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The One Where Easton Watches Ocean · Untraditionally Lala

• 0:06
  Speaker 1: Hello, my loves welcome back to give them La La podcast.
• 0:09
  Speaker 1: It should be a very very fun So yep, Mom's
• 0:16
  Speaker 1: gonna talk in this microphone and you're just gonna chill.
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  Speaker 1: Is that cool? So I have Ocean with me because
• 0:21
  Speaker 1: my mom was supposed to have her today, but her
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  Speaker 1: little Pomeranian, Bella, who we have had for fifteen and
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  Speaker 1: a half years, has had like the biggest decline in
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  Speaker 1: the past I want to say, two weeks and she's
• 0:36
  Speaker 1: not eating. She's skin and bone. So my mom called
• 0:39
  Speaker 1: and was like, I need to rush her to emergency care.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know what the outcome will be to me,
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  Speaker 1: I know it sounds so morbid and abrupt, but to me,
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  Speaker 1: it seems like Bella's It just seems like she's dying.
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  Speaker 1: But that's the TV that we're gonna watch ourselves on.
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  Speaker 1: That's why I have Ocean today. Can you say hi
• 1:02
  Speaker 1: to everybody? Hi? Say hi? Good job? How is everybody?
• 1:06
  Speaker 1: Jess Easton great? Had a great morning?
• 1:10
  Speaker 2: Yes, I feel like it's I feel like it's been
• 1:12
  Speaker 2: a whole week in a day, which is good and good.
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  Speaker 1: Today has been very long.
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  Speaker 2: It's good, busy, busy, which is amazing.
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  Speaker 1: It's been a really long month. Does anyone feel that way?
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  Speaker 3: Everyone's feeling that way. By the way, I haven't spent.
• 1:26
  Speaker 2: A weekend in town in two weeks, and it will
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  Speaker 2: be like four altogether because I won't be here this weekend.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, it's been a traveling month. What are we doing?
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  Speaker 3: And you guys even were just gone again.
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  Speaker 1: That's the thing is, I feel like there were so
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  Speaker 1: many things on my cast. You're on the podcast. It's
• 1:46
  Speaker 1: absolutely correct on the podcast. You're a big, big star baby,
• 1:51
  Speaker 1: look at you. And then, oh my, oh my gosh,
• 2:02
  Speaker 1: this might be my favorite podcast. And it's gonna be
• 2:05
  Speaker 1: takes a lot of pressure off us. It's gonna be
• 2:07
  Speaker 1: very sky. Okay, we're not gonna say stinky. But she's
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  Speaker 1: she's wilding out. She knows that she's.
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  Speaker 3: She's an entertainer. I give her that.
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  Speaker 1: Okay. Can we be really quiet when mom mom does
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  Speaker 1: the podcast with her friends? Yes, I feel like we've
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  Speaker 1: been back to back on everything. Okay, Ocean, we can't.
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  Speaker 1: I'm begging you, please, baby, good kid, good baby. This
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  Speaker 1: is gonna be the longest day of my life. You
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  Speaker 1: have to stop. We went to Utah, Yes you did.
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  Speaker 1: I hosted the Humane Society of Utah Gala. And when
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  Speaker 1: I tell you, I was so nervous. I was the
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  Speaker 1: most nervous I've ever been doing anything. Actually, that's such
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  Speaker 1: a lie. All right. We took a quick break because
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  Speaker 1: Ocean started losing her mind and wanted to see herself
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  Speaker 1: crying in the monitor. So Easton will not be joining
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  Speaker 1: us for this episode because he's going to take care
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  Speaker 1: of Ocean. So hello, Jessica, Oh my god, what were
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  Speaker 1: we saying?
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  Speaker 3: We were just saying, how it's the longest.
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  Speaker 1: Monday, the longest Monday, It's the longest year, is the
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  Speaker 1: longest week, month, hour of my entire life. So I
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  Speaker 1: went to Utah for the Humane Society of Utah gala.
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  Speaker 1: The goal was to raise three hundred thousand dollars. They
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  Speaker 1: asked me a few months ago if I would host it,
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  Speaker 1: and if I remember correctly, before they had put all
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  Speaker 1: of the silent auction items into the three hundred thousand
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  Speaker 1: dollars goal, they had raised two hundred and sixty thousand dollars.
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  Speaker 1: What for the Humane Society of Utah. That's incredible, isn't
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  Speaker 1: that crazy?
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  Speaker 3: That is amazing?
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  Speaker 2: Congratulations, I know that's like near and dear for anyone
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  Speaker 2: who doesn't know to not only your heart but your
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  Speaker 2: mom's because she worked for them and with them for
• 4:02
  Speaker 2: years and still does.
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  Speaker 1: She still works for them.
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  Speaker 3: Amazing.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, and my dog Lily came from HSU and she's twelve.
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  Speaker 3: Oh my god.
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  Speaker 1: I know she's an old broad. She is.
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  Speaker 2: She's a golden vintage girl.
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  Speaker 1: But she's so vintage.
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  Speaker 2: My question is, I know you you were going into
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  Speaker 2: it nervous. I was nervous because you did you M
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  Speaker 2: see it MC the gala.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, what's the difference between like MCing and hosting something.
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  Speaker 3: I feel like it's pretty much interchangeable.
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  Speaker 2: I might be wrong, but I feel like EMC is
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  Speaker 2: more of like you're on the mic.
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  Speaker 1: I was on the mic, Yeah, and I was very nervous,
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  Speaker 1: but you know what, I felt like we got a
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  Speaker 1: lot of laughs. I feel like it was a very
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  Speaker 1: well rounded gala where it was like heartfelt but also funny.
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  Speaker 1: I could tell that I was getting a little too
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  Speaker 1: comfortable though, with the room because as we were wrapping
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  Speaker 1: up and saying like, thank you so much, the dance
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  Speaker 1: floor is now open, I was like, the dance floor's open,
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  Speaker 1: I'm ready to tork it for a real one. So
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  Speaker 1: if you're single, like, meet me on the dance floor.
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  Speaker 1: And I immediately was like, oh no, you've got too Lola,
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  Speaker 1: what are you doing? So if you're.
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  Speaker 2: Single, I mean, were there any eligible bachelors there?
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  Speaker 1: Are you kidding me? We're in Salt Lake City, Utah.
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  Speaker 1: All those people are married, have been married for five
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  Speaker 1: hundred years and seven kids deep All right? So no,
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  Speaker 1: so no, I didn't. I didn't meet anybody, But could
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  Speaker 1: I tell you? It was so crazy being back there
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  Speaker 1: because I have not been back there in years and
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  Speaker 1: I love being from there. But it made me appreciate
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  Speaker 1: Los Angeles because for a while I've been like, get
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  Speaker 1: me out of LA. I just want normalcy. I'm feeling suffocated,
• 5:47
  Speaker 1: and I went back to my roots. And I think
• 5:50
  Speaker 1: it's because it's not that I don't like Utah. I
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  Speaker 1: always wanted to get out of Utah since I was
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  Speaker 1: a child, right, It just felt very small for me.
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  Speaker 1: It couldn't it didn't offer me what I needed it too,
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  Speaker 1: in terms of what I wanted to be when I
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  Speaker 1: grew up. But it's also strange because you have to
• 6:06
  Speaker 1: remember when I lived there, it was like another lifetime.
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  Speaker 1: I had my dad, I lived in my childhood home.
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  Speaker 1: I move and it's like my dad passes away, my
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  Speaker 1: mom sells my childhood home and moves into another house.
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  Speaker 1: So it just feels like everything that I remember about
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  Speaker 1: living there, it's just like no longer. Yeah, I go
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  Speaker 1: there and don't even feel like I'm from there.
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  Speaker 3: Really, No, do you ever try and drive by your
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  Speaker 3: childhood home?
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  Speaker 1: Or I would never. I would never never Why it's
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  Speaker 1: too takes me to a very dark place. I will
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  Speaker 1: say I was very triggered being there.
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  Speaker 2: You were mm hmm, okay, why because us It just feels.
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  Speaker 1: Like another lifetime where it's like I'm familiar with this place,
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  Speaker 1: but I'm it's almost like a trauma response. Does that
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  Speaker 1: make sense?
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  Speaker 3: It does? And also your mom's here east since here,
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  Speaker 3: Well that's.
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  Speaker 1: The other thing. It's like I don't know, Oh, even
• 7:00
  Speaker 1: my roots have been uplifted and moved to La So
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  Speaker 1: I go back there. And I had a moment on
• 7:05
  Speaker 1: the plane on the way home, and because I always
• 7:08
  Speaker 1: say like a prayer before we take off, and I
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  Speaker 1: look over and it's like I have Easton and my
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  Speaker 1: mom and they're both snooze in before we even take off,
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  Speaker 1: And I just had a moment of just like complete
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  Speaker 1: gratitude that I'm going home and I have my family
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  Speaker 1: with me. Yeah, Like it feels good because I haven't
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  Speaker 1: had that before. Where I'm going from like Utah to La,
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  Speaker 1: I'm usually leaving someone behind, rights my mom or my brother,
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  Speaker 1: So that part felt good. Anyway, moving on, well.
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  Speaker 3: Good, No, that's so nice.
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  Speaker 2: It's so nice you all three were there. I'm that's
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  Speaker 2: very interesting. You not a trauma response, but yeah, that's
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  Speaker 2: what you said. It was a bit triggering. That's very
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  Speaker 2: interesting because last year, I remember we talked about it
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  Speaker 2: was around this time because it was a holiday episode,
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  Speaker 2: and you talked about how like you see yourself in
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  Speaker 2: the future going spending the holidays in you with the snow,
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  Speaker 2: and do you not feel that way anymore?
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  Speaker 1: I don't think I feel that way anyway. Really, Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I think I like the thought of it, okay, more
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  Speaker 1: so than actually doing it, because it just floods me
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  Speaker 1: with like all of the things that used to be. Yeah, time,
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  Speaker 1: time passes, things change. Yep. We saw my niece, who
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  Speaker 1: I have not seen dance in person. I've only seen
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  Speaker 1: through videos. She is an absolute star. Yeah, and it
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  Speaker 1: makes me excited because she wants to be an entertainment,
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  Speaker 1: and I'm like, oh my gosh, I feel like the
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  Speaker 1: next So many people were didn't know that I have
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  Speaker 1: an older brother, Oh, an older brother, Brandon, from my
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  Speaker 1: dad's first marriage. My mom and my dad got together
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  Speaker 1: when my brother, my older brother was two, so like
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  Speaker 1: my older brother calls my mom mom, you know yeah.
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  Speaker 1: But I watched her dance and I was like, oh
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  Speaker 1: my gosh, and she wants to be an entertainment and
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  Speaker 1: she's extremely talented, Like I could see the second wave
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  Speaker 1: of mood happening. Very good to la.
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  Speaker 2: I know her name's London, right, her name's London. Oh,
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  Speaker 2: welcome London, Welcome London.
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  Speaker 1: That part was like so much fun. So when I'm
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  Speaker 1: at this place where my niece is dancing, it's like
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  Speaker 1: a very I don't know if other places do this.
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  Speaker 1: It's very Utah. I remember, like you buy tickets and
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  Speaker 1: there's little booths that are selling like homemade chocolates or
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  Speaker 1: like handmade crafts. Like it's just very like Utah.
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  Speaker 3: That's cute.
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  Speaker 1: So I see this amazing grinch and it's just an
• 9:37
  Speaker 1: old school grinch head you guys, and it's fabulous. Okay, handmade.
• 9:42
  Speaker 3: Are we talking wood?
• 9:44
  Speaker 1: No, it's like metal. Oh it's metal, okay, And I'm like,
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  Speaker 1: this will be so cute for palm springs. It's forty
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  Speaker 1: five dollars. I was like, great, do you guys ship
• 9:51
  Speaker 1: They said, we don't. I'm sorry. I'm like, how much
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  Speaker 1: could it be? I purchase it? I go into ups
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  Speaker 1: the next day. It in a box. The head doesn't
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  Speaker 1: come off, it's just one piece, like it's a circle
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  Speaker 1: with a metal like bar. And then the Grinch chad
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  Speaker 1: Q okay, and he's doing the Grinch. I can get
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  Speaker 1: my eyebrows just as high as the Grinch. It's terrifying.
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  Speaker 1: It's ijma. So they put it in the first box
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  Speaker 1: doesn't fit. They put it in a bigger one, and
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  Speaker 1: she comes back types it in the into the computer
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  Speaker 1: and my total pops up where I insert my credit card.
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  Speaker 1: You wonder how much it was to ship that thing?
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  Speaker 3: How much?
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  Speaker 1: Three hundred and eighty five dollars?
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  Speaker 3: Is that a joke?
• 10:39
  Speaker 1: It's not a joke. I about died. I literally said
• 10:42
  Speaker 1: to her, are you shitting me? And she just stared
• 10:45
  Speaker 1: at me. I was like, I mean, are you joking me? Kidding? Yeah?
• 10:50
  Speaker 3: You I would have said I'm doing something else with it.
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  Speaker 3: I would do with it, sold it. I don't know
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  Speaker 3: what to do with it.
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  Speaker 2: That is what you spent four over four hundred on
• 11:00
  Speaker 2: a grinch head.
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  Speaker 1: I certainly did. And my mom kept saying, but Ocean's
• 11:06
  Speaker 1: gonna love it. Imagine her smile. And I was like, yeah,
• 11:09
  Speaker 1: why don't we put on your credit card? No? I
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  Speaker 1: was like, yeah, you're real quick to throw shit on
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  Speaker 1: my AMX, aren't you.
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  Speaker 3: Shipping is wild? Shipping costs her wild?
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  Speaker 1: Oh you about died, don't even you know?
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  Speaker 2: The USPS is the cheap, the most inexpensive.
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  Speaker 1: UPS is the most inexpensive.
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  Speaker 3: No UPS.
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  Speaker 2: So there's UPS FedEx and then there's USPS, which is
• 11:31
  Speaker 2: United States Postal Service.
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  Speaker 3: That's the but it's still up there.
• 11:36
  Speaker 1: Well guess what, it's gone. She been shipped. She'll be
• 11:39
  Speaker 1: arriving on Friday. It'll be c it will be so
• 11:43
  Speaker 1: another Ocean story. We're laying in bed and because she
• 11:49
  Speaker 1: sleeps with me. I've told you guys, she sleeps with
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  Speaker 1: me now, and she says to me, did you see this?
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  Speaker 1: Oh my hell? And she's pointing out something on my
• 11:59
  Speaker 1: phone and I said, Ocean, I don't want you saying that.
• 12:05
  Speaker 1: And my mother says to me, Lauren, the more you
• 12:07
  Speaker 1: discipline her, and she says this in front of Ocean,
• 12:09
  Speaker 1: the more you discipline her, the more she's gonna want
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  Speaker 1: to say it. Just ignore it, don't make it a
• 12:13
  Speaker 1: big deal. So I was like, fine, say whatever you want.
• 12:18
  Speaker 1: She goes, can I say fuck? Can I say fuck?
• 12:23
  Speaker 1: Screams it at the top of her lungs. I was like,
• 12:26
  Speaker 1: how do I get this to end?
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  Speaker 3: You never say, oh my hell, I've never heard you
• 12:31
  Speaker 3: say that.
• 12:32
  Speaker 1: Say I don't know who says it. But then today
• 12:35
  Speaker 1: she goes into the bathroom and she goes she smells
• 12:37
  Speaker 1: like dog shit in you, And I'm like, who says that?
• 12:42
  Speaker 1: Who says that? I don't know. Maybe I do say it,
• 12:47
  Speaker 1: maybe I don't, but it's mortifying anyway. Then after she says,
• 12:52
  Speaker 1: if she can say the F word, my mom then
• 12:53
  Speaker 1: put lays down the loss. She said, here's the deal, Ocean.
• 12:56
  Speaker 1: If you say naughty words, if Mom says naughty words, Easton,
• 13:01
  Speaker 1: you're all getting your mouths washed out with soap. Okay,
• 13:05
  Speaker 1: that's how it's done. I was like, great, excellent, we
• 13:08
  Speaker 1: all know the drill now and we're laying there whatever.
• 13:11
  Speaker 1: She kicks my mom in the stomach once twice, three times.
• 13:14
  Speaker 1: I tell her to knock it off each time. After
• 13:16
  Speaker 1: the third time, I pause, desperate housewise, I say, Ocean,
• 13:19
  Speaker 1: kent you do it again. You're going in your own bed.
• 13:25
  Speaker 1: Press play. I can see her side eyeing me as
• 13:29
  Speaker 1: she cocks her leg back whoom, kicks jee'je in the
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  Speaker 1: stomach again. I said, pause, that's it, You're going in
• 13:38
  Speaker 1: your bed. I take her into her bed. She's crying
• 13:43
  Speaker 1: for mom. It's all good, She's She's quiet for a
• 13:46
  Speaker 1: little too long. My Meletodin starts sinking in. I'm out
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  Speaker 1: out like a light. And then I hear the door
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  Speaker 1: open slightly and flam clothes really quick, and I'm disoriented.
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  Speaker 1: My mom goes out to look. Ocean has turned herself
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  Speaker 1: into an avatar. She has found the only electric blue
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  Speaker 1: eye shadow that big tiny she wants. Have dug to
• 14:10
  Speaker 1: the very back, grabbed her beauty blender, and she has
• 14:13
  Speaker 1: painted it all over her face, all over her face.
• 14:17
  Speaker 1: She comes in. I was like, what have you been doing?
• 14:20
  Speaker 1: She goes, I just opened to doua. I go clearly
• 14:23
  Speaker 1: a while ago, and then she makes her way with
• 14:26
  Speaker 1: the electric blue eye shadow to my white fretta sheets. No, yes,
• 14:30
  Speaker 1: I said no, no slurring. By the way, Easter goes,
• 14:35
  Speaker 1: I filmed it. Easton goes, you post this video, not
• 14:37
  Speaker 1: one person is gonna believe it. You've been sober for
• 14:39
  Speaker 1: five years. I was like I was woken up from
• 14:42
  Speaker 1: a stupor to a child. I was like, mom, you
• 14:45
  Speaker 1: got a deal. I can't even function right now. I
• 14:47
  Speaker 1: can only function enough to film it really quickly for
• 14:49
  Speaker 1: podcast content and go straight back to bed. It's been
• 14:53
  Speaker 1: a lot.
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  Speaker 3: What time was this, number one? I need get paint
• 14:57
  Speaker 3: a picture. What time was this? Like, you fell asleep
• 14:59
  Speaker 3: at like eight pm?
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  Speaker 1: Or it was probably eleven?
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  Speaker 3: Okay, so it's a little late. I'm dying to see this.
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  Speaker 2: This is the first time I'm hearing this at all.
• 15:06
  Speaker 2: By the way, so this is the funniest thing ever
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  Speaker 2: to me. This has made my day A video my day.
• 15:12
  Speaker 1: I recorded it, and I am slurring in the video.
• 15:14
  Speaker 1: Eason goes, you show this, No one's gonna believe that
• 15:17
  Speaker 1: you reached five years. I'm like, I took melotonin. I
• 15:21
  Speaker 1: was exhausted. Yeah you worry.
• 15:23
  Speaker 2: I mean you had been gone all weekend, you had
• 15:24
  Speaker 2: just came back from Bravo con days before.
• 15:27
  Speaker 1: She it was a lot.
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  Speaker 3: She is such a character.
• 15:33
  Speaker 1: Oh want to know what I saw? The utire part? Yeah,
• 15:35
  Speaker 1: a team sand of all truck her hat. What did
• 15:38
  Speaker 1: you do? Did you go up to it? Did you
• 15:40
  Speaker 1: go up to it? Yeah? No, but I was like
• 15:44
  Speaker 1: getting to my notes, app I've never seen that ever
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  Speaker 1: in my life. She would have had to have made
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  Speaker 1: it herself.
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  Speaker 2: Oh and you didn't say anything that would have been iconic.
• 15:52
  Speaker 2: Lala Ken goes up and says, hm, nice hat. What
• 15:55
  Speaker 2: do you think she would have done?
• 15:56
  Speaker 1: I would have said, send that shit to Daryl. We
• 15:58
  Speaker 1: got a problem one. Who's making this merch? They've gone rogue.
• 16:05
  Speaker 1: They've all gone rogue.
• 16:06
  Speaker 3: Do you know he's making that merch? Tom Sandibal Team
• 16:09
  Speaker 3: Sandoval hat.
• 16:10
  Speaker 1: I defend him one time. Suddenly they're out in these
• 16:12
  Speaker 1: streets thinking they can wear Team Sandival hats. No, no, no,
• 16:16
  Speaker 1: and yeah, so that happened too. I wrote it in
• 16:18
  Speaker 1: my notes. I assume we've all seen the Taylor Swift
• 16:26
  Speaker 1: and Travis Kelcey video.
• 16:28
  Speaker 3: How do you feel about that? Because I actually think
• 16:31
  Speaker 3: it was super cute.
• 16:33
  Speaker 1: I'm obsessed so cute. I never wish that I have
• 16:37
  Speaker 1: had a partner. Yeah, and then when I saw that,
• 16:39
  Speaker 1: first of all, his reaction when she changed the lyrics,
• 16:42
  Speaker 1: I know, it was adorable. Her dad's response to it too,
• 16:47
  Speaker 1: with his.
• 16:48
  Speaker 2: Own, was that her dad, I thought that was his dad.
• 16:50
  Speaker 2: Her dad Karma is the guy on the Chiefs.
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  Speaker 1: Coming straight home to me or something like.
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  Speaker 3: That or something that so cute. That was really cute.
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  Speaker 1: And then after she like waving to the audience and
• 17:01
  Speaker 1: then like runs and jumps on him awkwardly. But it's fine.
• 17:06
  Speaker 1: She's she looks like a baby deer a little She's
• 17:09
  Speaker 1: always been baby deerish, Yeah, but like she's so adorable.
• 17:13
  Speaker 3: She's so adorable.
• 17:15
  Speaker 2: You said something in the office that shocked me after
• 17:17
  Speaker 2: you saw that clipke, What did I say, can you
• 17:18
  Speaker 2: tell your friends about after you saw that?
• 17:21
  Speaker 3: Your mindset change?
• 17:22
  Speaker 1: I said, I want that. I want to feel that
• 17:24
  Speaker 1: way about somebody, which is very strange to me. And
• 17:27
  Speaker 1: I was thinking about it because I'm like, how does
• 17:29
  Speaker 1: one go about finding someone? I see people on TV
• 17:34
  Speaker 1: finding men, but like I'm in a different situation. You know,
• 17:39
  Speaker 1: I'm sober. So I was thinking, Okay, if I if
• 17:46
  Speaker 1: I do a bumble account, we all know my I
• 17:51
  Speaker 1: have a bond with Bumble not only because of what
• 17:54
  Speaker 1: they stand for. I love that it's female driven. I
• 17:58
  Speaker 1: would feel safe on that app because they put that
• 18:00
  Speaker 1: at the top of the list, but also I grew
• 18:03
  Speaker 1: up with Whitney Wolf who started Bumble, so it's it
• 18:09
  Speaker 1: resonates with me in many ways. But I was like,
• 18:11
  Speaker 1: if I start a Bumble account, I then know that
• 18:15
  Speaker 1: people who are signing up for that are wanting to date.
• 18:19
  Speaker 1: I can also weed them out quickly by writing in
• 18:22
  Speaker 1: my profile that I am sober, I am a mom
• 18:27
  Speaker 1: and put in the bio just exactly, you know, like,
• 18:31
  Speaker 1: no bullshit, this is what I'm looking for, this is
• 18:33
  Speaker 1: what my life entails, and whoever you know comes into
• 18:36
  Speaker 1: my world, this is what to expect. I feel like
• 18:38
  Speaker 1: that's the route I'm going to have to take. I
• 18:40
  Speaker 1: think that's smart because how else smart? How else do
• 18:43
  Speaker 1: you meet someone? I don't go out very often. I
• 18:45
  Speaker 1: love going out to dinner with people who I'm like
• 18:48
  Speaker 1: enjoying their time. But to go out to just hope
• 18:51
  Speaker 1: I meet someone, it's like, no, we Bumble is makes
• 18:55
  Speaker 1: the most sense for me to start dating right right?
• 18:58
  Speaker 3: I totally agree.
• 19:00
  Speaker 2: Let me ask you something about the dating, because We've
• 19:02
  Speaker 2: had this convo a couple times and I'm always interested
• 19:05
  Speaker 2: by your response.
• 19:06
  Speaker 3: Okay, so you say. Sometimes it's it's nerve racking when
• 19:10
  Speaker 3: it's like, let's go to dinner. What is your ideal?
• 19:14
  Speaker 2: Let's say you find someone you're like, this person's really cool.
• 19:17
  Speaker 3: I feel like I know you.
• 19:19
  Speaker 2: You have to at least converse with them a little,
• 19:21
  Speaker 2: whether or not it's over the app or in person whatever,
• 19:24
  Speaker 2: converse with them a little at first. You're not just
• 19:26
  Speaker 2: going to dinner with a stranger. You converse, you vibe,
• 19:29
  Speaker 2: you go, Okay, I'm down for a first date. What's
• 19:31
  Speaker 2: your ideal first date? Because it doesn't sound like it's
• 19:33
  Speaker 2: a dinner. It sounds like it's more like a chill
• 19:36
  Speaker 2: like not maybe a happy hour with friends obviously sober
• 19:40
  Speaker 2: happy hour with friends the first time, or it's a
• 19:45
  Speaker 2: coffee or a walk in the park or a lunch
• 19:48
  Speaker 2: like what is your ideal for safe?
• 19:49
  Speaker 3: Do you even know yet?
• 19:51
  Speaker 1: I'm kind of weird. I think my ideal first like meetup,
• 19:57
  Speaker 1: the word date freaks me out, would be with other couples.
• 20:01
  Speaker 3: Okay, so a.
• 20:02
  Speaker 1: Social Yeah, it takes the pressure off and like I
• 20:05
  Speaker 1: feel like when you go into a group setting, you know,
• 20:09
  Speaker 1: you can kind of see how they are with other people. Like,
• 20:11
  Speaker 1: let's not waste time. If I'm going to be sitting
• 20:13
  Speaker 1: here with you one on one, giving you my time
• 20:15
  Speaker 1: and then I PLoP you into a room with like
• 20:18
  Speaker 1: my friends and you're awkward, well then you just wasted
• 20:21
  Speaker 1: my time, and now I have to explain to you
• 20:24
  Speaker 1: why we're not going to link up again. Right, it's
• 20:26
  Speaker 1: easier to be like, hey, do you want to come,
• 20:28
  Speaker 1: We're all going to dinner. It takes the pressure off,
• 20:31
  Speaker 1: Like you don't need to pay for me. I don't
• 20:33
  Speaker 1: need to pay for you. It's just like I don't
• 20:36
  Speaker 1: like the normal dating.
• 20:39
  Speaker 3: Oh that's interesting that that's even a thought of yours.
• 20:42
  Speaker 3: At first.
• 20:42
  Speaker 2: I always expect when I used to first date is
• 20:45
  Speaker 2: paid for, no, ma'am, I mean, no questions asked. And
• 20:48
  Speaker 2: I know that's traditional and people would like boo me
• 20:50
  Speaker 2: for it, but I'm like always first date, Yeah, you
• 20:54
  Speaker 2: better pull.
• 20:55
  Speaker 3: Out your wallet.
• 20:55
  Speaker 1: Well I would like to think that they would pull
• 20:57
  Speaker 1: out their wallet. But at the same time, like, I'm
• 21:01
  Speaker 1: not bougie, but I am a little bit and like
• 21:05
  Speaker 1: I want to go somewhere yummy, and it may cost
• 21:08
  Speaker 1: a lot, and I may make a little bit more
• 21:10
  Speaker 1: money than you, So I don't want you to feel pressure.
• 21:12
  Speaker 1: So let's just go with a group of people. When
• 21:16
  Speaker 1: you can't pay for my sparkling water though, which has
• 21:18
  Speaker 1: happened to me, you're a real scrub.
• 21:22
  Speaker 2: Yes, And that's really sweet of you, what a sweet
• 21:25
  Speaker 2: like look. I want to enjoy dinner and if I
• 21:27
  Speaker 2: have to pay, I don't want them to stress. That's
• 21:28
  Speaker 2: really nice of you, Am I nice? That's very nice.
• 21:32
  Speaker 2: That is so nice of you to say.
• 21:35
  Speaker 3: So No, not the sparkling water though, take out.
• 21:38
  Speaker 2: Your wallets for the damn sparkling water lely because I
• 21:43
  Speaker 2: got it in a bottle rather than from the gun.
• 21:45
  Speaker 1: Well, there's a charge. And it was like, I don't
• 21:47
  Speaker 1: want to you'll just cover this. I was like, you're joking.
• 21:50
  Speaker 1: You're joking right, Oh no, And then you expect me
• 21:52
  Speaker 1: to kiss you at the end, have you no shra
• 21:55
  Speaker 1: damn mind?
• 21:56
  Speaker 3: What in the world right you?
• 22:01
  Speaker 1: The streets are filled with that.
• 22:04
  Speaker 3: I've been here looking at the wrong place.
• 22:06
  Speaker 1: Well that's why I've come to the realization that we're
• 22:09
  Speaker 1: doing bumble. And then I can just lay it out there.
• 22:12
  Speaker 1: Let's just cut to the chase. Baby, this is what
• 22:14
  Speaker 1: Laala is looking for.
• 22:16
  Speaker 3: Done, there we go.
• 22:17
  Speaker 1: Did you watch pH?
• 22:19
  Speaker 3: Did I watch pH?
• 22:20
  Speaker 1: Can I tell you my thoughts about Kyle? Yes?
• 22:23
  Speaker 2: And I'm so excited for your thoughts because I looked
• 22:25
  Speaker 2: at your notes and.
• 22:26
  Speaker 3: I don't agree with some of them. So I can't wait.
• 22:28
  Speaker 1: All right, let's get into it.
• 22:29
  Speaker 3: Hey, let's hear about Kyle.
• 22:31
  Speaker 1: So I had conversations with people about Kyle. I know
• 22:37
  Speaker 1: her not well. I'll see her like for example, if
• 22:40
  Speaker 1: Teddy Mellencamp has a birthday for her daughter Dove, Kyle
• 22:44
  Speaker 1: will pop in. It's like, hey, how are you great
• 22:46
  Speaker 1: to see you, but like we don't know each other
• 22:48
  Speaker 1: like that. My thought is she has never been sexier.
• 22:54
  Speaker 1: Everything about her, whether it's the confidence, like everything, even
• 22:59
  Speaker 1: her there's just something for me that I'm seeing that
• 23:04
  Speaker 1: feels very empowered. There are some women older than me
• 23:10
  Speaker 1: who are worried, and that's strange for me, especially because
• 23:14
  Speaker 1: I'm coming from a very different place than they are.
• 23:17
  Speaker 1: They are concerned that she's blowing her life up. These
• 23:21
  Speaker 1: are my thoughts. Mauricio has been dirty for many years.
• 23:25
  Speaker 1: From what we've heard to me, it seems like she's
• 23:28
  Speaker 1: fed up, but she's not saying what happened because she
• 23:33
  Speaker 1: wants to maintain like keeping everything very chill from the outside.
• 23:38
  Speaker 1: I'm not going to blow up his world or make
• 23:41
  Speaker 1: me seem like the victim. There are children involved, my
• 23:45
  Speaker 1: kids who are grown who I don't want them to
• 23:48
  Speaker 1: be dealing with this. And I am a little bit
• 23:51
  Speaker 1: annoyed because I'm sitting here saying to myself, blow him up,
• 23:55
  Speaker 1: blow up his spot. Don't you take the fall for
• 23:58
  Speaker 1: his bad behavior, which happens a lot. It happens a lot.
• 24:02
  Speaker 1: The second a dude does something dirty and the woman
• 24:05
  Speaker 1: speaks out on it, everyone looks at her. You have children,
• 24:10
  Speaker 1: rise above Hell No, when you do something and then
• 24:16
  Speaker 1: there are repercussions, that's just how it goes. Don't be
• 24:21
  Speaker 1: a lying, cheating snake, you dirty.
• 24:25
  Speaker 3: Dick, You dirty dick.
• 24:28
  Speaker 1: I won't have a spot to blow up if you
• 24:31
  Speaker 1: act right right.
• 24:33
  Speaker 3: I do wonder though, I do, I do.
• 24:37
  Speaker 2: My only differing opinion here is that they did have
• 24:40
  Speaker 2: so many as we've heard from her beautiful years together before.
• 24:45
  Speaker 2: Who knows what happened, but she has said before she's
• 24:49
  Speaker 2: has had a beautiful marriage, beautiful family, lots of good memories.
• 24:53
  Speaker 2: I do see her maybe looking at the kids and
• 24:57
  Speaker 2: being like, I don't want to tarnish those.
• 24:59
  Speaker 3: I don't want to.
• 25:00
  Speaker 1: She did have beautiful memories, and we could have continued
• 25:03
  Speaker 1: to have those beautiful memories, and you shit all over them.
• 25:05
  Speaker 1: So now I'm gonna shit all over you, all right,
• 25:09
  Speaker 1: I'm supposed to rise above and remember the beautiful memories
• 25:13
  Speaker 1: and our beautiful children when you shit all over that. Right, No,
• 25:16
  Speaker 1: you ruined this.
• 25:18
  Speaker 2: Do you think it could be more powerful that? She
• 25:20
  Speaker 2: says that to him though, and doesn't come out in public,
• 25:22
  Speaker 2: and she says exactly what you just said, but to him,
• 25:26
  Speaker 2: and she goes, I know this, and whatever if they
• 25:29
  Speaker 2: have a higher power, I know this, and God knows
• 25:31
  Speaker 2: this and it will be revealed.
• 25:33
  Speaker 1: Yeah, she very well. She's strong in her faith. I
• 25:39
  Speaker 1: do know that, and I'm sure you know. And she
• 25:42
  Speaker 1: has much more life experience than I have. I can't
• 25:45
  Speaker 1: even imagine being in a relationship for twenty plus years
• 25:48
  Speaker 1: four kids involved bringing a child from a different relationship
• 25:53
  Speaker 1: into it and having a man step up in that
• 25:56
  Speaker 1: regard as well. I don't know. I'm coming from my
• 25:59
  Speaker 1: own road right journey where I'm like, you are taking
• 26:05
  Speaker 1: the brunt of his actions and I don't like it.
• 26:08
  Speaker 1: It's time for the man to be looked at, Like,
• 26:11
  Speaker 1: if there was nothing for me to blow up, we
• 26:15
  Speaker 1: wouldn't have this problem. You didn't act right behind the scenes,
• 26:19
  Speaker 1: and now I have to like keep a brave face. No, no, no, no, blood.
• 26:27
  Speaker 2: I do agree. She has never been hotter. I mean,
• 26:32
  Speaker 2: she is stunning. When I was watching last night, just
• 26:34
  Speaker 2: even her sitting in that workout she had just gone
• 26:37
  Speaker 2: to the gym, like nothing, she was sitting in the
• 26:38
  Speaker 2: workout clothes, and I think Kyle was like, oh, she
• 26:41
  Speaker 2: must be like I don't know.
• 26:43
  Speaker 3: I think he said, like, she must be the youngest.
• 26:44
  Speaker 2: Hun. I was like, no, she's I You're Kyle, Yes, sorry,
• 26:48
  Speaker 2: Mi Kyle Mi. Kyle talking about Kyle Richards and said
• 26:53
  Speaker 2: she must be the youngest, right, And I told him
• 26:56
  Speaker 2: her age and he's like, I've honestly never seen a
• 26:59
  Speaker 2: better life. Like she's stunning, and he's like stunning her energy,
• 27:03
  Speaker 2: her glow, and we were talking about her inner workout.
• 27:06
  Speaker 3: Clothes, she had just gone to the gym. I was like,
• 27:07
  Speaker 3: there's something about her.
• 27:08
  Speaker 1: She looks really freaking good, amazing. Yeah, I how did
• 27:14
  Speaker 1: you feel about Do you think Sutton was upset that
• 27:15
  Speaker 1: she wore pants?
• 27:17
  Speaker 3: That's what I disagreed with you on.
• 27:19
  Speaker 1: Do you think she was upset that they were spreading
• 27:21
  Speaker 1: their legs?
• 27:21
  Speaker 3: I think it was a snowball effect.
• 27:25
  Speaker 2: I think at first she was annoyed because she's like,
• 27:27
  Speaker 2: I wore pants, and then I wasn't chosen, and then
• 27:29
  Speaker 2: I almost think her like bouginess or upitiness.
• 27:33
  Speaker 3: No disrespect was turned.
• 27:36
  Speaker 2: On by that, and then she was like, oh no, no, no,
• 27:39
  Speaker 2: I don't need to be here. I that being said,
• 27:44
  Speaker 2: I saw, well, I want you to say your notes,
• 27:46
  Speaker 2: but as of last night, I saw what you put
• 27:48
  Speaker 2: how you felt about her about wanting to give her
• 27:51
  Speaker 2: a hug, and I completely disagreed.
• 27:53
  Speaker 3: I wanted to look at her and be like, grow up.
• 27:56
  Speaker 2: And I again, I don't know Sutton, but she sees,
• 28:00
  Speaker 2: you know, fun, and she's a personality and she's southern
• 28:03
  Speaker 2: and cute.
• 28:03
  Speaker 3: But I was like, you could have googled the show.
• 28:07
  Speaker 3: You were disrespecting.
• 28:08
  Speaker 1: Hair no magic, Mike, though you asked if Channing Tatum
• 28:11
  Speaker 1: would be there, you know damn well with the show entels.
• 28:14
  Speaker 2: Exactly and also my big trigger is you have a
• 28:17
  Speaker 2: friend who went out of her way, Erica Jane, to
• 28:21
  Speaker 2: have her friend set up this beautiful night for you
• 28:23
  Speaker 2: VIP you get you know, you don't get pulled on stage,
• 28:26
  Speaker 2: big deal, but like a couple of your friends do.
• 28:28
  Speaker 2: It was Crystal's birthday. She should have been on stage.
• 28:31
  Speaker 2: And let's be honest, I can speak from this viewpoint.
• 28:34
  Speaker 2: Just I mean you can't too. But there are cameras there.
• 28:37
  Speaker 2: They're filming the show, and then you're gonna stand up
• 28:40
  Speaker 2: and stomp out and make a scene if I were Erica.
• 28:44
  Speaker 2: Erica handled it. So she's so classy track.
• 28:47
  Speaker 1: Arguing up for Lent.
• 28:48
  Speaker 3: I know I saw that, no arguing.
• 28:51
  Speaker 2: She killed it. But I would have been furious. I
• 28:52
  Speaker 2: would have been like, so disrespectful and rude. Don't do
• 28:56
  Speaker 2: that to my friends.
• 28:57
  Speaker 1: This is why I wanted to hug her. Yes, tell us, Okay,
• 29:00
  Speaker 1: she's the girl who wears a kitten sweater on a date. Yeah, okay, yeah,
• 29:04
  Speaker 1: I'm sure it's a million dollars. She's with these women
• 29:08
  Speaker 1: who are tits up, ass out, stilettos to the sky.
• 29:13
  Speaker 1: Everyone wants to fuck them. Yeah, she can't even get
• 29:16
  Speaker 1: a second date with a dude and then the one
• 29:18
  Speaker 1: time where it's like we're on camera and they'll probably
• 29:21
  Speaker 1: call me up and I wore pants and I can't
• 29:23
  Speaker 1: even get them to do that. Yeah, where it's like
• 29:26
  Speaker 1: I wanted to give her a little boost of confidence,
• 29:29
  Speaker 1: like I felt sad for her, like you need someone
• 29:31
  Speaker 1: to be like you're enough.
• 29:33
  Speaker 3: That's really why are you so so sweet today? You're
• 29:37
  Speaker 3: sweet every day?
• 29:37
  Speaker 2: But that's really nice, great, great viewpoint, because I guess
• 29:41
  Speaker 2: you're right. Do you think do you think that she
• 29:46
  Speaker 2: it was the pants the entire time she.
• 29:48
  Speaker 1: Talked about it. She's like, I never wear pants, and
• 29:50
  Speaker 1: I brought pants. And then remember the everyone else got
• 29:54
  Speaker 1: picked picked out of the crowd or whatever, not everybody,
• 29:57
  Speaker 1: but most of them besides sometton And she goes, I
• 30:00
  Speaker 1: wore fucking pants for this.
• 30:03
  Speaker 3: She said, I wore fucking pants for nothing.
• 30:05
  Speaker 1: I wore fucking pants for nothing, And it was like
• 30:08
  Speaker 1: heartbreaking to me. I was like, she's feeling left out,
• 30:12
  Speaker 1: like she wanted someone to give her a lap dance
• 30:15
  Speaker 1: and spread her legs.
• 30:17
  Speaker 2: And you know how much our hearts would have been
• 30:19
  Speaker 2: with her if she if that's what happened, And she
• 30:21
  Speaker 2: didn't do what she did, like, I.
• 30:24
  Speaker 1: Know, really sad. I wanted to hug her anyway. Moving on,
• 30:30
  Speaker 1: that's sweet though.
• 30:30
  Speaker 3: That's really sweet.
• 30:32
  Speaker 1: How did you feel about the conversation between Garcel and
• 30:34
  Speaker 1: the rest of the group when she said she doesn't
• 30:36
  Speaker 1: feel like she's in a safe space to discuss her children.
• 30:40
  Speaker 2: As I can't speak as a mother, but as soon
• 30:43
  Speaker 2: as moms say that, as soon as they go, as
• 30:45
  Speaker 2: soon as the kids come into it safe space, I go, Okay,
• 30:48
  Speaker 2: I hear you, Like I had.
• 30:49
  Speaker 3: No opinions that were differing.
• 30:53
  Speaker 2: She didn't feel that was a safe group to talk
• 30:56
  Speaker 2: about her kids. And I heard her, and I'm like, great,
• 30:58
  Speaker 2: that's how you feel, Zama. Good for you, Good for
• 31:01
  Speaker 2: you for saying it. How did you feel because you're
• 31:03
  Speaker 2: a mom, I'm not.
• 31:04
  Speaker 1: I could completely understand where she was coming from, and
• 31:07
  Speaker 1: she's a mama bear. I mean, even with what I said,
• 31:09
  Speaker 1: she completely iced me out. And I probably would have
• 31:11
  Speaker 1: done the same thing to her if she would have
• 31:14
  Speaker 1: said whatever I said about Ocean, and with everything that
• 31:19
  Speaker 1: she went through last year and the bots that were
• 31:23
  Speaker 1: coming for her son, and then Erica drunkenly telling her
• 31:27
  Speaker 1: son to go the fuck away. I don't know if
• 31:30
  Speaker 1: that's exactly what she said, but she used the F word.
• 31:32
  Speaker 1: Although they'd all deeply regret laughing about that, it's still
• 31:38
  Speaker 1: something where it's like, this is the one thing that
• 31:41
  Speaker 1: like I can't bounce back from when you come for
• 31:44
  Speaker 1: my kid. I also understood where Durree was coming from
• 31:48
  Speaker 1: because as a mom, if I had someone say to
• 31:51
  Speaker 1: me what you did hurt me when you laughed about
• 31:54
  Speaker 1: what happened to my child, I would be offended because
• 31:58
  Speaker 1: it's like, but I'm a mom, and I may have
• 32:00
  Speaker 1: messed up, but I understand where you're coming from, and
• 32:02
  Speaker 1: I want you to know that this is a safe space.
• 32:04
  Speaker 1: But like Garcela said, she was making it about her again.
• 32:08
  Speaker 1: But I could understand. I could understand where both of
• 32:11
  Speaker 1: them were coming from as moms. Garcel's offended that you
• 32:15
  Speaker 1: came for her child or laughed about something not freaking cool,
• 32:19
  Speaker 1: and I get it. But also as a mom, if
• 32:21
  Speaker 1: someone said I don't trust talking about my kid to you,
• 32:24
  Speaker 1: I'd be like, I'm so hurt by that.
• 32:26
  Speaker 3: It's very hurtful. It's very hurtful.
• 32:29
  Speaker 2: I hear in that sense, though I saw I did think,
• 32:33
  Speaker 2: you know, dorit. It isn't about you right now, and
• 32:35
  Speaker 2: I understand you're hurt, but to me, the tone was more.
• 32:38
  Speaker 2: She started coming at Garcel versus, Hey, I want to
• 32:41
  Speaker 2: let you know, I hear what you're saying, and I'm
• 32:43
  Speaker 2: very hurt by that, and I have to process this
• 32:44
  Speaker 2: in my own way.
• 32:46
  Speaker 3: But then again it's like that's also boring TV.
• 32:50
  Speaker 2: I know, it's like, you know, if she goes, I
• 32:53
  Speaker 2: have to process this and then it's.
• 32:55
  Speaker 3: Like, all right, lame scene.
• 32:59
  Speaker 1: Okay, did you watch Miami? Yes? I die that. Todd,
• 33:05
  Speaker 1: Alexia's husband, did a nine minute apology to Anthony via
• 33:09
  Speaker 1: social media.
• 33:13
  Speaker 3: How do you feel about Todd?
• 33:15
  Speaker 1: I like Todd.
• 33:16
  Speaker 3: I think he's sweet.
• 33:16
  Speaker 1: I think he's so sweet. Yeah, and he's like cute
• 33:19
  Speaker 1: with with her kids. And I loved that moment last year,
• 33:23
  Speaker 1: even though it got heavy between Alexia her two children
• 33:29
  Speaker 1: talking about Frankie and Todd saying you don't help him.
• 33:32
  Speaker 1: You guys, you know, treat him the way you would
• 33:36
  Speaker 1: treat other people and we need to baby him. I
• 33:40
  Speaker 1: like him.
• 33:41
  Speaker 2: I think he just has a sweet soul. I don't know,
• 33:44
  Speaker 2: it's like a gentle soul or something.
• 33:46
  Speaker 1: And he didn't show up for the Kumbayad dinner.
• 33:48
  Speaker 3: Well he was downstairs, right, he.
• 33:50
  Speaker 1: Was, Yeah, but he didn't like come up to mingle
• 33:52
  Speaker 1: with the group because he didn't want to talk about
• 33:54
  Speaker 1: the nine minute apology that he did via social media
• 33:58
  Speaker 1: to Anthony, I mean to me.
• 33:59
  Speaker 3: I go respect he said, I felt like I was.
• 34:03
  Speaker 2: There are people there that I however he phrased it,
• 34:07
  Speaker 2: I shouldn't have been up there, so I didn't come
• 34:09
  Speaker 2: up there. Did you think it was disrespectful that he
• 34:11
  Speaker 2: should have just swallowed whatever and like gone up there.
• 34:15
  Speaker 1: For his wife? Ye?
• 34:16
  Speaker 3: Yeah, you do?
• 34:17
  Speaker 1: Okay, Well, she was devastated. Alexia was like sobbing on
• 34:20
  Speaker 1: the phone to Marisol that he wasn't gonna come. I know,
• 34:24
  Speaker 1: I know.
• 34:25
  Speaker 3: I know.
• 34:25
  Speaker 2: It's hard though, because you, on one hand, you have
• 34:27
  Speaker 2: to know yourself what is worse him not showing, And
• 34:30
  Speaker 2: maybe it's him not showing or him going up and
• 34:32
  Speaker 2: saying something or doing something or having this awkward tension that.
• 34:36
  Speaker 1: That Alexia has to explain later. See, I it's I
• 34:41
  Speaker 1: don't know what it's like to really have a partner
• 34:43
  Speaker 1: come with me everywhere and then not show up to
• 34:45
  Speaker 1: something that's important to me. Because for the most part,
• 34:48
  Speaker 1: I have always gone places on my own, right, you know. Yeah,
• 34:51
  Speaker 1: So I just I can only sit here and say
• 34:53
  Speaker 1: what would I want in that moment. I would want
• 34:56
  Speaker 1: you to sack up for five minutes, because in a way,
• 35:01
  Speaker 1: I would rather explain to people why you said certain
• 35:05
  Speaker 1: things at the dinner than explain to people why you
• 35:07
  Speaker 1: didn't show up. Okay, because I think it's deeper than that,
• 35:11
  Speaker 1: which Adriana pointed out in the last episode that Todd
• 35:15
  Speaker 1: said you nailed it about.
• 35:17
  Speaker 2: The relationship, yeah, which is also like I love Todd,
• 35:21
  Speaker 2: but don't say that. It's if someone comes up to
• 35:23
  Speaker 2: you and it's like, what did she say trouble in
• 35:25
  Speaker 2: Paradise and he was like or something, and he was like,
• 35:28
  Speaker 2: you nailed it.
• 35:29
  Speaker 3: It's like, don't say that. Don't say that to another
• 35:31
  Speaker 3: one of the women.
• 35:32
  Speaker 1: Especially especially not Adriana.
• 35:35
  Speaker 2: No.
• 35:35
  Speaker 1: Alexia has been beefing with for the longest. Remember last season, Alexia,
• 35:39
  Speaker 1: something happened to Adriana's foot and everyone was telling her
• 35:42
  Speaker 1: to get over it. Yes, and she says to Alexia,
• 35:46
  Speaker 1: but accidents have consequences. Look at Franky No Todd, out
• 35:51
  Speaker 1: of all the people to say it to her.
• 35:54
  Speaker 3: I know I know that's the one. Yeah, didn't like that.
• 35:59
  Speaker 1: How crazy That Next week's episode, Lars's having a homecoming
• 36:06
  Speaker 1: party for Marcus, who's been conference weekday.
• 36:11
  Speaker 3: I want your take on Larson Marcus's relationship.
• 36:14
  Speaker 1: I want it, I want it, I want it, I
• 36:15
  Speaker 1: want it, I want it all. I want to be
• 36:18
  Speaker 1: h Travis and Taylor, and I want to be Lars
• 36:21
  Speaker 1: and Marcus. That's what I want.
• 36:22
  Speaker 2: Marcus is very good looking, he's very hot, and they're
• 36:26
  Speaker 2: very sweet together. I think they look like they have fun.
• 36:31
  Speaker 2: They look like they have so much fun. They look
• 36:33
  Speaker 2: like they have great sex.
• 36:35
  Speaker 3: The best done.
• 36:37
  Speaker 1: And she's busting it wide open, like four times a night.
• 36:39
  Speaker 2: She said wait when she was talking about her previous relationship, right, yeah, yeah.
• 36:44
  Speaker 1: And I think it was Cardi b or someone or
• 36:47
  Speaker 1: maybe Nicki Minaj that was like, so your vagina or something.
• 36:51
  Speaker 1: I know you're not. I could see her doing that though.
• 36:54
  Speaker 2: I could see her too, and guess what that was
• 36:56
  Speaker 2: whatever years ago with her previous relationship, her doing it.
• 36:59
  Speaker 2: Look at her in the gym with those squats, she
• 37:01
  Speaker 2: was killing it with all that weight.
• 37:03
  Speaker 3: I'm like, damn, she's.
• 37:05
  Speaker 1: Killing it in the bedroom and it's not like she
• 37:06
  Speaker 1: said she was doing reverse cowgirl four times, and I
• 37:09
  Speaker 1: she could have been fully deadfish, starfish or free of
• 37:13
  Speaker 1: those true, you know, true. All she said was she
• 37:16
  Speaker 1: was having sex, and that does not mean that you're
• 37:18
  Speaker 1: getting buck wild. You could literally just lay there, right,
• 37:25
  Speaker 1: you sure can. It's also crazy to me how quickly
• 37:29
  Speaker 1: people move on to other relationships in what sense, like
• 37:33
  Speaker 1: Lisa Lisa Hawkstein where she's and this is a common
• 37:37
  Speaker 1: thing where she's not even divorce yet and this could
• 37:40
  Speaker 1: take a while, right, I think she she did have
• 37:43
  Speaker 1: a small win in this last episode. But how you
• 37:46
  Speaker 1: can find someone and like not be scarred from.
• 37:49
  Speaker 3: It, I hear you.
• 37:52
  Speaker 2: I think that some people and I'm not saying this
• 37:55
  Speaker 2: in Lisa's case, but just even in my friend's case,
• 37:58
  Speaker 2: it's like they just got out of a four year
• 38:00
  Speaker 2: relationship and a month later, you're in a new relationship
• 38:04
  Speaker 2: and you're some people And this was me, And I
• 38:07
  Speaker 2: don't know if it's a codependent thing to truly get
• 38:09
  Speaker 2: over the last relationship. And it sounds bad saying because
• 38:13
  Speaker 2: it's kind of usy, but in the moment, I didn't
• 38:16
  Speaker 2: think I was doing that, and I ended up having
• 38:18
  Speaker 2: long relationships with these people, I had to date someone else.
• 38:21
  Speaker 2: I remember I got out of a two year relationship.
• 38:24
  Speaker 2: I was heartbroken, over heartbroken, I mean every night crying.
• 38:28
  Speaker 2: A month later, I was crying every night for a month.
• 38:31
  Speaker 2: I meet a guy I'm interested in him, and then
• 38:34
  Speaker 2: I was over it and I was like, oh, this
• 38:36
  Speaker 2: feels good by the way I was with that guy
• 38:38
  Speaker 2: for a year.
• 38:38
  Speaker 1: Wow.
• 38:39
  Speaker 2: So I don't know if it was a codependency thing,
• 38:41
  Speaker 2: but I hear what you're saying. Some people need the
• 38:43
  Speaker 2: time and space, and I think others kind of need
• 38:46
  Speaker 2: someone else.
• 38:48
  Speaker 1: Can I tell you what I think? Yes, I agree
• 38:50
  Speaker 1: with you, But I think if I were still drinking,
• 38:54
  Speaker 1: I would one hundred percent be in another relationship already.
• 38:57
  Speaker 3: Okay, okay, why do you think that loosens you up?
• 39:01
  Speaker 3: Let's the walls down.
• 39:02
  Speaker 1: You put your walls down. You just are a little
• 39:06
  Speaker 1: less in your head. It's a social thing. So like
• 39:09
  Speaker 1: you go out and you go to happy hour and
• 39:13
  Speaker 1: have some drinks, and you're kind of on the same
• 39:15
  Speaker 1: playing field as everyone else where. Like, I just think
• 39:19
  Speaker 1: have had I not If I got out of my
• 39:22
  Speaker 1: relationship and then was able to drink like a normal person,
• 39:28
  Speaker 1: I would have found somebody. I it may have been
• 39:32
  Speaker 1: a toxic somebody, it could have been a great somebody,
• 39:34
  Speaker 1: But I think I would be in a relationship.
• 39:37
  Speaker 2: Because it opens you up more and it's very social.
• 39:40
  Speaker 2: It's a very social thing. Look at our world today,
• 39:42
  Speaker 2: it's like, let's go grab a drink, right, it's rare
• 39:45
  Speaker 2: someone says let's go out in the evening and there
• 39:48
  Speaker 2: isn't alcohol involved unless you're sober.
• 39:51
  Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, so yeah that's And I also like, for me,
• 39:57
  Speaker 1: I don't please, don't come for me, you guys, my
• 40:00
  Speaker 1: heart can't handle it. But I don't think that I
• 40:02
  Speaker 1: could be with someone who also struggles with addiction because
• 40:06
  Speaker 1: I feel very strong in my sobriety and I know
• 40:10
  Speaker 1: that when I'm having weak moments, I know what to do.
• 40:12
  Speaker 1: And I'm not saying that there won't be a day
• 40:14
  Speaker 1: where I'm like, this is really freaking hard, but I
• 40:16
  Speaker 1: believe that I have the tools and I don't want
• 40:19
  Speaker 1: to worry about someone else and their sobriety. That may
• 40:24
  Speaker 1: sound selfish, but I just me having a child, like
• 40:28
  Speaker 1: I can only worry about me, and I need to
• 40:30
  Speaker 1: know that you're a nor.
• 40:32
  Speaker 2: Me rightfully, So I mean that's a lot to take on,
• 40:35
  Speaker 2: and I'm sure people in those relationships good for you
• 40:39
  Speaker 2: that can do it.
• 40:39
  Speaker 3: But it's so great to know yourself like that.
• 40:41
  Speaker 2: You know, yeah, you know yourself and you know what
• 40:44
  Speaker 2: you can and can't have. That is like I always
• 40:47
  Speaker 2: tell people, that's why it's like, oh, you can't be
• 40:49
  Speaker 2: happy in a relationship until you're happy with yourself. I
• 40:51
  Speaker 2: feel like a big as cliches. That is a big
• 40:54
  Speaker 2: part of that is knowing yourself, what makes you happy,
• 40:57
  Speaker 2: what you'll stand for, what you want, and then you
• 40:59
  Speaker 2: can get in a healthy relationship.
• 41:02
  Speaker 3: Where you know that, which is great.
• 41:03
  Speaker 2: We'll see, we'll see. It's weird the funk that I'm
• 41:07
  Speaker 2: in today. Are you in a funk a little bit? Yeah,
• 41:10
  Speaker 2: just kind of like eh, yeah.
• 41:12
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know what it is.
• 41:14
  Speaker 3: I bet you're exhausted.
• 41:15
  Speaker 1: Do you think that's what it might be?
• 41:17
  Speaker 2: Why you've been going going, going, like literally going, and
• 41:20
  Speaker 2: we our first break will be Hawaii.
• 41:24
  Speaker 1: Yeah, that'll be really nice.
• 41:25
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 41:29
  Speaker 1: Did you watch Southern Charm?
• 41:31
  Speaker 3: I did.
• 41:32
  Speaker 1: It's the best show on TV right now.
• 41:34
  Speaker 2: I have to say last night was the first time
• 41:37
  Speaker 2: I've ever watched Southern Charm, and I I almost.
• 41:42
  Speaker 3: Feel nervous saying this to your friends here.
• 41:46
  Speaker 1: But say it to my friends. We are a very
• 41:48
  Speaker 1: open minded group of people. It's a judgment free zone.
• 41:53
  Speaker 3: Is it didn't seem that wall?
• 41:55
  Speaker 1: There was that last video you know what though? Can
• 41:57
  Speaker 1: I tell you there was this girl She always slides
• 42:01
  Speaker 1: into the And the reason I know about her is
• 42:03
  Speaker 1: because Easton showed me something mean that she said about him,
• 42:06
  Speaker 1: and she sent She wrote a comment in the Sandoval
• 42:10
  Speaker 1: video and said, unfollow, I'm glad I can finally be
• 42:13
  Speaker 1: done listening to this podcast. And I was like, I've
• 42:15
  Speaker 1: been wanting you gone for a minute, Like people like you,
• 42:19
  Speaker 1: I don't want listening, Like you ain't in alignment with me.
• 42:22
  Speaker 1: Go listen to some other fucking podcast, because we are
• 42:26
  Speaker 1: way too good for you, bitch, like you don't even
• 42:28
  Speaker 1: deserve to have us up in your ears.
• 42:31
  Speaker 3: Bye, goodbye.
• 42:32
  Speaker 2: Yeah, the real ones, the ones who listen and like
• 42:37
  Speaker 2: love it and vibe with us, those are the real ones.
• 42:40
  Speaker 3: Thank you, real ones. And we met a lot of
• 42:42
  Speaker 3: those Abravo.
• 42:42
  Speaker 1: Con Well, It's like, I feel bad for you. You're
• 42:44
  Speaker 1: constantly commenting mean things and you still tortured yourself with listening.
• 42:48
  Speaker 1: Ye And I had to give you a reason to stop,
• 42:50
  Speaker 1: Like you couldn't even come up with that on your own,
• 42:52
  Speaker 1: being like, I just don't enjoy this. I think I'm
• 42:53
  Speaker 1: gonna listen to something else. Yeah, you continued to torture yourself.
• 42:58
  Speaker 1: You're an idiot. You're an idiot.
• 43:01
  Speaker 2: Yeah, but Southern charm was triggering for me.
• 43:06
  Speaker 1: Okay, tell me everything.
• 43:08
  Speaker 2: I do not know these characters. I do not know
• 43:11
  Speaker 2: these people. I'm sure they're great. I was around a
• 43:14
  Speaker 2: couple of them at Bravo con not didn't talk to them.
• 43:17
  Speaker 3: They seemed great.
• 43:18
  Speaker 2: I think it was like Craig, and is it Craig
• 43:20
  Speaker 2: that's engaged to page?
• 43:23
  Speaker 1: Are they engaged? You guys are together, they've been on
• 43:27
  Speaker 1: a long term relationships.
• 43:28
  Speaker 3: Age is one with the short brown hair.
• 43:30
  Speaker 2: She's hilarious, by the way, love her great, Oh great style.
• 43:34
  Speaker 2: I gave her a follow and I was like, I mean,
• 43:36
  Speaker 2: she's funny and style. But I lived in Nashville for
• 43:39
  Speaker 2: ten years.
• 43:40
  Speaker 3: I make this quick. Lived in Nashville for ten years.
• 43:42
  Speaker 3: I went to Belmont University.
• 43:44
  Speaker 2: When I was in college, we went to a lot
• 43:46
  Speaker 2: of Vanderbilt University parties. There's something about the frat guys.
• 43:53
  Speaker 2: Southern with that are always in the jackets, the button ups,
• 43:57
  Speaker 2: the Sperry's, the bonobos, Like, they were never very nice
• 44:03
  Speaker 2: to me. We never vibed, and they in like anytime
• 44:06
  Speaker 2: the girls and I would go to frat parties, they
• 44:08
  Speaker 2: were always douchey to me. And I'm I'm generalizing like crazy.
• 44:12
  Speaker 2: I'm sure there were amazing there's amazing frat guys. I
• 44:15
  Speaker 2: nannied for a couple whose guy was in a frat
• 44:19
  Speaker 2: and he went to a nice school, and they were amazing.
• 44:22
  Speaker 2: But in general, a lot of the Southern frat guys
• 44:24
  Speaker 2: and I clashed all the time.
• 44:26
  Speaker 3: I thought they were douchey. They thought I was like
• 44:28
  Speaker 3: kind of.
• 44:29
  Speaker 2: Masculine and like I would make jokes and be sarcastic
• 44:32
  Speaker 2: and they wouldn't get it, and then they were like,
• 44:35
  Speaker 2: your friend's a bit.
• 44:35
  Speaker 3: Like it was always like that.
• 44:38
  Speaker 2: Yeah, and my girlfriends, like more sorority girls always love them,
• 44:41
  Speaker 2: and I just clashed so that when I watched this,
• 44:43
  Speaker 2: I was like, oh, those are the same guys, and
• 44:46
  Speaker 2: it was a little triggering for me, even though they're
• 44:48
  Speaker 2: probably not.
• 44:49
  Speaker 3: Shep gave me a little of that vibe.
• 44:51
  Speaker 1: Mm okay, that makes sense.
• 44:53
  Speaker 2: Craig didn't, but it was like the fly fishing, the
• 44:57
  Speaker 2: even the outfits. This is so vain and like surface
• 45:00
  Speaker 2: level of me. But I was just like sitting there
• 45:02
  Speaker 2: watching and it just took me back to those days.
• 45:05
  Speaker 2: I'm I'm gonna keep watching it because I think the
• 45:07
  Speaker 2: girls are sweet and but it was tough.
• 45:11
  Speaker 1: Wow. I love a parallel that you can draw to
• 45:15
  Speaker 1: why you were triggered, but you love it. So I'm obsessed. Okay, amazing,
• 45:19
  Speaker 1: and I think the boys are hysterical, and I just
• 45:23
  Speaker 1: I love Craig. But it was so funny because that Bravocon.
• 45:28
  Speaker 1: I talked about this today on Amazon Live. But it
• 45:30
  Speaker 1: was my row and then Taylor Armstrong from OC and
• 45:35
  Speaker 1: then like Craig and Shep, and Taylor was disciplining them the.
• 45:41
  Speaker 3: Entire Bravos like turning around.
• 45:43
  Speaker 1: Turning around, and she was giving DMZ outside of Craig's energy.
• 45:49
  Speaker 1: It was iconic. I was like, tay you good, and
• 45:53
  Speaker 1: she was like, I will tell you what, I'm about
• 45:57
  Speaker 1: to pull some Oklahoma on there as I could be there, Mother,
• 46:04
  Speaker 1: it is annoying. It was amazing, good for her. I
• 46:07
  Speaker 1: loved it. So then we're walking out and and Shep
• 46:11
  Speaker 1: seems a little down, and I was like, what's going on, dude,
• 46:13
  Speaker 1: and he goes Craig blamed it on me that I'm
• 46:18
  Speaker 1: the reason why they stopped serving drinks in the show,
• 46:23
  Speaker 1: like they cut us off? Were they was he? I
• 46:25
  Speaker 1: was like, no, they told us they were only gonna
• 46:29
  Speaker 1: serve drinks every other break. Because he told me that
• 46:31
  Speaker 1: he was only served I think two or three drinks
• 46:33
  Speaker 1: and there it was every other break. I was like, no,
• 46:37
  Speaker 1: they were just done serving drinks. It was the last break,
• 46:40
  Speaker 1: no drink. Yeah, and now the show's over. Yeah, that's
• 46:42
  Speaker 1: why he was very defeated by that comment.
• 46:46
  Speaker 3: Is he so tall?
• 46:48
  Speaker 1: Where the charm boys are massive, really huge? And I've
• 46:54
  Speaker 1: been around them before and I'm like, did y'all get
• 46:56
  Speaker 1: those shots where you grow like a or two more
• 47:01
  Speaker 1: because you're ginormous.
• 47:03
  Speaker 3: Chef looks very tall.
• 47:04
  Speaker 1: I'm talking like six' five six six, wow, Huge, wow
• 47:09
  Speaker 1: it's very. Hot i'm.
• 47:11
  Speaker 2: SURE i was gonna, Say i'm sure they're very. Nice
• 47:13
  Speaker 2: i'm sure they're very. NICE i just have and it's
• 47:15
  Speaker 2: probably SOMETHING i have to work. ON i just have
• 47:17
  Speaker 2: a thing for those freddy. Guys that a bad.
• 47:21
  Speaker 1: Thing, well we'll just both talk about it in. Therapy
• 47:25
  Speaker 1: we've all got our. Triggers. Perfect.
• 47:28
  Speaker 2: Perfect what About Olivia taylor? Talking Olivia taylor talking when, okay.
• 47:34
  Speaker 1: So outside of, that She olivia comes up To taylor's
• 47:37
  Speaker 1: cabin or whatever her parents'. House, yes and the mom
• 47:40
  Speaker 1: comes out again trigger trigger not, me you.
• 47:44
  Speaker 2: Me olivia's showing, up you. Guys the sweetest, Thing, Olivia
• 47:48
  Speaker 2: i'm friends with the.
• 47:51
  Speaker 3: Parents so.
• 47:51
  Speaker 2: Sweet BUT i had, an you, know experience in The
• 47:56
  Speaker 2: south Where.
• 47:58
  Speaker 3: God loving And christian.
• 48:00
  Speaker 2: Energy christianity was very, showy so it was always, like,
• 48:04
  Speaker 2: oh you, know bless.
• 48:05
  Speaker 3: Your heart and Like god is with. You she Needs,
• 48:08
  Speaker 3: Jesus and then they'd be talking. Shit they'd be like.
• 48:11
  Speaker 2: This you, know this little and say the most horrific
• 48:14
  Speaker 2: things and then be like she just Needs, jesus and it's, like,
• 48:17
  Speaker 2: honey you Need. Jesus you need to go to, confession my,
• 48:21
  Speaker 2: friend because you're being. Mean but it was like so
• 48:25
  Speaker 2: then when there's like even just the mom being, LIKE i,
• 48:29
  Speaker 2: Mean god is. Good look at this beautiful land and
• 48:32
  Speaker 2: this beautiful, house and it's like, right but also like
• 48:35
  Speaker 2: your jobs are good, too to get That god is.
• 48:38
  Speaker 1: Good also like my brother just, Died like it's really
• 48:43
  Speaker 1: hard for me to look at the scenery right now.
• 48:45
  Speaker 1: Exactly god is.
• 48:46
  Speaker 3: Good god is. Good it's, like, yeah, Yes god is.
• 48:49
  Speaker 2: Good but it's also, LIKE i don't, know there's just
• 48:52
  Speaker 2: little things in the prayer, outside please be just like
• 48:55
  Speaker 2: AND i.
• 48:56
  Speaker 1: Don't, know it's it burned you.
• 48:57
  Speaker 3: Off it's off putting to.
• 48:59
  Speaker 2: ME I i need to appreciate it. More i'm just
• 49:02
  Speaker 2: that's a. Trauma But i'm not. Trauma But i'm just
• 49:05
  Speaker 2: a bit triggered because of my. Experience how did you?
• 49:07
  Speaker 2: Feel because that's WHAT i want to know about their.
• 49:10
  Speaker 1: CONVERSATION i loved the, prayer, okay sweet big on. Prayer
• 49:15
  Speaker 1: AND i just feel Like taylor's. FAMILY i feel like
• 49:18
  Speaker 1: They're god fearing. PEOPLE i don't see them talking shit about.
• 49:22
  Speaker 1: PEOPLE i think that they are that their faith is. Everything, Okay,
• 49:29
  Speaker 1: TAYLOR i think is a little. Lost she's a lost
• 49:31
  Speaker 1: little soul sending nudies to people and making out with her,
• 49:35
  Speaker 1: friend her best friend's. Ex, MAN i understand Why olivia is,
• 49:38
  Speaker 1: like you know, WHAT i just don't trust. You AND
• 49:40
  Speaker 1: i love that she was upfront and honest about. It
• 49:42
  Speaker 1: i'm not going to play. PRETEND i don't even feel
• 49:44
  Speaker 1: comfortable enough staying, Here i'm going to go To. Shep's
• 49:47
  Speaker 1: taylor shows, up she, likes SO i left your house
• 49:50
  Speaker 1: to just be with you at another. House what the?
• 49:52
  Speaker 1: Hell felt so horrible For. Olivia Then, rod who snores,
• 49:57
  Speaker 1: heavily sits her, down, SAYS i want to be EXCLU
• 50:00
  Speaker 1: i maybe he's awkward on. CAMERA i don't. Know there
• 50:03
  Speaker 1: is zero chemistry. There and if you close your, eyes
• 50:07
  Speaker 1: he sounds just Like Austin. Krohl i'm, like you guys
• 50:11
  Speaker 1: sound like the exact same. Person don't they just her ex?
• 50:17
  Speaker 1: Boyfriend the?
• 50:18
  Speaker 2: Blog, yeah With, Taylor, okay he it was the car
• 50:22
  Speaker 2: and LOOK i get.
• 50:23
  Speaker 3: It it's like they're feeding into us as the.
• 50:25
  Speaker 2: Audience but the car ride where it was just like,
• 50:27
  Speaker 2: silent it was so awkward AND i.
• 50:29
  Speaker 3: Was, like, oh tensing. Up They i'm. Glad she, said,
• 50:36
  Speaker 3: well that's not What i'm looking for right.
• 50:37
  Speaker 2: NOW i Think taylor is a little, lost BUT i also,
• 50:42
  Speaker 2: THINK i, Mean i've been.
• 50:43
  Speaker 3: There it's LIKE i also.
• 50:45
  Speaker 2: Think she's just like trying To it's SO i haven't been.
• 50:48
  Speaker 2: There i've never never made out with a friend's. Man
• 50:53
  Speaker 2: i've had that happen to, me which is Why i've
• 50:55
  Speaker 2: never done.
• 50:56
  Speaker 1: It but.
• 50:58
  Speaker 3: She was so fed up at the end of.
• 51:02
  Speaker 2: The night that my heart started to break a little
• 51:04
  Speaker 2: when she did the wine.
• 51:05
  Speaker 1: Thing i'm, sorry but that was freaking. Funny oh What
• 51:11
  Speaker 1: chap losing his mind over the ping pong game and
• 51:15
  Speaker 1: then be like do you enjoy making fun of? Me
• 51:19
  Speaker 1: and her being, like do you enjoy cheating on? Me
• 51:20
  Speaker 1: he goes sometimes it was? Fun now you ask wrong
• 51:26
  Speaker 1: thing to, say literally.
• 51:30
  Speaker 2: Triggered because HE i used to fucking see that all the.
• 51:35
  Speaker 2: Time your fucking football team, loss and now you're being
• 51:37
  Speaker 2: a little bitch to me at your frat party because
• 51:40
  Speaker 2: your football team.
• 51:41
  Speaker 3: Loss oh, oh like.
• 51:44
  Speaker 1: Hells the owner.
• 51:49
  Speaker 3: Literally he had a what ping? Pong he lost a ping?
• 51:52
  Speaker 2: Pong and then he's gonna pitch around and cry and be,
• 51:54
  Speaker 2: like you're making fun of.
• 51:55
  Speaker 3: Me it's, like IF i were, HER i would have
• 51:57
  Speaker 3: laughed in his face and been, like a you're a,
• 52:00
  Speaker 3: Weirdo you're a. Baby i'm.
• 52:02
  Speaker 1: SAME i wouldn't have said, like do you enjoyed cheating on?
• 52:05
  Speaker 1: ME i what does that have to do with the
• 52:06
  Speaker 1: ping pong? Game and then his reaction to that was,
• 52:09
  Speaker 1: LIKE i think the winner here is Shep chef won
• 52:13
  Speaker 1: the game and.
• 52:14
  Speaker 3: Then she grows in bed with him that?
• 52:16
  Speaker 2: Night another, another another fucking trigger is these a lot
• 52:21
  Speaker 2: Of southern women friends of. Mine it was, like and,
• 52:24
  Speaker 2: THIS i Love southern, women but it was, like the
• 52:27
  Speaker 2: man can be so rude and mean to you and
• 52:30
  Speaker 2: call you, names and then you're, like you make this
• 52:32
  Speaker 2: big scene and then an hour later you're, like.
• 52:35
  Speaker 3: Sweetie move, Over i'm getting in bed with. You it's,
• 52:37
  Speaker 3: like what are you?
• 52:38
  Speaker 1: Doing what are you? Doing call? Someone call her. Mama
• 52:42
  Speaker 1: she needs some, prayer needs to, well, yeah and tell
• 52:46
  Speaker 1: her to add me to the prayer list Because i'm
• 52:49
  Speaker 1: in need of some.
• 52:49
  Speaker 3: TOO i do like, OVERALL i love her parents, though so.
• 52:53
  Speaker 2: Sweet her parents are Darling and WHAT i said earlier
• 52:57
  Speaker 2: does not reflect WHO i am as a.
• 52:58
  Speaker 1: Human you're, asshole just, kidding all, right it's my favorite
• 53:03
  Speaker 1: time of the. Pod, UGH i Missed east in this.
• 53:06
  Speaker 2: Episode i'm actually very sad that he is not in.
• 53:10
  Speaker 1: Here, yeah but it's even sadder that my, dog that
• 53:12
  Speaker 1: my mom's dog may.
• 53:13
  Speaker 2: Die, No I'M i can't even think about that because
• 53:16
  Speaker 2: that's truly.
• 53:17
  Speaker 3: Heartbreaking it's.
• 53:18
  Speaker 1: Devastating i'm trying not to think about it Or i'll
• 53:20
  Speaker 1: lose my. Mind so CAN i tell you WHAT i
• 53:23
  Speaker 1: think is also tripping me out THAT i think is
• 53:26
  Speaker 1: going to be my ache of the. Week, yes the
• 53:28
  Speaker 1: holidays are coming. Up at, first it was like you
• 53:32
  Speaker 1: just buy for the, friends, right and then you get
• 53:34
  Speaker 1: older and you're, like we don't need to buy, anymore
• 53:36
  Speaker 1: let's just do a. Dinner but now we all have, kids,
• 53:38
  Speaker 1: Right SO i have a laundry list of. CHILDREN i have,
• 53:42
  Speaker 1: Summer i've Got, Cruise i've got my own, Baby i've
• 53:44
  Speaker 1: Got hartford And messer right to buy. Four And i'm,
• 53:48
  Speaker 1: like this is also stressing me out so naturally BECAUSE
• 53:52
  Speaker 1: i also want to save. Money have you dealt with
• 53:57
  Speaker 1: racket in the? App?
• 53:58
  Speaker 3: No I'M i literally opened it Because i'm.
• 54:01
  Speaker 1: Obsessed, Okay SO i Told jessica to download this. App,
• 54:04
  Speaker 1: Yeah i've talked to you guys about it before it
• 54:07
  Speaker 1: comes in handy in moments like this because my ache,
• 54:12
  Speaker 1: is oh my, Hell i'm so stressed about buying, gifts
• 54:15
  Speaker 1: get into your app right. Now this is my, relief, Right,
• 54:17
  Speaker 1: Yes so not only CAN i shop for all these many,
• 54:22
  Speaker 1: CHILDREN i am also going to get cash back on
• 54:26
  Speaker 1: all my, stuff all, RIGHT i can Shop disney Blooming
• 54:29
  Speaker 1: dale's for my. Friends, right look at These, Nikes, NO i,
• 54:34
  Speaker 1: see do see The? Nikes Nikes Air.
• 54:37
  Speaker 2: Jordan's And i'm, also by the, way because you know,
• 54:40
  Speaker 2: Me i'm so difficult with.
• 54:42
  Speaker 3: Gifts i'm just scrolling through the Freaking Disney monsters ink
• 54:46
  Speaker 3: stuff For, ocean which is, like.
• 54:48
  Speaker 1: NO i, Know i'm getting. It and THEN i, think,
• 54:50
  Speaker 1: like these really cute BECAUSE i want summer In ocean
• 54:54
  Speaker 1: to have matching. Shoes uh, Huh so these cute little
• 54:57
  Speaker 1: pink Air force, Ones oh.
• 54:59
  Speaker 3: My, god for summer In hartford And.
• 55:03
  Speaker 1: Ocean don't you think they'd be so? Cute, no these are,
• 55:05
  Speaker 1: ADORABLE i, know so. Cute and then don't even get me,
• 55:08
  Speaker 1: started BECAUSE i Think i'm gonna go like ham on
• 55:11
  Speaker 1: myself At. Bloomingdale's oh my, god, WAIT i.
• 55:14
  Speaker 2: Just found pet smart on racketin which Means i'm Getting.
• 55:17
  Speaker 1: Lily lily's gonna need a lot of Gifts, ocean Or
• 55:23
  Speaker 1: lily's gonna need a lot of gifts because she just
• 55:25
  Speaker 1: lost her best.
• 55:25
  Speaker 2: Friend, Yeah i'm gonna get. Her i'm gonna get her,
• 55:30
  Speaker 2: something some special.
• 55:31
  Speaker 1: Things OH i see some stuff for? You oh my,
• 55:34
  Speaker 1: god all, Right i'm feeling much better about. THIS i
• 55:38
  Speaker 1: was starting to freak. Out you, GUYS i know that
• 55:40
  Speaker 1: the holidays are coming. Up if you're tweaking out LIKE i,
• 55:43
  Speaker 1: am feeling like you need to get all of these
• 55:45
  Speaker 1: gifts and it gets so. Expensive if you download the racketin,
• 55:49
  Speaker 1: APP i promise there are so many stores to shop
• 55:52
  Speaker 1: from on, there and you also get cash. Back that's
• 55:56
  Speaker 1: the Way i'm gonna be shopping because it just feels
• 56:00
  Speaker 1: like it makes the most. Sense i've got too many
• 56:03
  Speaker 1: people to buy. FOR i feel LIKE i want to
• 56:05
  Speaker 1: ball on a. Budget that's What i'm. Doing so that's
• 56:08
  Speaker 1: my ache and, Relief, okay because that's pushing me over THE.
• 56:11
  Speaker 1: EGGE i hear, You, yeah what's your ache and?
• 56:15
  Speaker 2: Relief so my ache this week IS i feel like
• 56:17
  Speaker 2: it's kind of a, relief But i'm going to say
• 56:20
  Speaker 2: it as an ache. Anyway we have such a busy. Week,
• 56:22
  Speaker 2: Yes i'm gonna say my ache and relief is. One
• 56:25
  Speaker 2: we have such a busy week, ahead Which i'm so excited,
• 56:28
  Speaker 2: about AND i feel like people will learn about it
• 56:31
  Speaker 2: down the. Road my, ACHE i guess it's not really
• 56:34
  Speaker 2: an egge because it's just busy WHICH i, love and
• 56:37
  Speaker 2: we've Got.
• 56:38
  Speaker 1: Your ache is that we're not going to be able
• 56:40
  Speaker 1: to breathe this. Week, yes, yeah we've got a huge.
• 56:42
  Speaker 3: Week we've got a big. Week but my relief can
• 56:45
  Speaker 3: be that we Have hawaii coming.
• 56:47
  Speaker 1: UP i love.
• 56:48
  Speaker 3: It, yes that is.
• 56:49
  Speaker 1: Epic, Yeah i'm going to add. That my ache is
• 56:53
  Speaker 1: That easton did not get to join, us But i'm
• 56:55
  Speaker 1: so thrilled that he took over taking care Of. Ocean you,
• 56:59
  Speaker 1: GUYS i love you so. MUCH i hope that this
• 57:03
  Speaker 1: podcast was not too intense at the very. BEGINNING i
• 57:06
  Speaker 1: think it'll be fun to watch so On. Friday remember
• 57:09
  Speaker 1: audio comes Out, wednesday which is what you're listening to right.
• 57:11
  Speaker 1: Now the video will be up On friday on YouTube
• 57:14
  Speaker 1: at nine Am pacific. TIME i love you guys so.
• 57:18
  Speaker 1: Much have the, happiest Happiest, humpday AND i will catch
• 57:21
  Speaker 1: you all next. Week