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Episode 424 "Nicole" · The Baller Alert Show

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Speaker 1: I'm Nicole McHale and I'm coming up next on baller
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Speaker 1: La push up.
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Speaker 2: In the Robert with for Roret and you know me
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Speaker 2: T and Sho crush you do you like me? Mental
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Speaker 2: health chat talking to me? Somebody got you fed up? Colin,
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Speaker 2: get it off your mind. Catch us in there, Ay,
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Speaker 2: turn us up while you in traffic sline. Welcome to
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Speaker 2: the Greatest shown Earth. Yeah it's the Bottle of Alert.
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Speaker 2: Yeah it's the Bottle Alert. Yeah, it's the Bottle of Alert.
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Speaker 2: Welcome to the Greatest shown nerf Yeah it's the Battle Alert.
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Speaker 2: Yeah it's the Bottle Alert. Yeah, it's the Battle Alert.
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Speaker 3: Broadcast live from the Nago Law Firm Studios. Welcome to
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Speaker 3: the ball Alert Show. I go by the name Ferrari Sent.
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Speaker 4: And I go by the name you know BT Nicole
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Speaker 4: Michel in the building. Welcome to the show, I mean,
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Speaker 4: welcome to the show.
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Speaker 3: Now you are also on the radio stop By.
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Speaker 4: You did the nicest poll on the beat.
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Speaker 3: Now you are doing our podcast and you.
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Speaker 5: Have an interesting story.
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Speaker 3: Yes I'll allow you to elaborate. But you are a
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Speaker 3: breast cancer survivor. Yes, the details as you shared.
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Speaker 5: On the radio were very like intricate.
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Speaker 3: Could you do you mind sharing again?
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Speaker 6: Yeah, like how I found for the first time views.
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Speaker 1: Yeah, I have no problem. So I was twenty six
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Speaker 1: when I found my tumor. It was a complete accident.
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Speaker 1: It was no different, no simple than just coming out
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Speaker 1: of the shower and having too much lotion on my
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Speaker 1: hands and not knowing where else to rub myself, so
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Speaker 1: I rubbed my titties and I ended up finding something.
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Speaker 1: My gut was telling me to get it checked out,
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Speaker 1: not because any textbook or doctor has ever told me, hey,
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Speaker 1: you're twenty six, you should be ahead of this, just
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Speaker 1: because something foreign was in my body. And so I
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Speaker 1: did a breast ultrasound and something definitely was there, and
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Speaker 1: we decided to do a lumpectomy just because lump, back
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Speaker 1: to me, is when they just remove a mass. So
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Speaker 1: I removed this mass out of my body, and then
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Speaker 1: the pathology came back. I stayed on breast cancer, and
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Speaker 1: then two weeks later I did a double misseectomy, which
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Speaker 1: is when they remove both breasts, but I also had
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Speaker 1: to remove the right nipple because the cancer was right
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Speaker 1: behind the nipple. And if I did the double misseectomy
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Speaker 1: and kept the nipple, then it would have defeated the
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Speaker 1: purpose because you could still have cancer in the nipple.
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Speaker 1: And then after that I got an infection. I thought
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Speaker 1: I was invincible. I thought a double misseectomy is like
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Speaker 1: bad enough, how much worse can it get than this?
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Speaker 1: But the fine print when you sign, it's definitely a risk,
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Speaker 1: especially when you have such a major surgery. And I
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Speaker 1: think that one of the biggest misconceptions is that people
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Speaker 1: think that it's a breast augmentation, like, oh, you can
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Speaker 1: just have a free boob job, But it's not that
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Speaker 1: at all. A reconstruction postmasectomy is a whole different surgery.
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Speaker 1: It's a different pricing, it's a different recovery. It's just
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Speaker 1: completely different than what most people would think.
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Speaker 5: Buy insurance.
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Speaker 1: No, so insurance covered my double misseect, but the reconstruction
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Speaker 1: after they didn't cover, because it's now considered cosmetic and elective.
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Speaker 1: But by the grace of God, Chloe Kardashian ended up
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Speaker 1: paying for my surgeries because she's.
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Speaker 6: What we called that she did.
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Speaker 1: She did. She still doesn't know this information, but she had.
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Speaker 1: My last surgery was May of twenty nineteen, and she
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Speaker 1: had posted my business that Monday night and her tag
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Speaker 1: is like so small in the corner, like a monochromatic
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Speaker 1: type of tag. But her fans, they are loyal and
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Speaker 1: they found me. And the amount of sales I got
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Speaker 1: in that twenty four hours covered my last surgery, the
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Speaker 1: surgery before, and the surgery before, so I don't have
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Speaker 1: stressed about it anymore.
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Speaker 4: Yeah, the how what is your business?
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Speaker 1: I have a crystal business.
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Speaker 5: So crystal like stones, yes.
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Speaker 1: Which is what I did you open your gift yet? Okay?
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Speaker 1: But so I have a crystal business. And I was
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Speaker 1: inspired by the pet therapy that I had during my recovery.
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Speaker 1: That was like my favorite part of being in the
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Speaker 1: hospital was when they had the animals come through because
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Speaker 1: I'm a huge animal lover. And so I created a
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Speaker 1: pet water bottle that has a crystal inside. It's made
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Speaker 1: out of glass and the crystal. You can put it
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Speaker 1: in the refrigerator to keep the water cool during the
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Speaker 1: hot seasons and there's a snackjar that can snap back into
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Speaker 1: the bowl. But that wasn't the product that she had posted.
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Speaker 1: I had my first crystal business pre pandemic, and she
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Speaker 1: had posted that and she sold me out. And I
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Speaker 1: remember going into my last surgery asking my doctor like,
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Speaker 1: am I going to be able to move my arms tomorrow?
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Speaker 1: Because I have a lot of orders to get out
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Speaker 1: And ended up being Mother's Day weekend, so like you know,
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Speaker 1: when you check out, there's like a note section, like
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Speaker 1: all the notes that I'm reading is like happy Mother's Day,
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Speaker 1: Granny and happy Mother's Dale was like I have to
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Speaker 1: get these out, like there's no way people are counting
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Speaker 1: on me. This is the Mother's Day gift, right, And
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Speaker 1: so I came out of surgery with drains hanging out,
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Speaker 1: everything in one by one, making each arrangement for everyone.
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Speaker 1: But she definitely blessed me and covered the.
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Speaker 6: Seris that's fire.
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Speaker 1: Yeah, And I want to talk to her soon so
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Speaker 1: I could tell her because she has no idea.
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Speaker 4: Well she's gonna have We're gonna we have proof now
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Speaker 4: now you know.
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Speaker 3: We were also talking all Ice and polling the beat
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Speaker 3: for RMBT two to seven Atlanta, Georgia.
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Speaker 5: By the way, now, well my wife will get her.
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Speaker 3: What's it called mammogran They smush it down and she
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Speaker 3: was like, oh my god, it's so painful. You were saying,
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Speaker 3: it's a different way that they checked your breast.
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Speaker 1: Yeah, I did a breast ultrasound. A breast mammogram isn't
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Speaker 1: going to work for a woman in the early twenties
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Speaker 1: because your breasts are too dense. So a breast ultrasound
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Speaker 1: would be my first recommendation. A second, she.
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Speaker 5: Just like a regular ultrasounding.
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Speaker 1: Yeah, no difference. Yeah, same jelly, same machine, just on
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Speaker 1: your titty and not your belly. No, it's painless, it's easy.
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Speaker 1: And then the most accurate would be a breast MRI,
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Speaker 1: which is when you go into the machine, except for
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Speaker 1: this time you're gonna be laying face down and there's
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Speaker 1: a little opening where your boobies just hang down and
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Speaker 1: they can check boobies. Yeah.
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Speaker 3: Now, after the surgery, they removed your breast. Yeah, now
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Speaker 3: you had to go get new breasts. That's the cosmetic part. Yes,
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Speaker 3: and that's what Chloe tagging you in the sales helps
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Speaker 3: pay for. Yeah, now, how was that because don't they
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Speaker 3: have to have specific guidelines because you have surgery or
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Speaker 3: was it just a normal procedure.
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Speaker 1: So when I did my double missectomy the way that
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Speaker 1: City of Hope does it, I had the breast oncologist
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Speaker 1: and a plastic surgeon in the o R.
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Speaker 5: I had to sign off on everything.
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Speaker 1: Right, yeah, ok, wait, what do you mean.
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Speaker 3: Like, do you have to go get checked out because
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Speaker 3: it's that you're getting it's like a.
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Speaker 1: Surgical I had to sign off. Yeah, yeah, yeah, I
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Speaker 1: for sure had to sign off. But I had a
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Speaker 1: breast oncologist and a plastic surgeon in the OAR at
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Speaker 1: the same time. So when I woke up, I never
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Speaker 1: saw myself flat chested. I think that would have been
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Speaker 1: more traumatizing for me, just because I had such large
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Speaker 1: natural bus to begin with, and that was my biggest
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Speaker 1: fear of going into surgeries, like what am I going
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Speaker 1: to look like when I wake up? But I had
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Speaker 1: implants in so it wasn't too much of a shock.
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Speaker 1: The shock came after the double missect me when I
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Speaker 1: had the infection and they had to put a smaller
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Speaker 1: implant on the right side. The left implant had already
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Speaker 1: like dropped into place. I literally had one on my
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Speaker 1: collarbone and one down here.
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Speaker 6: Oh wow yeah.
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Speaker 1: And that's when I looked in the mirror and I
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Speaker 1: was like, Yo, this is crazy. I've never seen a human,
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Speaker 1: a female body look like this, And there was no
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Speaker 1: one I could really ask, like, Hey, what did yours
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Speaker 1: look like, and how did you get over that mental challenge?
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Speaker 1: Because it is, like I said earlier on the radio,
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Speaker 1: it's half the battle is mental. So that was the
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Speaker 1: hardest part. But then I did more surgeries and then
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Speaker 1: I'm fine.
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Speaker 3: Now, So how'd your story get out and how'd you
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Speaker 3: be able to come, you know, move around and tell
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Speaker 3: your story.
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Speaker 1: I did Big Boys show in twenty twenty. Shout out
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Speaker 1: the Big Boy. I love Big Boy. Shout out big Boy.
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Speaker 1: He's my guy. I love him. Then I did his
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Speaker 1: show again in twenty three, and then I'm gonna do
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Speaker 1: his show again after you guys say, you guys are
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Speaker 1: my first stop on this little on this little tour.
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Speaker 3: Yeah, now you gotta come hang out with us because
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Speaker 3: you got to stay a little longe.
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Speaker 6: We've got group chat now, Yeah, you got a group chat.
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Speaker 3: You gotta come, especially come on Wednesday so we can
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Speaker 3: do the BT's R and B.
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Speaker 1: Party perfect this time.
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Speaker 6: There you go.
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Speaker 1: And if you come to Calabasas, you hit me up.
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Speaker 5: I've never been to Calabasas.
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Speaker 1: Come.
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Speaker 3: I've been to calabas very That's that's one of the
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Speaker 3: very nice areas.
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Speaker 4: Correct, Yeah, Calabasas is all it is another city.
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Speaker 5: Yeah, okay, I didn't know that. Is it in the hills?
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Speaker 4: No, No, it's like flat.
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Speaker 6: Yeah, it's weird, bro, it's not weird.
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Speaker 7: What I'm saying is like, is weird because like when
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Speaker 7: you think of Calabasas, when you think of like, you know,
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Speaker 7: upscale areas in LA, you think of like you know,
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Speaker 7: you in the mountains and stuff like that, and then
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Speaker 7: you go to Calabasas and it's like flat.
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Speaker 5: Good restaurants, good, good food.
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Speaker 1: They're doing better.
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Speaker 4: They ain't got no restaurants in Calabama.
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Speaker 1: That was getting better. In the commons. They have a
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Speaker 1: couple of new spots.
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Speaker 4: Yeah, I got a bunch of gas stations out there.
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Speaker 1: No, we got a lot of animals out there. There's
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Speaker 1: good food. Now. We got air one out there. Have
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Speaker 1: you had air One?
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Speaker 4: Well?
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Speaker 7: The funny thing I googled a smoothie spot and I
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Speaker 7: was in LA and I told my homie. I was like, yo,
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Speaker 7: let's go to the spot. Air one is like a
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Speaker 7: smoothie spot. And he said, I ain't letting you go
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Speaker 7: in there.
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Speaker 4: I was like why. He said, this is the most
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Speaker 4: expensive place in the country.
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Speaker 7: And I was like, man, no, it's not. He's like man,
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Speaker 7: this with a Kardashian. So I went on TikTok and
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Speaker 7: I looked it up and I was like.
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Speaker 1: Yeah, man, you didn't go you should try it at
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Speaker 1: least one.
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Speaker 4: We don't pass that.
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Speaker 5: How much is this?
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Speaker 1: I think a couple of months ago they had like
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Speaker 1: a single strawberry in nineteen ninety nine that came from Japan.
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Speaker 4: I don't care if it came from Egypt.
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Speaker 5: Oh okay, I'm not paying old twenty nationality.
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Speaker 1: I'm Assyrian and Persian Iranian Assyrian?
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Speaker 5: Now what is that Syria?
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Speaker 1: No, we don't even have a country. I speak Aramaic
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Speaker 1: and Farsi. English is my third language.
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Speaker 5: That's fire.
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Speaker 1: Yeah, Aramic, Aramaic. It's a language Jesus spoke. Have you
10:32
Speaker 1: seen the Muse the movie Passion of the Christ? Yeah,
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Speaker 1: so I can understand that movie without reading subtitles.
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Speaker 5: Fire wow.
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Speaker 4: Yeah, three languages.
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Speaker 5: Nicole, are you single?
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Speaker 1: I am?
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Speaker 5: So you are single?
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Speaker 7: I am?
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Speaker 4: It's that?
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Speaker 5: What what asking? She's on ball alert? It's time for you?
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Speaker 5: You like me? This is when you look at that camera,
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Speaker 5: you know, you shout out your crush? Do you have
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Speaker 5: a crush from somebody?
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Speaker 1: Now I'm traumatized I'm good right now. So you're I'm
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Speaker 1: single looking Nope, my eyes are closed.
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Speaker 5: Not checking the DM.
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Speaker 4: Nope.
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Speaker 5: Well it's now time for you got me.
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Speaker 3: What's some things that get on your damn nerves?
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Speaker 1: Like my ex?
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Speaker 5: Yeah?
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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, it doesn't have to be your ex.
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Speaker 6: Well, go ahead, no, my eck like an eh, like
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Speaker 6: you nerve calabasas.
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Speaker 1: That's not a calabasis thing.
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Speaker 5: I don't speak la.
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Speaker 1: Have you not heard of an egg?
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Speaker 5: I never heard of that word before. You never like
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Speaker 5: I got four dollars.
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Speaker 6: They don't say that really.
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Speaker 5: Bro, you never heard that on the show? Like what what? Like?
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Speaker 1: It can be like anything anything that like bothers You're.
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Speaker 6: Like, oh, well, maybe I missed it.
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Speaker 1: Do you have any eggs?
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Speaker 6: I got a whole bunch of Okay, what's one of them?
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Speaker 5: Facetiming me back to the back.
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Speaker 6: Oh yeah, I don't answer the first time.
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Speaker 5: I really do.
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Speaker 3: I'm doing something that doesn't require me. I can't answer
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Speaker 3: it now, and then you're gonna FaceTime me back to bat.
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Speaker 1: Yeah.
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Speaker 6: What if it's your wife, Oh, I'm answering her.
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Speaker 1: Okay, what about your daughters?
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Speaker 5: I'm answering there.
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Speaker 1: Okay, So you're selective.
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Speaker 3: I'm extremely so those might be the only ones I get.
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Speaker 3: I have one son. Yeah, I might not answer. He'd
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Speaker 3: be facetimed me by some stumps, some stupid stuff.
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Speaker 1: It is rock, Oh that's cut.
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Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, look at this rock.
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Speaker 5: I'm really cap Little.
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Speaker 4: Rari does not talk like that. His son does not.
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Speaker 5: Town for Little Riri. I pick on my son.
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Speaker 6: How old is he about to be?
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Speaker 5: Fourteen? Like he's the only boy.
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Speaker 3: So when I see him, we wrestle and fight because
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Speaker 3: I'd be like, dude, I'm oh, I got number of
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Speaker 3: girls in this house.
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Speaker 5: Yeah, you guys are a lot of work.
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Speaker 6: It's great though, Yeah, it'd be great when I get
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Speaker 6: old and they take care.
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Speaker 1: Of No, it's great to be your girl, dad.
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Speaker 3: Yeah, no, it's amazing, right, But also when it's that
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Speaker 3: time of the month. I have seventeen year old, twenty
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Speaker 3: one year old, eight year old, and the two year old.
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Speaker 5: She the ring leader. But enough about me, what's your
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Speaker 5: is it?
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Speaker 1: My ick is, don't lie to me because I will
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Speaker 1: find out. I'm too much of an investigator.
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Speaker 4: All women.
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Speaker 5: They have the FBI on Sterois. My wife the FBI.
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Speaker 5: You find outut the other day she's definitely there vel.
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Speaker 1: Like sometimes I'll find shit out and I'm like questioning,
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Speaker 1: why did I have to find this? Is like a
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Speaker 1: blessing and a curse.
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Speaker 5: Looking for it.
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Speaker 7: If I need to see y'all gotta stop doing it. No,
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Speaker 7: women gotta stop go looking for troll don't lie?
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Speaker 5: What if people omit?
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Speaker 1: Don't lie?
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Speaker 4: That's like omitting.
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Speaker 5: Lie. Yeah, technically is not.
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Speaker 1: If you you're omitting because you think that it's going
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Speaker 1: to get you in trouble.
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Speaker 5: Well, I don't want to hear man.
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Speaker 7: I don't like going through nobody nothing. I don't want
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Speaker 7: to find nothing. If the Lord wants me to find something,
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Speaker 7: the Lord was would say, here you go be to
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Speaker 7: you this This.
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Speaker 5: Was man go through my phone.
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Speaker 3: I know she's not cheating on me, but maybe she said,
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Speaker 3: let me tell you all what the big head motherfucker said.
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Speaker 4: Yeah, we know women are gonna be talking about us.
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Speaker 4: You know, you know, you know that's definitely gonna happen.
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Speaker 7: That's what That's why me and that's why we don't
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Speaker 7: we We can't take pain.
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Speaker 1: Yeah, you guys cannot take the same pain.
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Speaker 4: You can't take pain.
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Speaker 5: I don't want to I don't want to know nothing.
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Speaker 1: What's your eck? My?
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Speaker 7: It is people calling me back to back to back,
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Speaker 7: because then I started getting anxiety because I hate when
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Speaker 7: when people are.
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Speaker 4: Like forcefully trying to reach me.
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Speaker 7: I don't like that because I'm like, what is so
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Speaker 7: important to make you randomly call.
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Speaker 4: Me back to back to back to back to back
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Speaker 4: and people.
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Speaker 1: Do to be like, hey, are you good?
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Speaker 5: No text me everything?
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Speaker 4: No, I don't. I don't even answer the phone. You
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Speaker 4: know what I'm saying.
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Speaker 7: I let I let that, I let the dust settle,
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Speaker 7: and then I'll take some time and be like, what's up?
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Speaker 4: And then it's normally not ship.
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Speaker 7: It's normally like people want you to do something or
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Speaker 7: want something.
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Speaker 5: When they reach him, then they call.
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Speaker 6: Me okay, I don't don't.
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Speaker 7: I don't like I'm not a phone god, like if
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Speaker 7: I could be like Ed sharing and he shared the story,
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Speaker 7: Well he emails.
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Speaker 4: He said he hasn't had a phone number in ten years.
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Speaker 7: Really yeah, Ed Sharon said that he said the only
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Speaker 7: way that people can reach him is through email.
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Speaker 5: So what he does is he.
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Speaker 7: Takes time out of his day and he responds to
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Speaker 7: all of his emails and then he go back to
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Speaker 7: living his life.
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Speaker 1: There you go.
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Speaker 4: If I could do that, I would.
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Speaker 1: Yeah. I don't want to do that. No, I want
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Speaker 1: to text FaceTime call.
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Speaker 4: I don't want to.
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Speaker 5: When you're in a relationship, you're in someone's skin.
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Speaker 1: Okay, I told you especially this is a guy after cancer.
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Speaker 1: I'm attached to you now. Yeah, and if you don't answer,
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Speaker 1: I'll walk next door.
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Speaker 5: Fellas you were telling us your past relationship, he used
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Speaker 5: to be your neighbor.
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Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, Yeah.
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Speaker 4: That's crazy. He was hunching all your neighbor.
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Speaker 7: Yeah, to ask Wow, it's like, hey, was he the
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Speaker 7: boy next door?
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Speaker 5: I was?
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Speaker 1: I was the girl next door because because.
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Speaker 5: He kept the house next door, it's a.
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Speaker 4: House, so he would so he was pursuing you. Well.
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Speaker 1: The thing is is like I was friends with his
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Speaker 1: mom for a really long time, and I used to
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Speaker 1: for a year, like a year, year and a half maybe,
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Speaker 1: and like I used to cry to her like I'm
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Speaker 1: not going to date anyone, Like I got scars, I
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Speaker 1: got got a nipple tattoo, Like who's gonna want to
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Speaker 1: date me? And then I met her son and her
16:36
Speaker 1: his son was confused because he kept hearing about like
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Speaker 1: the girl next door who had just beat cancer and
16:42
Speaker 1: then when we met, he was thrown off guard because
16:44
Speaker 1: usually when people hear of someone having cancer, they think, like,
16:47
Speaker 1: you're bald, do you have no hair or lashes or
16:51
Speaker 1: browser or whatever. You just look sick, And I didn't
16:55
Speaker 1: look sick when he met me, and so he was
16:58
Speaker 1: just as confused as I was. I was like, as
17:00
Speaker 1: soon as I met him, I was like, this guy
17:01
Speaker 1: cannot live next door, Like this is gonna be a problem.
17:05
Speaker 1: I knew, yeah, but it worked out. It was fine
17:09
Speaker 1: because all my girlfriends used to like clown me and
17:12
Speaker 1: be like, you got to leave the house. How are
17:13
Speaker 1: you going to meet someone? And I'm like, well, he
17:15
Speaker 1: might move next door. And he did, and he did,
17:18
Speaker 1: and it was the best and the worst situation. That's crazy, Yeah,
17:23
Speaker 1: just because worse in the sense like you can't ever
17:25
Speaker 1: really have space from each other, like you're waking up
17:28
Speaker 1: to the same sounds. You're right next to each other.
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Speaker 4: So where you at next door?
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Speaker 6: Yeah?
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Speaker 3: Yeah, well, listen, we appreciate you spendusal time with us
17:41
Speaker 3: on ball Alert down.
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Speaker 1: Do you have any other questions for me? Do I'm
17:44
Speaker 1: going to drop a teer? No?
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Speaker 3: No, no, When you drop the teer on the radio,
17:49
Speaker 3: I feel bad and I was about to drop a tier.
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Speaker 5: I do not want to drop one on camera.
17:52
Speaker 1: Ah, it's okay.
17:55
Speaker 3: Now, do you participate a lot before we go? Do
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Speaker 3: you participate a lot in any breast cancer walks or
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Speaker 3: anything like that?
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Speaker 1: No?
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Speaker 5: No, okay.
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Speaker 1: I used to as a kid when my mom had
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Speaker 1: breast cancer. My mom had breast cancer too, but we
18:10
Speaker 1: don't have the gene. We used to do the susan
18:12
Speaker 1: Ci come and walk. But I feel like, as an adult,
18:19
Speaker 1: can I keep it real?
18:20
Speaker 4: Real?
18:21
Speaker 1: Okay? I feel like all of these organizations that say,
18:23
Speaker 1: like donate, donate, find a cure for cancer, I feel
18:25
Speaker 1: like there is a cure for cancer, but no one's
18:27
Speaker 1: ever going to say anything because there's too much money
18:29
Speaker 1: behind it. Yeah. So they finally had a cure for HIV.
18:34
Speaker 4: You saw that or we will see?
18:37
Speaker 5: No, No, it's out. It's literally a cure.
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Speaker 4: Is that CBS?
18:42
Speaker 5: No?
18:42
Speaker 6: I don't know.
18:43
Speaker 5: I just saw that. It's a final cure.
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Speaker 1: Yeah. But I always rather than donating money for cancer
18:52
Speaker 1: research because I feel like that's been around for one
18:55
Speaker 1: hundred years, and how is there not a public cure?
18:58
Speaker 5: It can't be money in the vacsin but it's a
19:01
Speaker 5: think about this.
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Speaker 7: The vaccine was created within a year. They are diseases
19:06
Speaker 7: that has been around for one hundred years.
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Speaker 3: People, mind, we have vaccines in US that are required
19:12
Speaker 3: that people died from back in the day, though like
19:15
Speaker 3: hundreds of years ago.
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Speaker 4: You're like chicken pox and.
19:18
Speaker 5: Stuff like all the other stuff.
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Speaker 3: People just get really sick from those little small vaccines
19:22
Speaker 3: that we have now, thats standard.
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Speaker 7: But the COVID vaccination was created within a year, It's
19:29
Speaker 7: all I'm saying.
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Speaker 1: Yeah, I feel like if I were to raise money,
19:31
Speaker 1: I would rather pay that money forward for a patient
19:34
Speaker 1: to have reconstructive surgery. That way I could see where
19:37
Speaker 1: the money goes. And like, I know that if I
19:40
Speaker 1: wasn't in a position where I could financially afford my
19:43
Speaker 1: plastic surgeon, I wouldn't look how I looked today. And
19:46
Speaker 1: I don't think that it's fair that women don't have
19:48
Speaker 1: the same opportunity that I did. And insurance, like we
19:51
Speaker 1: talked about earlier, they don't cover these surgeries a lot
19:54
Speaker 1: of the times because it's now considered elective and cosmetics.
19:57
Speaker 1: So I would like to pay it forward by paying
20:01
Speaker 1: for a patient surgery instead of just throwing it at
20:04
Speaker 1: an organization where somebody's making money off of it, and
20:07
Speaker 1: we still got no care.
20:09
Speaker 5: Somebody's making money.
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Speaker 3: They have over hundreds of millions of dollars of cancer research.
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Speaker 6: Yes, where's the care?
20:17
Speaker 5: How many people have we lost to cancer that we're famous?
20:20
Speaker 5: Not famous?
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Speaker 7: And then the crazy thing about it is like even
20:23
Speaker 7: when you even in Atlanta, like you look, you see
20:25
Speaker 7: billboard signs about HIV and all this stuff, and I'm like,
20:29
Speaker 7: y'all spending money on billboards, where's where's the cure? Yeah?
20:34
Speaker 5: Here for HIV set we gonna see.
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Speaker 3: Yeah, that's chat GVT.
20:39
Speaker 5: Don't see you don't even got chat GBT.
20:42
Speaker 4: I got Google.
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Speaker 1: Yeah. See see.
20:45
Speaker 3: We appreciate you spend some time with us having when
20:47
Speaker 3: we go, one last question mental health checking and one
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Speaker 3: time for Keisha.
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Speaker 5: How do you keep your mental health strong? What do
20:55
Speaker 5: you do if you're having a bad day? What do
20:57
Speaker 5: you do?
20:58
Speaker 1: I spend a lot of time with thin animals. I
21:01
Speaker 1: really I'm only down to two now.
21:05
Speaker 6: But a dog and a cat, A dog and a cat,
21:08
Speaker 6: they get along, Yes.
21:10
Speaker 1: They love each other. My cat actually just got diagnosed
21:13
Speaker 1: with them fulmless. I'm gonna have to put her down. Yeah,
21:16
Speaker 1: I know they want they wanted me to do it.
21:18
Speaker 1: Before I came out to Atlanta, I was like, I
21:21
Speaker 1: cannot do that because I'll be bawling my eyes out
21:25
Speaker 1: over that. So I rely a lot on my family,
21:29
Speaker 1: my sister, my girlfriends, and then if it gets really bad,
21:32
Speaker 1: then I'm calling my therapist and be like, Okay, I
21:35
Speaker 1: need to tap in with you really quick. But I
21:38
Speaker 1: just surround myself that with people that love and support me.
21:42
Speaker 1: And sometimes something as simple as just going outside and
21:46
Speaker 1: like going for a walk and just having some sun
21:48
Speaker 1: will help you feel better. Journal journaling is helpful. Listening
21:52
Speaker 1: to music if you need to be in your depressed
21:54
Speaker 1: girl era and listen to sad songs, listen to it.
21:58
Speaker 1: Some days, I'll eat a lot if I need to
22:01
Speaker 1: eat my feelings away. But you know, whatever makes you
22:04
Speaker 1: feel better, Yeah, yeah.
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Speaker 5: Give me there you go, Nicole, appreciate you pulling.
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Speaker 1: Up on the ver so much. But cancer, yeah for real,
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Speaker 1: fuck Cancer
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