
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  So yeah, I know, I know, I know.
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  Help.
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  Those that are larger than that are uncertain. Yes.
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  Yes. So and that is it's everything.
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  There's so much that we can't see in the in the culture and the, the spiritual world.
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  There's so much we can see.
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  It's it's our consciousness.
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  It's it's energy, it's auras, it's numerology.
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  And how that plays in it's astrology, it's mediums and talking to people behind it.
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  Signs from the other side, I mean, so much, all of it like past lives, you know, soul families, the idea that we are all souls and we're going to teach these other lessons, and then we're going to go back up and then rearrange how we're all settled and come back down, do it again.
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  I mean, that's so fun to think about.
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  It's all I want to think about.
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  Yes, yes.
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  Well thank you. Let I mean, we gotta monetize this when that's it.
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  That's that's the other piece of it.
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  That's a big piece of it.
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  Yes, yes.
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  Yes. So, Chelsea Park films, the mission of Chelsea Park Films is to, platform non-profits and organizations doing good in the world.
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  The thing is, like, I'm a one woman show.
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  And so what you're not going to get from me is like a cinematic masterpiece.
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  And I But I thrive in the storytelling and in the safe space to interview people telling their stories.
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  Because if you have this big cold production company come in and sit at the bedside of someone who's dying, like, how intimate is that?
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  No. but I've, you know, since done promotional pieces for these non-profits who are boots on the ground and they are making a difference in people's lives.
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  And so but I and I can do that as a one woman show, like I can I can shoot it all.
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  I can edit it and it I it sounds good and it looks good.
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  It does not.
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  It's not going to, you know, when Sundance it's not going to be going to win an Oscar.
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  I know I have to stop doing that.
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  Story.
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  You know, you're right.
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  I mean, they teach you that.
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  They teach you that in film school, in.
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  Did you go to film school?
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  What you did?
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  Is, film in.
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  They're, you know, they're not you know, it's like that, you know, a lot of.
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  That's incredible.
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  I was on television.
• 36:06
  What happened?
• 36:10
  Incredible.
• 36:11
  You've had so many lives.
• 36:13
  Entrepreneurial spirit over here.
• 36:19
  Oh, my gosh, that's true.
• 36:23
  That.
• 36:27
  Is extremely strong.
• 36:36
  Yeah, I mean, yeah, I mean, that and I've been together for 20 years.
• 36:42
  We were 20.
• 36:42
  We were 21.
• 36:43
  I was 21. I just turned 40.
• 36:47
  All right. Now.
• 36:48
  Thank you. You're so nice.
• 36:51
  Yes. So I just turned 40 in November.
• 36:54
  So. Yeah, it's been almost 20 years since, we started dating, so we were together, you know, all through our come up in LA, and we didn't, you know, got married.
• 37:06
  It like, I don't know, till I was 29.
• 37:08
  And then we had a kid at 31 and then and then I got run over by a car while I was pregnant, and he took care of me, and he took care of my kid, and he was just steadfast and loyal and like, he's just the best. Of, Someone says.
• 37:42
  This.
• 37:45
  It is, it is.
• 37:46
  And when?
• 37:47
  Actually, when I was doing the love language test, I was, like, laying in bed next to him, he was like, guessing which one I was going to do.
• 37:54
  And you guessed most of them. Right.
• 37:56
  And then we like, got it.
• 37:56
  You know, there's so many questions.
• 37:58
  So you have been mapping since 99.
• 38:04
  What what type of people come to you?
• 38:06
  Is it all different types of people from all walks of life?
• 38:09
  know you said you did it, for some employees to kind of help your workplace culture a little bit more like, is it something that you would bring into companies? Yes.
• 38:28
  And of all this all.
• 38:31
  Well.
• 38:34
  So this is to say that this was.
• 38:42
  Yes. Dishwashers in the restaurants that you are running.
• 38:47
  Right.
• 38:47
  Right, right. Yes.
• 38:51
  Like hot.
• 38:52
  What. Give me an example.
• 38:53
  Like so how how are you making the dishwasher happier?
• 38:57
  Yeah.
• 38:58
  This is crazy.
• 39:03
  Dishwasher, you know, stayed there, didn't want to, you know, go into the kitchen or all that, but, That was futuristic.
• 39:17
  and those are people that love to, we talked about this in kind of, those to this last shuttle.
• 39:35
  sort of, you know what?
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  It went up as.
• 39:39
  You know, that.
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  Would you have never known that this.
• 39:50
  At work with that, but also that that it so that in.
• 39:58
  To grow it. Wow.
• 40:01
  It doesn't always just work.
• 40:03
  You know it was work. What was that?
• 40:08
  instead of dividing up according to your general manager, manager.
• 40:19
  So, in other words, if you really go into those people would love to put those things together.
• 40:29
  wow, that is not a skill of mine.
• 40:34
  So, we were able to provide, with strengths versus another way that's really hard.
• 40:45
  Oh that's awesome.
• 40:47
  That makes so much more sense.
• 40:48
  Okay, so tell me, how unique is a map for someone?
• 40:53
  Gosh.
• 40:55
  I mean, I really what I wanted to do.
• 41:01
  Is I wanted to make it physical.
• 41:03
  Like actually. Yes.
• 41:09
  When you're in the shower.
• 41:14
  Yeah.
• 41:15
  I'm not.
• 41:16
  I need more of the situation.
• 41:20
  Wow. Yes.
• 41:23
  Totally. Yes.
• 41:28
  because there's so many variables.
• 41:31
  And not only that, if you look at the states, but what we really look at, you know, in cold situations.
• 41:44
  Really?
• 41:46
  Like, for instance, when you said you right before the accident that you had It's like.
• 42:03
  Not. you find out is that. Not.
• 42:18
  Interesting.
• 42:19
  Right to my life.
• 42:22
  I. My.
• 42:44
  I was like.
• 42:48
  I actually understand I'm.
• 43:00
  I grew up with.
• 43:06
  Achievers.
• 43:08
  But I see some of this.
• 43:10
  I always, restaurant in the business, you know?
• 43:20
  Yes. I everything that and.
• 43:27
  So. Wow.
• 43:32
  So when you you've mapped a thousand people, have you had stories of people that have after they've mapped come back to you and they've done a crazy change in their life or.
• 44:04
  you know.
• 44:08
  Some support.
• 44:12
  My gosh, I would love to have will work with you.
• 44:19
  It's amazing.
• 44:25
  You have, like, feels like us, right?
• 44:30
  But when we start to realize that's hard to see, that is just, like a positive.
• 44:47
  give I love honestly, this makes us the perfect match.
• 44:51
  Matt and I.
• 44:54
  I will, I've never wanted to give him a to do list, but I am so happy to do that. Now.
• 45:00
  I am going to do that.
• 45:01
  You know, interesting.
• 45:02
  When you were talking about, you know, my, like, before the accident, I feel like if I were to to take the tests that you gave me before the accident, they would have been different than they are after the accident.
• 45:21
  but over time.
• 45:27
  what I have found myself is.
• 45:35
  Depending on the circumstances.
• 45:39
  People.
• 45:41
  What?
• 45:42
  They're in their whole lives that they just are so, so successful.
• 45:54
  I've never seen somebody completely change, like, you know, curious about.
• 46:02
  What's.
• 46:12
  Yeah, maybe because I also wonder about the connectedness, I, I, I wonder whether I would have believe right now I have just that feeling of connectedness.
• 46:22
  Like, I feel like maybe that wouldn't have been.
• 46:24
  And I feel like I probably would have had, I don't know more.
• 46:29
  I don't know, maybe more of it.
• 46:30
  I don't know more of an achiever, but like more of something, whatever.
• 46:33
  Like the ego, wherever it whatever, like put a tie on like a high ego.
• 46:38
  Like I probably would have done that.
• 46:40
  I feel like that is where I was like, well, I am really good at X, Y, and Z, you know what I mean?
• 46:52
  But, that was, When I started mapping.
• 47:05
  So once again, I was.
• 47:15
  and the difference really is it's.
• 47:37
  It's just very emotional.
• 47:45
  Yeah.
• 47:45
  I feel like that's my seven year old.
• 47:50
  And so.
• 47:54
  Yes. My.
• 47:59
  I said that.
• 48:05
  Just.
• 48:09
  Right.
• 48:28
  I mean, it's such a gift that you're helping people with.
• 48:32
  I mean, because we could all take the tests, but then we're just looking at them and we're like, it's it's so it's so much more helpful to process them with someone who knows them deeply.
• 48:45
  Yeah, but we have time to really.
• 48:52
  Just.
• 48:58
  So, did you see a conundrum in my chart, The developer?
• 49:03
  Just.
• 49:06
  Facilitating.
• 49:14
  Well, I think with that's a big part of this podcast, because the point of it is to open people up to maybe other ways of receiving support from something that maybe they would have been like, this is a bunch of woowoo beforehand.
• 49:33
  Yeah. Or something like that.
• 49:34
  So it's just like, I have just I have witnessed in my smaller circle just seeing how supportive some of these, you know, spiritual modalities can be.
• 49:45
  And, you know, I think that as a culture we're all moving towards mindfulness and wellness.
• 49:51
  So it's it's in that same mind.
• 49:53
  But it's it's it's really like deep diving into the stuff that you can't see, which has a lot of, you know, belief and hope and, so, you know, my hope is that my story resonates with people and that this journey resonates with people because it's it really has changed my life.
• 50:15
  And so my hope is that it just helps people feel feel that like that, that switch.
• 50:22
  Honestly, that's been like one of the best parts.
• 50:25
  Obviously, you know, the fragility of life and being in the present moment and looking at my kids in the eyes, all of those things are, you know, you're trying to take every single moment for granted, every single piece of the present for granted.
• 50:37
  But having peace in your mind is like, that is what success looks like to me.
• 50:48
  And I just as so many of us are bombarded by headlines, fear, technology, kids, busy lives, this sport, that sport husband is this but never like just like running a household and man just you're on like the hamster wheel.
• 51:10
  And the only way to get off that hamster wheel is if you there's like, some sort of peace.
• 51:14
  everyone's different.
• 51:15
  So I'm hoping, you know, maybe somebody will be like, oh, maybe I need a happiness map or maybe I'll go out and, you know, bathe under the full moon.
• 51:30
  Well, I feel like I could have these conversations all day long.
• 51:35
  All I could do all day.
• 51:40
  But it's.
• 51:55
  Great.
• 51:57
  I love it.
• 52:06
  So all those.
• 52:22
  So I just.
• 52:30
  Yeah.
• 52:32
  It does.
• 52:33
  Why don't you charge for this?
• 52:38
  Well, it started out month right?
• 52:44
  something that I.
• 53:32
  Just.
• 53:41
  So it puts you in flow?
• 53:43
  Essentially, yeah.
• 53:48
  I love it.
• 53:49
  Will you will you say a little piece again about.
• 53:51
  You had mentioned about being in flow.
• 53:53
  Can you kind of just tell me that part again?
• 53:56
  So what? Is.
• 54:20
  This.
• 54:41
  Let's.
• 54:55
  I love that so much.
• 55:16
  Isn't that wild?
• 55:17
  When I'm feeling flat, I need strangers.
• 55:21
  Not what I would have.
• 55:22
  But that is so interesting And I do that by just some trial and error or just, like, feeling into it or by talking about it.
• 55:37
  I mean, I.
• 55:43
  Don't just gloss.
• 56:05
  I just.
• 56:17
  Write.
• 56:21
  Yes. Yes.
• 56:28
  So, Sometimes.
• 56:34
  I love this.
• 56:35
  I feel like I need to sit down with Matt and look at our strengths and then honestly figure out, like, okay, on a flat day, how can we help each other?
• 56:48
  Because that.
• 56:50
  Well, I mean, that can change the whole dynamic of bad days. so.
• 57:22
  I love that I was a little nervous on the podcast, but I can do.
• 57:33
  My best or.
• 57:37
  I love that I was able to not dwell on the stress but.
• 57:48
  Well there's nothing to be nervous about then you crushed this podcast.
• 57:52
  You crushed it.
• 57:53
  And you are you are crushing life because this truly like this is such a gift that you're giving people, being able to have language around their strengths, around what will make them happy on a day to day basis, like, isn't that what the whole point is? Is that the whole point?
• 58:17
  it's so awesome.
• 58:19
  Thank you so much for talking to me.
• 58:24
  Lynn, how can people find you?
• 58:32
  Love it.
• 58:35
  Send Lynn an email and get your happiness mapped.
• 58:40
  Oh my gosh, Lynn, thank you.
• 58:44
  This is so fun.
• 58:46
  what a great thank you.
• 58:51
  Thank you.
• 58:52
  We love you back.
• 58:53
  I cannot wait to tell Matt all about our conversation and about how I needed to do lessons.
• 58:58
  Gotta give.
• 59:02
  Thank you, thank you.
• 59:05
  dear.
• 59:07
  What did you think?
• 59:08
  Will you be mapping your happiness?
• 59:10
  Let me know.
• 59:11
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• 59:17
  It has been so amazing seeing you rate comment and seeing all your DMs on the Woohoo reports.
• 59:22
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• 59:23
  Hearing from you brings me such happiness.
• 59:26
  So thank you.
• 59:27
  So so grateful that you're here.
• 59:29
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• 59:32
  New apps every Wednesday.
• 59:34
  And thank you for being here and loving on this little slice of magic.
• 59:38
  Bye. Work.