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Wife Model Argument · Let's Ask the Mamas!

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  We got a question in for our American Mama. Dear Mamma, does a
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  husband have the right to tell his wife not to do a modeling contract?
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  Well, let's ask our American mama, Mama, Mama, and joining us
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  now our American Mama, Terry Netterville. This is a story out of Fox
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  News. There was a woman who went on to Reddit and the the m
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  I v A h there you go uh And she said, look, she
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  was given an opportunity to model for a gym, for the advertisements for a
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  gym and stuff, and she's going to be modeling and scapy clothes. And
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  she was very excited. She went home and told her husband. He said,
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  no, you're not You're not going to do that, and she got
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  very mad and she talked about bodily autonomy. I have bodily autonomy. Who
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  is he to say that I can't do this? Right? And this created
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  quite a debate on Reddit, So now they're wanting to know what the American
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  Mama thinks about this. Well, this is so funny too, because you
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  know, you can't help it put yourself in that situation, like what would
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  happen if I came home and said, Hey, I'm going to be an
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  underwear model? You cool with that? Kevin Nutterville would be like, how
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  much are they gonna pay? I swear to you, promise to God.
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  And if I said, oh, it's you know, they're gonna pay me
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  ten thousand, Who's like, all right, well you need help shopping for
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  the underwear? Yeah? I mean, you know. But honestly, I
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  think that he had every this husband had every right to express his concerns.
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  Maybe he didn't do it the right way, you know, maybe yelling at
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  her or maybe saying, but I understand where he's coming from. He's saying,
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  hey, I don't want the world to see you like that. She's
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  like, hey, dude, this is I wear a bathing suit to the
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  beach. Well, honey, that's different. It's different, you know different,
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  it's different. You're you're lending yourself to give people insight into your bedroom
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  the nighttime, and you you know, husband's that's there, that's there,
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  you know, Lane, that's you know, you're you're the one that's usually
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  reserved for your husband. So my feeling is, if she wanted to and
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  she came home, I told her husband and he blew up, I can
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  see I'm putting myself in the situation. I was, Okay, let can
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  we talk about this, because you know, I don't know what their financial
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  situation is. But if Kevin said even this smission amount of I'm just not
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  comfortable, that's it. I'm done. If my husband's not comfortable with it,
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  I'm I'm not gonna do it. And and honestly, between you,
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  I'm very honesty now. So it's hilarious for me to put myself in this
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  situation because there's no freaking way right. But I'm just saying if I was,
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  if I could, if I was that person that didn't mind, and
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  and a lot of people are like, there's nothing wrong with that to be
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  an underwear model, but I'd want to know, Okay, is it sporty
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  or is this like a sexy boot draw you know, or however you say
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  boudoir yea? Is it? Is it going to be something to entice eyes
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  and they're gonna look at you in a different way, or is it actually
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  you're selling underwear like here's you know, fruit of the Looms, here's you
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  know whatever, Lulu Limon has some new underwear for women. You know,
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  if it's going to be one of those like a catalog used to see in
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  J. C. Penny. So I think that also has something to do
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  with it. But honestly, I feel for her, but I also feel
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  for him because she's thinking, Hey, I have this opportunity to bring in
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  some money, and then he's saying, wait a minute, I don't want
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  people to look at you like that. But she also was saying, no
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  man has the right to tell me what to do with my body, and
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  that is very much a feminist standpoints right, Yeah, and look, we
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  all have liberty right. Every one of us is given a right to liberty
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  by the creator. That would include what you do and do not do with
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  your body. Yeah, okay, but here's my thought about that. Love
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  your husband more than you hate the fact that he's telling you he's not comfortable
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  with it, because that's what he's saying, I'm not comfortable with it.
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  It is your body, Honey, you can do that. But you're looking
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  at a little turmoil in your marriage. So there's got to be a way
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  around it. And people might disagree with me, but I'm telling you this
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  has worked for our marriage. If this is something that made him that uncomfortable,
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  we'd have words about the way he did it. If he if he
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  came at me and just like made me feel like, you know, yeah,
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  and I was a hussy for even thinking about it or whatever. Yeah,
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  I mean we would have words about that, but we respect each other
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  enough. Like if he came home and said, Hey, I'm going to
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  be an underwear model for this catalog, I'd laugh my head off first of
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  all, and then I'd be like, if that's what you want to do,
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  but just get ready because you're you're gonna it's gonna be the hazings coming
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  from all of your friends and your kids. Ye. But yeah, she
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  has body autonomy, but she also has a marriage that she needs to make
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  sure it's going to be okay because they have a little child, so you
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  gotta kind of weight everything. But hey, if you want to, if
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  you have to risk that, then I hope it's worth the money. I
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  hope the money's worth it. I mean, I saw some of the comments
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  from folks on Reddit, and I think the one I agreed with the most
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  was, Yes, you have bodily autonomy, and you can choose to do
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  what you want to do, but you also have to live with the consequences
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  of it and your actions what you choose to do with your body does affect
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  other people, including your husband. It does. It's like those what is
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  that any fans or only fans whatever. There's a kid that's a baseball player
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  and his sister does only fans, and you know, so people haze him
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  all the time for that, right what you do. I know she makes
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  a lot of money, but you do affect your entire family, and he
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  gets grief out there. I mean you'll have people in the right field hold
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  in a big, big sheet with her, you know, link to her
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  only fans. So it does. It doesn't just affect you, it affects
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  button turn Ittville. Thank you so much, Thank you,