Latest / Networking Unleashed: Building Profitable Connections / Networking Unleashed: An Interview with Kristan Graham and Michael A Forman, Professional Speaker
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- 0:13Welcome to Networking Unleashed, Building Profitable
- 0:17Connections, the show where conversations turn
- 0:20into momentum. I'm Michael Foreman, and today's
- 0:24episode goes deeper than tactics. We're talking
- 0:28about something that shapes every decision you
- 0:30make in business, your relationship with money.
- 0:33My guest helps entrepreneurs fall back in love
- 0:37with their businesses by finally getting honest
- 0:40about their profit. Not just making money, but
- 0:43keeping it, understanding it, feeling confident
- 0:47around it. We're exploring how money clarify
- 0:50changes. I'm sorry. We're exploring how money
- 0:54clarity changes the way you show up in conversations,
- 0:59how mindset shapes the partnerships you attract,
- 1:03and why strong connections start on the inside
- 1:06before they ever show up on the outside. If you
- 1:09ever wondered why you're busy earning and still
- 1:13feeling stuck, this one's for you. I'd like to
- 1:17welcome to the podcast Kirsten Graham, and I
- 1:20would just like you to introduce yourself and
- 1:23tell us how you got here. Sure. Thanks, Michael.
- 1:26I'm so excited to be here with you today. My
- 1:28background is actually real estate, and I know
- 1:31you and I had an opportunity to speak a little
- 1:33bit before we hit record and found out your background
- 1:35is also mortgage. So it's always fascinating
- 1:37when we find those connections. I started selling
- 1:39real estate and then I moved to the mortgage
- 1:41side of the industry and I owned a mortgage company
- 1:44and a title company and I did a lot of loans
- 1:46for self -employed people. So I saw their business
- 1:48tax returns and I saw their personal tax returns
- 1:51and inevitably people would ask me, can I take
- 1:54you to lunch and pick your brain? And I mentored
- 1:57business owners for over a decade before I actually
- 2:00started business coaching and taking paid clients.
- 2:03And one of the things that I see consistently
- 2:06in clients is the clients that have their finances
- 2:09in order, their bookkeeping's done, they're reviewing
- 2:12their numbers each month with their bookkeeper.
- 2:14Those are the businesses that are going to grow
- 2:16consistently. And actually the business owners
- 2:20that are happiest, even if they're not making
- 2:22the kind of money they want to make in that moment,
- 2:24they're in control. They know what's going on.
- 2:26They have the power to make decisions. And so
- 2:29I think my background in mortgages. Kind of led
- 2:31me to the fact that in business coaching, I focus
- 2:33quite a bit on finances as well. Outstanding.
- 2:37And I see we have a lot in our backgrounds that
- 2:41we do alike. And I was in mortgages for 12 years.
- 2:45Okay. So you say networking isn't just about
- 2:49strategy. When profit and mindset enter the picture,
- 2:53how does the purpose of networking change? Oh,
- 2:57absolutely. So first of all, I think the biggest
- 3:00mistake people make when they're networking is
- 3:03they walk in and they try to sell everyone. And
- 3:05that's not the case. When networking is about
- 3:07building relationships, finding people who really
- 3:09understand what you do so they can refer to you,
- 3:11understanding what other people do so you can
- 3:13refer to them. And so if you are in a place where
- 3:17you are desperate to make a sale, then you're
- 3:20walking into that networking group, looking at
- 3:22everyone like a target. rather than looking at
- 3:25them like a person and building a relationship.
- 3:27And I feel like that energy instantly repels
- 3:29people. So I feel like when you have your finances
- 3:32more in order and you're calmer, when you go
- 3:34into networking, I'm here, I'm going to contribute
- 3:36to this group. I'm going to meet a lot of wonderful
- 3:39people and I'm going to start building those
- 3:40relationships and have faith that business will
- 3:43come from it, but it may not happen right away.
- 3:46Absolutely. And I teach the same thing that when
- 3:49you go into a networking event, you go in with
- 3:52what's called a servant's heart. You go in looking
- 3:54to give rather than receive. And your business
- 3:58will come from it, but maybe not necessarily
- 4:01that minute. So yes, you're right on point with
- 4:05that. Many people make money, but don't keep
- 4:08it. How does that pattern show up in the way
- 4:11that you build relationships and run their business?
- 4:15Yes. So I think for a lot of people, maybe they
- 4:19grew up, a lot of us grew up in households that
- 4:21didn't have an overflow of money, or maybe we
- 4:23were told money doesn't grow on trees. So I think
- 4:25there's some mindset issues around money. And
- 4:28for some people, if they don't resolve those
- 4:30and work to clear those, they're never going
- 4:32to hold onto money. And so I feel like that's
- 4:34something, some inner work that often has to
- 4:36be done. But if you have a business where you
- 4:39have great revenue, money's coming in. but it's
- 4:43flying out the door faster than you could track,
- 4:46it's probably because you have some money blocks
- 4:48and some money issues you need to deal with.
- 4:50And I think that the way that affects us again
- 4:52with how we show up is even if you're making
- 4:56great money, you have great revenue, you're still
- 4:57broke, right? Because it's flying out the door.
- 4:59So it puts you right back in that place of being
- 5:01desperate for the next sale. Absolutely, absolutely.
- 5:06When someone falls back in love with their business
- 5:09by falling in love with their profit, What shifts
- 5:13in how they show up in conversations? Oh, absolutely.
- 5:18So if you have a lot of shame and guilt around
- 5:19money, so you're not taking care of your bookkeeping
- 5:22and then tax season rolls around and you're stressed
- 5:24about tax season, and then you end up kicking
- 5:26the can down the road and you file that extension,
- 5:28you don't feel good about yourself. You don't
- 5:30feel confident. It causes a lot of imposter syndrome
- 5:33because you're not running your business like
- 5:34a business. So at the core level, Not taking
- 5:37care of your finances is eating away at your
- 5:40confidence. It's also eating away at your ability
- 5:43to make decisions. So I feel like that has to
- 5:46do with how we interact with people, right? If
- 5:48we're not feeling confident, if we're not feeling
- 5:50capable in our business, then we don't show up
- 5:54as confident and capable. Absolutely. Absolutely.
- 5:59And there's so many things that I can say, and
- 6:01you were so on point with everything that you
- 6:03just said that I'm not going to add anything
- 6:05to it. How does clarity around money affect confidence
- 6:11in networking? And why can people sense when
- 6:14someone is uncertain about their value? Yeah.
- 6:19So one of the things that we see is when our
- 6:21clients finally get their bookkeeping in order,
- 6:24and if you didn't... take a lot of accounting
- 6:26classes, you may not know how to read a profit
- 6:28loss statement or a balance sheet. And we find
- 6:30that a lot of people have been talked down to
- 6:32or by CPAs or dismissed, so they don't feel confident
- 6:36around money. So when you have your finances
- 6:38in order, you're able to make great decisions.
- 6:42And that is going to impact everything you do,
- 6:44especially in networking. And I'm going to take
- 6:46this a little bit of a different direction, Michael,
- 6:48but sometimes people belong to a networking group.
- 6:52And I feel like it's important to track the revenue
- 6:54that comes from those groups. I also think it's
- 6:56important to track the revenue that you're giving
- 6:58to other people. It doesn't have to be tit for
- 7:00tat, but it's important to know that you're contributing.
- 7:02But it's also important to know, is that network
- 7:04group the right group for you? Because maybe
- 7:06it's not the right group. So when you spend time
- 7:10and you spend money out networking, you want
- 7:12to make sure it's the right group. You want to
- 7:14make sure that you're doing everything you can
- 7:16to improve your skills in networking so that
- 7:19it is profitable. Because time is your most valuable
- 7:21asset. And if you're spending hours a month,
- 7:24six, seven, eight, nine hours a month, and you're
- 7:26not reaping any results, that's a problem. And
- 7:29I think that makes you show up insecure. And
- 7:31again, people who don't know what their finances,
- 7:33they often undercharge. So then even if you are
- 7:36getting money out of that business, out of that
- 7:39networking group, you're not charging enough
- 7:41to make it profitable. So then you're resentful.
- 7:44So there's a lot that goes into how we handle
- 7:46our finances. That's so true. And it's your perceived
- 7:51value. And that builds your confidence. And it's
- 7:55when I began first speaking, you first speak,
- 7:59you say, oh, my God, I have these free times
- 8:01and I'm going to go speak. I'm going to tell
- 8:03everybody what I have. And then I slowly but
- 8:06surely crept up in the dollars, whether 1 ,000,
- 8:092 ,500, 5 ,000, 7 ,500. It goes up. But I realize
- 8:14now. my perceived value was higher than what
- 8:20I valued myself. But I had to work up to that.
- 8:24Yeah, absolutely. And that has to do with confidence.
- 8:27And there's so many things that feed into that
- 8:28confidence. The difference between confidence
- 8:31and cocky. Absolutely. We're not talking about
- 8:34having an ego. We're talking about being confident
- 8:36in what you do and that you're going to show
- 8:38up for your clients and you're going to deliver
- 8:40what you promised them when you started working
- 8:42with them. And most of our clients, they want
- 8:44to help people. They're great at what they do.
- 8:46And so confidence is about being able to serve
- 8:49at the highest level. And that includes going
- 8:51and networking, being able to show up and serve
- 8:53in that networking group, not just going into
- 8:55it for yourself. That's confidence. That's not
- 8:57ego. Absolutely. Absolutely. What connection
- 9:02do you see between healthy financial habits and
- 9:06stronger professional relationships? That's a
- 9:09good one. Again, it goes back to confidence.
- 9:14If you're growing a business and let's say you're
- 9:18surrounded by business owners because you're
- 9:20out networking and you always perceive them as
- 9:23being more successful. Maybe they're spending
- 9:24more money traveling. Maybe they're ordering
- 9:26the most expensive dinner at the networking group,
- 9:28whatever that looks like. If you're struggling
- 9:30with your finances, or you're not really sure
- 9:33what you can spend on different things, then
- 9:35you're always feeling insecure, even when you're
- 9:37out. So let's say someone says to you, hey, we've
- 9:39got this great opportunity for you to attend
- 9:42this event, but it's $800. Maybe that's something
- 9:46you can't commit to because you don't have your
- 9:48finances in order, so you don't know if you have
- 9:50the money, or you're so in scarcity mode, you're
- 9:53afraid to spend money, even if that $800 could
- 9:55turn into... $80 ,000. So it really affects us
- 9:59because we don't know how to invest in our businesses.
- 10:01And then we end up comparing ourselves to everyone
- 10:03else, which is never a good idea because you
- 10:05don't really know what's going on in someone
- 10:06else's world. But when you're feeling that insecurity
- 10:09of everybody else is doing better than I am,
- 10:12it's really just because you don't really know
- 10:13what's going on with your finances. Having a
- 10:15great bookkeeper and learning how to read that
- 10:17profit and loss in that balance sheet really
- 10:19does change everything. Yes, absolutely correct.
- 10:23And I know several bookkeepers and several CPAs
- 10:27and then you have your tax guys, but you really
- 10:30have to know what your numbers are each month
- 10:33so you can have that confidence. So you could
- 10:37go out on a limb if you had to and say, look,
- 10:39I don't exactly have the money, but I know it's
- 10:42there, but I have the money. So I'm going to
- 10:45take the chance and go. You can't take that chance
- 10:48unless you have the confidence. Where do business
- 10:52owners unknowingly block opportunities because
- 10:55of the way they think about money? I think it's
- 11:03not tracking ROI. So return on investment. You
- 11:07know, I think networking is really powerful.
- 11:08Running Facebook ads can be very powerful. There's
- 11:10lots going to an expo and having a booth can
- 11:12be very powerful. but you need to know what you're
- 11:16spending on those events and not just money,
- 11:18but also time. How much time are you spending
- 11:20and how much money? Like what is your hourly
- 11:22rate? When you calculate your hourly rate and
- 11:25how much time you're spending networking, are
- 11:27you actually bringing that money back in? So
- 11:29I think one of the biggest challenges is people
- 11:31not tracking their ROI. And again, like if you're
- 11:36in a networking group and it's not working out
- 11:38for you, maybe it's just the wrong group. So
- 11:41don't spend money in that group and spend a lot
- 11:42of time in that group if it's not the right group.
- 11:45But if you're not thinking that way, you're not
- 11:47assessing those things, then you're never going
- 11:49to make that decision. So maybe that thousand
- 11:51dollars a year you spend with one networking
- 11:53group and the six to eight hours a month you
- 11:55spend with them is bringing in very little for
- 11:57you. But maybe you switch to another group, the
- 11:59same thousand dollars, the same amount of time.
- 12:02But all of a sudden, that's bringing in fifty
- 12:03thousand revenue every year for you. You need
- 12:06to be willing to look at that information. And
- 12:08here's what I think is especially hard, though,
- 12:10is they're wonderful people in all the networking
- 12:12groups. Just because a networking group isn't
- 12:14great for you as far as ROI goes, it doesn't
- 12:16mean you have to end the relationship with all
- 12:18of those people. You could still be friends with
- 12:20them. You could still socialize with them. But
- 12:22you need to spend your time and your money in
- 12:24a different way to generate revenue. Absolutely.
- 12:28And that reminds me of one of my clients. He
- 12:31switched career fields. He was forced to switch
- 12:35career fields, but that's a whole nother story.
- 12:37And he was like a shotgun shell. He went out
- 12:40to every single networking group and everywhere
- 12:42he can go and everything else for a year. And
- 12:45I said to him, I said, okay, which one of those
- 12:47worked and which ones didn't work? He goes, what
- 12:51do you mean? I said, which ones did you make
- 12:53money from? And which ones are you just there
- 12:56socially? Because the ones that you're there
- 12:59socially, cut them out. Don't do them anymore.
- 13:02And don't look for new groups now because you
- 13:05have to start to focus in on what's bringing
- 13:08you in money. So you focus in. So he did that.
- 13:12He got rid of about half his networking groups.
- 13:16And he sees that he's getting a lot more money
- 13:19that way. I say, good. So do this for a year.
- 13:22And if you want to, then start to expand. So
- 13:26everything comes within reason. within a time
- 13:30and you have to see how much money you're making
- 13:34because you are a solopreneur, right? You're
- 13:37in here by yourself. You want to get bigger and
- 13:40you want to have an employee or two or three,
- 13:42but you have to get your house right first. Because
- 13:46if you start to build, you can't build something
- 13:49on straw. You have to build it on concrete. So
- 13:52that's your foundation. I love that. All right.
- 13:54I go out of the way. All right. How does mindset
- 14:00shape the kinds of partners, clients, and referrals
- 14:04someone attracts? Yeah, if you're confident in
- 14:08what you do. And when I say confident, I don't
- 14:10mean your business has to be blowing up right
- 14:12now because businesses have highs and lows. So
- 14:15even if you're at a low in your business and
- 14:16maybe you're needing to pivot a little bit, if
- 14:19you're... working on that. You're on top of that.
- 14:21You know what's going on. Your confidence is
- 14:24going to be higher. And so you are going to attract
- 14:26other confident entrepreneurs. You're going to
- 14:29attract relationships with people who maybe they're
- 14:32making three or $400 ,000 more than their business
- 14:34than you are. They always say we want to surround
- 14:36ourselves with people who are the next level.
- 14:38That's really hard to do when you don't feel
- 14:41confident with yourself. Most clients, I think,
- 14:45are really confident in the services that they
- 14:47deliver because they see the results and they
- 14:48have raving fans. Where they don't feel confident
- 14:51often is in the mechanics of running their business.
- 14:54The admin, the bookkeeping, the marketing. Those
- 14:57are the things that often eat away at their confidence.
- 15:00So if you want to be around confident, successful
- 15:02people. You need to perceive yourself as a confident,
- 15:06successful person and put the pieces in place
- 15:09to make that happen so that you're not faking
- 15:11it till you make it. You're actually building
- 15:13yourself up. I love that saying, who do you have
- 15:16to be to go to the next level? You know, at every
- 15:19stage in a business's growth, whether it's zero
- 15:21to 100 to 250, 500 ,000 to a million, we have
- 15:25to become a little bit of a different person
- 15:27in order to get there because it requires different
- 15:31skills. And so investing in yourself and the
- 15:35back end of your business is so important for
- 15:37attracting the right relationships when you're
- 15:39out networking. Absolutely. And one thing I learned
- 15:44when I had a brick and mortar company, several,
- 15:47I should say, but when I was doing all that,
- 15:50I learned that, okay. Let me see the things that
- 15:54I enjoy doing and the things that I don't enjoy
- 15:56doing. Bookkeeping was one of them. I don't like
- 15:59doing that. Okay. So I farmed that out. So I
- 16:04had somebody else do it while I concentrated
- 16:06on the things I enjoyed. And that made my business
- 16:12grow and grow. And I learned from that. And I
- 16:15went to the school of hard knocks. I went to
- 16:17the school. I learned how to do everything wrong.
- 16:20Yes. Before I did it correctly. So that's good.
- 16:24Yeah, Michael, that brings up a good point. I
- 16:26think that's as a business coach, I specialize
- 16:27in outsourcing, right? So whether that's bookkeeping
- 16:30virtual assistants or marketing virtual assistants,
- 16:32when you start to feel more confident about yourself,
- 16:34you understand that you deserve to have support
- 16:37in your business. When we're talking about six
- 16:39to nine bucks an hour, it's almost ridiculous
- 16:42that you can't afford it. Sometimes it's about
- 16:44cutting out other expenses so you can afford
- 16:46support in your business. And I think that in
- 16:48and of itself shifts how people view themselves.
- 16:51When you hired that bookkeeper, how did you feel
- 16:54about yourself after that? I felt great because
- 16:59that took that pressure off my shoulders and
- 17:02I didn't have to think about it. I shouldn't
- 17:04say I didn't think about it. I thought about
- 17:06it because I always met with him weekly, not
- 17:09monthly. I met with the bookkeeper weekly. But
- 17:13the pressure of having to put reconcile everything
- 17:16was off my shoulders. So I felt free. Yeah. And
- 17:21we don't realize when we're doing tasks in our
- 17:23business that are not ideal for us to be doing.
- 17:25Again, that erodes our confidence. My business
- 17:28partner, one of the things she talks about is
- 17:29the first thing she hired for was a bookkeeper
- 17:32and she owned a digital marketing agency and
- 17:34she needed to be creative. She said, I had no
- 17:36idea how much that pile of receipts sitting on
- 17:39my desk staring at me every day was eating away
- 17:42at my creativity. So when we have tasks in our
- 17:45business that we're just not doing, we need to
- 17:47figure out, is there a way to outsource that
- 17:49so that I get it mentally out of my head and
- 17:52I can start focusing on the things that are going
- 17:54to drive revenue? Absolutely. Absolutely. Hit
- 17:57the nail right on the head. Okay. What's one
- 18:01belief about money that quietly holds people
- 18:03back from forming deeper and more productive
- 18:07connections? I think there can be a lot of shame
- 18:14and guilt around money. For some people, that
- 18:17shame and guilt can come from being really successful.
- 18:20They can have a lot of guilt or shame around
- 18:22having more than other people. We don't think
- 18:25of that. We often think if we don't have enough
- 18:27money coming in, we have shame and guilt because
- 18:28we're not doing as well as everyone else. But
- 18:30there are a lot of different ways that money
- 18:32issues can show up. And when you're not feeling,
- 18:35again, confident with your pricing or confident
- 18:38explaining your offers or confident enough. This
- 18:42is the other thing. You've got to be confident
- 18:44enough to pay attention to what everyone else
- 18:47in that group is doing so that you can really
- 18:49understand who they are, what they do, who their
- 18:51ideal client is, and you can refer to them. If
- 18:54you're going to network, becoming a connector
- 18:56is huge. And I think if you're always worried
- 18:59about money or money that's running in that background,
- 19:02there's always some stress with money. It's really
- 19:04hard to focus on giving to other people. So figuring
- 19:08out. what money blocks you may have. And again,
- 19:10I'm not a money mindset coach. I'm definitely
- 19:12more tactical. Let's get you a bookkeeping VA
- 19:14for nine bucks an hour kind of thing. But if
- 19:16you have money blocks, there's so many people
- 19:18out there that can help you with that because
- 19:20you're not going to build great relationships
- 19:21if you're always worried or your confidence is
- 19:25being eaten away at by money blocks. No, that's
- 19:29why I said. When you first go into a networking
- 19:32event, the mindset, if you change your mindset
- 19:35to having a servant's heart, because that relieves
- 19:38all that pressure. You don't have to think about
- 19:41any of that. The only thing you're thinking about
- 19:43or worrying about is how can I help you? How
- 19:47can I help this person? And if you walk away
- 19:50and you help two, three, four people, that's
- 19:53a home run, right? Because in turn, they will...
- 20:00that will help you. Yeah, and what you don't
- 20:03realize is that when you become the resource
- 20:05for your client, so Jeannie and I keep a running
- 20:08list of people we can refer to, things we don't
- 20:11do. We don't build WordPress websites. Anything
- 20:13that we don't do, we have a list of two or three
- 20:15or four people that we can refer it to because
- 20:18we want our clients to see us as trusted advisors.
- 20:22If they need something, we want them to reach
- 20:24out to us and say, hey, do you know anyone who
- 20:26can do this? And by referring them and being
- 20:29top of mind when they need something to call
- 20:31us, it means we're constantly in relationship
- 20:34with our client. They may not need one of our
- 20:36services right now, but they may not need one
- 20:38-on -one coaching right now or whatever that
- 20:40looks like. But they are reaching out to us because
- 20:43we have become trusted advisors, which means
- 20:45when they have a problem that we can solve and
- 20:48we say, oh, we could take care of that for you.
- 20:49We have this offer. They're going to jump on
- 20:52it. So you don't realize that when you become
- 20:55the connector, when you become the person who
- 20:56knows exactly what Joe does, who Joe's ideal
- 20:59client is, and you know exactly how to refer
- 21:01Joe, then people will continue to come to you
- 21:04and ask for those referrals. So it's very important
- 21:07to realize that being an asset or a connector
- 21:09for your clients is a way to stay in great relationship
- 21:12with them. Absolutely. And in my area, I'm known
- 21:17as a super connector. Because really, once a
- 21:20week, I try at least once a week to get two people
- 21:24together. Get a person with a problem, person
- 21:26with a solution. And then I introduce them. I
- 21:30step away after that. I step away. But in the
- 21:34back of each one of their minds, oh, Mike gave
- 21:37me that referral. So let me see what I can do
- 21:40for him. So I'm getting business later on. But
- 21:43right then, I'm putting them together. And I
- 21:46don't have to worry about it. Yeah, absolutely.
- 21:48You're helping two people connect. Whether they
- 21:50are able to do business together may or may not
- 21:52happen, but they could also become referral partners
- 21:54for each other. You just don't know. But it is
- 21:56all about connecting people. And I love that
- 21:59you're a super connector. I used to be a super
- 22:00connector back in the day. Everybody goes through
- 22:05their emotions. When someone gains control of
- 22:07their finances, how does it change the energy
- 22:11that they bring into a room or a conversation?
- 22:14We just talked about this. Yeah. Yeah. We, again,
- 22:18know where your money's going and you have the
- 22:19power because we don't think about this, but
- 22:21quick story. When we actually, our bookkeeper
- 22:24retired and she actually sold her business, but
- 22:27we decided to go ahead and outsource our bookkeeping
- 22:28overseas because I've been hiring bookkeepers
- 22:31for CPA firms and bookkeeping companies for a
- 22:33few years now. And so we decided to go ahead
- 22:36and outsource that. And it was interesting. We
- 22:38knew we would save money, but one of the things
- 22:41that we weren't expecting to happen. was it shifted
- 22:44our relationship with our money a little bit.
- 22:46And it was the first thing that happened was
- 22:47our bookkeeping VA said, you have a lot of different
- 22:50revenue streams. Would you like me to break those
- 22:52down so each month we can figure out what's coming
- 22:54from each offer? And Michael, I'd never thought
- 22:57to ask my bookkeeper to do that. She never brought
- 22:59it up. It was just never, we didn't think about
- 23:01it. That right there in and of itself gives us
- 23:03so much more information. We realized one offer,
- 23:06we were really underpricing it. We figured out
- 23:08what marketing we were doing for each offer and
- 23:11what was working and what wasn't working for
- 23:12those particular offers rather than looking at
- 23:14it with gross revenue. So obviously when you
- 23:17have that type of relationship with your finances,
- 23:20now you have the ability to make really smart
- 23:22decisions. And I think when we are at that place
- 23:25where we feel like we have power, we have control,
- 23:28we have information to make smart decisions,
- 23:31you're going to show up in a room differently.
- 23:33Even though we don't walk into a networking group
- 23:36thinking, oh, where's my money? What's going
- 23:37on with my money? Do I have a money block? We
- 23:39don't walk into it thinking that. It's subconsciously
- 23:41running in the background. So you can have positive
- 23:44things running in the background. Well, I just
- 23:46had a great meeting with my bookkeeping VA. Cash
- 23:49flow is solid right now. I've got this great
- 23:51opportunity. So you see it a little bit differently.
- 23:54It's about control when you just know what's
- 23:56going on. Absolutely. Absolutely. Okay. Let's
- 24:01bring this podcast full circle. If listeners
- 24:04want better results from their network, what's
- 24:07the first internal shift they should make before
- 24:10changing anything external? Go into it with a
- 24:16desire to become a connector. You don't have
- 24:18to be a super connector like Michael, but go
- 24:20into becoming a connector. Because when you realize
- 24:23that if you, again, people come to you all the
- 24:25time with a problem. And if you can't solve that
- 24:27problem, if you have valuable resources to refer
- 24:30them to. That again, it changes the relationship
- 24:33that you have with that person, whether it's
- 24:35a client or a friend or a family member, because
- 24:37you're serving them. You're connecting them with
- 24:39someone that you trust who could truly help them.
- 24:42So when you go into any type of networking thing.
- 24:45event, think about how can I connect people?
- 24:48How can I be this connector of people, broker
- 24:51relationships, so to speak. But then you're focusing
- 24:53on giving, like you said, going with a giver's
- 24:55capacity, a mindset of giving. That really is
- 24:58the first shift I think everyone can make when
- 25:00it comes to networking. Absolutely. Kirsten,
- 25:03this was such a great podcast because I believe
- 25:08in everything that you do, and I see the way
- 25:11you're going. If somebody wanted to get hold
- 25:14of you, whether it be coached by you or just
- 25:16to talk to you and ask you a question, what's
- 25:19the best way for them to get hold of you? So
- 25:22if they're interested in a bookkeeper, if your
- 25:24finances are a hot mess, go to lessmathmoremoney
- 25:27.com, lessmathmoremoney .com. We have a free
- 25:29masterclass that we teach live twice a month.
- 25:32So we'd love to have you show up there. We teach
- 25:34you a lot about bookkeeping and things that you're
- 25:36missing with your write -offs. And then at the
- 25:37end, we go live with Q &A. Otherwise, you can
- 25:40go to our website, which is sixfigurebusinesscoaching
- 25:42.com. And that's S -I -X. figurebusinesscoaching
- 25:45.com. You can learn more about us. And there
- 25:47is a link on there where you can book a call
- 25:49with me and we can figure out how we can help
- 25:51you. And if I can't help you, I bet I know someone
- 25:54who can. Outstanding, outstanding. That's what
- 25:58happens when money, mindset, and connection finally
- 26:02line up. When you feel clear about your value,
- 26:06your conversations change. When you feel confident
- 26:09about your profit, your relationships change.
- 26:12When you respect your business, others do too.
- 26:15Take one idea from today and carry it to your
- 26:19next conversation. Pay attention to how different
- 26:22it feels when you speak from clarity instead
- 26:24of pressure. If this episode gave you a new way
- 26:28to look at your business or yourself, share it
- 26:30with someone who's building their future one
- 26:32decision at a time. And be sure to follow Networking
- 26:36Unleashed, Building Profitable Connections, so
- 26:39you never miss a conversation that helps you
- 26:41grow the right way. I'm Michael Foreman. And
- 26:44remember, the way you think about money shapes
- 26:47the way the world responds to you. I'll talk
- 26:51to you soon. Thank you. Hold on, folks. Don't
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- 27:50A huge thank you to our guests for sharing such
- 27:53insights today. And of course, a big shout out
- 27:57to you, our amazing listeners, for tuning in
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- 28:03in my digital courses, being coached or having
- 28:06me come and talk to your company, just go to
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- 28:13networking isn't about being perfect. It's about
- 28:16being present. So take what you've learned today,
- 28:19get out there and make some meaningful connections.
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