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Almost Famous In Depth: Juan Pablo Galavis · The Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous Podcast

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  Speaker 1: This is Ben and Ashley I almost famous in Depth. Wow, guys,
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  Speaker 1: we have a very special mini in depth today because
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  Speaker 1: this person does not do a lot of interviews. He
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  Speaker 1: really just doesn't. Um. He's kind of been a ghost
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  Speaker 1: to the franchise over the past few years, but a
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  Speaker 1: name that we will always remember. Ladies and gentlemen, please
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  Speaker 1: welcome Juan Pablo Galves. Ah, yeah, thank you very much,
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  Speaker 1: thank you for inviting me. And uh, yeah, well, I
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  Speaker 1: guess that was a good intro. Well, let's let's address
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  Speaker 1: me honestly. That's a very honestly right there. Thank you. Well,
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  Speaker 1: let's address that that statement that I made. Then, why
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  Speaker 1: have you been so distant from the franchise since your season? Well,
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  Speaker 1: to be honest with you, it's it wasn't easy to
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  Speaker 1: just get out of the show when you know, I've
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  Speaker 1: explained to some people that when we me and Nikki
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  Speaker 1: and the show, and the next day we were in
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  Speaker 1: in Miami. We we flew to Miami. The first thing
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  Speaker 1: we saw was my mom and she was crying, you know,
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  Speaker 1: because of how they treated me on the show, or
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  Speaker 1: how they edited everything, you know, so uh and they
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  Speaker 1: edited her against me basically, and she felt she felt bad,
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  Speaker 1: and in my my position was like, I don't care
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  Speaker 1: if they edit me, but not my parents or my
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  Speaker 1: cousin or my brother or whatever, my my family. So
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  Speaker 1: that was one of the reasons, you know. Once I
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  Speaker 1: was out of the show, I was like, you know what,
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  Speaker 1: it's easy. And the other thing was like, Dancing with
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  Speaker 1: the Stars was calling me big time, and when we
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  Speaker 1: were on the finale, we were talking to Dancing with
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  Speaker 1: the Stars, and the the owner of the show didn't
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  Speaker 1: let me do Dancing with the Stars as well. So
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  Speaker 1: it was that kind of you know, I was like,
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  Speaker 1: you know what if if I did this show for
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  Speaker 1: you guys, and you're editing whatever you want to do,
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  Speaker 1: and you're editing your way, and I got u Look,
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  Speaker 1: I was made a villain because I was honest, because
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  Speaker 1: I didn't proposed to somebody that I knew forty hours
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  Speaker 1: and I've never proposed to anybody in my life at
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  Speaker 1: the time, and h and if being honest was a
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  Speaker 1: bad thing, I guess I wasn't good for the franchise,
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  Speaker 1: I guess, you know. So those are some of the
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  Speaker 1: situations that got me, you know what, I'm done with
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  Speaker 1: the show, and that's it. I'm good. In hindsight, were
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  Speaker 1: there any comments that you felt like you said out
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  Speaker 1: of honesty that didn't go the right way that you
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  Speaker 1: feel like probably shouldn't have said that. I could have
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  Speaker 1: kept it in my own head. You're not gonna be
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  Speaker 1: You're not gonna please everybody, So I'd rather be honest
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  Speaker 1: with you then not say something. If you're asking me question,
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  Speaker 1: you know, I cannot be like, oh, I won't go
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  Speaker 1: around or something like that. So in my head, I
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  Speaker 1: was like, I'm just gonna be myself. It's my it's
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  Speaker 1: my life. I have a daughter. I have to be
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  Speaker 1: as honest as I can. I have to be honest
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  Speaker 1: with the girls. I have to be honest with myself,
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  Speaker 1: and I have to be honest with the father or
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  Speaker 1: family of the girls, you know. And And one of
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  Speaker 1: the things that that stick into my head when I
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  Speaker 1: was in the hometowns was a Nikki's parents, you know,
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  Speaker 1: and and Nikki's dad when he said, if you proposed
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  Speaker 1: to my daughter, are you a sure you're gonna marry her?
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  Speaker 1: And I was honest to him, and I said, well,
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  Speaker 1: in the situation is hard. I have three other families
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  Speaker 1: that I visit or I have to visit. I remember
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  Speaker 1: at the time if I have visit them or not,
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  Speaker 1: but I said, you know, um that I'm a father.
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  Speaker 1: So when I heard those words and said, if you're
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  Speaker 1: proposed to my daughters because you're sure, then I was like,
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  Speaker 1: I cannot propose because I met this girl forty hours.
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  Speaker 1: I don't need to know in real life how she is.
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  Speaker 1: But I liked her. I like her a lot. You know,
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  Speaker 1: I like her a lot. That's how you know. It's
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  Speaker 1: funny because during the entire season I explain a lot,
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  Speaker 1: a lot of things. I explained, for example, that I
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  Speaker 1: love you. In America as used for anything. I love
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  Speaker 1: that dress, I love I love this, I love that,
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  Speaker 1: I love you use that way, and we have different
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  Speaker 1: words in Spanish that when you're dating or you're going
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  Speaker 1: out with, somebody's like I like you, I adore you.
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  Speaker 1: You don't use that. I'm like, hey, I adore you.
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  Speaker 1: You were like, what are you talking about? You know
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  Speaker 1: what kind of It's weird, you know, but in Spanish
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  Speaker 1: you say different. There's like levels and then at the
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  Speaker 1: end you say I love you. When you are in
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  Speaker 1: love and you you know the person that a lot
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  Speaker 1: you know, right, well, I feel like that kind of
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  Speaker 1: rolls over into when you had when you spoke about
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  Speaker 1: there being possibly a gay lead to the show and
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  Speaker 1: you use the word that you weren't that you backtracked
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  Speaker 1: on because you said, there is a cultural difference to this,
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  Speaker 1: there is a sort of a language barrier to this,
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  Speaker 1: where there are other times throughout the show that you
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  Speaker 1: felt like those barriers got in the way of the
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  Speaker 1: the fandom bonding with you. The gay situation was like
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  Speaker 1: I try to say, perver was not the word. It
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  Speaker 1: was like more affectionate and people in the house will
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  Speaker 1: fall in love with the people in the house. You know,
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  Speaker 1: I have family members, I have friends. I've been around
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  Speaker 1: gay people in my life. I have zero homophobic or anything,
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  Speaker 1: you know, because at the end of the the the
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  Speaker 1: person I love them, and it's just it's just I've
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  Speaker 1: been around for forever, you know, since I'm little. And yeah,
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  Speaker 1: there was two we're taken out of and I understand
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  Speaker 1: out of context, but I understand to make a buss
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  Speaker 1: out of it, whatever, you know. To me, it was,
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  Speaker 1: you know, it was funny because when I wake up
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  Speaker 1: that morning, it was seven in the morning in l A.
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  Speaker 1: And the first person I called. Was Ricky Martin's manager
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  Speaker 1: at the time. I said, Blue, No, what do I
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  Speaker 1: do now? You know what's going on? One no words,
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  Speaker 1: Let's just figure something out here because I know you
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  Speaker 1: and I know the words are not what you mean.
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  Speaker 1: So so that was the first guy. As soon as
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  Speaker 1: I saw everything, the first guy I called right away.
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  Speaker 1: And and it was tough for me. It was tough
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  Speaker 1: because I was taking taking the wrong way, but I
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  Speaker 1: understand why it was taking the wrong way. And in
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  Speaker 1: the show, Um, those explanations that I did that they
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  Speaker 1: were never shown, would have made everything better, you know,
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  Speaker 1: you know, and and it's just it was just part
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  Speaker 1: of it, you know. And I understand they have to
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  Speaker 1: do a show. They but in my head, I will
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  Speaker 1: always say it could have been better. It could have
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  Speaker 1: been a show. It could have been a good story.
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  Speaker 1: And I understand if I didn't propose, that's not what
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  Speaker 1: they wanted, you know, And I get it. And maybe
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  Speaker 1: band would not propose, or the other one wouldn't have proposed,
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  Speaker 1: and the next one would not propose, and and then
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  Speaker 1: it loses the the show. How do you say the
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  Speaker 1: final thing on the show, you know, like, oh, oh,
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  Speaker 1: he's got a propose basically the climax, the package, the
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  Speaker 1: full package of it. Yeah. Yeah, So, I mean you've
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  Speaker 1: been explaining this and like there was especially during your
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  Speaker 1: time in The Bachelor, felt like it was kind of
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  Speaker 1: one thing after another, uh, that either the show was
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  Speaker 1: frustrated with or that people just didn't understand. I mean
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  Speaker 1: during this moment for you personally, were you getting frustrated
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  Speaker 1: and like kind of how are you processing processing this
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  Speaker 1: personally as all as you're being misunderstood and as things
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  Speaker 1: just kept kind of like spiraling and you felt like
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  Speaker 1: you were kind of losing losing control of the public. Well,
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  Speaker 1: you know what, you've been there. You film first, and
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  Speaker 1: they treat you a certain way. You don't even know
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  Speaker 1: what's going on, you know, when you're filming. Everything was fine, Um,
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  Speaker 1: obviously there were some situations at the beginning. The first
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  Speaker 1: day that one of the first days was the dog.
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  Speaker 1: It was it was like adopted dog and we had
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  Speaker 1: to do photo shooting stuff. So just like thirteen girls
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  Speaker 1: and and I was fine and we were doing the
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  Speaker 1: photo shoot and everything was great, boomable or whatever, and
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  Speaker 1: it got a little uncomfortable situation with the girls that
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  Speaker 1: they the guy was like give him out to mouth
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  Speaker 1: to one give to the other one. And it was
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  Speaker 1: kind of you know, and like I said, I have
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  Speaker 1: a daughter at the time, and I still have it,
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  Speaker 1: but uh so it was it was a tough situation
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  Speaker 1: for me there. And I talked to the producer and
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  Speaker 1: I said, listen, I would love to talk to the
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  Speaker 1: four guys I talked the first day. I really want
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  Speaker 1: to talk to them because I'm I know in the
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  Speaker 1: situation I am. I know, you get uncomfortable sometimes, but
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  Speaker 1: there's there's a thin line that I will do or
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  Speaker 1: not because I have a daughter and that's the way
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  Speaker 1: it is. So when I met with them, um, I
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  Speaker 1: remember Mike flies telling me, we just want you to
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  Speaker 1: be you all right then then it's gonna be me,
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  Speaker 1: you know. And and that was not that was not
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  Speaker 1: good for him because when they will say, Juan, this
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  Speaker 1: is not what happened. But you know, they'll be like,
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  Speaker 1: why do you go naked? This didn't happen. But but
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  Speaker 1: let's say, for example, something like why do you go
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  Speaker 1: there naked and just do a flip or whatever and
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  Speaker 1: getting bed with a girl. And I said, no, that's
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  Speaker 1: not me. Why don't you shower and you don't. That's
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  Speaker 1: not me. So it got to a point that either
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  Speaker 1: you wanted me to act because I said you wanted
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  Speaker 1: me to act, I'm not an actor, or you want
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  Speaker 1: me to be me and he said, no, I want
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  Speaker 1: you to be you. Okay, fine, then then me it's
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  Speaker 1: gonna be and and there's certain things that I will
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  Speaker 1: I do for a show because that's not me. You know.
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  Speaker 1: Do you think that comparing yourself to the other leads
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  Speaker 1: who have had kids, like Jason Mesnick and Emily Maynard,
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  Speaker 1: you were less able to use Camilla, your daughter, as
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  Speaker 1: a reason for you not wanting to do something like
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  Speaker 1: For example, Emily was able to have the entire show
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  Speaker 1: taken to North Carolina. She was able to tell the
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  Speaker 1: guys before Fantasy Sweets that she wasn't going to have
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  Speaker 1: a sleepover because she wanted to be a good role
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  Speaker 1: model for her daughter. Do you think there's a double
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  Speaker 1: stand there there for you? Yeah, well, uh there. It's
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  Speaker 1: all depends on how you see it, because at the
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  Speaker 1: end of the day, Fantasy Suite is called Fantasy Sweets.
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  Speaker 1: Whatever you live there, it doesn't matter. You can talk
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  Speaker 1: all night, you can have sex, you can do whatever
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  Speaker 1: you want. You know. But at the end of the day,
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  Speaker 1: if you see it from a meeting or learning or
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  Speaker 1: about somebody, that that's the perfect time. Because you've got
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  Speaker 1: no cameras. You can talk about Hey, do you like
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  Speaker 1: to be gun? No, I don't talk about people. Then
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  Speaker 1: you'll be like, hey, what do you talk about? Something
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  Speaker 1: more interesting? Okay, then I guess I can. I have
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  Speaker 1: to figure out why don't you talk about her dad? Oh?
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  Speaker 1: How's your dad? Oh? He passed away two days ago. Ship,
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  Speaker 1: Now I understand, you know. So it was it was
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  Speaker 1: it was experience to me. And like I said, there's
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  Speaker 1: certain things like like she did that I will not
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  Speaker 1: do because I have a daughter. You know, the first fantasy,
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  Speaker 1: why don't you get in bed? It's not gonna happen.
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  Speaker 1: It's just not gonna happen, man, you know. And it's
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  Speaker 1: it's that pushy that they get you. Okay, say I
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  Speaker 1: love you, bro, I don't love her. Why what would
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  Speaker 1: you want me to say I love her? I don't
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  Speaker 1: love her. If I love her, I tell her. But
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  Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie to her just to to look.
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  Speaker 1: I guess good. When I just met this girl a
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  Speaker 1: month and a half ago, and I seen her ten times.
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  Speaker 1: You know, that's and it it's it's far of it.
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  Speaker 1: You know, from my experience in the Bachelor bubble, I
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  Speaker 1: feel like it creates feelings faster. I think a lot
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  Speaker 1: of people just kind of like get totally taken up
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  Speaker 1: with the experience. Do you feel like you didn't have
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  Speaker 1: so much of that effect and that's why you're able
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  Speaker 1: to stay a little bit more like true to reality.
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  Speaker 1: I don't want to call it reality because I do
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  Speaker 1: truly believe it's reality, but it's a different kind of
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  Speaker 1: form of it. Okay, were you a bachelorette or you
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  Speaker 1: were on the batch? Right, I was on the Bachelor.
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  Speaker 1: There you go, that's different. You know, you can ask
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  Speaker 1: maybe Ben, you know, you have seven, so you're like
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  Speaker 1: down this one or this one or this one. You
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  Speaker 1: don't so you are concentrate one guy and that's when
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  Speaker 1: you you know the bubble, you you you're right on point.
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  Speaker 1: The bubble gets you like, oh my gosh, this girl
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  Speaker 1: I like it, and the next day, oh my gosh,
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  Speaker 1: kind of like I'm kind of jealousy. You know that
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  Speaker 1: could happen because because it's one guy, but here you
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  Speaker 1: have many, so you're like you see through different things
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  Speaker 1: when you're when you're the lead guy or the lead girl,
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  Speaker 1: because you see what she likes. You know, I like
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  Speaker 1: some of the girls physically, you do attract to some
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  Speaker 1: of the girls first. But then with Nick, I was like, oh,
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  Speaker 1: I'm a nurse and I work with kids. And I
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  Speaker 1: was like, well, I like that. I really like that
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  Speaker 1: about her, and I have a daughter, so I'm put
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  Speaker 1: myself in the you know, wait on her. I'm like,
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  Speaker 1: I really like this girl. She likes kids. Tell me
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  Speaker 1: a story about this kid that guy, and she rescue
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  Speaker 1: and all that. And like you said, you're right on
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  Speaker 1: point on that the circumstances. Remember that you don't have phone,
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  Speaker 1: you have nothing. I had a phone. I was the
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  Speaker 1: first guy having a phone because I will call my
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  Speaker 1: daughter or any time I skied my daughter, FaceTime my
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  Speaker 1: daughter or whatever anytime. So I wasn't that disconnected as well.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, okay, so every time I talked to a
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  Speaker 1: bachelor since my time, I tell them one thing. I
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  Speaker 1: want to watch their authentic love story, whatever it is,
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  Speaker 1: if it's ridiculous, if it doesn't go well, whatever, I
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  Speaker 1: want to watch their authentic love story. You've spoken to
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  Speaker 1: that by saying it doesn't necessarily have to end an engagement,
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  Speaker 1: and I agree with you. And so if we can
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  Speaker 1: all watch that, and you know, we saw it with Colton,
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  Speaker 1: he didn't in an engagement. He didn't take the heat
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  Speaker 1: that you did. There has to be something on your
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  Speaker 1: season that really fired people up. And I would imagine
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  Speaker 1: maybe it's just because it's prevalent and it's in the
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  Speaker 1: news now. It was the moments with Claire, right, it
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  Speaker 1: was the confrontations with Claire. Where did that go wrong?
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  Speaker 1: Like in your opinion, now, if we just focus on that,
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  Speaker 1: like why was that the thing that was aired and
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  Speaker 1: made everybody so furious? I feel, you know what, I'm
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  Speaker 1: not sure if you said it when you were in
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  Speaker 1: when you have the three girls, you were like this
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  Speaker 1: is the one and e Lane, You're like like the
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  Speaker 1: rain because I like this girl. You know, I don't know,
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  Speaker 1: I never say anything. I didn't tell them, I didn't
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  Speaker 1: tell anybody what was who I was gonna pick because
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  Speaker 1: it got to a point. He got to a point
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  Speaker 1: that they were like trying and trying and I will
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  Speaker 1: do interviews and I will do confessionaires with Chris for
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  Speaker 1: like an hour and a half it's like, do you
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  Speaker 1: love her? Bro I'm not. I don't. So I got
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  Speaker 1: to a point that for them it was hard to
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  Speaker 1: get me say something that they wanted for the show.
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  Speaker 1: We Claire, to be honest with you. They they took
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  Speaker 1: their her reaction to rejection, which is natural because there
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  Speaker 1: was three girls and one's going to be the last
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  Speaker 1: one and two were going to be rejected, and it's
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  Speaker 1: just natural. And they took her reaction. They said, wow,
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  Speaker 1: that was great. Ley's just flip it around and it's
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  Speaker 1: just look the guy as bad as we can. She
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  Speaker 1: could have made up stuff. She was upset, and it's
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  Speaker 1: fine to me. I was like, you know what if
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  Speaker 1: if it was so bad that I say listen, I'm
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  Speaker 1: not gonna go with you, or that's part of the show,
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  Speaker 1: or should I just keep too you know? I don't know,
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  Speaker 1: you know. So so I was like, wow, it was interesting.
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  Speaker 1: We we did it and we know how it goes.
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  Speaker 1: She left and I was fine. They were oh, great,
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  Speaker 1: who's the girl? Whatever? They go that way, and then
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  Speaker 1: when you see the editing, you're like, really, Also, there's
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  Speaker 1: this part that they took right away, and I'm gonna
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  Speaker 1: be honest with I don't know how long I was
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  Speaker 1: from when I say goodbye to her too when I
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  Speaker 1: said it, you know, because she she responded at me,
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  Speaker 1: it's like, I never want my kids to have a
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  Speaker 1: father like you or whatever. And I don't know if
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  Speaker 1: you're a father or your father yet not yet when
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  Speaker 1: your dad, you know, or or your mom You're like, a,
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  Speaker 1: you're gonna tell me that, like, what did I do wrong?
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  Speaker 1: I just say that I didn't want it to you know,
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  Speaker 1: I have feelings for somebody else. So I said, I'm
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  Speaker 1: glad I didn't pick her right and dad was put
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  Speaker 1: right away like she turned around, But I'm glad in that.
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  Speaker 1: I every think it wasn't that way. She was gone
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  Speaker 1: and and I was sweating and you know, and then
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  Speaker 1: I was like, I didn't pick her, you know. But
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  Speaker 1: everything is filmed, So that's interesting. I think that a
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  Speaker 1: lot of people infer that what why she said that
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  Speaker 1: was because of what you said on the helicopter, correct,
• 17:43
  Speaker 1: So do you regret what you said on the helicopter,
• 17:47
  Speaker 1: To be honest with you, I don't. I don't recall that.
• 17:50
  Speaker 1: And that's why it made me think also as well
• 17:52
  Speaker 1: on why she said it, why she did it why
• 17:56
  Speaker 1: she you know, like, when when you're in that situation,
• 18:03
  Speaker 1: obviously I'm not gonna remember everything I said or whatever.
• 18:05
  Speaker 1: But I was like, I was surprised with that. I
• 18:08
  Speaker 1: was like, when did I say that? You know? But
• 18:11
  Speaker 1: if she says it, I'll just leave it out her.
• 18:14
  Speaker 1: I'm not gonna fight or I'm not gonna get into
• 18:16
  Speaker 1: the all you said I didn't say or whatever. And
• 18:19
  Speaker 1: she was upset, very upset because I rejected her. So
• 18:25
  Speaker 1: why can I tell you to me when I got rejected,
• 18:29
  Speaker 1: I didn't get upset and start saying whatever, it scared whatever.
• 18:32
  Speaker 1: I just didn't. But I felt like she took it
• 18:36
  Speaker 1: very personal and she didn't understand that that's part of it.
• 18:41
  Speaker 1: You know, so people are gonna go get rejected, so
• 18:44
  Speaker 1: people don't It's it's it's hard. I mean, your story
• 18:50
  Speaker 1: here is right, Like it's been years now, we've been
• 18:52
  Speaker 1: able to process through this um you're you know, you've
• 18:56
  Speaker 1: brought back up again because Claire was just the bad Clirett.
• 19:00
  Speaker 1: You're reliving these moments that you don't want to relive,
• 19:03
  Speaker 1: and I'm just wondering, like, was there anything inside of
• 19:06
  Speaker 1: you that wanted to defend yourself because it felt like,
• 19:12
  Speaker 1: in a sense, like there was no defense. You kind
• 19:14
  Speaker 1: of took it. You took it, you took it, you
• 19:15
  Speaker 1: keep taking it, and you took it again here when
• 19:18
  Speaker 1: Claire and I don't I mean, I can't say if
• 19:20
  Speaker 1: there's anything to defend yourself for, but your story now
• 19:23
  Speaker 1: is that hey, you know when you know this was
• 19:26
  Speaker 1: all kind of reaction to being Uh. Claire's reaction was
• 19:30
  Speaker 1: to being you know, rejected. Um, you didn't say things
• 19:33
  Speaker 1: in the timing that it was shown. So why don't
• 19:36
  Speaker 1: want to get your story out there? Why I didn't
• 19:39
  Speaker 1: want to get my story out there? I just you know,
• 19:42
  Speaker 1: it's I just left it like, you know, I'm just
• 19:45
  Speaker 1: gonna leave it what they wanted to say and and
• 19:48
  Speaker 1: and to me it was it was like why am
• 19:53
  Speaker 1: I gonna keep you know, they keep bringing me every
• 19:55
  Speaker 1: season for anything, they'll call me. They wanted me to
• 19:58
  Speaker 1: do bad you imperatives and be all alone Andy, And
• 20:00
  Speaker 1: I say no, that it's pointless. I'm not gonna do it.
• 20:04
  Speaker 1: How big is it checked? My flights? You know whatever,
• 20:08
  Speaker 1: I'm not gonna do it, you know. And uh, And
• 20:11
  Speaker 1: to my surprise, I was I was gonna go on
• 20:14
  Speaker 1: on Claire's season because I got called from the producers
• 20:18
  Speaker 1: and they say, you know one, Claire wants to make
• 20:21
  Speaker 1: peace with you, and I was like, okay, cool, I'm
• 20:23
  Speaker 1: fine with it. You know, I have nothing against anybody. Know.
• 20:27
  Speaker 1: She was upset six years ago, and I'm like, I
• 20:32
  Speaker 1: don't know why because she I say, it's not you
• 20:34
  Speaker 1: with the other girl. Um, and I say, well, okay,
• 20:39
  Speaker 1: we think about it, you know so, but then everything changed.
• 20:45
  Speaker 1: What happened? Why are you going because of jail? Because
• 20:49
  Speaker 1: of whatever happened, It's like, oh, she's gone now. It
• 20:52
  Speaker 1: was like, okay, good, all right, you were gonna go
• 20:55
  Speaker 1: on the show and quarantine. Well if if I if
• 21:01
  Speaker 1: I'm telling you this, and I don't even know if
• 21:03
  Speaker 1: she wanted for real or not to do this. It
• 21:06
  Speaker 1: could be a producer calling me be like, oh listen,
• 21:09
  Speaker 1: we can do this, and then I get there and
• 21:11
  Speaker 1: they'll be like, Claire, what are you doing here? I
• 21:14
  Speaker 1: hate you? I don't know. I had no idea, but
• 21:17
  Speaker 1: I thought about it and I say, I have nothing.
• 21:21
  Speaker 1: I have nothing against her. I don't know why she
• 21:24
  Speaker 1: could have something against me because I did what you're
• 21:27
  Speaker 1: supposed to do on the show. Two eliminate girls till
• 21:32
  Speaker 1: you get one, and she was the second to last
• 21:35
  Speaker 1: I mean the second to last one. So if every
• 21:39
  Speaker 1: person that got rejected before somebody gets picked, that the
• 21:43
  Speaker 1: top the top three gets piste off, then I guess
• 21:47
  Speaker 1: you're not understanding that you that's that could happen to you.
• 21:52
  Speaker 1: I was under the insuption and I'm I'm now being
• 21:55
  Speaker 1: proven wrong that production just kind of wrote you off.
• 21:59
  Speaker 1: They want you to come back, and that's why we
• 22:01
  Speaker 1: haven't seen you on our TV. But apparently you say
• 22:04
  Speaker 1: that they've asked you to Paradise and Winter Games. At
• 22:07
  Speaker 1: the at the end of the day, remember something they want, ratings,
• 22:11
  Speaker 1: they want I don't know, drama, whatever. If I go
• 22:16
  Speaker 1: there what I don't even know what they will do.
• 22:18
  Speaker 1: But obviously, in the case of me going there, if
• 22:22
  Speaker 1: I would have got there and be like hi, Claire
• 22:24
  Speaker 1: and she'd be like, oh, this is it, you know,
• 22:26
  Speaker 1: I would have just say, you know what, I didn't
• 22:28
  Speaker 1: come for this. I turned around, didn't, I don't say
• 22:30
  Speaker 1: a word, and I leave, So they will not use
• 22:33
  Speaker 1: whatever they could. I have no idea, you know, all
• 22:35
  Speaker 1: those things came to my head. It's like, how if
• 22:38
  Speaker 1: I go there and then Claire is like, what are
• 22:41
  Speaker 1: you doing here? It's like, well, the production told me
• 22:44
  Speaker 1: that you wanted to make peace with me, and I'm
• 22:46
  Speaker 1: in peace with you since since that day. I have
• 22:49
  Speaker 1: nothing against you, you know, so I have nothing against anybody,
• 22:54
  Speaker 1: any contests or anything, because that's part of it. You know.
• 22:57
  Speaker 1: I've never seen the show. I've seen my two seasons
• 22:59
  Speaker 1: and that's it. I've never seen anybody show zero. I
• 23:02
  Speaker 1: don't see one episode none, because I know I'd rather
• 23:08
  Speaker 1: know the person for who they are. You know, I
• 23:11
  Speaker 1: don't know which season where you actually and Ben, I
• 23:14
  Speaker 1: know you're wearing something. I don't know if it was
• 23:16
  Speaker 1: tooled after me or whatever, but uh, but I'd rather
• 23:20
  Speaker 1: meet the person and no judge them by what you
• 23:24
  Speaker 1: only see on TV. You know. Well, but I mean,
• 23:27
  Speaker 1: you know, the one thing that's interesting it was it
• 23:29
  Speaker 1: was sitting in an email to us as you're prepping
• 23:31
  Speaker 1: for this, was you know you you want to make
• 23:34
  Speaker 1: peace with Claire. I don't know. I don't know why
• 23:36
  Speaker 1: you wouldn't, right, It doesn't do you any benefit in
• 23:38
  Speaker 1: life not to However, as your season did air, you
• 23:41
  Speaker 1: didn't watch it, but you like to tweet that got
• 23:44
  Speaker 1: a lot of press. Uh, and that's why I was
• 23:45
  Speaker 1: sent in. I think that said you dodged a bullet
• 23:49
  Speaker 1: by dumping Claire. Uh. If there's peace wanting to be
• 23:53
  Speaker 1: given to her and this is a reconciliation, why like
• 23:55
  Speaker 1: that tweet? Why not? I feel like because it doesn't
• 24:01
  Speaker 1: necessarily put like it doesn't help the relationship. I feel
• 24:05
  Speaker 1: like when you see you know, when you see all this,
• 24:07
  Speaker 1: when you're getting hammer every year, all right, you're like,
• 24:13
  Speaker 1: somebody just say something. You're like, I'm just gonna like.
• 24:15
  Speaker 1: It's not like, oh I'm terrible. Yes, I don't, I
• 24:20
  Speaker 1: don't mind. You know, I have nothing against her at
• 24:22
  Speaker 1: the end of the day, you know, I have zero.
• 24:25
  Speaker 1: And since since I left, I have nothing against her.
• 24:29
  Speaker 1: I can talk to any girl. I can talk to her.
• 24:32
  Speaker 1: It's fine with me. But every time I will make
• 24:36
  Speaker 1: a comment or something, it will just go fire whatever.
• 24:42
  Speaker 1: You know, so you are go ahead, and I don't
• 24:46
  Speaker 1: even know. The other thing is I don't even know
• 24:48
  Speaker 1: if it's her, if it's production telling her. So it
• 24:53
  Speaker 1: got to a point that you don't even know what's
• 24:54
  Speaker 1: going on. Like to my surprise, when I I don't
• 24:59
  Speaker 1: even know the contestants, and all of a sudden, I
• 25:01
  Speaker 1: got you know, I made a tweet that it was like, wow,
• 25:04
  Speaker 1: I'm surprised that the contestants are so young. It's gonna
• 25:08
  Speaker 1: be an interesting toe so because they're so young for her,
• 25:11
  Speaker 1: which I have nothing against that, but if you if
• 25:16
  Speaker 1: I was Claire and I'm thirty nine and I'm on
• 25:19
  Speaker 1: the show, just bring me. I guess ten forty year
• 25:23
  Speaker 1: old men at least, you know, and I have nothing.
• 25:27
  Speaker 1: I guess being young twenty three or thirty or whatever,
• 25:29
  Speaker 1: it doesn't matter, but it it's just how we should be.
• 25:33
  Speaker 1: I think, you know, if I'm now thirty, I'm thirty nine.
• 25:38
  Speaker 1: If I want to do this show, I don't want
• 25:40
  Speaker 1: twenty year old girls. I want to maybe thirty two,
• 25:44
  Speaker 1: thirty three. I don't know, but you think that that
• 25:46
  Speaker 1: was what maybe Claire wanted. I don't know. Uh, you
• 25:53
  Speaker 1: are such an honest guy, So I want to ask you.
• 25:55
  Speaker 1: When Claire was announced as the bachelor, at did a
• 25:58
  Speaker 1: little part of you go, oh, alright, I'm on again?
• 26:04
  Speaker 1: I said it. I'm like, all right, wow, I can
• 26:10
  Speaker 1: feel I can. I felt the promo right away like
• 26:14
  Speaker 1: it was just gonna be wh Why you know, but
• 26:18
  Speaker 1: it's part of it. They need to do a show
• 26:20
  Speaker 1: and they need to sail, and it is what it is. Well, uh,
• 26:23
  Speaker 1: let's take a break here for just one second. We
• 26:25
  Speaker 1: come back. We're gonna catch up on your life now.
• 26:27
  Speaker 1: I know. We just have a few more minutes with
• 26:29
  Speaker 1: you here. You want to hear what's going on in alright, one.
• 26:41
  Speaker 1: So we've talked about the show. We've broken down your
• 26:44
  Speaker 1: your uh, your relationship with the show kind of what
• 26:47
  Speaker 1: happened during it. But obviously life moves on. You're not
• 26:50
  Speaker 1: thirty nine years old. It's uh, are you back to
• 26:54
  Speaker 1: dating again? I know you've been in the headlines off
• 26:57
  Speaker 1: and on here recently for your romantic relationships. Well, going on,
• 27:01
  Speaker 1: I'm good man, I'm happy. Is that all I get?
• 27:07
  Speaker 1: I'm good, you know what. I'm focusing on family, my daughter, work,
• 27:14
  Speaker 1: you know, and and maybe somebody around you know, maybe
• 27:18
  Speaker 1: or maybe there's someone around. Um you um were married
• 27:23
  Speaker 1: to a former Miss Venezuela for two years. Do you
• 27:26
  Speaker 1: mind opening up a little bit about why you guys
• 27:29
  Speaker 1: are along or together? It was just we were different,
• 27:33
  Speaker 1: you know, we lost the baby and I think that
• 27:36
  Speaker 1: was so sorry. Yeah, that was kind of when we
• 27:39
  Speaker 1: lost it, every everybody, you know, took the way apart.
• 27:44
  Speaker 1: Everybody was like she obviously she was affected and I
• 27:47
  Speaker 1: was affected, and she wanted to do other things. And
• 27:50
  Speaker 1: then she thought they wanted to have a baby, and
• 27:52
  Speaker 1: I wanted to have a baby. So you know, it
• 27:55
  Speaker 1: was like me, it's it's pointless to keep trying or
• 28:00
  Speaker 1: or or me waiting at because I didn't know either,
• 28:02
  Speaker 1: you know, and she didn't know when she wanted to
• 28:06
  Speaker 1: have one or not. So I was like, you know what,
• 28:08
  Speaker 1: it's just just call it over and and and we're fine.
• 28:14
  Speaker 1: And you know, it was it was just it was
• 28:16
  Speaker 1: just those kind of things that when when you're in
• 28:20
  Speaker 1: life and there's some situation that happened to you, it
• 28:24
  Speaker 1: makes you think right away and and and make decisions.
• 28:27
  Speaker 1: You know. Six years ago one of my favorite cousins
• 28:30
  Speaker 1: passed away, So I changed my way of living since
• 28:33
  Speaker 1: that day. It was it was my daughter's got gulfoted.
• 28:35
  Speaker 1: So since that day, I was like, yeah, you know what, Um,
• 28:39
  Speaker 1: I'm not gonna say never, but I will almost never
• 28:42
  Speaker 1: jump on a bike and I have not jumped on
• 28:44
  Speaker 1: a bike kei years. So and I will live to
• 28:48
  Speaker 1: the fullest because I'm here today and then tomorrow I
• 28:50
  Speaker 1: might not be here, and I enjoy it with my
• 28:52
  Speaker 1: daughter as much as I can, with my family as
• 28:54
  Speaker 1: much as I can. So it's that well, taking the
• 28:58
  Speaker 1: bike analogy, then, just to be clear, do you want
• 29:01
  Speaker 1: a relationship? Are you interest? You do? And that's one
• 29:07
  Speaker 1: of the reasons, you know, at the end of the day,
• 29:08
  Speaker 1: it was like, I want to have kids. You don't
• 29:10
  Speaker 1: want to have kids, Okay, let me find somebody to
• 29:14
  Speaker 1: have kids. I'm not I'm not in a I'm not
• 29:17
  Speaker 1: in a rush. But if I would have lived with
• 29:20
  Speaker 1: somebody and it's like, oh, I don't want to have
• 29:22
  Speaker 1: kids in five years, then I'm gonna be like, wow,
• 29:24
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna be forty five changing diapers. Maybe that's not
• 29:27
  Speaker 1: what I want. Let me find somebody. If it happens, happens,
• 29:31
  Speaker 1: and I have kids as soon as I can. How
• 29:35
  Speaker 1: is Camila these days? How old is she? Ya? She's
• 29:39
  Speaker 1: gonna turn twelve in twelve days. She looks so mature.
• 29:42
  Speaker 1: She looks like a teenager. She looks like she's fifteen, sixteen,
• 29:47
  Speaker 1: she feels like she's seventeen, but she's only twelve. So
• 29:52
  Speaker 1: it's she's gonna be twelves. It's funny because she's just Wow.
• 29:58
  Speaker 1: It's crazy to to deal with her teenage. She feels
• 30:01
  Speaker 1: like she's a teenager. She's gonna be only twelve. But Dad,
• 30:04
  Speaker 1: I'm I'm big. But now she does little and when
• 30:07
  Speaker 1: you see her you feel like you can trigger like
• 30:10
  Speaker 1: she's fifteen, but she's not. So but it's fun Does
• 30:14
  Speaker 1: she want to watch your season at the Bachelor at all?
• 30:18
  Speaker 1: You know, she told my dad you need to be
• 30:20
  Speaker 1: on the Bachelor again. You know, like why because I
• 30:23
  Speaker 1: want you to be famous, because I want to meet
• 30:24
  Speaker 1: Ariana granted, because she just this kind of stuff And
• 30:28
  Speaker 1: it's just funny to me. You know, I wanted you
• 30:31
  Speaker 1: to meet at Dad, Why don't you married Ariana? It's like,
• 30:36
  Speaker 1: you give her, you give her a word, now you
• 30:38
  Speaker 1: can marry her. You know she's a fan, big fan
• 30:41
  Speaker 1: of that. So it's funny. That's uh, okay, So weird
• 30:45
  Speaker 1: question for you as you close up. Your daughter is
• 30:48
  Speaker 1: twelve years old, so this is awkward at every level.
• 30:51
  Speaker 1: But one day she comes to even says, Dad, I
• 30:53
  Speaker 1: want to go on the Bachelor because I want to
• 30:55
  Speaker 1: meet Ariana Grande. What would you say? Well, I will
• 31:00
  Speaker 1: tell her, you know, and I have. I've asked that
• 31:03
  Speaker 1: this question before, and I say, you can go. Just
• 31:06
  Speaker 1: be yourself, don't do anything you don't want, be careful
• 31:10
  Speaker 1: what you say, it could be used against you, and
• 31:14
  Speaker 1: just have a good time. I didn't have a bad time,
• 31:17
  Speaker 1: Like I said that, I enjoyed both the Bacheloretta and
• 31:20
  Speaker 1: the Bachelor. I had a great time with the guys
• 31:22
  Speaker 1: in the house and cocaine and go into Germany and
• 31:25
  Speaker 1: then Barcelona, and you have a good time, you know,
• 31:29
  Speaker 1: and you ask you you probably know how fun it
• 31:32
  Speaker 1: had a great time on the bachel Yeah, on the
• 31:35
  Speaker 1: on the Bachelor, Red, if you go with the mind
• 31:39
  Speaker 1: that you're gonna compete, you're out. You're done. You're not competing.
• 31:43
  Speaker 1: It's not a competition. You're not competing to win the
• 31:46
  Speaker 1: girl's heart. No, you just gotta be yourself. If she
• 31:48
  Speaker 1: likes you, good, If she doesn't, or have feelings for
• 31:52
  Speaker 1: somebody else, well it is what it is. So in
• 31:55
  Speaker 1: the case of Camilla saying you can go, you have
• 31:58
  Speaker 1: a good time, um, you know what could happen. At
• 32:03
  Speaker 1: least now I can tell her, you know what could happen.
• 32:06
  Speaker 1: You could be um portray certain way. You have to
• 32:10
  Speaker 1: see what you do. Don't drink that much because they'll
• 32:13
  Speaker 1: make you drink and you will never talk to the
• 32:14
  Speaker 1: guy until you're really drunk, and they will talk to
• 32:17
  Speaker 1: make you talk to the guy and make that happen. No,
• 32:20
  Speaker 1: there's a two drink per hour limit where on The
• 32:23
  Speaker 1: Bachelor no more drinking? Wow, is a new rule. It's
• 32:28
  Speaker 1: It's started in two thousand seventeen, so boring. Now they're
• 32:33
  Speaker 1: still finding ways to finding ways. I'm sorry I have
• 32:38
  Speaker 1: to ask what you thought when I can make people
• 32:41
  Speaker 1: wait because I'm liking talking to you. You're so sweet. Okay. Well,
• 32:46
  Speaker 1: with Claren Dale breaking up, you made a statement, you
• 32:49
  Speaker 1: said that you just want her to be happy. Were
• 32:52
  Speaker 1: you surprised that they were? You surprised that they broke up? Um?
• 32:56
  Speaker 1: What what do you think was the issue there? You know,
• 33:01
  Speaker 1: you know the issues when you're in the same room,
• 33:03
  Speaker 1: in the same house. You don't even know what could happen.
• 33:06
  Speaker 1: You know, you go on a show trying to meet
• 33:13
  Speaker 1: somebody and then to get to know her better, you know,
• 33:18
  Speaker 1: and and in sleep with her and eat with her.
• 33:21
  Speaker 1: I don't even you don't even know how I don't
• 33:24
  Speaker 1: even know if I go to the show with you,
• 33:25
  Speaker 1: I don't even know. How do you hold it forks
• 33:30
  Speaker 1: like this or if you do? You know, it's just
• 33:33
  Speaker 1: it's just simple things. But but maybe it was too rush,
• 33:38
  Speaker 1: you know, she like, I don't know. I guess they
• 33:42
  Speaker 1: were talking before this show. I don't even know, you
• 33:45
  Speaker 1: know what happened. But at the end of the day,
• 33:48
  Speaker 1: I know she wants to be a mom. We we
• 33:51
  Speaker 1: talked about it, you know, and I don't know if
• 33:53
  Speaker 1: she does now, but but I would just want her
• 33:56
  Speaker 1: to be happy. She's been every year trying and trying,
• 34:02
  Speaker 1: and I feel like if she stops trying that way
• 34:06
  Speaker 1: and she just let it be, it just it's just
• 34:09
  Speaker 1: gonna happen. Sooner or later, we'll happen. Do you think
• 34:12
  Speaker 1: that she she's going for the wrong kind of guys?
• 34:17
  Speaker 1: How do you know what's the wrong kind of guy?
• 34:20
  Speaker 1: Are you dating? Somebody asked me, I'm married married? Where
• 34:25
  Speaker 1: was it? Did you marry in this show? I did?
• 34:29
  Speaker 1: I met Jared on The Bachelor, Yes, but how do
• 34:33
  Speaker 1: you know it was the right guy? I'll tell you this,
• 34:38
  Speaker 1: I very much felt like it was love at first night,
• 34:40
  Speaker 1: but we were kind of a bachelor exception because we
• 34:45
  Speaker 1: didn't really get together until after like a year at
• 34:49
  Speaker 1: two and a half years, until after we first met
• 34:52
  Speaker 1: on the show. And while like I was totally into
• 34:55
  Speaker 1: him the entire time, Um, we just it was our
• 34:58
  Speaker 1: friendship that has made us so strong and everything since
• 35:03
  Speaker 1: has been so easy. That's when you realize because you
• 35:09
  Speaker 1: didn't even you were not even picked, right. Yeah, So
• 35:14
  Speaker 1: it was a conversation. It was in the show. He
• 35:17
  Speaker 1: didn't pick you, you see, that's a that's a great example.
• 35:22
  Speaker 1: He didn't pick tore he married you because what oh
• 35:26
  Speaker 1: he didn't pick you then, but then he got to
• 35:28
  Speaker 1: know you for real, not ten minutes talk about interesting things.
• 35:35
  Speaker 1: I will. I will admit that with the other relationship
• 35:38
  Speaker 1: that I met on the show, it was a real
• 35:41
  Speaker 1: turning point to me when we did spend time together
• 35:45
  Speaker 1: in real life where I was like, oh, I'm starting
• 35:48
  Speaker 1: to feel like this is not right, but the bubble
• 35:52
  Speaker 1: made it feel pretty good. Yeah it is, it is
• 35:56
  Speaker 1: not you know, I feel like, um, she she will
• 36:02
  Speaker 1: find somebody, somebody, will you know, and she'll be like, oh,
• 36:05
  Speaker 1: that's the guy, and the guy will pay it's you,
• 36:08
  Speaker 1: and they'll get to know each other for real, more
• 36:13
  Speaker 1: time than just the bubble, the good old bubble man. Well, uh,
• 36:18
  Speaker 1: we really appreciate you sitting down and talking to us
• 36:21
  Speaker 1: and sharing your insights, uh into your whole season. Uh.
• 36:26
  Speaker 1: You know, it feels like, honestly, and I could be wrong,
• 36:30
  Speaker 1: it doesn't feel like this happens very often where you
• 36:32
  Speaker 1: get to sit down and share uh your bachelor's story, good,
• 36:37
  Speaker 1: bad and different whatever. But it just doesn't. It doesn't happen.
• 36:40
  Speaker 1: We haven't heard it, and we get small snippets and
• 36:43
  Speaker 1: I see you in the headlines for the tweets that
• 36:45
  Speaker 1: you like and the tweets that you put off, but
• 36:47
  Speaker 1: there's no explanation behind him. So we really appreciate you
• 36:49
  Speaker 1: sitting down and explaining with us and hanging out with us,
• 36:52
  Speaker 1: um and talking to us for as long as you have, Uh,
• 36:56
  Speaker 1: Juan Pablo thinks for being a guest on the Almost
• 36:58
  Speaker 1: Famous in Death podcast, it's a big deal for us.
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  Speaker 1: Thank you, guys. I really appreciate it, you know. And uh,
• 37:04
  Speaker 1: well we'll see we'll talk some other time. And now
• 37:07
  Speaker 1: you get away more about the story. And actually, now,
• 37:10
  Speaker 1: actually you know that I wasn't hiding just just because
• 37:14
  Speaker 1: I wanted to behind him. You just didn't want to
• 37:16
  Speaker 1: do us. You picked us to do the interview with,
• 37:19
  Speaker 1: so sweet one, Pablo. I want to end by saying
• 37:24
  Speaker 1: that I think you should go back on and get
• 37:28
  Speaker 1: Camilla to meet Ariana Grande because you may have been
• 37:31
  Speaker 1: one of the most divisive characters of all Bachelor time,
• 37:35
  Speaker 1: but you can be very entertaining and you have been
• 37:38
  Speaker 1: during this half an hour. So thank you. One last
• 37:41
  Speaker 1: to close out here, Uh Matt James, our current Bachelor.
• 37:45
  Speaker 1: Uh what advice? Uh do you want to give Matt
• 37:49
  Speaker 1: James as he continues, so already filmed, but as he
• 37:52
  Speaker 1: continues through the process, what well, if it's already film
• 37:56
  Speaker 1: we cannot give him advice on the show. The only
• 37:58
  Speaker 1: advice I could give it was just watch it, figure
• 38:02
  Speaker 1: out what is edited and whatnot, why you like or whatnot,
• 38:05
  Speaker 1: and just just be honest. Man. At the end of
• 38:10
  Speaker 1: the day, they don't I'm not sure if they like honesty.
• 38:16
  Speaker 1: I don't. They want you to play the game, and
• 38:19
  Speaker 1: you know that. Um, I wasn't able to do it.
• 38:23
  Speaker 1: People tell me, why do you do this or whatever,
• 38:25
  Speaker 1: because I just can't. It's just something inside of me
• 38:28
  Speaker 1: that I can't just people say, oh, man, you shouldn't
• 38:31
  Speaker 1: say I love her, give her the ring or whatever. Yeah.
• 38:34
  Speaker 1: I could have done all that, but that's my values
• 38:39
  Speaker 1: and how it was brought up. It was, you know,
• 38:41
  Speaker 1: I kind of just like to somebody on her face
• 38:44
  Speaker 1: or national television to please somebody, when when I feel
• 38:47
  Speaker 1: like it's more important to respect the father who tells
• 38:53
  Speaker 1: you something like are you gonna be sure if you
• 38:57
  Speaker 1: propose to my daughter and you're like, damn, I'm a
• 38:59
  Speaker 1: fun I need to be sure, I guess because I
• 39:03
  Speaker 1: want my daughter when she gets proposed. I want the
• 39:07
  Speaker 1: guy to be sure. I don't want it to be
• 39:09
  Speaker 1: you know. So, Uh, those are the things that as
• 39:13
  Speaker 1: a father you see it from a different If I
• 39:16
  Speaker 1: wasn't a father at the time, whoa I would have
• 39:19
  Speaker 1: been probably going crazy and do crazy things. I don't know.
• 39:22
  Speaker 1: But your life changes when you carry a baby. Man,
• 39:25
  Speaker 1: that's gonna be interesting. And I hope I can talk
• 39:28
  Speaker 1: to you guys when your father's and then you're like one,
• 39:31
  Speaker 1: Now I get you, you know a little bit. I
• 39:34
  Speaker 1: have no doubt. Man. Well, on every in depth episode
• 39:37
  Speaker 1: we end in a fun way because they oftentimes do
• 39:39
  Speaker 1: get uh personal Ashley creates a few questions. This takes
• 39:43
  Speaker 1: two minutes, and so we're gonna ask for two more
• 39:45
  Speaker 1: minutes of your time. She she hasked a few questions,
• 39:48
  Speaker 1: uh asked, answer them in as short way as possible,
• 39:52
  Speaker 1: and then we'll close out of here all together in
• 39:54
  Speaker 1: the way that we always do on Almost Face podcast. Ashley,
• 39:57
  Speaker 1: it's your time to shine, it's your seat to take.
• 40:00
  Speaker 1: Get over it ste it one. Pablo, who is your
• 40:02
  Speaker 1: celebrity crush mighty gloom? Okay, who's Camilla's a celebrity crush?
• 40:08
  Speaker 1: She likes? She likes? Who was she saying, she likes
• 40:14
  Speaker 1: all these influencer guys. I don't know some some with
• 40:17
  Speaker 1: the hair like that. I don't even know how you.
• 40:19
  Speaker 1: I don't even know the names ashing or I don't
• 40:22
  Speaker 1: even know. There's a bunch of little kids there. They're
• 40:25
  Speaker 1: TikTok guys. They have they have their hair like puffy
• 40:29
  Speaker 1: like here, you know, like like that. It's hilarious. I understand.
• 40:36
  Speaker 1: Was my celebrity crush all my life, you know, and
• 40:41
  Speaker 1: I have other ones they're younger. So she was a
• 40:44
  Speaker 1: consistent it's kind of like by Leonardo di Caprio. Okay, um,
• 40:49
  Speaker 1: what is a Venezuelan cuisine that everyone should try. They
• 40:54
  Speaker 1: gave you what's that? It's like almost realistic. It's a
• 40:58
  Speaker 1: is a cheese stick that's no no American ever or
• 41:04
  Speaker 1: friend from anywhere. I've gave him one. They're like, damn,
• 41:08
  Speaker 1: what is this? So when you come to Miami, I
• 41:10
  Speaker 1: take you guys to eat tack engines. Okay, sounds good. Um.
• 41:14
  Speaker 1: What is your favorite movie? Uh? Son of the Bride
• 41:22
  Speaker 1: and Argentineum, the Son of the Bride yep, okay. What
• 41:27
  Speaker 1: was your best memory on The Bachelorrette on des this season?
• 41:33
  Speaker 1: Like off camera moments moment or on camera either way?
• 41:41
  Speaker 1: You know, I like, I like our our rodeo thing,
• 41:46
  Speaker 1: like what we did stunts that was fun. To be
• 41:49
  Speaker 1: honest with you, we did it was that the movie
• 41:53
  Speaker 1: when someone like you, how do you call that movie?
• 41:57
  Speaker 1: I forgot how your saper way? Um? It was a ranger,
• 42:04
  Speaker 1: that's the one that That was one stunt that we learned.
• 42:07
  Speaker 1: Bunch of stuff. I read a horse that was funny.
• 42:10
  Speaker 1: So there was a producer on the show. His name
• 42:13
  Speaker 1: is Adam and you called him Banana one day and
• 42:18
  Speaker 1: this you don't remember this? Oh my god? The producers
• 42:22
  Speaker 1: a parent yes, and the producers cracked up and they
• 42:25
  Speaker 1: called him Banana for the rest of his time there.
• 42:28
  Speaker 1: Can you share the story behind it. I don't remember
• 42:33
  Speaker 1: why I said it, but those were the three amigos,
• 42:36
  Speaker 1: you know, Me, Peter, Guys Banana. It was just the
• 42:41
  Speaker 1: three of us at all time, you know, like you
• 42:44
  Speaker 1: got to a point. It was funny because the three
• 42:46
  Speaker 1: of us, uh like like they gut. We were like family,
• 42:53
  Speaker 1: you know, and they understand me because they did the introduce.
• 42:57
  Speaker 1: They understand me hinder percent. And I explained in it,
• 43:00
  Speaker 1: and they were asking me the questions and do you
• 43:02
  Speaker 1: love or no? So you like her a lot? You
• 43:05
  Speaker 1: I adore her? Or you see, there's there's this word
• 43:08
  Speaker 1: minganta when when something mncantas like when oh I love
• 43:12
  Speaker 1: this dress, you know, and and and then McDonald's I
• 43:16
  Speaker 1: don't know if they're paying for this bleeve. There's a
• 43:19
  Speaker 1: slug and school I'm loving it in Spanish, just minganta.
• 43:24
  Speaker 1: When when something me incanta is that you really love
• 43:29
  Speaker 1: that like woof, like a food, or or that girl minganta.
• 43:34
  Speaker 1: You don't say I love her, but she's just powerful,
• 43:38
  Speaker 1: like okay. So I explained that, and and for them
• 43:41
  Speaker 1: it was that, you know, and I got to a point.
• 43:45
  Speaker 1: What it was a turning point when I heard when
• 43:47
  Speaker 1: they were trying to make me say something, and I
• 43:50
  Speaker 1: remember Peter going like this, you know, like listening to
• 43:54
  Speaker 1: the radio. And then he just looked at me and
• 43:59
  Speaker 1: instead of set telling me what how to do or say,
• 44:03
  Speaker 1: he said, um, it's not gonna happen. When I show him.
• 44:07
  Speaker 1: That was like, bro, this guy really knows me, like
• 44:11
  Speaker 1: he knew he knew I wasn't gonna do whatever they
• 44:13
  Speaker 1: were telling me to do. So so but those Adamant
• 44:17
  Speaker 1: and Peter there my business for life. We love them
• 44:21
  Speaker 1: very much. Such sweethearts. But you don't remember the banana story.
• 44:25
  Speaker 1: Oh well, okay, fine, I'm gonna have one last crazy
• 44:28
  Speaker 1: question because my friend once asked this to a guy
• 44:32
  Speaker 1: that she liked, and she thought it was the most
• 44:34
  Speaker 1: embarrassing question. But I think that it can tell a
• 44:37
  Speaker 1: lot about someone. What is your favorite doughnut? Um bustom cream? Okay? Great? Right,
• 44:47
  Speaker 1: Well one, we we end every in depth, every almost
• 44:49
  Speaker 1: famous podcast in the same way. Uh follow our lead,
• 44:53
  Speaker 1: just say exactly what we say, except use your name
• 44:56
  Speaker 1: in the middle. Well, this has been in almost famous
• 44:58
  Speaker 1: in depth with Juan Pablo, who was a bachelor on
• 45:03
  Speaker 1: the Bachelor. UH. He spent time with us today talking
• 45:06
  Speaker 1: about his story, what he's up to today, and also
• 45:08
  Speaker 1: his relationship with Claire. UH. With all this being said,
• 45:12
  Speaker 1: we'll be back next week. UH In every week following
• 45:14
  Speaker 1: this has been been I've been Ashley y. There we go.
• 45:21
  Speaker 1: Thanks buddy, guys. Follow the Benn and Ashley I Almost
• 45:25
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• 45:29
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