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- 0:00Speaker 1: Coast Breakfast brought to you by Bargain Chemist Their Policy
- 0:03Speaker 1: New Zealand's cheapest chemist.
- 0:06Speaker 2: Tony Jason Sam's feel Good Breakfast Can't Sharp podcast.
- 0:10Speaker 1: Today on the show, we talked about being forty now
- 0:13Speaker 1: and back in the eighties and who had it better
- 0:15Speaker 1: and could we.
- 0:16Speaker 3: Pass an NCEEA exam? Today we try a hand at geography.
- 0:20Speaker 4: And the average person is doing this round eighty five
- 0:23Speaker 4: times a day if they're under forty. When you include
- 0:25Speaker 4: the over forties, found about seventy two times a day.
- 0:27Speaker 4: That's a lot. Though, what is it.
- 0:36Speaker 5: Racing? This time?
- 0:37Speaker 4: Battle will be the last.
- 0:41Speaker 6: We stand?
- 0:41Speaker 4: Is the one we have told you back was pretty
- 0:43Speaker 4: much the last horse? But that's okay? Was it Bazookah? No,
- 0:45Speaker 4: it's not okay.
- 0:47Speaker 7: Forducy Buckero?
- 0:49Speaker 1: But our best horse got fourth. But Night's Choice two
- 0:53Speaker 1: six ninety nine if anyone actually backs that outside chance?
- 0:56Speaker 1: Because what a payday?
- 0:58Speaker 4: What was the payday? It was a sixteen buda I
- 1:03Speaker 4: think it was. I know, I know that cool.
- 1:06Speaker 7: Story is coming out of the cup though.
- 1:08Speaker 1: So Night's Choice is trained by a Kiwi who last
- 1:12Speaker 1: trained Lexon and she trained Ehel But the jockey, how
- 1:17Speaker 1: cool is the jockey. The jockey was on the Voice
- 1:19Speaker 1: Australia and I mean, I don't want to like type
- 1:22Speaker 1: cast jockeys.
- 1:23Speaker 7: But generally they will have quite squeaky voices. This guy
- 1:27Speaker 7: listen to.
- 1:28Speaker 4: Him, you go right.
- 1:36Speaker 6: Up.
- 1:39Speaker 4: Robbie Dolan's singing.
- 1:40Speaker 7: How good is he? So I think.
- 1:42Speaker 1: Australia is going off because they're like, oh, this guy
- 1:44Speaker 1: can sing. And they profiled him before the race, and
- 1:47Speaker 1: now he's come through his first winner.
- 1:49Speaker 3: And the chance of winning was pretty slim as well.
- 1:51Speaker 3: And there's the thing about the Melbourne Cup. You get
- 1:53Speaker 3: you get tips every year, don't you and they never come.
- 1:56Speaker 1: I don't want to I don't want to cast dispersions
- 1:58Speaker 1: because I'm in no way an expert. But the jockey
- 2:00Speaker 1: on Buccaroo had a shocker. He was sitting seeking to
- 2:03Speaker 1: last and he's just never made his move. I was like,
- 2:06Speaker 1: when's he gonna go? He's the favorite, come on?
- 2:09Speaker 3: Didn't we hear that he'd actually run a race a
- 2:12Speaker 3: few days earlier.
- 2:17Speaker 7: Different horse leading with about five meters to go, and.
- 2:23Speaker 4: See King was the other one. We got told back
- 2:24Speaker 4: and he was down with butter on the back. Sorry
- 2:27Speaker 4: we went on the back.
- 2:27Speaker 3: Do you know The only tips so that's ever won
- 2:29Speaker 3: me any money was the TVZ journalist.
- 2:31Speaker 4: Wonderful man? Was it?
- 2:32Speaker 1: Steven Stephen Stewart Stephens such a good tips to the
- 2:36Speaker 1: best tips of them all. He's been competing on the
- 2:38Speaker 1: sport for years and do you know what? So I
- 2:40Speaker 1: worked alongside him on sport for about eight years and
- 2:43Speaker 1: I'd be doing my story, like come back from filming
- 2:45Speaker 1: and I hear this, Yes.
- 2:48Speaker 2: Can I just stop.
- 2:54Speaker 4: I don't know too much about horse racing at all,
- 2:55Speaker 4: but I think I don't know what it's called you
- 2:57Speaker 4: get the first four horses or something. If you had
- 2:58Speaker 4: the first four horses, I saw that. Yeah, that was
- 3:01Speaker 4: paying something like seven hundred and something thousand dollars. Outrageous,
- 3:04Speaker 4: that's how That's how massive those odds were, those horses
- 3:06Speaker 4: that came in first. And if you put a dollar down,
- 3:09Speaker 4: I think it was yeah, because.
- 3:10Speaker 7: For a dollar you can times it by she.
- 3:12Speaker 4: Put one hundred bucks a pickle four your way.
- 3:15Speaker 1: Sure, can we just quickly talk about the other part
- 3:18Speaker 1: of the Melbourne Cup then we all love a couple
- 3:20Speaker 1: of highlights. Paris Hilton, I thought looked amazing. She starred
- 3:25Speaker 1: over at the Melbourne carp and yellow. So I'm telling
- 3:28Speaker 1: you yellow oranges citruses are the color for the summer.
- 3:32Speaker 1: And I just so happened to have purchased a yellow
- 3:34Speaker 1: dress es today for Cup Day next week.
- 3:37Speaker 4: I took my rice on the color.
- 3:38Speaker 1: Don't think I'm going to look like Paris Hilt Nicky Hilton,
- 3:41Speaker 1: it was her sister.
- 3:42Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, because we were owing. Weren't we stready on
- 3:44Speaker 3: the color as your dress? Yesterday?
- 3:46Speaker 4: You said, what about the blue?
- 3:47Speaker 3: I see no street the yellows and joke, don't think
- 3:50Speaker 3: you with it?
- 3:52Speaker 4: What was the designer's name again?
- 3:53Speaker 7: Cave and Crisp. Yeah, thanks Sam, No worries like you.
- 3:57Speaker 4: I've got you. You get there over. There's a horse name.
- 4:02Speaker 4: There's a horse name you're never gonna forget. The horse
- 4:04Speaker 4: name was Are and the horse won the race. Heavels
- 4:06Speaker 4: of this top of the stretch coming into the final
- 4:09Speaker 4: for long now, Crafty CJ with an air lead, continues
- 4:13Speaker 4: to fight on on the outside.
- 4:14Speaker 8: They're coming down to the finish and it's a little
- 4:19Speaker 8: wise guy was second and that's.
- 4:24Speaker 4: What you want. You look great? Do you live in
- 4:26Speaker 4: the yellow dress?
- 4:27Speaker 6: Are you?
- 4:27Speaker 8: Well?
- 4:28Speaker 7: It's actually caused the pirates.
- 4:31Speaker 4: Can you feel it. It's the Jackson's on Coach I
- 4:33Speaker 4: Feel Good Breakfast with Tony Chase, the Sam of course
- 4:35Speaker 4: theme song for the Breakers. Top of the nbal table
- 4:38Speaker 4: table at the moment, aren't.
- 4:39Speaker 3: They Yeah, I got a couple of players scoring into
- 4:41Speaker 3: the thirties. It's really encouraging to see it.
- 4:43Speaker 1: If you've ever been to the Breakers and it starts
- 4:45Speaker 1: with dun dun a starts cl Yeah.
- 4:49Speaker 4: It's the halftime song. Isn't it funny that it's actually
- 4:53Speaker 4: World Basketball Day today honor of the game that was
- 4:55Speaker 4: invented in eighteen ninety one by a Canadian guy called
- 4:57Speaker 4: James Naismith. This is basically muckey out a WAYMCA, but
- 5:01Speaker 4: are passing the time bouncing a ball around and it
- 5:03Speaker 4: became the game.
- 5:03Speaker 7: I love basketball was a little brilliant game.
- 5:05Speaker 4: Yeah, good spig tatus for a that's lots of fun
- 5:08Speaker 4: for a lot of people. Remember the school yard exams
- 5:15Speaker 4: are at the moment they started yesterday. A lot of
- 5:17Speaker 4: families are dealing with exams streets in the house this week.
- 5:19Speaker 4: So how would we go if we had to sit
- 5:21Speaker 4: an exam? So I looked through the timetable, right and
- 5:24Speaker 4: geography is up for this year's This year's the Year
- 5:27Speaker 4: eleven team, so basically what we used to call FI form.
- 5:28Speaker 5: Okay, say, year eleven.
- 5:30Speaker 7: Did you do geography in for form at school?
- 5:32Speaker 5: Yes? Same.
- 5:33Speaker 4: I'm in a rabbit hole over.
- 5:34Speaker 3: I just google my old teacher's magnificent for geography, mister
- 5:38Speaker 3: Don Johnson Sandy Passway in twenty twenty three. But he
- 5:40Speaker 3: put me in good Stead good Man Linton comedy, which
- 5:43Speaker 3: is why I love the subject.
- 5:44Speaker 4: You know, he's one of those sages.
- 5:45Speaker 7: Everyone has the story right.
- 5:47Speaker 1: When I think of my geography, I remember for form
- 5:49Speaker 1: GEO and you know when you had there was like
- 5:51Speaker 1: a topography section of the exam, Yes, and you had
- 5:54Speaker 1: to pinpoint on a map exactly where something was. And
- 5:57Speaker 1: I remember in New Plymouth ours was we had to
- 5:59Speaker 1: point where Mount Tananaki was and I did it exactly
- 6:03Speaker 1: how we were taught, and I got it wrong.
- 6:05Speaker 7: And I'm like, how can I get it wrong? Teacher?
- 6:07Speaker 7: This is where you told me to put it. And
- 6:08Speaker 7: they're like, I don't know.
- 6:11Speaker 3: In terms of its topography map, you know the ones
- 6:14Speaker 3: with the lines and the altitude. Yes, I don't think
- 6:16Speaker 3: there's anything more obvious than Mount Tananaki.
- 6:19Speaker 4: Get real close.
- 6:23Speaker 7: In the middle.
- 6:23Speaker 4: You were an amazing teacher, mister Allison at Kademy High
- 6:26Speaker 4: School is great man. Anyway, again, the teachers of the
- 6:29Speaker 4: reason you take some of these subjects, right, we don't
- 6:31Speaker 4: take subjects?
- 6:32Speaker 7: Yeah?
- 6:33Speaker 4: True? How do we go?
- 6:34Speaker 7: So?
- 6:34Speaker 4: I looked at last year's year eleven geography exam and
- 6:36Speaker 4: basically the whole thing was about COVID nineteen and the
- 6:38Speaker 4: impact it had on the Cook Island's economy. And so
- 6:41Speaker 4: I thought that's it was basically a whole bunch of
- 6:43Speaker 4: give us a topography.
- 6:45Speaker 7: That's a bit weird.
- 6:45Speaker 1: How it affected the economy, Isn't it like accounting or economics.
- 6:49Speaker 4: How they're faced important challenges looking forward to the future. Anyway,
- 6:52Speaker 4: So that was a big So I went further back
- 6:53Speaker 4: through the years and I we're way way back. This
- 6:55Speaker 4: is the late nineties, you know, all right, So you're
- 6:58Speaker 4: ready for this. What country the most natural lakes in
- 7:01Speaker 4: the world?
- 7:02Speaker 7: Canada?
- 7:03Speaker 4: No, it's America. It's Canada. Canada passing so far, so fast,
- 7:08Speaker 4: so good. Okay. Suppose the temperature at a place by
- 7:10Speaker 4: the sea is twenty degrees celsius at these ones, what
- 7:14Speaker 4: the temperatureuld be at the same place, but one thousand
- 7:16Speaker 4: meters above sea level it drops the formula.
- 7:20Speaker 3: So formula it drops one degree for every one hundred
- 7:23Speaker 3: feet I think it is.
- 7:25Speaker 7: That wasn't part of my syllabus on thousands.
- 7:27Speaker 4: So I'm going to go with a thousand. I'm going
- 7:29Speaker 4: to go with seventeen degrees. Shose we're not being thirteen
- 7:32Speaker 4: point five degrees at all. But you knew the formula.
- 7:35Speaker 3: There's a formula between two layers of clothing and.
- 7:37Speaker 4: Four I now have.
- 7:41Speaker 7: It's working working.
- 7:44Speaker 3: I have no idea, all right, last one of the
- 7:46Speaker 3: pilots would know that they know the drop, all right,
- 7:51Speaker 3: So I'll this one multi choice?
- 7:52Speaker 4: Okay, all right? Why do underground rivers commonly form in
- 7:55Speaker 4: limestone regions like Northland white out or Hawks Bay Wide
- 7:59Speaker 4: it up and Nelson care in Southland? Here your options?
- 8:01Speaker 4: Why do underground rivers commonly form in limestone? M choice?
- 8:05Speaker 3: I don't need multi choice, mate, It's because the limestone
- 8:07Speaker 3: breaks down because he is sitting in the water.
- 8:11Speaker 4: That is option B, and it's been.
- 8:14Speaker 7: Chosen bick degrees.
- 8:19Speaker 4: Why not anyway? Hey, if you are dealing with exam
- 8:21Speaker 4: stress in your household, very best of love, who's going
- 8:25Speaker 4: to win this one? Though? Even talking to Jack Tame
- 8:27Speaker 4: and Washington yesterday he said, I don't don't know flip
- 8:31Speaker 4: a coin.
- 8:31Speaker 7: I hate it when they say flipper the cooin.
- 8:33Speaker 4: Yeah, well it is that tired.
- 8:34Speaker 3: I've done a little bit of research in terms of
- 8:37Speaker 3: who the main outlets and who they think is going
- 8:39Speaker 3: to win the election. So the economist, who is effectively
- 8:43Speaker 3: a stats company, they have Carmela, so it's going to
- 8:46Speaker 3: be the first to reach two hundred and seventy. They
- 8:48Speaker 3: have her two seventy six and Trump at two sixty two.
- 8:52Speaker 3: Now the two biggest election prognosticators.
- 8:56Speaker 4: Isn't that a great Yeah?
- 8:58Speaker 3: I'm almanek Ellen ellen Lychman, us professor correctly predicted the
- 9:03Speaker 3: last nine elections has Carmela. The other side of that
- 9:06Speaker 3: equation in terms of prognostigators are Nate Silver is also
- 9:10Speaker 3: heavily respected, and he thinks President Trump will prevail. The
- 9:14Speaker 3: fact that they are opposing shows how tight this one.
- 9:17Speaker 1: They already said this will be undoubtedly the closest election
- 9:21Speaker 1: of all time.
- 9:22Speaker 9: Of all time, the most accurate economist, Christopher Broad has
- 9:26Speaker 9: Donald Trump winning it, and the betting odds I have
- 9:29Speaker 9: since narrowed, but they have Trump winning fifty nine percent
- 9:32Speaker 9: to Kamla's forty one.
- 9:34Speaker 1: So fuck, it's really no, it's really interesting. There's so
- 9:38Speaker 1: many different sort of things going on in this one.
- 9:41Speaker 1: You will have noticed, just like we noticed with Hillary Clinton,
- 9:44Speaker 1: in the last few days, a whole lot of singers
- 9:47Speaker 1: and stars have come out in force to support Kamala Harris.
- 9:50Speaker 1: Did you see yesterday Ricky Martin, wonderful man, I've met him.
- 9:53Speaker 1: If he's supporting Kamala Harris, she must be good because
- 9:56Speaker 1: he is one of life's treasures. I saw he was playing.
- 10:00Speaker 1: You've had Beyonce, You've had Lizzo.
- 10:06Speaker 4: The big one for.
- 10:06Speaker 3: Donald Trump coming out, you said it was Joe Rogan,
- 10:08Speaker 3: who obviously the podcast so.
- 10:09Speaker 4: Who commands a massive audience.
- 10:12Speaker 3: He came out of support based on what Elon Musk
- 10:14Speaker 3: said about Donald Trump.
- 10:15Speaker 1: Interesting that Joe Rogan supporting Donald Trump after he gave
- 10:18Speaker 1: him that treadmill. Yet rant that Sam shed that's this morning.
- 10:22Speaker 1: She talks about how wonderful is it?
- 10:23Speaker 6: Run?
- 10:24Speaker 4: Am so good on a treadmill.
- 10:26Speaker 3: They would like step and make it steeper and I
- 10:29Speaker 3: got to stay on it all dad.
- 10:30Speaker 7: Do you know another interesting thing?
- 10:32Speaker 1: That I reckon, and Jack Tame told us this that
- 10:36Speaker 1: women are coming out and forced to vote for Kamala Harris.
- 10:39Speaker 1: The difference between her run for the presidency and Hillary
- 10:42Speaker 1: Clinton's is she has not been waiving that I'm a
- 10:46Speaker 1: female flag. She's obviously seeing that as a negative. So
- 10:49Speaker 1: she is absolutely not saying that at all, even though
- 10:51Speaker 1: let's not forget if she becomes a president, she'll be
- 10:54Speaker 1: the first woman ever.
- 10:56Speaker 7: That's exactly. So.
- 10:59Speaker 4: I think that some of the polling boos are starting
- 11:00Speaker 4: to close right about now by the looks of things,
- 11:02Speaker 4: and we're going to get some more results throughout the day.
- 11:04Speaker 4: So I think from about midday onwards we'll start getting
- 11:06Speaker 4: results starting tripping through. We won't know for a couple
- 11:08Speaker 4: of days. Though.
- 11:09Speaker 3: They reckon no, I would love to put Donald Trump
- 11:11Speaker 3: on a treadment and just prove that very wrong. I
- 11:13Speaker 3: started at like an eight incline at speed five, just
- 11:16Speaker 3: so I'd.
- 11:17Speaker 7: Love to put them on speed twenty and see.
- 11:21Speaker 4: No way. And there's a group called the Alternative Commentary Collective.
- 11:28Speaker 4: They'd be loved and complained about because of the way
- 11:30Speaker 4: they commentate sports matches, but they're so popular they now
- 11:33Speaker 4: put a book out detailing the triumphs and utter disaster
- 11:35Speaker 4: as they've been involved in. We're about to chat with
- 11:37Speaker 4: the main man, Mike Laying about this because on day
- 11:39Speaker 4: one of the ACC you guys put this together, and
- 11:42Speaker 4: on day one you were booted out of a really
- 11:43Speaker 4: famous sporting venue, Mike.
- 11:45Speaker 5: Out of a famous sporting event. Yeah.
- 11:47Speaker 10: No, we're the only commentary team to ever be thrown
- 11:50Speaker 10: out of a World Cup.
- 11:53Speaker 5: Thank you.
- 11:53Speaker 7: You hindered your ways with the organizers had.
- 11:56Speaker 5: I don't know, actually I don't know.
- 11:58Speaker 10: It was the twenty fifteen Cricket World Cup here in
- 12:00Speaker 10: New Zealand. The ICC they kind of I don't know.
- 12:03Speaker 10: I don't think they knew what they were getting themselves
- 12:04Speaker 10: in for when they let us in the grounds. But
- 12:06Speaker 10: it didn't last long because they immediately threw us out
- 12:09Speaker 10: and it was greatually pretty good for us because at
- 12:12Speaker 10: the time we were gutted because the only reason we
- 12:14Speaker 10: really started the Alternative Commentary Collective was so we could
- 12:18Speaker 10: get together as mates, drink beers and comment tate cricket and.
- 12:21Speaker 5: Be paid for it, and so that's how it started.
- 12:23Speaker 10: So to be thrown out of the grounds was a
- 12:25Speaker 10: bit of a d shrinker for us because we were like, oh,
- 12:27Speaker 10: we're not going to beat the ground anymore.
- 12:28Speaker 5: That's kind of a key, a key element of why
- 12:30Speaker 5: we started this.
- 12:31Speaker 10: And then it was the best thing that ever happened
- 12:33Speaker 10: to us because it went global, I mean because it
- 12:34Speaker 10: was a great headline commentary team thrown out of World Cup, yes,
- 12:38Speaker 10: and people were like, what the hell is this?
- 12:40Speaker 1: And now you're basically a professional outfit and it's just
- 12:42Speaker 1: morphed into all these other sports.
- 12:44Speaker 4: Yeah, it's good.
- 12:45Speaker 5: I mean, it's I'm waiting for it to blow up
- 12:47Speaker 5: eventually one day.
- 12:49Speaker 4: Ten years thoughts, So hell.
- 12:51Speaker 3: Of a story, Like, you know, it's all fun and games,
- 12:54Speaker 3: but it's surprisingly cognitive.
- 12:55Speaker 4: I genuinely like it.
- 12:57Speaker 3: And now you've managed to put it together, the whole
- 12:59Speaker 3: story into an elmina, which I didn't even know what
- 13:01Speaker 3: it was.
- 13:01Speaker 5: You know what alm makers.
- 13:04Speaker 4: It's a collection.
- 13:04Speaker 10: It's like a history book really ten years Almanac of
- 13:07Speaker 10: New Zealand sport because we're it's our tenth birthday this year,
- 13:10Speaker 10: so we kind of like it's not a it's not.
- 13:12Speaker 5: A serious books. It's very much lighthearted.
- 13:15Speaker 10: We gathered that you can there is elements of truth
- 13:18Speaker 10: in there and there is elements of untruth in there.
- 13:20Speaker 1: So how did you get the time? So it's you,
- 13:22Speaker 1: Matt Heath and Dylan Cleaver have put it together.
- 13:24Speaker 7: When did you guys do this?
- 13:26Speaker 4: It's been about six months probably.
- 13:28Speaker 10: All the oral histories are very funny in here, and
- 13:30Speaker 10: they kind of made me smile because basically we interviewed
- 13:32Speaker 10: everyone on the acc of what their view of different stories,
- 13:36Speaker 10: and they're wildly different. For example, Leehart's recollection of that
- 13:39Speaker 10: twenty fifteen World Cup is wildly different to Matt Heath,
- 13:43Speaker 10: which is wildly different to Jason Hoyt who can't remember anything.
- 13:47Speaker 7: You were all different amounts of beer.
- 13:49Speaker 10: Deep absolutely, and so this it's a great it's a
- 13:52Speaker 10: great way of looking at the stories and they're completely
- 13:54Speaker 10: wildly different. There's it's all all sport over the last
- 13:58Speaker 10: ten years, so a couple of World Cups near the
- 14:00Speaker 10: Olympics is Commonwealth Games. Our worst crimes are in here.
- 14:03Speaker 10: It's a fun book. It's a very picture picture heavy too,
- 14:07Speaker 10: which is always you enjoyed that, Sam.
- 14:11Speaker 3: Christmas, I appreciate that because I mean, at the end
- 14:15Speaker 3: of the day, what you're good to ask people to
- 14:16Speaker 3: do that are going to buy this bock is to
- 14:18Speaker 3: put down their beer and their cricket cricket bat and
- 14:20Speaker 3: pick up a book that's not that's that's a big
- 14:22Speaker 3: ass yes.
- 14:23Speaker 10: And you know what it's. You can pick it up
- 14:24Speaker 10: at any page and just read. Hey, look, I'll sign one.
- 14:26Speaker 10: You can give it away if you want.
- 14:28Speaker 7: Please six ninety nine. If you'd like this coffee of the.
- 14:31Speaker 5: Almanac and I'll draw a willy on it.
- 14:33Speaker 8: Please.
- 14:33Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 14:35Speaker 2: Class Coasts, Feel Good Breakfast catch up podcast with Tony Street,
- 14:42Speaker 2: Jason Reeves and Sam Wallace.
- 14:44Speaker 4: It's that time of the year, right, skins are pointing
- 14:46Speaker 4: into the year. Exams are on across the country today.
- 14:48Speaker 4: We know that Christmas is looming across us. Of course
- 14:50Speaker 4: we know that as well, but it's also wedding season
- 14:53Speaker 4: as well. And if you've done the whole wedding thing
- 14:55Speaker 4: and maybe at the stage in your life where your
- 14:57Speaker 4: own kids are getting married, or you know friends of
- 14:58Speaker 4: yours inviting them to the you to their kids weddings,
- 15:02Speaker 4: what's the etiquet when it comes to gifts.
- 15:05Speaker 1: Oh, it's really awkward because I feel like in New Zealand,
- 15:09Speaker 1: I think primarily you get a wedding gift, whether that
- 15:11Speaker 1: is a present or whether it is a wishing well donation.
- 15:14Speaker 1: Right where it starts to get a little bit murky
- 15:17Speaker 1: is bridesmaids that are paying for things like their address,
- 15:20Speaker 1: potentially their shoes. People pay a lot of money to
- 15:25Speaker 1: go to a hens do or bridle shower. Right, So
- 15:28Speaker 1: I've organized quite a few hens dos in my time,
- 15:31Speaker 1: and generally you're charging one hundred and fifty bucks ahead, right,
- 15:36Speaker 1: and then do you get a gift on top of that?
- 15:37Speaker 1: We never did for hens dos. But when you see
- 15:40Speaker 1: say bridal shower, Jase, that's slightly class here, and then
- 15:44Speaker 1: I think there's potentially engagement parties on top of that.
- 15:47Speaker 4: It's a good point.
- 15:47Speaker 7: Yeah, a lot of gifts.
- 15:48Speaker 3: So a bridal party, sorry, a bridal shower is a
- 15:52Speaker 3: few months to a few weeks before the wedding.
- 15:53Speaker 7: So it's a classy version of a.
- 15:55Speaker 4: Hen class it is. I think it's the one of
- 15:56Speaker 4: the mum's throw I.
- 15:57Speaker 1: Think I just don't think that happens much in New Zealand.
- 15:59Speaker 1: I think New Zealand women predominantly have hisins dos. And
- 16:03Speaker 1: you definitely don't get prisons for hents.
- 16:04Speaker 7: You just pay to go.
- 16:05Speaker 4: You paid, okay, so then you pay to go to
- 16:07Speaker 4: the hens Do, then you go to the wedding as well.
- 16:09Speaker 1: So let's say you pay one hundred and fifty bucks
- 16:11Speaker 1: to go to the hens Do, then you buy a
- 16:13Speaker 1: prison and saying that when you pay to go to
- 16:15Speaker 1: the hins Do, you're paying for a night out, you're
- 16:17Speaker 1: getting dinner.
- 16:20Speaker 4: Yeah, but it's so.
- 16:21Speaker 3: A massive commitment, like you know, his party, bridle shower,
- 16:23Speaker 3: then you've got if you're part of the wedding party,
- 16:25Speaker 3: you got shoes, dress, and then if it's a location
- 16:27Speaker 3: wedding accommodation as well.
- 16:30Speaker 1: Generally the bride and groom will pay for the dress
- 16:32Speaker 1: though well, and the weddings I've been to quite often
- 16:35Speaker 1: the bridesmaids will pay for these shoes.
- 16:37Speaker 4: Maybe I sometimes the bridesmaids are buying their own dresses
- 16:39Speaker 4: and then suddenly you've got that on top of that
- 16:43Speaker 4: as well. So then when it comes to there, if
- 16:44Speaker 4: you've done all that, let's say, for example, you're a bridesmaid,
- 16:47Speaker 4: you've bought a dress or maybe your shoes, and you've
- 16:49Speaker 4: gone to the Hens night. Now you go to the
- 16:50Speaker 4: wedding as well.
- 16:52Speaker 1: You know what if your bridesmaids several times over if
- 16:55Speaker 1: you're super popular goal, and you keep getting asked.
- 16:58Speaker 4: You'd have been a bridesmaid a few times? When you're streating.
- 17:00Speaker 1: I'm trying to Just as they said that, I was like,
- 17:02Speaker 1: how many times have I been to bride's maid? I
- 17:04Speaker 1: think I'm like maybe like six or seven?
- 17:07Speaker 4: Is that right? I think I'm two. I'm not going.
- 17:09Speaker 7: Sister had to have me obligatory.
- 17:13Speaker 4: Yeah, So what are your thoughts on that? What are
- 17:15Speaker 4: the rules? What do you think that is the goal?
- 17:17Speaker 4: When it comes to the gifts for this sort of stuff.
- 17:18Speaker 4: If you're go into the bridal shower or a hen's
- 17:20Speaker 4: night and then maybe you know you have hit to
- 17:22Speaker 4: buy the dress or the shoes as well, and you
- 17:23Speaker 4: go to the wedding too, what's the thing on the gifts?
- 17:26Speaker 7: Come on, I just remembered I was also a glues woman.
- 17:31Speaker 4: No brides man. I'm a woman. What were flicker takes?
- 17:39Speaker 4: The two six nine nine? I do feel for you
- 17:41Speaker 4: if you're sitting exams or if you if someone in
- 17:43Speaker 4: your family is sitting exams this week in a couple
- 17:45Speaker 4: of weeks, parents and grandparents dealing with that streets in
- 17:48Speaker 4: the households?
- 17:48Speaker 6: What is it?
- 17:48Speaker 4: Geography for year eleven today.
- 17:50Speaker 1: No, especially especially if you're at Canterbury University and you've
- 17:53Speaker 1: got this quirtz.
- 17:54Speaker 7: Yeah they reckon it was shredded chicken.
- 17:58Speaker 1: But did you see all the boys on the news
- 18:00Speaker 1: are all like, yeah, you know, I hope we get
- 18:01Speaker 1: compassionate consideration.
- 18:03Speaker 7: I'm like, is this a big plot?
- 18:06Speaker 4: Apparently it was so bad that not there win't enough
- 18:09Speaker 4: toilets to go.
- 18:09Speaker 7: Around queues at four am for the bathroom.
- 18:11Speaker 4: And scary people need to go out and someone described
- 18:14Speaker 4: it as fountains.
- 18:17Speaker 3: That's hostile living in its best, isn't it when you're
- 18:20Speaker 3: queuing with the squirts.
- 18:24Speaker 4: So we're getting into summer season, of course, wedding season
- 18:26Speaker 4: for a lot of people as well, a lot of
- 18:27Speaker 4: families dealing with that this coming year too, and so
- 18:29Speaker 4: therefore we ask the question, okay, if you get invited
- 18:31Speaker 4: to stay like the Hen's Night and nowadays a lot
- 18:33Speaker 4: of people doing the bridal showers too and the wedding, well,
- 18:36Speaker 4: how many gifts you have to give it that sort
- 18:37Speaker 4: of stage there and on the text on two six
- 18:39Speaker 4: nine nine, A few different answers on this one. One
- 18:43Speaker 4: one gift is all you need. Another one is saying
- 18:45Speaker 4: small gift for the bride, for the bridal party, and
- 18:47Speaker 4: then money for the couple. That's what some people are saying. Wow,
- 18:51Speaker 4: it's a lot, isn't it. It adds up so quickly,
- 18:53Speaker 4: it does, say Georgina, is it just us where we
- 18:55Speaker 4: just tied on this maybe the one gift? What are
- 18:57Speaker 4: your thoughts?
- 18:59Speaker 8: No, we did, absolutely, it's a gift for the bride.
- 19:05Speaker 4: No, we.
- 19:09Speaker 6: Gave it all our girl friends together. Everybody contributed to
- 19:14Speaker 6: the weekend and it was more about spending quality time
- 19:20Speaker 6: together with a bride to be for.
- 19:23Speaker 7: Your big day, So no guests required at all. I agree.
- 19:27Speaker 1: That's exactly what I have done with all the weddings
- 19:29Speaker 1: I've been to. Yes, you contribute to the Hen's weekend
- 19:32Speaker 1: or the hens party, but you're sort of all in
- 19:34Speaker 1: for that, and you'd have to pay for dinner anyway.
- 19:36Speaker 7: I don't think a bride expects.
- 19:38Speaker 3: Again, I feel right, you know, like, at the end
- 19:40Speaker 3: of the day, you don't really remember the guests. All
- 19:42Speaker 3: you want is people's participation to celebrate with you. And
- 19:45Speaker 3: I think the onus of all that responsibility of the
- 19:48Speaker 3: gift is kind of it's more worn on the person
- 19:51Speaker 3: that's buying the gift.
- 19:52Speaker 4: You know, you don't really feel like you need to do.
- 19:54Speaker 1: No, they don't do you know what I just thought then,
- 19:57Speaker 1: just hearing that comment, why do we not? But like
- 19:59Speaker 1: we with birthday parties, why don't why do we not
- 20:02Speaker 1: pull money to make a cool gift?
- 20:04Speaker 6: Like?
- 20:04Speaker 7: Why does that interesting?
- 20:05Speaker 4: You say that because somebody see them on the tap.
- 20:06Speaker 4: Everyone just jumping and pull and gets them something really
- 20:08Speaker 4: nice together, you.
- 20:09Speaker 1: Know, and then everyone sort of spends the same amount
- 20:11Speaker 1: and many hands make a great gift and one person
- 20:15Speaker 1: just has to take charge.
- 20:16Speaker 4: It's that the continered blender or something like that.
- 20:18Speaker 7: Something amazing when you look at the gifts.
- 20:19Speaker 3: So it is the stuff that sits at the top
- 20:21Speaker 3: and the back of the cupboard, the.
- 20:26Speaker 4: Cocktail glasses you've never used.
- 20:28Speaker 8: Hello, it's getting out of control to me recently, I
- 20:36Speaker 8: went to last week in and travel around. It was
- 20:44Speaker 8: nearly four hundred dollars where you all brewist up. We
- 20:47Speaker 8: had to get costumes and features, and then there's a
- 20:51Speaker 8: present and the wedding to come. Yeah, I just think
- 20:54Speaker 8: it's getting out of control. What people are expect to
- 20:57Speaker 8: play and then here you count that, you know.
- 21:05Speaker 1: Right, horn on this because I love reasons to celebrate.
- 21:09Speaker 1: But I don't think it necessarily has to be whoppingly
- 21:12Speaker 1: expensive either.
- 21:13Speaker 4: I agree with you. And a great text. Well this
- 21:16Speaker 4: creting a plate. That's all you need. Creating a plate.
- 21:18Speaker 7: It's like a class.
- 21:21Speaker 4: It sounds like that's a good time.
- 21:23Speaker 7: What five CANape? Sam?
- 21:25Speaker 2: Hey?
- 21:26Speaker 3: No, no, I aimed at three canapees and you told
- 21:28Speaker 3: me to.
- 21:29Speaker 4: Up the men you mate?
- 21:30Speaker 7: Now, aren't you glad you did?
- 21:31Speaker 5: Well?
- 21:31Speaker 3: You look me in the eye every time you ate
- 21:32Speaker 3: one and said and whispered to me six, Thanks so
- 21:39Speaker 3: much taking part of it.
- 21:46Speaker 4: Well, it's Wednesdays all we tell you. With the lovely
- 21:48Speaker 4: Nicky read from Milford Asset Management to find out more
- 21:51Speaker 4: about when it comes to sitting up for life's ages
- 21:53Speaker 4: and stages. So nick you see to answer a couple
- 21:55Speaker 4: of questions, but remember this is only information to help
- 21:57Speaker 4: you understand more and it's not financial advice. So Nikki,
- 22:02Speaker 4: you need to make a mental shift as we move
- 22:03Speaker 4: through the age? Is don't we like? So we're different
- 22:05Speaker 4: beasts when we're twenties and then into our thirties. It's
- 22:07Speaker 4: a whole different ball game.
- 22:08Speaker 11: To a it is, you know, it's more foundational. You
- 22:12Speaker 11: should be bedded into your finances at this point in
- 22:14Speaker 11: your life. You know, you're not a new grad. You
- 22:18Speaker 11: know a lot of people are saving for their first time.
- 22:20Speaker 11: Some even have their first time in their thirties.
- 22:23Speaker 9: You know.
- 22:24Speaker 11: For me, you know, the number one thing in my
- 22:26Speaker 11: experience has been as you start to progress your career
- 22:29Speaker 11: and you earn a bit more and you're settling into adulthood,
- 22:34Speaker 11: don't don't adjust your lifestyle based on earning more. Avoid
- 22:38Speaker 11: that lifestyle creep if you, if you can at all,
- 22:40Speaker 11: because I'm.
- 22:42Speaker 4: Sure that's impossible. I mean, then you start to throw
- 22:46Speaker 4: kids into it as well.
- 22:48Speaker 3: So wedding, yes, yeah, weddings, engagement rings, children, How do you?
- 22:53Speaker 4: How do you prevent that creep?
- 22:54Speaker 11: Like I think, if you, it's about that financial discipline,
- 22:58Speaker 11: about budget. For me, when I got a new job
- 23:02Speaker 11: or a pay rise, I would treat myself to a
- 23:04Speaker 11: nice pair of shoes. That was my thing, and then
- 23:06Speaker 11: the rest I'd increase my kevsaver contributions or save more.
- 23:11Speaker 7: I am a bit of one.
- 23:12Speaker 4: Why would you do that?
- 23:13Speaker 5: Good?
- 23:13Speaker 3: And why would you go to a fund that you
- 23:15Speaker 3: can only access later in life, especially when you're young
- 23:17Speaker 3: in your thirties and you kind of you've got more
- 23:19Speaker 3: financial steps to take. Why wouldn't you set up another
- 23:22Speaker 3: fund outside of the kiwisaver so that you can have
- 23:25Speaker 3: access to that within Milford asset.
- 23:27Speaker 11: Yeah, you can absolutely do that too. Look, I don't
- 23:29Speaker 11: care how people do it, but what you see is
- 23:31Speaker 11: as you earn more, you tend to spend a bit more.
- 23:34Speaker 11: You feel a bit more flush. And in your thirties
- 23:38Speaker 11: you've got lots of big goals as you say, you've
- 23:39Speaker 11: got weddings and kids, potentially buying your first home.
- 23:43Speaker 4: Things.
- 23:44Speaker 11: It's an expensive decade. So setting yourself up to not
- 23:47Speaker 11: thresh away the extra money that you've got if you can,
- 23:50Speaker 11: it's a really good step to save more, just as
- 23:54Speaker 11: you would when your mortgage interest rates come down, try
- 23:57Speaker 11: not to spend the extra money you've now got in
- 23:59Speaker 11: your pocket.
- 24:00Speaker 4: Have those habits bettered in Yeah? Yeah yeah.
- 24:02Speaker 3: And also with that change as well with the kids,
- 24:04Speaker 3: I mean, that's another chance to start looking to invest
- 24:07Speaker 3: in creating funds for them, which is another expense for you,
- 24:09Speaker 3: but it kind of something you can't overlook with the
- 24:12Speaker 3: way house prices are going and education.
- 24:14Speaker 11: Yep, that's right, and and also gives the mess they
- 24:16Speaker 11: get older, something to look too to understand financial markets
- 24:20Speaker 11: and the value of saving and investing.
- 24:22Speaker 3: Or you turn your kid into a trust fun baby
- 24:24Speaker 3: because you've done well your Milford asset's taken off. Kids
- 24:26Speaker 3: sitting there with turn and fifty can about turning into
- 24:29Speaker 3: a spoil lit all.
- 24:32Speaker 4: You can't let them know about it. Things are going well.
- 24:35Speaker 4: There's a whole other topics you may be surprised with
- 24:38Speaker 4: the Sam's not the expert here, but your Milford advisors
- 24:42Speaker 4: can help you build a comprehensive investing strategy tailored to
- 24:45Speaker 4: your goals and your life stages as well. So call
- 24:47Speaker 4: your local Milford office for a free initial no obligation
- 24:50Speaker 4: chat today, or you can find out more by going
- 24:52Speaker 4: to Milford Asset dot com. Good luck for Loto tonight
- 24:55Speaker 4: eight million dollars lotter and I had four makes me
- 24:58Speaker 4: want to.
- 24:58Speaker 1: Give a ticket after the lost This is incurred at
- 25:01Speaker 1: the Melbourne Cup yesterday.
- 25:02Speaker 3: I had a double loss yesterday because it also burned
- 25:04Speaker 3: a fair bit of cash on fireworks as well.
- 25:06Speaker 4: Oh no, that was in the whole yesterday.
- 25:08Speaker 7: Oh you're not supposed to admit you do fireworks.
- 25:11Speaker 4: Say that anymore, you'll get lashed. It was enjoyable to say.
- 25:16Speaker 1: We need to talk about turning forty or the age
- 25:20Speaker 1: around forty, because I found this really good article that
- 25:22Speaker 1: kind of looked at the differences between being a forty
- 25:25Speaker 1: year old today in twenty twenty four versus perhaps being
- 25:28Speaker 1: forty back in the eighties or nineties, and how much
- 25:31Speaker 1: it's changed.
- 25:32Speaker 7: So this kind of sums it up a wee bit.
- 25:34Speaker 1: Forty is supposedly the new thirty. The start of middle
- 25:37Speaker 1: age no longer means sending your kids off to college,
- 25:41Speaker 1: getting a divorce, or buying yourself a new car a corvette.
- 25:45Speaker 1: The modern forty means having toddlers running around, buying your
- 25:49Speaker 1: first home, and at last catching up on retirement savings,
- 25:52Speaker 1: or looking around and wondering whether some.
- 25:54Speaker 7: Of these life touch points passed you by. And I
- 25:57Speaker 7: think it's a good time to reflect on.
- 25:58Speaker 1: How different it is to be forty now than perhaps
- 26:02Speaker 1: what your parents or your grandparents were like.
- 26:05Speaker 4: Remember my dad's fortieth I was at my dad's fortieth,
- 26:07Speaker 4: I was a teenager.
- 26:08Speaker 1: I was a teenager nearly getting ready to go to university.
- 26:11Speaker 1: In my fortieth last year, my eldest was eleven, My
- 26:16Speaker 1: youngest was five.
- 26:18Speaker 3: Well, we three years ago, my fortieth, and I just
- 26:23Speaker 3: had the twins, didn't I.
- 26:25Speaker 7: You had you didn't have told us you had babies.
- 26:27Speaker 3: I had two new babies. Went on my fortieth birthday
- 26:30Speaker 3: at our house. It was it was a lot.
- 26:32Speaker 4: I turned forty in May and our youngest was born
- 26:36Speaker 4: in October the year before, so he was only about
- 26:37Speaker 4: seven months old, and that was my fortieth. Wow. I know, crazy.
- 26:41Speaker 1: It is crazy because I think about having a child
- 26:43Speaker 1: now and I think, oh gosh.
- 26:45Speaker 7: But I think it's because I've done twelve years of parents,
- 26:49Speaker 7: you know what I mean. And I'm like, oh, no,
- 26:51Speaker 7: so kids wise, what do we think.
- 26:53Speaker 1: Is it better to be forty back in the eighties
- 26:56Speaker 1: nineties or now?
- 26:57Speaker 4: Well you're allowed to like fireworks? Back then it was cool. Yeah.
- 27:01Speaker 4: I think probably our parents did it better. I think
- 27:03Speaker 4: I think.
- 27:03Speaker 1: They probably did too, because if they were forty then
- 27:06Speaker 1: they were kind of through most of the hard parents
- 27:08Speaker 1: and phases.
- 27:09Speaker 4: I'm looking at my parents now, they're in their sixties
- 27:11Speaker 4: and they're still young and sprightly, and the way they
- 27:13Speaker 4: hang out with the grandkids and play with the grand
- 27:14Speaker 4: kids and us is great.
- 27:15Speaker 7: I'm looking at the money ketogran.
- 27:17Speaker 1: I'm thinking they definitely did it well. I don't know,
- 27:21Speaker 1: but I'm pretty sure at the same age as me,
- 27:23Speaker 1: my parents didn't have such a big mortgage.
- 27:25Speaker 4: Yeah, that's a good point.
- 27:26Speaker 1: Yeah, they were through that phase. They got through phases quicker.
- 27:30Speaker 4: They also lived a.
- 27:31Speaker 3: Life of less luxury though you know, we do money
- 27:33Speaker 3: on kind of frivolous things.
- 27:35Speaker 7: Yeah, but is that not a win for them? They
- 27:37Speaker 7: lived the simple life.
- 27:38Speaker 4: The simple life. We're going back to them now, people
- 27:41Speaker 4: growing their own beeries and having a lot more homemade meals.
- 27:43Speaker 7: Do you know iPhones to buy?
- 27:44Speaker 4: No, that's right.
- 27:46Speaker 7: What about health? I think we're winning the health game.
- 27:49Speaker 1: I think at forty all three of us are probably
- 27:51Speaker 1: healthier than what our parents were at forty.
- 27:54Speaker 4: A better knowledge, bit of exercises.
- 27:56Speaker 7: I'm definitely fitter. I reckon maybe not that my dad.
- 27:59Speaker 4: My dad was. I think he'still running marathons and referring rugby.
- 28:02Speaker 1: Game, but he's still all cardio cardio. The whole lifting
- 28:06Speaker 1: heavyweights thing was It's.
- 28:07Speaker 4: A really good point.
- 28:08Speaker 3: We were talking about this earlier in the week, that
- 28:09Speaker 3: you know, in terms of travel, people are traveling older
- 28:12Speaker 3: because they can They're just they're more supple them, they're
- 28:15Speaker 3: better on their feet, just basically based around the fact
- 28:18Speaker 3: that their new hippas better than their.
- 28:20Speaker 4: The old one. Maybe that's it.
- 28:21Speaker 1: Okay, what about relationships? I reckon the older generation did
- 28:24Speaker 1: it better, so much better. I mean, I just heard
- 28:26Speaker 1: this morning the sat in Japan eighty percent of people
- 28:30Speaker 1: haven't even kissed anyone by the age of eighteen, eighty
- 28:33Speaker 1: percent of the population were losing human interaction. And our
- 28:37Speaker 1: relationships are shorter, are shorter, and they are more flow
- 28:40Speaker 1: by night.
- 28:41Speaker 4: You know, you think about the older generation and stuff.
- 28:43Speaker 4: It was literally till death. Do you part? You make
- 28:45Speaker 4: that work? You were here for the long all you made.
- 28:47Speaker 7: I would argue that that's negative.
- 28:51Speaker 4: Get shot of them.
- 28:53Speaker 5: And better.
- 28:55Speaker 7: The last category is career.
- 28:58Speaker 1: Did our parents or our grand parents at forty have
- 29:02Speaker 1: do the career thing better than what we've got it now?
- 29:04Speaker 1: I would argue that the new generation barely work.
- 29:09Speaker 4: But the jokes on us on that isn't it? We've
- 29:12Speaker 4: done as we just worked.
- 29:14Speaker 1: We're in in between records A please get the worst
- 29:17Speaker 1: of everything.
- 29:19Speaker 4: Chasers on coast, All right, No know how old you are,
- 29:24Speaker 4: what life stage you've gone through or going through right now.
- 29:26Speaker 4: You can call right now on our eight hundred double
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- 29:38Speaker 4: hundred double low four Coast. If I can't mans your
- 29:41Speaker 4: score out of five general dollars questions, you're about to
- 29:43Speaker 4: earn four hundred dollars. Good luck.
- 29:47Speaker 2: Thanks for listening to the Feel Good Breakfast catch Up
- 29:50Speaker 2: podcast with Coast Tony Street, Jase Reeves and Sam Wallas
- 29:54Speaker 2: Wood Chasers on Coast.
- 29:58Speaker 4: Hi, I'm Brendan from Walk I'm playing today and if
- 30:02Speaker 4: I win, I'm going to take the money and put
- 30:03Speaker 4: it on read at the casino.
- 30:05Speaker 1: Yeah, buddy, I like your style.
- 30:08Speaker 3: You sure you don't want to go black? Just I
- 30:10Speaker 3: don't want to put down in your mind?
- 30:12Speaker 4: But were you?
- 30:17Speaker 7: Did you have a flutter on the Melbourne Cup yesterday?
- 30:21Speaker 6: We were too busy at work to get away.
- 30:23Speaker 7: But just as well everyone lost their money.
- 30:27Speaker 4: Really gaming man, all right? All the very business is
- 30:35Speaker 4: four hundred dollars. I'm going to leave you to it.
- 30:37Speaker 1: Good luck right now, Brendan, this quiz is I think
- 30:43Speaker 1: a little bit lucky.
- 30:44Speaker 7: Well, Sam and I were pathetic.
- 30:45Speaker 4: We were with it.
- 30:46Speaker 3: A question number two is there for the taking, but
- 30:48Speaker 3: both of us couldn't get it.
- 30:49Speaker 1: Were blanks and we know it. It's so annoying, So
- 30:52Speaker 1: don't blank like us going to be interesting one Hey,
- 30:56Speaker 1: but Jacks might.
- 30:57Speaker 4: Blank work mates sitting there, so we'll.
- 30:59Speaker 7: Know one of you will know it. I swear all right,
- 31:04Speaker 7: bridam are you ready? You're chasing four hundred bucks? Your
- 31:09Speaker 7: time starts now.
- 31:11Speaker 4: T Rex is an abbreviation of what dinosaur?
- 31:16Speaker 7: Yes?
- 31:16Speaker 4: What is another name for a cousette? No?
- 31:21Speaker 3: What is the capital of Vanowatuh?
- 31:27Speaker 4: What horse won the Melbourne Cup?
- 31:30Speaker 6: Nights?
- 31:34Speaker 3: What is the nickname of the patient in the game operation?
- 31:43Speaker 1: We told you it was tricky, but I like Burkan
- 31:46Speaker 1: is my new favorite answer. At least you gave something,
- 31:49Speaker 1: Sam and I blanked it and no guarantee Jase will
- 31:53Speaker 1: know that.
- 31:53Speaker 4: Well, I just filled because they did see knights. What
- 31:57Speaker 4: horse won the Melbourne Cup? And they said knights? And
- 31:59Speaker 4: you know the answer? Night's choice? You call it a
- 32:02Speaker 4: one and a half one.
- 32:03Speaker 7: And a half.
- 32:03Speaker 1: Can you just when you get Jase Beck in avoid
- 32:07Speaker 1: the horse question because I think he's going to get
- 32:09Speaker 1: there and ask the others.
- 32:11Speaker 7: But don't start with the t rex question.
- 32:14Speaker 1: Okay, because I reckon they might be the only two. Okay, Jason,
- 32:19Speaker 1: you're chasing a one and a very hard quiz.
- 32:24Speaker 7: One and a half actually a half your half points. Well,
- 32:28Speaker 7: if you only get one, we're giving the wind to Brenda's.
- 32:32Speaker 1: Okay, or swap in the order, mixing it around.
- 32:38Speaker 7: Your time starts.
- 32:39Speaker 8: Now?
- 32:39Speaker 3: What is the nickname of the patient and the game
- 32:41Speaker 3: Operation Pass?
- 32:44Speaker 4: What is the capital of Vanawatus? What is another name
- 32:50Speaker 4: for courgette? Here you go?
- 32:56Speaker 1: Oh?
- 32:57Speaker 4: T rex is an abbreviation for what dinosaur to week?
- 33:00Speaker 7: You need that half mark. I'm proud of you for
- 33:05Speaker 7: getting zucchini. Yes, yes, bank Tom zucchini?
- 33:11Speaker 3: And and what horse won the Melbourne Cup nights?
- 33:16Speaker 4: Joice? Yea four?
- 33:19Speaker 7: Three?
- 33:19Speaker 4: Well, yeah, you being generous. What is the nickname of
- 33:23Speaker 4: came back? Yeah with an after, I'm the reasonable one.
- 33:29Speaker 4: What is the nickname of the patient in the game
- 33:31Speaker 4: Operation I would say the victim, but probably not Cavity
- 33:35Speaker 4: Sam Kevity.
- 33:36Speaker 7: Sam forgot about that.
- 33:38Speaker 4: I knew that it's a great game. It's a great game.
- 33:41Speaker 4: My Dad was struggled with that one, just with a
- 33:43Speaker 4: shaky hands.
- 33:43Speaker 7: Why could we not get zucchini? We knew zu KENI
- 33:51Speaker 7: was a cordy and we just blame wrong. Yeah, well
- 33:53Speaker 7: we didn't. We didn't say anything.
- 33:56Speaker 4: Producer Rosie had to fill us in. We were scratching
- 33:58Speaker 4: our heads, Jason.
- 33:59Speaker 7: I can see why.
- 34:00Speaker 1: In and Seed Gurkin just a smaller Yeah, same shape family.
- 34:05Speaker 4: So we played out for five hundred dollars tomorrow for
- 34:08Speaker 4: your Thursday. Thank you very much to Finns and the
- 34:10Speaker 4: emergency services around the country last night. Thirty two fire
- 34:13Speaker 4: callouts fire incidents last night for guy Falls. Not as
- 34:16Speaker 4: many as I was thinking, to be honest, it's thirty
- 34:17Speaker 4: two across the country. So but again either way, though,
- 34:19Speaker 4: thank you very much for being there like a wall
- 34:21Speaker 4: zone over my house last night. Tell you that, yeah,
- 34:24Speaker 4: right over the top of us, right right in front
- 34:26Speaker 4: your We went out out of our property.
- 34:30Speaker 7: Just don't feel like you can claim to be a
- 34:32Speaker 7: hero here.
- 34:33Speaker 1: When the kids were young, you were like hating on
- 34:35Speaker 1: it and even lighting them like where are.
- 34:37Speaker 4: You all this?
- 34:38Speaker 3: I was on a turn coat and I'm kind of
- 34:40Speaker 3: happily doing that. Like you can come down on guy
- 34:44Speaker 3: fakes as much as you like, but when you see
- 34:45Speaker 3: the joy and my five year old's eyes when he's
- 34:47Speaker 3: lighting a firecracker, you can't argue with it.
- 34:49Speaker 1: I remember when when your kids weren't five, though, and
- 34:52Speaker 1: you're like three stage.
- 34:53Speaker 4: Neighbors great, And maybe maybe.
- 34:57Speaker 3: It's the type bum and immediate neighbors over the over there,
- 35:00Speaker 3: a couple of houses away.
- 35:01Speaker 4: You go there, it's funny. Maybe it's the type other me.
- 35:05Speaker 4: But we didn't buy any We were from big Driver
- 35:06Speaker 4: and set up on a hill and watch the fireworks
- 35:08Speaker 4: go off over town. That was a nice way to
- 35:09Speaker 4: do it.
- 35:09Speaker 7: Oh, I can't we moving?
- 35:11Speaker 4: Jack is too? Hey are we asking before? If you
- 35:14Speaker 4: go through your phone, see how many messages you seen
- 35:15Speaker 4: it or received yesterday, because then you figures are out.
- 35:17Speaker 4: And I'm a little surprised by this. The average person
- 35:20Speaker 4: under the age of forty sends and receives eighty five
- 35:23Speaker 4: messages a day. That's under forties, right. Then when you
- 35:27Speaker 4: add in the over forties, the average drops to seventy
- 35:30Speaker 4: two a day. So the average person, no matter how
- 35:32Speaker 4: old you are, is sending and receiving seventy two messages
- 35:36Speaker 4: are day.
- 35:37Speaker 3: It's a lot and they're kind of like little interruptions,
- 35:40Speaker 3: aren't they to take you kind of out of your
- 35:41Speaker 3: train of thought?
- 35:42Speaker 1: Thirteen people I text you today, I've just looked at
- 35:45Speaker 1: that's a good caral, But that doesn't mean I didn't
- 35:47Speaker 1: send more messages that they were just the people.
- 35:49Speaker 4: I'm sure there were back have been back and forth
- 35:51Speaker 4: and forth. So you're righting up around fifty or sixty
- 35:53Speaker 4: at the least there.
- 35:53Speaker 1: Oh, and both of those two people included you. Two
- 35:56Speaker 1: you'd think I'd seen you enough. I know, like, why
- 35:59Speaker 1: was I text you on the day?
- 36:01Speaker 4: So that is all we want to know, right, Just
- 36:02Speaker 4: go through your phone out see how many? How many
- 36:04Speaker 4: messages did you send yesterday? I mean, if the average
- 36:06Speaker 4: is seventy two and totally rerick, you might be up
- 36:08Speaker 4: around about fifty ish, maybe, is I reckon? I don't
- 36:12Speaker 4: even wait to below that.
- 36:12Speaker 1: I don't want to count my Messenger, DMS or my
- 36:16Speaker 1: Instagram totally.
- 36:17Speaker 3: I'm nine people plus that they would have been conversations.
- 36:20Speaker 4: So I come up around the easier. I'm about eighteen.
- 36:24Speaker 7: And what about what about messenger?
- 36:28Speaker 4: And I'm including all those as well. I was really
- 36:32Speaker 4: quiet day esterday, and I'm okay with.
- 36:33Speaker 7: That, oh day, If you need some more, don't, I'll
- 36:37Speaker 7: give you.
- 36:37Speaker 4: Some fifteen memes from me. Okay, all right, the other
- 36:42Speaker 4: three of my wife? Where are you? What did you get?
- 36:43Speaker 6: No?
- 36:44Speaker 4: One hundred double oh four coast we'll see. That's six
- 36:46Speaker 4: to us if you ought to see that tis to
- 36:47Speaker 4: two six nine. Nine tents have come through saying the
- 36:50Speaker 4: average person at the age of forty sins and receives
- 36:53Speaker 4: eighty five messages a day. When you add an all
- 36:56Speaker 4: of us over forty, that drops to seventy two. There'
- 36:58Speaker 4: still a lot of messages.
- 36:59Speaker 1: When you just seed messages specifically meaning text or do
- 37:02Speaker 1: you mean messages.
- 37:03Speaker 4: And miss all in general? That's it.
- 37:06Speaker 7: That's talied up. Like I have. I worked out thirteen people.
- 37:09Speaker 7: I think that I've been texting.
- 37:10Speaker 1: White text us today already this morning, I've text one, two, three.
- 37:16Speaker 7: Four people.
- 37:18Speaker 4: Have you really yep?
- 37:19Speaker 1: I've texted my physio Sam, I sent you some football information.
- 37:23Speaker 7: I've texted babysitter, and I've text my.
- 37:25Speaker 4: Husband that's outstanding.
- 37:27Speaker 7: Have you text this morning?
- 37:28Speaker 4: Zero? I've in no texts this morning?
- 37:31Speaker 7: Your text?
- 37:32Speaker 3: I text Daniel hopkirk of I text Tom Hipicomedia I've
- 37:37Speaker 3: text Tony Street about five times and.
- 37:40Speaker 7: Text me saying he's not going to be into the
- 37:41Speaker 7: Rugby clinic. Thanks.
- 37:42Speaker 4: Yeah, And I've texted my wife.
- 37:44Speaker 3: We've had a whole conversation about the Rugby clinic.
- 37:47Speaker 4: I've been busy.
- 37:48Speaker 7: You're just being focusing on your job.
- 37:51Speaker 4: You he's going through six nine nine, though about how
- 37:54Speaker 4: many text the messages they've been sitting through twenty six
- 37:56Speaker 4: and I'm on here saying ninety seven mainly to my parents' phones.
- 37:59Speaker 4: They got different phones obviously.
- 38:01Speaker 1: Wow, ninety seven. I reckon people, you are sending more
- 38:05Speaker 1: than you think. If you add up any message you've
- 38:07Speaker 1: sent to people on DMS, on Instagram, on your messenger,
- 38:10Speaker 1: on your WhatsApp and on your text.
- 38:11Speaker 4: Yeah, I thought he sent eighteen, got forty six back?
- 38:14Speaker 7: Oh, receiving hard?
- 38:18Speaker 4: Hello, haven't you seen yesterday?
- 38:20Speaker 6: I only seen six check messages, but I did check
- 38:24Speaker 6: my messenger and I've seen fourth from there, and you know,
- 38:26Speaker 6: I'm wheels on Facebook. I think I boarded some of
- 38:30Speaker 6: those as well, So I'm not sure if your candy, Yeah.
- 38:34Speaker 4: What are we talking about? Twenty to thirty on?
- 38:36Speaker 6: No, I wouldn't be the mere hearing this picto. So
- 38:41Speaker 6: I'm supposed to be resting.
- 38:43Speaker 4: Okay, okay, right.
- 38:44Speaker 7: Well it does it does depend on you know, how
- 38:46Speaker 7: busy you are in that day.
- 38:48Speaker 4: Doesn't it only eight in the morning as well?
- 38:49Speaker 1: Yeah, someone's just text after we shared that. We've been
- 38:54Speaker 1: texting about a rugby clinic. What's the rugby clinic? They
- 38:56Speaker 1: do skills in schools. Now you can sign up at
- 38:58Speaker 1: your primary school sports if.
- 39:00Speaker 7: You want to look it up.
- 39:01Speaker 1: I should have said that to the nation, not just
- 39:03Speaker 1: as Sam anyway.
- 39:06Speaker 4: Yeah, so the average looks like we're below the average
- 39:08Speaker 4: across New Zealand. But we need to stop because they
- 39:09Speaker 4: are little distractions. When you just start looking people in
- 39:11Speaker 4: the ice shase.
- 39:13Speaker 7: They wouldn't know about the rugby climates.
- 39:14Speaker 4: So you know, we need to talk about it. You're
- 39:17Speaker 4: dining trends again.
- 39:26Speaker 1: Sixty percent of people have admitted over the last twelve
- 39:30Speaker 1: months to dining alone at a sits down restaurant. If
- 39:34Speaker 1: you're in the younger age group of the Gen zs
- 39:36Speaker 1: slash millennials, that climbs to sixty eight percent.
- 39:39Speaker 7: People are choosing, choosing not just.
- 39:42Speaker 4: Because they have to, they're choosing to dinaloge I got
- 39:44Speaker 4: to say, is it like a work thing where you
- 39:45Speaker 4: just you away for works us on your own. But
- 39:47Speaker 4: other these people are choosing to do it.
- 39:48Speaker 7: They're choosing to do it. It's a thing. Have you
- 39:50Speaker 7: done it anyone? Two six nine nine on the text
- 39:52Speaker 7: in the last twelve.
- 39:53Speaker 4: Months, it's an interesting one for me. I don't like
- 39:55Speaker 4: my own company.
- 39:56Speaker 7: Yeah, I don't like it either, And also I will
- 40:06Speaker 7: do it if I'm forced to. But I think if
- 40:08Speaker 7: I was forced to eat alone, I wouldn't be going
- 40:10Speaker 7: to a restaurant.
- 40:11Speaker 4: I don't treat myself to find dining. If I'm going
- 40:14Speaker 4: alone alone a week, like.
- 40:16Speaker 7: A dirty max carry or something in my room.
- 40:18Speaker 4: You're on the same I'll be back in my room.
- 40:21Speaker 3: What do you do at the restaurant? But I'm doing
- 40:23Speaker 3: it express. I'm not sitting there like, all right, light
- 40:25Speaker 3: a candle, let's go.
- 40:29Speaker 4: I was at a nice restaurant and instead they put
- 40:31Speaker 4: you in the corner. And then it's awful because we
- 40:34Speaker 4: need this cheer anymore.
- 40:35Speaker 1: No, No, it comes up to the one remaining.
- 40:38Speaker 4: Ship when they say that Christian how many? So you're like,
- 40:42Speaker 4: it's just me, someone to join you.
- 40:46Speaker 1: No, you sit down solo and just keep looking around
- 40:50Speaker 1: as if someone's coming.
- 40:52Speaker 4: At some point, you have to really disappointedly they removed
- 40:56Speaker 4: the chairs.
- 40:59Speaker 7: Dinner by there.
- 41:01Speaker 4: That's huge that they're choosing to do this.
- 41:02Speaker 1: I think it's a sad indictment on ourselves if we
- 41:06Speaker 1: can't go and I am totally guilty of this, if
- 41:09Speaker 1: we can't go to a restaurant and feel comfortable sitting
- 41:11Speaker 1: there on our own. And I would like to challenge
- 41:13Speaker 1: that sixty eight percent and say you do that now
- 41:17Speaker 1: and give me your phone.
- 41:18Speaker 4: You do that.
- 41:19Speaker 7: Without your phone and least see how you go.
- 41:22Speaker 4: Maybe it's a different perspectives.
- 41:24Speaker 3: Maybe the younger generation don't feel like they're alone when
- 41:26Speaker 3: they've got their phone. You know, they're sitting there dining
- 41:28Speaker 3: with their friends.
- 41:29Speaker 7: Well that's what I'm saying, So you're not really alone.
- 41:31Speaker 7: So I reckon we should test this theory.
- 41:33Speaker 1: I think the three of us should individually have to
- 41:35Speaker 1: go to dinner and stay for at least an hour
- 41:38Speaker 1: with no fun.
- 41:41Speaker 4: I did a school pick ups yesterday and I leased
- 41:43Speaker 4: my phone on home and I got there a few
- 41:44Speaker 4: minutes earlier and went, hell do I do it? I
- 41:45Speaker 4: know what I would do, scrolling.
- 41:47Speaker 3: G masticated chew every piece of twenty six times.
- 41:51Speaker 1: I would be reading the menu over and over, I reckon,
- 41:55Speaker 1: can't decide still you order four minutes ago?
- 41:57Speaker 4: I still as well, I reckon.
- 41:58Speaker 1: I'd just be like, can you give me the drinks,
- 42:00Speaker 1: dessert and made menu? And then I just systematically go
- 42:03Speaker 1: to them all.
- 42:04Speaker 4: If you do that, I mean I speak people who
- 42:06Speaker 4: can do that. I couldn't. But if you are heavy
- 42:08Speaker 4: on your own skin and you can do that and
- 42:09Speaker 4: feel comfortable, that go you.
- 42:11Speaker 7: Yeah, And what do you do if you're not scrolling
- 42:13Speaker 7: your phone? What are you actually doing? Are you sitting
- 42:15Speaker 7: here meditating?
- 42:16Speaker 6: All? Like?
- 42:16Speaker 4: How does at work?
- 42:17Speaker 7: Because I'm really liked to know what this what's.
- 42:19Speaker 3: Wrong with the world as well as we can't just
- 42:20Speaker 3: sit there in the comfort of a restaurant anymore and
- 42:23Speaker 3: enjoy our food.
- 42:24Speaker 4: I know what I would do.
- 42:25Speaker 7: I would do without the conversation.
- 42:27Speaker 1: I would be seven wines deep after five minutes to.
- 42:31Speaker 4: Stumble out of the restaurant. She's good, guys, he's drinking
- 42:38Speaker 4: alone again.
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