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Evil Lives Here - Lovers Arrested For Maltreating 2 and 5 Year Olds In Lagos · DidiLawren

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  Hello and welcome back to another episode of bands with
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  Lorenzo. For today's episode, I want to
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  talk about a very troubling pictures.
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  I saw online of a mother and her lover, beating her two-year-old
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  and five, like two and five years old if you see what these
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  women did this, or this. This couple did to the actual.
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  Okay, this is not his child or children.
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  But her children, I mean, according to the story, she was
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  she gave her two children. We don't know if she was married
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  to the father of those children, but this relationship didn't
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  work and just move on with another man and he to you.
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  I don't know what would it two-year-old do to deserve that
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  level of pain. Schmidt's.
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  I mean, this is whipping the child.
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  Bridging, the skin breaking the head.
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  It is sad. I mean, what we look at when I
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  the first thing I thought about was this is why sometimes women
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  stay in very bad condition because it when they say we are
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  staying because of our children, we are staying because of our
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  children. Sometimes it doesn't hit home,
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  but looking at these pictures I can understand why.
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  Why? Because sometimes they tell you
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  they want to stay on till their children, get to a certain age.
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  I mean to 15 years old. What can a five years old?
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  I do I still don't get it, I don't get it.
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  What can a 5 years old? Do I need two year old do to
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  deserve? I mean, even a prisoner.
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  I don't think you can even forget prisoner that is evenly
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  crime. Now, according to the story, it
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  was even the neighbors that reported the couple to the He's
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  because according to the neighbors, they said, they are
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  always beating these children. They always flogging these
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  children. The children always have one.
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  I mean, if you look at their body, there are healing scars,
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  that scars have healed and there are fresh scars.
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  Like, I don't know. I don't understand how a mother
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  regardless of who did the be seen, whether the the man or the
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  woman, regardless, of which of them like, for a mother to sit
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  down because she She would be baiting those children.
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  She would give it two years old. You cannot tell it to you.
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  Just wash our God. Have your back.
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  No, you have to bet that child even the five years old.
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  So you have to be looking at that body, that's County daily
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  basis and still inflicting fresh scars on those children.
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  I don't know, you know, it's sad.
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  I don't even, I can't even imagine what a, it's 15 year-old
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  do to deserve this kind of punishment to deserve this kind
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  of pitching. This is how you see people like.
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  There are so many stories even in diaspora of couples actually
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  killing their children. Not just no Capo's Belleza
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  somebody A single appearance, what are man woman, it doesn't
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  matter, but that person is single without children.
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  And then getting together with somebody, that has a child 95%
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  of the time, there's always going to be maltreatment because
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  it's just like you did not ask what you decided to ditch that
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  person. There was a story actually of
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  this lady who started dating. This guy told him that she has a
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  child. He was accepting of the about.
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  The child was not living with heart was living with her.
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  Parents. So he was thought, okay, yeah,
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  no problem. As long as the child is not
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  there, or maybe he thought that since the child is not living
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  with her, there's no problem. So when you are planning for a
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  wedding, the traditional marriage state sets, the white
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  wedding was booked and I think the conversation came up with
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  the lady said well I am going to you know take back my child if
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  I'm getting married. The man said no your child will
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  have to stay with your parents chose the way that a child has
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  been In, you will not bring that child to the house.
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  That was a damn wedding or that marriage ended.
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  Because I think most times when single parents, when they have
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  children, they don't usually especially younger people.
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  It is the grandparents that always take care of those
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  children. So you miss a single parents.
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  Sometimes people these women don't even tell these men that
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  they have children just to get them into relationship and then
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  at the diamond needs to break the news.
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  That they actually models. So these are the issues.
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  Now, in this case, obviously the woman she had her children
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  living with her before she met this man and the man knows that
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  this woman have children, but I don't know if they are just
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  trying to kill these children because the excessive flogging
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  breaking of skin. I mean if you look at their
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  bodies, there are scars that are tough.
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  Huge. There are scars Like different
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  stages of healing and there are fresh ones.
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  I don't even know who to blame because they have equal blame
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  some. Now even just going to blame her
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  partner with the situation because for a mother of five
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  years old and two years old to sit back or to even be the one
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  inflicting these injuries on her children.
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  I have no words. I have no words.
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  I mean, according to the story, The give kind of a latter, the
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  father of the children to tell him that this is the situation
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  of what your children has been going through.
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  So come on. Carry your children come and
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  carry your children. It is sad.
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  It is sad or through, you know, these are some of the reasons
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  why women we say, who wants whether we're married or not,
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  since we have children, they want to stay there until the
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  children, get to settings setting age before they can
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  leave. And once they get to a certain
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  age and they Believe this man will be like oh my God, you know
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  you used me. She used me but the condition
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  that you made that lady, stay, you know.
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  I don't even know, I don't even know how to react to this
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  because it is it is gruesome. Like if these children if you
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  could, it's his so bad. These kids could have died at
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  any points and some of these things, you know, you don't have
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  any documentation. They could just take them and go
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  and bury them without any. Oh, what happened?
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  My child died. It is so sad.
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  I mean, people should stop having children that they They
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  don't want the Grain Train 23. If you don't want that child,
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  don't have it. Don't have it instead of
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  bringing children into this water.
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  So mention I'm torturing them. These children are going to be
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  scarred for the rest of their lives for what, for what,
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  because two people who don't even want to be parents, brought
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  them into this world and then treating them this way.
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  It is sad. That little let us do better let
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  us better. Anyway thank you very much for
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  watching today's episode, please like like like and share.
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  Thank you very much. Bye.
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  Bye.