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How to make a narcissist lose their minds and GO CRAZY · The Mental Healness Podcast

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  What is going on, beautiful people, Today we're going to be
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  talking about how to make a narcissist go crazy.
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  Now, Hey, don't Hey, this is not one of those videos where you
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  just I'm just making this video for you to herd a narcissist get
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  back. You know, just just dig deep
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  into the mind of a narcissist. If you're new here, my name is
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  Lee Hammock. I'm a diagnosed narcissist and
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  welcome to another episode of the Narcissist Code.
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  Bam. Welcome back folks.
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  Welcome back. Welcome back.
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  Yes y'all, how to make a narcissist go crazy over you
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  over any situation or whatnot, y'all So again, let me preface
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  this video. I should have said this in the
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  beginning. I'm going to say it right now.
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  Don't do this type of stuff to punish a narcissist to get back
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  at them or whatever, because y'all, some narcissist people
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  can't lose their minds and when they lose their minds, all bets
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  are off right? They might try to hurt you, they
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  might try to harm you. They might try to bring a pox to
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  your life right? They might try to just get rid
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  of you. Some of them might try to go
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  ahead and send you to meet your maker, so to speak.
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  So be very careful using these techniques and whatnot because
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  narcissistic people tend to want to seek vengeance.
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  So if you, you know, they like to play the vengeance game,
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  unless you just inflict a narcissistic injury on them so,
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  so severe they, they, they tuck their little narcissistic tail
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  between their little legs and they gallivant off into, into
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  nowhere, right. So one thing you want to do, one
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  thing you could do to make a narcissist go crazy is you
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  remove the narcissistic supply, right?
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  If they're so used like get like narcissist, you have to figure
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  out what type of narcissistic supply that they're getting from
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  you, right? You have this is important.
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  You have to figure out what type of supply that they're getting
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  from you. What's that's important because
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  it can be financial supply, it could be emotional supply, it
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  could be just just being able, being able to push your buttons
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  like the controlling supply they can put like being able to set
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  you off to get a reaction from you.
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  That's that's getting supply your your reactions or
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  validation to them. So that's narcissistic supply in
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  and of itself, right? So what it figure out what type
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  of narcissistic supply that they're getting from you.
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  This might take a little little little investigative journalism
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  on your part right here, right? You had to be an investigative
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  native journalist into your own life, into your partner or
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  parent or whoever it is. But whatever supply that they're
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  getting from you, remove it, remove it.
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  And a lot of times the best way to remove narcissistic supply is
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  through Gray rock people. It really is through Gray rock.
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  Them Gray rocking means literally act like a rock, a
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  Gray a Gray rock. How boring a boring a rock is
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  like you remove your emotional reactions, you turn into a Gray
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  rock. They tend to lose they damn mind
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  right, Some of them will some of them like because grey rocket
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  means having the discipline to remove your emotional reactions
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  or emotional responses from this person.
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  So if you if you successfully do that, you win, right, and they
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  might lose their minds. They might go like I said, when
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  I go crazy, y'all crazy could mean them horn you.
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  So this is what I'm just saying this type of stuff.
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  You might want to avoid. You're saying like because grey
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  rocket when you are just responding, yeah, cool, That's
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  that's OK. When they're saying, when
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  they're yelling the script at you, you're just saying you're
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  right. Yep, yeppers, get that right.
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  You're on it. You might be on, you might be on
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  to something there. You know what you're saying and
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  doing that type of stuff. They might get angrier because
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  you've become boring to them. You're removing that
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  narcissistic supply because a lot of times they're getting
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  supply just from your reactions. Like if I can trigger you, I can
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  control you. That's the simplest it could be
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  as Simply put as that. So if I can trigger an emotional
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  reaction from you, then I'll make control of you because
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  you're not in control of your emotions.
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  I am. So if you remove that emotional
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  control, if you remove my emotional control from you, like
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  if you if y'all been rocking me for a while, I called it
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  changing the changing the changing the access code to your
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  emotions. Like if your, if your original
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  access code was 321 pound and they, they can just go go up to
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  you anytime they're like, oh, I'm going to set my partner off
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  321 pound and you explode, you go crazy, you lose your mind.
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  They're going to keep doing it because it works.
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  But one day if you change the access code behind their back,
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  not let them know the code, you change it to 123 pound, right,
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  they go, I'm going to say I'm going to, you know, I'm going to
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  mess with Judy today, 321 pound and you're not reacting.
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  Maybe I put it in too fast. Maybe my fingers are too cold.
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  321 321321321321 What the hell? What's going on?
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  You know what I'm saying? They can't get in there.
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  No more access. Cutting off access to them, make
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  them, make them lose their money, make them go crazy.
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  Like seriously? Yeah, like you make it.
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  You can make them very, very angry and make them lose control
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  of their own emotional reactions and whatnot.
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  So that's why I said changing the access code to your emotions
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  is one damn near a foolproof way to make a narcissist go crazy.
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  Another way, y'all? Another thing you can do is
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  remove your social media stuff like don't even like sometimes
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  you don't even have to. Like, I know blocking them is
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  not something that some everybody is ready for, right?
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  You want to get to the point where you want to, where you can
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  block them. If you want to end a
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  relationship, if you want to heal, you want the best way to
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  heal, go no contact, right? If it's possible for you and a
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  lot of people just go into blocking mode.
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  You want to block them, you want to block them immediately,
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  right? But sometimes you might not be
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  there yet. We you, we going to get there.
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  We going to work there like in my support group called the
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  Mental Healers. You can find more information at
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  mentalillness.net. I talked about that like you
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  want to build up that muscle to get to the point where you block
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  them and cut off access to them because once you cut off access
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  to them, and that's the best way, but sometimes you're not
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  there yet. You don't want to.
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  Like sometimes you want to go radio silent on your social
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  media, you don't want to post anything because they can make
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  them go crazy because if they're so used to you updating your
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  social media and that's how they keep up with you, that's how
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  they know what's going on in your life.
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  It's kind of like they're watching your, they're watching
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  the empath TV. Y'all know, I tell y'all to turn
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  off the narcissist TV. They're watching the empath TV,
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  right? So if they're watching the
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  empath TV in these spaces, it would not.
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  So like if you turn off the TV by not posting anything they can
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  make, they can make them go crazy.
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  Dude. Now they're wondering what's
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  going on. Now they think you're hiding
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  something. See the a lot of narcissists
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  have paranoia, right? They have a lot of paranoia
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  within themselves. I have it I know I definitely
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  have it. So a lot of narcissists have
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  this paranoia within themselves and they can go this can make
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  them lose their damn minds. They make it can make them go
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  crazy as well, right, because they're going crazy, they're
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  losing their mind if they have this paranoia going on and
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  whatnot. This is the type of stuff that
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  could happen They could absolutely blow they they tops
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  because you're not posting on social media.
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  Had a girl in my group says she doesn't post anything She's been
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  silent. Now he's talk about he's, he's
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  in her social media. I hacked your stuff and I'm
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  looking at your stuff and you you're doing this.
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  I need to talk to you right now. And she's not responding to him.
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  Remove those reactions. He's going crazy, losing his
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  mind. And like I said, that might not
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  be like that could be a good thing because they can get bored
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  like you want, like they can go crazy to the point where they
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  get bored, right? That's what you want.
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  That's the you want them to get bored enough with you so they'll
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  leave you the hell alone. They'll cut off.
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  They want they don't want to deal with you anymore because
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  like you're a Gray rock, you're a yellow rock.
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  You're not the person that you used to be.
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  They miss the OU. Like they said, they'll tell you
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  straight up that they miss the OU.
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  You just say, hey, look, the old me, that old me, dad and gone,
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  Dad and gone. Oh, way too long, too long.
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  I gotta know this song. Yeah, the old me, dad and gone.
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  There's a song right there. But that's what happens, y'all.
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  So this is what you have to prepare for in these abusive,
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  toxic spaces. Like seriously, this is what you
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  have to prepare for. This is something you have to
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  deal with. I want to, you know, talk to so
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  many people in these situations, in these scenarios to help you
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  grow. And I say that's what I'm
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  telling people like you want to make them go crazy to the point
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  where they just leave you alone. You want to bored them out, you
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  know, bored like crazy. That crazy doesn't mean they
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  lose their minds and start stalking and trying to on the
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  lobby. Sometimes crazy could be they
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  just self implode and they just leave you leave you the hell
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  alone. There's like, OK, this is this
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  is dead and over with no more access because it can be
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  something as simple as that. You mean like stop picking up
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  their calls, stop responding to them, stop giving them access to
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  you regardless, Don't open the door when they pop up at your
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  house, you know, don't go out if they pop up at your job, don't
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  go outside and work and talk to them because that type of stuff
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  let's them know that they're still valid in your life.
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  You know, don't let them use don't let them use the children
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  to manipulate you because that's what happens as well.
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  You want, you want the narcissist to go crazy.
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  Stop. Like whatever, figure out,
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  figure out whatever your triggers are, you have to.
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  This is where self discovery comes into play.
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  Figure out whatever your triggers are and and deactivate
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  those triggers like you have to. You have to defuse your own
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  triggers to the point where this narcissistic person can't
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  trigger a response from you in any way, shape or form.
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  Not just like it's a big over the top emotional response, any
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  response at all. Because narcissistic people,
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  they won't access, they won't supply, they won't control.
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  If you remove those things, of course they're going to go
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  crazy. Believe what I did.
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  All of that and they don't go and they didn't go crazy.
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  Am I not worth enough? Y'all?
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  Come on now. What they do or what they don't
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  do is not a determination of your worth.
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  Sometimes their pride and ego gets in the way.
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  It won't let them do certain things.
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  Like a narcissist's ego is both huge and fragile.
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  It's a big plate of glass. Using them.
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  It's a huge pane of glass. It's not a big ass piece of
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  steel, not a steel rod. It's a, it's a, it's a beam.
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  It's a, it's a glass beam. You know, you would rather have
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  steel than glass when you, when you, when you're building a,
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  when you're building a huge structure, you would have rather
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  have steel than glass, wouldn't you?
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  No, I'm not. You know, most times I would say
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  that right there. Yeah, most times I would say
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  that you would rather have steel than than glass.
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  So that's what you have to do right there.
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  They won't access, they won't control.
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  Like see what they're getting from you, y'all and take that
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  away from them. You take things away from them.
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  Like they can make them go crazy.
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  And I'll also go over that, like the most simple way to make them
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  go crazy, y'all, is to expose them, right?
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  But again, you have to be careful with exposure to what
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  they're narcissist because a lot of them will lose their damn
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  minds. Like a lot of narcissists will
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  absolutely lose their minds if and when you expose them because
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  they hate that stuff, right? They hate it, they hate it, they
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  hate it, they hate it. I would just say when you're
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  dealing with this type of stuff right here, y'all just like when
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  you expose them to their friends and family.
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  I had a woman today told me she exposed him to all his friends
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  and stuff like that and now he's trying to be calm and
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  responding. He's calmly texting her after
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  she blocked him. She he created a fake number.
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  He's calmly texting her. Just like I don't want to handle
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  this over the phone. Can I see you in person?
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  Like you can see the rage behind the message because he's so bad
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  he's got to go crazy because he's exposed people.
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  I didn't know he was like this. I had no idea he could be this
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  way. I had no idea who this person
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  was, you know? So this is what happens.
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  So this is the type of stuff, this is the type of stuff you
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  have to become accustomed to, y'all, Or you have to protect
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  yourself, protect your peace at all costs.
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  Protecting yourself and protecting your peace at all
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  cost. Like seriously?
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  Anyway, anyway, y'all, we have to tune into another episode.
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  Protect your peace, protect your privacy, protect your, your
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  pride, your joy, protect all of this stuff y'all, as you
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  podcast. I'm going to talk about talking
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  about all things mental health related, not just narcissism.
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  So you know, it's going to be, it might be over here.
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  We'll see y'all. Anyway, y'all, thank y'all for
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