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- 0:00Speaker 1: We got a question for American mama's. Dear mama's where
- 0:02Speaker 1: do you stand on assisted suicide? Well, let's ask our
- 0:05Speaker 1: American mama's.
- 0:07Speaker 2: Mama, and joining is now our American mama's tern Dville
- 0:20Speaker 2: and Kimberly Burlison, they have Assisted suicide is legal in Canada,
- 0:25Speaker 2: It's legal in some European countries.
- 0:28Speaker 1: I don't believe it's legal in the US, although I
- 0:30Speaker 1: remember it was it. Kravorkian was trying to do Doctor
- 0:34Speaker 1: Jack of Working is trying to get it legalized, and
- 0:35Speaker 1: they thought about legalizing in Oregon. I don't think they
- 0:38Speaker 1: ever did. Yeah, uh so, where do you guys stand
- 0:41Speaker 1: on that? Well?
- 0:41Speaker 3: I saw that there's this elderly couple in Norway. There's
- 0:44Speaker 3: a new pod that's been created that releases a gas
- 0:47Speaker 3: to euthanize people.
- 0:49Speaker 1: Wall there's a new pod.
- 0:50Speaker 3: It's a pod that's been created in Norway. And apparently
- 0:54Speaker 3: there's a lady that's got early onset of Alzheimer's and
- 0:58Speaker 3: so she wanted to go ahead, go so that she
- 1:00Speaker 3: is not a burden on her husband, a financial burden
- 1:03Speaker 3: as well. Okay, well he has elected to do it
- 1:06Speaker 3: with her because he doesn't want to live his life
- 1:08Speaker 3: without her. So they have chosen together to go and
- 1:12Speaker 3: they'll place the pod wherever you want. I think they
- 1:14Speaker 3: want to be like in a forest and then they
- 1:16Speaker 3: want to go together. And it devastated me for some
- 1:20Speaker 3: reason when I saw this story, I was so upset.
- 1:23Speaker 3: So then I start reading a little bit more and
- 1:25Speaker 3: I'm finding out like in Canada, people are choosing to
- 1:28Speaker 3: in their life because they can't pay their bills, or
- 1:31Speaker 3: because they're depressed, or they got broken up with It's
- 1:33Speaker 3: not like a life ending something's wrong with your health.
- 1:37Speaker 1: It's like right once you open life, once you open
- 1:40Speaker 1: that door, yes to where not only you know, I
- 1:43Speaker 1: mean obviously people can commit suicide any time they want,
- 1:47Speaker 1: but once you actually sanction it by the state, it
- 1:51Speaker 1: might become.
- 1:51Speaker 4: A social contentment.
- 1:52Speaker 3: Well they're seeing it. That's what's happening right now in Canada.
- 1:55Speaker 3: And so I don't know, you know. So I'm having
- 1:58Speaker 3: the conversation with my husband and you know, he's like, well,
- 2:00Speaker 3: I feel like, you know, when you want to go,
- 2:02Speaker 3: you should go.
- 2:03Speaker 4: But I have that.
- 2:04Speaker 3: Feeling of like, no, you can't. You like, what does
- 2:09Speaker 3: it say biblically about That's what I'm.
- 2:12Speaker 1: So this is one of those things in everyday life.
- 2:18Speaker 1: If you guys don't mind if I preach a little
- 2:20Speaker 1: bit in everyday life. Are you supposed to just do
- 2:24Speaker 1: what you want to do? Or are you supposed to
- 2:27Speaker 1: be doing what God wants you to do? Right? What
- 2:29Speaker 1: is God's plan? This is what we really should be
- 2:31Speaker 1: asking every day God, what is your plan for me today?
- 2:35Speaker 1: Not my will? But your will be done? Okay? Because
- 2:38Speaker 1: his plan's better than ours. I guarantee you that his
- 2:41Speaker 1: plan is better than ours. Part of what God wants
- 2:46Speaker 1: is for us to trust him. How many times does
- 2:50Speaker 1: the Bible say trusts God? Trust in God? Trust God?
- 2:54Speaker 1: And that even comes into the end of your life. Right,
- 2:58Speaker 1: So the doctor may tell you, hey, we got this
- 3:01Speaker 1: terminal thing and there's okay, well, this was not my plan,
- 3:06Speaker 1: this isn't what I want. And sure I could go
- 3:09Speaker 1: home and I could commit suicide. But is that what
- 3:11Speaker 1: God wants me to do? Does God have a plan
- 3:14Speaker 1: even in my final days? I'm gonna I'm gonna bring
- 3:18Speaker 1: this back to Denise So, our our co host on
- 3:21Speaker 1: the show when we first started, One of our Moms,
- 3:23Speaker 1: but before Kimberly was Denise Arthur and Denise well, because
- 3:31Speaker 1: of the COVID lockdowns, she didn't get to go to
- 3:33Speaker 1: her doctor's appointment, and the next time she got to
- 3:35Speaker 1: go to a doctor's appointment, she had stage four cancer
- 3:37Speaker 1: in multiple locations. So we had been praying on the show,
- 3:43Speaker 1: we want healing, we want healing. We had a whole
- 3:45Speaker 1: bunch of people were praying over her. We want healing,
- 3:46Speaker 1: we want healing. And then one day it was just like, well,
- 3:50Speaker 1: that's not God's plan, and Denise in that moment, went okay, well,
- 3:53Speaker 1: then we need to change our prayer. Instead of saying
- 3:57Speaker 1: praying for healing. She said, Okay, I want I'm gonna
- 3:59Speaker 1: pray that we do this the way God wants us
- 4:02Speaker 1: to do this. Right. So, even as she went out
- 4:05Speaker 1: with stage four cancer, she wanted she was trusting in
- 4:10Speaker 1: God and that is what we're called to do more
- 4:14Speaker 1: than anything else. And I talked about this too. Trust
- 4:18Speaker 1: is a choice, just like love.
- 4:21Speaker 3: Yeah, exactly.
- 4:22Speaker 4: Oh I have a question though.
- 4:23Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 4:23Speaker 4: So years ago, there was a coach for Louisiana Tech
- 4:27Speaker 4: Baseball Ballparks named after Pat Patterson, his wife. In their
- 4:31Speaker 4: older age, she was suffering like in pain, ungodly amounts
- 4:36Speaker 4: of pain, he could not take it. He could not
- 4:39Speaker 4: take it.
- 4:39Speaker 1: He couldn't.
- 4:40Speaker 4: They tried to get her help, and so for I
- 4:42Speaker 4: don't know if it was months or years. Anyway, long
- 4:45Speaker 4: story short, he left a letter to his family. He
- 4:49Speaker 4: took her life and took his own life because he
- 4:52Speaker 4: could not stand to watch her in pain. Watching her
- 4:54Speaker 4: in pain put him in a lot of pain. And
- 4:56Speaker 4: I have to extend grace because I think in that
- 4:58Speaker 4: moment of insanity, when you're like he could, didn't know
- 5:01Speaker 4: what else to do, I extend grace. So there there's
- 5:05Speaker 4: this weird part of me that's like the pods and
- 5:09Speaker 4: if you see the picture of the pods are like
- 5:10Speaker 4: glass in case, like truly tesla looking type small things.
- 5:16Speaker 4: I don't understand that. I don't understand going somewhere and
- 5:19Speaker 4: being in nature and you're healthy as a horse. But
- 5:22Speaker 4: in these in those situations, I do extend grace because
- 5:24Speaker 4: I'm like, I can't imagine, kind of like people would say,
- 5:28Speaker 4: why would why would that be part of their journey?
- 5:30Speaker 1: Why? You know, there's just and I don't have the answer.
- 5:33Speaker 4: I know, I know it's just you have to agree
- 5:35Speaker 4: with you.
- 5:35Speaker 1: I agree with you. You have to extend grace. That's
- 5:38Speaker 1: I'm not. I'm not trying.
- 5:39Speaker 4: To God that God's the one that takes care of
- 5:41Speaker 4: We don't have to we don't have to judge, we
- 5:42Speaker 4: don't have to take care of it, because He's got it.
- 5:45Speaker 4: He's got He has all of us in the palms,
- 5:46Speaker 4: in the palm of his hand.
- 5:47Speaker 1: But one of the things I try and do in
- 5:48Speaker 1: my life is I try to anticipate how I would
- 5:51Speaker 1: react to things, so that when those things actually happen
- 5:54Speaker 1: to me, I'm reacting the way I want to. Okay,
- 5:57Speaker 1: And in these situations, the way I want to act
- 6:01Speaker 1: is what God wants. I want to choose his will,
- 6:05Speaker 1: not mine, because I trust that his is better than mine.
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- 6:13Speaker 1: out of Kimberly Brothers and thank you so much, thank you,
- 6:15Speaker 1: thank you,