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How wrong can one journo be? | HBR Talk 262 · Honey Badger Radio

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  Hello, and welcome to HBr Talk to sixty two. How wrong can one
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  journe will be? We all know the answer to that, I think,
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  but it's still fun to ask. I'm your host, Hannah Wallen here with
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  nonsense annihilator Lauren Brooks and the personification of perceptivity Mike Stevenson, and we're going
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  to continue to wade through the sludge of feminist claims about how our criminal justice
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  system handles sexual assault allegations. Unfortunately, Alison's not with us this week to
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  continue the article, but I think that between the three of us will have
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  plenty to say anyway, So there we go. But before we get into
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  And we had we had our technical difficulties before the show started, so
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  hopefully it's all good now. Um, it looks like a couple of things.
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  It did change one stupid thing on me and I am going to fix
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  that because it's going to drive me nuts. I am not selling subscriptions to
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  this news source, so we're just going to move that up. Um,
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  But this article is why is that not moving? There we go, we're
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  doing the electronic slide. Ha ha, it's it doesn't burn as many calories
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  as the electric slide. Sorry, guys, Um, but yeah, we're
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  reading an article in a Dallas Morning News. Um, I can't imagine everybody
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  in the world paying ninety nine cents a week for that anyway, Like,
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  we're not all from Dallas. Maybe if we were, that would be that
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  would be we're worthwhile endeavor. But in any case, there we go.
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  You'll you'll need more shootings, like work on it, Dallas. No,
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  no, no, no, no, kind of some kind of mass meta
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  or whatever. Yeah, there we go. I'm I'm getting them all confused.
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  Now there is more than I can keep track of these days. Yeah,
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  keems insane, you know. I it's funny because we have all this
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  um happening in the United States, where there's a lot of mass crime,
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  there's a lot of mass violence, there's a lot of mass craziness, right,
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  But when you start to look at it, it's always it traces back
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  to oh god, no, you don't want to see me do the electric
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  slide, Richard Bierre. I look ridiculous when I dance. But but yeah,
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  it all ends up tracing back to things that the people who like to
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  highlight it the most don't want to talk about, right, like circumstances that
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  create a mentality that is okay with the commission of crime in in in the
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  individual usually include things like being raised without a father, being raised in a
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  household that's reliant on government assistance, being raised in a household where there is
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  a significant amount of poverty, probably due to those uh, those circumstances.
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  No, I'm not signing in Nag, nag, nag. How the heck
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  do I get out of that? There we go, this this it wanted
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  me to subscribe to. So we are actually looking at a web archive of
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  the article, by the way. But yeah, all all of this,
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  uh you know, boils down to um social ills that in order to solve
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  them we would have to be able to criticize women's choices. And you know
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  how much feminists love it when we criticize women's choices, Like that's just their
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  favorite thing in the whole world. Right, yeah, So, and and
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  this is which implies that women is some kind of collective Yeah, that has
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  some kind of collective blame. And how dare you ha ha ha We we
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  unfortunately are stuck with a collective lack of accountability. Um, and that that
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  really destroys our ability to improve. Can't you can't get good if you can't
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  be told when you're not good exactly exactly. And so I don't know if
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  anybody like has picked up on this, but a lot of times when I
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  refer to women, I kind of exclude myself from that category because I you
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  know, I don't want to be lumped in with the rest of these people,
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  Like I just don't feel like I belong to whatever this this group is
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  that they're trying to mash together. That now any thing can identify as a
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  woman, and that's what a woman is, and we're all just supposed to
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  go along with it, I mean, above and beyond the attitudes that these
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  women hold, like it just it's absurd to me. My brain doesn't work
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  that way. You know. Women are just vindictive and nasty in ways that
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  I could never think to be to another human. But but I'm supposed to
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  relate to them on some kind of level because I share the same genitalia as
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  them or chromosomes. I know, some women are not even women, So
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  figure out how that works. The worst part for me, um, honestly,
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  is if I'm I'm in a situation where I am trying to correct.
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  You know, I've worked most of my life to try to correct some big
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  mistakes and planning and stuff like that, and it's it's been something where I
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  can look back and I can see, you know, there there are things
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  that were harder for my husband, There were harder for my kids to deal
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  with, harder for my parents to deal with because I made some decisions that
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  were unwise right, or I was careless and didn't make decisions, you know,
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  when I should have been more mindful of my actions, And there's a
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  there's a level of you know, that's it's it's great to be able to
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  see, you know, hindsight twenty twenty right and learned from it and do
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  better as you go on. But at the same time, it's even better
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  if you don't have to just rely on your own hindsight. You know,
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  if somebody can come along and say, you know, hey, that was
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  really dumb, maybe you should do this next time, or even if they
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  have to be super nice about how they say it, which I don't think
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  people should have to do. If you do something really dumb and other people
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  get hurt because of it, you know, it should be perfectly acceptable to
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  say, hey, that was really dumb and these people got hurt. Don't
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  do it again, you know. But unfortunately you can't say that to women,
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  right, So women are miserable, and women are miserable in ways that
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  is unique to women because they can't look back at their actions and judge themselves,
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  judge their you know, their wisdom, their morality, their ethics,
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  and other people can't give them advice that involves holding them accountable for poor decision
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  making, and if they do, the woman has this default glitch in the
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  brain that comes back with that's misogynistic. I don't have to listen to it,
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  and of course that means the same mistakes are going to happen over and
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  over again. This is how you end up with women that have four children
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  by four different daddies and sitting in the welfare office working out with the lady
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  behind the desk how to maximize her collection from the government while still collecting enough
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  child support from each baby daddy to you know, keep the state from going
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  after her for not collecting child support, because the state does do that.
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  And it's a sad situation because there she is, right doing as much work
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  as an office worker, a professional office worker, to get a quarter of,
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  maybe or less of what she could get if she was actually a professional
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  if she actually made something of herself. And instead of earning it and getting
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  paid to produce a service or or you know, create participate in the process
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  of creating goods, she is stealing it from her fellow human being who worked
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  for it and then had it taken away from them by the government. And
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  she'll never do better because the state and the community bend over backward to accommodate
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  her. And instead of hey, you know, that's really not good for
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  you, your kids, your community, anybody. Really, how about we
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  get out of that and do something better with your life that will give you
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  a better financial circumstance and you can stop stealing from your neighbors, you know.
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  Instead of that, she looks at Facebook and gets Happy Father's Day to
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  all the single bombs out there who are doing both jobs. She's fucking not.
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  Yeah, you know, And so I'm gonna go off a little bit
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  right here. So you know, this is why I have no sympathy for
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  these people, because they are victims of their own fucking circumstance, right,
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  And this is what I was saying in the after show. I believe it
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  was Tuesday, you know, how we were talking about how women are so
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  depressed. Well, why are women depressed? I believe that it's because they
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  have they have this sense of everything should be my way, because society has
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  just paved this yellow brick road for women to just travel down. Oh do
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  do do do do, and everything's happy and jolly. Right, everything's easy
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  for them, So everything is expected. Why shouldn't they have a place to
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  live? And someone else should pay for it, you know what I mean.
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  It's it becomes this sense of yeah, I deserve it just for existing,
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  and it's unrealistic. It is completely unrealistic, and it's unattainable for a
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  person who has a mindset like that because you are always then waiting for someone
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  else to feed you. And reality, honey, wake up. You gotta
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  work someday for what you want, you know what I mean. You have
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  to put the food in your own mouth. You can't rely on other people.
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  And so these women go through life and they have these high expectations,
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  these ridiculously high expectations of everything of everyone around them. Right, because it's
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  just mine, it belongs to me. It's this is my domain, and
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  you have no right to trespass on my domain. Right, this, this
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  is and this is how they go through life. Yeah, and when they
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  get disappointed when things don't go their way, it's like it's it's a downfall,
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  you know what I mean. It's like they're it just things start to
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  implode, and it's like, well, why doesn't this happen? And why
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  why why don't I have this? You know what I mean? Why why
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  don't I have the nice house and the and the nice cars like everybody else
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  has. Well, it's because maybe you don't fucking do anything to get that.
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  You expect it to come from somewhere else. Yeah, you know,
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  they don't know how to twist in this situation and land on the feet.
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  It's just it's not a sustainable way of living. Nope, you know,
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  And so you're setting yourself up for your own downfall. And I gotta tell
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  you, man, I'm seeing my my neighbor. She's she's getting older and
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  she's still expecting for men to just pay her way, pay her entire her
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  rent, her build. She Oh my, I don't want her to hear
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  me. I hope she's not home, So I'm just gonna kind of clip
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  it there. But it's it's unbelievable the level of entitlement that women feel that
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  they have for just ex xisting, for just having a vagina and giving a
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  man access to it. That means that she gets your wallet, she gets
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  your time, your attention, your everything, and when she's done with you,
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  she can just dispose of you as she sees fit. You know,
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  the really sad thing is you don't even have to give anything. And this
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  is and I've experienced us personally. This is like I had to when I
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  when I lived up in Northwest Ohio, I used to work at a little
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  camera store in Lima that doesn't exist anymore, and it was around the corner
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  from my absolute favorite fast food place in the entire world. They keep me
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  downtown in Lima, and and uh, I used to eat there every day.
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  For like the first six weeks that I worked there, I ate there
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  every day. And then I discovered that you cannot eat a cheeseburger every day
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  and not have consequences. Actually double cheeseburger every day, and I have consequences.
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  But I used to go there anyway. There's other things there and everything,
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  and I liked to sit in there and work on I was working on
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  some writing that I was doing. Had absolutely nothing to do with any of
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  this who was way before this. But there was a guy in there I
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  just, you know, started talking to an older man, you know,
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  just who was chit chatting with everybody, you know, just like you know,
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  the local guy and the local diner that gets to know the regulars at
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  the diner and talks to everybody. So I'm talking to that guy right one
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  day, it's just the two of us in there and other people haven't come
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  to lunch yet, and he essentially offered to be my sugar daddy. And
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  I'm like, Nope, I'm not even having that, not that relationship,
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  not with anybody. That's not No. I do my thing. I earned
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  my money, I pay my bills. I do not need or want some
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  guy that I'm not even that involved with, you know, like that's to
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  do that. And you know, I'm like, and I'm explaining to him.
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  You know, I'm married, I'm getting you know, my shit together
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  with my husband. I'm earning living, we're paying our bills. We're fine.
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  You know. It's very kind of you to offer, but that's not
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  the relationship I want to have with you. Like we chit chat. I
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  like talking politics. It's fun to hang out and that's the limit. And
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  it took my whole half hour lunch, you know about that conversation. Took
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  my whole half hour lunch to get it established that. No, I wasn't
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  going to change my mind on that, and no, I didn't think that
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  was normal or a good relationship for people to have with each other. And
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  no, I wasn't judging him for it, but he shouldn't expect that from
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  me. And like it took like he wasn't asking me for sex, he
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  wasn't asking me for pictures. He was just like, oh, this this,
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  you know, cute young lady. I'll see if I can help her.
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  And it's like it took me right back to this thing that happened when
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  I was a really little kid, young enough to play with a rattle.
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  And I still remember this, like I can see the thing I was trying
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  to do. I can see my little hands doing it and everything. I
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  had another toy that had a little red ball as part of the toy.
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  It was a Christmas tree and the little red ball went on the top.
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  And this rattle had a handle that was round, had a hole in it
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  for you to get a hold of it. And I looked at the ball,
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  and I looked at the hole in the rattle, and it looked like
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  the ball would just fit inside, and so I was trying to get it
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  in there, and my dad was watching me, and he figured out what
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  I was trying to do and saw that it would work. But I was
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  very frustrated, and I kept getting more and more frustrated. So he showed
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  me he gave it. He had had me give it to him, and
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  I and he put the ball in the hole of the rattle. And that's
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  the only time in my life I ever threw a temper tantrum, like a
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  real screaming kicking. I wanted to do it myself, and of course Dad
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  immediately figured that out, took it apart, handed it back to me,
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  and I went at it again with renewed enthusiasm because now I had seen that
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  it could be done. So I was sure one hundred percent this can be
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  done. But I had to do it. I couldn't have somebody do it
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  for me. And that's been me all my life, and I've struggled through
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  all kinds of things that other people tell me, Oh my gosh, I
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  can't believe you managed that. I can't believe you did this. I can't
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  believe you survived that, you know, and I mean things like, you
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  know, if an infection that actually killed the other children that got it during
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  that season that I had it struggling with asthma and not being able to breathe
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  and running across country and stuff like that. Stubbornness is very useful. Right,
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  I'm alive because I'm a stubborn ass. And I think taking that need
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  for stubbornness and that do it yourself attitude and things like that away from women
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  puts women in a situation where they're vulnerable to failure, specifically because they just
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  don't try. Like the worst failure if you try your hardest and you fail.
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  If you just try your absolute hardest and you fail, you at least
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  have the satisfaction of whatever progress you made in that effort, and you don't
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  feel as bad about failing after trying hard because you know what your limits are
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  there, right. But if you don't even try and then later you discover
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  that, well, gosh, it wasn't as hard as it looked. It
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  wasn't as hard as it sounded. You could have done that, that's just
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  a profoundly painful failure right there, because it just it just feels like it
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  feels wimpy, and it feels there's a regret right things you never did,
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  things you never tried. And I think that contributes a lot what we were
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  what we were talking about last week and where I'm going to start with the
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  article this week, because a big part of the complaint that this writer is
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  making is that the justice system doesn't accommodate victims enough in terms of our trauma.
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  When we report that. It bothers me that that um is blamed on,
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  you know, the woman's inability to handle going through the process and having
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  to provide detail and being asked for things that can be used as evidence in
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  the case like if you were brutalized, you know, you want a medical
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  record of that, if you if there was bodily contact and bodily fluids involved,
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  you want the clothing that you had on during the assault, because it's
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  going to be on there. There's gonna be DNA, there's gonna be hair,
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  there's going to be you know, other things that that will help the
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  police identify the individual or prove if you're naming an individual, prove whether that
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  person was the person who committed the crime, and like, those things are
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  important, right if you want to be able to go into a courtroom and
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  be one hundred percent sure that you are serving the entire community, because the
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  community is the plaintiff in a in a criminal case, you're you're going after
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  the criminal on behalf of the community who's laws the criminal broke right, So
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  you want to be able to prove that you're going after the right person and
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  that the crime actually was committed. And those two things are essential because if
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  you go after the wrong person, then in the community's name, you're falsely
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  jailing someone. And if the crime was not committed, again in the community's
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  name, you're falsely jailing someone, and it is a big risk. The
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  FBI actually did a study on how many of their convictions were overturned when they
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  went back and after DNA testing became useful in court. Reevaluated those cases using
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  DNA testing where they had convicted someone based on comparisons of hair and other expert
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  testimony on more subjective evidence, and it turns out, you know, you
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  can you can match hair between people who have h you know, no relationship
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  to each other at all. Their hair can look the same, and you
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  can you can prove that somebody who wasn't there was there based on hair that
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  isn't theirs but looks enough like theirs that the expert was fooled, and DNA
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  comes along and proves that actually that's somebody else's hair. So it's very important
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  that they're able to get that evidence because we don't want the wrong person jailed.
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  We don't want somebody who didn't commit a crime jailed. And if there
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  was a crime committed and you jail somebody who didn't commit it, that means
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  the person who did commit it is still at large and now they're off the
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  hook because you already jailed someone else for that crime. So you're not looking
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  for the perpetrator, right, Um, But we're hearing in this article what
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  we read last week reporting the crime. Can I just to follow up on
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  a point that I think it was making like ten minutes ago. Yeah,
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  Yeah, women shouldn't be treated like a like a homogeneous collective, but unfortunately
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  they are treated that way by society at large and by the government in its
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  entirety. Not not all women think the same as as you can discover from
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  this show or nothing else, but they are treated the same legally by the
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  powers to beat, and men are treated differently by those same powers to beat.
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  And that's what we mean when we speak of women as a collective.
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  There are a class of people as outlined by the government. Whether they approve
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  of it or not, they are subjects to a set of laws that are
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  different from the set of laws men face. It's it's much like the racial
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  issue that there are little to no significant differences between the racist, especially not
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  psychologically. I don't have a problem with white people. I don't have a
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  problem with black people. I have a problem with people who have been brainwashed
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  by racial Marxists, like the Grifts who call themselves BLM. That's that's a
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  subset of white people, and a subset of black people, and a subset
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  of other races. You know. You know, black people brainwashed by BLM
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  think they're victims of society. White people brainwashed by BLM think they're the superior
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  race of society. Both of these subsets of people are deluded idiots, and
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  they're both dangerous, not because I've collectivized them, but because they've already been
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  collectivized. It's the same with gender women. Women who have been brainwashed by
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  feminism think they're victims. Men who have been brainwashed by feminism think they're I
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  mean gods basically, albeit gods of guilt. Both of these subsets of people
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  are deluded idiots. And that's that's that's why I speak of such collective entities
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  as men and women and black and blacks and wise as and when it comes
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  up in that context, because because we live in this nightmare of identity politics,
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  where people think along the lines of their genes and their appearance, they
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  absolutely shouldn't do that, but unfortunately they do. And we're here to tell
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  you that you don't have to. And yes we're screaming into the well,
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  but at least we're trying true, Yeah, exactly, And like that's the
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  same way I feel about it. You know, we really should not be
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  focusing on these the minute show. We should really be able to get past
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  these things. But people are just so laser focused on the ridiculous things,
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  the immutable characteristics of each of humanity that you know, we would have played
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  tug of war with over who can be the most pressed, and it's just
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  for what one of you is get to fall into the dirt the other one's
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  sitting there hole in a rope. What does that get you? You know?
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  And God, just the pandering of the left towards black people, like
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  it's so it's so patronizing. Yeah, and I really wish that black people
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  would wake up and realize that this is what's happening. You know. It's
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  like, oh, every liberal you see that's oh black, Yes, black
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  lives matter. They feel that you are in a position that's inferior to them
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  just because of the color of their skin. That's racist in and of itself.
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  But they don't see it. They don't see it that way. They
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  see, Oh, this guy's he's out to help me, this must be
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  my friend. No, it's not that way, you know. And if
• 27:57
  you really care about the people around you, you will try to wake them
• 28:02
  up to this ship. But some of them just can't shake them awake.
• 28:04
  And I don't know what to do with those people. It's it's rough to
• 28:11
  deal with. And the inconsistency is rough too, because you have and this
• 28:17
  is this is done with both the demographic women and the demographic black people.
• 28:23
  It's done with minorities in general. Um, they they treat and and women
• 28:30
  in particular like it's it's a bigger thing when they do it with women,
• 28:34
  because they divide minorities by gender, and even bigger do it with minority women.
• 28:41
  You know, So you have this duality with women, right. They
• 28:45
  treat us like we're made of glass. Anytime we would be in a situation
• 28:52
  if we were men, we would be expected to exercise some personal accountability,
• 28:57
  some toughness, uh, some resilience and and just you just suck it up
• 29:03
  and and do the thing that is difficult. You know, explain, um,
• 29:10
  what happened to you when it was really awful and you don't like thinking
• 29:15
  about it. Um, Okay, well yeah you could. It helps to
• 29:22
  remember that that's how therapy works. Right when you go to a talk therapist,
• 29:30
  the thing that they tell men they don't do enough of and women are
• 29:36
  better at it. Um. When you go to a talk therapist, you
• 29:38
  know what they do is they start digging into your past traumas, looking for
• 29:44
  causes for your current dysfunctions. And they might go all the way back to
• 29:49
  your early childhood. Um. You know, like like I tell the Rattle
• 29:55
  story to explain just how much of a stubborn ass I am. But you
• 30:02
  know there's other stories from my childhood that I only tell when they're really relevant
• 30:06
  to a situation, because they're not something that I like thinking about the rattle
• 30:11
  story, I don't mind thinking about that, Like, yeah, I threw
• 30:14
  a temper tantrum, but I was like less than two years old, so
• 30:18
  you know that's about the time you're expected to try that at least once.
• 30:22
  Right, But age age is a great modifier for certain situations, like say,
• 30:27
  if you are five years old and you lose your mother, it has
• 30:32
  a certain influence on you and a much different impact on you. Say,
• 30:37
  if you're in your twenties in your mom, right, you know, like
• 30:41
  it always is going to hurt when it happens, it's always, but you
• 30:45
  know it's when you're in your fifties. You kind of expect it to be
• 30:52
  coming at some point. When you're in your twenties, it's heartbreaking. And
• 30:59
  when you're a child, you've just lost essential support in your life. Yeah,
• 31:04
  major differences, right, and you have to deal with the idea of
• 31:10
  growing up, and because it's a part of you, becomes numb to it,
• 31:15
  right because it happened when you were so young, and you've just always
• 31:18
  grown up without your mom. There and do you know it again? That's
• 31:25
  why, like when age is such an important factor when it comes to like
• 31:30
  major life events when it happens to people, um, because it it just
• 31:36
  changes the whole flavor of the rest of your life, for lack of a
• 31:42
  term, well, in your process things differently as you get older, because
• 31:47
  tools. But what I wanted to get across with that was when you look
• 31:52
  at how women are treated, um, when it comes to therapy and telling
• 31:57
  a therapist every little thinking thing about their history. You know, Like I
• 32:04
  think if I went to a therapist, I'd probably have to dig in depth
• 32:08
  into the story of the time I got fish hooked in the mouth over a
• 32:13
  empty fago bottle that we wanted to collect water in to play sandcastle in the
• 32:19
  sandbox at the park with where we shouldn't have been playing because there was cat
• 32:22
  poop. But like that would have been a big deal, right, that's
• 32:28
  a funny story to me now. But those same people that would want me
• 32:35
  to go in depth into all that stuff, right and and talk about everything,
• 32:38
  every little thing that has me stressed in my life, we'll tell me
• 32:45
  that it's just too traumatic to do the same thing if the person I'm talking
• 32:51
  to as a police officer, and the process of that conversation can result in
• 32:57
  me having some recourse against somebody that I have reason to want recourse against that
• 33:06
  I I has been that has wronged me, and that that I have a
• 33:10
  good reason to want revenge, right, um or at least justice where you
• 33:17
  know, I can be heard and they can be heard and get to the
• 33:21
  get to the bottom of the matter and a decision is made on how to
• 33:25
  reform the individual and you know, how to penalize them for what they did.
• 33:30
  Like that, all of a sudden, it's too traumatic because now a
• 33:37
  police officer might do something to the person who hurt you. I think that's
• 33:42
  kind of stupid, But that's what we're told, right, We're told that
• 33:46
  reporting a sexual crime, a sexual assault can be traumatic. Like we read
• 33:51
  this last time. They have to go through this, uh saying exam,
• 33:54
  which there are exams that you have to go through in your life as a
• 34:00
  woman that are somewhat similar. Um. Yeah, like I don't know if
• 34:07
  they I don't know if they always use like all the same equipment, but
• 34:21
  uh women's exams and are are not comfortable. They're not They're not that much
• 34:28
  more uncomfortable, I think than the men's exams. But you know, women's
• 34:32
  exams are not comfortable, they're not fun, they're they're kind of a Some
• 34:37
  exams are a real pain in the ass, especially if you're going to a
• 34:39
  gastroenterologist. Right, Actually that that one's not as bad as it used to
• 34:45
  be. But what I what I mean is like you do this in your
• 34:50
  life on a regular basis, that the gyno visit is supposed to be an
• 34:55
  annual thing, right, and then you're supposed to get your boobs smack in
• 35:00
  a vice and X rayed like every five years or so, and more frequently
• 35:06
  if your family is prone to breast cancer. Like, these are things that
• 35:09
  are normal, right. And it might feel a little more traumatic for a
• 35:15
  lot of women after a sexual assault, but a medical a good medical staffer,
• 35:22
  can normalize that experience too. It's traumatic. It's traumatic for me because
• 35:30
  I'm now at the age where my doctor is telling me that they want they
• 35:35
  want to smash my boobs and stick a camera up my butt, and it
• 35:38
  just doesn't sound as fun it was in my twenties. Maybe, yeah,
• 35:45
  but exactly yeah, And it's all this all this stuff, it's I'm not
• 35:52
  gonna say that it's not traumatic to go through the process of documenting a sexual
• 36:00
  assault. It's but it's not prohibitively traumatic, right, because your goal,
• 36:07
  again is getting some recourse against the person who hurt you. This is it's
• 36:14
  like working to build something, working to create something. You're part of a
• 36:21
  project. The project is we're going to get that asshole. That's the project,
• 36:27
  and you're part of the project. Is whatever that asshole left behind on
• 36:32
  you, they want to discover it so that they can use it against them,
• 36:38
  Right, That's that's your part of the project. And if you're telling
• 36:43
  the truth about the experience that you are recounting to law enforcement and to hospital
• 36:50
  personnel, then you're you're basically your biggest fear is that they can't get enough
• 36:58
  right, they can't enough evidence to complete the project get that asshole. But
• 37:07
  if you're lying, then your biggest fear is going to be that they're going
• 37:09
  to find out you're lying. Right, That would be traumatic. It's not
• 37:14
  traumatic to go through that process to try as hard as you can and just
• 37:21
  miss the mark. Yeah, because you've done you know at least that you've
• 37:25
  done everything you can to get that asshole. And if that asshole gets away
• 37:31
  with it, they have a suspect for the next crime, and they have
• 37:37
  as much evidence as you could give them, and that may contribute to another
• 37:42
  case down the line, and you've done your part and that that actually is
• 37:46
  very therapeutic. But no, what do we get told women are made of
• 37:53
  glass when women have to be accountable for something women are made of glass.
• 38:00
  When when women have to be accountable for an action that should be taken,
• 38:07
  for undertaking that action themselves, we just you know, in fact, we
• 38:12
  might even be sugar glass gonna melt, get a shatter, you know,
• 38:19
  no, no toughness whatsoever. So you just can't just can't go to the
• 38:23
  hospital for treatment for your injuries and a rape kit and you know, evidence
• 38:30
  gathering to get that asshole, because it's just too much. It's just too
• 38:34
  traumatic. Right, But when the woman is the perpetrator, when the woman
• 38:37
  is the person who hurts someone, like when someone else is cut by that
• 38:43
  glass. Oh wait, no, no, women are not made of glass.
• 38:45
  They're made of marshmallows. Why are you afraid of marshmallows? What's wrong
• 38:50
  with you? Are you a marshmallowsogynist? No? I like mine toasted with
• 38:57
  some chocolate and some Graham crackers. That that sounds like alcohol facilitated facilitated moores
• 39:06
  um. But yeah like that that So that's this whole paragraph um about you
• 39:15
  know, victims reporting and what victims have to go through after reporting. That
• 39:20
  pisses me off because it discourages women from taking the steps needed for to hold
• 39:29
  accountable people who did them harm. And what did we learn about about rapists
• 39:35
  when we looked into h like the prevalence research and self reported perpetration, but
• 39:47
  that the overwhelming something like ninety five or ninety six percent of rape is committed
• 39:57
  by this tiny percentage, like somewhere four or six percent of perpetrators who are
• 40:04
  serial violent offenders in multiple ways, not just sexual violence, and just sexual
• 40:10
  violences included in the types of violence they engage in. So you have this
• 40:15
  phenomenon where we are telling as a society, we are telling women it's just
• 40:21
  too hard to hold the person who hurt you accountable. You would have to
• 40:25
  go through this terrible process of building a case against this asshole, telling your
• 40:31
  story and giving your complaint and collecting you know, the game pieces we're going
• 40:38
  to use to go after this person, and we're just going to let this,
• 40:45
  this person who has a high chance of being a serial perpetrator, get
• 40:50
  away with what they did to you and go after the next person. Brilliant.
• 40:58
  But well, since we did read that paragraph before, we'll go on
• 41:00
  to the I just I just had to make that point because that just I'm
• 41:06
  sure you guys can tell, like that just really sticks at my crawl like
• 41:09
  that, Just are we really that dumb as a society? And yes we
• 41:15
  are, yeah, and getting dumber by the day. Yeah, And so
• 41:22
  it goes on. Many police departments exacerbate this problem when they misunderstand the role
• 41:29
  that trauma plays in a victim's behavior. When investigators aren't trained and trauma informed
• 41:35
  practices, they might use interrogation tactics on victims, which only makes the process
• 41:39
  more traumatizing. What they're really saying here is they don't want police to vet
• 41:47
  allegations for validity or believability, credibility, anything like that. What do they
• 41:55
  think is going to happen when you get into court? Exactly exactly You're gonna
• 42:02
  be run up and down the ranger, ma'am. So get your story straight,
• 42:07
  and if you know, I understand, Look I understand all of this,
• 42:13
  right. But here's the thing. It's it's kind of like watch a
• 42:17
  lot of these bodycam videos and it's like, you know, they get pulled
• 42:22
  over for you know, duy or whatever or whatever like, and they just
• 42:28
  start fighting with the cops. It's like, WHOA, Well, I shouldn't
• 42:31
  have to. You're just making it worse for yourself. If you're really innocent,
• 42:38
  if if all you had was a blown out break light, just pull
• 42:43
  over and be kind of say and take the ticket. But these people,
• 42:45
  some people fight back, and I don't understand what that is. It's like
• 42:51
  it's like this this reaction, this negative reaction to authority or being told what
• 42:58
  to do. Um. But you know, in this instance, like if
• 43:06
  you're trying to report a trauma and you really want this person to get caught,
• 43:13
  then why wouldn't you just comply? Why wouldn't you just say listen,
• 43:17
  yes, this hurts, and you can cry all the tears you want,
• 43:22
  you know, but the ultimate goal is getting justice for yourself because you feel
• 43:28
  that you've been wrong. Yeah, the terms entitlement and fragility spring to mind.
• 43:36
  They only apply to the bad people. So what am I thinking?
• 43:39
  See the rough thing about it is, I think a lot of times we
• 43:44
  hear this advocated for by women who are not used to working for what they
• 43:49
  what they get in life like and that's the other thing. If you are
• 43:55
  never expected to earn any thing, you you develop well. It's the same
• 44:04
  as like if you're never expected to go and do anything, If you sit
• 44:10
  around your house all day, if you let yourself get out of shape,
• 44:15
  then when something comes along like oh shit, you gotta move, you actually
• 44:19
  have to like move to a new home. Now you have to gather up
• 44:23
  all your ship and put it in a truck and go and all of a
• 44:28
  sudden, that is hard work. Where you know, if you actually were
• 44:34
  used to getting up and moving around a lot all the time, lifting and
• 44:37
  carrying things all the time, it's still work, but it's not nearly as
• 44:42
  hard. And that that's it's that way with mental exercise. It's that way
• 44:49
  with psychological exercise. If you never do the heavy lifting, if you atrophy
• 44:57
  in your home, you know, or in your a little b bubble,
• 45:00
  your little plastic bubble, then when something comes along that you really can't get
• 45:05
  out of doing the work for it, that's you're screwed. You don't have
• 45:12
  the guts to go talk about your problem, you don't have the guts to
• 45:15
  work to build that case. And it does take away the experience of helping
• 45:22
  the authorities track down and you know, penalize the asshole that hurts you.
• 45:32
  So you basically lose out, and of course the community loses out because the
• 45:37
  asshole gets to go on and hurt somebody else too, exactly so, and
• 45:43
  that that's a really sad situation, and that that goes right back to you
• 45:46
  know, when when women are expected to take action, when accountability means something
• 45:52
  you have to do something about your situation. Women are made of glass.
• 45:57
  And of course the other end of it being that when accountability means that you
• 46:02
  have to take responsibility for having done something bad, women are made of marshmallows.
• 46:09
  It's it's it's the strangest thing, you know, those reflective, those
• 46:14
  damned reflective marshmallows. So it says many police departments exacerbate this problem when they
• 46:22
  misunderstand the role trauma plays in a victim's behavior. What they're really saying there
• 46:25
  is, don't expect women to be honest if they've been traumatized, which is
• 46:31
  bull trauma can do weird things to you, but it doesn't make you dishonest.
• 46:39
  It doesn't take away your ability to be to tell the truth and to
• 46:45
  stick with the truth, and to refrain from embellishing or changing details in order
• 46:52
  to protect yourself. Right. That's that's not how trauma works, certainly,
• 46:57
  not if it's a one off event. If it's it's a repeated pattern of
• 47:00
  abuse, then people can develop what's loosely called Stockholm syndrome. But that's I
• 47:07
  guess for terrorists. But a lot of a lot of victims of repeated abuse
• 47:14
  sort of are in that position in the first place, because they justify everything
• 47:20
  that happens to them. And by no means does this happen to women more
• 47:22
  than it happens to men. I would probably the other way around. Actually
• 47:28
  I would wage the other way around. But it's not trauma though, that
• 47:30
  makes that happen. That is more um Like a lot of times with men
• 47:36
  who are abused. You know, you marry someone or you move in with
• 47:40
  someone because you love them, right, you want to be with that person.
• 47:45
  And when when men fall in love, when men really get dedicated to
• 47:51
  a woman, they get these blinders. Um all of a sudden they fail
• 47:55
  to see any ugliness in her, and it's it's not necessarily all men are
• 48:05
  like that, and it's not necessarily you know that there's no point at which
• 48:08
  they're going to notice. But men put up with a lot of shit from
• 48:13
  women, and they're used to they're told by society that they have to first.
• 48:19
  Arters they do it all their lives. They grow where they grow up
• 48:23
  with the whole ladies first thing that you know, nobody tells them that more
• 48:29
  than ladies, right, yeah, but they get used to this idea that
• 48:34
  you know, you you subjugate your interests, you subvert your interests to make
• 48:40
  sure hers are taken care of first. Right, That's that's the norm.
• 48:45
  Men who are more aware of the current um legal situation are waking up to
• 48:52
  that and doing it less. But the gynocentric norm is still that. In
• 48:59
  general, as a demographic, men get abused by women all the time,
• 49:05
  and they put up with it because they're told they have to. So if
• 49:09
  a woman's abusive behavior is maybe a little bit more dramatic than the rest of
• 49:16
  the women who abuse, that man, to him, it's just a little
• 49:21
  bit more abuse. Well, you know, I love this woman, so
• 49:25
  it's okay if she abuses me more than the other women, right, And
• 49:30
  that's that's why I think a lot of guys do put up with that,
• 49:36
  and they may not even you know, if you think of a behavior as
• 49:38
  normal, then you're not gonna think of it as abuse, are you.
• 49:46
  Like back in the day when spanking was normal, most people would laugh at
• 49:52
  you if you call it abuse. I think we've gotten to the point where
• 49:57
  it's not just not the norm, but it's really abnormal now and most people
• 50:02
  would tell you you're going way overboard, it's not necessary, just you know,
• 50:07
  don't do it, and they would consider it abuse. It's like we've
• 50:14
  we've flipped on that, We've really moved the Overton window on that. Yeah.
• 50:17
  And then on the other hand, we have I think which we're leaning
• 50:22
  more towards, is is parents who don't know how to discipline their children at
• 50:28
  all, and they are just running rough shot over society now, right,
• 50:36
  and you know, what, what is anyone supposed to do? But hey,
• 50:40
  oh, that's say all right. You know, if until the child
• 50:45
  becomes of age, you can't really charge them with a legal crime. So
• 50:51
  I don't know, I don't you can you can there's there's juvenile detention.
• 50:55
  Actually, um, if I remember right, I've read a statistic somewhere,
• 51:00
  the United States incarceraates more children than any other country in the world. That's
• 51:05
  like, you can you can do awful things to children using the state,
• 51:09
  and the state can get away with it, and they basically enslave them so
• 51:14
  and and there and ninety five percent of the children. They do this too,
• 51:16
  our boys, and many of them have mental health conditions, and they
• 51:22
  actually use solitary confinement and juvenile detention too. I really don't see how we
• 51:29
  don't view this as a societal ill that needs to be taken care of,
• 51:36
  rather than oh, these are the wrong ones and let's just throw them away,
• 51:40
  lock them up, and that'll take care of that. No, there
• 51:45
  needs to be some real fucking reform in this society. There needs to be
• 51:50
  some real accountability held to the parents of these children. And I'm not I'm
• 51:55
  not saying just mothers, obviously, I think I do believe that it's mostly
• 52:01
  the mother's fault in many of these cases, not all, not all,
• 52:07
  but in them and the worst one is the single mother exactly and again again
• 52:15
  in the worst cases, this is absolutely a single mother, or it's a
• 52:20
  single mother with her new boyfriend and she's got a new kid by the new
• 52:24
  man of the week, exactly exactly. But but the police just don't understand
• 52:34
  that they have some underlying trauma. So you know, it's the police's fault,
• 52:42
  of course, that's what that that's why we can't accurately report these things.
• 52:45
  No, I think we can't accurately report these cases because a lot of
• 52:51
  people fucking lie. Yeah, you know, and it's it's it's the elephant
• 52:58
  in the room that nobody really wants to touch, right because it's it's just
• 53:02
  fucking blatantly obvious. And now I'm not saying that most of these people are
• 53:07
  lying when these things happen. Obviously that's not the case. But when it
• 53:14
  is the case, it needs to be pointed out, like it's the fucking
• 53:17
  elephant in the room. Well, it would have help if well, there
• 53:23
  are process crimes, right, we know about process crimes? Are people should
• 53:29
  know about process crimes due to the news cycle of the last four years in
• 53:34
  the United States, the last six years now in the United States, process
• 53:37
  crimes should be a subject that people are quite familiar with. Now, well,
• 53:43
  if somebody goes to the police and files a false complaint, that is
• 53:46
  a crime. If in the course of filing that false complaint, during the
• 53:52
  investigation process, after they've file that complaint, when the police start asking them
• 53:55
  questions about the details of the complaint, if they lie to the police during
• 54:04
  that investigation, that is another crime. And then if they push that lie
• 54:09
  through the prosecuting attorney's office and into a courtroom and they lie under oath,
• 54:15
  that's another crime. And if somebody does that right during one of these cases,
• 54:22
  it should be automatic if it's blatantly obvious that the allegation itself is a
• 54:28
  lie, and that details given in support of that allegation are lies because they
• 54:35
  are based on an initial lie, that you should have to prosecute for that.
• 54:39
  If you were prosecuting the person who was lied about the false allegation,
• 54:45
  victim now on behalf of society, and that victim, you should be prosecuting
• 54:52
  the false accuser. M absolutely. And again that's that's another answer to this
• 54:58
  question, why can't we prosecute sexual assault properly? Or why why are we
• 55:02
  so bad at prosecuting sexual assault? It's because we don't give a fuck when
• 55:09
  there are these false allegations made. It's just like, oh, whatever,
• 55:15
  you know, just oh, there's no punishment for people who lie about these
• 55:22
  things, So how has anyone to take it seriously? If you can just
• 55:28
  you know, do something like this and ruin a person's life. Yeah,
• 55:36
  hello, Brian Banks. And there's nothing that happens to these people, not
• 55:40
  all again again not all, not all, but when it happens, it's
• 55:47
  just a smack into in the face of the actual victims of crimes like this.
• 55:54
  Yeah, because you know the seven years in hell case I talked about
• 55:58
  before, and how the accus user added rape to her list of allegations,
• 56:02
  and then she changed her story like multiple times, like three or four times.
• 56:07
  She changed location, she could, changed the time, the date,
• 56:09
  everything about the story except who she was accusing, right, she it was
• 56:15
  provably false, like she could not find a time when he wasn't accountable accounted
• 56:22
  for because we were actually making sure that he could prove where he was and
• 56:28
  what he was doing all the time, so there was never going to be
• 56:31
  a time that he wasn't accounted for. By the time she got done changing
• 56:36
  her story, there was zero doubt left. There was zero room left for
• 56:39
  doubt. That she lied, she knew it didn't happen, and she said
• 56:44
  it happened anyway. Do you think there was any accountability at all? Of
• 56:50
  course not, of course not, none, of course not. And that's
• 56:54
  the other thing that these false allegations do is they soak up the court's time
• 57:00
  to actually take care of cases where real fucking assaults happen. And that's pisses
• 57:07
  me off more than anything else. Yeah. Right, you're sitting in the
• 57:12
  court lying and trying to use your fucking children as pawns against these people that
• 57:16
  you chose to have children with. But now you feel aggrieved in some sort
• 57:21
  of way. Again, this is why women are depressed, because they expect
• 57:25
  this fucking fairy tale life and it doesn't fucking work out, And so what
• 57:30
  do they do. They try to take revenge on everyone around them. This
• 57:35
  is why they're fucking depressed. This is why they can't handle life, because
• 57:39
  life is not the way you. Life does not read your fucking diary,
• 57:47
  okay, And the immortal words of Marvin the paranoid Android life don't talk to
• 57:54
  me about life. Somebody was saying on Twitter a little bit before the show
• 58:02
  that life sucks. And then you die. That's the natural order of things,
• 58:07
  right, The natural order of things is that life sucks and then you
• 58:10
  die unless you take action yourself to make your life better. That is,
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  it is your job as a human being. That is what you're here to
• 58:21
  learn how to do, is to to achieve maybe not necessarily what many people
• 58:30
  think of happiness as like you know, woo happiness, but contentment, love,
• 58:35
  connection with other people, and success in an endeavor that contributes to the
• 58:40
  community where you live. Those are things that are That's what you're here for.
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  And if you just let life suck instead and you never take action to
• 58:51
  reduce how much life sucks and make it better, you don't get to blame
• 58:55
  everybody else, you know, unless you're a woman, and then you do,
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  unfortunately, And and that's why women's women don't improve their lives beyond life
• 59:06
  sucks. But honestly, women pathologize everything. I don't necessarily think women are
• 59:10
  more depressed than men on the scale that that surveys say. I think women
• 59:16
  claim to be suffering more than they are suffering exactly. Yeah, when women
• 59:22
  are more aggrieved, men have real reasons to want to end their lives right
• 59:30
  well, And and the thing is. Men will limp along and they'll be
• 59:37
  glad that they got to go to a baseball game, or they'll be glad
• 59:40
  that this person is in their life, or they'll be glad that they achieved
• 59:46
  this project at work, you know, and people are proud of them,
• 59:52
  and they're proud of themselves, you know. That's they'll be glad that they
• 59:58
  get time with their children, even if it's a little bit of time.
• 1:00:00
  They'll be glad for that amount of time before they start even thinking about how
• 1:00:06
  much it sucks to not have the rest of the time. And men are
• 1:00:10
  happier than women because of that. Even in miserable situations. Women make themselves
• 1:00:19
  more miserable, and then they spread that misery as much as they possibly can
• 1:00:24
  by bitching about it. And it's an unfortunate reality. And unless you grow
• 1:00:30
  up in a family where you are not permitted to do that, that is
• 1:00:36
  a behavior that children will do. But when you grow up and you're not
• 1:00:43
  permitted to do that, you grow out of it. And boys are not
• 1:00:47
  permitted to do that. Girls are unfortunately permitted to do that, and so
• 1:00:52
  many of them never grow out of it, whereas boys generally do. And
• 1:00:58
  you can always tell a guy that grew up in a family where he was
• 1:01:00
  permitted to do that because he'll behave so differently from the rest of the men
• 1:01:04
  around him that gets on everybody's nerves, right, Yes, And those are
• 1:01:08
  a lot of times. Those are the guys that engage in behaviors that people
• 1:01:13
  think or borderline. Not always. Sometimes it's because you know, they have
• 1:01:15
  a disorder that makes them clueless, or they've never been socialized around other people
• 1:01:21
  very well. But most of the time or there there. There's also like
• 1:01:25
  sociopaths will mimic that, and psychopaths will mimic that as best they can.
• 1:01:31
  But it is really it is something that gets trained out of boys as they
• 1:01:38
  are growing up, and I think there's more of a natural tendency to grow
• 1:01:43
  out of it in boys as well, But it doesn't get trained out of
• 1:01:45
  girls, and I don't think there's as much of a natural tendency to grow
• 1:01:50
  out of it if it's not trained out of them. And what you end
• 1:01:54
  up with then is the girl that will tell no one for twenty years that
• 1:02:01
  she felt wronged by this guy, and then when she does talk about it
• 1:02:06
  twenty years later, instead of talking about what really happened. She talks about
• 1:02:12
  it as though it's ten or twenty times bigger and batterer than it really was.
• 1:02:19
  On the subjective spanking, sorry, I'm late to the show again,
• 1:02:23
  but we don't worry about it. On the subject of spanking, we speak
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  like it's a practice that's been stigmatized in the last few generations. But what's
• 1:02:35
  specifically been stigmatized is when fathers do it. It was it was only the
• 1:02:42
  generation before mine, namely the Boomers, when it was still normal for a
• 1:02:47
  for a father to spank a child, specifically a boy. I don't think
• 1:02:52
  it's ever been acceptable for a father to spanking is infant of but not long
• 1:02:57
  ago, it was even acceptable practice for ather to beat his son like with
• 1:03:01
  a belt or have you as and when he transgresses against his mother's wishes,
• 1:03:07
  and usually it's at the command of the mother in question. The only thing
• 1:03:10
  that's changed in the past few generations is that it's no longer okay for a
• 1:03:15
  father to lay a hand, let alone a belt on a child, even
• 1:03:21
  a son. That and the very idea of fathers has been stigmatized, And
• 1:03:25
  then we're left with this glut of singled mothers The idea of a mother clocking
• 1:03:32
  her son around the head is still fine, even even her daughter. Come
• 1:03:37
  to think of it, You'll notice it's not even called spanking when mothers do
• 1:03:40
  it. It's not called anything. For mother beats her son or daughter about
• 1:03:45
  the head with her hand or with whatever weapon is available, it's just called
• 1:03:51
  well, it's not called anything. It's called mothering. If anything, it's
• 1:03:53
  called well, I have to do this. I'm raising these children by myself,
• 1:03:59
  through no choice of my own. What else am I supposed to do?
• 1:04:02
  Allow the father to help in some way that's clearly not an option,
• 1:04:06
  is far more useful to me as a remote wallet. And so and so,
• 1:04:13
  children in this day and age don't grow up with the optional punishment of
• 1:04:18
  a father, a piste off father simply you know, growling at them or
• 1:04:26
  given them the stink eye, just just letting them know, very subtly,
• 1:04:30
  just how disappointed, which is a very effective parenting method, by the way,
• 1:04:36
  which children do understand, and it involves zero violence. And it's something
• 1:04:41
  that fathers have also done for generations, fathers that never laid a hand to
• 1:04:45
  their children because they didn't have to, because they were able to just give
• 1:04:48
  them that stink eye. But what we're what we're left with in this day
• 1:04:51
  and age, is the absolute normalization of women's single mothers just beating the ship
• 1:05:00
  out of their children. And then we wonder why children grow up to be
• 1:05:04
  violent, and why society in general is mysteriously becoming so much more violent.
• 1:05:12
  It's because, well, women would never be violent, especially not mothers.
• 1:05:15
  Women can't be violent. If we get men out of the family, they
• 1:05:20
  will become magically utterly non violent. If we get men out of society,
• 1:05:27
  then society will become magically nonviolent. Hasn't quite worked out that way, has
• 1:05:31
  it. You know, my dad had a philosophy on discipline. My parents
• 1:05:40
  both had like, very compatible philosophies on discipline, but my dad in particular
• 1:05:45
  had a very interesting one. You don't discipline by scaring the child. You
• 1:05:53
  discipline by demonstrating, you know, annoyance with the behavior by any and this
• 1:06:00
  you know as an educator, um, and as a male educator, you
• 1:06:05
  know, he always had to be careful putting his hands on kids. You
• 1:06:09
  can't just spank somebody's kid. Um. Now, during the early seventies in
• 1:06:15
  education, spanking was fairly normal, but as you got up into the eighties,
• 1:06:24
  it became you know, very much controversial, and in particular, they
• 1:06:30
  you know, they didn't they didn't allow the men to do it, because
• 1:06:34
  that was that was that was a false allegation danger right there, especially if
• 1:06:41
  the the girls didn't get paddled as often as boys did. To begin with,
• 1:06:45
  It's always been an unfair thing, but boy's behavior was treated more harshly.
• 1:06:49
  Always, as far as I know, um, at least during my
• 1:06:54
  entire school career, it was. But Dad didn't like doing any of that,
• 1:07:00
  you know. His idea was, you you sort of follow the rule
• 1:07:08
  from the cask of a monteado. I think I'm pronouncing that right. I
• 1:07:11
  don't. I don't not a big drinker, so I don't know if I'm
• 1:07:13
  pronouncing that right. But that was in the story. The main character gets
• 1:07:20
  revenge on someone who has wronged him by tricking him to come into his wine
• 1:07:28
  cellar to to try the cask of this great wine. But then he actually
• 1:07:33
  slowly walls him up behind a brick wall in there, and you know where
• 1:07:41
  he's He's never going to get caught for having committed this crime, but the
• 1:07:45
  person he's punishing knows that you know he's being punished, he knows what he's
• 1:07:51
  being punished for, and he knows he who's punishing him, and so there's
• 1:07:58
  no consequence for the punisher, just the punished. Well, you can't really
• 1:08:02
  say that about things like paddling detention, anything that puts the punisher in a
• 1:08:10
  position where they're at risk of again a false allegation or um at, you
• 1:08:15
  know, being forced to use their time. So my dad would do things
• 1:08:20
  like um instead of after school detention. The student would have to come and
• 1:08:26
  stop into his classroom for two minutes at the beginning of a lunch period.
• 1:08:31
  That just enough to make them last in line, not enough to take up
• 1:08:38
  a bunch of his time. And they knew they were being punished. They
• 1:08:43
  knew they were being what they were being punished for, right, they knew
• 1:08:46
  who was who was doing the punishing and everything, and they knew that not
• 1:08:51
  engaging that behavior again would avoid that punishment for that behavior, and that was
• 1:08:56
  that was good enough. If he had a student that he needed to explain
• 1:09:00
  why the behavior was wrong, then they'd have a talk. But that's not
• 1:09:03
  punishment, that's mentoring. Right. If you just have a student that you're
• 1:09:08
  handing a punishment down to that's how you handle it. Spanking is useless in
• 1:09:12
  that situation. I had a classmate that, like, you could have beaten
• 1:09:15
  the hell out of him, Like you could have left bruises, you could
• 1:09:17
  have left wellts, you could have burned him. Wouldn't have mattered. He
• 1:09:20
  wouldn't have had any reaction to that at all. But one day he was
• 1:09:28
  bullying me and I told him off, and I pulled out like every five
• 1:09:34
  dollar college word I could in the course of telling him off, which clearly
• 1:09:41
  demonstrated that my vocabulary was far more advanced than his, and it embarrassed him.
• 1:09:47
  He left me alone after that. He never bothered me again, never
• 1:09:50
  laid a finger on him. Wouldn't have won if I had. He weighed
• 1:09:57
  more more than me by as much as I weighed, I think just about.
• 1:10:03
  And there was there was, just you know, besides the fact that
• 1:10:06
  he was a dude and he was going to be stronger than me and faster
• 1:10:10
  than me anyway, right, But that I was. I was stronger and
• 1:10:13
  faster than him verbally, and that was the end of it. I won
• 1:10:16
  that fight without ever having to hit him. I never have to remember doing
• 1:10:20
  anything really mean to him. He was embarrassed momentarily, and there wasn't really
• 1:10:27
  enough people around for it. They're like, people weren't talking about it for
• 1:10:29
  weeks and weeks everybody forgot about it by the next day. But he didn't.
• 1:10:35
  He didn't do that again because he knew it. He wasn't going to
• 1:10:38
  win. He's never gonna win that fight. He would have had to put
• 1:10:42
  hands on me to win a fight with me, and he wasn't going to
• 1:10:44
  do that because every guy in the school would have looked down on him for
• 1:10:47
  it, you know. So like that's how you handle when when you're dealing
• 1:10:55
  with somebody like that, That's how you handle that kind of like either mentoring
• 1:10:58
  or punishment, Like all right, I will show that I am bigger and
• 1:11:01
  stronger than you in this way, and I will show that you will have
• 1:11:05
  a consequence, even even if it's not violent, And in fact, it
• 1:11:11
  makes a bigger difference, as he was nicer to other people too after that,
• 1:11:17
  and just like I was more careful about certain things after Mom made me
• 1:11:21
  pay for the neighbor's window that I broke when I climbed the walnut tree.
• 1:11:26
  I wasn't allowed to climb and knocked a walnut down and it ricocheted off branches
• 1:11:31
  and into this stupid window. Like it it ricorcheted off multiple branches and into
• 1:11:36
  the student was like God was directing this stupid walnut just so that I would
• 1:11:42
  get in trouble and learn that lesson. But in any case, yeah,
• 1:11:45
  that's that's that's how you handle like anything. But for a long time,
• 1:11:49
  yeah, spanking and violence were the norm, and in particular, women would
• 1:11:57
  use those punishments a lot, but they would make the dad do it.
• 1:12:01
  Wait till your father gets home. I'm not gonna actually have to remember doing
• 1:12:08
  this to you. But it's done. You're you know, you're still going
• 1:12:11
  to experience it. But my hands are clean because wait till your father gets
• 1:12:15
  home. I'm gonna nag him into doing it. Right now, it's just
• 1:12:20
  wait till the police get hit. I know. That's even worse because once
• 1:12:26
  upon a time, years ago, you used to be able to take a
• 1:12:31
  profoundly disturbed child through the legal system to get to psychological treatment that was actually
• 1:12:35
  effective. Now they just get abused. Yeah, but and that's sort of
• 1:12:45
  where we end up with the future perpetrators. Yeah, but going on,
• 1:12:51
  with this article. So we we did talk before about the claims about you
• 1:12:58
  know, police investigation, and then the other claim. We're going to revisit
• 1:13:01
  the other claim here we read before. The consensus among academic researchers seems to
• 1:13:09
  be that between two and ten percent of reports or false. But I want
• 1:13:15
  to remind everybody that is based on studies that were done using a standard that
• 1:13:24
  didn't allow any vetting of the reports for validity or for holes and flaws.
• 1:13:34
  So only if the only if the accuser recanted or the holes and flaws were
• 1:13:45
  so obvious that the detective didn't have to look for them, did they consider
• 1:13:50
  those reports to be false. No investigation, right, and they still found
• 1:13:58
  a higher personage of false reports then they are able to convict. So reports
• 1:14:09
  that can be confirmed, absolutely confirmed true are are much lower in number,
• 1:14:16
  right, But they don't like to count that as the entirety of true reports?
• 1:14:20
  Do they always like to say all the reports that are in doubt could
• 1:14:25
  be true? What do they say about false reports? It's important to note
• 1:14:30
  that every study she says I could find analyzing false reports relied on what percentage
• 1:14:38
  of reports were marked false by the police, not the number of people successfully
• 1:14:43
  prosecuted for filing false reports. So by saying that, this writer establishes that
• 1:14:47
  a report is only false if prosecution of the person who lied is successful.
• 1:14:57
  So if they're never prosecuted, the report can't be false based on that standard,
• 1:15:01
  right right, Which if we apply that standard to sexual violence, then
• 1:15:10
  the reports cannot be valid unless they're prosecuted either. So all reports that are
• 1:15:15
  not made to police, that are just made to surveys or to um shelter
• 1:15:23
  personnel, you know, and so on, like therapists and stuff, those
• 1:15:27
  are all not valid reports according to the standard they want to apply to false
• 1:15:31
  reports, which which says nothing of the completely unreported crimes which we can tell
• 1:15:38
  you definatively is it's just through the roof. How do you know that if
• 1:15:42
  they're not repositive? We just know. We just just just trust us.
• 1:15:45
  Just take my word for it, Okay. And what about what about the
• 1:15:48
  unreported cases of men and boys being that never happens exactly? So if we
• 1:15:59
  want to look at, um, how many how many reports are actually false?
• 1:16:06
  Um? I think we should consider some things like the f Like I
• 1:16:10
  said before, the FBI found that when they had relied on you know,
• 1:16:15
  hair matching and stuff like that. Twenty five percent of the convictions that they
• 1:16:21
  went back and investigated with DNA testing afterwards turned out to be false one in
• 1:16:27
  four. That's a pretty high level there um. That's not necessarily meaning that
• 1:16:34
  there was no crime, but that the allegation against the accused was false.
• 1:16:43
  The accused didn't commit the crime, so that that's that's pretty bad, right.
• 1:16:49
  And then you have Mcamara, I think was the one that was sixty
• 1:16:58
  five percent, and Canaan was that wast and some of those involved instances where
• 1:17:06
  the accuser didn't want to take a lie detector test so they recanted because they're
• 1:17:14
  afraid they would get caught lying. Feminists like to claim that that was because
• 1:17:19
  people don't trust lie detectors, but I think I think it's more because people
• 1:17:27
  were afraid that they would get caught lying. And then there are other other
• 1:17:32
  sources that have even higher rates, but I'm not sure of those studies.
• 1:17:40
  So if I were someone ones to ask me in the United States, what's
• 1:17:45
  the actual rate of false allegations, it could be as low as ten percent.
• 1:17:54
  I don't think it is. It could be as high as sixty five
• 1:17:58
  percent. Well, in India, there was a an evaluation done by the
• 1:18:04
  Hindi in Delhi on on rape allegations and they found a sixty five percent confirmed
• 1:18:15
  false rate, like out of the out of the shoot, sixty five percent
• 1:18:19
  of their allegations that they investigated were false, not in doubt, but definitely
• 1:18:29
  unquestionably false, where the woman was alleging rape based on her feelings in a
• 1:18:38
  situation, not based on the law. And then there's another twenty percent that
• 1:18:46
  was in question, so it could be as high as eighty five percent.
• 1:18:56
  Now in India, one of the contributing fact was it's not considered it's not
• 1:19:04
  legally considered rape to breach a promise to marry in India after you know you've
• 1:19:13
  had sex with your fiance. Like in the United States, we don't have
• 1:19:16
  that issue. Nobody thinks that that's rape. In India, there's a cultural
• 1:19:21
  belief that that's rape. And then the other thing is in India there's arranged
• 1:19:29
  marriage and there are circumstances where parents make rape allegations against men their daughters run
• 1:19:35
  away with instead of marrying who, mom and dad are telling them who who
• 1:19:41
  to marry. And that's not really a big factor in the United States either,
• 1:19:45
  so you don't have grown women running off with grown men and then that
• 1:19:49
  man being accused of rape by her parents because they don't want her to marry
• 1:19:54
  that guy, and they expect the police to stop the wedding. So those
• 1:20:00
  factors, you know, I would say, Um, sixty five is sixty
• 1:20:04
  five percent is probably a high number in the United States. Probably, I'm
• 1:20:10
  closer to believing that forty percent number. But it's very possible that sixty five
• 1:20:15
  percent is correct because it is, like I said, it's confirmed in India,
• 1:20:18
  and it's the low number in India. Like that's just it blows your
• 1:20:25
  mind when you think about it. How many people would would just flippantly falsely
• 1:20:30
  accused somebody of a serious crime in a in a country where that crime is
• 1:20:35
  even more harshly punished than it is here. But there you go. You
• 1:20:42
  know, when you're entitled, you're entitled. So when this individual talks about
• 1:20:48
  false allegations as a rarity, you know, it's important to note, um,
• 1:20:55
  what she says. Uh. Still, there's a persistent idea in American
• 1:20:58
  society that is common for women to lie about being raped. Well, it's
• 1:21:01
  possible that it is, and we can't trust research that minimizes that on the
• 1:21:10
  basis of not vetting the allegation for falsehood, it's very possible that it is.
• 1:21:16
  And until we have a study that digs into allegations and analyzes every detail,
• 1:21:24
  analyzes the evidence, and then comes back and says, well, a
• 1:21:28
  low percentage of these, very low percentage of these were confirmed false, and
• 1:21:32
  then there were was another percentage that that was in doubt, but we couldn't
• 1:21:36
  confirm true or false, and admits that there's a percentage that's confirmed false and
• 1:21:44
  a percentage that's unknown that might might be false. Also, uh, we
• 1:21:48
  aren't we aren't going to have a good statistic here for for for this issue.
• 1:21:57
  But but the writer goes on, false reports do happen, and when
• 1:22:00
  they do, they go viral. So that's that's another weasel statement a right.
• 1:22:12
  Imagine if we said, um, you know, rape happens and when
• 1:22:15
  it does, it goes viral, it implies that if a rape doesn't make
• 1:22:20
  the news, it didn't happen. If the crime isn't famous, it didn't
• 1:22:30
  happen. Right. If you're not the person that every newspaper in the country
• 1:22:36
  decided to use as the example to try to get due process compromised. Again,
• 1:22:45
  you didn't do anything wrong. I mean, rape reports go viral before
• 1:22:50
  they're even confirmed as true or false. We've we've been talking about stuff like
• 1:22:57
  this for fucking ten years now. There have been a number of famous cases,
• 1:23:02
  um, like like the duke lacrosse thing and the thing that was in
• 1:23:08
  Rolling Stone and the guy who got who has sex with a sleep woman in
• 1:23:18
  a dumpster whatever it was. Oh, you're talking about brock Turner. Yeah,
• 1:23:25
  loads of cases like that. They go, they go viral when they
• 1:23:28
  are assumed to be true rapes, and then they get buried when they are
• 1:23:32
  confirmed to be false, and then they get rewritten too, like the brock
• 1:23:38
  Turner story. Um, he wasn't convicted of rape. But today if you
• 1:23:44
  ask a feminist, she'll say he was convicted of rape and then he only
• 1:23:49
  got sentenced to three months in jail, which isn't true. He was convicted
• 1:23:54
  of sexual assault. He was not convicted of rape, and it is a
• 1:23:57
  state that has rape conviction. Um, he got sentenced to six months for
• 1:24:03
  the lower crime that he was. He wasn't even charged if I remember,
• 1:24:09
  right, Um, with rape and that that just gets disappeared when you talk
• 1:24:16
  about this gets what does it tell you that people have to fabricate cases of
• 1:24:25
  rape in order to make them go viral. But every now and again you
• 1:24:29
  get a confirmed, false report that goes viral because it's fucking confirmed. Yep.
• 1:24:40
  And the sad thing is, like, you know, there there are
• 1:24:43
  real crimes that happen all the time. Um, there are convictions, there
• 1:24:47
  are you know, there are cases that could be confirmed that don't go viral,
• 1:24:54
  and it's because the person is tried. They're they're arrested, they're investigated,
• 1:25:00
  they're interrogated, they're jailed, they're they're tried, they're convicted, and
• 1:25:06
  they go on a sex offender list. They go to jail for years.
• 1:25:11
  When they get out and they're on probation, they have a bunch of things
• 1:25:15
  they have to perform. They have to go that check in every every week.
• 1:25:18
  They have therapy they have to go to they have all these things they
• 1:25:20
  have to do. Right, there's punishment, there's efforts at reform, you
• 1:25:29
  know, treatment, whether it works or not. I'm I'm not sure that
• 1:25:31
  I trust the state to do therapy. I just don't think I don't really
• 1:25:38
  trust a state to do anything. So I guess that's not surprising. But
• 1:25:43
  if those don't go viral, because they can't use them to say that people
• 1:25:46
  don't punish rape, that the state doesn't punish rape. If every false report,
• 1:25:50
  or even close to a majority of false rape reports went viral, they
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  would be nothing in the news but the cases of false rapes. But we
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  we we get we get one every now and again. Yeah, even even
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  in the mass media, and nobody covers it after the fact except us Hereny
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  Badger Radio yep. And it's a sad thing, is you know this this
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  there's never any accountability for it either. Um, you don't see when even
• 1:26:26
  when these cases go viral, you don't see any recourse for for the victims
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  of the false allegations against the accusers. And Mattress Girl got to continue to
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  play victim for quite a while a couple of years after. Like she she
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  made a lifestyle out of and our and in our form of artistic expression,
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  out of playing victim of being accountable in which she wasn't for having made a
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  false allegation. I mean, that's it's it's pathetic and it's horrible that the
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  accused never really had any recourse, never never got justice. Right. We
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  worry about women getting justice when they make an allegation, but we don't worry
• 1:27:15
  about the men they accuse getting justice when that accusation turns out to be a
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  lie. It's it's even less considered than the justice that men deserve when they're
• 1:27:28
  the victims and the perpetrator is female, but when they're the sexual assault victims
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  and the perpetrators female. Because I think, I don't, I doubt that
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  there's many instances of false allegation of any type of violence that a man can
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  be taken seriously making against a woman. What have we never seen a case
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  in any master media site of a man falsely accusing a woman of rape.
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  Yeah, I don't think there's ever been any reporting on that. I presume
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  it can happen, it just and maybe even it has. For one reason
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  or another, we never hear about it. Well, for starters, in
• 1:28:24
  order to falsely accuse a woman of sexual violence against him, a guy has
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  to get first past the hesitants. Men have to admit to being dominated by
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  a woman in any way. Because men do get treated like um, it's
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  their fault if something like that happens, even though they're not allowed to fight
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  back. You would you would think the the largely feminist mainstream media would would
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  be all up on that if it ever did happen, and they could let
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  the public know that, Look, there are there are men falsely accusing women
• 1:29:04
  of rape all up and down, all up and down the country because of
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  this one case we've found. But it never happens, and I have the
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  only I guess they just they don't want to know. They don't want to
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  let anyone know that it's even possible for a man to accuse a woman of
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  rape, where whether it's true or false. Yeah, they want everyone to
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  believe that rape is something that is only done by mental men, which which
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  legally speaking, it is in my country, and I guess, I guess
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  it is in a lot of other countries. And so of course it's not
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  a story if there's no such thing as a woman raping a man. I
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  mean, a man literally can't accuse a woman of rape in my country because
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  there's no such crime. Nope, they label it, they put it under
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  the umbrella of other sexual assault. And when you bring it up to politicians
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  from your country, they will claim that they don't think that that needs to
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  be changed because there is a for serious sexual assault, there's a penalty that's
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  exactly the same as the penalty for rape. But it's not. It's not
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  exactly the same. There is a huge difference, for instance, between calling
• 1:30:25
  somebody a rapist and calling somebody a pedophile. And if you were to say,
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  well, when men can call commit the crime, since we label forced
• 1:30:36
  sex rape, when men do it, we won't call them pedophiles. We'll
• 1:30:40
  only call women pedophiles. We're going to call men rapists when they do it.
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  Women would go through the roof, they would be livid, but they're
• 1:30:47
  perfectly fine claiming it's exactly the same punishment if you give the same number of
• 1:30:54
  years in prison and the same requirements for reforming behaviors afterwards. And Trump being
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  tracked and everything, but you don't apply the stigma of the label rapist to
• 1:31:10
  women. You only apply the stigma of label rapist to male perpetrators. Right,
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  Um, that's not a difference, right, that's no big, no
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  big deal, just just just you know, they get to go wherever they
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  want and do whatever they want without being called a rapist. No big deal.
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  So, uh, yeah, it's not the same punishment and it's never
• 1:31:33
  going to be the same punishment until they label the crime for both sexes,
• 1:31:41
  they stop requiring a penis to be used in perpetrationum. But you know,
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  going going on with the article, So we've established that it's the initial thing
• 1:31:55
  about only only eight tenths of one percent of rapes getting leading to a conviction
• 1:32:01
  that turned out to be bullshit. Right. The idea of failure among police
• 1:32:11
  because women aren't reporting that turned that's bullshit. The idea of false allegations being
• 1:32:18
  rare, as a confirmed statement that you know, we should make decisions based
• 1:32:25
  on that claim, that turned out to be bullshit. So now we have
• 1:32:29
  all of the details on which this woman or this woman I can't remember,
• 1:32:33
  this author is male or female, but this author is basing the advice we're
• 1:32:41
  about to hear. All three of the main conditions are bullshit. So we
• 1:32:46
  have our house of cards. So we're going to scroll down a little bit
• 1:32:49
  here. Next is there aren't reliable statistics about rape investigations. So I've skipped
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  a bunch of text. If you guys want to control f that's what you
• 1:33:05
  should look for. There aren't reliable statistics about rape investigations, and goes on.
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  Police departments are often shrouded by nature the mysterious police department. Nobody even
• 1:33:19
  knows where it is, and to be fair, many cases aren't easy to
• 1:33:25
  run down. Nonetheless, we should recognize that when only about twenty percent of
• 1:33:30
  rape investigations lead to arrest, something isn't working the way it needs to.
• 1:33:36
  So if we aren't arresting enough people that are investigated, we should just assume
• 1:33:42
  it's because the investigation isn't being done right, and not that it's either proved
• 1:33:47
  that some are innocent or that, you know, there's not evidence to prove
• 1:33:54
  that some are guilty, at least not enough to bring a case even when
• 1:34:01
  an arrest is made. It goes on. Prosecutors exercise immense discretion when it
• 1:34:08
  comes to what cases they pursue. So they want to take away prosecutorial discretion
• 1:34:14
  that is used to prevent the prosecutor from wasting thousands of dollars hundreds of thousands
• 1:34:20
  of dollars on cases they cannot win, and to keep them from prosecuting people
• 1:34:27
  who are not guilty. Many are very good about going after these crimes,
• 1:34:32
  but we shouldn't automatically believe that all of them are pursuing all of the cases
• 1:34:38
  they should. The city of Austin is currently facing a civil suit alleging gender
• 1:34:45
  discrimination for its handling of sexual assault cases. According to the suit filing,
• 1:34:49
  of the two hundred and twenty four cases referred to prosecutors by police between twenty
• 1:34:56
  sixteen and twenty seventeen, the District Attorney's office accepted only seventy seven. Of
• 1:35:00
  those seventy seven, only one went to trial. The victim in that case
• 1:35:04
  was a man. So they're mad. They're mad that the other cases weren't
• 1:35:15
  prosecuted. But if the other cases weren't prosecuted, what do prosecutors run for
• 1:35:20
  office on Have you ever seen a prosecutor run for office advertising that they suck
• 1:35:27
  at their job before um, before Antifa and Black Lives Matter? I don't
• 1:35:39
  know either one of you. I mean, I can't remember what happened before.
• 1:35:48
  But I mean, I mean, Biden's enough is right now and he's
• 1:35:51
  done nothing but advertise how shit is his job. Well, that's true.
• 1:35:56
  This is it was right after those things he specified, like, that's it's
• 1:36:02
  interesting that they didn't look at cases prior to that. And I'm kind of
• 1:36:06
  wondering you know what was the what was the pattern in that city between say,
• 1:36:13
  twenty twelve and twenty thirteen as opposed to twenty sixteen and twenty seventeen,
• 1:36:17
  because we had to defund the police movement and the we're not prosecuting violent crimes
• 1:36:25
  movement taking place in the United States from about twenty fifteen, twenty sixteen on,
• 1:36:31
  like that's been going on. It went on through the entire Trump administration.
• 1:36:38
  And you know, you have not just in Austin, but in several
• 1:36:44
  cities in California. I think there are cities in Indiana, Wisconsin, there's
• 1:36:51
  been Chicago. Chicago is a big one, like where they're just not prosecuting.
• 1:36:58
  They're not prosecuting burglars, they're not prosecuting rapists, they're not prosecuting murderers.
• 1:37:02
  Um like they're not they're not prosecuting muggers, they're not prosecuting. I
• 1:37:08
  heard it was Republicans who wanted to defund the police. Yep, so we
• 1:37:12
  hear that all the time. It must it must be their fault that criminals
• 1:37:15
  are being prosecuted in all these Democrat run cities. Makes sense to me.
• 1:37:20
  Yep, all those Republicans marching down, down, the street on video chanting
• 1:37:26
  about wanting dead cops. Now, UM, definitely were at fault for this,
• 1:37:32
  But I mean, it's interesting that they chose to specifically look at a
• 1:37:39
  time frame after we started having a regular phenomenon of defunding police and defunding UM
• 1:37:50
  prosecution of crime in general, and they looked at this. But did they
• 1:37:56
  also look at how this prosecutor handled burd glory, shoplifting, grand theft auto
• 1:38:04
  not the video game, um again, mugging on the street, you know,
• 1:38:12
  assault and battery, like all of the various things that you can prosecute
• 1:38:17
  somebody for that it involve violence or theft of property or both. Those are
• 1:38:25
  things that are usually pretty heavily prosecuted, like drug crimes. They did they
• 1:38:29
  suddenly stop prosecuting drug crimes like they usually go after drug crimes, you know,
• 1:38:32
  like a like a pit bull. Um. But I think that would
• 1:38:40
  be a relevant bit of information that's not included in this article. Seems kind
• 1:38:45
  of biased if you ask me. In the meantime, the one victim in
• 1:38:49
  that one case that it seems to be galling to this individual that that that
• 1:38:55
  they prosecuted the case, or that the case they did prosecute the victim was
• 1:38:59
  a man. Now, why would that make a difference? Why would that
• 1:39:04
  matter if the victim was a man? So her claim, I keep saying
• 1:39:14
  her. I'm going to go to the top and look here real quick.
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  Yep. This is an opinion piece, by the way, just so everybody
• 1:39:20
  knows, Um, yep, and it's Lisa Anderson or Eliza Anderson. Actually,
• 1:39:28
  um, so you're not just going to assume this person's gender, are
• 1:39:32
  you. That's a female name. So either this person identifies as a woman
• 1:39:40
  or um, you know, is biologically female and is giving their their female
• 1:39:45
  name. But uh yeah, where we were here, I'm not far enough
• 1:39:51
  down there, City of Austin, Okay, so she says, And why
• 1:39:57
  are why are rape convictions so hard to secure? Prosecutors say that juries don't
• 1:40:01
  trust victims either. Um. Again, juries don't trust accusers. And this
• 1:40:10
  is an automatic belief that doesn't It isn't merited, right trust. You shouldn't
• 1:40:16
  trust anybody. If you're a juror and somebody's gonna you're supposed to be looking
• 1:40:24
  for, you know, evidence of validity or invalidity in the statements and description
• 1:40:30
  of what the person says and everything like you're supposed to be judging guilt or
• 1:40:35
  innocence, whether or not this person is believable. But but yeah, but
• 1:40:42
  you're supposed to trust rape accusers automatically. Prosecutors say that juries don't trust victims
• 1:40:48
  jurors who are typically older and more conservative than the general population. Are they
• 1:40:55
  saying that liberals don't um answer summons this because that's kind of fun And jury
• 1:41:00
  duty summons is like, I've had four or five jury duty summons is since
• 1:41:06
  I moved to Dayton, and I answer them and I never get called for
• 1:41:13
  cheery duty. So maybe they looked up your online profile. Yeah, well,
• 1:41:19
  I do admit when I you know right out, is they because they
• 1:41:26
  ask on the forum is there anything any other information we need to know?
• 1:41:30
  And I mentioned cheery nullification because I it's a fact I do. I am
• 1:41:36
  aware of it, and I don't trust the process. And when with regard
• 1:41:43
  to rape allegations, I know that potentially exculpatory evidence is inadmissible in court because
• 1:41:50
  of the potential to embarrass the accuser. So I can never trust that I'm
• 1:41:57
  seeing all of the evidence. I'm seeing the picture that it paints is an
• 1:42:00
  accurate enough picture that you know, I could vote to convict somebody. So
• 1:42:06
  if somebody's if I were called as a juror for a sexual assault case,
• 1:42:12
  I would I wouldn't. I would really have a rough time. Like you'd
• 1:42:15
  have to have it on video of somebody attacking and subduing another person who is
• 1:42:21
  screaming for help and trying to get away from them. And even then you
• 1:42:28
  know it'd be I'd have to see them peacefully walking along beforehand, so I
• 1:42:32
  know it's not BDSM some kind of BDSM bullshit for the record, in this
• 1:42:38
  age of deep fakes and yeah, AI being able to create anything, I'll
• 1:42:44
  say this in advance. If you call me onto jurorgitty not even video evidence.
• 1:42:48
  Yeah, you have to see their hands, if they got more than
• 1:42:51
  five fingers, I'm voting no, not guilty. That's fake. But or
• 1:42:59
  you know anything else weird about their Like AI can't draw Hans. I draw
• 1:43:02
  Hayns better than AI, and I can't draw Hans. And sooner or later
• 1:43:06
  you'll you'll are all gonna follow the Scottish model where we go, well,
• 1:43:12
  okay, so we can't trust juries to deal with this because they're because they're
• 1:43:16
  going to be discerning in some way. So we'll leave it all up to
• 1:43:20
  the judge who can discern what we'd tell him or or zim or two to
• 1:43:28
  think about. Yeah, there anywhere? Is there anywhere we can escape to
• 1:43:32
  chat? Let us know? Is there any country that we cannot? Yeah,
• 1:43:41
  but but we've already been told to lie about Mars too. You have
• 1:43:45
  heard right that Mars needs women. Of course, so it's Jupiter and beyond
• 1:43:50
  the infinite there we go. Uh, obviously we have to we have to
• 1:43:57
  start with Jupiter because if Mars needs women, we must pump up the volume.
• 1:44:03
  And gen xers will get that, hopefully if they're not getting senile.
• 1:44:10
  But yeah, so this goes on, why why are rape rape conviction so
• 1:44:14
  hard to secure? So they're blaming juries, then they're they're blaming juries,
• 1:44:18
  age and a jurists. Age and conservatism as though being conservative makes you more
• 1:44:26
  likely to view a person telling the truth as a liar, tend to have
• 1:44:30
  a more narrow view of what constitutes a sexual assault. Yeah, a conservative
• 1:44:36
  individual, if if they are advised that there's a legal standard for what constitutes
• 1:44:44
  a sexual assault, they will follow that standard. They will not write in
• 1:44:47
  their own idea of what constitutes a sexual assault and expand sexual assault law to
• 1:44:54
  meet that. So it goes on materials distributed to prosecutors by the National Sexual
• 1:45:02
  Violence Resource Center, a nonprofit and field leader on sexual assault. Warren prosecutors
• 1:45:08
  that juries are unlikely to believe victims who don't describe what they see as real
• 1:45:13
  rape. And this is where it starts to really go off the rails.
• 1:45:18
  In a real rape, the victim and the rapist are strangers. Right now,
• 1:45:25
  Maybe forty years ago people thought that, But we've had forty years of
• 1:45:31
  being told over and over again by feminists that most rape is acquaintance rape or
• 1:45:36
  date rape, that most of the time the victim knows the perpetrator. Right
• 1:45:45
  then they go on the rapist uses a weapon and there are wounds to prove
• 1:45:49
  it all right, Well, again, forty years of being told that's not
• 1:45:54
  true. It's the huge campaigns across the university campuses, high school campuses.
• 1:46:00
  The whole public has heard this news campaigns and everything at least forty years of
• 1:46:06
  certain feminists telling us the old heterosexual sexual intercourse is rape. And ask yourself
• 1:46:15
  how far have those termites dug into the legal system. Quite far, pretty
• 1:46:23
  I would say given that, I mean a lot of feminists like to say
• 1:46:29
  that it was perfectly legal for a husband to rape his wife until nineteen ninety
• 1:46:33
  three, which is bollocks. But to this day it is still not a
• 1:46:38
  crime for a woman to rape her husband. So none of this makes sense
• 1:46:44
  except in the context of the very feminists who have been eating their way through
• 1:46:49
  our legal system for the past century. At the very least, and by
• 1:46:55
  the way, when feminists tell you that it's okay that forced coitus or forced
• 1:47:06
  cone lingus are not considered rape in any UK, but then they turn around
• 1:47:15
  and tell you that, you know, women or men couldn't be prosecuted for
• 1:47:20
  raping their wives in anyos Michigan until nineteen ninety three, it's it's fair to
• 1:47:29
  point out to them that actually they would still be convicted of a crime if
• 1:47:32
  they raped their wives. They would be considered domestic violence perpetrators. They just
• 1:47:39
  wouldn't be called rapist. They wouldn't have the label rapist. But they could
• 1:47:44
  be convicted of domestic violence and be subject to years in prison. They could
• 1:47:51
  be forced into perpetrator programs, and as perpetrators of domestic violence, they could
• 1:47:59
  even be forced into sexual perpetrator programs, they just wouldn't have the label rapist.
• 1:48:05
  Imagine that, you know, so it's not that bad, right,
• 1:48:12
  And then people people throw this this idea up in your face and then and
• 1:48:16
  then you hit them with um with the reverse, like did you know how
• 1:48:25
  many countries to this day in which women can certainly be convicted of sexual assault
• 1:48:31
  even against their husbands. They never fucking are, but by law they can
• 1:48:35
  never be accused of rape. They can be accused of everything they can,
• 1:48:39
  they can go up and down that that whole ringmarole, but they'll never be
• 1:48:43
  called rapists. You explain this to someone who tried to to fucking own you
• 1:48:49
  with that particular what statistic, and they go, what I don't I don't
• 1:48:56
  understand what you're saying to me, And like, I'm saying what you're say
• 1:49:00
  but with the genders vest because people people say this without even thinking of what
• 1:49:06
  they're saying, right, And then they want to argue that it's women are
• 1:49:11
  discriminated against because of this factor, but they don't want to admit that if
• 1:49:16
  it's discrimination against women, then men are discriminated against on a higher level,
• 1:49:23
  because it's pretty much universal it's not just if they're married. If a woman
• 1:49:30
  tracks down him and she doesn't know, pursues him into his home, holds
• 1:49:35
  him at gunpoint, and forces him to perform a sex act on her,
• 1:49:41
  she's never going to be labeled a rapist under the current law. Like that's
• 1:49:47
  a woman in the UK will only ever be labeled a sexual assault perpetrator,
• 1:49:54
  just like up until nineteen ninety three and Michigan, a husband who forced himself
• 1:49:59
  on his wife would only ever be labeled a perpetrator of domestic violence. And
• 1:50:05
  I mean, what's good for the goose is good for the gander. Right,
• 1:50:09
  If women are just as punished without the label, then we could say
• 1:50:15
  that men are just as punished without the label. Two, Right, why
• 1:50:18
  don't we just eliminate rape blaw altogether and call it all sexual assaults. Some
• 1:50:23
  states in the US do that. But what if the candor identified as a
• 1:50:28
  goose? Or is it the other way around? I remember, it happens
• 1:50:31
  in both ways. It's just funny that we've got to the point where,
• 1:50:36
  rather than you know, making all people equal under the law, let's redefine
• 1:50:42
  goose as gander and gander as goose, and see what that does for us.
• 1:50:46
  Yeah, well, it's just as the main the main problem is we
• 1:50:54
  we spend too much time policing the Ganders Mountain and not enough that of the
• 1:51:01
  Goose Um. And again that's that's a localized one. Not everybody's gonna understand
• 1:51:09
  what I just said. Oh but yeah, so quote unquote real rape.
• 1:51:15
  The rapist uses a weapon and there are wounds to prove it. The victim
• 1:51:17
  fights back, and she is completely sober at the time. She cries when
• 1:51:21
  she tells police what happened. Right, That's that's all stuff that feminists have
• 1:51:30
  had a forty year long campaign, forty years of telling the public, widespread
• 1:51:40
  telling the public, telling the public in news articles, telling the public and
• 1:51:43
  poster campaigns, telling students directly in orientation at university and in high school.
• 1:51:50
  Um, you know, using mainstream entertainment media, using mainstream television, news
• 1:52:00
  media, using music, using popular culture to tell the public these are myths,
• 1:52:06
  they're not true. And apparently feminism is such a failure at everything it
• 1:52:15
  does that it in in twenty twenty three, after decades of this campaign,
• 1:52:25
  you know, people still believe the myths, and people still don't know that
• 1:52:32
  a victim might not cry that. Uh, Um that that rape can happen
• 1:52:39
  in a in a way that's facilitated by alcohol or drugs. You know that
• 1:52:44
  that. Um, fighting back doesn't necessarily always produce visible wounds. Um that
• 1:52:51
  it's not always you know, successful that there are complicated things that contributing.
• 1:52:59
  Fact there's in a lot of assault cases. You know, like no nobody
• 1:53:02
  knows any of that stuff. That's the reason people aren't getting convicted. Would
• 1:53:12
  somebody want to say something, No, Okay, I'm starting to wind down,
• 1:53:16
  like that's what I'm hearing. Yeah, So she goes on this real
• 1:53:21
  rape bears little resemblance to the reality of most rapes, like this is ancient.
• 1:53:27
  Uh stuff that that that is pretty much nobody believes what she's attributing to
• 1:53:31
  people here anymore. Um, victims rarely fight back. Now that's not necessarily
• 1:53:40
  true though either, Like just fighting back doesn't necessarily the wounds you get when
• 1:53:45
  you fight back don't necessarily show up as like bruises and stuff like that.
• 1:53:49
  Um, if you're wrestled in submission, you might fight back until you're physically
• 1:53:55
  exhausted without receiving a single bruise. And on the other hand, if you
• 1:54:00
  do have bruising, it might not show up until days later, you know,
• 1:54:06
  Like some people don't bruise all that easily. Other people it shows up
• 1:54:10
  immediately, and it's pretty blatantly obvious. So I don't know. But yeah,
• 1:54:15
  none of this is new information that people were unaware of. Most know
• 1:54:19
  their assailants. Many victims go into survival mode and seem emotionless when they recount
• 1:54:25
  their experiences. A lot of this is based on the claim that all allegations
• 1:54:33
  that aren't conclusively proven false must be true, the belief that they must all
• 1:54:38
  be true. So you have a lot of people who accused people they know,
• 1:54:45
  right, and so we have this this claim that most know their assailants.
• 1:54:53
  Well, many do, but that's not necessarily true that most know their
• 1:54:59
  assi islands. It's not necessarily true that most don't cry when they recount their
• 1:55:04
  experiences. That it's true that people who have been victimized over and over again
• 1:55:10
  don't cry when they recount their experiences. But if you're hysterical about something,
• 1:55:14
  if you're terrified, you know, most people do, men and women,
• 1:55:20
  especially if they were victimized that night or very recently. And the whole thing
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  of fight flight or freeze like. I think the claim that people freeze up
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  is used to bolster the validity of allegations that are really false, where an
• 1:55:49
  individual has made choices, right, she's she's made sexual choices and she regrets
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  them. Now. I'm not saying that everybody that that doesn't defend themselves and
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  that that um experiences sexual encounter that they're unhappy about later is not a victim.
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  But there is a big difference between somebody physically trying to force themselves on
• 1:56:18
  you and you don't defend yourself because you freeze up versus a person you know
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  attempting to seduce you and you go along with it, and then later you
• 1:56:32
  claim that it was because you froze up, Like, that's not freezing up.
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  If you're actively engaged in the in participating, um, that's that's not
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  freezing up. Yeah, if you freeze up during the seduction process, then
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  the sex process is not going to happen. No, oh, it's really
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  not. Just the man is just gonna go Okay, she doesn't appear to
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  be interested. She's turned into a mute statue and I'm waving my hand in
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  front of her face and she's not responding. So I'm going to go elsewhere.
• 1:57:09
  Yeah, being go eye is cute and and everything, but the deer
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  in the headlights look is not sexy. A man doesn't make it all the
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  way to a woman's bed as a result of her freezing up, No,
• 1:57:23
  only makes it that far if she's been quite animated up until that point.
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  And why would she be animated up until that point if she wasn't compliant until
• 1:57:34
  that point. Oh, this is gonna get clipped in the wrong way,
• 1:57:39
  isn't it? Probably? But that you're you know, you're not up,
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  You're not wrong. You know, there's like I said, there's a huge
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  difference between freezing when you're being assaulted, when you're being um your boundaries are
• 1:57:54
  being crossed by somebody who knows they're crossing your boundaries and they're doing it on
• 1:57:58
  purpose versus um. You know, in the process of seduction, when someone
• 1:58:03
  is flirting with you and engaging in flirtatious touch and looking for reciprocation, and
• 1:58:12
  you're reciprocating, and then later you say, well, I froze up,
• 1:58:16
  Like reciprocation is not freezing. That's and unfortunately there is a phenomenon if feminists
• 1:58:24
  trying to interpret reciprocation as freezing, and that's not the same thing. Um,
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  And you don't have the same look on your face either. Deer in
• 1:58:33
  the headlights is very different than doeide, right, and so men, you
• 1:58:40
  need to have standards when it when it. When it comes to getting busy
• 1:58:45
  in bed, if she just starfishes, she just lies there like a dead
• 1:58:48
  fish, then maybe it means she's not up for it. But even if
• 1:58:55
  she is, then fuck her. She's not helping. So one way where
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  or another, that should be a sign that either she doesn't want it or
• 1:59:03
  she fucking sucks at it. And I guess that's the wrong way. She's
• 1:59:10
  not good at it. It means film Cow was wrong, starfish doesn't really
• 1:59:14
  love you. Yes, either way, it should be a sign that you
• 1:59:18
  shouldn't be having sex with it either because she doesn't want it, well because
• 1:59:26
  she's not very good at it. Yep. And you know, if you're
• 1:59:30
  raising a daughter like something that should be communicated to young women right now,
• 1:59:36
  right these standards exist. This is what people are being taught about rape.
• 1:59:42
  Therefore, as a girl, she is responsible for communicating her interest. If
• 1:59:50
  she wants affection, she's responsible for communicating that she wants affection and where she
• 1:59:57
  wants it to stop. If she wants sex, then she's responsible for communicating
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  this. She doesn't just want affection, that she wants full on sex,
• 2:00:09
  and she should understand the difference. But but yeah, we are told by
• 2:00:17
  feminists this is a criminal justice problem, right when rapists and again this author
• 2:00:25
  is using rapists as code for accused men, not perpetrators of both sexes.
• 2:00:34
  More people when rapists aren't prosecuted, more people are at risk of getting raped,
• 2:00:41
  More victims feel abandoned by the justice system and unheard by their peers.
• 2:00:45
  No one benefits when our system fails to properly identify and respond to a crime.
• 2:00:51
  That's the only truth in this whole article. No one benefits when our
• 2:00:58
  system fails to properly identify and respond to a crime that includes false allegation.
• 2:01:03
  I was gonna say this does not benefit the falsely accused, but I guess
• 2:01:08
  they said crime. But when they say crime, do they mean crime any
• 2:01:14
  more than when they say rapists, do they really mean rapists? Yeah,
• 2:01:19
  no one benefits. Well, there are some people who make a lot of
• 2:01:24
  money when the system doesn't prosecute false allegations. So I guess somebody does benefit
• 2:01:30
  from that at your expense, by the way, taxpayers, Police departments should
• 2:01:35
  implement better policies to address this problem. They should seek out trauma informed investigative
• 2:01:43
  practices and focus on building trust with victims. Prosecutors can be bolder and fight
• 2:01:48
  more conviction or fight for more convictions. So what they're basically saying here we
• 2:01:55
  went over trauma informed investigative practices when we were talking about the Title nine stuff,
• 2:02:02
  because that was one of the things the Title nine grifter movement, like
• 2:02:11
  the ones that make their materials and sell them to universities to train people in
• 2:02:16
  how to respond to sexual misconduct allegations on campus. Their big thing was this
• 2:02:24
  trauma informed thing. And there's a combination of recognition of differences in behavior between
• 2:02:34
  someone who is traumatized with someone who is not, and exploitation of that recognition
• 2:02:42
  as a means of eliminating due process, eliminating vetting of an allegation. Because
• 2:02:48
  due process of law isn't just you having the right to present evidence in your
• 2:02:54
  defense, you having the right to not incriminate yourself and stuff like that.
• 2:02:58
  It's not just your right to decide what you will or won't do in the
• 2:03:01
  court system. In regard to your defense, it is also a responsibility for
• 2:03:08
  the prosecutor to vet the allegation for validity, believability, and winnability, because
• 2:03:15
  again, as a tax payer, you personally as a third party, fourth
• 2:03:21
  party, even because you're like the prosecutor is third party, but you're even
• 2:03:27
  outside of that. Your money gets used to pay for this, the dollars
• 2:03:31
  that you have to pay to your cities, your counties, your states through
• 2:03:38
  the various taxes that are applied to your income, which you're a lot higher
• 2:03:42
  than you think they are because you're you're being taxed over and over again.
• 2:03:46
  The money that comes into your wallet gets income taxed, and then you also
• 2:03:51
  get taxed when you buy things, and you get taxed when you get services.
• 2:03:56
  You get taxed when you pass your money on to another party because of
• 2:04:01
  your death or or because you've paid child support or whatever. Um. You
• 2:04:06
  just you have the shit ti taxed out of you and it goes to pay
• 2:04:11
  for things like this. So you have the right, as the person who
• 2:04:16
  is financing the prosecutor's office one of many, to know that they're not abusing
• 2:04:24
  the privilege of stealing money from you to run their office in order to falsely
• 2:04:30
  imprison other people and potentially come after you if you're ever accused in the same
• 2:04:35
  manner. That's that's your right. They say police departments should dot dot dot
• 2:04:45
  focus on building trust with victims. I mean, thanks Lauren, that that
• 2:04:51
  that was fitting. It was um uh, I mean, I mean police
• 2:04:59
  departments should should focus on on on treating everyone with the same way until they've
• 2:05:10
  quite figured out who is a victim and who is not. I mean,
• 2:05:13
  surely the it's the courts who are who are tasked with figuring out who is
• 2:05:17
  a victim and who is not, And until they've done that, they need
• 2:05:23
  to treat everyone equally. What with all men being created equal? Whoops,
• 2:05:29
  sorry, all men and women being equal. So just the way that paragraph
• 2:05:34
  is phrased just makes it sound like it's up to the police to define who
• 2:05:39
  is and is not a victim, and I guess in some cases it is.
• 2:05:44
  But if if all you've got to go on is the word of an
• 2:05:47
  accuser and the word of the accused, then no, it's not up to
• 2:05:51
  police to focus on building trust with whoever they think is the victims' supposed to
• 2:06:00
  go through a court process, like the police certainly shouldn't be turning up to
• 2:06:05
  court with an idea in the head of whoever is the victor. I guess
• 2:06:10
  they should if they have good reason for it, but this just it stinks.
• 2:06:15
  Yeah, you should shouldn't be able to walk into a police department and
• 2:06:19
  make an allegation without any evidence, and that's that's what they go on.
• 2:06:24
  And you know, like, all right, we don't have to have any
• 2:06:26
  evidence. We're just going to go into court and prosecute. And then the
• 2:06:31
  court is told that, you know, you can't doubt this allegation. So
• 2:06:35
  unless there is exculpatory evidence that that conclusively proves the innocence of the accused,
• 2:06:43
  you have to convict. Oh and by the way, they're not allowed to
• 2:06:45
  submit an exculpatory evidence, So that's that's solved. Right. That's not the
• 2:06:49
  way it should be. You know, you walk into a police department and
• 2:06:53
  you make a serious allegation against another person, they should vet that allegation.
• 2:06:59
  You know't ridiculous about it, but they should at least be vetting the allegation
• 2:07:04
  for believability and validity. And if if you make an allegation and you say
• 2:07:13
  at time o'clock on you know, day date, day, month, year
• 2:07:18
  date, person X was at location? Why and did crime Z to me?
• 2:07:27
  And then the police start investigating those details, and lo and behold that
• 2:07:32
  person has video proving that actually, during that specific date and time, they
• 2:07:40
  were twenty miles away from you. Then you know, that's a false allegation.
• 2:07:47
  You lied. That person was not where you said they were doing what
• 2:07:50
  you said they were doing, you know, or if there's video of you
• 2:07:55
  in that location, any other person isn't there. Again, well, a
• 2:08:00
  crime is not happening in this video. What the hell? You lied?
• 2:08:05
  And there is no excuse that that should That's enough that, you know,
• 2:08:09
  unless you can prove that you were hypnotized and convinced that something happened that didn't
• 2:08:16
  um and you should be able to prove that at least uh, then then
• 2:08:22
  you lied. You should be prosecuted for lying. That's that's how the justice
• 2:08:28
  system protects itself. That's the immune system within the justice system against lies and
• 2:08:35
  against us misuse of public funds and misuse of public work. You own the
• 2:08:45
  prosecutor's office, You paid for it. You are his employer, he works
• 2:08:50
  for you, and it's your right to not have that work stolen and used
• 2:08:58
  for illicit purposes by a liar. I just like that's that's a huge,
• 2:09:03
  big deal. People talk about the rights of the accuser, Fewer people talk
• 2:09:09
  about the rights of the accused, but the rights of the taxpayer are just
• 2:09:13
  completely ignored in this situation. Yeah you awake, Lara, Yeah you are,
• 2:09:22
  so we thought you were asleep. You were asleep. But sometimes you
• 2:09:26
  wake up like halfway between a dream and reality, and you and and you
• 2:09:31
  start and you start talking gibberish. I know this because because I've slept next
• 2:09:35
  to Lauren. Sometimes she wakes up going, what was all this shit about
• 2:09:39
  you? Hey, it could be worse. I don't believe I claim to
• 2:09:46
  be president of the universe in my sleep. So I'm not arrogant or anything.
• 2:09:56
  Yeah, we've had we've had a good time, and we nearly we've
• 2:09:58
  nearly finished with the article. We're in the final stretch. Let's let's go
• 2:10:03
  for your God. So so here's the solution this writer is offering. Right,
• 2:10:07
  we have prosecutors being bolder and fighting for more convictions, not justice.
• 2:10:13
  Right, the goal is more convictions. One should remember that because that presumes
• 2:10:20
  guilt this person is presuming guilt right now. But if we want fewer rapists
• 2:10:26
  on the streets, we need to rethink how we treat sexual assault victims.
• 2:10:30
  Rape victims shouldn't be terrified that if they come forward they will be called liars
• 2:10:33
  or sleat shamed or interrogated. Our beliefs matter. How we talk about sexual
• 2:10:41
  assault matters. One in five women in the US will be raped in her
• 2:10:43
  lifetime, according to the National Sexual Violence Resource Center. Someone you love is
• 2:10:50
  probably one of them, and she's probably paying attention. That's the end of
• 2:10:54
  the article. So we just had two paragraphs there of presume booming the accusations
• 2:11:01
  true and demanding that they be acted upon without challenging them at all. And
• 2:11:11
  of course, UH, it's slut shaming to to to to question the whether
• 2:11:20
  the accuser actually consented or not. So there you go, guys. Um,
• 2:11:28
  this person is advocating a system that does not vet allegations. And this
• 2:11:35
  was this was written in twenty nineteen. This is something that Alison sent me.
• 2:11:41
  But this is they've been making these changes. This, this trauma informed
• 2:11:46
  um investigation UH process is being used now by police departments, It's being used
• 2:11:58
  by prosecuting a turn knees and they're they're they're still not in some places,
• 2:12:03
  they're still not prosecuting because you know, defund the police and all that jazz.
• 2:12:09
  But it's only it's only in places like Texas where the way this needs
• 2:12:15
  to be pushed as hard as possible, because in places like Canada and Scotland,
• 2:12:20
  it's they haven't even needed to push it. They just gently maneuver it
• 2:12:26
  through an open door. And it's already the case in Canada and Scotland and
• 2:12:31
  in those sorts of places, and probably in California. Yeah, in the
• 2:12:35
  areas of of our various countries where the feminists are leading the charge. And
• 2:12:46
  ironically, Texas might be the last place in the free world, if you
• 2:12:52
  can even call it that, where they can actually make this happen. Yeah,
• 2:12:56
  that is the tough thing. It's it really is hard to it's becoming
• 2:13:03
  more and more not free. That's a whole other discussion though, when the
• 2:13:11
  one that will have to uh, thank the CIA in advance for listening to
• 2:13:16
  very carefully because they do the Yeah, that's we don't have to worry at
• 2:13:28
  least about them being at their airports. But it would be really you guys.
• 2:13:33
  Have you guys have to worry about the FBI, I need to worry
• 2:13:35
  about the CIA. Yeah, it's it's um shoot, I can't take a
• 2:13:41
  border patrol. They're the guys. They don't listen to us. They don't
• 2:13:45
  care. Although I think we've had some shows where we've talked about, UM,
• 2:13:50
  how hard their job is and some of the horrible things that they have
• 2:13:54
  to see, UM dealing with you know, the United States, UM southern
• 2:14:03
  border and the issues surrounding it and how it's handled. So they might like
• 2:14:09
  us. Who knows, they don't, well not according to what Allison and
• 2:14:15
  I have encountered at the northern border. Yeah. Well, and that I
• 2:14:20
  still kind of wonder if somebody poisoned the water is there with Yes, well,
• 2:14:28
  I mean we did have somebody try to do that, um with regard
• 2:14:33
  to our hotel and everything as well. So that was kind of was the
• 2:14:41
  takedown, Mr. I know, he embarrassed himself so badly into that was
• 2:14:45
  that was that was That was after the Allison and I encounter at the body.
• 2:14:50
  Yeah, we just we don't know that that's the only thing he did.
• 2:14:54
  He didn't try to poison the waters with the Sheridan ahead of time,
• 2:14:58
  because nobody was told ahead of time publicly where we were going to be.
• 2:15:03
  We didn't we didn't allow that information to even be known by the general public
• 2:15:09
  until the convention was already underway. The conference was already underway, and that
• 2:15:16
  prevented that kind of behavior, right, So there was that, but we
• 2:15:20
  don't know that he never did anything else. We don't know. Well,
• 2:15:28
  I think the reason Allison and I and Jonathan would turned away at the border
• 2:15:33
  of North Dakota was because we were we were driving with a trailer full of
• 2:15:39
  um polythene bricks, bricks displays, yeah, plays, And it involved this
• 2:15:46
  trailer full of all these various elements, including like a hundred or so polythene
• 2:15:52
  bricks, and I can imagine why the North Dakota Board of Patrol would look
• 2:15:56
  at that and go, well, there could be a kilo of fentanyl and
• 2:16:00
  one of those bricks. Yeah, that's true. So it's you know,
• 2:16:03
  it's not it's not. It probably wasn't even a political thing. That was
• 2:16:07
  just that we was very on edge about that sort of thing. But it
• 2:16:11
  was no reason to ban Allison from the country for five years now, which
• 2:16:13
  is I think, Yeah, I guess. I guess a year or two
• 2:16:18
  from now, Allison will be able to come into the country. And it
• 2:16:22
  barely matches because no one was allowed to come into the country until a couple
• 2:16:24
  of fucking weeks ago. Anyway, Yeah, but in any case, well,
• 2:16:30
  we have finished this article. UM, we're gonna interrupt. I was
• 2:16:33
  gonna go over. There's another two articles I have lined up for this subject.
• 2:16:39
  But before we do that, next week, UM, I have prim
• 2:16:43
  Reaper coming on to talk about an article I found on the Men's Right subreddit.
• 2:16:50
  Actually, um about men's experience of postpartum depression. And it's not men's
• 2:16:56
  experience of women's postpartum depression. It's men's experience of postpart postpartum depression. And
• 2:17:05
  it does make sense, um, just thinking thinking about it, just offhand.
• 2:17:11
  Um, when you have a big project and seeing a pregnancy all the
• 2:17:16
  way through a pretty damn big project, a nine month long project, and
• 2:17:20
  you have by the end of it, you've got a weeble to protect um,
• 2:17:26
  because you know, the mother becomes the most uncoordinated thing a human being
• 2:17:30
  can ever be without developing a permanent disability or at least a cripple. Is
• 2:17:37
  suffering a crippling injury, and uh, and then it's over all of a
• 2:17:41
  sudden everything has changed. You now have lack of sleep, you have a
• 2:17:46
  visible, like incredibly visible, visible responsibility for the most vulnerable person in the
• 2:17:54
  world, who is who means everything to you, and your whole focus changes.
• 2:18:01
  It makes perfect sense that there would be, you know, something along
• 2:18:07
  the lines of postpartum depression that could happen to men in that circumstance, especially
• 2:18:11
  since men's brain chemistry changes in response to women's physiological changes around pregnancy. So
• 2:18:20
  we'll go through that article, We'll look at what the writer has to say,
• 2:18:26
  talk about possibilities and maybe some tools for dealing with postpartum depression. And
• 2:18:35
  you know, it's it's something that I like, I hadn't heard of it,
• 2:18:39
  but it does make perfect sense that this kind of thing could happen to
• 2:18:45
  new new young fathers. So that's our next week. But as far as
• 2:18:52
  this show is concerned, I don't think I have any super chats. I
• 2:18:56
  didn't see any going through our chat, so I hope I didn't miss anything.
• 2:19:03
  But I'm going to look at our super Chow's where is that channel just
• 2:19:11
  sitting here waiting for the super Chow channel to come up. In my scrolling,
• 2:19:16
  I feel like Arlo Guthrie waiting for the four point massacre to come around.
• 2:19:24
  There it is. It's especially fun doing this with dyslexia. Okay,
• 2:19:31
  there we go. Meredith g gave us five dollars and said, HBr talk
• 2:19:35
  two fifty or two sixty two, honey for the Badgers, thanks for the
• 2:19:39
  interesting conversation. And Michael Emerge Well Windberg gave us ten dollars and said,
• 2:19:46
  there's another reason for clothing to come up, and this enrages the hell out
• 2:19:52
  of activists. Clothing Damage TLDR in fact mentioned at once in a video there
• 2:19:58
  was a case in which a man was a exonerated of a rape accusation because
• 2:20:01
  the woman was wearing a very elaborate bra which was impossible to take out in
• 2:20:07
  a struggle without damaging it. Another factor is the concept that when women dress
• 2:20:11
  in a very provocative manner, they obviously attract stares for men, thus the
• 2:20:16
  accusation of asking for it. Of course, by playing the conflation game couples
• 2:20:24
  coupled with the low bar for calling something sexual assault, attention gets conflated with
• 2:20:28
  rape, which in turn gets conflated with the cases where woman's clothes give proof
• 2:20:33
  that no assault occurred, and just like that, you can claim women that
• 2:20:37
  women are blamed for their own rape. This is why they didn't like that
• 2:20:43
  special nail polish that can change color in a spiked drink like that when that
• 2:20:50
  came around. I'm not even sure if that was a real thing, by
• 2:20:52
  the way, but when when those stories came out, feminists were like,
• 2:20:56
  how dare you? How dare you? Women wouldn't women shouldn't have to wear
• 2:21:00
  these things. Men should just not rape them. And I suppose they'll do
• 2:21:03
  the same thing when it comes to anti rape bras, how dare you?
• 2:21:09
  We should have pro rape bras, We should have bras that can be removed
• 2:21:13
  by fucking breathing on them, and we should have nail polish that makes it
• 2:21:22
  easier to rape women, just so that it's easier to convict men. It's
• 2:21:28
  crazy, like so many of these jokes, they seem like jokes now,
• 2:21:33
  but they will become reality any minute. Now is the tough thing, and
• 2:21:39
  this we could discuss for hours. We're not going to do tonight. But
• 2:21:45
  there's a lot of nuance around claims that are made with regard to whether consent
• 2:21:50
  was given or not, and how verbal and explicitly verbal consent has to be
• 2:21:58
  in the context of a woman's overt observable behavior. And for instance, it's
• 2:22:11
  ridiculous to argue that a woman who pursues a man into his bedroom and climbs
• 2:22:15
  on top of him and has sex with him didn't consent. But feminists want
• 2:22:20
  women to be able to say they didn't consent, and you're not allowed to
• 2:22:22
  question that. And if you apply any kind of standards of evidence, like
• 2:22:28
  um, you know it did did she? Did she bring birth control with
• 2:22:35
  her and use it? You know? Did she? Like there's there are
• 2:22:41
  some types of panties that are made to facilitate sex without having to take them
• 2:22:46
  off. Panties and other undergarments, right, did she have a neglige under
• 2:22:52
  her clothes instead of comfortable underwear, then it's fair to ask why. It's
• 2:22:56
  not unfair to ask if you wore something under your clothes it's made to be
• 2:23:01
  looked at, not made to feel comfortable and be durable up against your blue
• 2:23:09
  jeans and stuff. Why did you select that to wear that night? If
• 2:23:15
  you did not intend to engage in sexual activity if you did not intend for
• 2:23:18
  it to be looked at, why didn't you wear your white granny panties that
• 2:23:22
  night? You know, that's not an unfair question to ask. What's unfair
• 2:23:28
  is to take that alone as proof. And if there is evidence of a
• 2:23:35
  physical assault and injuries and or the guy used a gun, or there's evidence
• 2:23:41
  of being drugged, you know, and things like that against her will to
• 2:23:46
  then come along and say, well, but her panties were sexy, like,
• 2:23:50
  that's not common. It's more common for feminists to interpret the other.
• 2:23:56
  Well, this is really more nuanced. We can't be or we can't be
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  convinced that you know this was done without your consent, that this crime was
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  committed of doing this without your consent based on your actions during that night,
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  right, the collective actions that you took, and the lack of evidence of
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  force or coercion or drugging or anything like that. They want to conflate that
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  with well, her panties were sexy, so she was asking for it.
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  Well, her shorts were two shorts, so she was asking for it.
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  Those are two very different things, right, Evidence is evidence, right,
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  and insinuation is not evidence, And that is it for the super choose.
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  I'm going to briefly look at rumble and it's still rumble, and I don't
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  see. Oh, there we go. I'm being told not to call it
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  stubborn, call it persistent. No, I am as stubborn ass I admit
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  it. Funnily enough, back at the Woman's March in Trump's inauguration, they
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  would speak in the exact same way. I think we were talking there about
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  because that's right after the statements about children's upbringing. I think we were talking
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  there about the the rape myths that people allegedly still believe. Because feminism is
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  so bad at information campaigns, they just must really suck at that. So
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  there we go, and I think that's it. We don't have any I
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  don't think there's a name for rumbles that are paid for, rumble rands that
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  are paid but we don't have any of those. We don't have any super
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  chats. So we are done. So thanks to everybody who listened to This
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  was a fairly long sausage. Thanks everybody who listened to the fairly long sausage.
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  Thanks both you guys for sticking out the long sausage with me, and
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  thanks to everybody who works in the background to make HBr talk happen, and
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  good night all. We'll see you next week week and talk to prim Reaper