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Living With Her Ex · Second Date Update

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  Speaker 1: All right, you guys, we're going to go to South Windsor.
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  Speaker 2: Brittany's on the line, went on a date, getting ghosted,
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  Speaker 2: and we're going to get some answers.
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  Speaker 1: Good morning, Brittany, Good morning, a Welcome to the show.
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  Speaker 1: Tell us about this date you had with Lorenzo.
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  Speaker 3: Oh, my gosh, it was so great.
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  Speaker 4: It was.
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  Speaker 3: I mean, we had an amazing dinner. I mean, I
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  Speaker 3: honestly want to say it was like the perfect date.
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  Speaker 3: He was funny, gentlemanly. Okay, it was I was feeling
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  Speaker 3: I was feeling it, and I you know, I texted
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  Speaker 3: him the next day and I thanked him, and I
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  Speaker 3: haven't heard back, and I'm really surprised. I really want
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  Speaker 3: to know why I'm getting ghosted.
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  Speaker 1: Was there flirting? Were you guys? Did you feel like
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  Speaker 1: you were flirting with him on this date?
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  Speaker 5: Oh?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean I definitely we were flirting. You know,
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  Speaker 3: they were just like a really good rapport and it
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  Speaker 3: felt very comfortable. Definitely felt like there was some movement,
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  Speaker 3: so you feel like connection, so.
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  Speaker 1: You feel like the chemistry was really there.
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  Speaker 3: It was definitely there. So I'm just like, what happened?
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  Speaker 3: Did you know me?
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  Speaker 1: Did you drink too much.
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  Speaker 3: No, No, I had a couple of drinks but kept
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  Speaker 3: it like a to drink, you know, with dinner. So
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  Speaker 3: I don't think there was anything. Yeah, I don't think
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  Speaker 3: that there was anything on tour about my behavior or
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  Speaker 3: my alcohol consumption or anything.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, before are you shaking your head?
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  Speaker 4: I mean it could be the humidity, you know, that
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  Speaker 4: heat and humidity why he's not calling you. It's sometimes
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  Speaker 4: it's just too hot to do anything, you know what
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  Speaker 4: I mean?
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  Speaker 1: No, I do not.
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  Speaker 4: You don't want to make plans because then you're no.
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  Speaker 4: Then you're sitting All you want to do.
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  Speaker 1: Is just sit in the ac Are guys that fragile?
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  Speaker 4: Yes?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, we really are, Brittany, don't listen to him.
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  Speaker 2: We're gonna call Lorenzo and we're going to ask him
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  Speaker 2: to be honest and tell us about the data.
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  Speaker 1: Are you ready to find out why you're getting ghosted?
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  Speaker 3: Absolutely?
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  Speaker 5: All right?
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  Speaker 1: She sounds nice, sounds like a weird day.
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  Speaker 6: Sweet girl, seems like a sweet girl.
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  Speaker 4: Could be the heat. Just throwing that out there.
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  Speaker 1: Ooh, is Lorenzo there? This is City, Hi Lorenzo, This
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  Speaker 1: is Courtney.
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  Speaker 4: Hey Lorenzo, It's Walmart Jeff.
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  Speaker 1: Hey, Lorenzo, it's Savannah.
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  Speaker 2: We're going from Kiss ninety five seven. You're on the
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  Speaker 2: radio this morning.
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  Speaker 5: Oh hey, good morning, Good morning morning.
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  Speaker 1: I gotta tell you.
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  Speaker 2: You're on the radio because you're on second date update,
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  Speaker 2: which means you went on a first date which was fabulous,
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  Speaker 2: and now you're ghosting somebody.
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  Speaker 1: Brittany called us, Lorenzo, oh and we're trying to We're
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  Speaker 1: just trying.
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  Speaker 2: To get some answers for her, he said, Oh yeah,
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  Speaker 2: she said the day was fabulous, Like you guys had
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  Speaker 2: a lot in common. You were flirty, she reached out
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  Speaker 2: to you. But you're a ghostinger.
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  Speaker 5: I mean yeah, I mean, you know, we did go
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  Speaker 5: out and he started up like pretty odd.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, so it started off awesome. What happened? What happened
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  Speaker 1: then during the day to turn it around?
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  Speaker 5: Well, I mean I thought we had a connection until
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  Speaker 5: at one point she told me that she still lives
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  Speaker 5: with her ex boyfriend.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, no, all right, Chuck Boyce.
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  Speaker 5: It's weird and I don't want anything to do with
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  Speaker 5: a woman that still lives with her ex boyfriend. That's
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  Speaker 5: not I'm okay with all that.
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  Speaker 1: That's hard. That's hard. I mean, why did she say
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  Speaker 1: why she was still.
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  Speaker 5: Living with him, something about Elise or something. I don't know.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, is that.
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  Speaker 2: The only reason you are ghosting her is because she
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  Speaker 2: lives with her ex boyfriend?
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  Speaker 1: Is that like it?
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  Speaker 5: I mean, yeah, that's kind of a big one.
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  Speaker 4: I mean, yeah, Courty, you make it sound like it's
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  Speaker 4: like a small little Yeah.
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  Speaker 6: I mean, I mean if you flipped it, would you
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  Speaker 6: be comfortable dating somebody that still lived with his ex girlfriend.
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  Speaker 2: No, But if he was really into her and that
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  Speaker 2: was the reason, let's bring her on and find out
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  Speaker 2: when she's moving out, that's my point.
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  Speaker 1: Bring it on, Brittany.
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  Speaker 3: Are you there, Hi, Lorenzo?
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  Speaker 5: Hi?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, so explain to us. Explain to us why
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  Speaker 2: you're still living with your acts.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, Well, I mean, first off, I brought it up
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  Speaker 3: on our first day because I was being fully transparent
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  Speaker 3: and there's nothing to worry about because, you know, I'm
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  Speaker 3: just living with my ex boyfriend. We have a two bedroom.
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  Speaker 3: It's totally batonic, but we have two months left on
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  Speaker 3: our leaf and he's actually a really nice guy and
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  Speaker 3: I don't want him to be sattled, you know, with
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  Speaker 3: the rent and my name is on the leaf and
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  Speaker 3: we just agreed to just live separate lives until the
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  Speaker 3: end of the leaf. So I'm you know, I'm really
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  Speaker 3: just in the situation for the next two months, okay.
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  Speaker 3: And I just didn't think it would be that big
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  Speaker 3: of a deal if I just you know, was open
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  Speaker 3: and honest about it while things were going good, and
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  Speaker 3: you know, I didn't think that that would cost me
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  Speaker 3: a second date.
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  Speaker 6: Hold on, hold on, Brittany, is there like even one
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  Speaker 6: percent of you that hopes that you get back together
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  Speaker 6: with your Like are you kind of trying to keep
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  Speaker 6: it on the back burner?
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  Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, there is zero percent chance, like if
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  Speaker 3: it could be in the negative range, that's where it is.
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  Speaker 3: And I mean he's already dated started dating other people.
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  Speaker 3: He knows that I date other people. We are literally
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  Speaker 3: cohabitating like roommates that like total ships of the night.
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  Speaker 1: All right.
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  Speaker 3: So that's we're just agreeing to, you know, fulfill the
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  Speaker 3: contract agreement essentially.
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  Speaker 1: Yes, I contract.
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  Speaker 3: That's the only contract that's still on the table. Okay,
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  Speaker 3: So emotional relational ones, all right.
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  Speaker 2: That was my point for Lorenzo. Lorenzo doesn't want to
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  Speaker 2: date somebody who's living.
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  Speaker 1: With the X.
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  Speaker 2: I get it, But if you signed a contract, you're
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  Speaker 2: going to see it through. You were honest, Lorenzo, would
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  Speaker 2: you go out with Brittany when she moves out? It's
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  Speaker 2: you know, would you go on a date with her
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  Speaker 2: if she was out of that house?
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  Speaker 5: I tell you what, I did really enjoy our first
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  Speaker 5: date other than that little uh that, that little snippit.
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  Speaker 5: But I'll tell you what, whenever you move out, give
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  Speaker 5: me a call and we can go on another day.
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  Speaker 3: All right, Okay, that's fair, that's fair.
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  Speaker 1: And you know what else, I'll pay for it.
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  Speaker 2: So once you move out, Brittany, you look me up
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  Speaker 2: or call us back or reach out whatever.
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  Speaker 1: I'm going to pay for that second date.
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  Speaker 2: Once you move out and you're on your own, I'm
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  Speaker 2: going to pick up the tab for you and Lorenzo
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  Speaker 2: to go out again and try it again.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, okay, that's amazing. Thank you.
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  Speaker 1: Well, you're welcome. I'm glad you got the answers.
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  Speaker 3: I am too.
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  Speaker 1: Thank you so much, Lorenzo, thanks for being honest with us.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, you got it. Thank you all right.
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  Speaker 1: I hope you guys make it to that second date.
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  Speaker 1: Keep us posted well,