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'Weather Your Storm' - Alex Ekubo Responds To Leaked Audio with Fancy Acholonu · DidiLawren

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  Hello and welcome back to another episode of bandwidth
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  Florencia for today's episode, I want to talk about Alex okubo
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  and his ex fancy. Actual on.
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  This is season 5 episode 300 like we are tired.
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  There has been so many. Nations fancy has been talking
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  fancy fuzzies bitter fancies paint fancy the scorned woman
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  and she is coming out to get everything that she deserve.
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  Fast is really to drag a less by the behavior fancy is ready to
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  to burn down. Everything fancy is not chilling
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  and people have been saying like fancy just forget about this
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  whole thing. What is your end goal?
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  What's what would you gain from this?
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  Theme like you guys broke all, we came back together, it did
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  not work you sent out an apology and now you are listen.
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  Fast has been talking. Fancy said the Alex manipulated
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  how to make the apology thinking that she is going to get back to
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  him but as we all know, Alexis allegedly gay, but the new
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  revelation now is that fancy is bisexual allegedly and what they
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  wanted to do is just get into a relationship.
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  Europe, they see each other. I get married and cover,
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  whatever they are willing to cover.
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  But because fancy allegedly is bisexual.
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  She was attracted to or she is attracted to Alex but Alex being
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  allegedly gay. He was like saying that he's not
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  interested is supposed to be a contract and all that but it did
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  not work out now fancy Alex hasn't said anything or until
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  recently even Alexis sister Actually came out talked about
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  the fact that fancy was one begging our legs.
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  I mean this whole drama, everybody's tired.
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  So we're just thinking that's ok this is this must be the end of
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  the whole thing fancy. You have talked enough, you have
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  said everything. All do you still not telling us
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  the issue the main, the main problem, which we all know I
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  mean she hinted about the kill gay stuff but since she's not
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  saying anything letters, we are tired.
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  Don't want to judge this map again.
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  Like no fancy. Take a chill pill so I guess
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  it's not my did not business thinking.
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  Okay, fast is relaxing. Now I like he has not said
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  anything, there's a not do that just got leaked where I like to
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  record it. Fancies cold I think fancy
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  called Alex, this was after the apology after she made the
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  apology Online Fast. He was angry that Alex, there
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  was supposed to be a response because according to the
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  conversation Alex wrote the apology sent it to fancy.
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  Fancy posted the apology. The agreement was that Alex was
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  going to acknowledge the apology and then come out and say, okay,
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  everything is fine in their world, they are back together,
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  they are dating and all that. But I like the don't do that
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  because according to Alex, he said, it start down thoughts
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  about the whole thing, and he decided that getting back
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  together is not the best option, which I agree, which I totally
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  agree. Bought fancy was not happy fancy
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  said, Okay, if that was the case, why did you make me make a
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  public apology anyway? I am just going to play that
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  audio for you for you guys to see what we have been facing
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  when we come out on, advise people, when relationship and
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  working, take a look, take your airline and move on.
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  They will say, I before relationship and families have
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  come, they don't want people to be in a relationship.
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  These are the issues. These are the issues you must.
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  Not force yourself on anybody anyway.
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  Listen to this audio and tell me what you think anybody that has
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  any kind of empathy in that will not tell me you do this.
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  And if I say this people, I say this, I think we're not already
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  there. Your silence on this.
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  Will not be something. I feel.
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  No, but yes, you and me. It's the right thing to do.
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  I don't even care if it's an emoji that says God is good.
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  We should all be and you never speak again.
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  I will not tell you what to write because I had not going to
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  tell you how to make things, right?
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  No. Used to be the way I'm slightly
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  feeling right now. Silent treatment will never even
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  way especially when we did this together.
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  I just asked you a question. I said, okay, what do you want
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  me to write? Hold on.
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  No matter what has been posted today yesterday?
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  literally, No response is over first thing I see.
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  What do you think about what I want me to say?
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  If I did this, look up one day on my own and did it, I get it.
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  Just the comments. I load is dragging here and
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  there without your storm. Just a through with sticker,
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  this too shall pass. There's nothing, he's like, good
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  that. I really don't want to fund the
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  fire. The only reason why this had to
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  happen was because it was important, it needed to happen.
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  So yeah. Good. - it's a very clear
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  because I can't lie on you, it needed to happen, you needed
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  this, okay? And it's okay because between
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  you iife, I mean, people they have told we know the core, You
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  gave me three examples and none of them as far as say, we're
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  back over this. Oh my God, tell you to do
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  anything, I genuinely am exhausted and I think I've come
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  here to do what I Intended to do you see you and what not get
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  this done? Whatever it takes to make you
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  feel. You see my remorse and what not
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  even if I battled you're not in it today.
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  I click the share button as the first time so I I'm at peace.
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  And I hope you are too. That's what I just want you to
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  get off the phone. There's no need people already
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  fighting our house. There's no need for us to play.
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  I think it's just too weak agitated and I am concerned that
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  your triggers are good gifts there and I don't, if I'm seen
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  that happening I think I need to just I'm not a relationship are
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  not back in the relationship to see who I'm coming to say, I
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  love you, I still love you too fancy on.
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  It was take this back. But because that would be a
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  clear position of. Okay, this is what we're doing
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  to hell with anybody now. Any kind of anything look, walk
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  is there and saying that they are, they are three answers in
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  this let's get this right. Is that ever going to say?
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  Oh I love you too. Valid forever and that is the
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  position but between you and God, we know that we're not
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  there so that is not true. Now is either I come out But you
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  obviously, which would never happen from my side.
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  That is another response. Now, the told won't would be a
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  lukewarm answer that is neither here in a day.
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  Which is why we're you told you, I said, okay, you tell me what
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  you want me to write or how you want me to act, not triggering
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  me. I was working, let me to be, you
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  know, being upset, I said, and I asked you categorically said,
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  when we do having these conversations back and forth,
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  detect wrongest, Energy Management to the post.
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  You said, no. Because it's a, I've said, from
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  the beginning, this is not imposed to guarantee that we'll
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  come back in a relationship. But if you want to talk and be
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  cordial to each other, this is the first step to write in a
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  wrong. I've had time to think about it
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  and said it was, it was disposed.
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  What am I going to write? What am I going to say?
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  And even when after this corner took time to breathe after you
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  call and I took algebra linear address of what do I really want
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  to say right now? In this heightened tension of
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  everywhere, everywhere? That's what not on this again
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  into another roller coaster. Because you know, that you and I
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  are not there, the total would be lukewarm answer, which will
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  be taken again out of contest and respond and respond and
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  respond into various things that we don't even need right now.
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  He's like me saying, oh it's okay.
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  It is well something as harmless as that and they begin to go
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  with. Oh, what is well what is it?
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  It's okay Terror. After your post, I called you
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  twice. I said, I appreciate you for
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  what you did. It doesn't have to end this way.
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  Doesn't have to be this way. We don't need to have that
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  fight. Personally.
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  I think like, I have always been, because the thing is, if I
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  respond from this height and 24, and we know that It was
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  maintained our pain and continual Communication in
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  private and how well, take a step back and let your dream do
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  whatever you feel is good for you.
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  I've done my own part. So have fun tonight or whatever
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  you got. I'm doing, you could chill at
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  home till you have fun. If not, I'm going to watch some
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  good movies tonight and that's out, okay?
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  You just take care of yourself. Little like how it has come into
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  this world. I feel like you said there's so
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  much happening and they're too many people fighting on our
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  behalf you know. And let me just categorically
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  say I got upset from you not asking for a response from you
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  saying oh my family and friends asking and that triggered me.
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  W what you did was necessary for the action that was taken.
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  At the time. And I really say in this from a
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  place of I really, really don't want us to keep going back and I
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  don't know, the score of snow. You always this.
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  Be my friend. This is moving forward.
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  I'm very careful person. This place is not about looking
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  cool or sounding cool when it was the bad one.
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  That was said, I also did not say anything.
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  Because we do casting owner said after myself, one of the boss, I
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  know it looks the type of you might be feeling a type of way
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  of people coming to the comments at everywhere at the time seeing
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  it. But people are also giving you
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  quite curious are saying you're a good person for coming to
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  apologize. Nobody has ever apologized.
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  And people have seen for apologizing, I stole from you
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  for instance. Has I am sorry.
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  I have acknowledged. If you want to know why, I'm
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  listening CBC different books after listening to this audio,
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  we can all agree that these two people.
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  This fight is not over. We're going to be talking about
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  how many videos regarding this issue and I feel I feel like
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  they are the words are stressed. They have stress in my life for
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  the fact that fancy and Alex, you will need to chill Alex.
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  I don't know who released the audio.
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  But if you do not do any favors because people are people can
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  clearly see that you are trying to manipulate you manipulated
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  her for the fact that you were the one that recorded a told
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  you. If you didn't have any ulterior
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  motive, you wouldn't submit that recording.
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  Although fancy to I mean chats releasing chats.
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  These are WhatsApp messages which anybody can screenshots
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  from previous messages and and release online.
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  But The fact that you recorded our conversation for future
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  reference, which means you knew that something like, this is
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  going to happen and you just preparing for your defense that
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  made. Everybody think that you are
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  manipulative. You're manipulative.
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  Anyway, tell me what you think. Do you think that Alex is to
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  blame? Or do you think that fancy is
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  overreacting? Or do you think that these two
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  people need to just leave us alone?
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  We are tired. Our tired is tired.
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  Let me know in the comments. Action.
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  I please like like and share. Thank you very much.
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  Bye. Bye.
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  Action. I please like like and share.
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  Thank you very much. Bye.
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  Bye.