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ShakiraWannabe1 · Scrubbing In with Becca Tilley & Tanya Rad

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  Speaker 1: Scrubbing in with Belly and Tanya rap An iHeartRadio podcast.
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  Speaker 2: Hello everybody, we are scrubbing in.
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  Speaker 1: Scrub the dub dub in the tub tub.
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  Speaker 2: Oh wow, that had some like spice to it.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, that's right.
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  Speaker 2: Happy Monday, Happy Monday.
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  Speaker 1: Becca Tilly how Art thou upon of me.
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  Speaker 2: Oh, I'm good, I'm tired. Oh yeah, just preach preaching,
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  Speaker 2: to preach it out loud.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah. We're both in Vegas this weekend. Not together coincidentally, Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: not together. As hard as I tried, she did try hard.
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  Speaker 2: I was there with the bachelorette party, so I was
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  Speaker 2: very much like on the schedule of like group activities,
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  Speaker 2: and Tanya is flying and I'm talking text at like
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  Speaker 2: rapid fire texts, and I look at my phone. I'm
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  Speaker 2: at brunch, so I like didn't have my phone. She's like,
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  Speaker 2: made it to the hotel in case you were nervous
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  Speaker 2: or I made it safe. I'm like, yeah, it wasn't.
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  Speaker 2: I honestly did not think about it.
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  Speaker 1: First of all, I got into my cab at the
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  Speaker 1: Las Vegas airport and this guy is driving and he
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  Speaker 1: makes a turn, like a right hand turn, and I
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  Speaker 1: hear like a like it's like like a thump, thump, thumb,
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  Speaker 1: like something was wrong with the tire. Definitely wrong with
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  Speaker 1: the tire, but he seemed unfazed by the loud cranking noise.
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  Speaker 1: But I'm getting on a freeway, so I'm panicking because
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  Speaker 1: I'm like, this car could like the tire could blow.
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  Speaker 1: So I had the seatbelt on and I was bracing
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  Speaker 1: the seat in front of me in case there was
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  Speaker 1: a blown tire.
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  Speaker 2: I don't know, I would have been more injured from
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  Speaker 2: the tight right.
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  Speaker 1: Like would have broken my Yeah. It was very scary,
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  Speaker 1: but I did make it in one piece.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah. Taylor Banks texted me and was like Tanya's already
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  Speaker 2: or she said, your baby reindeer has moved.
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  Speaker 3: On to me today. Wow, I said, yeah.
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  Speaker 2: I was like, I've got rapid fire text.
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  Speaker 1: I was like, good luck, Oh my god, wow wow.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: That just puts it into perspective. What you what you
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  Speaker 1: tell her about me?
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  Speaker 2: Well, I think they. I think it's on the podcast.
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  Speaker 2: I don't think anything I tell her is new information.
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  Speaker 1: But it's true because I was texting her like hey,
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  Speaker 1: I'm here, Hey I'm parking. Hey I'm here, Hey, I'm
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  Speaker 1: getting lunch. When do you want to meet you want
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  Speaker 1: to get a drink before?
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  Speaker 4: Was she the one involved in the wedding she was
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  Speaker 4: at the Yeah, no, no, no no, I would not disturb her.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, please.
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  Speaker 1: I have some boundaries, not many, but some. Yeah, when
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  Speaker 1: it comes to weddings, I have actually a lot of boundaries.
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  Speaker 1: I didn't text my hairstylist, Tawny for like four weeks
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  Speaker 1: because I didn't want to bug her, like two weeks
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  Speaker 1: before her wedding and two weeks after when I really
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  Speaker 1: needed a root touch up. Yeah, I was boundaries.
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  Speaker 2: That was nice. Yeah, when you go to weddings, now
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  Speaker 2: do you or do you see lens? Oh?
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  Speaker 1: Wow?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, like you're like, oh I love this. I want
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  Speaker 2: to incorporate this. Yes, would do this differently, Yeah, totally.
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  Speaker 2: What'd you take away from this wedding?
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  Speaker 1: Well, so I don't know give it away, but I
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  Speaker 1: guess it doesn't really matter, right, it doesn't matter now.
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  Speaker 1: So Rob and I had been discussing, we want to
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  Speaker 1: write like a letter to everybody that's coming to the wedding. Oh.
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  Speaker 1: I saw that she did that, and she wrote a
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  Speaker 1: letter to everybody, but she had them open it during
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  Speaker 1: the ceremony, which I liked. And it's on the table.
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  Speaker 1: But I still think I might do it, like with
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  Speaker 1: the welcome bags, you know what I mean, like just
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  Speaker 1: like set the tone for the weekend.
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  Speaker 4: Individual letter to every person attending the wedding. Yeah, oh
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  Speaker 4: my god, what it just seems like a lot.
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  Speaker 2: It's so nice, but that is like such a thoughtful,
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  Speaker 2: time consuming activity.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, we got to start now.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: I was gonna say, break it up into fives, you know.
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  Speaker 2: To a day instead of your morning letters. Yes, your
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  Speaker 2: morning notes. Robbie might have to take the sacrifice and
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  Speaker 2: stop perceiving them for a moment. Correct, and you can.
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  Speaker 2: You can.
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  Speaker 1: These are all pine in the sky dreams. Though, like
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  Speaker 1: if it doesn't come to if we don't actually accomplish it,
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  Speaker 1: I'm not going to be upset at myself. But that's
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  Speaker 1: the goal.
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  Speaker 2: There's some big news regarding your wedding though.
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  Speaker 1: Not yet, but you know when it happens.
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  Speaker 2: Wait, what what the date?
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  Speaker 3: We have a date?
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  Speaker 1: No, I have to sign. I have to sign a contract.
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  Speaker 1: I don't have until I signed a contract.
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  Speaker 2: I got the official We have a date?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, I do.
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  Speaker 2: I do.
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  Speaker 1: I mean I needed to get it out to like
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  Speaker 1: my maid of honor and like people like that that,
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  Speaker 1: like this is happening. We just haven't like signed the
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  Speaker 1: dotted line.
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  Speaker 2: Can I like book a flight? Yeah yeah, okay, okay,
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  Speaker 2: yeah yeah, go ahead and try and get on that nice.
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  Speaker 2: Be it responsible.
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  Speaker 1: But she had something really cute at her wedding that
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  Speaker 1: was it was like a phone and you pick it
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  Speaker 1: up and you would instead of a guest book, you like.
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  Speaker 2: Leave a message. Yeah, leave a message. I saw that.
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  Speaker 1: It was so cute, but I also realized I'm horrible
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  Speaker 1: at leaving messages. It's not like leaving a voice note, oh,
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  Speaker 1: which I don't do. Yeah. Yeah, so stressful. Okay, well
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  Speaker 1: it's an idea, yeah, but it was such a beautiful wedding.
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  Speaker 2: My handwriting is really bad, so leaving a note and
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  Speaker 2: a guest book always stresses me out because it's like
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  Speaker 2: I'm trying to hurry because there's people waiting behind me.
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  Speaker 2: My handwriting's bad. I'm like, what do I say in
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  Speaker 2: this short little moment? You know?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, so I like the idea of a phone we're
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  Speaker 1: gonna have. Well, y'all'll tell you what we're gonna have. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: I've already told you. We're gonna do the cards playing cards.
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  Speaker 2: Oh that's right. Yeah, I think you even said that
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  Speaker 2: on the podcast.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, so we're feeling good.
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  Speaker 1: We're feeling good. Things are, things are moving along. You
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  Speaker 1: missed the first family meeting.
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  Speaker 2: I wasn't invited.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, no, no, it's it's for the best because I
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  Speaker 1: don't really know what I'm doing. I'm letting Paulina lead
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  Speaker 1: the charge in this. But she makes PowerPoint presentations. Yeah, yes,
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  Speaker 1: and let me tell you it is helpful. It is.
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  Speaker 2: I'm so happy that you chose her, Like I'm couldn't
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  Speaker 2: be happier to be a part, but I could not
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  Speaker 2: be happier that we are a co.
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  Speaker 1: There's other things I'm gonna need to lean on you for.
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  Speaker 2: And we'll get to those, but for now, one thing
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  Speaker 2: I don't do is a PowerPoint presentation.
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  Speaker 1: Yes, and it's organization. Yes, but I discovered something yesterday.
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  Speaker 1: What wait, I feel like we're just getting more like
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  Speaker 1: really frazzled. We're not like going in order.
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  Speaker 3: Seems fine to me.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, Well, I discovered something yesterday about Paulina, and I'm
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  Speaker 1: curious about yours. Okay, do you have conversations pinned on
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  Speaker 1: your phone?
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  Speaker 2: Just one? Is it?
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  Speaker 1: Me?
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  Speaker 2: No, it's not you. It's my like team stuff for work.
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  Speaker 2: Oh no, I don't even know how to and I
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  Speaker 2: think it happened accidentally and I just left it before
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  Speaker 2: it actually works because I am so like, I will
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  Speaker 2: ignore that text wherever my team won. But when it's
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  Speaker 2: at the top for some reason, it bugs me when
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  Speaker 2: there's like a little dot there, so I always check it.
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  Speaker 2: But that's only one.
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  Speaker 3: It's surprising.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I actually did know this.
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  Speaker 2: I actually I was gonna say, you've come front of
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  Speaker 2: me about this, but what did you notice about Paulina's
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  Speaker 2: So she.
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  Speaker 1: Got on my case because I had you pinned and
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  Speaker 1: I didn't have her pinned.
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  Speaker 2: Oh my gosh. That is so controversial.
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  Speaker 1: And guess who's not pinned in her phone?
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  Speaker 2: You?
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  Speaker 1: Yes?
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  Speaker 2: Wait, so why did she get mad?
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  Speaker 5: How?
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  Speaker 2: Because you had me?
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  Speaker 3: Yes, for sure, I do. Yeah.
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  Speaker 4: They're co maids of Honor, aren't they? Then they should
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  Speaker 4: both be pinned.
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  Speaker 1: This was before I chose maids of Honor.
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  Speaker 4: Still as best friend. There's like a healthy competition between
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  Speaker 4: her there though, because clearly that's Becca is my best friend.
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  Speaker 3: That's what that says.
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  Speaker 2: It's like, well, hear it. It's like wearing a.
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  Speaker 1: Pin that could barely responds, so I have to put
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  Speaker 1: it at the top to like.
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  Speaker 3: No to no, no, I'm not buying that if I'm Paulina.
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  Speaker 2: So who else is in your pinned?
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  Speaker 1: Oh? My gosh, I mean I have so many?
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  Speaker 2: Oh really yeah? So yeah, I don't know much about
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  Speaker 2: this world the pins.
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  Speaker 1: It's quite a nice world, and I think you should
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  Speaker 1: dabble in it.
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  Speaker 2: I'm happy with mine right now, just one.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, Oh, you don't want three? At least it's like
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  Speaker 1: cohesive on.
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  Speaker 3: The three you have like white space.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, it's just centered. It's like has my attention.
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  Speaker 1: But I think having three would be like perfect because
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  Speaker 1: you just have like three.
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  Speaker 2: Oh. I would consider Haley, but I don't that's really it.
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  Speaker 2: I don't know. I think so.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, i'd have to check. I think you should pin her.
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  Speaker 2: But she's always just like right at the top because
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  Speaker 2: we talk all day.
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  Speaker 1: Sure, but a pin like is important.
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  Speaker 2: Well why wasn't Paulina pinned?
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  Speaker 1: Well she is now. The thing is she is no.
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  Speaker 2: Reasoning for not having her pinned that you gave her.
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  Speaker 1: Honest, I can't remember.
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  Speaker 2: At the time you were panicking.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I was like, ah, like I have so many
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  Speaker 1: group chats with you and it I was like, it
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  Speaker 1: wasn't even supposed to be beca accidentally got pinned.
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  Speaker 2: I don't even know how she's up there.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, totally no idea.
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  Speaker 2: So y'all add at each other's pin, you'll pin each other.
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  Speaker 1: No, she didn't even pity. I was like, I want
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  Speaker 1: your pity pin. I don't want to pity pin.
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  Speaker 3: You have seven though? Who are your seven?
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  Speaker 1: It's like work stuff like on like the morning group chat,
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  Speaker 1: I have like the kiss of fem one family one,
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  Speaker 1: you know yeah, things like that.
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  Speaker 3: Wow.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, not a lot of individual ones sure, yeah, mostly
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  Speaker 1: just like group ones, yeah, because.
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  Speaker 2: Those get lost in translation.
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  Speaker 1: Totally totally.
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  Speaker 2: Like I was on a group chat for this bachelorette
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  Speaker 2: trip and once I left Saturday, I left early and
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  Speaker 2: they were there till yesterday and it was group chat. No, no, no,
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  Speaker 2: but I just hid the alerts because it was like,
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  Speaker 2: you know, they were, where are we meeting? What do we?
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  Speaker 2: You know?
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  Speaker 4: Such a fan of yeah yeah, group chats? Yeah, such
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  Speaker 4: a fan.
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  Speaker 1: When you go to bachelorette parties, do you look at
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  Speaker 1: them through a different lens?
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  Speaker 2: Now? Oh? I know you were trying to like make
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  Speaker 2: that about me, like, I made the wedding thing about you,
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  Speaker 2: but it doesn't really work for me.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, it does. Why when you attend a bachelorette do
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  Speaker 1: you look at it from a different lens?
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  Speaker 3: Why?
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  Speaker 1: Though? Why plan mine?
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  Speaker 2: I've helped three of my friends play in there.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, so yeah, I mean, I'm every new beginning is
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  Speaker 1: in some other beginnings end.
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  Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I'm ready. I'm curious to see. Yeah that
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  Speaker 2: was I'm just gonna go right past that one. What
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  Speaker 2: is your vision for a Bachelorrett? Is it gonna be
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  Speaker 2: like chill, like relax or is it gonna be like club?
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  Speaker 4: I may I guess I'm guessing club and lots of
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  Speaker 4: penis stuff.
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  Speaker 2: Definitely, lots of peanis.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, definitely pin the penie on the Robbie on the
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  Speaker 1: Robbie doll. That has to happen. But it's funny that
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  Speaker 1: you asked that, because Paulina was like, so, we're obviously
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  Speaker 1: doing like a wintery spot, right, And I was like,
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  Speaker 1: I don't like the cold.
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  Speaker 2: But she thought we were doing a winter school.
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  Speaker 1: It's probably gonna be January.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, but I thought we were talking about Miami or something.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, that's where I'm leaning.
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  Speaker 3: So she was thinking like Utah.
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  Speaker 1: Like snow, like cabin vibes.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, and I was like, I love a cozy cabin situation.
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  Speaker 1: Your bacherette though maybe yeah, I don't know, because I'm
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  Speaker 1: really in this phase of life where like I'm tired,
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  Speaker 1: you know, the tired phase of life. So the amount
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  Speaker 1: of like the club and like seeing Becca and Ali's
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  Speaker 1: photos and videos from the clubs make like it was.
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  Speaker 2: Let me tell you something, A lot of these girls
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  Speaker 2: that were on this Bachelor at our mom's I was
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  Speaker 2: inspired by their endurance. I was I could not hang.
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  Speaker 2: And I have this theory that if you partied like
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  Speaker 2: that in college, like if that was your kind of
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  Speaker 2: like your vibe in college, you can.
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  Speaker 3: Just tap into muscle memory.
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  Speaker 2: I yeah, it's like muscle memory. And I don't have
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  Speaker 2: that because I did not drink or party in college
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  Speaker 2: at all, so like I really have to be That's why,
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  Speaker 2: like the note, I could never be in those environments
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  Speaker 2: sober whatever. If if people can go to those clubs
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  Speaker 2: like that and stay out till that late and be.
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  Speaker 1: Just like raw dog it god, bless God.
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  Speaker 2: I mean inspirations, yeah truly, yeah, but I did not
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  Speaker 2: feel great Saturday.
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  Speaker 1: What'd you drink.
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  Speaker 2: I just drink tequila. But I don't know what happened.
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  Speaker 2: I think it was I didn't sleep the night before
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  Speaker 2: and then I don't really know why it went. I
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  Speaker 2: just was tired my feet her. I was like, I
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  Speaker 2: feel like an elderly person and all these girls, these
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  Speaker 2: moms that are have like barely any sleep ever or
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  Speaker 2: just like crushing. I was like, y'all are amazing they
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  Speaker 2: get to this.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: I guess maybe there's that part of it, but I
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  Speaker 2: was just like, wow, y'all are like cool.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Like I it's like I have both sides of it
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  Speaker 1: where it's where I see the like, oh, I want
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  Speaker 1: to like rage and do like the penis paraphernalia. And
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  Speaker 1: then I'm like, it also seems so fun to just
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  Speaker 1: like be in a space with all my best friends
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  Speaker 1: and like just doing nothing, you know what I mean.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, Well, there is a way of one day it's
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  Speaker 2: like slumber party vibes and do like a spa day,
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  Speaker 2: and then the next night is like we rage.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I definitely want a Love Island theme for one
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  Speaker 1: of the nights.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, what does that mean?
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  Speaker 1: I don't know, maybe just like some water bottles of
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  Speaker 1: people's names, you know what I mean.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm just wondering what that bachelorette theme would look like.
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  Speaker 1: Sparkles like like heels, okay, yeah, she in Yeah, we're
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  Speaker 1: gonna workshop it.
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  Speaker 2: Well, there's very little clothing, some water bottles.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, some water bottles, and really time.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, all right, we'll troubleshoot it.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah. So that was my experience of Vegas. I was
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  Speaker 2: just like, Wow, I'm exhausted. I literally got home. I
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  Speaker 2: actually had to come home early to go to a
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  Speaker 2: work event with Haley because we went to this well,
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  Speaker 2: we went to Chain Fast, which is all these chains.
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  Speaker 1: I wanted to go to.
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  Speaker 2: That actually, but we went because Lactad had a booth.
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  Speaker 2: Oh wow. We went with Lactate. And so I got
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  Speaker 2: home and I was dying, like I owned. I was like,
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  Speaker 2: how am I It's it was so hot outside. I
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  Speaker 2: was regretting some decisions I made the night before. So
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  Speaker 2: then we got home. I showered and did not leave the.
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  Speaker 1: Couch for the rest of the weekend.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, yesterday, I did a lot of couch time. But
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  Speaker 2: I tried. I went throw all my pants, like my
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  Speaker 2: jeans and stuff. So I was trying them all on
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  Speaker 2: and I got physically ill ignauseous, and I'm like, is
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  Speaker 2: this because I'm just devastated. How many pants I'm giving
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  Speaker 2: away because they don't fit anymore or they're too tight,
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  Speaker 2: I don't know, but I was like, heyle, I need
• 15:21
  Speaker 2: to lay down again, so I need to like not well, yeah.
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  Speaker 1: So I'm going to lay down for the next week
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  Speaker 1: and a half.
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  Speaker 2: Are you This is what I don't get. So Tanya
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  Speaker 2: can go to Vegas. She goes for like ten hours
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  Speaker 2: right then she does stuff for the rest of the weekend.
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  Speaker 2: There's no stopping.
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  Speaker 1: No, I didn't stop. So then I woke up Saturday morning,
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  Speaker 1: I went to the Breast Cancer Walk, did that with
• 15:43
  Speaker 1: Robbie and the kids and like, because if I'm had
• 15:45
  Speaker 1: a team, so we all did that together. Then that
• 15:48
  Speaker 1: evening we had a bar bought Mitzvah. I went to
• 15:51
  Speaker 1: a bought mitzvah Saturday evening, and then Sunday I had
• 15:55
  Speaker 1: a meeting with Paulina to do wedding stuff. And then
• 15:57
  Speaker 1: it was Robbie's mom meet his birthday, so we spent
• 16:02
  Speaker 1: the whole day like playing cards and and uh, and
• 16:05
  Speaker 1: then we went to dinner and I had a jam
• 16:07
  Speaker 1: packed weekend and I woke up today and I looked
• 16:10
  Speaker 1: at my calendar and I said, come us, no Moss.
• 16:17
  Speaker 1: So for the next week and a half, I will
• 16:19
  Speaker 1: be vertical horizontal yes, yeah, yeah, yeah, yep. Focusing on
• 16:25
  Speaker 1: being horizontal.
• 16:27
  Speaker 2: Wow.
• 16:27
  Speaker 1: Well, especially because I got my period two in the
• 16:29
  Speaker 1: middle of this weekend, so imagine that.
• 16:33
  Speaker 2: No, I'm just I'm I'm again. I'm inspired.
• 16:36
  Speaker 1: The lack of sleep and on top of the first
• 16:39
  Speaker 1: day of my mental phase was quite the uh, the
• 16:42
  Speaker 1: hum dinger, brutal. We did it, you know, we showed up,
• 16:46
  Speaker 1: We shout up for people.
• 16:47
  Speaker 2: Yeah, you do you do that, you never cancel and
• 16:49
  Speaker 2: I really admire that about you.
• 16:51
  Speaker 1: Thank you so much.
• 16:52
  Speaker 2: I can't say the same for myself. But okay, So
• 16:56
  Speaker 2: Alex Cooper had Kamala Harris on the podcast.
• 16:59
  Speaker 1: Did you listen it?
• 17:00
  Speaker 2: No, I haven't listened to it yet, but I'm going to.
• 17:02
  Speaker 2: But I wanted to talk about the reaction. But we'll
• 17:05
  Speaker 2: do that when we come back. Okay, we are back,
• 17:23
  Speaker 2: so we're going.
• 17:25
  Speaker 1: To get into that. And then I don't want to
• 17:26
  Speaker 1: forget this mark. But I want to talk about your
• 17:28
  Speaker 1: birthday and Halloween.
• 17:29
  Speaker 2: Okay, that was not hard to put a note in
• 17:33
  Speaker 2: no old brain for but with what's going on in
• 17:36
  Speaker 2: this brain?
• 17:37
  Speaker 1: Okay, No, I got to say it out Loudah.
• 17:40
  Speaker 2: I just so I think that call her Daddy. Alex
• 17:45
  Speaker 2: Cooper was did an interview with Kamala Harris and I
• 17:50
  Speaker 2: was thinking, Wow, that is so amazing. As a podcast
• 17:54
  Speaker 2: host myself, I'm thinking, how epic to have a presidential nominee,
• 17:59
  Speaker 2: the current vice president of the United States to sit
• 18:01
  Speaker 2: down and talk with you, Like, I was just amazed
• 18:03
  Speaker 2: by that. And I opened the comments and I was
• 18:06
  Speaker 2: so shook. People were like, I can't believe this. I'm
• 18:09
  Speaker 2: leaving you lost me have Trump on. And so she
• 18:13
  Speaker 2: releases this message I think before she even released the
• 18:17
  Speaker 2: podcast that was basically like, I want to have this
• 18:20
  Speaker 2: conversation about where women stand and I want to talk
• 18:22
  Speaker 2: about things that will relate to the Daddy Gang. And
• 18:25
  Speaker 2: she was like, and I did reach out to Trump's
• 18:27
  Speaker 2: team and asked if he wanted to come on the
• 18:29
  Speaker 2: podcast to also talk about women's rights, and he declined
• 18:32
  Speaker 2: or you know, wasn't coming on. So it's like she's saying,
• 18:36
  Speaker 2: I'm willing to hear and sit down with both sides.
• 18:39
  Speaker 2: The comments shook me, and I was like, this is
• 18:42
  Speaker 2: so crazy to me because in my mind, I'm thinking
• 18:46
  Speaker 2: as a pop podcast host, getting to do that is
• 18:52
  Speaker 2: so epic, and like, if you're a fan of her,
• 18:55
  Speaker 2: it'd be like the encouragement of being like this is
• 18:57
  Speaker 2: so awesome regardless of what side you're on, and this
• 19:00
  Speaker 2: is huge. You know.
• 19:02
  Speaker 1: You bring up an interesting point about the comments. I
• 19:05
  Speaker 1: never saw one of those comments. I didn't read the comments.
• 19:09
  Speaker 1: Oh oh yeah, I don't go into the comments.
• 19:11
  Speaker 2: It's smart. Is it enrages you? It will enrage you.
• 19:16
  Speaker 1: But you can find some nuggets in there.
• 19:18
  Speaker 3: I mean you can, but it's a cesspool.
• 19:20
  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, it was.
• 19:22
  Speaker 2: It was. I was shocked. I was just like, wow,
• 19:27
  Speaker 2: it's it's just it blows my mind. The lack of
• 19:32
  Speaker 2: I don't know what the word is.
• 19:33
  Speaker 1: But does it surprise you though? Yeah, like it does
• 19:39
  Speaker 1: it surprise you? I think that you couldn't even say
• 19:42
  Speaker 1: one thing about a certain person on your Instagram story
• 19:45
  Speaker 1: without getting political comments in your dms.
• 19:48
  Speaker 2: Yeah no, but like.
• 19:51
  Speaker 4: If the vice president wanted to come on scrubbing in,
• 19:53
  Speaker 4: we would accommodate that.
• 19:54
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I'd be so nervous. I'd be like I don't
• 19:57
  Speaker 2: know how.
• 19:57
  Speaker 1: I would not how to do it, like honestly, so
• 20:04
  Speaker 1: get the one.
• 20:07
  Speaker 2: So how do you and Doug?
• 20:08
  Speaker 5: How Joe?
• 20:09
  Speaker 2: What was the meaning? Like, yeah, the first date?
• 20:12
  Speaker 1: Yeah, tell me about your stepmam.
• 20:15
  Speaker 2: The fact that she had that opportunity and took it
• 20:18
  Speaker 2: and did. From what I've seen, people like loved the interview.
• 20:21
  Speaker 2: I'm excited to listen to it. But I just think
• 20:23
  Speaker 2: it's interesting because she releases this whole thing that basically
• 20:26
  Speaker 2: says I also invited Trump, and then the comments are like,
• 20:30
  Speaker 2: then why don't you have Trump?
• 20:32
  Speaker 5: And it's like she said, she Trump's never going to
• 20:34
  Speaker 5: do something like That's that's right to their own respect, right, right,
• 20:40
  Speaker 5: And I can speak to that from the Seacrest Show.
• 20:43
  Speaker 4: We've had Obama on, we had Biden on, We've had
• 20:45
  Speaker 4: Kamala on years ago. That's it's just a strategy on
• 20:49
  Speaker 4: the part of both parties.
• 20:51
  Speaker 5: Right.
• 20:51
  Speaker 4: The Democratic Party likes to reach out to the younger
• 20:54
  Speaker 4: shows like the Seacrest Joe that call her daddy. The
• 20:56
  Speaker 4: Republican Party doesn't do that because those aren't there people
• 21:00
  Speaker 4: the pool they're trying to draw from. Those are the
• 21:03
  Speaker 4: voters they're trying to get so that's fine. It's a
• 21:05
  Speaker 4: strategy on both parts. It doesn't It's not a bias
• 21:07
  Speaker 4: on the part of the hosts of these shows.
• 21:09
  Speaker 1: Totally grubbing and reached out to both parties. We actually
• 21:14
  Speaker 1: should just get the response.
• 21:16
  Speaker 2: Just to see it right now, we're going to pass.
• 21:20
  Speaker 3: We always with secrets, we always reached out to both parties.
• 21:23
  Speaker 4: Was you know, I've been here a long time Romney
• 21:25
  Speaker 4: McCain once of the time, you always reach out to
• 21:28
  Speaker 4: both parties.
• 21:28
  Speaker 3: It's stanton. I think also there's some sort of legality
• 21:31
  Speaker 3: there that you were required to. Yeah.
• 21:34
  Speaker 2: Yeah, But I also am like, why as a host,
• 21:38
  Speaker 2: if you're wanting to have a sit down, why wouldn't
• 21:40
  Speaker 2: you read I mean, having both parties would be the
• 21:43
  Speaker 2: ideal situation, right, like to have to say, and that's
• 21:47
  Speaker 2: what she was trying to say, Like I offered it.
• 21:49
  Speaker 2: It was out there. So I was just fascinated by
• 21:52
  Speaker 2: that because I'm thinking if we got someone that we
• 21:55
  Speaker 2: had an opportunity to talk to at that level and
• 21:58
  Speaker 2: our listeners were like, I'm out for this, because like
• 22:01
  Speaker 2: it's it's just I get it. We are in a
• 22:04
  Speaker 2: very divided I don't.
• 22:05
  Speaker 1: Think yeah, it doesn't surprise me at all, because I
• 22:08
  Speaker 1: feel like there's so much tension with everything. It's like
• 22:15
  Speaker 1: there's so much anger and animosity that it's just like
• 22:19
  Speaker 1: anything can set people off. Yeah, like literally anything.
• 22:22
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 22:22
  Speaker 4: It's also very interesting to me, just the world in
• 22:24
  Speaker 4: twenty twenty four, that the Alex Cooper's is a huge
• 22:27
  Speaker 4: vote of confidence for podcasts in general, for Alex Cooper
• 22:30
  Speaker 4: in particular, That a presidential nominee sees that as a
• 22:33
  Speaker 4: valuable use of an hour of her time in October
• 22:36
  Speaker 4: of an election year. That's kind of amazing, right, and
• 22:39
  Speaker 4: just kind of the world we're living in, and they're
• 22:41
  Speaker 4: not saying I'm going to do an interview on NBC
• 22:44
  Speaker 4: every Sunday morning. I'm going to go and call her
• 22:45
  Speaker 4: daddy instead, because that's where the voters are watching network
• 22:49
  Speaker 4: news anymore.
• 22:50
  Speaker 1: The future is podcasts is basically the features women podcasts. Yeah. Yeah,
• 22:57
  Speaker 1: so that's kind of headline I'm getting from.
• 22:59
  Speaker 3: All of it.
• 22:59
  Speaker 4: I think very interesting. I think it was very smart
• 23:01
  Speaker 4: of Vice President Harris to do.
• 23:04
  Speaker 2: I'm I'm excited to listen to it. Okay, do you
• 23:07
  Speaker 2: remember your aim screen name?
• 23:10
  Speaker 3: Yes?
• 23:11
  Speaker 1: Want to be one that's not real?
• 23:14
  Speaker 2: Shakira want to be one.
• 23:16
  Speaker 1: Yeah, because Shakira wanna be was just was taken. Why
• 23:24
  Speaker 1: where does this come from?
• 23:26
  Speaker 2: Well, I just there's this like filter going around where
• 23:29
  Speaker 2: people are posting their aim screen names, and so I
• 23:34
  Speaker 2: think I think one point it was Lil Till till
• 23:38
  Speaker 2: five and then I upgraded to Becca zero five five five.
• 23:44
  Speaker 2: I don't know where the zero five five five came from,
• 23:47
  Speaker 2: but that was the one.
• 23:48
  Speaker 1: Yeah. Five feels like it's your lucky number. It's my
• 23:50
  Speaker 1: favorite number, favorite number. What's the difference, huh favorite lucky?
• 23:56
  Speaker 2: I don't know. I don't like associate it with luck.
• 23:58
  Speaker 2: I just it's my favorite number.
• 24:00
  Speaker 3: Has been trying to find a lucky number, and I
• 24:02
  Speaker 3: think you suttled on one.
• 24:03
  Speaker 1: Yeah, so I was like you just because I was
• 24:06
  Speaker 1: so I felt so left out because like everybody has
• 24:08
  Speaker 1: a lucky number and I've never had one, and so
• 24:11
  Speaker 1: I was like I had fomo and so I came
• 24:14
  Speaker 1: up with my own and it's eighteen.
• 24:17
  Speaker 2: Wow, you know that's like my Oh what are the reasons?
• 24:23
  Speaker 1: Yeah? Well, I liked the number eight because it's like infinity,
• 24:26
  Speaker 1: So I like the number eight eight doesn't hold any significance,
• 24:29
  Speaker 1: but eighteen is the day that I was born in
• 24:32
  Speaker 1: eighteen eighty seven, So eighteen.
• 24:37
  Speaker 2: Sorry, sorry, she's she's a time traveler.
• 24:44
  Speaker 3: You look fantastic.
• 24:46
  Speaker 1: Sorry, eighteen is just just.
• 24:48
  Speaker 2: The botogs is crushing. I wish eighteen.
• 24:59
  Speaker 1: Sorry eighteen. It is just the day, not the year
• 25:01
  Speaker 1: that I was born, just the day.
• 25:04
  Speaker 2: So your birth year has nothing to do with eighteen, no, as.
• 25:07
  Speaker 1: We've just just just now discovered.
• 25:10
  Speaker 3: Yeah, but I was.
• 25:11
  Speaker 1: Born in eighty seven, which is another eight, So eights
• 25:13
  Speaker 1: seemed to be significant, but eighty eight by itself just
• 25:17
  Speaker 1: doesn't do it because eight doesn't all the significant. But
• 25:25
  Speaker 1: eight is in eighteen, so that can in eighty seven.
• 25:28
  Speaker 2: Yeah, my birth eight, But I like eighteen. That's when
• 25:33
  Speaker 2: Haley and I met, twenty eighteen. My brother in law
• 25:37
  Speaker 2: his football number was eighteen. That's a huge number in
• 25:39
  Speaker 2: their lives.
• 25:40
  Speaker 1: See, and eight is the infinity symbol. And I'm getting married,
• 25:45
  Speaker 1: which is fever.
• 25:46
  Speaker 4: I can't wait to watch Crystal's edit of this on
• 25:49
  Speaker 4: Instagram when you realize you just said eighteen eighty seven.
• 25:51
  Speaker 3: That's gonna be so funny to watch that.
• 25:54
  Speaker 1: Sonny who that's my liking money lucky number. I'm going
• 25:58
  Speaker 1: to be booking on Aisle eighteen.
• 26:01
  Speaker 2: That's kind of far.
• 26:03
  Speaker 3: I think it maybe eight. I think maybe eighteen. Good
• 26:05
  Speaker 3: way to go.
• 26:06
  Speaker 1: How do I come back from eighteen eighteen?
• 26:09
  Speaker 2: I don't think you were that deeply connected based on
• 26:13
  Speaker 2: your latch, especially official. Okay, I like that, what's the.
• 26:18
  Speaker 1: Day to day to eighth seven?
• 26:20
  Speaker 2: Shoot, that would have been cool, but some people might
• 26:24
  Speaker 2: listen only eight.
• 26:25
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 26:25
  Speaker 2: Yeah, Wow, that really threw me for a spin. I
• 26:30
  Speaker 2: was just like, for some reason picturing the lady from
• 26:32
  Speaker 2: the Titanic talking about like come back when.
• 26:37
  Speaker 1: I think I I think I confused it because when
• 26:39
  Speaker 1: you have to put on your birthday, I do seven
• 26:42
  Speaker 1: eighteen eighty seven, so I think it's eighteen eighties. I'm
• 26:47
  Speaker 1: exactly Yeah, thank.
• 26:48
  Speaker 2: You, Speaking of I was booking something the other day
• 26:50
  Speaker 2: and I had to scroll down to my birth year.
• 26:52
  Speaker 2: That scrolls getting longer and longer. No one warns you
• 26:56
  Speaker 2: about that, Like I never was warned about that, And
• 26:58
  Speaker 2: then all of a sudden I went to do it,
• 27:00
  Speaker 2: and I was like, God, I've been scrolling for a minute.
• 27:02
  Speaker 4: How about when you get to the next range, like
• 27:04
  Speaker 4: it says your age range eighteen to thirty four, thirty
• 27:08
  Speaker 4: four to fifty four whatever, and you're like, oh, I'm
• 27:10
  Speaker 4: in the next range. That's the worst.
• 27:15
  Speaker 2: Yeah, it's a it's a privilege.
• 27:17
  Speaker 1: But you know, I saw this meme and I sent
• 27:19
  Speaker 1: it to Becca because we were like, at thirty five,
• 27:22
  Speaker 1: there really is this like shift, and there's all these
• 27:25
  Speaker 1: memes that are out there that are like, you know,
• 27:27
  Speaker 1: you think that it's coming at thirty. Everybody prepares, Oh,
• 27:30
  Speaker 1: you're turning thirty, you turn thirty or five love thirty
• 27:33
  Speaker 1: and thirty five. It's like, but you know, yeah versus
• 27:39
  Speaker 1: walkers my team. When I was left wrong last night,
• 27:43
  Speaker 1: I can't move my neck to the right, and I'm like,
• 27:45
  Speaker 1: what the fuck is this?
• 27:47
  Speaker 2: Like I never had this in my life. It's literally
• 27:49
  Speaker 2: like you go to walk down the stair on your knee,
• 27:52
  Speaker 2: it's like a give out and you're like, yeah, I
• 27:56
  Speaker 2: was stretching. I was doing a motion taking pictures with
• 27:58
  Speaker 2: Ali in Vegas and every my every joint was popping,
• 28:01
  Speaker 2: and she was like, are you okay? Yeah, it's dark,
• 28:05
  Speaker 2: But you know what, there is something about like some
• 28:08
  Speaker 2: don't our cycle shift every seven years or something, or
• 28:11
  Speaker 2: there's something about our bodies that there's a new cycle
• 28:13
  Speaker 2: that starts. My beer skin.
• 28:16
  Speaker 1: Yeah, anyways, it not has nothing to do your period.
• 28:19
  Speaker 2: It happens every seven years, and thirty five is within
• 28:23
  Speaker 2: the fifth seconds.
• 28:24
  Speaker 1: After seven, after five, thirty five is forty two.
• 28:27
  Speaker 2: Yeah, by forty two, you're just accepting the pops and pains,
• 28:34
  Speaker 2: the pains and the.
• 28:35
  Speaker 1: Speaking of You have birthday coming up.
• 28:38
  Speaker 2: Nice transition, girl, and Becca.
• 28:43
  Speaker 1: Has bestowed it upon her in previous years to couple
• 28:49
  Speaker 1: her birthday with Halloween. Throw a Halloween bash.
• 28:53
  Speaker 2: So I've actually done that with the intention of it
• 28:56
  Speaker 2: being associated with my birthday. It's always just been yeah,
• 28:58
  Speaker 2: it's always just been a Halloween party really, Yeah, yeah,
• 29:03
  Speaker 2: because I do my trip for like my celebration. But
• 29:06
  Speaker 2: it's like I get to see everybody around that time
• 29:08
  Speaker 2: of the year, which is fun.
• 29:10
  Speaker 1: And then one year you changed it from Halloween to Christmas.
• 29:14
  Speaker 1: A Christmas party you had upon a fess.
• 29:17
  Speaker 2: Yeah, because it was just too it was like a
• 29:19
  Speaker 2: lot to do both.
• 29:20
  Speaker 1: This year, will you be doing a birthday Halloween party? No, No,
• 29:24
  Speaker 1: Christmas crazing, a Christmas party, gingerbread making party.
• 29:28
  Speaker 2: Yeah, But Haley thinks she might get rid of the
• 29:30
  Speaker 2: gingerbread thing. She's like, not a lot of people kind
• 29:34
  Speaker 2: of like, there are a few people who really get
• 29:35
  Speaker 2: into it and they are the heroes of the night
• 29:38
  Speaker 2: because they make it happen.
• 29:39
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't touch it, like I put like a
• 29:41
  Speaker 1: gum drop on. I'm like, ah, I did the window,
• 29:45
  Speaker 1: but I love to see the finished product and it's
• 29:48
  Speaker 1: probably like messy.
• 29:49
  Speaker 2: I'm the one who has to throw it out every
• 29:51
  Speaker 2: year and waste. Anyways, it's a fun idea. But anyways, Yeah,
• 29:54
  Speaker 2: we'll probably do the Christmas party. Okay, uh do it
• 29:58
  Speaker 2: that year. I thought about reaching out to Ali because
• 30:01
  Speaker 2: we threw the we throw the Halloween party together typically,
• 30:04
  Speaker 2: and but she has a lot happening. She's going on
• 30:07
  Speaker 2: her official honeymoon, and I just would be the lone ranger.
• 30:10
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 30:11
  Speaker 2: It's a lot. It's expensive too. Yeah, you know, we
• 30:14
  Speaker 2: do it big.
• 30:15
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 30:15
  Speaker 2: So anyways, yeah, that's a plan.
• 30:18
  Speaker 1: How do you feel about entering a new year of life?
• 30:20
  Speaker 1: What are your hopes and dreams for this new year
• 30:22
  Speaker 1: of life?
• 30:23
  Speaker 2: I feel really good about it. I would like to
• 30:26
  Speaker 2: not I would like to not have so many aches
• 30:28
  Speaker 2: and pains in my body. Maybe get a little healthier.
• 30:31
  Speaker 2: I say this every year. My goal is to be healthier.
• 30:33
  Speaker 1: So maybe thirty years. Yeah, it's thirty six a year
• 30:37
  Speaker 1: Becka becomes healthy.
• 30:38
  Speaker 2: I'm so excited to watch my friend, my best friend
• 30:41
  Speaker 2: get married. Who's that you? Oh? In my thirty six year?
• 30:45
  Speaker 1: I needed to hear it.
• 30:47
  Speaker 2: I'm excited. I feel like all my friends also. I
• 30:50
  Speaker 2: have a feeling in thirty six a bunch of my
• 30:53
  Speaker 2: friends are going to be pregnant. I feel like, because
• 30:55
  Speaker 2: all of y'all are getting married, and then all of y'all,
• 30:57
  Speaker 2: I think, are going to be entering the next season
• 30:59
  Speaker 2: pretty quick. So I feel like I'm going to be
• 31:03
  Speaker 2: assisting a lot of like sick, pregnant ladies during my
• 31:07
  Speaker 2: thirty six years. Well, I'm feeling great, God willing, I'm
• 31:11
  Speaker 2: feeling great.
• 31:12
  Speaker 1: She says.
• 31:15
  Speaker 2: So I'm excited about that.
• 31:17
  Speaker 1: Okay, So health partnership, antiness hmmm, becoming an anti like
• 31:24
  Speaker 1: all over the place, just like running rampant.
• 31:27
  Speaker 2: Although I don't know if that would happen in thirty six.
• 31:30
  Speaker 2: I think the baking would happen in thirty six. Oh yeah,
• 31:33
  Speaker 2: you're right, yeah, and then thirty seven would be where
• 31:36
  Speaker 2: I really tap into antie.
• 31:38
  Speaker 1: Do you feel like any shifts when you get a
• 31:41
  Speaker 1: year older, like just mentally not physically, we know the pains.
• 31:45
  Speaker 2: It's the older I get. Actually, someone said something so
• 31:48
  Speaker 2: nice on the Facebook group about how I saw.
• 31:51
  Speaker 1: That you're stepping into your joy.
• 31:54
  Speaker 2: Yeah, like just like it was really sweet, and I
• 31:57
  Speaker 2: was thinking that I don't really notice that. I don't
• 31:59
  Speaker 2: also listen to podcasts from way back when you know
• 32:03
  Speaker 2: they're like if you listen to old podcasts, you can
• 32:05
  Speaker 2: really hear the change. But I do think, as I
• 32:08
  Speaker 2: know that people have always said this, that as you
• 32:10
  Speaker 2: get older, you just care less about what people think
• 32:13
  Speaker 2: and you just like kind of step into who you are.
• 32:15
  Speaker 2: And I remember specifically Jennifer Anison talking about how turning
• 32:20
  Speaker 2: forty like was like so life changing and how she
• 32:23
  Speaker 2: perceived herself and like what other people thought, and I
• 32:27
  Speaker 2: do think there's something to that. I also think that
• 32:30
  Speaker 2: coming out with Haley and like really being comfortable and
• 32:35
  Speaker 2: confident in like my sexuality and our relationship and like
• 32:39
  Speaker 2: the place that we or the space that we hold
• 32:43
  Speaker 2: our relationship in terms of like what other people are
• 32:48
  Speaker 2: needing to feel confident in themselves. I really feel like
• 32:51
  Speaker 2: that's a huge part of my purpose. So I think
• 32:54
  Speaker 2: I just feel really confident in that. But I hope
• 32:57
  Speaker 2: that I continue to do that. I hope that that
• 32:59
  Speaker 2: doesn't go away.
• 33:00
  Speaker 3: I have it here.
• 33:01
  Speaker 4: This is if people haven't seen it, somebody posted. I
• 33:04
  Speaker 4: don't know if it's just my impression, but I feel
• 33:05
  Speaker 4: like Becca in the last few months has really embraced herself,
• 33:08
  Speaker 4: becoming even more joyous and confident, especially with their sexuality,
• 33:12
  Speaker 4: having queer friends going on their podcasts. She has really
• 33:15
  Speaker 4: become one of my favorite humans. And then Alexi followed
• 33:18
  Speaker 4: up with yes, I think she's really leaned into being
• 33:21
  Speaker 4: her authentic self. Same with Tanya. I want to know
• 33:24
  Speaker 4: if they feel like they've noticed this and if it
• 33:26
  Speaker 4: comes with age or attributed to something else. I'm thirty
• 33:29
  Speaker 4: two and think that has really become a big conversation
• 33:31
  Speaker 4: in line of thinking for me the last few months
• 33:33
  Speaker 4: and what that.
• 33:34
  Speaker 3: Looks like for me.
• 33:35
  Speaker 1: Oh, that is so nice.
• 33:37
  Speaker 2: I'm glad you're friendly tapping into your authenticity.
• 33:40
  Speaker 1: Me too, Me too.
• 33:42
  Speaker 2: No, it was like so sweet and it was the
• 33:44
  Speaker 2: first thing I saw when I open Facebook and I
• 33:47
  Speaker 2: had just gone on Shannon's podcast, and I think, you know,
• 33:49
  Speaker 2: talking to someone who has really had that experience like Shannon.
• 33:53
  Speaker 2: I think it also opened like she asked questions. I
• 33:57
  Speaker 2: was like, probably haven't talked about on certain levels. Yeah,
• 34:03
  Speaker 2: so it was really nice. I appreciated that. So I
• 34:06
  Speaker 2: hope that I always hope that as a human being,
• 34:09
  Speaker 2: every year that I'm growing to learn more about myself
• 34:13
  Speaker 2: and love more about myself and like, see, you know
• 34:16
  Speaker 2: how I can become better in doing it without staying stagnant.
• 34:20
  Speaker 1: Yeah, so that's my cool. Wow, I love that.
• 34:23
  Speaker 2: Thanks.
• 34:24
  Speaker 1: I'm excited to be in another year of life with you.
• 34:28
  Speaker 2: Same.
• 34:30
  Speaker 1: I'm going to be needing you a lot come twenty
• 34:32
  Speaker 1: twenty five. So what you know? Just question. I was
• 34:38
  Speaker 1: running by colored bridesmaid color dresses by Paulina, so I'll
• 34:42
  Speaker 1: run those by you too.
• 34:43
  Speaker 2: Oh like the colors we feel good in?
• 34:45
  Speaker 1: Yes, correct, as we're getting all the colors of the
• 34:49
  Speaker 1: rainbow at this point, Like I didn't think it was
• 34:51
  Speaker 1: a colored girl and here we are. Wow.
• 34:53
  Speaker 5: I know.
• 34:54
  Speaker 2: It's interesting how when you start to play and stuff,
• 34:56
  Speaker 2: you figure out things that maybe you didn't initially think.
• 34:59
  Speaker 1: You like, yeah, and like I think that I'm trying.
• 35:04
  Speaker 1: What I realized is like everybody puts all this pressure
• 35:07
  Speaker 1: onto like a wedding, and it's like this black tie
• 35:10
  Speaker 1: and you're committing your life and it's supposed to be
• 35:11
  Speaker 1: like the best day of your life. And I'm like,
• 35:13
  Speaker 1: I don't see it like that. Like I see it
• 35:15
  Speaker 1: as like I want to celebrate. I found this person
• 35:18
  Speaker 1: that I love and I'm obsessed with and like the
• 35:20
  Speaker 1: things that we love doing, you know, like we love
• 35:22
  Speaker 1: Taco Tuesdays, we love hosting people, having people together, and
• 35:25
  Speaker 1: I want our wedding to be like an extension of that. Yeah,
• 35:28
  Speaker 1: you know what I mean, just like a big giant
• 35:31
  Speaker 1: get together that we're pasting.
• 35:32
  Speaker 2: I know, I don't see you having like a formal situation,
• 35:36
  Speaker 2: Like I know. I wanted to be a vision.
• 35:38
  Speaker 1: I want it to be formal because.
• 35:40
  Speaker 2: I'm saying like.
• 35:42
  Speaker 1: Stuffy, Yeah, I don't see it being correct, Like I
• 35:45
  Speaker 1: want it to be just the ceremony itself be formal,
• 35:48
  Speaker 1: but then everything else I wanted to be like party,
• 35:50
  Speaker 1: party and fun and like sentimental and all that stuff.
• 35:53
  Speaker 2: Yeah that's all I envision it too.
• 35:55
  Speaker 1: Yeah did did you take a break?
• 36:01
  Speaker 2: Yeah? Yeah, yeah, I wanted to talk about Kesha invited
• 36:06
  Speaker 2: someone who wasn't her boyfriend to one of Taylor Sliff's
• 36:10
  Speaker 2: parties and he got really upset. So I wanted to
• 36:13
  Speaker 2: talk about that, but we'll be right back. All right,
• 36:33
  Speaker 2: we're back. So, Kesha said that an ex boyfriend broke
• 36:38
  Speaker 2: up with her because she brought someone else to one
• 36:40
  Speaker 2: of Taylor Slift's parties and she had a feeling that
• 36:43
  Speaker 2: he was in it for the wrong reason. So it's
• 36:45
  Speaker 2: almost like she was like, let's see, let me just
• 36:48
  Speaker 2: test this theory. And so she invited someone else to
• 36:51
  Speaker 2: go with her and then he got mad and right
• 36:55
  Speaker 2: he broke up with her because she didn't.
• 36:58
  Speaker 1: Yeah, so he wasn't in for the reasons. Yeah, they
• 37:01
  Speaker 1: should go on The Bachelor.
• 37:03
  Speaker 2: Do what like in my test to Taylor Swift party.
• 37:06
  Speaker 1: Yeah, after they get engaged, they should invite somebody to
• 37:10
  Speaker 1: Taylor invite somebody else to the Taylor Swift party and
• 37:14
  Speaker 1: see if they still remain engaged. We should all do
• 37:17
  Speaker 1: this test, honestly.
• 37:18
  Speaker 2: Yeah, Taylor, we have a favorite ask. You need to
• 37:21
  Speaker 2: help the people.
• 37:22
  Speaker 1: The party does not have to be real. We don't
• 37:24
  Speaker 1: go to the party. Oh, it's just a test, a test.
• 37:26
  Speaker 1: Who Yeah, I feel like.
• 37:32
  Speaker 2: I obviously I would be disappointed if Haley invited someone
• 37:35
  Speaker 2: else to Taylor Slift party, but I would never break
• 37:38
  Speaker 2: up with her over it. I feel like, dang, was it.
• 37:42
  Speaker 3: Another guy catch you took to the party.
• 37:44
  Speaker 2: She said she brought someone else, so I don't know
• 37:46
  Speaker 2: if it was more it was one of.
• 37:48
  Speaker 1: Her answer to your question is t be announced.
• 37:52
  Speaker 2: I thank you of the either way it was one
• 37:54
  Speaker 2: of her friends, whether it was a girl, right, I'm
• 37:56
  Speaker 2: just saying I would be jealous of that, and it
• 37:58
  Speaker 2: would bother me, whether it's tailor swift or not.
• 38:00
  Speaker 4: Like, I get that she thought this guy was a
• 38:02
  Speaker 4: star effort and that's why, and she was kind of
• 38:04
  Speaker 4: testing him.
• 38:04
  Speaker 3: I get that.
• 38:05
  Speaker 4: But I'm just saying, if you ask another guy to
• 38:07
  Speaker 4: go out to an event with you, I'd be like
• 38:08
  Speaker 4: a little honked off about it.
• 38:10
  Speaker 1: Yeah. I get honked off a lot, I do. Actually,
• 38:14
  Speaker 1: hiked off.
• 38:15
  Speaker 2: Is such a good word. Okay, So there is a
• 38:18
  Speaker 2: fall wish list. I was gonna ask you if you
• 38:22
  Speaker 2: have a fall wish list. Like some of the examples,
• 38:24
  Speaker 2: this is a TikTok trend, but some of the examples
• 38:27
  Speaker 2: are figure out what my favorite soup? This is Joe
• 38:31
  Speaker 2: Jonas's list. By the way, Oh my gosh, figure out
• 38:34
  Speaker 2: what my favorite soup is? Triple my screen time read
• 38:38
  Speaker 2: Marry Oliver, poetry by a Lake, a scarf bigger than
• 38:41
  Speaker 2: Lenny Kravitz, getting my therapist to admit I'm her favorite
• 38:45
  Speaker 2: Fall themed photo shoot with my brothers with matching boots,
• 38:48
  Speaker 2: spoil the end of a TV show I'm watching over
• 38:50
  Speaker 2: dinner with friends. Those kind of like funny thing, Yeah,
• 38:55
  Speaker 2: it's funny. Do you have three Fall wish lists?
• 39:00
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna yeah. I want to make a haunted house
• 39:02
  Speaker 1: out of gingerbread, like a like a you know how
• 39:05
  Speaker 1: you make like those houses gingerbread houses for a Christmas time.
• 39:08
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I think we were talking about this like five
• 39:10
  Speaker 3: minutes ago.
• 39:11
  Speaker 2: Oh no, that was a Christmas gingerbread.
• 39:14
  Speaker 4: House, right, But dare you say that as if we
• 39:17
  Speaker 4: hadn't just mentioned gingerbread houses a few minutes ago.
• 39:20
  Speaker 1: Well, these are not related, understood, Yeah, this is a
• 39:23
  Speaker 1: haunted house, right, not a gingerbread.
• 39:26
  Speaker 4: Because you just said that, you do the gingerbread thing
• 39:28
  Speaker 4: and you just add a gum drop on the top
• 39:29
  Speaker 4: of the that they have.
• 39:31
  Speaker 1: There's so many people involved. I'm not like a leader
• 39:34
  Speaker 1: in that space, So I don't want to like overtake.
• 39:37
  Speaker 1: It's a big one, like they make it from scratch.
• 39:39
  Speaker 1: I'm talking like the Trader Joe's. You buy the box
• 39:41
  Speaker 1: and you put some like glue stuff and you know.
• 39:44
  Speaker 3: And you're gonna make a Halloween theme the gingerbread.
• 39:47
  Speaker 1: House a haunted house.
• 39:48
  Speaker 3: Right, Yes, I'm predict you're not going to do that.
• 39:53
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna do it next weekend, so wishless.
• 39:55
  Speaker 3: You have to be horizontal to do that. I thought
• 39:57
  Speaker 3: you're gonna be hurt.
• 39:58
  Speaker 1: Well, when the kids come back, I'm gonna right vertical
• 40:00
  Speaker 1: back up again. And I think I want to carver
• 40:04
  Speaker 1: a pumpkin, go to a pumpkin patch.
• 40:06
  Speaker 2: Okay.
• 40:09
  Speaker 1: I want to like be a cuter fall dresser.
• 40:13
  Speaker 2: You too, mine. I was like, I really want to
• 40:15
  Speaker 2: figure out my false stuff. It's hard when it's this
• 40:17
  Speaker 2: hot outside.
• 40:17
  Speaker 1: To really like lean in get into the outfits because
• 40:21
  Speaker 1: you'll be sweating.
• 40:22
  Speaker 2: Yeah, that's on my list.
• 40:23
  Speaker 1: A yeah, because I'm more of like a summer girly.
• 40:26
  Speaker 1: I like the summer fits more than fall. And I
• 40:29
  Speaker 1: was like, know what I'm gonna change that this year?
• 40:31
  Speaker 1: M hm, give me a tight I don't know where
• 40:34
  Speaker 1: tights more oo.
• 40:36
  Speaker 2: You know that'll give you warm in the studio, I know, But.
• 40:39
  Speaker 1: You know what the problem that I have and I
• 40:41
  Speaker 1: don't know if it's my nails or if I'm just
• 40:42
  Speaker 1: too aggressive or I'm buying the wrong stockings. But mine
• 40:45
  Speaker 1: ripped the minute I put them on. It's like something
• 40:48
  Speaker 1: snags and they're ripped every single time.
• 40:50
  Speaker 2: I'll send you a link there's these. I got this
• 40:52
  Speaker 2: unrippable stock Like, are they cute?
• 40:54
  Speaker 3: Though?
• 40:55
  Speaker 1: I feel like I ordered a link that you sent
• 40:56
  Speaker 1: me once and they like felt like sandpaper on my skin. No,
• 41:01
  Speaker 1: maybe that was somebody else.
• 41:01
  Speaker 2: Then Yeah, I know these are feel great?
• 41:03
  Speaker 1: Yea, they don't rip.
• 41:05
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I won't catch them.
• 41:07
  Speaker 1: It's not my toenail. I think it's like my actual
• 41:08
  Speaker 1: because I'm like pulling them up. Yeah, and then it's
• 41:10
  Speaker 1: just like yeah, and then but then I need them
• 41:14
  Speaker 1: for the night. So then I just have this run
• 41:15
  Speaker 1: down my stockings, which.
• 41:17
  Speaker 2: Is kind of trendy. It is, I mean, you know,
• 41:20
  Speaker 2: you can make everything is about confidence, uh huh. I
• 41:23
  Speaker 2: told Tony that she was getting ready. I said, whatever
• 41:26
  Speaker 2: you wear, it's going to be your confidence that makes
• 41:28
  Speaker 2: you stand out.
• 41:29
  Speaker 1: Yeah, we're lowed, We're proud exactly. So I think that
• 41:34
  Speaker 1: might be it for for now, for fall for me.
• 41:37
  Speaker 1: What about for a fall for you?
• 41:38
  Speaker 2: I think I want to have like a really cute
• 41:40
  Speaker 2: boot collection, like a really good like over the knee
• 41:43
  Speaker 2: or like riding boot. Cute vibe boos.
• 41:46
  Speaker 1: Are so hard, they're hard tough when.
• 41:49
  Speaker 2: I figure out clothes are tough.
• 41:52
  Speaker 1: I want to have abs, oh in the winter, So
• 41:56
  Speaker 1: that's that's that's not common.
• 41:59
  Speaker 2: I want to start my a journey for the summer
• 42:02
  Speaker 2: next year.
• 42:04
  Speaker 1: I'm with it. I'm trying to get ABS for my wedding.
• 42:06
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm trying to have ABS for your wedding.
• 42:08
  Speaker 1: Okay, let's do it together.
• 42:10
  Speaker 2: I'd like to have abs but for my birthday trip
• 42:12
  Speaker 2: at the end of this month.
• 42:13
  Speaker 1: But I'm trying to do a boudoir photo shoot, so
• 42:16
  Speaker 1: the sooner the better.
• 42:17
  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, maybe I'll do one as well, just to
• 42:22
  Speaker 2: remember when we were going to do that.
• 42:23
  Speaker 1: I'm not actually gonna do it. If you want to
• 42:25
  Speaker 1: do with me, no, I'm okay.
• 42:30
  Speaker 2: But what else I really want to I really want
• 42:33
  Speaker 2: to cute doormat, a fall doormat.
• 42:35
  Speaker 1: Where do you get one of those?
• 42:37
  Speaker 2: I'm think I'm gonna look on anthropology. I saw some
• 42:39
  Speaker 2: key ones on a tip.
• 42:40
  Speaker 1: Don't you want like a custom one with like your
• 42:42
  Speaker 1: names and then may be like that.
• 42:44
  Speaker 2: Would be Etsy. No, I definitely don't want it to
• 42:45
  Speaker 2: say our names. Oh what trainers know there. I've just
• 42:52
  Speaker 2: never changed my Mind's really cute. It says glad you're here.
• 42:55
  Speaker 2: But then at Christmas I change it out and I
• 42:57
  Speaker 2: have one that says, 'tis the damn season. But I
• 43:01
  Speaker 2: need to fall one and I would like to be
• 43:04
  Speaker 2: able to make I'd like to be able to make
• 43:06
  Speaker 2: a really good pumpkin bread. I made a really good
• 43:09
  Speaker 2: banana bread last week, so I feel confident in that area.
• 43:12
  Speaker 2: So that's it.
• 43:13
  Speaker 1: Nice. Yeah, easy enough, attainable minus abs. It's attainable. They're hard.
• 43:20
  Speaker 2: Just they're abtainable. They are, thank you. But it does
• 43:28
  Speaker 2: take some work.
• 43:30
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I've been working on it for thirty seven years,
• 43:33
  Speaker 1: thirty seven non stop, just NonStop. Out of the womb, I.
• 43:36
  Speaker 2: Was like, have you seen videos of Gracy Abrams?
• 43:40
  Speaker 3: No?
• 43:40
  Speaker 1: Oh no, but everybody's telling me that her abs are popping.
• 43:43
  Speaker 2: Her new name is Gracie ab Yeah, it's crazy. So anyways, well,
• 43:50
  Speaker 2: we are back this week on Thursday. Yes we are
• 43:54
  Speaker 2: with a dear Bonya.
• 43:55
  Speaker 1: That's right.
• 43:56
  Speaker 2: They said in Nobody Wants This that there was the
• 43:59
  Speaker 2: sea where they're in the sauna that some of the
• 44:02
  Speaker 2: they had bonias on. But are they in the sauna remember,
• 44:07
  Speaker 2: or the steam room or something where he goes in
• 44:09
  Speaker 2: and he's like hitting his dad or with.
• 44:11
  Speaker 1: Oh yeah yeah yeah, yeah yeah, but I don't remember.
• 44:13
  Speaker 1: I don't remember either.
• 44:15
  Speaker 2: Anyways, I just.
• 44:15
  Speaker 3: Want to show you Gracie Abram's abs real quick.
• 44:18
  Speaker 1: Good cow, that's like a shredder.
• 44:21
  Speaker 2: I'm telling you they're crazy. Wow.
• 44:24
  Speaker 1: Yeah, you know, I'm just gonna say it. That's got
• 44:27
  Speaker 1: to be genetics there.
• 44:29
  Speaker 2: It is.
• 44:29
  Speaker 1: Yeah, there's genetics that just Tanya rad does not have those.
• 44:34
  Speaker 2: Also, is she twenty one?
• 44:36
  Speaker 4: Let me get her age for you right now. It's
• 44:38
  Speaker 4: real quick change from abs to age. She's twenty five.
• 44:40
  Speaker 2: Okay, twenty five. I too could have abs in three
• 44:44
  Speaker 2: seconds at twenty five if I tried.
• 44:45
  Speaker 1: I could not. Literally, I absolutely couldn't abs at twenty.
• 44:50
  Speaker 2: Five when I was twenty five, if I had to
• 44:53
  Speaker 2: shoot or something, or not even twenty five. Because I
• 44:55
  Speaker 2: went on the Bachelor, I was twenty six. So after
• 44:57
  Speaker 2: the Bachelor twenty seven even I would be like, oh,
• 45:00
  Speaker 2: I need to like feel good for being in a bikini.
• 45:03
  Speaker 2: I'd go to like two soul cycle classes snatch, but
• 45:08
  Speaker 2: that ain't it anywhere thirty five game, quick, quick and hard.
• 45:13
  Speaker 1: Sometimes I'm telling you sometimes it's not in the cards
• 45:16
  Speaker 1: for us, and it's just not in the cards. Tanya Radna.
• 45:21
  Speaker 2: Yeah, you do.
• 45:21
  Speaker 1: You have.
• 45:22
  Speaker 2: There's literal photos we can pull up if you haven't, Abs.
• 45:25
  Speaker 1: But it's okay. It's not in my jeans, but it's
• 45:30
  Speaker 1: okay because you know what I have absolutely amazing.
• 45:36
  Speaker 2: You have an absolutely amazing personality. Correct, you're absolutely stunning.
• 45:42
  Speaker 1: I'm absolutely perfect the way that I meant to be.
• 45:45
  Speaker 2: You're absolutely everything and more.
• 45:47
  Speaker 1: Yes, thank you, you're welcome, Thank.
• 45:49
  Speaker 2: You, you're Tanya and you're absolutely Rab.
• 45:53
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm Tanya Rab absolutely.
• 45:57
  Speaker 2: Tanya Rabs.
• 45:58
  Speaker 1: Yeah, although you know somebody else telling you that, like,
• 46:00
  Speaker 1: it's quite the journey to change your name.
• 46:03
  Speaker 2: I know, I was. I was thinking about this because
• 46:06
  Speaker 2: I saw someone or I asked someone about it, and
• 46:08
  Speaker 2: the reason that they didn't change it was simply because
• 46:11
  Speaker 2: it was such an annoying Yeah.
• 46:13
  Speaker 1: It sounds girthy long.
• 46:17
  Speaker 2: It sounds similar enough, Tony.
• 46:22
  Speaker 1: That's not the full name, but yeah, anyho Raddy Raddy Savievic. Yeah,
• 46:28
  Speaker 1: they say it.
• 46:28
  Speaker 2: Right, Yeah, all right, We'll be back Thursday with the
• 46:31
  Speaker 2: dear Bonya and we cannot.
• 46:33
  Speaker 1: But before we leave, I did want I mean, we
• 46:35
  Speaker 1: mentioned it briefly, but I did want to say huge
• 46:37
  Speaker 1: congratulations to our scrubber Ashley for getting married.
• 46:40
  Speaker 2: Gosh, I love you at.
• 46:43
  Speaker 1: Ashley and Connor Forever Lures, we love you and cheers
• 46:48
  Speaker 1: to a beautiful life and love forever together.
• 46:55
  Speaker 2: Yes. Do what song did they dance to for their
• 46:58
  Speaker 2: first dance?
• 46:58
  Speaker 1: Taylor Swift Lover.
• 47:00
  Speaker 2: I was hoping that was a very own brand, very
• 47:02
  Speaker 2: own brand. We love you Ashley. Congratulations and we'll be
• 47:06
  Speaker 2: back Thursday. We love you guys. Bye,