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- 0:00Speaker 1: I don't get offended too often, but there are a
- 0:02Speaker 1: small handful of things I see that bother me. One
- 0:05Speaker 1: is dishonesty, and two is when people use children like
- 0:08Speaker 1: political slaves. Actually, I really don't appreciate it when anyone
- 0:12Speaker 1: manipulates people for political gain. So, I thought I might
- 0:15Speaker 1: use this video as a chance to expose some more abusers.
- 0:19Speaker 1: The people shown in this video are a special kind
- 0:21Speaker 1: of abuser, though, because they're trying to trick you by
- 0:24Speaker 1: pretending to help other people. Many people are fooled by
- 0:27Speaker 1: this technique, however. All you have to do to catch
- 0:30Speaker 1: them in the lie is just to look at the
- 0:32Speaker 1: fruits of their labor. Once you realize that, all the
- 0:35Speaker 1: smoke and all the mirrors or any other display will
- 0:38Speaker 1: have no effect on you. With that said, let's get
- 0:41Speaker 1: to our first set of do-gooders who don't understand the
- 0:44Speaker 1: meaning of the First Amendment.
- 0:46Speaker 2: With a famously feisty Senate partner, they stormed Washington with
- 0:50Speaker 2: a demand. Erase the word retarded from all federal language.
- 0:54Speaker 2: Replace it with intellectual disability. They named it Rosa's Law.
- 1:04Speaker 1: I feel like I say this in every video, but
- 1:07Speaker 1: actions speak louder than words. Look at the way this
- 1:09Speaker 1: mother talks to her daughter. She doesn't ask her daughter
- 1:12Speaker 1: about the law like she genuinely cares about the answer.
- 1:15Speaker 1: She's asking like she's had her daughter memorize the answer
- 1:17Speaker 1: for some kind of multiple choice test. There are ways
- 1:20Speaker 1: to tell if people care about you or if people don't.
- 1:24Speaker 1: People who care about you will ask you a question
- 1:26Speaker 1: and then genuinely await the answer instead of just expecting
- 1:29Speaker 1: a certain response from you. This woman is just using
- 1:33Speaker 1: her daughter to achieve her political agenda and get her
- 1:35Speaker 1: 15 minutes of fame. How can I tell? Well, their
- 1:39Speaker 1: campaign is to ban the word retarded because it's offensive
- 1:42Speaker 1: to people with Down syndrome. However, their 9-year-old daughter Rosa,
- 1:47Speaker 1: who has Down syndrome, doesn't even know what the word means.
- 1:51Speaker 1: Why don't we like retarded, Rosa?
- 1:52Speaker 3: Not nice. Not nice.
- 1:58Speaker 1: Look at this. Her mom has to tell her what
- 2:01Speaker 1: to say. Rosa doesn't understand what the word means. This
- 2:05Speaker 1: is all a part of the wonderful doublespeak that so
- 2:07Speaker 1: well defines the radical left. If you are a man,
- 2:11Speaker 1: then you are not allowed to speak about abortion because
- 2:14Speaker 1: it's not your body, it's her body. Yet that doesn't
- 2:17Speaker 1: stop the leftists from being offended for literally every group
- 2:20Speaker 1: they aren't a part of. This mother and father are
- 2:22Speaker 1: saying that we should change the medical terminology in every
- 2:25Speaker 1: legal document when they are claiming it harms a group
- 2:28Speaker 1: that they don't even belong to. Well, if men aren't
- 2:32Speaker 1: allowed to speak about abortion because they aren't women, then
- 2:34Speaker 1: you can't speak about the word retard because you don't
- 2:36Speaker 1: have Down syndrome. But that's not what this whole thing
- 2:39Speaker 1: is about. Listen to what they say. This has nothing
- 2:42Speaker 1: to do with their daughter Rosa's needs, but everything to
- 2:45Speaker 1: do with them. Do you know why they want to
- 2:48Speaker 1: ban the R word? It's not to protect Rosa. They
- 2:51Speaker 1: want to ban the word because they are embarrassed that
- 2:54Speaker 1: they have a daughter with a mental disability. Isn't that
- 2:57Speaker 1: kind of messed up?
- 2:58Speaker 2: We fought all the bullies because we wanted the word gone.
- 3:02Speaker 3: We didn't want her to be embarrassed. We didn't want
- 3:04Speaker 3: her siblings to be embarrassed.
- 3:07Speaker 1: Now tell me, why exactly would her siblings be embarrassed?
- 3:11Speaker 1: Kids follow the lead of their parents, and if the
- 3:13Speaker 1: parents weren't ashamed of their daughter's disability, then the kids
- 3:16Speaker 1: wouldn't be either. That's how it should be.
- 3:19Speaker 2: At school, Rosa got labeled retarded. The word stung her
- 3:22Speaker 2: entire family.
- 3:24Speaker 1: Again with the family, and no reference to how Rosa feels.
- 3:28Speaker 1: Be honest, guys. You know that changing a word is
- 3:31Speaker 1: not going to cure your daughter of her disability. But
- 3:33Speaker 1: what it will do is allow you to scream hate
- 3:35Speaker 1: speech and end people's careers any time they remind you
- 3:38Speaker 1: of how much you think your child is an inconvenience.
- 3:41Speaker 3: Me and my kids were out at a store, and
- 3:44Speaker 3: the cashier made a mistake and said, oh, I'm such
- 3:47Speaker 3: a retard.
- 3:48Speaker 1: And I thought, that's not right.
- 3:50Speaker 2: So, they had an idea. Turn that taunting into action.
- 3:55Speaker 1: First of all, it's my kids and I. Second, that's
- 3:58Speaker 1: not someone who's trying to bully your daughter. She's just
- 4:01Speaker 1: calling herself stupid. I mean, you guys in the news
- 4:04Speaker 1: report said that idiot used to be the old medical
- 4:06Speaker 1: terminology for retarded.
- 4:08Speaker 3: Idiot.
- 4:09Speaker 2: Imbecile.
- 4:10Speaker 3: Moron.
- 4:11Speaker 2: Feeble-minded. All clinical terms once used by doctors to define
- 4:15Speaker 2: mental illness. Retarded was first seen as a sensitive alternative,
- 4:20Speaker 2: but it too became an insult.
- 4:22Speaker 1: Would you have gone into a Karen-style fit if she
- 4:25Speaker 1: had said, I'm such an idiot? What's really going on
- 4:28Speaker 1: here is that this family feels like having a retarded
- 4:30Speaker 1: child lowers their status, and this campaign is just an
- 4:33Speaker 1: attempt to raise their status. That's all any of this is.
- 4:37Speaker 1: It has nothing to do with the people that they
- 4:39Speaker 1: are offended for, outside of those people being used as
- 4:42Speaker 1: a tool. These people have turned an innocent child with
- 4:44Speaker 1: a disability into a tool that's designed to make them
- 4:47Speaker 1: look good. Anyway, our next video comes from the wonderful
- 4:51Speaker 1: people at TEDx. Let's hear what our intelligent and empowered
- 4:55Speaker 1: speaker has to say.
- 4:58Speaker 3: Whatever they wear or do, for that matter, is seen
- 5:02Speaker 3: as the best. Or perhaps it's in the way that
- 5:04Speaker 3: they talk. Dropping little nuggets here or there, no biggie really.
- 5:09Speaker 3: but that keeps the others reminded of who they are.
- 5:14Speaker 3: After all, these are.
- 5:16Speaker 1: The cool kids.
- 5:18Speaker 3: Now, let's think about this other group. Yes, the kids
- 5:23Speaker 3: who have been othered and who are often viewed as
- 5:27Speaker 3: the exact opposite of the cool group. And not because
- 5:32Speaker 3: they chose to be, but because that's how they have
- 5:35Speaker 3: been labeled, grouped, and all together thought to be. And
- 5:40Speaker 3: by who?
- 5:42Speaker 1: Now understand that when I picked the clips for this video,
- 5:44Speaker 1: I picked the most interesting parts. Through the several times
- 5:47Speaker 1: that I had to watch this video to pick out
- 5:49Speaker 1: said parts, I was fighting to stay awake. If you're
- 5:52Speaker 1: brave enough, a link to the full video is in
- 5:54Speaker 1: the description. Let me be clear though. She does have
- 5:58Speaker 1: good technique. She's calm and collected, looks at the audience,
- 6:01Speaker 1: has good pacing, looks professional. But that's not the problem.
- 6:05Speaker 1: This is something that I'm sure frustrates a lot of
- 6:07Speaker 1: people because they are really good speakers, really good writers,
- 6:10Speaker 1: or really good musicians. It doesn't matter how good you
- 6:13Speaker 1: are at the skill if you aren't able to pick
- 6:15Speaker 1: an idea that people actually care about. And look at
- 6:18Speaker 1: this title. This speaker doesn't give a fuck what her
- 6:21Speaker 1: audience cares about. She titled it, The Socialization and Comfortableness
- 6:25Speaker 1: of Microaggressions. That title is just a big screw you
- 6:29Speaker 1: to anyone's attention span. There is literally nothing in there
- 6:32Speaker 1: for me to connect with. Those are words of someone
- 6:34Speaker 1: who cares so little about her audience that she can
- 6:37Speaker 1: only be successful teaching college classes where people are forced
- 6:40Speaker 1: to listen to her to get their degrees. When you
- 6:42Speaker 1: care about the interests of your audience, you title your
- 6:44Speaker 1: speech something like those who are left behind or the othered.
- 6:49Speaker 1: You don't title your speech the socialization and comfortableness of microaggressions.
- 6:54Speaker 1: The first two titles that I said make me ask
- 6:56Speaker 1: a question. What is an othered? Who got left behind?
- 7:00Speaker 1: The socialization and comfortableness of microaggressions really doesn't beg any questions. Therefore,
- 7:06Speaker 1: it's a boring title to a boring speech. Microaggressions are
- 7:10Speaker 1: something that literally nobody cares about. It requires some kind
- 7:13Speaker 1: of weird, radical left insane mental gymnastics to think that
- 7:18Speaker 1: the microaggressions these people most promote are actually offensive.
- 7:22Speaker 3: Translation Any place, any time, any given situation, at a
- 7:27Speaker 3: bus stop, a museum, or perhaps while out shopping even,
- 7:32Speaker 3: that marginalized populations come to be publicly humiliated or identified
- 7:37Speaker 3: as the other through presumptuous statements and questions like, wow,
- 7:42Speaker 3: your English is pretty good, so where are you from?
- 7:47Speaker 3: Which is often code for, somehow you don't look American
- 7:51Speaker 3: to me.
- 7:53Speaker 1: I can just imagine. having a conversation where I ask somebody,
- 7:56Speaker 1: where are you from? And her being such a bitch
- 7:59Speaker 1: that she's offended by the question. Have you ever known
- 8:02Speaker 1: people like this? I can't roll my eyes fast enough
- 8:05Speaker 1: when that happens, nor can I leave the conversation fast enough.
- 8:09Speaker 1: The statement, your English is really good, is a statement
- 8:12Speaker 1: of value. I'm saying that I'm impressed that you spent
- 8:16Speaker 1: so much time learning a second language. If I followed
- 8:19Speaker 1: up with, where are you from? I have now stated
- 8:21Speaker 1: that you are an interesting person and I want to
- 8:24Speaker 1: know more about you. Honestly, these people are so backwards
- 8:28Speaker 1: that they are calling compliments and expressions of interest racism.
- 8:33Speaker 1: I mean, this is what you guys complained about for years,
- 8:35Speaker 1: and now that you get it, you aren't happy. I mean,
- 8:38Speaker 1: me personally, I have been studying Japanese for five years,
- 8:41Speaker 1: and every time a Japanese person compliments me by saying, wow,
- 8:45Speaker 1: your Japanese is so good, I have never been offended.
- 8:48Speaker 1: And every time I've complimented a person who is not
- 8:51Speaker 1: a native speaker on their English, They have never been offended.
- 8:54Speaker 1: Who is this chick actually offended for? You, Andrea Boyles,
- 8:59Speaker 1: have a native English accent, so by feminist logic, you
- 9:03Speaker 1: are not a part of the group, which means you
- 9:05Speaker 1: have no right to speak. If it doesn't affect you,
- 9:08Speaker 1: then why are you speaking about it? Well, that should
- 9:11Speaker 1: be obvious. If you can say someone is microaggressing you,
- 9:15Speaker 1: then you get to play the victim, and now people
- 9:17Speaker 1: will pay attention to you. That's the whole point. Someone
- 9:21Speaker 1: solved the problems of the civil rights movement years ago,
- 9:23Speaker 1: and now no one gives them any more attention. So,
- 9:27Speaker 1: what they have to do is make up a bunch
- 9:28Speaker 1: of new things to be offended about so they can
- 9:30Speaker 1: keep playing the victim. Andrea Boyle's entire career is based
- 9:35Speaker 1: off of playing the victim. She doesn't want the people
- 9:37Speaker 1: she's claiming to help to get better, because if they do,
- 9:40Speaker 1: then she won't have anything to complain about.
- 9:43Speaker 3: Because, see, once again, there is this seemingly unwavering need
- 9:49Speaker 3: to assign people to categories or just maybe exposure or
- 9:53Speaker 3: othering come through statements that somehow suggest you as being special.
- 10:00Speaker 3: like you're the different one okay and so let's go
- 10:09Speaker 3: with that different how exactly like what does that mean
- 10:12Speaker 3: right sounds just like what happens with the cool kids
- 10:16Speaker 3: versus the other students at the high school In any case,
- 10:20Speaker 3: these are microaggressions.
- 10:23Speaker 1: I just thought I'd like to add how little she
- 10:25Speaker 1: thought about this stuff. I mean, she obviously scripted this speech.
- 10:29Speaker 1: You mean to tell me she didn't notice that she
- 10:32Speaker 1: implies categorizing people is wrong, but literally three sentences later
- 10:36Speaker 1: categorizes people as cool and other. And on top of that,
- 10:41Speaker 1: do these people even understand what the word diversity means?
- 10:44Speaker 1: Let me Google that for you. Diversity means a range
- 10:48Speaker 1: of different things. You have to be different to be diverse.
- 10:52Speaker 1: If you want everyone in the group to be the same,
- 10:54Speaker 1: then you are literally arguing for segregation. Because how else
- 10:58Speaker 1: are you going to accomplish that? Understand, though, despite how
- 11:02Speaker 1: ridiculous these people's arguments are, they still have a lot
- 11:04Speaker 1: of power. They still make most of the movies, they
- 11:07Speaker 1: still run all the schools, they still make the laws,
- 11:09Speaker 1: and their toxic philosophy is still deeply ingrained in your behaviors,
- 11:13Speaker 1: even if you've been red-pilled for a while. You might
- 11:16Speaker 1: think differently now that you're more knowledgeable about the situation,
- 11:18Speaker 1: but but you may still be acting the same way
- 11:20Speaker 1: as you did before you knew anything. Not only do
- 11:23Speaker 1: actions speak louder than words, but your actions will determine
- 11:26Speaker 1: your psychology. Every real psychological change is going to come
- 11:29Speaker 1: with a series of new actions. That's why Jordan Peterson
- 11:32Speaker 1: tells people to clean their rooms if they want to
- 11:34Speaker 1: start living better. So you may have been red-pilled, but
- 11:37Speaker 1: you might still be acting on the beliefs of the
- 11:39Speaker 1: feminists who taught you as a child. Things like, don't
- 11:42Speaker 1: care what anyone thinks about you. If you were born
- 11:44Speaker 1: in the 90s like I was, then I'm sure you've
- 11:46Speaker 1: heard this one quite a lot. and even watched many
- 11:49Speaker 1: people act it out. Hell, that's pretty much what the
- 11:51Speaker 1: 90s was about. But in reality, all of those people
- 11:54Speaker 1: who pretended to be losers and pretended to not care
- 11:57Speaker 1: were actually people who worked really hard and people who
- 11:59Speaker 1: cared a lot. Like Adam Sandler, some of his most
- 12:02Speaker 1: popular movies are him playing a loser, like Happy Gilmore
- 12:05Speaker 1: or Billy Madison. Adam Sandler works his ass off, or
- 12:08Speaker 1: he worked his ass off when he made those movies.
- 12:10Speaker 1: Kurt Cobain, the lead singer of Nirvana before he died,
- 12:14Speaker 1: had the whole image of, I don't care about anything.
- 12:16Speaker 1: But when you saw him behind closed doors, he would
- 12:19Speaker 1: do all the artwork for the band. He was super
- 12:21Speaker 1: insistent about songs being created a certain way so people
- 12:23Speaker 1: get them. And he really cared about that band. And understand,
- 12:27Speaker 1: if those people didn't work that hard or they didn't care,
- 12:30Speaker 1: then they wouldn't have become as successful as they were.
- 12:33Speaker 1: They would have instead made some boring speech about microaggressions
- 12:36Speaker 1: and then complained with zero self-awareness that nobody was listening
- 12:40Speaker 1: to them. So if you are not good at finding
- 12:42Speaker 1: what people value, then that's a problem. That's a problem
- 12:45Speaker 1: that's going to hold you back in your personal relationships,
- 12:47Speaker 1: and maybe more importantly to you, it's going to hold
- 12:50Speaker 1: you back in business as well. But you can't just say,
- 12:53Speaker 1: I now value what other people think about me, or
- 12:55Speaker 1: I now care about other people. That's not going to work.
- 12:58Speaker 1: You actually have to retrain your personality. And the way
- 13:01Speaker 1: you do that is to look for every opportunity to
- 13:04Speaker 1: do something that people value. And it's December, so it's
- 13:07Speaker 1: the perfect time of year to do that. You have
- 13:09Speaker 1: Christmas at this time of year, and Christmas is designed
- 13:12Speaker 1: around two major things. One, measuring how much you value
- 13:16Speaker 1: other people, and two, measuring how much they value you.
- 13:19Speaker 1: The reason that gift giving is such a popular idea
- 13:22Speaker 1: is because it's a statement of value. If people don't
- 13:26Speaker 1: want to exchange gifts with you, or they constantly give
- 13:28Speaker 1: you bad gifts, it means they don't care about you.
- 13:31Speaker 1: And the opposite is true too. If you give a
- 13:33Speaker 1: lot of bad gifts, it means you don't care. If
- 13:36Speaker 1: you can't figure out what to give someone for Christmas,
- 13:38Speaker 1: it means you don't care about them. And if you
- 13:41Speaker 1: can't figure out what the wants and needs of the
- 13:42Speaker 1: people who are closest to you are, then how are
- 13:44Speaker 1: you going to figure it out with strangers when you're
- 13:46Speaker 1: trying to make money? The only way you're going to
- 13:48Speaker 1: figure it out is to start actually taking interest in
- 13:51Speaker 1: the other person. Once you do that, what to get
- 13:53Speaker 1: them should be pretty obvious. But if you are stuck
- 13:56Speaker 1: and have no idea how to give a good gift,
- 13:58Speaker 1: then there are some tricks you can use that will
- 14:00Speaker 1: also work outside of gift giving. I find a lot
- 14:03Speaker 1: of success when I give gifts based on common interests
- 14:06Speaker 1: that I have with the other person. If I know
- 14:08Speaker 1: someone likes baseball and I don't know anything about baseball,
- 14:11Speaker 1: then I don't get them a baseball-related gift. However, it
- 14:15Speaker 1: might be the case that they like cooking and I
- 14:17Speaker 1: know a lot about that subject. So, I get them
- 14:20Speaker 1: something related to cooking because I know which cooking items
- 14:23Speaker 1: are valuable and which ones aren't. Outside of gift-giving, you
- 14:26Speaker 1: have another chance to figure out what people value when
- 14:29Speaker 1: you celebrate with your family and friends. Usually Christmas dinner
- 14:31Speaker 1: is a potluck. So, are you able to make food
- 14:34Speaker 1: that people actually like? Can you be the guy who
- 14:37Speaker 1: brings the beer that everyone likes? Can you be the
- 14:39Speaker 1: guy who invents a family tradition that you do every Christmas?
- 14:42Speaker 1: Practicing things like that will start to give you an
- 14:44Speaker 1: intuitive sense of what people want. Then you can use
- 14:47Speaker 1: that to build a close social group, or you can
- 14:49Speaker 1: monetize that intuitive sense in the workplace. Or maybe this
- 14:52Speaker 1: is more important than those things. When you start genuinely
- 14:56Speaker 1: caring about others, you'll be able to tell when people
- 14:58Speaker 1: don't actually care about you, so that you can stop
- 15:01Speaker 1: wasting your time with those people. But that's it for
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