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Divorce Lawyer's Advice For a Third Date · The Cubby and Christine Morning Show

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  Speaker 1: So if you're doing the dating thing, maybe you're just
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  Speaker 1: starting to date somebody. Yes, maybe tonight happens to be
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  Speaker 1: your third date.
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  Speaker 2: And what does the third date mean?
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  Speaker 1: Well, according to this article, that's what you bring up
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  Speaker 1: the prenum. Yes, third date.
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  Speaker 2: Yes. So there's a divorce lawyer here in New York City.
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  Speaker 2: His name is James Sexton, and he has gone viral
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  Speaker 2: because he made a post advising people that if you
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  Speaker 2: make it to date three, which third date means, are
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  Speaker 2: you starting to get along? That you bring up a prenup?
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  Speaker 1: And I guess the thinking is early, earlier.
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  Speaker 2: The better, he said. I know it's not romantic, he said,
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  Speaker 2: but early conversations about money, expectations and deal breakers will
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  Speaker 2: help weed out problems before they snowball. He said. It's
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  Speaker 2: not about planning for divorce. It's about clarity, transparency, making
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  Speaker 2: sure both people are on the same page. And he
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  Speaker 2: says that you know, we ensure our homes, our businesses,
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  Speaker 2: our health, why not our marriages. So he thinks that
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  Speaker 2: you should start talking prenup on the third date and
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  Speaker 2: see how the person reacts, see if they align with
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  Speaker 2: you financially, like what your goals are?
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  Speaker 1: Right? Yeah, because if you're dating for two or three
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  Speaker 1: years and then you bring it up, I mean that
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  Speaker 1: could just open up a whole can of worms.
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  Speaker 2: Oh it's this is so so delicate. I mean bringing
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  Speaker 2: this up. I've seen people bring it up right before
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  Speaker 2: they get married, right like they've already were engaged and
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  Speaker 2: we're approaching a wedding and family members will advise somebody
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  Speaker 2: to mention it and it's a hot topic.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, and that's.
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  Speaker 2: Late in the game, and it could you know, you
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  Speaker 2: don't want to blind somebody, blindside someone with it. But
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  Speaker 2: the third date seems a little presumptuous. But okay, that's
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  Speaker 2: what he's saying.
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  Speaker 1: After how many drinks do you bring it up by?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, after a few drinks. It is World Cocktail Day.
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  Speaker 1: All right, right, right right, and by the old fashioned
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  Speaker 1: the number one cocktail, right.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, Margarita comes in second for somewhere too. Mohito, Moscow, Mule,
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  Speaker 2: negronim or Tina Manhattan, Pina Colada, whiskey sour. Those are
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  Speaker 2: our favorite cocktails. Yeah, one of those, and you might
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  Speaker 2: be able to bring it up a little better. I
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  Speaker 2: don't know.
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  Speaker 1: You know another reason we're number one, folks, We can
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  Speaker 1: transition from a prenup conversation to the hot cocktails in America.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, you do. We can get two topics in here.
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  Speaker 2: Well, yeah, because maybe they go the hand in.
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  Speaker 1: Hand in hand.
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  Speaker 2: I don't know.
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