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- 1:26Speaker 1: Welcome to the Bubble Lounge.
- 1:34Speaker 1: I'm Martha Jackson.
- 1:35Speaker 1: Buckle up friends.
- 1:37Speaker 1: Today I am hanging out with the man who has gone viral on social media for his You're a Rich Mom in Highland Park video.
- 1:44Speaker 1: I first spotted Chris Kahle reel while I was scrolling through Instagram.
- 1:49Speaker 1: Two lattes later I'd watched his entire feed, hit follow and declared him my new favorite Instagram account.
- 1:56Speaker 1: Fast forward.
- 1:57Speaker 1: Just a few weeks later, I ran into him at Los Charros' grand opening.
- 2:02Speaker 1: Clearly the algorithm wanted us to meet in real time and after one margarita-fueled chat we agreed he had to join me on the podcast.
- 2:12Speaker 1: So grab your Mambo taxi or a cold brew whatever your PTA schedule allows and settle in.
- 2:18Speaker 1: On this episode we're unpacking Chris's origin story, how a guy with a perfectly normal day job became Highland Park's comedic conscious and why Monkey Bar now feels like the freshman orientation for influencers.
- 2:33Speaker 1: We'll dig into the real amount of time it takes to crank out those reels, how he handles the occasional troll who thinks his Escalade jokes hit too close to home and, because you know I'm all about local love, his insider list of new restaurants and hidden gems you need on your radar right now.
- 2:51Speaker 1: Trust me, this one's equal parts laugh therapy and neighborhood intel.
- 2:55Speaker 1: Let's dive right in, chris.
- 2:57Speaker 1: Thank you for being here today.
- 2:59Chris Kahle: Yes, I'm so excited to be here.
- 3:01Speaker 1: Well, everyone loves to hear the stories of how I find guests and topics, and I think that we have a pretty funny story we do so.
- 3:07Speaker 1: I literally was on the Explorer page and all of a sudden you popped up, click on it and you're talking about Highland Park moms and I'm like wait, who is this?
- 3:15Martha Jackson: guy I know.
- 3:17Speaker 1: And then so I go to your Instagram and I start looking at everything and love everything that I'm seeing and start following you.
- 3:22Speaker 1: And it hadn't really been all that long, maybe a couple of months and then we're at the grand opening for Los Choros at the Graduate and I'm looking around the room.
- 3:31Speaker 1: I'm like, oh my God, that's the guy that does the Highland Park videos and I was like I would love to meet him.
- 3:37Speaker 1: And I hate approaching people when they're eating dinner and they're with friends and everything, and my husband is literally cheering me on and going you got to go meet him.
- 3:46Speaker 1: It would be really awkward if I went up and introduced you to him, so you got to go, so I went over to you and you were just so nice and it was so nice to meet you and your friends.
- 3:55Chris Kahle: Yes, Now, I'm glad that you did.
- 3:57Speaker 1: And then, of course, I slipped in.
- 3:58Chris Kahle: about the podcast, I thought you would think that was cool.
- 4:01Speaker 1: And then you said I should be on the show, yeah.
- 4:04Chris Kahle: Yeah, yes, yes, I'm glad that you did and honestly, it's weird because it happens a lot.
- 4:11Chris Kahle: It probably started happening, like I want to say, like four months ago, where, just going out to dinner and people started coming up to me taking photos, things.
- 4:20Chris Kahle: So I was actually used to it by this point, right, and I'm glad that you did.
- 4:25Chris Kahle: I'm always still just like flattered that someone wants to say hi.
- 4:31Speaker 1: It's watching.
- 4:31Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah.
- 4:31Speaker 1: Well, like I said, I haven't followed you all that long, I don't know a ton about you, but I want to know where did you come from?
- 4:38Speaker 1: How did you get to Dallas?
- 4:39Chris Kahle: Absolutely.
- 4:39Chris Kahle: So I actually moved from Dallas to, or moved from Miami to Dallas and did not want to leave.
- 4:46Chris Kahle: I actually did not want to come to Dallas.
- 4:48Chris Kahle: So I worked a big retail background I was working for Nordstrom at the time and one of the top stores was North Park to get promoted to, to become a regional and just continue your Nordstrom career.
- 5:00Chris Kahle: And this was, you know, back in the day.
- 5:03Chris Kahle: So this was 2012 when I moved here.
- 5:07Chris Kahle: And with Nordstrom, you know, they're like you have a week to move.
- 5:10Chris Kahle: And it was like they wanted me in Austin at one point, they wanted me in San Francisco at one point and I was like turning down offers and they're like, Chris, if you turn down another, like offer from Nordstrom, like they're not going to promote you, so like you have to take it.
- 5:23Chris Kahle: And then it was North Park and I was like, okay, let's do it.
- 5:26Chris Kahle: And so in a week I moved.
- 5:28Chris Kahle: They moved me to Dallas and, honestly, was very, very sad just because Miami.
- 5:34Chris Kahle: I was doing well.
- 5:35Chris Kahle: I had a great friend group, I had family.
- 5:38Chris Kahle: That was 45 minutes away.
- 5:39Chris Kahle: I was at the beach on my days off.
- 5:41Chris Kahle: You know it was a fabulous life.
- 5:43Chris Kahle: I was, you know, in my later 20s, so it was hard to leave.
- 5:48Speaker 1: I cannot imagine only having a week to uproot and move to a completely different state.
- 5:53Chris Kahle: Yes, they don't do that anymore.
- 5:54Chris Kahle: I will say that They've stopped that.
- 5:57Chris Kahle: But yes, it was a week turnaround.
- 6:03Speaker 1: So it turns out you do have a day job in addition to the social media, tell me more about your job, and no one, ever no one.
- 6:05Chris Kahle: But they're like where do you find the time?
- 6:07Chris Kahle: So, with that big retail background, I end up and this goes back to Highland Park I end up, kind of progressing in my career and, being a regional for theory, open up the first store in Highland Park Village where I got a lot of the Highland Park content from and I'll tell you that story later because it's funny, because I filmed that in New York and then I got introduced to someone that was doing this really cool retail tech startup based in Austin, and my old senior vice president was like you should meet this guy because I was, you know, thinking about a change and the company was changing and wanted to get out of retail.
- 6:43Chris Kahle: And so now I work as an account exec for this retail tech startup.
- 6:48Chris Kahle: So essentially it still kind of involves me in retail, but I'm meeting with the vice presidents of retail, the CEOs, and telling them about this platform, which is essentially kind of like Uber for Retail Associates.
- 7:01Chris Kahle: So it's a cool concept.
- 7:03Chris Kahle: But we work with Theory Golden Goose, skims, ralph Lauren, tons of different brands and it's kind of taken off.
- 7:11Chris Kahle: So, yeah, I do that for the last two and a half years and social media really took off 2024, I started kind of doing it and then like where we are today, last year is when it kind of took off for Dallas content.
- 7:26Speaker 1: Oh, wow, yeah.
- 7:27Speaker 1: So, that's not long at all.
- 7:28Chris Kahle: Not that long.
- 7:29Speaker 1: Well, what motivated you and inspired you to put yourself out there and do all these social media videos?
- 7:34Chris Kahle: Yes, so and I was just having this conversation because someone wants to start a podcast, ironically, and it was a good friend of mine and she was just like how did you get over the fear of putting yourself out there and I talk about it a lot on TikTok?
- 7:48Chris Kahle: I think it was a couple of things.
- 7:50Chris Kahle: One I was kind of just going out to dinners and we would, me and my husband, like to travel.
- 7:56Chris Kahle: We weren't really doing much in Dallas so I had a small friend group.
- 8:00Chris Kahle: You know, I knew a lot of people when I first moved here Highland Park people, all that people in restaurants, but like not the capacity today through social media.
- 8:13Chris Kahle: So I kind of just in my thought process of doing TikTok was like nothing really to lose, like I don't have this business.
- 8:20Chris Kahle: If I go on TikTok, I'm doing videos or trending videos, like who's really going to see it.
- 8:22Chris Kahle: So I started doing TikTok and just said I'll post every single day and see what happens.
- 8:31Chris Kahle: Then what happened was I actually decided to quit drinking for five months.
- 8:35Chris Kahle: When you're not drinking, you're very, very clear headed, you're very focused.
- 8:40Chris Kahle: A lot of things change.
- 8:41Chris Kahle: Like I was just in the best mood.
- 8:43Chris Kahle: I mean I'm thinking about doing it again.
- 8:45Chris Kahle: But I was so determined and you're just really clear headed on your goals and I said, okay, tiktok, I was getting like 5,000 followers just doing just trending videos stuff, me and my husband nothing, dallas and then I said, okay, let me do.
- 9:00Chris Kahle: Um, I was getting comfortable, let me do.
- 9:01Chris Kahle: I was getting comfortable, let me do three videos a day.
- 9:04Chris Kahle: So I started posting three times a day on TikTok and I was.
- 9:09Chris Kahle: I have a remote job, so I was able to do that in the morning.
- 9:12Chris Kahle: You know you plan your content out, post something in the afternoon and then in the evening, and at that point I was just comfortable because I wasn't posting on Instagram.
- 9:22Chris Kahle: So, like my family and like my close friends a couple of them were on TikTok, but I was just like no one's really going to see me, right.
- 9:29Chris Kahle: And then once I kind of did this one big Dallas video is when it kind of started taking off, and by then I was just so comfortable that I didn't really care what anyone thought and I was like, okay, I kind of want to see where this goes, because I got from 5,000 to 10,000 followers and then did a Dallas video and then it spiraled and then from there I was like, okay, this is becoming something.
- 9:56Chris Kahle: But at that point I had posted so many videos.
- 9:59Chris Kahle: I didn't care what anyone thought if that makes sense, I didn't really care.
- 10:03Chris Kahle: I was doing it.
- 10:04Chris Kahle: Care what anyone thought, if that makes sense, you know, like I didn't really care, I was doing it.
- 10:05Chris Kahle: And when you're determined you know you go for it.
- 10:08Chris Kahle: You don't want to let what others think bring you down in the way of your goals.
- 10:11Chris Kahle: And I was not drinking and focused.
- 10:13Chris Kahle: I was like let's see where I can go with this, ok.
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- 11:18Speaker 1: So I personally need to post more myself and I feel like I care a little too much about what other people think, like I mean, you know not to say in Dallas.
- 11:27Chris Kahle: I was not to say Dallas, let's be.
- 11:29Chris Kahle: It can be judgy.
- 11:30Speaker 1: Yeah, just a tad.
- 11:32Speaker 1: Yeah, just a tad.
- 11:33Speaker 1: Plus, I have a teenage boy that is still in school here at Highland park and boy teenage boys I don't know if you remember this they are brutal to each other and his friends.
- 11:42Speaker 1: Some of them follow the account and everything and they give him a hard time about just things that I post, and my posts are nothing too crazy.
- 11:49Speaker 1: So, anyways, I need to get to a point where I don't care as much.
- 11:53Speaker 1: So I like that.
- 11:54Speaker 1: That's very, very.
- 11:55Chris Kahle: Life is short is what I tell people.
- 11:57Speaker 1: Definitely.
- 11:59Chris Kahle: So don't let what other.
- 12:00Chris Kahle: And I get it, everyone has the personality.
- 12:02Chris Kahle: I was doing casting in Miami before I got into retail, so I got comfortable going up to people interviewing people, putting myself out there.
- 12:10Chris Kahle: Okay.
- 12:11Chris Kahle: So I think that also was kind of like I was nervous, but it was on TikTok, I mean on Instagram.
- 12:17Chris Kahle: So TikTok was like you know, let's see where it goes.
- 12:19Chris Kahle: No one's going to see me, and that's where I just became comfortable in front of the camera.
- 12:23Speaker 1: Okay, yeah.
- 12:23Chris Kahle: And I was like, I like making these videos.
- 12:25Chris Kahle: I think it's fun and it's entertaining.
- 12:27Chris Kahle: And so, park, tell me everything.
- 12:30Chris Kahle: What did you think of the people, people that took me to Highland Park when I first moved here, and it was just like.
- 13:03Chris Kahle: You know, I was used to North Park but she kind of took me.
- 13:06Chris Kahle: I can't remember the first restaurant we went to.
- 13:08Chris Kahle: It might have been Bistro 31, to be honest, but I was just like I thought it was the most beautiful center.
- 13:16Chris Kahle: You know, I had been to LA all the time, for you know other brands and trips like that, and Miami is gorgeous.
- 13:24Chris Kahle: South Beach at the time it's kind of different now, but I thought it was beautiful, I thought it was very upkept, I just liked, you know, I thought it was like the Beverly Hills of Texas to me and it was different just because you're surrounded by the beautiful Highland Park homes versus like on a big open street you know, somewhere in LA or even Miami, the design district.
- 13:47Speaker 1: So Well, what about the women?
- 13:48Speaker 1: I know that you have had a lot of experience with them, especially Highland Park Village.
- 13:53Chris Kahle: Yes.
- 13:54Chris Kahle: So I think for me okay, since I worked at the store and opened up in theory and this is the funny thing when I first went to Harvard I was like, oh my gosh, it'd be so great to work at a store there one day Kind of manifesting I've always actually been really good at manifesting.
- 14:11Chris Kahle: You can ask my friends Almost everything that I've gotten manifested.
- 14:14Chris Kahle: So I got an offer to open up one of the first theory stores from a regional who knew me and I wanted to be in Highland Park.
- 14:24Chris Kahle: So there I was, finally in Highland Park Village, and that's where I really got to know a lot of the ladies, the personal stylists, how ladies are communicating, how they're carrying themselves, what charities are going to because are communicating how they're carrying themselves.
- 14:40Chris Kahle: You know what charities are going to because we were hosting events.
- 14:42Chris Kahle: We were hosting trying to get involved in the charity world, to get theory out there as a brand and partner and get traffic and get clients.
- 14:49Chris Kahle: So that's where I kind of knew which charities were popular, what ladies were doing, ladies who lunch, you know, people coming and trying stuff on in the fitting room.
- 15:00Chris Kahle: It's retail therapy.
- 15:01Chris Kahle: So people will, you know, talk about everything, and then even my associates would be like, oh, that's so-and-so in Dallas, you know her and like, did it and, you know, tell a funny story.
- 15:11Chris Kahle: So we'd get the inside scoop because we would know from customers and my associates would be talking about it.
- 15:17Chris Kahle: And so I thought the Highland Park lady, sophisticated, chic, charity-driven lady who lunches, but so different than just the Miami lady.
- 15:31Speaker 1: I could only imagine.
- 15:32Speaker 1: I mean, I would think that would be night and day pretty much.
- 15:34Speaker 1: Yes, well, I feel like your Rich Mom videos.
- 15:38Speaker 1: I don't feel like you're necessarily making fun to me, they're.
- 15:42Speaker 1: They're kind of matter of fact, like I feel like you're like spot on.
- 15:46Speaker 1: You're just saying you drive this, you wear this.
- 15:49Speaker 1: I think that they're pretty, pretty accurate.
- 15:51Speaker 1: Yeah, does anyone ever get upset with you about them?
- 15:55Chris Kahle: You know what?
- 15:55Chris Kahle: No, I think people will give.
- 15:55Chris Kahle: I think people will give feedback.
- 15:56Chris Kahle: Um, and you know what?
- 15:57Chris Kahle: No, okay, I think people will give.
- 15:58Chris Kahle: I think people will give feedback.
- 15:59Chris Kahle: Um, and you know I just did an SMU one.
- 16:03Chris Kahle: Uh, actually today was posted um, which was funny, and I have to give credit because now people that you know, because I do do partnerships, now that I'm posting social media, there's deals and things that happen.
- 16:18Chris Kahle: I have a.
- 16:20Chris Kahle: But now there's a lot of brands that are kind of getting smart.
- 16:23Chris Kahle: They're like we like these funny videos and they see how many views they get in the engagement.
- 16:29Chris Kahle: And one of them got smart and said you know, do some kind of finance or funny SMU thing and you know, mention our app on there.
- 16:38Chris Kahle: And it was smart and it actually worked because people watched to the end and they're like, oh my gosh, I didn't realize we just got not suckered, but like there was an ad in there.
- 16:46Chris Kahle: But no, they'll give feedback for sure.
- 16:50Chris Kahle: There'll be people that'll definitely message me, like I did a Frisco one, and they were like you know, that's not us, or you missed this or you miss that, and it's, I'm having fun and, to be honest, it's, I start getting them now because I get requests and they'll give me a lot of the feedback on what to say.
- 17:07Chris Kahle: And you know, and a lot of it I know.
- 17:10Chris Kahle: But Highland Park was, I was in New York and I was there with my current job and I had thought about, just like the rich mom and you know it would be funny like talk about what they drive, what they do, whatever we'll see what happens and I'd like filmed a couple just like practice videos to see, to see if it was funny.
- 17:31Chris Kahle: Ask.
- 17:31Chris Kahle: My husband and I was in New York and I just redid the voiceover and some clips and that's actually when I first posted the Highland Park video.
- 17:40Chris Kahle: I was like at work, super tired, and I knew from just Highland Park and being there working there, and then, you know, after leaving Theory, going out, eating there and kind of just knowing the people there, right, that's where I got a lot of inspiration.
- 17:56Chris Kahle: And then also just seeing I won't name names but just some moms and people that are on Instagram that do live in Highland Park and have big accounts and like what they drive and what they're wearing I pulled a lot of inspiration from that too.
- 18:24Speaker 1: But yeah, no one gets, no one gets upset with those videos.
- 18:26Chris Kahle: These are just my opinions and I'm having fun, so I feel like that probably helps soften it too.
- 18:27Chris Kahle: So why do you think you're so popular with SMU sorority girls?
- 18:29Chris Kahle: So I talk about this a lot.
- 18:35Chris Kahle: It's weird because I've got a lot of other friends that are influencers and they're going to get recognized, of course.
- 18:39Chris Kahle: Course, I think there's a couple of things.
- 18:40Chris Kahle: One I'm really the only guy that's doing dallas influencing.
- 18:47Chris Kahle: There's a lot of girls that are talking about here's what I do in dallas and recommend this, and I don't know a lot of men that are strictly kind of doing what I'm doing.
- 19:00Speaker 1: Yeah, I think you're right so that's one thing.
- 19:03Chris Kahle: Like, oh, when I first did this, I was kind of making fun of Dallas and I did a Dallas Chugi video, which is it was light-hearted.
- 19:09Chris Kahle: I was very nervous to make it and I said, whatever, I've gone so far on TikTok and not cared, let's just see what happens.
- 19:16Chris Kahle: But I think because I'm a guy and I think because I one also have I don't want to say a distinct look, but my husband's always said like you know you always like if people before me I know you from somewhere you look just so like where have I seen your face before?
- 19:36Chris Kahle: Like a movie star, well, but people always think, you know, where have I seen your face before?
- 19:39Chris Kahle: Like a movie star, well, but people always think you know, oh, I've seen you before.
- 19:41Chris Kahle: You have a unique look.
- 19:43Chris Kahle: So I think there's also, like you know, I don't maybe look like everyone else and I've been real with my videos on TikTok and kind of gave honest reviews and funny things that are relatable.
- 19:57Chris Kahle: And so when you add that where no one I don't want to say no one, but, like you know, a new freshness to kind of the influencing space in dallas, I think people kind of gravitated towards that.
- 20:10Chris Kahle: Like who is this guy?
- 20:11Chris Kahle: He's funny, you know.
- 20:13Chris Kahle: I think people it kind of started like, well, where do you like to hang out?
- 20:15Chris Kahle: If you think this restaurant's not cool, what do you think's cool?
- 20:18Chris Kahle: So I think maybe people thought like, oh, he, maybe he's got some something to him or style.
- 20:23Chris Kahle: Like people started just kind of trusting what I was saying when I kind of did these like ins and outs videos and like Dallas Chucky videos, um, and I think the girls I it's the weirdest thing, I think they just resonated with that and like, oh, he's funny, he's calling it out like that's, you know, that's real and that's funny, and so I think that's where it came from, but I didn't know how big that some you like following was, you know.
- 20:52Speaker 1: Well, and I think that secretly, every girl, no matter what age they are, wants to have a gay best friend.
- 20:57Speaker 1: And so you're kind of like everyone's online gay best friend right.
- 21:00Speaker 1: That's going to all the cool places traveling and just you know you live quite the life.
- 21:05Chris Kahle: Yes, I do now.
- 21:07Chris Kahle: I do now, but yeah, I think that's it Right.
- 21:10Chris Kahle: But here's the funniest thing I will have SMU, I'll have, obviously, highland Park, but I also will get there was I'll never forget.
- 21:19Chris Kahle: I mean she was gorgeous, but she was, I don't want to say, but let's just say late 60s, 70s, I don't you know, but they were, uh, going to their anniversary, just like you made my night and ran into them at a restaurant and it was just me and my husband were just like wow, like there's a lot of demographics and there's not like a set age range yeah, there's younger on TikTok, because there's just me and my husband were just like wow, like there's a lot of demographics and there's not like a set age range, there's younger on TikTok because there's just more younger demographic automatically on TikTok, so by default, but it's all over the board.
- 21:50Chris Kahle: Like there was a guy that I met at Monkey Bar the other day.
- 21:53Chris Kahle: He actually like screenshotted and like sent me a video.
- 21:56Chris Kahle: He was like I see, you like on Instagram, and I was like, oh my God, what's happening?
- 22:00Chris Kahle: Someone's stalking me.
- 22:01Chris Kahle: But it was actually like an older guy and he was super cool and he was with his buddies and it was just.
- 22:07Chris Kahle: It's weird how it kind of yeah, you just appealed to a really wide range, wide range.
- 22:13Chris Kahle: That's cool, so I'm flattered and yeah.
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- 23:11Speaker 1: Well, you posted a really cool video just a couple of days ago about a new rooftop monkey bar.
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- 23:20Chris Kahle: Yes, so it's their second one.
- 23:22Chris Kahle: It opens up today.
- 23:24Chris Kahle: It's in the true hotel and I just started going to monkey bar, like after doing social media, just to go back to monkey bar.
- 23:33Chris Kahle: It's like an easy go to.
- 23:34Chris Kahle: I love honor bar.
- 23:36Chris Kahle: I've talked about it before.
- 23:37Chris Kahle: Love going to Honor Bar.
- 23:39Chris Kahle: I've been going to the Aspen one before the Highland Park one and that's how it's called White House Market, and so they've always had the chicken sandwich there.
- 23:46Chris Kahle: I fell in love with it and then, you know, honor Bar opened up here.
- 23:49Chris Kahle: I love Hillstone, so I've always loved going there.
- 23:52Chris Kahle: It's just an easy transition to go to Monkey Bar afterwards and have a drink, because I'm 42.
- 23:58Chris Kahle: And people always ask me, like where do you like to go out?
- 24:01Chris Kahle: I'm like before I was doing social media I was in bed at 9pm, I wasn't going out, and I still don't go out.
- 24:11Chris Kahle: So for me a nice ideal night is like an early dinner, sometimes 6.30, 7 o'clock maybe.
- 24:14Chris Kahle: Go to Monkey.
- 24:14Chris Kahle: It's like where do you go?
- 24:15Chris Kahle: Clifton Club, monkey Bar, you know places that go have a drink.
- 24:18Chris Kahle: There's a little bit of a vibe, but okay, I'm home by nine.
- 24:22Chris Kahle: So monkey bar just kind of became a thing where I was going and getting recognized a lot, um, because that crowd was there and then.
- 24:34Chris Kahle: So I became friends with the manager and that's how they kind of told me about this, hey, there's this new monkey bar that's opening and you should go and be a part of it, and you know they got a lot of influencers there, but it's really nice.
- 24:42Chris Kahle: It's in the design district, it's humongous, it's great views.
- 24:44Chris Kahle: Um, we'll see.
- 24:46Chris Kahle: You know what happens with the weather, um, because it's very hot yeah, not really rooftop weather right now.
- 24:53Chris Kahle: Yeah, so I think in the fall um, but I think a lot of rocking yeah, I think a lot of people go and it's definitely I don't think a lot of the highland park folks, I'm going to be honest, will go.
- 25:06Chris Kahle: I mean they might go but, like Highland Park's unique in itself because it's in the village and it's boutique and I think people like that.
- 25:13Chris Kahle: This is more, a little bit more commercial, but I think it's beautiful.
- 25:16Speaker 1: Okay.
- 25:16Speaker 1: So I don't know if you know this or not.
- 25:18Speaker 1: You have been in Dallas for about 13 years, so you probably were there before.
- 25:21Speaker 1: But the monkey bar and Highland Park used to be much smaller and it used to be almost like a speakeasy type thing, like if you knew, you knew you would go up there after you had dinner and all the Highland Park parents would hang out there.
- 25:34Speaker 1: It was like just your go-to.
- 25:36Speaker 1: You would always see everyone that you knew and it was a ton of fun for us older people.
- 25:40Speaker 1: And then all of a sudden they renovated, they expanded it and they made it super bougie and snazzy.
- 25:49Speaker 1: And now the SMU people have taken over and we literally can't even go there anymore.
- 25:52Speaker 1: Like if we walk in, there's a sea of young people that turn around and look at you like why is my grandmother here?
- 25:57Speaker 1: And it's really awkward and you feel old and so we don't go there anymore.
- 26:02Chris Kahle: Well, this is so.
- 26:04Chris Kahle: Here's the deal.
- 26:04Chris Kahle: I that's another thing.
- 26:10Chris Kahle: I think people relate.
- 26:10Chris Kahle: I also the same way and I did a video about it and it kind of went viral.
- 26:12Chris Kahle: It actually on Instagram, it's posted, and so I did a funny video where it's like wow, I'm looking around and I'm the oldest person at monkey bar and the video is like kind of looks like what the hell, what the hell?
- 26:23Chris Kahle: Like it's kind of like just a funny soundbite.
- 26:25Chris Kahle: But a lot of highland park moms were like I feel the same way.
- 26:29Chris Kahle: Um, so I definitely feel that for myself.
- 26:32Chris Kahle: I'm like what am I?
- 26:33Chris Kahle: What am I doing here?
- 26:35Chris Kahle: But I know the manager and it's just easy nightcap and it's just fun to go and sit down, um, but yeah, I mean, that's kind of that does stink.
- 26:44Chris Kahle: You know what it is.
- 26:44Chris Kahle: It's because probably people were going to lounge and then they expanded that and it's another place to like hang out.
- 26:50Chris Kahle: That's big, and so they're like let's make this.
- 26:53Chris Kahle: This is cool, like we have an area to hang out and the music, but yeah, I mean.
- 26:59Chris Kahle: I'm sorry.
- 27:00Speaker 1: Thank you, thank you, we're still mourning it.
- 27:02Chris Kahle: It's been a really long time since we've been but I feel your pain because I've done a video about it, making fun of myself, like, what am I doing here?
- 27:08Speaker 1: I'll have to check that one out Well.
- 27:10Speaker 1: So I am so curious how in the world you are able to balance this influencer thing with your real job.
- 27:18Speaker 1: I know you travel a lot for your job, which I think also gives you content, but how do you make all this happen?
- 27:21Chris Kahle: Yes, so I wake up at 5 AM when there's a lot of content to do.
- 27:27Chris Kahle: Sometimes I wake up at 4.30 and I'll start editing all my videos.
- 27:32Chris Kahle: I have a sunroom that I do what I just did and it's not a plug but Homeworthy just came and filmed and the reel is going to be out soon but it's on YouTube and I talk about it.
- 27:42Chris Kahle: That's where I kind of do all my content creation and just editing.
- 27:45Chris Kahle: So I'll edit a lot of videos early in the morning from what I'm capturing either at the evening or on the weekends.
- 27:52Chris Kahle: So, first and foremost, doing all my kind of editing really early, so that way I'm done for the day and I can start my job at nine, right and then capturing the content.
- 28:04Chris Kahle: It just depends, like if I'm doing for a long time.
- 28:06Chris Kahle: I was doing a lot of Dallas recommendations, a lot of like your rich mom here, that's, I can be in my living room and that's a green screen so I don't need to go anywhere.
- 28:15Chris Kahle: I'm literally screenshotting photos and it's relatable.
- 28:19Chris Kahle: You know, it's just recommendations where I would go and I'm talking about it on camera, so that would take like that takes 10 minutes, so those are easy, but more people want to see, like where you're going, what does the restaurant look like.
- 28:31Chris Kahle: So I will plan it out and do a week's worth of content for the upcoming week.
- 28:39Chris Kahle: So, example you know, this week I already have like seven or eight videos ready to go for next week.
- 28:46Chris Kahle: So batching your videos and doing that content before and really I don't have that much of a life Like I'm going to dinners, I get invited to events I always am filming content and that's kind of the one rule, like if you're a content creator not saying that like I'm this big thing, but you know from listening to people on TikTok is you can make, can make anything content, right.
- 29:07Chris Kahle: And so there's a lot of times like I was at the mall yesterday, I filmed all that.
- 29:11Chris Kahle: We don't know if I'll use it or if I'll like that, but that's what I do anytime I go out, if I'm at the gym oh, can I make this a day in the life?
- 29:18Chris Kahle: You know, could I make this something and do little clips?
- 29:20Chris Kahle: Like this is part of my day and we're going here, so I'm always filming all the time.
- 29:26Chris Kahle: So I have all that content and I can make these videos.
- 29:30Chris Kahle: But I'll also plan it out like hey, this is a funny trending sound.
- 29:35Chris Kahle: Austin, let's go film this outside, or let's go film this on the Katy Trail on Saturday morning.
- 29:40Chris Kahle: I plan it all out, I write it down and then I film it a week in advance.
- 29:44Speaker 1: You're actually filming right now behind me I'm actually filming right now.
- 29:47Speaker 1: Yes.
- 29:49Chris Kahle: But a lot of it is.
- 29:50Chris Kahle: I'm busy on the weekends and I try to get as much content as I can on the weekends, so I have it for my work week.
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- 30:54Speaker 1: Well, how do you?
- 30:56Speaker 1: You know we talked about putting yourself out there.
- 30:58Speaker 1: I'm sure every now and then you get trolls and negative comments and things like that.
- 31:03Speaker 1: How do you handle all that?
- 31:06Chris Kahle: I've always had thick skin.
- 31:07Chris Kahle: You know, just, growing up, I mean shocker.
- 31:11Chris Kahle: You know, I'm obviously a part of the lgbtq community.
- 31:15Chris Kahle: So growing up, you know I um, you know you face that, you get over that.
- 31:20Chris Kahle: So it's like I have thick skin.
- 31:22Chris Kahle: I've been dealing with that in miami when I first moved.
- 31:25Chris Kahle: Like people are very rude but I've always had confidence and held myself.
- 31:31Chris Kahle: So I've never really like never, let that stuff get to me, like I've always been confident.
- 31:39Chris Kahle: And the trolls, that's just a part of the territory.
- 31:43Chris Kahle: I'm going to be honest, like luckily it's not been bad and I talk to a lot of my other friends that do social media.
- 31:49Chris Kahle: They get it all the time.
- 31:50Chris Kahle: Yeah, so it is common, it's going to happen and that's one of the things that you face If you're going to put yourself out there.
- 31:59Chris Kahle: It is scary.
- 32:01Chris Kahle: I've had people follow me, not in a bad way, but like follow me, film me.
- 32:07Speaker 1: You know, creepy oh not in a bad way, but like follow me film me.
- 32:08Chris Kahle: You know, okay, that's creepy, oh yeah, who knows, you know, like now the homeworthy things out there but our addresses aren't there.
- 32:13Chris Kahle: But I'm sure people like people have mentioned my street name before like I don't, if I sit there and go down a rabbit hole I'll freak myself out.
- 32:22Chris Kahle: So I don't think about it, I think about the good, but that's one of the things.
- 32:26Chris Kahle: You put yourself out there and people start sharing your video a lot.
- 32:30Chris Kahle: You know that comes to the territory that there's going to be some hate and you just have to move on.
- 32:35Chris Kahle: I ignore it and I keep moving on and I try to keep my page light, funny, positive, and a lot of people even call me like their favorite comfort creator and like they get happy when they see some of my videos.
- 32:46Chris Kahle: So I continue with that.
- 32:48Chris Kahle: And also, what fuels me is like, what other businesses can I support?
- 32:53Chris Kahle: What other stories can I tell?
- 32:54Chris Kahle: Now, you know, all the funny stuff is great.
- 32:57Chris Kahle: I love.
- 32:58Chris Kahle: We'll continue to do that, but that if one hater said something, is that going to get me in the way of showcasing something really great that someone's doing in Dallas, that that store needs to get out there, and like I feel gratitude and joy sharing that?
- 33:11Speaker 1: Yeah, that's a really good outlook.
- 33:12Speaker 1: Well, that is definitely something I love about your account is your support of small local businesses.
- 33:17Speaker 1: That's a big part of what we do as well.
- 33:20Speaker 1: I am so passionate about doing anything and everything I can do to help these small businesses survive.
- 33:25Speaker 1: You've even featured some of ours, like JD's, chippery and Nicholson Hardy yes, super favorite businesses of mine.
- 33:32Speaker 1: But tell me about how you determine who you're going to work with.
- 33:37Speaker 1: How do people get in touch with you?
- 33:39Speaker 1: How does this all happen?
- 33:40Chris Kahle: Yeah.
- 33:40Chris Kahle: So you know, in the beginning, before I got a manager and even now I'm always needing content, right, I'm not going to like go out and every time, oh you're gonna, we're, we're gonna do a partnership or a collaboration.
- 33:54Chris Kahle: So in the beginning, it actually started with montlake cut, which was another video that kind of propelled me on tiktok love that place uh, my, our neighbors told us about them dying for us to go.
- 34:07Chris Kahle: This is a long, long time ago, and so we finally went and I filmed it and I was like, oh you know, this is kind of a hidden gem, like I've never heard anyone talk about this place.
- 34:16Chris Kahle: Yeah, it's, you know, impressed and center on the other side and it's fine way.
- 34:22Speaker 1: You don't see it the way.
- 34:23Chris Kahle: It's very small when you get in and that's when you know that video kind of blew up and and I was like, oh, that's cool, that really resonated.
- 34:30Chris Kahle: So like what are some other spots?
- 34:31Chris Kahle: And so of course I would just get advice from people, people, people recommend stuff and I look it up and I like to just see what's out there.
- 34:51Chris Kahle: And and different too, it doesn't have to be all the cookie cutter, cause sometimes people think I only do very, cause I am bougie.
- 34:58Chris Kahle: I will say I'm not gonna, I'm not gonna lie, I like nice things, um, but like I am down to earth, I like to go to, you know, any type of place, any type of food, I don't care.
- 35:11Chris Kahle: So, yeah, I mean honestly, I think, just right now, the small businesses.
- 35:17Chris Kahle: I started to do let's do a small business Saturday and I remember I did Evans Meat Market and then I did Quartez and it kind of just I started just researching what are some other businesses that are cool that I haven't heard about, and that's where I started doing it.
- 35:32Speaker 1: I love that.
- 35:33Speaker 1: I love that.
- 35:33Speaker 1: Well, like we've talked about, you're always going out and going to cool places.
- 35:38Speaker 1: Tell us about some of your favorite hotspots right now.
- 35:41Speaker 1: I mean, there's so many new places opening.
- 35:43Chris Kahle: There are Gosh, there's so many.
- 35:45Chris Kahle: I would say, like I always love, I always plug Clifton Club, but I do really like just grabbing a drink there.
- 35:54Chris Kahle: Dj's coming on.
- 35:55Chris Kahle: I'm friends with the owner of Beverly's so it's just an easy have dinner at Beverly's, go to Clifton.
- 36:03Speaker 1: Club.
- 36:03Speaker 1: They're right by each other.
- 36:04Chris Kahle: They're right by each other.
- 36:05Chris Kahle: I think I love Goodwins.
- 36:10Speaker 1: Oh my gosh.
- 36:10Chris Kahle: Yes, love that place and it's always packed.
- 36:13Speaker 1: Yeah, and it hasn't even been open very long, Like I think it's coming up at almost a year right.
- 36:19Chris Kahle: Yeah, yeah, almost a year.
- 36:20Chris Kahle: So I love Goodwins, I love the speakeasy there.
- 36:23Chris Kahle: The food's great, the vibe's great.
- 36:24Chris Kahle: Of course I mean Honor Bar is small, but I feel like nothing beats just sitting out on the patio and having a great.
- 36:39Chris Kahle: When the weather's nice, just sitting out and people watching at.
- 36:40Speaker 1: Honor Bar Evelyn's is also new in the design district.
- 36:42Speaker 1: Okay, I'm actually going tomorrow night.
- 36:44Chris Kahle: Yes, my daughter's in town and she wants to go.
- 36:46Chris Kahle: Yeah, it's big and I went opening night um and I know that they're going to open kind of this like or they're doing it now late night, where it's like kind of dance and there's a bar in the back and it's like 70s.
- 36:55Chris Kahle: I haven't been there for that um, but I think it's a great space and the food was great it looks beautiful kind of like I don't want to say like Drake's, but it's giving off that vibe a little bit.
- 37:08Chris Kahle: I'm really excited for some.
- 37:11Chris Kahle: So Elefante is coming from Santa Monica in California, so that's coming soon.
- 37:15Chris Kahle: And then there's it's coming from Delilah, from Miami's opening up in the design.
- 37:21Chris Kahle: So design district's really going to be blowing up because there's a lot of great restaurants that are coming and that are already there.
- 37:28Chris Kahle: And then now you've got monkey bar, which is in the design district somewhat, and then there's going to be a big retail it's called the seam and I did like a piece on it and then only because my retail connections kind of told me about it.
- 37:42Chris Kahle: But a lot of great restaurants and retail is going to be there.
- 37:47Chris Kahle: So design district is going to be something to keep your eye on.
- 37:49Chris Kahle: Yeah, so yeah, I mean those are my, some of my go to spots like Lounge 31 and Park House.
- 37:55Chris Kahle: You know I do all the usual things but sometimes, just like going to Montlake Cut grabbing a glass of wine with my husband, is like all I need the night.
- 38:07Chris Kahle: So, yeah, those are some of my spots.
- 38:09Speaker 1: Awesome.
- 38:09Speaker 1: Well, thanks for sharing.
- 38:10Speaker 1: Well, let's uh, we're getting close to our time here, so let's end with some rapid fire questions.
- 38:16Speaker 1: Let's do it Taking JSX to avoid 75 genius or unnecessary.
- 38:24Chris Kahle: Uh, genius.
- 38:26Speaker 1: Starter pack to be a Highland park mom oh what.
- 38:29Chris Kahle: What do they need?
- 38:30Speaker 1: yeah, what do we need?
- 38:31Speaker 1: Okay, first move here oh my gosh.
- 38:33Chris Kahle: Well, I feel like the louboutin and jimmy choo heels um, you need your hermes birkin bag.
- 38:40Chris Kahle: You need cardi bracelets stacked um, your lovering stacked.
- 38:45Chris Kahle: You need, gosh, probably something from market, a very cute dress from market, maybe something from Alice and Olivia.
- 38:55Chris Kahle: Maybe the stylist in Highland Park are picking something out from you as well.
- 38:58Chris Kahle: You need a Range Rover.
- 39:01Chris Kahle: You need, obviously, a gorgeous house on beverly drive.
- 39:06Chris Kahle: You need to be members of the dcc, yes, and you need to be involved and chair all the fabulous charities crystal charity ball, cattle, barons ball, all of those okay, that's good, that's good stuff.
- 39:23Speaker 1: okay, matching mommy and me outfits Adorable or cringe.
- 39:28Chris Kahle: I know we're talking about Okay.
- 39:30Chris Kahle: So here's the deal.
- 39:31Chris Kahle: Because me and my husband want to have kids, I sometimes see it I'm like, ooh, do I want to do that when I have a son or daughter?
- 39:38Chris Kahle: And I do think there is a time and a place to do it 24 and always doing that and trying to be perfect cringe.
- 39:48Chris Kahle: But I do think there's some times where it can be cute for an event.
- 39:52Speaker 1: Okay.
- 39:53Chris Kahle: But 24 seven no.
- 39:54Speaker 1: Okay, fair enough.
- 39:55Speaker 1: Full hair and makeup at 8am.
- 39:57Speaker 1: Drop off, do or don't?
- 39:59Chris Kahle: Listen, I'm real.
- 40:00Chris Kahle: I say listen.
- 40:01Chris Kahle: I will think a lady is like, hey, I give you props, you look fabulous.
- 40:08Chris Kahle: Like go you.
- 40:09Chris Kahle: So I'll admire that.
- 40:10Chris Kahle: But I think, keep it real.
- 40:12Chris Kahle: I don't think you need to be full glam and go to the gym and have your.
- 40:16Chris Kahle: I've seen people with their nice bags at equinox on the gym, at the gym um, or their go-yard bags, and I'm like you don't just work out, it's fine there's a time and a place for all.
- 40:26Chris Kahle: There's a time and a place, but I commend you for doing that.
- 40:28Speaker 1: Okay, monogram, everything Still a muster.
- 40:30Speaker 1: Move on, I think, move on.
- 40:32Speaker 1: We really like our monograms in this neighborhood.
- 40:34Speaker 1: I mean, when my daughter graduated, every gift was monogrammed.
- 40:37Speaker 1: Yes, yes, it's a bit much.
- 40:39Chris Kahle: Yeah.
- 40:42Speaker 1: Okay.
- 40:42Speaker 1: I think, yes, I love them.
- 40:44Speaker 1: I know when the weather's great.
- 40:46Chris Kahle: When the weather's great.
- 40:47Speaker 1: I love them.
- 40:47Speaker 1: Themed family Christmas cards, classic or cliche.
- 40:54Chris Kahle: I don't know.
- 40:54Chris Kahle: Okay, I think there's something classic about it.
- 40:57Chris Kahle: Even the Kardashians.
- 40:58Chris Kahle: I know it seems cheap, but they do it right and I think if you can do it right and pull it off, it can be classy.
- 41:05Speaker 1: Okay, one Dallas restaurant.
- 41:07Chris Kahle: everyone's sleeping on right now oh, oh, my gosh, put me on maybe a small light cut because a lot of people don't know about it.
- 41:19Chris Kahle: Yeah, and you know what?
- 41:20Chris Kahle: And I was gonna go there tonight.
- 41:21Chris Kahle: So the mercury, no one's really like in preston, what, like I haven't been yet and it's I guess act and everyone's like it is amazing, okay, so I haven't been yet.
- 41:32Speaker 1: I haven't been in years.
- 41:33Speaker 1: Ah, yeah, that was a place and miccosina the owners of miccosina.
- 41:37Chris Kahle: That restaurant group owns the mercury oh, that's right, so I'm gonna go and check it out.
- 41:42Chris Kahle: But also I think claremont and Preston that new like Prestonwood area.
- 41:49Chris Kahle: Claremont it's by like the Honey Baked Hams in that center I'm trying to remember.
- 41:54Chris Kahle: So owner of Beverly's.
- 41:57Speaker 1: So I think a lot of people are sleeping on that.
- 41:58Speaker 1: Took the Mexican restaurant, yes.
- 42:01Chris Kahle: Yes, yes, interesting Big patio neighborhood spot.
- 42:04Chris Kahle: Very chill, yeah, but I think it's a great spot.
- 42:07Speaker 1: I never make it that way yeah.
- 42:08Chris Kahle: I just I forget, I know, I know it's far, it seems far.
- 42:11Speaker 1: Well, it's bursting the bubble, you know it is it, is it's just down the road.
- 42:14Speaker 1: Well, Chris, this has been such a treat to get to spend time with you.
- 42:22Chris Kahle: I've so nice to meet you.
- 42:24Speaker 1: How can people find you?
- 42:25Chris Kahle: Okay, so chrisjamescolly, which is spelled weird K-A-H-L-E.
- 42:30Chris Kahle: On TikTok and on Instagram, the same handle, Okay.
- 42:34Speaker 1: And, as always, I will include that in the notes so you don't have to write it down.
- 42:38Chris Kahle: Yes.
- 42:39Speaker 1: That has been another episode of the Bubble Lounge.
- 42:41Speaker 1: I'm Martha Jackson and I'll see you next time.
- 42:43Chris Kahle: Yay, you next time Yay.