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- 0:00Speaker 1: This is dirty little secrets. I'm nixed one or two
- 0:06Speaker 1: point nine the Ability Kid Candas Lopez producer, pooh, all right,
- 0:09Speaker 1: let's do it. If you have a secret a confession
- 0:12Speaker 1: eight three three seven eight seven and one o two nine.
- 0:14Speaker 1: And sometimes people reach out on Instagram to me. Sometimes
- 0:17Speaker 1: they reach out to Candis to pooh, yeah sometimes pooh,
- 0:20Speaker 1: don't trust him with your secrets, but whatever you want
- 0:22Speaker 1: to do, Okay, just send us those secrets and get ready.
- 0:25Speaker 1: We'll set you up. And you got one. What's going on?
- 0:28Speaker 2: Yeah? Okay, So my girlfriend and I we lived together
- 0:31Speaker 2: and for months she's been messaging her ex.
- 0:34Speaker 1: Uh.
- 0:35Speaker 2: I just found out. But it's been happening for a while.
- 0:38Speaker 1: Ooh that's not good.
- 0:40Speaker 2: No, no, it's it's not just casual messages either, Like
- 0:44Speaker 2: they're flirty, inappropriate kind of messages that would absolutely end
- 0:49Speaker 2: the relationship if the other person found them.
- 0:52Speaker 1: So, how did you find him? Or how do you
- 0:54Speaker 1: know this is happening because she's a drunk idiot?
- 1:00Speaker 2: But it's true, she's always been the time, he says,
- 1:03Speaker 2: I have nothing to hide, never had a password on
- 1:07Speaker 2: her phone, would leave it laying around everywhere, So so
- 1:11Speaker 2: I trusted her okay. And then one night she was
- 1:13Speaker 2: acting weird and I walked out of the room and
- 1:17Speaker 2: I came back in and she quickly closed her Instagram
- 1:19Speaker 2: like so fast, like immediately my radar went off. H
- 1:23Speaker 2: But I didn't say anything.
- 1:25Speaker 1: Okay.
- 1:26Speaker 2: A couple nights later, she had way too much wine again,
- 1:29Speaker 2: passed out on the couch and left her phone sitting
- 1:32Speaker 2: right there.
- 1:32Speaker 1: And there you went. I looked at it. There you win.
- 1:36Speaker 1: So she gets drawn, passes out and doesn't it. First
- 1:39Speaker 1: of all, the ABB almost a red flag if somebody
- 1:41Speaker 1: didn't have a password. That's almost so weird to see
- 1:44Speaker 1: somebody without a password. But that would also make me think,
- 1:46Speaker 1: you're right, if somebody doesn't have it, I'm like, wow,
- 1:48Speaker 1: this probably can trust this. She doesn't even care, right,
- 1:51Speaker 1: that would make me not want to look.
- 1:53Speaker 2: But then you see, think about that, that's what she
- 1:55Speaker 2: was doing the whole time by not having a password.
- 1:57Speaker 1: Yeah exactly, Yeah, that's like reverse psycholog Did you check
- 2:00Speaker 1: my phone? Yeah? Right, Like who cares? Do what you want?
- 2:03Speaker 1: So you don't you trust her? But then when you do,
- 2:05Speaker 1: what do you find? You find these messages there? So
- 2:07Speaker 1: they're that.
- 2:08Speaker 2: Bad message after message with very sexual stuff, just just
- 2:13Speaker 2: awful stuff and talking about seeing each other again someday,
- 2:18Speaker 2: I thought the whole thing. So now now, now here's
- 2:21Speaker 2: the part that probably I don't know if everyone's gonna understand. Okay,
- 2:25Speaker 2: I didn't freak out on her, like, I didn't wake
- 2:27Speaker 2: her up, I didn't scream, I didn't throw anything. I
- 2:30Speaker 2: just all I did was I took pictures of every
- 2:32Speaker 2: single message with my phone. I got every screenshot, I
- 2:36Speaker 2: got every bit of proof, and then I put her
- 2:38Speaker 2: phone back exactly where it was. So to this day,
- 2:42Speaker 2: she has absolutely no idea that I know about these messages.
- 2:46Speaker 1: Really.
- 2:47Speaker 2: But so in two weeks she's going to her sister's
- 2:50Speaker 2: bachelorette party. They're going I don't know, they're going to Nashville.
- 2:54Speaker 2: And when she gets back, now I'm gonna be gone.
- 2:58Speaker 2: All my stuff, we'll be out of the apartment. All
- 3:01Speaker 2: her stuff will be in the storage union. I already
- 3:04Speaker 2: paid for the first month. I got thirty days. That's
- 3:06Speaker 2: what she gets, thirty days. So you're figured it out.
- 3:11Speaker 2: And I don't want to fight. I don't want the drama.
- 3:14Speaker 2: I don't want excuses. I don't want one of those
- 3:17Speaker 2: six hour conversations. Where somebody suddenly has a million reasons
- 3:21Speaker 2: why they betrayed you. I'm done, So you just done.
- 3:24Speaker 1: So she's leaving for to see your sister, bachelor party, whatever.
- 3:28Speaker 1: When she comes back, the whole apartment's empty. She can't
- 3:32Speaker 1: get in, she's gone. So her stuff is gone, Your
- 3:34Speaker 1: stuff's gone, you're out. Wow, that's right. Wow. I don't
- 3:38Speaker 1: know if I hate the idea because you're saving you
- 3:41Speaker 1: are saving yourself a lot of drama, and that would
- 3:43Speaker 1: be I mean, if you know you're done, you're done.
- 3:45Speaker 2: Yeah, but what is she gonna do when she comes
- 3:47Speaker 2: back and comes to the apartment.
- 3:49Speaker 1: She figure it out? Yeah, figure that out. I don't
- 3:51Speaker 1: know if I feel I don't feel that bad for
- 3:53Speaker 1: I'm sorry, I mean, does she I don't want her
- 3:54Speaker 1: to be homeless, don't get me wrong. Yeah, she was
- 3:57Speaker 1: texting old boy talking about I can't wait to see
- 3:59Speaker 1: you again. Go to his Yeah, I don't, I don't.
- 4:01Speaker 2: That's what I said. That's exactly what I said, go
- 4:03Speaker 2: to him, all right, I'm not mad at him. The
- 4:08Speaker 2: real funny part is that there's another woman who's been
- 4:11Speaker 2: trying to talk to me for a long time. She's
- 4:14Speaker 2: she's always told me. My girlfriend was trouble and I
- 4:17Speaker 2: ignored her because that's what that's what you do. I'm
- 4:20Speaker 2: a loyal guy. Yeah, I told I told this other
- 4:23Speaker 2: girl what's happening. And two weeks from now, after after
- 4:27Speaker 2: I get everything moved out, me and this other girl
- 4:29Speaker 2: were taking a vacation together. Okay, maybe that'll turn into something.
- 4:37Speaker 2: Maybe it won't, but I don't get it doesn't matter.
- 4:39Speaker 2: At least it will be honest.
- 4:40Speaker 1: So you're going on vacation with another woman, right, Good
- 4:43Speaker 1: for you, dude. I don't you know what, in any
- 4:47Speaker 1: other situation, I'll be like, you're crazy, this is wrong.
- 4:50Speaker 1: This girl has the nerve to cheat, I mean cheat
- 4:53Speaker 1: on you pretty much. If you're sending in appropriate messages,
- 4:56Speaker 1: that's cheating, cheat on you behind your back. When she's
- 4:58Speaker 1: living with you for months, you have the patience for
- 5:02Speaker 1: to at least hide it for a week or so,
- 5:03Speaker 1: so then you can set up this plan, enjoy yourself.
- 5:07Speaker 2: Yeah, who cares? Once you're broken up, you do you?
- 5:10Speaker 1: Yeah, you're done. But so you're never gonna talk to
- 5:12Speaker 1: her again, no explanation. She's just gonna there's gonna be
- 5:15Speaker 1: a note. Here's your stuff, it's in storage. I mean,
- 5:16Speaker 1: at least you paid for it. I guess. Yeah, yeah,
- 5:19Speaker 1: that was cool for you to pay for the first
- 5:21Speaker 1: thirty days.
- 5:21Speaker 2: I guess thirty days. That's what she's got. That seems gentlemanly.
- 5:26Speaker 1: Yeah, So does she have a plan. I mean, do
- 5:28Speaker 1: you know if she'll have a plan or no.
- 5:32Speaker 2: She's got no job, she got no savings, she got
- 5:34Speaker 2: no real plan. I don't know. Like I said, go
- 5:37Speaker 2: figure it out with the old boy.
- 5:38Speaker 1: Yeah,