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Are Women More Toxic? · We Talk Back

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  Speaker 1: We're just two unapologetically black women with an opinion who
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  Speaker 1: talk back.
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  Speaker 2: What's up, y'all? Thank you for tuning in for a
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  Speaker 2: new episode of We Talk Back, a show dedicated to
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  Speaker 2: you dreamers and chasers. Yes, I love it. What's up, y'all?
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  Speaker 2: It's your co-host, AJ Holiday. Your great A-Bang. What's up, Tim? Hey, y'all.
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  Speaker 3: It's me, Tim Bam. I love y'all. I love you, too, AJ.
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  Speaker 3: How are you?
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  Speaker 2: I love you more.
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  Speaker 3: I'm dead meat.
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  Speaker 2: No, you're not, bitch. Oh, you scared.
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  Speaker 3: Y'all, I got scammed.
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  Speaker 1: I got scammed out my money, man. Y'all pray for me.
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  Speaker 1: Niggas looking for me. Ain't nobody looking for you.
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  Speaker 2: You better be looking for niggas, because you know I'm
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  Speaker 2: a whole pet detective, bitch. Then I found a nigga,
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  Speaker 2: a whole track record. Right.
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  Speaker 3: Well, we're going to have to hunt this nigga down.
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  Speaker 2: Listen, I am not somebody that can be easily scammed.
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  Speaker 2: The way I be looking up shit and trying to
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  Speaker 2: figure shit out, About people, like, I need to know
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  Speaker 2: all the shit, especially depending on how much we talking.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, it was too much money for me to be
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  Speaker 3: too lax with it, honestly. It's just because of who
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  Speaker 3: it was going through, I just thought it was, like.
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  Speaker 2: Legitimate.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, because we've had so much successful business together that
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  Speaker 1: this time I just assumed it was more of the same. Baby,
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  Speaker 1: they done took me out of the house and home.
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  Speaker 1: If y'all love me, send me a couple dollars to
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  Speaker 1: my cash app.
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  Speaker 3: Money sign, Tim's Vanity.
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  Speaker 2: You better say that clear, bitch.
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  Speaker 3: Money sign, Tim's Vanity.
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  Speaker 2: I feel like Smokey, y'all. I feel like Big Word
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  Speaker 2: coming to get me. Times is hard. Everybody fucking struggling,
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  Speaker 2: so you got to be careful because I think even
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  Speaker 2: regular people out here doing some shit they wouldn't normally do.
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  Speaker 2: A lot of bitches is taking $ 40 around this time.
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  Speaker 2: Christmas coming up, bitch.
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  Speaker 3: If I get dealt with. I get that one.
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  Speaker 2: Nah, man. How was your weekend anyway? How was our weekend?
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  Speaker 2: The weekend was lit.
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  Speaker 3: The weekend was lit.
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  Speaker 2: Mine was partially lit, y'all. Y'all know I don't be
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  Speaker 2: outside for real. And anybody who listens to this show
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  Speaker 2: know I be in the house.
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  Speaker 1: Y'all, me and AJ was supposed to have a fun-filled weekend.
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  Speaker 1: Starting with Friday night, we hosted the return of main
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  Speaker 1: event party. hosted by us right it was produced by
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  Speaker 1: peanut and stress be short but baby we had fun
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  Speaker 1: that night we was in there cutting up on the
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  Speaker 1: mic that was friday i think friday night i ain't
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  Speaker 1: see aj no more than just now.
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  Speaker 2: No bitch you saw me on sunday we did a
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  Speaker 2: photo shoot on sunday i saw.
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  Speaker 3: Her sunday For the hour. And she came in like,
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  Speaker 3: I still sick.
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  Speaker 2: Okay. I want to blame Sam. Because he bought us
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  Speaker 2: some big ass cups of fucking Casamigos. And I've learned
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  Speaker 2: my lesson. I can't do that shit. And I cannot
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  Speaker 2: do Patron. Like if it's not Don Julio or like some.
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  Speaker 2: I can do Milagro.
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  Speaker 3: What about Milagro?
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  Speaker 2: I never had that.
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  Speaker 3: You should try that one. That one goes down smooth.
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  Speaker 3: I never had that.
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  Speaker 2: I can't drink it. Like I can't have a bowel
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  Speaker 2: movement on these liquors. So now it's just sitting in
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  Speaker 2: my fucking stomach all fucking weekend. I'm eating, drink all
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  Speaker 2: Friday night. Tammy like, let's take a shot. I'm like, bitch,
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  Speaker 2: this is a shot. On top of that. No, bitch.
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  Speaker 2: It's not a shot if it got ice in it.
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  Speaker 2: It is still a shot to me. Like we had
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  Speaker 2: just gotten a cup and you was like, let's take
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  Speaker 2: a shot on top of the shot. I'm like, I
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  Speaker 2: got one big shot.
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  Speaker 1: You gonna taste the shot with this cup of icy liquor.
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  Speaker 2: No, she trying to chase a shot with a cup
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  Speaker 2: of liquor. What are we doing?
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  Speaker 3: I put a little tap of juice in mine.
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  Speaker 2: And see, I know my body don't process liquor the
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  Speaker 2: same way anymore. So I be getting like really fucked up. Like,
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  Speaker 2: and I can't, I couldn't function. Did you go anywhere
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  Speaker 2: after that?
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  Speaker 3: Did y'all go to the strip club?
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  Speaker 2: Nope. We did.
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  Speaker 3: We did go to the strip club.
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  Speaker 2: That's a real strip club, you know.
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  Speaker 3: Oh yeah.
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  Speaker 2: What's the name of it?
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  Speaker 3: I forgot.
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  Speaker 2: Rose Gold. Rose Gold. Y'all, we went to Rose Gold.
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  Speaker 2: They don't get bucket naked in there, but I was
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  Speaker 2: trying to get the cute bitches in the section we
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  Speaker 2: was in. I was like, girl, just wait. I'm going
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  Speaker 2: to try to get y'all up here. Because they had
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  Speaker 2: some fucking rats up there.
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  Speaker 3: There's always a few somewhere.
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  Speaker 2: And I'm like, the cute girls is sitting at the
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  Speaker 2: step wanting to get up here. I want them up here,
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  Speaker 2: not these fucking hood rats.
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  Speaker 3: They probably got the better bodies.
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  Speaker 2: Yes, they did. No, not the girls that was in
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  Speaker 2: the section did not have the better bodies. They just
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  Speaker 2: was quicker.
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  Speaker 3: They was hustling quicker.
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  Speaker 2: Apparently, one of the girls, it was her birthday, so
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  Speaker 2: she rented out one of the sections.
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  Speaker 3: Oh, the stripper?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, so the niggas had to bring the other girls
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  Speaker 2: up there if they wanted them up there. Damn.
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  Speaker 1: I went to another bar. I went to a bar
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  Speaker 1: after that. And then the next morning, I got up.
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  Speaker 1: I had breakfast and got dressed and went to the game.
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  Speaker 1: Had so much fun at the game. Got to see
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  Speaker 1: all the people. Everybody was like, where AJ?
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  Speaker 2: Where AJ?
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  Speaker 3: She on the way.
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  Speaker 2: Where AJ? Oh, she on the way. We're aging.
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  Speaker 3: She said she on the way. Like, I just told
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  Speaker 3: everybody that you were on the way.
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  Speaker 2: But that's you lying to people because a bitch telling
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  Speaker 2: motherfuckers I'm on the way and you ain't talk to me.
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  Speaker 3: I just assumed you was on the way.
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  Speaker 2: I was on the way to sleep. When I tell
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  Speaker 2: you I probably slept, I did get up. I did
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  Speaker 2: get up and I probably went back into bed like
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  Speaker 2: four o'clock. So from about four to eight, I was
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  Speaker 2: real live sleeping until end of tailgating for y'all.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I got to the tailgate at two and I
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  Speaker 1: left there like eight. Then I went home, ate some,
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  Speaker 1: my plate, took.
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  Speaker 3: A shower, changed clothes, back outside.
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  Speaker 2: I couldn't do it.
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  Speaker 3: And I stayed out till like three.
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  Speaker 2: I regret it though. Because I haven't been to homecoming
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  Speaker 2: since 2016. And I really wanted to go out there
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  Speaker 2: and tailgate. I know because it was probably like a
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  Speaker 2: hundred different little cookouts.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, it was like a hundred little cookouts that everybody
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  Speaker 1: giving you food.
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  Speaker 3: And dancing. It was just such a good time. I
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  Speaker 3: peed between two trucks. I did what I had to do.
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  Speaker 3: This Sunday, I got up.
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  Speaker 1: We did a photo shoot. Those pictures will be out soon, y'all.
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  Speaker 1: They're going to be so cute. Then I went by
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  Speaker 1: the state fair, but I couldn't get in because the
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  Speaker 1: line was just too long.
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  Speaker 2: Oh, we did try to go to the fair on
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  Speaker 2: Saturday night. We tried to go, but you had to
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  Speaker 2: be there before 9.15. It was open until midnight, but
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  Speaker 2: you had to get in before 9.15.
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  Speaker 1: Then I drove back to Charlotte and then got dressed,
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  Speaker 1: did another photo shoot for a car company out here,
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  Speaker 1: then went to STK, then went to a bar alone
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  Speaker 1: because my friends didn't show up, so I was pissed
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  Speaker 1: off at them.
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  Speaker 3: Shame. Shame. So my weekend was completely jam-packed.
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  Speaker 2: Fun-filled.
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  Speaker 3: Yes.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah. I got to be mentally prepared to go outside.
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  Speaker 2: And a lot of times I'm just not. Like I
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  Speaker 2: did the one thing I came to Columbia to do.
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  Speaker 3: The one thing. No, you did the two. Because you
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  Speaker 3: did the photo shoot.
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  Speaker 2: Oh, right. Yeah. The very important things. Not saying homecoming
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  Speaker 2: isn't important, but. Y'all, listen, I'm not a real alumni.
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  Speaker 2: I've been in college because I do not have my degree.
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  Speaker 2: But shit, I got enough student loans that says I
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  Speaker 2: got a degree. Okay. But yeah, that's my school too.
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  Speaker 2: But anyway, let's get into stupid internet news.
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  Speaker 3: Let's get to it.
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  Speaker 2: Did you see this fool, Brian McKnight?
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  Speaker 3: Brian McKnight. Fucking fool ass nigga.
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  Speaker 2: I'm so mad at him. Brian McNugget. Why is he
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  Speaker 2: doing his kids like this? So the internet is currently
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  Speaker 2: slamming Brian McKnight for legally changing his name to match
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  Speaker 2: his newborn's son name despite having Brian McKnight already. So
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  Speaker 2: now his son, you know, the son took the high road.
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  Speaker 2: I don't think I would have. You know what I'm saying?
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  Speaker 2: So I guess he raised or whoever raised the kids
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  Speaker 2: did a pretty good job. Yeah. Because he's trying to
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  Speaker 2: erase his past as far as I'm concerned. He said,
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  Speaker 2: one last cry before I leave you all behind. He
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  Speaker 2: don't give a fuck.
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  Speaker 3: He left his kids behind like that is wild.
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  Speaker 2: That is wild. So he goes to Instagram and he
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  Speaker 2: says he's so proud to introduce his son, Brian Kinoa
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  Speaker 2: Makoa Jr. Sounds Hawaiian, right?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, it does. Yeah. Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: The Back At One singer, 54, captioned a snap of
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  Speaker 2: the infant's face on Instagram Friday to the world with
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  Speaker 2: the release of my new album lovingly created for him, Junior,
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  Speaker 2: because I am also proud to officially announce that I
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  Speaker 2: have legally changed my name to exactly match my legacies.
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  Speaker 2: So he's calling this new child his legacy, but he
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  Speaker 2: has adult children. So the original Brian McKnight, Jr. posted
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  Speaker 2: to His story saying, I'm ashamed. Excuse me. He says,
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  Speaker 2: I'm not ashamed of the name my ancestors had. I'll
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  Speaker 2: never change the name my own son now has. So
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  Speaker 2: now he has a third, right? We are witnessing an
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  Speaker 2: obscene level of self-hate that has reached mental illness status
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  Speaker 2: at this point. All we can do is pray for
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  Speaker 2: that man. And my new little brother, who we will
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  Speaker 2: all welcome... With open arms one day, once he realizes
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  Speaker 2: who his real family is. Legacy isn't in the name.
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  Speaker 2: It's in the character of the people. It will all
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  Speaker 2: be quite clear soon just who's on the right side
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  Speaker 2: of all of this because there's no escaping what's coming.
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  Speaker 2: Whatever's coming.
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  Speaker 1: That's why they named that baby Hakuna Matata. It means
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  Speaker 1: don't worry.
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  Speaker 2: You know, that is definitely taking the high road. I
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  Speaker 2: feel bad for his other children. Like, nigga, what? You know,
• 10:02
  Speaker 2: the love for children, and I've said this before, it
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  Speaker 2: is transferable for the love that man has for the woman.
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  Speaker 2: Do you hate your ex-wife, ex-girlfriend, baby mom, I don't
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  Speaker 2: know if they were married, whatever the case, I'm assuming
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  Speaker 2: they were married. Do you hate her that much the
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  Speaker 2: way you don't fuck with the kids? That you go
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  Speaker 2: create a whole new legacy and you literally name yourself
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  Speaker 2: after the new baby. Right.
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  Speaker 1: Like I can't call him Junior, so I'll just change
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  Speaker 1: my name so he can be a Junior is nuts.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: I don't know about Brian McKnight. He's one of my
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  Speaker 2: favorite R & B singers, but that nigga is definitely wild.
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  Speaker 2: He's a diva also. But I do think it is.
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  Speaker 2: A mental illness.
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  Speaker 3: I just hope, I just pray to God that I
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  Speaker 3: don't get 50 and start getting retarded. Because there's a
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  Speaker 3: lot of that going on, man.
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  Speaker 2: I don't know, man. I don't know.
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  Speaker 3: Paul's a burning night.
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  Speaker 2: Right.
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  Speaker 3: Oh, I'm doing the next one?
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  Speaker 2: Yes, bitch. I'm waiting. That's what you're looking at? She
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  Speaker 2: looking at me, I'm looking at her like, bitch, what's today? Yeah, like,
• 11:09
  Speaker 2: you see... Look, Tammy got this fucking mug-wide little dog
• 11:12
  Speaker 2: of hers whining while we trying to record. It's so needy.
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  Speaker 3: I can't wait to go back to the studio.
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  Speaker 2: Listen, I do not know why people like Frenchies. They
• 11:21
  Speaker 2: are not cute. Now, the dog is cute because it's
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  Speaker 2: a dog. I love animals. You don't think she cute? No.
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  Speaker 3: Close your ears, Bella.
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  Speaker 2: I put her in the mirror and she like really
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  Speaker 2: was squirming to get the fuck out of there. She
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  Speaker 2: didn't like it either.
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  Speaker 3: She just scared.
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  Speaker 2: She's not just scared. She be harassing you and she
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  Speaker 2: like flies at you.
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  Speaker 3: So moving on, because we're not going to talk about
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  Speaker 3: my child.
• 11:46
  Speaker 1: Prince from Love and Hip Hop Miami revealed his alleged
• 11:50
  Speaker 1: short-lived fling with Lori Harvey. So the brother is saying
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  Speaker 1: that him and Lori Harvey had a thing and it
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  Speaker 1: wasn't a long thing, but they did. And it's his
• 12:03
  Speaker 1: truth to tell. And y'all can't drag him because of
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  Speaker 1: his truth. But it's like, why are you name-dropping women?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, he is fine.
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  Speaker 2: He said she was thick Lori Harvey when he was
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  Speaker 2: fucking with her. Lori Harvey obviously a real nigga because
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  Speaker 2: they really be out here. Like how people do guys. Yeah, like... Like,
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  Speaker 2: I used to fuck with him.
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  Speaker 3: Right.
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  Speaker 2: They're like, I used to fuck with her.
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  Speaker 3: All of them. Any one of them. They ready.
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  Speaker 2: And she says nothing. Nothing.
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  Speaker 3: She give these motherfuckers zero energy. I pay you in dust. Period.
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  Speaker 3: I'm sorry to this man.
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  Speaker 2: Her mama taught her well.
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  Speaker 3: I'm sorry to this man. I do not know this man.
• 12:40
  Speaker 2: That's the real MVP. Her mama.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah. Marjorie Harvey. That's who we need a book from.
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  Speaker 2: Exactly.
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  Speaker 3: Not fuck Steve, but I mean, his book was cool,
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  Speaker 3: but we want to think like Marjorie Harvey.
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  Speaker 2: Exactly. Okay.
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  Speaker 1: Because.
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  Speaker 2: Her fucking daughter be out here icing these niggas like
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  Speaker 2: they ain't shit. Y'all can learn a thing or two.
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  Speaker 2: And they be in their feelings about her. For real. Future,
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  Speaker 2: he still be rapping about her ass. Like, the fuck?
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  Speaker 2: And did y'all even smash?
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  Speaker 3: Did they even get the fuck? Lori said, I'm sorry
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  Speaker 3: to this man. I do not know this man. Period.
• 13:13
  Speaker 2: So Jay-Z is suggesting that you niggas take that 500K
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  Speaker 2: because this motherfucker said he has nothing extra to tell
• 13:19
  Speaker 2: y'all that's not already in the music for 1099. Okay,
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  Speaker 2: why would you not take a half an M as
• 13:25
  Speaker 2: opposed to having a whole sit down with Jay-Z? He's
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  Speaker 2: saying take the money. Duh. I don't want to sit
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  Speaker 2: down with nobody that fucking bad. I don't want dinner
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  Speaker 2: that bad.
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  Speaker 3: Right.
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  Speaker 2: Listen. I came for it.
• 13:39
  Speaker 3: I came.
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  Speaker 2: All I'm missing is the money. I really got all
• 13:43
  Speaker 2: the fucking ideas. All I need is the money.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: I'm glad Jay-Z came out and said that because you
• 13:50
  Speaker 1: niggas is dumb enough to really be like, I'm.
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  Speaker 3: Going to talk to Jay-Z instead of getting paid $ 500, 000. Right.
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  Speaker 3: Because he's going to have knowledge that will get me
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  Speaker 3: the $ 500, 000. No. No, I didn't sit down there. Absolutely not.
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  Speaker 3: He's not going to give you $ 500, 000 worth of gain
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  Speaker 3: in a dinner. Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: Y'all was definitely bugging. Anybody who said they want the money,
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  Speaker 2: I mean, anybody who said they wanted a dinner as
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  Speaker 2: opposed to getting the money, Might have some type of.
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  Speaker 3: Mental illness.
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  Speaker 2: Yes, for sure.
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  Speaker 3: Or already rich. Super rich. Even if I was already rich.
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  Speaker 3: But I still would.
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  Speaker 2: Take the $ 500, 000. Yes, give me the $ 500, 000. I can
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  Speaker 2: do a lot with that. Even with already having, you know, M's.
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  Speaker 1: But if you were a billionaire, then I'd be like, oh,
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  Speaker 1: I'll sit down with Jay-Z for dinner.
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  Speaker 2: Right.
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  Speaker 3: On my boat. Right. But listen, this is what I
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  Speaker 3: want to talk about. Now, this is alleged, but Dwight Howard.
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  Speaker 1: has reportedly admitted to meeting with a man who accused
• 14:49
  Speaker 1: him of sexual assault on social media to meet up
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  Speaker 1: for a threesome. And when the old boy got there,
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  Speaker 1: it was another man who was dressed as a woman
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  Speaker 1: named Kitty.
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  Speaker 2: I saw that.
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  Speaker 3: Child. Meow. Right.
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  Speaker 1: And Dwight wanted a sexual experience with all of them,
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  Speaker 1: and he wasn't with it. And it turned into an
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  Speaker 1: assault situation where he felt like he was held.
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  Speaker 3: Against his will and made to do things.
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  Speaker 2: And he said Dwight Howard went down on him.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: But, you know, we've been hearing this stuff about Dwight
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  Speaker 1: for a long time. My grandma said if somebody say
• 15:25
  Speaker 1: you smoke crack for 20 years, you smoke crack. So
• 15:30
  Speaker 1: if everybody say the same thing for 20 years, it's
• 15:32
  Speaker 1: probably true.
• 15:33
  Speaker 2: What's his baby mama name? Royce? Royce Reed. Yeah, Royce Reed. And,
• 15:37
  Speaker 2: you know, she has a son with him. Now, this
• 15:40
  Speaker 2: son has some issues. He could be labeled as a
• 15:44
  Speaker 2: sexual deviant. And some of this stuff, is it genetics?
• 15:49
  Speaker 2: Is it genetics? Because this is not the first time
• 15:52
  Speaker 2: somebody has come out and said, and I'm pretty sure
• 15:55
  Speaker 2: he might have done paid some money in court. That's
• 15:58
  Speaker 2: not the first time, I don't think. I feel like
• 15:59
  Speaker 2: I've heard something like this before.
• 16:01
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I've heard it before, too. That's what I'm saying. Well,
• 16:04
  Speaker 3: you know what? I'm all about people.
• 16:08
  Speaker 1: exploring sexually and doing what makes them happy but just
• 16:11
  Speaker 1: don't assault nobody in the midst of.
• 16:14
  Speaker 2: It yeah that's wild as fuck that nigga is wild
• 16:19
  Speaker 2: y'all let's get to this fucking list that's been floating
• 16:21
  Speaker 2: around social media and you know i feel like this
• 16:27
  Speaker 2: was created by a man Okay. I don't think some
• 16:30
  Speaker 2: group of women, because this is what the thing says.
• 16:34
  Speaker 2: Group of ladies make a list of places men shouldn't
• 16:37
  Speaker 2: take them on for a first date. I'd like to
• 16:39
  Speaker 2: know the original source of this. It says, here's a
• 16:42
  Speaker 2: list of places women absolutely refused to go on a
• 16:44
  Speaker 2: first date to. And thank you to the ladies who
• 16:47
  Speaker 2: reached out to me to help me put the list together.
• 16:50
  Speaker 2: So I don't know who the original source is, but
• 16:53
  Speaker 2: let's go down this list right quick, Tammy. Cheesecake Factory.
• 16:56
  Speaker 2: Cheesecake Factory. I like Cheesecake Factory. Me too. Especially like
• 17:00
  Speaker 2: happy hour.
• 17:02
  Speaker 3: The steak Madeira is my favorite shit to get.
• 17:04
  Speaker 2: Appetizers are half off their happy hour. I love a
• 17:07
  Speaker 2: Mai Tai from Cheesecake Factory. I would never turn down
• 17:11
  Speaker 2: a Cheesecake Factory meetup.
• 17:13
  Speaker 3: Me neither.
• 17:14
  Speaker 1: It just depends on like who the person is. Honestly,
• 17:16
  Speaker 1: it's not about even a place really with any nigga.
• 17:20
  Speaker 2: Now, second on the list is Nasty B's. I'm not
• 17:22
  Speaker 2: going to Applebee's with nobody.
• 17:25
  Speaker 3: Nasty Bees. I was about to say, I ain't never
• 17:26
  Speaker 3: been there before. What's that? Nasty Bees.
• 17:30
  Speaker 1: I have not been to Applebee's in a very, very,
• 17:33
  Speaker 1: very long time. And I think it would be weird
• 17:35
  Speaker 1: if a guy was like, meet me at Applebee's. Yeah,
• 17:39
  Speaker 1: I don't know if I'm going there either. I know
• 17:40
  Speaker 1: they got them dollar margaritas on Tuesday.
• 17:42
  Speaker 2: I know they got a blondie. That's the only thing
• 17:45
  Speaker 2: I like from Applebee's.
• 17:46
  Speaker 1: I used to work at Applebee's. I see how that
• 17:48
  Speaker 1: shit is prepared. We could just microwave some shit over here, baby.
• 17:50
  Speaker 2: So... Chili's. I haven't ate at Chili's in years. That
• 17:59
  Speaker 2: would not be a place I.
• 18:00
  Speaker 3: Would actually eat at. I don't subscribe to that. Can
• 18:04
  Speaker 3: you hear her snort?
• 18:06
  Speaker 2: Chipotle.
• 18:08
  Speaker 3: No.
• 18:08
  Speaker 1: I'm not going there either. I'm not going there by myself.
• 18:12
  Speaker 2: Olive Garden.
• 18:14
  Speaker 3: No. The movies? I don't like that for a first date.
• 18:17
  Speaker 2: Me either.
• 18:18
  Speaker 3: Because we can't get to know each other.
• 18:20
  Speaker 1: I knew a girl who went on a first date
• 18:21
  Speaker 1: to the movies with a guy and it ended up
• 18:24
  Speaker 1: being a girl.
• 18:25
  Speaker 3: What?
• 18:25
  Speaker 2: It was a whole stud. Yeah, I don't suggest movies
• 18:31
  Speaker 2: for first dates because how do you... You can't really
• 18:33
  Speaker 2: have a conversation with somebody. Y'all got to sit in
• 18:35
  Speaker 2: silence for damn near two hours. That's not a good
• 18:38
  Speaker 2: first date. I think movies is for people who are
• 18:41
  Speaker 2: in established relationships. Right. your house I wouldn't suggest that
• 18:47
  Speaker 2: for a first date either unless it's just a fucking
• 18:50
  Speaker 2: sneaky link up right quick you know what you're getting
• 18:52
  Speaker 2: into that's not a date any fast food chain I
• 18:57
  Speaker 2: agree that's not for dates buffalo wild wings no I
• 19:04
  Speaker 2: don't eat there wing stop no red lobster I mean,
• 19:11
  Speaker 2: I like the Cheddar Bay Biscuits, but I ain't really
• 19:13
  Speaker 2: going there either. I literally only eat the biscuits and
• 19:16
  Speaker 2: a virgin pina colada from Red Lobster. I'll go to
• 19:19
  Speaker 2: the bar just for that and leave.
• 19:21
  Speaker 1: But here's the thing. I'm not going to say, like,
• 19:25
  Speaker 1: I can't go with you to this place. I'm not
• 19:27
  Speaker 1: going there alone.
• 19:28
  Speaker 3: Right. So, you know.
• 19:29
  Speaker 1: It's not just like, I want to just spend up
• 19:31
  Speaker 1: your money and I eat Applebee's every week, but.
• 19:33
  Speaker 2: You can't take me to Applebee's.
• 19:34
  Speaker 3: Like, no, it's not like that.
• 19:35
  Speaker 2: I think whoever, some people will be like that. Some
• 19:37
  Speaker 2: of these women, they ain't going places, good places, nice
• 19:39
  Speaker 2: places by themselves. And this is what the niggas be
• 19:41
  Speaker 2: complaining about. Like, y'all not even eating at nice places
• 19:44
  Speaker 2: by yourself and then y'all got this whole list of
• 19:47
  Speaker 2: places you can't be taken to.
• 19:49
  Speaker 3: Right.
• 19:49
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 19:50
  Speaker 3: Now see that's crazy that's wow.
• 19:51
  Speaker 2: But I don't eat half this shit for real um
• 19:55
  Speaker 2: a buffet I hop Denny's the gym I'll go to
• 19:59
  Speaker 2: the gym on the first date me too I like
• 20:01
  Speaker 2: that I like that um just don't be pushing me
• 20:04
  Speaker 2: too fucking hard in here cause it might not be
• 20:06
  Speaker 2: a second date like don't be coming trying to be
• 20:08
  Speaker 2: a drill sergeant I don't mind that either Church, I
• 20:12
  Speaker 2: ain't going. You going to church on the first date?
• 20:14
  Speaker 3: No, that's not a date. We can't talk.
• 20:16
  Speaker 2: I used to date this nigga who went to church, right?
• 20:19
  Speaker 2: And would always want me to go to church with him,
• 20:21
  Speaker 2: but he wouldn't take me to his church. He wanted
• 20:24
  Speaker 2: to take me to another church. Talk about him and
• 20:28
  Speaker 2: his ex-girlfriend. He used to bring his ex-girlfriend to that
• 20:31
  Speaker 2: other church. He just didn't want people looking at him. Funny. Nah, nigga,
• 20:34
  Speaker 2: I'm not going to church with you then. Right. Why
• 20:36
  Speaker 2: I can't go to your church?
• 20:37
  Speaker 3: Don't take me to no church.
• 20:39
  Speaker 2: Random ass church across town.
• 20:41
  Speaker 3: Don't nobody know you.
• 20:42
  Speaker 2: You cheating on your church. Right. Starbucks.
• 20:48
  Speaker 3: I'll do Starbucks.
• 20:48
  Speaker 2: Me too. Like a little quick little meet up.
• 20:50
  Speaker 3: Coffee date. Yeah.
• 20:52
  Speaker 2: Starbucks, coffee dates, ice cream dates. I like ice cream.
• 20:55
  Speaker 3: I like ice cream. That's cool too. Yeah.
• 20:57
  Speaker 2: I've been on an ice cream date before.
• 20:58
  Speaker 3: I think that's really cute.
• 21:00
  Speaker 2: Mm-hmm. Family functions.
• 21:02
  Speaker 3: Why not? No.
• 21:04
  Speaker 2: If somebody be like, man, come to my... We having
• 21:06
  Speaker 2: a cookout?
• 21:07
  Speaker 3: No.
• 21:08
  Speaker 2: Really?
• 21:08
  Speaker 3: Why? I don't know you. I would go. I'm not
• 21:11
  Speaker 3: bringing you around my house.
• 21:11
  Speaker 2: I be liking family house shit.
• 21:13
  Speaker 3: Oh, I would go to your family function, but you
• 21:15
  Speaker 3: can't come to mine.
• 21:17
  Speaker 2: But this is... Yeah, so he's inviting you on a
• 21:19
  Speaker 2: first date, so it'd be to... Oh, okay.
• 21:20
  Speaker 3: Inviting to his family. I'm still weird about that. I
• 21:24
  Speaker 3: ain't trying to meet your family.
• 21:27
  Speaker 2: Why?
• 21:27
  Speaker 3: Because I barely know you, nigga.
• 21:29
  Speaker 2: I don't be caring, bitch. I'm in there.
• 21:31
  Speaker 3: Let's slow down, baby.
• 21:33
  Speaker 2: Uh, movie night, Netflix and chill, Hulu and et cetera.
• 21:37
  Speaker 3: Nope.
• 21:37
  Speaker 2: That's the same thing as your house. Yeah. Um, somewhere
• 21:40
  Speaker 2: that requires a long drive.
• 21:42
  Speaker 3: What?
• 21:43
  Speaker 2: What if he want to take your eyes to a
• 21:45
  Speaker 2: vineyard or something like that for the first date?
• 21:47
  Speaker 1: I had a first date, long drive, go bad. And
• 21:50
  Speaker 1: I had to take a Greyhound back home. So I
• 21:52
  Speaker 1: went with him on that.
• 21:54
  Speaker 2: Bitch, you got too many stories like that.
• 21:57
  Speaker 3: He was mad. He was mad. Bowling. I don't like bowling.
• 22:01
  Speaker 2: I always pop my fingernails bowling.
• 22:03
  Speaker 1: I love bowling, so I would go on that.
• 22:06
  Speaker 2: I mean, I would not not go on a first
• 22:08
  Speaker 2: date bowling. That might be like one of I think
• 22:11
  Speaker 2: you can do mini golf, bowling. All that stuff is cute,
• 22:14
  Speaker 2: but I'd be breaking my damn fingernails bowling.
• 22:16
  Speaker 3: Just don't put your fingernail in a hole.
• 22:17
  Speaker 2: Nightclubs. I don't think that's a good first date.
• 22:19
  Speaker 3: No, that's not a date.
• 22:21
  Speaker 2: Hookah bars.
• 22:22
  Speaker 3: Why not? Yeah, I like that. I'll go.
• 22:24
  Speaker 2: Quiet, a little dark, a little quaint space. Absolutely. A
• 22:28
  Speaker 2: bar for just drinks. Now, I don't like when a
• 22:31
  Speaker 2: nigga be like, meet me out for drinks. Like, what
• 22:32
  Speaker 2: are we going to eat first?
• 22:34
  Speaker 1: Oh, I assume they know that. I'm not going to
• 22:37
  Speaker 1: a bar that don't have food.
• 22:38
  Speaker 2: Right. Yeah.
• 22:39
  Speaker 3: I'm getting drinks and tapas.
• 22:41
  Speaker 2: Waffle House. Who the fuck going on a Waffle House
• 22:44
  Speaker 2: first date, man? What's wrong with y'all?
• 22:45
  Speaker 3: Who put that on the list?
• 22:47
  Speaker 2: Men made this. A man made this list. And then
• 22:50
  Speaker 2: sports events.
• 22:51
  Speaker 3: I love sports.
• 22:51
  Speaker 2: Why the fuck not?
• 22:52
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I love sporting events. Yeah.
• 22:54
  Speaker 2: We going to see a football game first date?
• 22:57
  Speaker 3: Absolutely.
• 22:58
  Speaker 2: I got dumped one time because I made a nigga
• 23:00
  Speaker 2: miss kickoff for a football game. damn yeah we was
• 23:04
  Speaker 2: late getting up here to charlotte to go to a
• 23:07
  Speaker 2: game and that nigga was mad dog he would not
• 23:10
  Speaker 2: hardly talk to me the whole time i remember i
• 23:14
  Speaker 2: was in vegas with a nigga and he started losing
• 23:16
  Speaker 2: he said it was my fault what yeah like you
• 23:19
  Speaker 2: bad luck yeah so he had an attitude with you
• 23:22
  Speaker 2: yeah ruined the whole trip That's wild. Niggas is retarded.
• 23:27
  Speaker 3: You need any.
• 23:28
  Speaker 1: Reason to blame somebody why you lost all your money.
• 23:31
  Speaker 1: It just might not be your day.
• 23:32
  Speaker 2: Like, what the fuck?
• 23:33
  Speaker 1: It ain't got nothing to do with me. I put
• 23:35
  Speaker 1: $ 2 in the slot, made it five, bitch. I don't
• 23:38
  Speaker 1: understand how you not here.
• 23:42
  Speaker 2: I have went on a first date to Whole Foods
• 23:44
  Speaker 2: before to help a nigga grocery shop because he was
• 23:47
  Speaker 2: trying to have a better diet. And he know I'm like, uh,
• 23:52
  Speaker 2: that's a date. I mean, we went out to eat afterwards,
• 23:55
  Speaker 2: but that's, that was when he picked me up. Like, Hey,
• 23:57
  Speaker 2: can you go with me to Whole Foods? That was
• 24:00
  Speaker 2: our first, first time hanging out.
• 24:02
  Speaker 3: I don't care. The day started when y'all went to
• 24:04
  Speaker 3: the restaurant.
• 24:04
  Speaker 2: Possibly. I don't know. Anyway, I don't have a problem
• 24:08
  Speaker 2: with some of this stuff on the list is for
• 24:09
  Speaker 2: these fast food, low quick spots. Nah, I'm not eating
• 24:12
  Speaker 2: there anyway. I don't even eat chicken for some Buffalo
• 24:15
  Speaker 2: wild wings, but. A nigga came up with this list
• 24:17
  Speaker 2: and they put it online to start another woman versus
• 24:20
  Speaker 2: man bullshit. Blah, blah, blah, blah, blah.
• 24:23
  Speaker 3: Right.
• 24:23
  Speaker 2: Save it. Save the bullshit, y'all. We're going to be
• 24:26
  Speaker 2: right back after this break. I saw that Tyrese's ex-wife,
• 24:37
  Speaker 2: Samantha Gibson, I don't know what her maiden name is,
• 24:41
  Speaker 2: but she was on a podcast recently.
• 24:43
  Speaker 3: Mm-hmm.
• 24:44
  Speaker 2: And she admits that she's willing to rekindle a relationship
• 24:47
  Speaker 2: with Tyrese. Now, you know Tyrese was recently on The
• 24:50
  Speaker 2: Breakfast Club. And pouring out his heart about how hard
• 24:54
  Speaker 2: the breakup was, you know, because he never got married
• 24:57
  Speaker 2: to get divorced. He wanted, you know, he wanted to
• 25:00
  Speaker 2: be with his child. All these things. And I remember
• 25:03
  Speaker 2: Jess Alaris even played some audio from his ex-wife. She
• 25:08
  Speaker 2: was talking maybe on her own podcast. I think she
• 25:10
  Speaker 2: has a podcast as well. But she was talking about
• 25:14
  Speaker 2: men and vulnerability and stuff like that. And Tyrese was like,
• 25:20
  Speaker 2: if she knows all this, why didn't she practice that
• 25:22
  Speaker 2: in the relationship? So we know he probably wasn't perfect.
• 25:25
  Speaker 2: She wasn't perfect. And this is what she was also
• 25:27
  Speaker 2: saying on this podcast she was on recently. But it
• 25:30
  Speaker 2: almost made me feel like I was thinking to myself like, damn,
• 25:33
  Speaker 2: are women more toxic? Because this nigga literally is struggling
• 25:37
  Speaker 2: in public because of this breakup. And now you can
• 25:40
  Speaker 2: just casually say, mind you, he got a whole girlfriend.
• 25:45
  Speaker 2: You know he want to. You know he would have
• 25:47
  Speaker 2: preferred to have stayed married. But, you know, sometimes they
• 25:51
  Speaker 2: say like the time apart, the breakup, the absence make
• 25:55
  Speaker 2: the heart grow fonder and all this stuff like that.
• 25:57
  Speaker 2: You don't put him through the courts. Yeah, you don't
• 26:01
  Speaker 2: put him through the courts for the child support. All
• 26:04
  Speaker 2: this shit's still in the courts. And you talking about
• 26:07
  Speaker 2: you would rekindle a relationship. You know everybody be calling
• 26:10
  Speaker 2: Tyrese a narc. Is she the narc? Are women more toxic? Yeah.
• 26:16
  Speaker 2: That's one of the questions I have. Do you think
• 26:18
  Speaker 2: that women are more toxic than men? I know we
• 26:20
  Speaker 2: do a lot of manipulative shit to get a man
• 26:23
  Speaker 2: to do what we want them to do.
• 26:27
  Speaker 1: I think we definitely have the capability to be more toxic, but.
• 26:33
  Speaker 1: Men have their ways for sure. I mean, I don't
• 26:35
  Speaker 1: think Tyrese was a saint in all of it, for sure. So,
• 26:39
  Speaker 1: but in that moment, she definitely seems like, girl, what?
• 26:46
  Speaker 1: Why you came on a podcast? You should call that nigga.
• 26:49
  Speaker 2: You should call your fucking ex-husband. You should call the
• 26:52
  Speaker 2: father of your child Tyrese. And say these things.
• 26:55
  Speaker 3: Right.
• 26:55
  Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying? You sending messages to him
• 26:58
  Speaker 2: via a podcast.
• 26:59
  Speaker 3: In the world.
• 27:00
  Speaker 2: And imagine him seeing that. Like, that could be confusing.
• 27:02
  Speaker 2: He talked about how he was on antipsychotics and all
• 27:04
  Speaker 2: this shit. Like, that shit caused him a mental breakdown.
• 27:08
  Speaker 2: And now you can casually just say, you know, I
• 27:10
  Speaker 2: might be open to that. Maybe they already been talking
• 27:14
  Speaker 2: about it. I don't know.
• 27:17
  Speaker 3: Well, it seems like both of them kind of fool
• 27:18
  Speaker 3: up and they need each.
• 27:19
  Speaker 2: Other, so.
• 27:21
  Speaker 3: Shit. I don't know.
• 27:27
  Speaker 2: I know I can be toxic. We talked about some
• 27:29
  Speaker 2: shit last week. I know I can do some toxic things.
• 27:33
  Speaker 2: And in my mind, a lot of my toxic behavior
• 27:36
  Speaker 2: is response to toxicity as opposed to just walking away.
• 27:39
  Speaker 2: I'll just equal, I'll just one up the toxic shit.
• 27:43
  Speaker 2: But I'm not initiating toxic shit, man, because I like
• 27:46
  Speaker 2: to feel, I like shit when shit is copacetic. I
• 27:51
  Speaker 2: know some people really, fucking excel in toxicity i don't
• 27:56
  Speaker 2: i have.
• 27:56
  Speaker 3: Been you know in some environments and situations where i
• 28:01
  Speaker 3: might have initiated some toxic behavior for dick yeah but
• 28:11
  Speaker 3: it wasn't i mean it wasn't i used to pick
• 28:14
  Speaker 3: fights with my boyfriend so we could have angry.
• 28:16
  Speaker 2: Sex just asking to be aggressive.
• 28:20
  Speaker 3: But he just was more aggressive. The aggressiveness was just
• 28:23
  Speaker 3: more authentic when he was a little upset.
• 28:27
  Speaker 2: I never liked that. If I'm mad, my pussy is dry.
• 28:32
  Speaker 2: I cannot have sex unhappy. So I'll have a fight.
• 28:37
  Speaker 2: with a nigga and now you want to have sex
• 28:39
  Speaker 2: i'm disgusted don't.
• 28:40
  Speaker 1: Touch me like you didn't see that tumbleweed roll past
• 28:44
  Speaker 1: the bed it's.
• 28:46
  Speaker 3: A prairie dog sitting right next to the edge of
• 28:48
  Speaker 3: the couch.
• 28:51
  Speaker 2: Yeah don't touch me like nigga no and then i
• 28:54
  Speaker 2: have had sex and you know i've had sex with
• 28:57
  Speaker 2: somebody like my ex And after a fucking argument, and
• 29:02
  Speaker 2: the nigga goes, I'm thinking we good now because we
• 29:04
  Speaker 2: done had sex.
• 29:05
  Speaker 3: No.
• 29:05
  Speaker 2: You go back to being mad?
• 29:07
  Speaker 3: Yes.
• 29:07
  Speaker 2: Immediately after he comes. I'm like, wait, what?
• 29:10
  Speaker 3: I don't mind.
• 29:11
  Speaker 2: Go to sleep. Bye.
• 29:13
  Speaker 3: No.
• 29:14
  Speaker 2: How you so mad after I done made you come?
• 29:15
  Speaker 2: How you so angry? I'm confused.
• 29:19
  Speaker 3: Because it's the life after the night. I ain't forgot.
• 29:25
  Speaker 2: I think she dead ass wrong. Leave that fucking man alone.
• 29:28
  Speaker 2: Especially because he's in a public relationship with somebody. And
• 29:32
  Speaker 2: here you on the fucking podcast. And you know... I
• 29:35
  Speaker 2: don't know. Hopefully Tyrese doesn't feed into it. I saw he's...
• 29:40
  Speaker 2: he's getting sued after that damn last episode on the
• 29:44
  Speaker 2: breakfast club I don't know exactly what for or who
• 29:46
  Speaker 2: he's being sued by I just.
• 29:47
  Speaker 1: Hope that the two of them can find a way
• 29:50
  Speaker 1: because they have a kid right to co-parent.
• 29:53
  Speaker 2: They obviously been co-parenting he pays child support I think
• 29:56
  Speaker 2: she was trying to get an increase But I.
• 29:57
  Speaker 3: Can't imagine that they co-parent in a healthy way right now.
• 30:01
  Speaker 3: It seems like they don't communicate.
• 30:04
  Speaker 2: Right, if she's talking on the podcast. But this conversation
• 30:07
  Speaker 2: wasn't really about them. I just was trying to use
• 30:10
  Speaker 2: that as an example of the type of toxic shit
• 30:14
  Speaker 2: that women may do. You know what I'm saying? We
• 30:17
  Speaker 2: know how to hurt our men. We know what makes
• 30:21
  Speaker 2: them fucking.
• 30:22
  Speaker 3: We know what buttons to press. Right.
• 30:24
  Speaker 2: You remember Magda Stallion had them t-shirts on. It's a
• 30:27
  Speaker 2: t-shirt that said, I make boys cry. Like, I really
• 30:30
  Speaker 2: need that t-shirt because I definitely make a nigga cry.
• 30:32
  Speaker 1: I done made a nigga cry too. Yeah, that's bad.
• 30:38
  Speaker 2: Just leave, man. Stop playing the toxic games with these men.
• 30:43
  Speaker 2: Because see, everybody can't handle it.
• 30:44
  Speaker 3: I can remember being like very hurtful.
• 30:47
  Speaker 1: I hope I've already received my karma for some of
• 30:50
  Speaker 1: that shit that I did. Looking back, I was young,
• 30:52
  Speaker 1: you know? And I remember, like, I won't say which nigga,
• 30:56
  Speaker 1: but he crying.
• 30:56
  Speaker 3: I was like, oh, he do love me. Like, why
• 30:59
  Speaker 3: a nigga need to cry from him to love me?
• 31:01
  Speaker 2: You are a real boy. I used to be. No, bitch.
• 31:05
  Speaker 3: I used to be.
• 31:07
  Speaker 2: I feel like men don't think you love them until
• 31:10
  Speaker 2: you cry. I really think you have to give your
• 31:13
  Speaker 2: whole fucking soul up to these niggas for them to
• 31:15
  Speaker 2: really think you love and care about them. So you
• 31:17
  Speaker 2: mean to tell me that you made a nigga cry like, oh,
• 31:22
  Speaker 2: he do love me?
• 31:23
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I remember feeling like that.
• 31:25
  Speaker 2: No, put some shit in your name for me. That's
• 31:27
  Speaker 2: how I know you love me. That's how I felt
• 31:29
  Speaker 2: that day.
• 31:29
  Speaker 3: I was like, oh, damn, he do fuck with me
• 31:31
  Speaker 3: for real, huh?
• 31:32
  Speaker 2: Yo, you tripping, bitch.
• 31:34
  Speaker 3: I was in my 20s, child. I would never.
• 31:36
  Speaker 1: I do like to see men cry, but not like... Like,
• 31:40
  Speaker 1: not in a hurtful way.
• 31:41
  Speaker 2: Why do you want to see them cry?
• 31:42
  Speaker 1: I just like when a man can be vulnerable enough
• 31:45
  Speaker 1: to cry around me now. It's not like I want
• 31:48
  Speaker 1: you to cry from pain because it's something I cause.
• 31:52
  Speaker 3: You might be crying from pain that, you know.
• 31:55
  Speaker 2: Somebody else. Yeah.
• 31:56
  Speaker 3: But just vulnerable enough to cry in my space, I
• 32:00
  Speaker 3: like that.
• 32:01
  Speaker 2: Sometimes, I don't know. Men, I don't know. I've never
• 32:04
  Speaker 2: been with somebody who didn't cry in front of me.
• 32:08
  Speaker 2: So I know I'm a fucking safe space. Now, when
• 32:10
  Speaker 2: I'm done with your ass, I ain't safe. Nigga, don't
• 32:13
  Speaker 2: do shit around me.
• 32:14
  Speaker 3: It ain't safe.
• 32:15
  Speaker 2: It ain't safe.
• 32:16
  Speaker 3: It ain't safe. It ain't safe.
• 32:17
  Speaker 2: It ain't fucking safe, dog. When I'm ready to leave
• 32:20
  Speaker 2: that relationship, look, shit ain't safe. I'm really trying to
• 32:24
  Speaker 2: hurt you. So I could be toxic, but that's not
• 32:28
  Speaker 2: my normal setting. Nigga, you created that environment. You know
• 32:32
  Speaker 2: what I'm saying? You want a loving woman? You got
• 32:34
  Speaker 2: to talk to them nice. You have to be nice
• 32:36
  Speaker 2: to women. The Bible says man is to love his
• 32:40
  Speaker 2: wife as Christ loved the church. It don't say nothing
• 32:43
  Speaker 2: about women loving men. Be nice to us and we'll
• 32:46
  Speaker 2: get toxicity. But I know some bitches, you know, aside
• 32:49
  Speaker 2: from you. I used to be, used to be like that.
• 32:54
  Speaker 2: I'm not like that no more. I have some friends
• 32:56
  Speaker 2: that I know they be doing shit today, significant of it.
• 33:01
  Speaker 2: And I'm like, nah, bitch. I'm never the type of
• 33:03
  Speaker 2: person to sit around. You can't come tell me you
• 33:06
  Speaker 2: did some wild shit to somebody and I'm not going
• 33:07
  Speaker 2: to G-check you about it. I'm not one of them friends. Like, bitch,
• 33:11
  Speaker 2: what are you doing? That's terrible.
• 33:13
  Speaker 3: Like, that's not okay.
• 33:14
  Speaker 2: That's terrible. I remember one of my ex-friends, she had
• 33:19
  Speaker 2: called DSS on her people's ex-wife. And I'm like, you know,
• 33:26
  Speaker 2: if it's a real pertinent situation, if it's like real serious,
• 33:29
  Speaker 2: then yes. But you're not even just fucking with this
• 33:33
  Speaker 2: woman at this point. You're fucking with the child. And
• 33:37
  Speaker 2: you don't have a child of your own. At the time,
• 33:38
  Speaker 2: she didn't. You don't know what that system is like
• 33:42
  Speaker 2: for children. It's deplorable. So now this girl got to
• 33:45
  Speaker 2: go through all type of shit because you don't got
• 33:46
  Speaker 2: her name in a database involving her children. And then
• 33:50
  Speaker 2: she got other kids aside from this one kid. That's
• 33:53
  Speaker 2: fucked up, bitch. I'm never agreeing with that. I'm never
• 33:56
  Speaker 2: cosigning no fucking nasty shit like that.
• 33:59
  Speaker 1: You got too much time on your hands if you're
• 34:01
  Speaker 1: going that far to be mean to somebody else.
• 34:05
  Speaker 3: Especially a baby.
• 34:06
  Speaker 2: I ain't with it. I ain't with it.
• 34:09
  Speaker 3: I mean, yeah, we know bitches is toxic. We know.
• 34:13
  Speaker 3: I mean, we been through all that.
• 34:16
  Speaker 2: But are we more toxic than men, though?
• 34:19
  Speaker 1: I think it's equal. I think it's like we're all human.
• 34:23
  Speaker 1: And it's just some people are more toxic than others,
• 34:26
  Speaker 1: and it don't matter your gender.
• 34:28
  Speaker 2: Do you think that sometimes men just get a bad rep?
• 34:31
  Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying?
• 34:32
  Speaker 3: On this show.
• 34:34
  Speaker 2: I don't think so. I think we equal opportunity.
• 34:35
  Speaker 3: You be hard on them niggas.
• 34:37
  Speaker 2: I do not be hard on niggas.
• 34:39
  Speaker 3: Y'all, we're going to make a poll.
• 34:40
  Speaker 2: I might be. Let me tell you why I think
• 34:41
  Speaker 2: I might.
• 34:41
  Speaker 3: Go in the comments. Is AJ hard on these niggas? No.
• 34:45
  Speaker 2: I don't think I'm hard on men, but I have
• 34:47
  Speaker 2: noticed that my guy friends, they always send me clips
• 34:51
  Speaker 2: of women doing fucked up shit. They always want me to-
• 34:53
  Speaker 2: I get those too. They want me to disparage women.
• 34:56
  Speaker 2: I'm a woman, first and foremost. I'm a black woman,
• 34:58
  Speaker 2: so you keep sending me shit. I can send you
• 35:00
  Speaker 2: a hundred things to the one thing you send me
• 35:02
  Speaker 2: a black woman do. You know what I'm saying?
• 35:04
  Speaker 3: I get those two, girl. It's like, why you keep
• 35:06
  Speaker 3: sending me this shit? Right.
• 35:07
  Speaker 2: I choose not to pick sides. That's the thing. I'm
• 35:10
  Speaker 2: not saying women are worse, men are worse. For the
• 35:12
  Speaker 2: sake of this particular episode, because of this shit with
• 35:15
  Speaker 2: Tyrese's ex-wife, I was thinking that, like, damn, this is
• 35:18
  Speaker 2: kind of fucked up. Because I don't think, reading the
• 35:20
  Speaker 2: comments online, I don't think anybody else saw it in
• 35:22
  Speaker 2: that way. But I thought it was really fucked up.
• 35:26
  Speaker 3: Yeah. I think it's fucked up too.
• 35:28
  Speaker 2: I thought it was really fucked up. But normally I
• 35:31
  Speaker 2: try to stay in the middle because you got fucked
• 35:32
  Speaker 2: up women and you got fucked up men.
• 35:35
  Speaker 3: But you see a lot of times where people get
• 35:37
  Speaker 3: married twice. You ain't seen that?
• 35:40
  Speaker 2: Where they get divorced?
• 35:41
  Speaker 3: Absolutely.
• 35:42
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 35:43
  Speaker 3: So niggas be spinning the block. Yeah.
• 35:45
  Speaker 2: On their wife.
• 35:47
  Speaker 3: Or on their husband. Yeah. So....
• 35:50
  Speaker 2: Maybe just a little break. Y'all needed it.
• 35:52
  Speaker 3: Mm-hmm.
• 35:53
  Speaker 2: But then what do you do with these other people
• 35:54
  Speaker 2: you already got? It sounds to me she hasn't moved on.
• 35:57
  Speaker 2: Tyrese has a girl, right? Ain't no way she has
• 36:00
  Speaker 2: a nigga in her life and she's on a podcast
• 36:02
  Speaker 2: talking about her ex-husband.
• 36:03
  Speaker 3: Right.
• 36:04
  Speaker 2: So she hasn't been able to move on. Or I
• 36:06
  Speaker 2: saw other comments saying, oh, that money looking funny.
• 36:10
  Speaker 3: That's what I'm thinking. She don't get to go to
• 36:12
  Speaker 3: no more premieres or nothing.
• 36:14
  Speaker 2: All the fun shit.
• 36:15
  Speaker 3: Fast 20. You ain't invited. You know what I'm saying?
• 36:19
  Speaker 2: Not fast, 20.
• 36:20
  Speaker 3: They got a lot of them damn movies. I didn't
• 36:22
  Speaker 3: know there was that many of them.
• 36:23
  Speaker 2: I think I only seen like the first three.
• 36:25
  Speaker 1: I seen the first two. I was like, the last
• 36:27
  Speaker 1: one I saw Bow Wow was in, it was like two?
• 36:29
  Speaker 1: I was like, damn, it's been that long?
• 36:33
  Speaker 3: We should have a weekend where we just binge watch
• 36:35
  Speaker 3: all the Fast and.
• 36:36
  Speaker 2: Furious and do drugs.
• 36:37
  Speaker 3: No, I'm cool.
• 36:37
  Speaker 2: I'm good.
• 36:38
  Speaker 3: Okay, well, I'll do it by myself.
• 36:39
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm good on that. Have at it. All right, y'all. So,
• 36:48
  Speaker 2: where is that? All right, something else I saw recently, Tam,
• 36:51
  Speaker 2: so do you call men daddy? I know you be
• 36:58
  Speaker 2: saying zaddy, but, you know, because you can pick your,
• 37:01
  Speaker 2: you can't pick your father, but you can choose your zaddy,
• 37:04
  Speaker 2: your daddy. Do you call men daddy?
• 37:08
  Speaker 1: I don't think that I do. I can't recall the
• 37:11
  Speaker 1: time where I was just like, come here, daddy. Or
• 37:15
  Speaker 1: maybe if it was like a sexual experience, it might
• 37:18
  Speaker 1: have came out, but. I'm not just like, daddy, pass
• 37:22
  Speaker 1: me the remote. Like, no, it's weird.
• 37:25
  Speaker 2: I have definitely been calling men daddy.
• 37:28
  Speaker 3: Just like in random conversations?
• 37:30
  Speaker 2: No, people who I'm in relationships with.
• 37:33
  Speaker 3: How do you say it?
• 37:35
  Speaker 2: Maybe not. Usually it comes out during sex.
• 37:38
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 37:38
  Speaker 2: Which is weird as fuck when you think about it.
• 37:41
  Speaker 2: But I don't call my actual father daddy. I probably
• 37:45
  Speaker 2: started calling him daddy like in my late 20s.
• 37:47
  Speaker 3: I call my dad, yeah, dad or daddy.
• 37:50
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I called my dad by his first name my
• 37:52
  Speaker 2: whole life, basically. But the older I got.
• 37:56
  Speaker 3: I'm mad at him. He be like, this nigga.
• 37:59
  Speaker 2: Not this nigga. Yeah, my daddy name was Rome. Like,
• 38:02
  Speaker 2: he was calling that nigga Rome.
• 38:04
  Speaker 3: Really?
• 38:04
  Speaker 2: By his first name?
• 38:05
  Speaker 3: Yes. I don't ever call my dad by his first name.
• 38:07
  Speaker 3: Dad or daddy, that's it.
• 38:09
  Speaker 2: But I don't have daddy issues, per se, why I
• 38:12
  Speaker 2: would call a man daddy. But I would definitely call
• 38:14
  Speaker 2: a man daddy... during sex. Okay. So Monique, um, explains, uh,
• 38:20
  Speaker 2: why she calls her husband daddy. She said, my husband,
• 38:24
  Speaker 2: my best friend, my brother, he's had all these hats.
• 38:29
  Speaker 2: And a lot of black women would say, why do
• 38:31
  Speaker 2: you call him daddy? Because he's raising me. He's raising
• 38:36
  Speaker 2: me The 55-year-old comedian said about her hubby, Sidney Hicks,
• 38:42
  Speaker 2: during a podcast appearance with Janice McCall, the daughter of
• 38:47
  Speaker 2: the late comedian Bernie Mac, her ace showbiz, whatever that is. Meanwhile,
• 38:55
  Speaker 2: fans pointed out that Monique has classic daddy issues. I
• 39:01
  Speaker 2: don't think I have daddy issues why I would call
• 39:03
  Speaker 2: a man daddy.
• 39:05
  Speaker 3: Well, if you 50 years old and still getting raised,
• 39:07
  Speaker 3: you might have some daddy issues.
• 39:10
  Speaker 2: Yeah. I don't think I call a man daddy because
• 39:15
  Speaker 2: I need someone to raise me. It's just like a
• 39:18
  Speaker 2: dominant figure. You know what I'm saying?
• 39:22
  Speaker 3: I just call him bae.
• 39:24
  Speaker 2: I do bae too. But what I'm saying, it's not
• 39:26
  Speaker 2: like I do it all the time, but I have
• 39:27
  Speaker 2: done it. You know what I'm saying?
• 39:29
  Speaker 1: Like.
• 39:30
  Speaker 2: I for sure would call my ex daddy.
• 39:33
  Speaker 1: Anytime I call a nigga daddy, I'm being condescending when
• 39:36
  Speaker 1: they're telling me what to do.
• 39:37
  Speaker 3: Thanks, dad.
• 39:40
  Speaker 2: Thank you, dad. So you don't be like, ooh, daddy,
• 39:42
  Speaker 2: during sex? No. Oh. Ooh, daddy. Mm-mm.
• 39:46
  Speaker 3: Mm-mm.
• 39:48
  Speaker 2: What's the psychology behind it?
• 39:51
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't know.
• 39:52
  Speaker 1: I don't know because I think if I start saying,
• 39:54
  Speaker 1: I start thinking about my dad, it's just going.
• 39:56
  Speaker 2: To turn weird. See, but like I said, I didn't
• 39:59
  Speaker 2: usually even call my daddy, daddy, my actual daddy, daddy
• 40:03
  Speaker 2: growing up. So I have a daddy. I have a daddy,
• 40:08
  Speaker 2: but I wasn't calling another man, a grown man daddy
• 40:11
  Speaker 2: until I started having, you know.
• 40:13
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 40:13
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 40:14
  Speaker 3: That's wild to me.
• 40:15
  Speaker 2: I think it's empowering to the man, no? Like, I
• 40:18
  Speaker 2: don't know why. Maybe I do it because the man
• 40:20
  Speaker 2: likes it.
• 40:23
  Speaker 3: Do men even like that?
• 40:26
  Speaker 2: I think so.
• 40:26
  Speaker 3: Y'all, tell us.
• 40:30
  Speaker 2: I done had somebody tell me to come on daddy's
• 40:32
  Speaker 2: dick before.
• 40:33
  Speaker 3: Ugh. Ugh. I'm about to throw up. Come on. Ugh.
• 40:39
  Speaker 2: No.
• 40:43
  Speaker 3: Get out of here.
• 40:46
  Speaker 2: Yeah, but bitch, I don't need to be raised by
• 40:48
  Speaker 2: a nan nigga. You're my husband. You're not my dad.
• 40:52
  Speaker 2: I'm not being raised by a man that I'm intimate with.
• 40:57
  Speaker 2: So the connotation behind daddy is different. You know what
• 41:02
  Speaker 2: I'm saying? I'm not calling him my father. My father.
• 41:07
  Speaker 3: Might as well.
• 41:08
  Speaker 2: No.
• 41:10
  Speaker 3: Come on, my father's dick.
• 41:12
  Speaker 2: Oh, shit. No, shut up. My stomach hurt. Bitch.
• 41:19
  Speaker 3: That's what it sound like to me. Don't do it.
• 41:23
  Speaker 3: Don't say that.
• 41:24
  Speaker 2: Maybe I'll try to refrain, but it's almost like trying
• 41:26
  Speaker 2: to stop saying nigga. Like, it's hard. Because it's not
• 41:30
  Speaker 2: like something I do often, but I definitely be doing it. Like,
• 41:33
  Speaker 2: I was definitely doing it this weekend. Why couldn't come tailgate?
• 41:39
  Speaker 3: Why you at that tailgate?
• 41:40
  Speaker 2: Because you was in there hollering at your daddy.
• 41:46
  Speaker 3: What's next, bitch?
• 41:47
  Speaker 2: Moving on before I lose my mind. Look, okay. This
• 41:53
  Speaker 2: is some other relationship shit, which I know I'm guilty
• 41:56
  Speaker 2: of not doing. Do you take time in between relationships
• 42:00
  Speaker 2: for yourself?
• 42:02
  Speaker 3: I take too much time. It's been seven years.
• 42:05
  Speaker 2: So, yes. But do situationships count?
• 42:10
  Speaker 3: That's not a relationship to me.
• 42:13
  Speaker 2: Have you consistently seen somebody like, okay, you stopped fucking
• 42:16
  Speaker 2: with this person today and now you consistently seeing somebody else?
• 42:21
  Speaker 3: I don't be consistent with nobody, so I can't say that.
• 42:26
  Speaker 2: But do you be having sex? Nope. This bitch a
• 42:29
  Speaker 2: fucking liar.
• 42:30
  Speaker 3: Not no more.
• 42:33
  Speaker 1: I stopped that right before the pandemic. I ain't seen
• 42:36
  Speaker 1: the penises.
• 42:38
  Speaker 2: COVID.
• 42:39
  Speaker 3: So there.
• 42:42
  Speaker 2: Bitch. So what do you mean? The lies you tell.
• 42:46
  Speaker 3: Do I, what, like serial monogamous with someone? Mm-hmm. No,
• 42:52
  Speaker 3: you know that I don't.
• 42:53
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't take long enough breaks. And it's not
• 42:58
  Speaker 2: that I'm hopping.
• 42:58
  Speaker 3: You don't. You will have a daddy real quick.
• 43:05
  Speaker 2: A new daddy real quick.
• 43:08
  Speaker 3: You know, and be all out with them, be going
• 43:11
  Speaker 3: to bringing them to the things. I'd be like, oh, okay.
• 43:15
  Speaker 3: Why not?
• 43:16
  Speaker 2: Why not?
• 43:19
  Speaker 3: Boys, watch my soul.
• 43:20
  Speaker 2: Let me tell you, I am a real Gemini, bitch.
• 43:23
  Speaker 2: And I'm going to do this shit probably until the
• 43:24
  Speaker 2: day I die. I'm a Gemini.
• 43:27
  Speaker 3: You be locked in.
• 43:29
  Speaker 2: And it's not really locked in. It's just like, why not, bitch?
• 43:34
  Speaker 2: I have chose the wrong relationships too many fucking times, right?
• 43:38
  Speaker 2: And you stay there for too long. Why not hop
• 43:42
  Speaker 2: around until it works?
• 43:45
  Speaker 3: I will hop around, but I don't just, I don't.
• 43:48
  Speaker 3: I don't move around with them, though. Not like that. Nigga,
• 43:52
  Speaker 3: you is my homie until further notice.
• 43:57
  Speaker 2: Well, I guess I could take a little breaky break.
• 43:59
  Speaker 2: The longest break, the longest time I've actually refrained from
• 44:02
  Speaker 2: having sex, because that's really what I feel like a
• 44:04
  Speaker 2: break is, is not fucking. Okay? Is one year.
• 44:09
  Speaker 3: That's good.
• 44:12
  Speaker 2: Like, other than that, I've never just refrained from having
• 44:15
  Speaker 2: sex once. Like on my own personal recognizance. Just not fucking.
• 44:21
  Speaker 2: Just once in life.
• 44:22
  Speaker 3: So let's not do it for the rest of the year.
• 44:25
  Speaker 2: Well, I had said that, you know, a couple months
• 44:28
  Speaker 2: ago that I was done for the year for 2023.
• 44:30
  Speaker 2: Me too.
• 44:31
  Speaker 1: And I had a good run, but then I kind
• 44:33
  Speaker 1: of slipped on banana peel.
• 44:36
  Speaker 2: And landed on some dick. Yeah, I did.
• 44:38
  Speaker 3: The same old dick from before that I had left around. See,
• 44:41
  Speaker 3: that's the thing.
• 44:41
  Speaker 2: I don't really be having new dick.
• 44:44
  Speaker 3: Yeah. You be recycling.
• 44:46
  Speaker 2: I be recycling the same niggas. I feel like maybe
• 44:49
  Speaker 2: I've been with these niggas in another life.
• 44:51
  Speaker 3: No, you be sprinkling in some new ones.
• 44:54
  Speaker 2: Shut up! Sprinkling in some new ones.
• 44:59
  Speaker 3: A little razzle dazzle on some new shit every now
• 45:02
  Speaker 3: and then. I ain't gonna lie.
• 45:03
  Speaker 2: Who this nigga? Who this for? I be trying, man.
• 45:11
  Speaker 2: Shit rough out here.
• 45:11
  Speaker 1: The new ones don't never last, though, and then you
• 45:13
  Speaker 1: go back and Trying to make it work with some
• 45:16
  Speaker 1: old shit.
• 45:17
  Speaker 2: I'm about to be by myself, though.
• 45:19
  Speaker 3: Me too. Watch. Me too.
• 45:21
  Speaker 1: I am.
• 45:21
  Speaker 2: I'm going to try real hard to be alone. Get
• 45:24
  Speaker 2: my downtime in between breakups. I guess I don't consider, like,
• 45:28
  Speaker 2: stop talking to a new nigga. I don't consider that
• 45:30
  Speaker 2: a breakup, though. Like, it's not a breakup until it's like... Done. Yeah,
• 45:34
  Speaker 2: some years you've been fucking with somebody and y'all break up.
• 45:37
  Speaker 2: Anything else, it's just like we stop talking.
• 45:39
  Speaker 3: Am I wrong that... I done went to.
• 45:42
  Speaker 1: STK full time since the bitch opened in Charlotte because
• 45:45
  Speaker 1: everybody wanted to take the bitch.
• 45:47
  Speaker 2: No.
• 45:48
  Speaker 3: That's just dating, right?
• 45:49
  Speaker 2: Yeah, that's what dating is.
• 45:50
  Speaker 1: The servers and the waitresses been looking at me like, damn, bitch.
• 45:54
  Speaker 2: You like it here.
• 45:55
  Speaker 3: Like, nah, this is where these niggas want to go.
• 45:57
  Speaker 2: Y'all just open. Oh, I didn't realize there was not
• 46:00
  Speaker 2: an STK in Charlotte.
• 46:02
  Speaker 3: No, it just opened.
• 46:03
  Speaker 2: When?
• 46:04
  Speaker 3: Like two weeks ago.
• 46:04
  Speaker 2: So everybody done with State 48 now?
• 46:07
  Speaker 3: Just probably till Christmas.
• 46:09
  Speaker 2: I've never even been to Steak 48. Oh, yeah.
• 46:11
  Speaker 3: Y'all should go. It's really, really good.
• 46:14
  Speaker 2: Taking myself there.
• 46:16
  Speaker 1: STK, when I went with the girls, I ordered. I
• 46:19
  Speaker 1: was like a round on me. It was just me
• 46:21
  Speaker 1: and Janae.
• 46:22
  Speaker 3: It was $ 100.
• 46:23
  Speaker 2: For what? How many rounds?
• 46:25
  Speaker 3: We had two cocktails each.
• 46:27
  Speaker 2: Four drinks, $ 100 at STK?
• 46:30
  Speaker 3: Mm-hmm.
• 46:31
  Speaker 2: Nah, I need a nigga to go. I'm glad I'm
• 46:33
  Speaker 2: not a man I'm glad I'm not a man bitch
• 46:36
  Speaker 2: like you really gotta always have money as a man
• 46:38
  Speaker 2: yeah it's hard on y'all brothers we love y'all we
• 46:41
  Speaker 2: appreciate y'all yeah man keep getting that check bitches come
• 46:44
  Speaker 2: with it right you'll never lose you can lose a
• 46:49
  Speaker 2: lot of money chasing bitches but you'll never lose bitches
• 46:52
  Speaker 2: chasing money absolutely that's for sure I gotta stop calling
• 46:56
  Speaker 2: us bitches women some of y'all be bitches though Hell yeah.
• 47:01
  Speaker 2: Some of y'all were raised by bitches. Some of y'all
• 47:03
  Speaker 2: are literally sons of bitches.
• 47:05
  Speaker 3: Right.
• 47:06
  Speaker 2: Bitches is out here. What do you think about titles?
• 47:11
  Speaker 3: I'm scared of them. All my committed relationships, I got
• 47:15
  Speaker 3: to automate them to be in them. Swear to God.
• 47:18
  Speaker 2: You really the boy.
• 47:19
  Speaker 3: I be the boy a lot of the time. I
• 47:23
  Speaker 3: be scared. A nigga be like, what are we? Like,
• 47:28
  Speaker 3: if you don't want to be serious, then we just
• 47:30
  Speaker 3: got to end. I'm like, damn.
• 47:32
  Speaker 2: The last person I asked that to, I said, you
• 47:34
  Speaker 2: want to be my boyfriend? And he was like, yeah,
• 47:38
  Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying? Like, I am dating. I'm
• 47:40
  Speaker 2: dating for marriage or whatever. Like, you know, we had
• 47:43
  Speaker 2: a whole episode on dating with purpose and what that
• 47:45
  Speaker 2: even exactly fucking means, whatever. But he was like, yeah,
• 47:51
  Speaker 2: but he wants to court me more. And my idea
• 47:55
  Speaker 2: of courting, multiple men can court me at the same time.
• 47:58
  Speaker 2: You can't think that you're just courting me and I'm
• 48:01
  Speaker 2: not dating. Because courting and dating is the same thing, no?
• 48:04
  Speaker 3: I thought courting was like dating exclusively.
• 48:11
  Speaker 2: No. If I ask you if you want to be
• 48:14
  Speaker 2: my boyfriend or if you ask me, hey, I want
• 48:16
  Speaker 2: you to be my girl, I want to lock in,
• 48:19
  Speaker 2: that is dating exclusively.
• 48:21
  Speaker 3: Oh.
• 48:21
  Speaker 1: No?
• 48:23
  Speaker 2: No.
• 48:24
  Speaker 3: I thought that came before boyfriend and girlfriend.
• 48:26
  Speaker 2: See, I don't even fucking know the rules of this shit.
• 48:29
  Speaker 2: And I feel like, listen, I'm going to be 40
• 48:31
  Speaker 2: years old next year. I don't want no fucking boyfriend
• 48:34
  Speaker 2: at 40.
• 48:34
  Speaker 3: What, do you want to go from dating to engaged?
• 48:36
  Speaker 2: Yes, nigga. Let me tell you, I feel like when
• 48:40
  Speaker 2: you're in your 20s, early 30s, you may fluctuate and
• 48:43
  Speaker 2: start changing. We already who the fuck we going to be.
• 48:46
  Speaker 2: So if you meet me, this is me, and it's
• 48:48
  Speaker 2: probably going to be me for the next 20, 30 years.
• 48:52
  Speaker 3: Why not?
• 48:53
  Speaker 2: Just do the thing. and see if it fucking work.
• 48:55
  Speaker 2: If it don't, we just break up. And I'm not
• 48:57
  Speaker 2: saying like get into a marriage, but we can get
• 48:59
  Speaker 2: into a committed situation because single AJ and committed AJ
• 49:03
  Speaker 2: is two different people.
• 49:05
  Speaker 3: What's the difference? There's one dick. That's the only difference.
• 49:09
  Speaker 2: Yes, but I am also entertaining other people. I'm not
• 49:12
  Speaker 2: just talking. I might just be having sex with you
• 49:14
  Speaker 2: one person, right? But I'm still actively dating. I'm still
• 49:18
  Speaker 2: hanging out with other men. I'm lying to.
• 49:20
  Speaker 3: You, though.
• 49:20
  Speaker 2: I'm going to be honest on the show and say
• 49:23
  Speaker 2: you have to lie to these niggas. Like, men get
• 49:26
  Speaker 2: turned off thinking you talking to other people. But if
• 49:28
  Speaker 2: you don't want to lock in with me if I
• 49:30
  Speaker 2: ask you, right? I've been telling them.
• 49:33
  Speaker 3: I mean, I have to.
• 49:34
  Speaker 1: I feel like lying is so exhausting. So I just
• 49:37
  Speaker 1: got to the point where I just be honest. Like,
• 49:39
  Speaker 1: nigga trying to see me, I'm like, oh, I got
• 49:41
  Speaker 1: plans tonight.
• 49:42
  Speaker 2: No, that, right. But the person you having sex with,
• 49:46
  Speaker 2: you can't always tell them that, hey, I'm dating other people.
• 49:49
  Speaker 2: But you should assume that if you ain't trying to
• 49:51
  Speaker 2: be in a relationship with me. If you just, you
• 49:54
  Speaker 2: think you just want to court me some more. What
• 49:56
  Speaker 2: the fuck is that?
• 49:57
  Speaker 3: Right.
• 49:58
  Speaker 2: That says single. That says I'm free to move about
• 50:01
  Speaker 2: the country. So when I start acting in that way,
• 50:05
  Speaker 2: don't trip.
• 50:05
  Speaker 3: I agree.
• 50:07
  Speaker 2: I agree. So at this age, I don't want no
• 50:10
  Speaker 2: fucking boyfriend.
• 50:11
  Speaker 3: I do.
• 50:12
  Speaker 2: I don't want a boyfriend.
• 50:13
  Speaker 3: I'm ready.
• 50:14
  Speaker 2: I don't want a boyfriend.
• 50:15
  Speaker 3: I'm tired of being outside. Come get me.
• 50:16
  Speaker 2: I want a husband. I don't want a boyfriend.
• 50:18
  Speaker 1: I want to go from single to dating to boyfriend
• 50:22
  Speaker 1: to husband.
• 50:24
  Speaker 3: That's the way I want it to go. And I
• 50:26
  Speaker 3: want it to happen fast.
• 50:28
  Speaker 2: Within a year, right?
• 50:30
  Speaker 3: I don't know.
• 50:31
  Speaker 1: I need maybe two years because I need a year
• 50:33
  Speaker 1: to plan my engagements. I want to have a big-ass shindig.
• 50:38
  Speaker 3: All y'all invited. If you listening to this episode, you
• 50:41
  Speaker 3: my plus 3,000, 4,000.
• 50:42
  Speaker 2: That's like this girl I know, and I used to
• 50:47
  Speaker 2: work with her, the company I used to work with.
• 50:49
  Speaker 2: I know you've probably seen this video. When her and
• 50:51
  Speaker 2: her husband got married, she bought that nigga a yacht.
• 50:55
  Speaker 2: Did you see that? It went viral.
• 50:57
  Speaker 1: No.
• 50:58
  Speaker 2: She bought him a fucking yacht. Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah.
• 50:59
  Speaker 3: I saw that.
• 51:01
  Speaker 2: I was like, yo, this, how do I do this?
• 51:02
  Speaker 3: Yes, I want to be that. I want to be that.
• 51:04
  Speaker 2: Yeah, absolutely. Because what do you get a man who
• 51:06
  Speaker 2: has everything? You know what I'm saying? I'm just like,
• 51:08
  Speaker 2: I'm going to get my nigga a boat. I mean,
• 51:09
  Speaker 2: it's just like financing a home.
• 51:11
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 51:11
  Speaker 2: People think this stuff is unattainable, but it's just another bill.
• 51:14
  Speaker 2: Y'all got the income. Right.
• 51:17
  Speaker 3: I'm going to buy my husband a boat if that's
• 51:18
  Speaker 3: what he wants.
• 51:19
  Speaker 2: I don't think I'm going to buy. I do want
• 51:20
  Speaker 2: a Van Dutch yacht, but not like a big, this
• 51:23
  Speaker 2: is a big dumbass yacht.
• 51:25
  Speaker 3: I seen it.
• 51:26
  Speaker 2: Million dollars.
• 51:27
  Speaker 3: Easy. Yeah, I want that.
• 51:29
  Speaker 2: The maintenance on something like that, like the gas, to
• 51:31
  Speaker 2: have somebody charter it. You.
• 51:34
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm trying to be like.
• 51:35
  Speaker 2: She did what she needed to do, go viral. Mm-hmm.
• 51:38
  Speaker 2: I wonder if they still got the yacht.
• 51:40
  Speaker 3: It's ours till Friday, baby.
• 51:46
  Speaker 2: Dumb bitch stories.
• 51:48
  Speaker 3: You are so dumb. Because we've all been a dumb
• 51:50
  Speaker 3: bitch at least once or twice.
• 51:52
  Speaker 2: All right, y'all. So we're back. And we do have
• 51:55
  Speaker 2: a dumb bitch story today, Tam.
• 51:57
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 51:57
  Speaker 2: And it's a juicy one, child. I read it. Okay,
• 52:00
  Speaker 2: let's hear it. It's iffy. All right, so this is
• 52:04
  Speaker 2: from one of our Instagram friends. It says, Hey AJ
• 52:08
  Speaker 2: and Tam, I've officially been a married dumb bitch for
• 52:12
  Speaker 2: two years now. My supposed husband has been sleeping with
• 52:16
  Speaker 2: the mother of his two kids the entire time I've
• 52:19
  Speaker 2: known him. I wish I could say I didn't know
• 52:22
  Speaker 2: prior to marrying him, but I did. He and I
• 52:25
  Speaker 2: have been together now for a total of three, almost
• 52:29
  Speaker 2: four years, but I was basically pregnant most of year one. Okay?
• 52:34
  Speaker 2: So it's not like she got pregnant immediately. I had
• 52:37
  Speaker 2: caught him cheating with her in the beginning, but I
• 52:39
  Speaker 2: didn't leave, especially after we got pregnant. Now he's blatantly
• 52:44
  Speaker 2: with both of us, and I feel like I was
• 52:46
  Speaker 2: forced into a poly situation. I love... I love him
• 52:53
  Speaker 2: so much, and he does take really good care of
• 52:56
  Speaker 2: me and his other family, but this was never the
• 52:59
  Speaker 2: life I wanted for myself, and it causes me lots
• 53:02
  Speaker 2: of mental anguish. I felt like I had one up
• 53:07
  Speaker 2: on her because he actually married me, but as of lately,
• 53:11
  Speaker 2: he's been spending more time away from his family, away from,
• 53:15
  Speaker 2: excuse me, he's been spending more time away from this family.
• 53:18
  Speaker 3: Mm-hmm.
• 53:19
  Speaker 2: And I'm disgusted with myself, but I feel like I
• 53:21
  Speaker 2: can't leave because I am financially dependent on him at
• 53:24
  Speaker 2: this point. I'm embarrassed to tell my family what I've
• 53:27
  Speaker 2: been going through because if I do leave, I will
• 53:30
  Speaker 2: need help. What do y'all think I should do?
• 53:32
  Speaker 3: Damn. That's a hard one.
• 53:35
  Speaker 2: Girl, eggs is $ 8 out here, bitch. If you ain't
• 53:38
  Speaker 2: had to buy them, you'll know. Shit kind of rough,
• 53:40
  Speaker 2: kind of sketchy.
• 53:41
  Speaker 3: Exactly.
• 53:42
  Speaker 2: Do you have a supplemental nigga? Right.
• 53:46
  Speaker 3: Not a supplemental nigga. I don't... You know, because they're married.
• 53:52
  Speaker 2: They're married. So she could get alimony if she divorced him.
• 53:55
  Speaker 3: I really like telling women to leave their husbands.
• 53:59
  Speaker 2: But.
• 54:00
  Speaker 1: If you say it's causing you great mental anguish, you
• 54:03
  Speaker 1: need to be mentally stable to take good care.
• 54:05
  Speaker 3: Of your child.
• 54:06
  Speaker 2: Mm-hmm.
• 54:07
  Speaker 1: So, you know, you got to figure out what that
• 54:09
  Speaker 1: looks like for you. Man, I ain't going to say
• 54:11
  Speaker 1: just run out on the bag right now because you're
• 54:14
  Speaker 1: going to have to take a pebble, put a pebble aside,
• 54:16
  Speaker 1: put a pebble aside until you can really afford to
• 54:20
  Speaker 1: get out of here. Because right now this economy is
• 54:22
  Speaker 1: not set up for you to just jump ship.
• 54:24
  Speaker 2: With a kid.
• 54:25
  Speaker 3: Right, with a kid like that. Mm-hmm. So.
• 54:28
  Speaker 2: I be questioning what bitches really mean being taken care of,
• 54:32
  Speaker 2: because a lot of motherfuckers be These niggas be having
• 54:34
  Speaker 2: these women in some sketchy ass situations, and it's probably
• 54:38
  Speaker 2: better than what they could have done on their own,
• 54:39
  Speaker 2: so they feel like it's like.
• 54:41
  Speaker 3: Being taken care of.
• 54:42
  Speaker 2: But girl, I need to know. I need some pictures.
• 54:45
  Speaker 3: How well are you being taken care of?
• 54:47
  Speaker 2: Her page private, so I ain't trying to add her
• 54:49
  Speaker 2: as a friend to see, but I want to see
• 54:51
  Speaker 2: what she living like. I want to see.
• 54:53
  Speaker 3: Right.
• 54:54
  Speaker 2: Is there a boat? There's a boat. Is there an
• 54:58
  Speaker 2: au pair? Yeah, right.
• 55:00
  Speaker 3: For your nanny or something?
• 55:01
  Speaker 2: Yeah, like maybe you can get some time off to
• 55:03
  Speaker 2: where you can clear your head and maybe come up
• 55:05
  Speaker 2: with some type of plan strategically to leave if possible.
• 55:12
  Speaker 2: I don't know. I mean, we talk about open, poly,
• 55:16
  Speaker 2: all that shit on this show all the time and
• 55:18
  Speaker 2: it's like, The pick is the slim.
• 55:22
  Speaker 3: Right.
• 55:22
  Speaker 2: The pick is the slim. Out here is nasty single.
• 55:25
  Speaker 1: All right, you might leave and get with someone who
• 55:28
  Speaker 1: cheat on you and can't take care of you.
• 55:30
  Speaker 2: Exactly.
• 55:30
  Speaker 3: I don't know, girl. I don't got no good answer
• 55:33
  Speaker 3: for that one, kid.
• 55:34
  Speaker 2: Me, this rough.
• 55:36
  Speaker 3: The way it is, and I just got scammed, bitch.
• 55:38
  Speaker 2: Can I come and live with y'all? Is your nigga
• 55:42
  Speaker 2: looking for a new wife?
• 55:45
  Speaker 3: I'll be your au pair. I don't know.
• 55:52
  Speaker 1: All I will say is don't just jump ship fast.
• 55:56
  Speaker 1: Make a very strategic decision about how you're going to
• 55:59
  Speaker 1: move if you are going to move.
• 56:01
  Speaker 2: I wonder if she got access to the money, too.
• 56:03
  Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying? Some dudes, they'll take care
• 56:05
  Speaker 2: of you, but they give you exactly what you need.
• 56:06
  Speaker 2: Dib you out.
• 56:07
  Speaker 3: That's why I said take a pebble, put it to
• 56:09
  Speaker 3: the side. Keep putting your pebbles to the.
• 56:11
  Speaker 2: Side, baby.
• 56:11
  Speaker 3: I don't know. Because you don't want to be out
• 56:15
  Speaker 3: here like me giving you a cash app on a
• 56:18
  Speaker 3: podcast because you shit fucked up.
• 56:22
  Speaker 2: Don't get We Talk Back caught up in your bullshit.
• 56:25
  Speaker 1: Bitch, this is for entertainment purposes only, bitch.
• 56:29
  Speaker 3: Don't.
• 56:31
  Speaker 2: Psych. Damn. I don't know, man. I definitely don't be
• 56:37
  Speaker 2: telling people to leave they people. Cause I know I
• 56:39
  Speaker 2: have dealt with some shit from men.
• 56:42
  Speaker 3: Okay.
• 56:42
  Speaker 2: Like having babies, all type of shit, man. All a
• 56:46
  Speaker 2: relationship is, is how much you can deal from somebody else,
• 56:48
  Speaker 2: but you do not want to lose yourself to anyone.
• 56:52
  Speaker 3: Right?
• 56:52
  Speaker 2: And you have somebody else aside from yourself to think about.
• 56:56
  Speaker 2: Is he a good father? You might have to consider
• 56:59
  Speaker 2: that too. You know what I'm saying? So right now
• 57:01
  Speaker 2: it sounds like she's lonely and her brain has more
• 57:03
  Speaker 2: time to wonder because he's not around.
• 57:06
  Speaker 1: Right.
• 57:06
  Speaker 3: Right?
• 57:07
  Speaker 2: He's with this other woman who never went anywhere.
• 57:12
  Speaker 3: And here's the thing. If she gets her a side
• 57:14
  Speaker 3: guy and she gets caught, he might get rid of her.
• 57:17
  Speaker 3: All together.
• 57:18
  Speaker 2: Because she's really ass out. Mm-hmm.
• 57:20
  Speaker 3: It's just not fair.
• 57:22
  Speaker 2: It's not. Bitch, you got to get your check up.
• 57:24
  Speaker 2: That's the only way to get out of a lot
• 57:26
  Speaker 2: of situations. You got to get your money up. You
• 57:28
  Speaker 2: got to get some fuck you money. And shit, you
• 57:30
  Speaker 2: having your own might make him start acting right. Because
• 57:34
  Speaker 2: right now he knows he has your ass in a
• 57:35
  Speaker 2: jammy zone and you ain't going nowhere.
• 57:37
  Speaker 3: But he never had to act right. She said that
• 57:40
  Speaker 3: he was cheating on her before.
• 57:42
  Speaker 2: But I wonder what made him marry her in particular.
• 57:46
  Speaker 2: And not the other woman. But now you over there.
• 57:48
  Speaker 3: You listening to this? We want some more details.
• 57:50
  Speaker 2: I know, bitch. Come on the show. Right.
• 57:54
  Speaker 3: Spill the tea.
• 57:55
  Speaker 2: Look, we got $ 5 for you. I ain't got shit
• 57:58
  Speaker 2: for you, baby.
• 57:58
  Speaker 3: For you to get away fun. I ain't got shit
• 58:01
  Speaker 3: for you right now, baby.
• 58:02
  Speaker 1: I'll add you to my GoFundMe if.
• 58:06
  Speaker 3: I do one.
• 58:07
  Speaker 2: I don't know. Relationships are hard, man. Relationships are so,
• 58:11
  Speaker 2: so fucking hard. It's so hard to deal with people...
• 58:15
  Speaker 2: Outside of yourself.
• 58:17
  Speaker 3: Sometimes it's hard to deal with your mother first.
• 58:18
  Speaker 2: That's all I was about to say, man. You got
• 58:20
  Speaker 2: to make sure you can deal with yourself first. That
• 58:22
  Speaker 2: might be the gist of this whole episode.
• 58:24
  Speaker 1: No, the gist of this episode is y'all send something
• 58:28
  Speaker 1: to my cash app.
• 58:29
  Speaker 3: They coming for me.
• 58:30
  Speaker 2: They going to come.
• 58:31
  Speaker 3: And beat my ass.
• 58:33
  Speaker 2: You stupid. No, for real. Bitch, you need some goddamn
• 58:37
  Speaker 2: self-awareness because why the fuck you ain't doing your damn
• 58:39
  Speaker 2: due diligence before sending somebody that type of money? I think.
• 58:43
  Speaker 1: It went through someone that I trusted that I've done
• 58:46
  Speaker 1: successful business with several times before. That is the only
• 58:52
  Speaker 1: reason why. I wouldn't just go for this had I
• 58:56
  Speaker 1: not had this experience with this person several times before.
• 59:00
  Speaker 2: I was just telling somebody over the weekend, like people
• 59:04
  Speaker 2: literally have scam bibles they stay at risk on the
• 59:10
  Speaker 2: newest scams and they actually compile this data and they
• 59:13
  Speaker 2: sell it to scammers it's like a real thing You know,
• 59:18
  Speaker 2: because the more people scam, the more, like, technology they
• 59:21
  Speaker 2: come up with things to counter the scam. So you
• 59:23
  Speaker 2: got to, like, you got to continue to continue an
• 59:26
  Speaker 2: education on scamming.
• 59:28
  Speaker 3: Well, they got my ass good.
• 59:31
  Speaker 2: Sometimes a lot of, if it's too good to be true,
• 59:33
  Speaker 2: sometimes it is. This time it definitely was too good
• 59:36
  Speaker 2: to be true.
• 59:38
  Speaker 3: And I said, buy me a pack of noodles, friend.
• 59:42
  Speaker 2: I got you, man. I got lunch.
• 59:45
  Speaker 3: So she can't give you $ 5, bitch.
• 59:47
  Speaker 2: I need it. Y'all, I'm laughing about it, but.
• 59:54
  Speaker 3: I'm really feeling the way. I ain't going to lie.
• 59:58
  Speaker 1: So that cash app is Tam's Vanity With the money sign.
• 1:00:02
  Speaker 2: In the front Yo, anyway, y'all If y'all want to
• 1:00:05
  Speaker 2: help this bitch Please hit her up, okay Just know
• 1:00:08
  Speaker 2: that it's outside of this podcast This is not motherfucking
• 1:00:12
  Speaker 2: GoFundMe over here Where the fuck it is, bitch Shame Shame, shame, shame.
• 1:00:20
  Speaker 2: But listen, if you enjoyed this episode, tune in every
• 1:00:24
  Speaker 2: Thursday on the iHeartRadio app, wherever the fuck you get
• 1:00:26
  Speaker 2: your podcast at. Just your co-host AJ Holiday. Y'all follow
• 1:00:30
  Speaker 2: me now and if you won't get on, kick it
• 1:00:32
  Speaker 2: to him. They already got your fucking cash app, bitch. Relax.
• 1:00:35
  Speaker 3: I ain't gonna say.
• 1:00:36
  Speaker 2: It no more.
• 1:00:37
  Speaker 3: Y'all, I love y'all. And if anything happened to me... Oh, shit.
• 1:00:41
  Speaker 3: Just know.
• 1:00:46
  Speaker 2: That my love was real for y'all, okay?
• 1:00:49
  Speaker 3: Y'all remember to speak now.
• 1:00:51
  Speaker 2: And never hold your peace. Or your money is sending
• 1:00:55
  Speaker 2: to the motherfuckers.
• 1:00:56
  Speaker 3: You don't know. Bye.
• 1:00:59
  Speaker 2: Bye, y'all.