Latest / The Aligned Actor / Let's Practice Loving Kindness
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- 0:00hello friends and welcome back to the aligned actor pod tube
- 0:04stack i'm amy schlerb
- 0:06i'm your friendly interwebs mindfulness and mindset coach for
- 0:10actors and creatives
- 0:12anyone who's chosen a creative career a roller coaster of ups
- 0:17and downs twists and
- 0:18SPEAKER_00: turns all that fun stuff that
- 0:21can sometimes make us sick to our stomachs i don't want us to
- 0:24be sick to our
- 0:24stomachs i want us all to be thriving in body mind and spirit
- 0:30as we live our actor
- 0:32lives tis the season of peace on earth and goodwill toward all
- 0:40so in keeping with
- 0:41that theme i thought it would be a good time for us to practice
- 0:45the loving kindness
- 0:46SPEAKER_00: meditation
- 0:48Loving kindness as a meditation is a beautiful practice where
- 0:52we focus on and
- 0:53SPEAKER_00: activate feelings of love,
- 0:56SPEAKER_00: kindness,
- 0:57SPEAKER_00: and compassion within us.
- 0:59And then we flow those feelings out energetically to various
- 1:05people and creatures
- 1:06SPEAKER_00: that we envision in our minds.
- 1:08SPEAKER_00: So let's go ahead and practice loving kindness together.
- 1:14SPEAKER_00: Of course,
- 1:15If you are driving or doing something else that requires your
- 1:19full undivided
- 1:20SPEAKER_00: attention,
- 1:21SPEAKER_00: please come back to this.
- 1:24SPEAKER_00: Keep yourself safe.
- 1:26SPEAKER_00: Take care of yourself.
- 1:27SPEAKER_00: But if you're ready to practice with us now,
- 1:31SPEAKER_00: go ahead and find a comfortable position for your body.
- 1:34SPEAKER_01: And start to tune into your breath.
- 1:45SPEAKER_01: Just noticing the inhales and the exhales.
- 1:55SPEAKER_01: Finding your breath wherever it is right now in this moment.
- 2:09SPEAKER_01: Allowing yourself to arrive fully
- 2:13SPEAKER_01: in this present moment and be present in your body, breathing.
- 2:33In a way that you can become more in tune with your breath than
- 2:38your body,
- 2:40SPEAKER_00: of course,
- 2:40SPEAKER_00: is by noticing your breath.
- 2:44SPEAKER_01: each inhale, each exhale.
- 2:52And you can also notice the contact between your body and
- 2:59whatever surface is
- 3:00SPEAKER_01: supporting you today.
- 3:06So bring your attention to the contact between your body and
- 3:11that surface.
- 3:15See if you can let your body soften and relax just a little bit
- 3:23more into that support.
- 3:37SPEAKER_01: Noticing is that chair or couch or bed
- 3:45takes a little bit more of your weight supports your body
- 3:52allowing your body to
- 3:59more fully relax allowing and intending your body to release
- 4:11and melt and soften
- 4:15SPEAKER_01: into that supportive surface.
- 4:30Continuing to focus on your breath and noticing how your breath
- 4:37also can calm your body.
- 4:41SPEAKER_01: Your breath
- 4:43SPEAKER_01: can help your body relax.
- 4:51SPEAKER_01: Your slow inhales and exhales.
- 4:59Bringing your focus fully to each inhale and exhale will help
- 5:08your body and your mind
- 5:14SPEAKER_01: to release and relax even more.
- 5:37And now that we've settled into our bodies and settled in with
- 5:43our breath,
- 5:47SPEAKER_01: I'm gonna invite you to open up a space of loving kindness within you.
- 5:59SPEAKER_01: And to do this,
- 6:00I invite you to envision in your mind a person or a creature
- 6:08that you absolutely
- 6:09SPEAKER_00: love and adore.
- 6:18A being whose presence in your life,
- 6:25when you see them,
- 6:26you just light up.
- 6:29SPEAKER_01: And they light up.
- 6:36SPEAKER_01: See this person or animal in your mind now.
- 6:44SPEAKER_01: Be with them in this moment.
- 6:47SPEAKER_01: in your imagination.
- 6:55And as their presence in your mind begins to fill you with the
- 7:01warm fuzzies of
- 7:02SPEAKER_01: loving kindness,
- 7:06SPEAKER_01: you're going to start to flow intentional loving kindness to them.
- 7:16SPEAKER_01: And you can do this
- 7:18SPEAKER_01: by thinking in your mind.
- 7:22SPEAKER_01: May you be safe.
- 7:27SPEAKER_01: May you be healthy.
- 7:30SPEAKER_01: May you be happy.
- 7:34SPEAKER_01: May you live with ease.
- 7:50And now I'm going to invite you to let that beloved being go
- 8:01from your mind and
- 8:04SPEAKER_01: carry that loving kindness toward an acquaintance.
- 8:14SPEAKER_01: Someone you don't know particularly well could be
- 8:21SPEAKER_01: Someone you saw in line today.
- 8:24SPEAKER_01: Could be a co-worker you don't have many interactions with.
- 8:30SPEAKER_01: Just someone who's a little removed from you in your life.
- 8:42SPEAKER_01: And I invite you to flow the same loving kindness intentions toward them.
- 8:52SPEAKER_01: May you be safe.
- 8:56SPEAKER_01: May you be healthy.
- 9:00SPEAKER_01: May you be happy.
- 9:05SPEAKER_01: May you live with ease.
- 9:33SPEAKER_01: Now I invite you to let that person go from your mind.
- 9:45SPEAKER_01: And bring to mind someone who challenges you in your life.
- 9:54SPEAKER_01: Someone who maybe you have a more strained relationship with.
- 10:02SPEAKER_01: whether you know them personally or not at all,
- 10:08but you kind of have a little bit of a struggle flowing loving
- 10:14kindness to this
- 10:15SPEAKER_01: person.
- 10:24SPEAKER_01: And yet they deserve loving kindness as well.
- 10:34And so let's practice flowing loving kindness to someone who's
- 10:42difficult for us to
- 10:44SPEAKER_01: flow loving kindness to.
- 10:51SPEAKER_01: May you be safe.
- 10:57SPEAKER_01: May you be healthy.
- 11:02SPEAKER_01: May you be happy.
- 11:07SPEAKER_01: May you live with ease.
- 11:25Now to complete our loving kindness meditation,
- 11:29we're going to start by envisioning
- 11:37SPEAKER_01: our immediate living space,
- 11:43SPEAKER_01: our immediate dwelling,
- 11:44SPEAKER_01: and any people or creatures who live in that space with us.
- 11:55SPEAKER_01: We're going to flow loving kindness to all of them.
- 12:05SPEAKER_01: May you be safe.
- 12:08SPEAKER_01: May you be healthy.
- 12:11SPEAKER_01: May you be happy.
- 12:12SPEAKER_01: May you live with ease.
- 12:20Now we're going to widen out from our immediate dwelling to our
- 12:27larger community,
- 12:30SPEAKER_01: perhaps our neighborhood or our city or county.
- 12:40SPEAKER_01: And again, flow loving kindness to everyone in our community.
- 12:51SPEAKER_01: May you be safe.
- 12:56SPEAKER_01: May you be healthy.
- 12:59SPEAKER_01: May you be happy.
- 13:03SPEAKER_01: May you live with ease.
- 13:12SPEAKER_01: And then widening out once again to include our entire country,
- 13:21SPEAKER_01: perhaps even our entire continent.
- 13:29SPEAKER_01: May you be safe.
- 13:33SPEAKER_01: May you be healthy.
- 13:34SPEAKER_01: May you be happy.
- 13:39SPEAKER_01: May you live with ease.
- 13:51SPEAKER_01: And finally,
- 13:52SPEAKER_00: widening out all the way to include our entire great Earth,
- 14:03SPEAKER_00: every human,
- 14:06SPEAKER_00: every animal,
- 14:07SPEAKER_00: every plant,
- 14:10SPEAKER_01: every being on planet Earth.
- 14:19SPEAKER_01: May you be safe.
- 14:23SPEAKER_01: May you be healthy.
- 14:27SPEAKER_01: May you be happy.
- 14:30SPEAKER_01: May you live with ease.
- 14:47SPEAKER_01: And finally, because we are included in that
- 14:53SPEAKER_01: global community.
- 14:56SPEAKER_01: We're going to change our first word to we, our second word to we.
- 15:10SPEAKER_01: May we all be safe.
- 15:16SPEAKER_01: May we all be healthy.
- 15:21SPEAKER_01: May we all be happy.
- 15:26SPEAKER_01: May we all live with ease.
- 15:34SPEAKER_01: Go ahead and bask in this loving kindness moment,
- 15:44SPEAKER_01: continuing to flow loving kindness to yourself and through yourself.
- 15:52SPEAKER_01: out as far as you can.
- 15:59SPEAKER_01: If you like,
- 16:01you can now let various creatures and humans that you love and
- 16:08adore and some that
- 16:10you don't dance in your mind and just see them all and wish
- 16:17them all loving
- 16:19SPEAKER_01: kindness.
- 16:39SPEAKER_01: And now as we come to the end of this loving kindness meditation,
- 16:47SPEAKER_01: go ahead and move your body in any way that feels good to you.
- 16:57SPEAKER_01: And whenever you're ready, you can open your eyes.
- 17:06SPEAKER_01: Welcome back, friends.
- 17:09SPEAKER_01: I'm using this voice now because I've gotten into that rhythm.
- 17:18SPEAKER_01: I really wish you all the best this season.
- 17:22SPEAKER_01: May you be safe.
- 17:25SPEAKER_01: May you be healthy.
- 17:27SPEAKER_01: May you be happy.
- 17:29SPEAKER_01: May you live with ease.
- 17:34SPEAKER_00: If you found this
- 17:36SPEAKER_00: podtube stack helpful or inspiring,
- 17:39I would be ever so honored if you would leave a comment or
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- 17:51SPEAKER_00: That's what I have for you today.
- 17:53Thank you so much for joining me and I wish you loving kindness
- 17:58for the rest of
- 17:58SPEAKER_00: your day and the rest of your year and the rest of all of your years.
- 18:04SPEAKER_00: Take care until next time, friends.
- 18:05SPEAKER_00: Bye.