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Another GOLDEN Man For KELLY!?!??! · The Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous Podcast

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  Speaker 1: It's I Do Part two. I am Bob getting one
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  Speaker 1: of your celebrity mentors in the podcast you Know Me
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  Speaker 1: from the Today Show and the podcast I co host
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  Speaker 1: with the lovely Tristas Sutter almost Famous The Ogs and Today.
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  Speaker 1: I am very excited to be with my dear friend
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  Speaker 1: Kelly ben Simone. I love her so much and there's
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  Speaker 1: been a lot going on with you, Kelly since the
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  Speaker 1: last I saw you. So let's get into this.
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  Speaker 2: How are you hi, Bob? How are you? First? I
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  Speaker 2: love your haircut, Thank you so good, thank you, well done,
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  Speaker 2: well done, Sonny and bright as always giant. You know me,
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  Speaker 2: You're always in a good mood. I love that we're
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  Speaker 2: like the two like always in a good mood people.
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  Speaker 2: It's like you're like, well do you guys like we're
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  Speaker 2: always like happy.
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  Speaker 1: The eternal Optimists.
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  Speaker 2: I love it.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, So the last time we talked, right, we were
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  Speaker 1: playing the dating game. You chose guy from the Golden
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  Speaker 1: Bachelorette as your finalist, and I heard some stuff went
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  Speaker 1: off the rails with that. Can you fill us in?
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  Speaker 1: Because really, look at the iHeartRadio Music Awards and you're
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  Speaker 1: there with Gary O. I love it was one of
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  Speaker 1: your runner ups love love. So I know that you
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  Speaker 1: know that you guys went to dinner together that night.
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  Speaker 1: But first of all, let's talk about Gary first, because
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  Speaker 1: I do love that man. So how is your night
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  Speaker 1: with Gary?
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  Speaker 2: Oh? My god? First of all, Gary is such a
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  Speaker 2: stellar human, great, great guy. I know. I always say that.
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  Speaker 2: I always say that with the good ones, not with
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  Speaker 2: the bad ones. He is just smart, kind, fun, easy going,
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  Speaker 2: Like he's like he's like, oh wow, He's like, you
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  Speaker 2: really know you're ware around a red carpet. I was like, yeah,
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  Speaker 2: we're gona have so much fun. And he was just
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  Speaker 2: was like fun and he like took my lead and
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  Speaker 2: like we had a great time, and you know, I
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  Speaker 2: think that, you know I I I was at first,
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  Speaker 2: I was like, oh my god, we're going to go
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  Speaker 2: around and go, you know, walk down the red carpet.
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  Speaker 2: Like every you know, guy that I've gone a date
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  Speaker 2: with who's ever walked down the carpet with me has
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  Speaker 2: been like very like and I don't want to want
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  Speaker 2: to say awkward, but just like they always felt like
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  Speaker 2: they were on their back foot, and I was like,
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  Speaker 2: everything's fun. Some photos and shoot the shows with some
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  Speaker 2: fun people and just talk casually and just like enjoyed
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  Speaker 2: the process. And they all get very like, you know,
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  Speaker 2: like it's the New York times. I'm like, no, no, no, no, No,
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  Speaker 2: one's like doing a deep dive on you. They're just
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  Speaker 2: trying to say hi. They just want you to smile,
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  Speaker 2: have a good time. And he was so cool and
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  Speaker 2: he was just very sweet too. He was very very sweet.
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  Speaker 2: He always said such really nice things, and yeah, we
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  Speaker 2: had a great time. We had a great time.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I love I love that dude. And he's like
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  Speaker 1: a spiritually connected guy. You know, he's a fun guy.
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  Speaker 1: There's there's so many good things about him. But what
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  Speaker 1: I really was interested in too, and I was happy
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  Speaker 1: to see that. And what I was really interested in
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  Speaker 1: was I thought you were supposed to be there with
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  Speaker 1: Guy in the Golden Bachelorette. So what happened?
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  Speaker 2: I have no idea? So God, so yeah we had
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  Speaker 2: so First of all, how much fun was that?
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  Speaker 1: Oh my god, it was such a fun day.
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  Speaker 2: Oh my god, that was so much fun. I loved
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  Speaker 2: doing that with you. And you know, guy just like
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  Speaker 2: he answered the right he was He just knew the
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  Speaker 2: answers to the test. You know, he was just so
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  Speaker 2: on point, and he was he was so great, and
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  Speaker 2: so I was like, oh, it be great for you know,
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  Speaker 2: for the Music Awards. So then he starts asking for
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  Speaker 2: my phone number and starts texting me these novellas and
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  Speaker 2: I was like, I'm sorry what I'm like? And then
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  Speaker 2: he was like, I met you know, X, Y and
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  Speaker 2: Z person and this is her name and these are
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  Speaker 2: her stats. I'm like, I don't. I'm like, did I
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  Speaker 2: miss something? I have no idea what you're talking about.
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  Speaker 2: And then he was liked, did you really like me?
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  Speaker 2: And I was like I'm sorry, what how about? Like
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  Speaker 2: how are you wait?
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  Speaker 1: So he's just like digging, just constantly digging, like hey
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  Speaker 1: is this are we the real deal? And You're like,
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  Speaker 1: I don't. I think I saw you? Said, I don't know.
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  Speaker 1: I just met you on a game show.
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  Speaker 2: I was like, I don't even know you.
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  Speaker 1: Oh my gosh.
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  Speaker 2: And by the way, I didn't even see his face
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  Speaker 2: because you guys saw my face, but I didn't get
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  Speaker 2: to see his. So I have no idea, Like I
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  Speaker 2: was just basing it off of a voice and you know, banter,
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  Speaker 2: and but I you know, and I you know what,
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  Speaker 2: you have to always go with your gut, because my
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  Speaker 2: gut was to go with Gary.
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  Speaker 1: I love it, see there, I love Yes. I think
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  Speaker 1: that was a great choice.
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  Speaker 2: I think those where they were my two contenders, and
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  Speaker 2: I should have gone with Gary, and I went with Gary.
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  Speaker 2: So I had the best.
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  Speaker 1: Any any plans on you and Gary getting back together again,
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  Speaker 1: I mean, are hanging out like any any new you know,
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  Speaker 1: things on the horizon.
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  Speaker 2: You know, he's he lives in Palm Springs, which I
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  Speaker 2: love so much. But today on Instagram, like literally on
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  Speaker 2: my way here, he was, he was, he was, he
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  Speaker 2: was commenting on one of my pictures. And always he's
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  Speaker 2: always like saying like such nice things. Yeah, like you
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  Speaker 2: got this girl, You're amazing. I'm so happy for you.
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  Speaker 2: I'm like, oh god, just such a nice way to
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  Speaker 2: you know, see a message from a friend. Heck, yeah,
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  Speaker 2: you don't comment on my on my Instagram?
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  Speaker 1: You know what. I need to comment more. I need
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  Speaker 1: to comment more. I definitely need to hold on. Let's
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  Speaker 1: talk about it so now than after after you're doing
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  Speaker 1: the Award show and all that good stuff. Yeah, I
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  Speaker 1: understand it. All of a sudden you got a DM
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  Speaker 1: from somebody else? Yes, is this true?
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  Speaker 3: Who?
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  Speaker 1: Who was this? And it was also someone from The
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  Speaker 1: Golden Bachelor atte is this correct?
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  Speaker 2: Yes? But I again, I had no idea. I mean
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  Speaker 2: not to sound like really awful, but I have a
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  Speaker 2: lot of people dming me, and I try to be
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  Speaker 2: as nice as possible, and I try to sure, you know,
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  Speaker 2: say like thanks, to appreciate you, just to be nice
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  Speaker 2: because like there's so many people out there on reality
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  Speaker 2: that just think they're like feeling gorgeous, and I'm just
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  Speaker 2: trying to be nice to people, and I, hey, if
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  Speaker 2: you took the effort, I can try to take the effort,
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  Speaker 2: make the effort as well. He was like, I'm from Chicago.
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  Speaker 2: So I'm like wait, what, like wait are you for real?
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  Speaker 2: Because people are you know, they're all everyone's always from
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  Speaker 2: my hometown always. I'm like really wow. Uh So yeah,
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  Speaker 2: he was He's from my hotel. And then he's like,
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  Speaker 2: I'm a hairdresser. I'm like, well, I'm like known for
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  Speaker 2: my hair, So imagine like an in house hairdresser. How
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  Speaker 2: fire will that be?
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  Speaker 1: Could you imagine? I mean, We're we're gonna have to ask.
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  Speaker 1: I want to tell you we actually have Pascal on
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  Speaker 1: the show today, and I think it's going to be
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  Speaker 1: very exciting for me to be a fly on the
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  Speaker 1: wall with the two of you and you guys actually
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  Speaker 1: get to meet.
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  Speaker 2: Wait, let's get let's get like really down to it.
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  Speaker 2: Let's I want to read this to you so you
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  Speaker 2: can know like what was what was really going. Let's
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  Speaker 2: so you can get the intel.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, right, Okay, you're gonna read it from Pascal. Awesome,
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  Speaker 1: I was going to need it.
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  Speaker 2: Lem it funded all right. Let's le's while I'm looking
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  Speaker 2: for this tech for this because it was long and
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  Speaker 2: it was not short and I'm not very proficient. I
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  Speaker 2: should have glasses on right now. I'm trying to like
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  Speaker 2: be like cool and I'm so not cool. Bob's like,
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  Speaker 2: you're not cool.
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  Speaker 1: I know I'm not.
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  Speaker 2: Oh, here he is, Hello, Kelly. My name is Pascal.
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  Speaker 2: I was one of the Golden Bachelor of the Golden
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  Speaker 2: bachelorrette season. I had a chance to talk to Gary
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  Speaker 2: today and catch up in life in general. He shared
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  Speaker 2: with me the incredible experience he had with you and
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  Speaker 2: the one you had with Guy Gansett, who didn't come
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  Speaker 2: to a surprise to me that said, I would love
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  Speaker 2: to hear from you. I personally think that I'm more
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  Speaker 2: the type of man you're looking for. You're still looking
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  Speaker 2: for someone.
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  Speaker 1: I love this guy.
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  Speaker 2: Bob's like storytime with Kelly.
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  Speaker 3: But I'm not.
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  Speaker 2: I'm not I'm not big on texting, and I promise
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  Speaker 2: you I will not send you a picture of me,
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  Speaker 2: but I hope to hear from you either way. Here's
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  Speaker 2: my cellphone number. And I respond, I'm from Rockford.
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  Speaker 1: That's all. You're right upper Rockford, he said.
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  Speaker 2: I never say, like, how are you ever? Like just
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  Speaker 2: I'm more about me. I'm from Rockford.
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  Speaker 1: I'm from Rockford, and I'm known for my hair. I
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  Speaker 1: can't wait to meet you. That's so good. All right, Well,
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  Speaker 1: I need to know. I'm gonna have to ask if
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  Speaker 1: he asked, felt obligated to ask Gary's permission, you know,
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  Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, these guys are like obsessed with all
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  Speaker 1: date in the same woman. It seems right, I mean,
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  Speaker 1: the only one I'm in thread. Yeah. All right, Well
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  Speaker 1: let's bring him in because I've always wanted to meet him,
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  Speaker 1: and I've heard so many great things about him from
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  Speaker 1: his good friends like Gary and and a lot of
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  Speaker 1: the guys for the show.
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  Speaker 2: So not guy.
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  Speaker 1: Uh No, I didn't know anything about anybody anything from
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  Speaker 1: anyone guy only talk about guy.
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  Speaker 2: And sends me selfies. I'm like, I'm definitely before.
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  Speaker 1: Oh that's nice. Well, let's let's bring in Pascal. I'm
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  Speaker 1: very excited, uh Pascal.
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  Speaker 3: Hello, Hello everybody.
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  Speaker 1: As I'm so happy to meet you. I've heard such
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  Speaker 1: great things about you from your friends on on the
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  Speaker 1: on the Golden Bachelor at CAST. They always speak very
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  Speaker 1: highly of you, and I'm very happy to meet you, sir.
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  Speaker 3: Thank you. This is same same here.
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  Speaker 1: Thank you well, thank you, And now you're on the
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  Speaker 1: on the call and on the thread with with the
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  Speaker 1: beautiful Kelly ben Simone. How wonderful is this?
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  Speaker 3: Hi?
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  Speaker 2: How are you tell me how to tell me how
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  Speaker 2: to pronounce your last name Pascal? Because I think I
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  Speaker 2: I mispronounced it.
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  Speaker 1: I B g U I okay?
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  Speaker 2: And where are you from?
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  Speaker 4: I'm originally from Paris, France, but I was born in Caso.
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  Speaker 4: We move in France when I was one years old,
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  Speaker 4: so I was most likely raised in Paris and see
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  Speaker 4: I was about twenty three years old and then then
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  Speaker 4: I'm moving to the city. I heard and your husband
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  Speaker 4: was French?
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  Speaker 3: Am I right?
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  Speaker 2: Yes? And he was also from Morocco too, exactly. Yeah, yeah, yeah,
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  Speaker 2: I don't know if it's Casablanca. That sounds so chic.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, this is a guys, this is incredible the details
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  Speaker 1: that are lining up right here. I'm already feeling a vibe.
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  Speaker 1: But I was like casa, So we all go don
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  Speaker 1: good vibes in here. Good guys. I think we need
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  Speaker 1: to go back to your homeland, Pascal as a as a.
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  Speaker 2: Family trip trip to Morocco.
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  Speaker 1: We'll bring our podcast live. Yes, I got a lot
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  Speaker 1: of ideas here. I got a lot of ideas.
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  Speaker 2: Why from the camel from the camp?
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  Speaker 1: All right, so I need to know. I need to
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  Speaker 1: know how did you hear about Kelly and Guy and
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  Speaker 1: Kelly and Gary and then everything that had gone down?
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  Speaker 1: I mean, is it true that the men of the
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  Speaker 1: Golden Bachelort actually have like a group chat like a
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  Speaker 1: text threat? And how do I get in on this?
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  Speaker 4: Okay, So when we when we all met in the mansion,
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  Speaker 4: and that on the first night, I believe then guide
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  Speaker 4: the Sally to get the number and email address of
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  Speaker 4: all of us. So we create a thank a tread
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  Speaker 4: of a thirteen or twelve people, which is the twelfth
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  Speaker 4: finalist of the twelve reminding John the Golden Bachelorett and
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  Speaker 4: then so we've been texting back and forth, you know,
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  Speaker 4: happy holidays, what's going on with you? Are you going
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  Speaker 4: to be in the Bachelor in Paradise? Oh, I'm doing
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  Speaker 4: this and I'm doing that. And so I felt like
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  Speaker 4: that was kind of interested to keep in contact with
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  Speaker 4: those guys. I'm not very big on texting. I'm more
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  Speaker 4: the type of guy who like to call. So I
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  Speaker 4: have a group of four or five of them I
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  Speaker 4: really bonded during my ex experience and so those I
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  Speaker 4: usually give them a call, how are you, how you doing?
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  Speaker 3: And d dad. So that's that's how we we happened
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  Speaker 3: to get in.
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  Speaker 1: Touch with that and you. That's so nice.
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  Speaker 3: Me and Geary Me, I mean you're talking me and
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  Speaker 3: Geary or me and Guy?
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  Speaker 1: Well both, I think I I understood you were relatively
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  Speaker 1: close with both of them, aren't you?
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  Speaker 3: And not not really.
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  Speaker 4: I was more close with Mark. I was close more
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  Speaker 4: with c k K. I love Greg, Greg does have.
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  Speaker 4: I had the smaller room in the in the mansion,
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  Speaker 4: so I had the Greg c K then and I
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  Speaker 4: and then after about to rose ceremony, I ended up
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  Speaker 4: having the room for myself, which is good. But so
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  Speaker 4: everybody wanted to come up into the room and say, oh,
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  Speaker 4: you know, I kind of I said, no, no, this
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  Speaker 4: is bad luck for you guys.
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  Speaker 3: This is bad.
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  Speaker 1: That's one of those things I love that this is.
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  Speaker 3: This is bad luck.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, you guys don't know want to come up here.
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  Speaker 3: Now?
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  Speaker 1: Let me ask you this. Have you ever d M?
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  Speaker 1: You know a woman before that you didn't know? I
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  Speaker 1: mean I or was this kind of because you're not
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  Speaker 1: a big Texter so I wouldn't guess you're a big
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  Speaker 1: d M or either Was this the first time you've
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  Speaker 1: slated into someone's d MS? No?
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  Speaker 3: No, a few times, A few times.
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  Speaker 4: There is some some you know, after you done with
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  Speaker 4: the show, as you've been in there and so is
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  Speaker 4: you and how you call?
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  Speaker 3: You know, you get bombardied with email.
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  Speaker 4: You get bombardied with messages from all over the place,
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  Speaker 4: and the young, the older, the spectrum of whatever. So
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  Speaker 4: so what happened is is sometime interesting happened when I
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  Speaker 4: contacted Kelly is because I know then during Valentine you
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  Speaker 4: did a little game about picking up three of the Bachelor,
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  Speaker 4: which was Keith. There was guy Gary and Keith, I believe,
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  Speaker 4: and yeah, asking him questions about how which one you're
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  Speaker 4: going to take into that I Radio Music World event,
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  Speaker 4: and to be quite an assuiss you. I'm a little
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  Speaker 4: bit disappointed because I think I was one of the
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  Speaker 4: third finalists and I think I you know, I mean,
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  Speaker 4: obviously John was a wonderful woman, but that wasn't what
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  Speaker 4: I'm looking for. And I never been invited to anything,
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  Speaker 4: you know, I never benevded to the golf audiin, I
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  Speaker 4: never benevaded to sit with the star. I'm never so
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  Speaker 4: I felt like maybe I did something wrong. And so anyway,
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  Speaker 4: so when I found out then the Kelly had talking
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  Speaker 4: to those guys and they were a pitch. I believe
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  Speaker 4: that you pick up guy? Am I right to go
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  Speaker 4: with you in the award? And then there was an
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  Speaker 4: email tread between guys and those guys about you know,
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  Speaker 4: the guy behavior was a little bit bizarre by texting
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  Speaker 4: you and whatever should it? That's what I that's what
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  Speaker 4: I read about do you like my pocket in my jacket?
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  Speaker 3: Or is my kid white enough? Or you know what
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  Speaker 3: I mean, he's my most so good and.
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  Speaker 4: You know, oh my god, So guy called me and said,
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  Speaker 4: oh you know what this is so fantastic. I'm invited
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  Speaker 4: to go with Kary be Simon into the Music Award.
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  Speaker 4: That's a great congligulation, which are the very best. And
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  Speaker 4: then all over a sudden, I see you with Gary,
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  Speaker 4: and I said, it's bizarre. I thought he was gonna
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  Speaker 4: go and then that's Gary. So then all of a
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  Speaker 4: sudden there was a tread of messages between the seven
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  Speaker 4: of us, a calling and send us the article about
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  Speaker 4: in one a little bit ballistic on you, about those
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  Speaker 4: long text messages and whatever, and you end up going
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  Speaker 4: with Gary.
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  Speaker 2: I'm I right, I did. I had so much fun.
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  Speaker 2: I love the narration of what happened.
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  Speaker 1: I can understand this weak am I right.
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  Speaker 4: I'm the kind of guy who'll go direct to the point.
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  Speaker 4: I always seen it, you know, like it's funny. Actually,
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  Speaker 4: because something very funny when when I met Gilly and
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  Speaker 4: the guy at the mission, and I love guy. Okay,
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  Speaker 4: don't get me wrong, Okay, it's a great guy. But
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  Speaker 4: guys goes with his story. If I said, what color
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  Speaker 4: is that wall, he's going to take about it now
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  Speaker 4: to tell me what the color of.
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  Speaker 3: The wool is.
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  Speaker 4: So I said, when you talk to me, tell me
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  Speaker 4: the beginning and the end, I'll figure out everything in between.
• 16:26
  Speaker 1: Okay, get to the point. I like it. I like
• 16:32
  Speaker 1: this Pascal so far.
• 16:34
  Speaker 3: Kelly.
• 16:34
  Speaker 1: I mean, there's got to feel like some familiarity, right
• 16:37
  Speaker 1: because of the French and the Moroccan descent.
• 16:40
  Speaker 2: I know, I know am Illinois and Illinois.
• 16:44
  Speaker 1: And Kelly is known for her beautiful hair, and Pascal
• 16:47
  Speaker 1: I understand the business.
• 16:48
  Speaker 3: So there, it's a good match.
• 16:50
  Speaker 1: Very good match. Well, you know I can sense it
• 16:53
  Speaker 1: in your voice, Pascal, when you were telling the story
• 16:55
  Speaker 1: of what happened with Guy and Gary and Keith, that
• 16:57
  Speaker 1: you felt a little bit left out. And so I'm
• 17:00
  Speaker 1: not leaving you out, buddy. I am bringing you in
• 17:03
  Speaker 1: to the iHeart family, especially into the ID Part two family.
• 17:07
  Speaker 1: I think what we're gonna do is we're gonna relive
• 17:10
  Speaker 1: this moment the way it was supposed to be when
• 17:12
  Speaker 1: we did this last time, Okay, and we're gonna do it.
• 17:14
  Speaker 1: We're gonna see how compatible the two of you are.
• 17:17
  Speaker 1: So I'm gonna ask you both some questions, and I
• 17:19
  Speaker 1: don't want you to tell me the answers until I
• 17:21
  Speaker 1: ask you, and I want you to write down your
• 17:23
  Speaker 1: answers and then we'll each give our answers and we'll
• 17:26
  Speaker 1: see how well aligned we are. And then in the
• 17:30
  Speaker 1: event that there is some type of match to be
• 17:32
  Speaker 1: made here, I will bestow upon the two of you
• 17:36
  Speaker 1: potentially a prize. And if this happens, this could be
• 17:41
  Speaker 1: a really amazing prize, a wonderful prize. And so well,
• 17:45
  Speaker 1: you know, we cross that bridge and we get to it.
• 17:47
  Speaker 1: Because I'm with Pascal, I want to I want the
• 17:49
  Speaker 1: beginning of the end, so I want to know the
• 17:50
  Speaker 1: end before I get to the to the possible prize
• 17:54
  Speaker 1: package here. So are you too ready to begin our
• 17:57
  Speaker 1: newest round of the love connection?
• 17:59
  Speaker 2: Yes, I'm ready.
• 18:01
  Speaker 1: Yes, Okay, we're gonna see if there's a chemistry here, guys.
• 18:04
  Speaker 1: I'm very excited. Okay, first question, if the two of
• 18:08
  Speaker 1: you were to go on a first date, what would
• 18:11
  Speaker 1: that date look like? I know that leaves some space,
• 18:15
  Speaker 1: so take your.
• 18:16
  Speaker 2: Time, I'll go all right.
• 18:18
  Speaker 1: Okay, So what we're gonna do is, Kelly, why don't
• 18:20
  Speaker 1: you tell us if you were to go on a
• 18:22
  Speaker 1: first date, what would that date look like?
• 18:24
  Speaker 2: So Pascal and I we're going to go on a
• 18:26
  Speaker 2: first date. Because he's from Chicago and I'm from Rockford,
• 18:31
  Speaker 2: we would go to the Viagara Triangle and we would
• 18:34
  Speaker 2: go there was a restaurant, a very very well known
• 18:36
  Speaker 2: restaurant there, and there is the cover my cover of
• 18:40
  Speaker 2: Playboy is front and center.
• 18:43
  Speaker 1: Nice, and they have the.
• 18:44
  Speaker 2: Best beer and the best burgers are the best salads.
• 18:48
  Speaker 2: So you would like have like so much fun and
• 18:51
  Speaker 2: he could see like, who's with?
• 18:53
  Speaker 1: Oh?
• 18:54
  Speaker 3: I love that which has.
• 18:58
  Speaker 1: Gibson's love gift sins, Yes, gifts us is a great restaurant.
• 19:04
  Speaker 1: Great would be all about me, you know what, as
• 19:07
  Speaker 1: it should be. All right, Pascal, let's hear your answer.
• 19:11
  Speaker 1: What would you think your first date would look like?
• 19:12
  Speaker 4: Okay, so first of all, if I was taking Kelly
• 19:15
  Speaker 4: for dinner, I would like to have an antimate dinner
• 19:18
  Speaker 4: where I wouldn't be distracted by anyone around.
• 19:22
  Speaker 3: So we'll take her to something a little bit more
• 19:24
  Speaker 3: high hand, like.
• 19:26
  Speaker 4: Our hel restaurant, where there is a little bit more antimacy,
• 19:29
  Speaker 4: a little bit more quieter, where we could have an
• 19:32
  Speaker 4: engaging conversation about where we are at, what we're looking for,
• 19:36
  Speaker 4: versus being distracted by the noise and the and the
• 19:42
  Speaker 4: Viagra triangles.
• 19:44
  Speaker 3: This is not for me.
• 19:47
  Speaker 1: I like it, Okay, I am.
• 19:50
  Speaker 3: A little bit more vmentic. I like to get to know.
• 19:53
  Speaker 4: I like to be close to the person and have
• 19:56
  Speaker 4: no distraction from anyone else and been with you present.
• 20:00
  Speaker 2: Yes, I love that.
• 20:02
  Speaker 1: I love that too. I like it very much. All right,
• 20:06
  Speaker 1: very good answers, both of you, by the way, and I.
• 20:08
  Speaker 2: Am taking because he's more romantic.
• 20:10
  Speaker 1: No, no loser. There's no losers here, you know, no losers,
• 20:15
  Speaker 1: Just winners, just winners.
• 20:17
  Speaker 2: All every winners with mob only only smiley faces.
• 20:22
  Speaker 1: Okay, the next question, or not really question, but the
• 20:25
  Speaker 1: next thing. Write down three words that would describe your
• 20:29
  Speaker 1: ideal partner, just three. I think I'm going to allow
• 20:33
  Speaker 1: Pascal to go first.
• 20:34
  Speaker 3: Okay, my id partner will be a woman who is
• 20:38
  Speaker 3: very confident, who has a lot of confidence about herself,
• 20:42
  Speaker 3: a woman's very fashionable, and a woman with woodly and intelligence.
• 20:49
  Speaker 1: Wow, I think the game is over already. They described
• 20:53
  Speaker 1: Kelly Benson on to a t. Very well done, Pascal. Uh, Kelly,
• 20:58
  Speaker 1: why don't you tell us your three words? Because I
• 21:00
  Speaker 1: think I honestly think he just described you personally.
• 21:04
  Speaker 2: Bob, You're the best. Okay, So my words are smart, loving,
• 21:12
  Speaker 2: and creative.
• 21:13
  Speaker 1: I like all three of those things, and obviously I
• 21:16
  Speaker 1: was gonna say, obviously someone who is a stylist, and
• 21:19
  Speaker 1: that's all the things that Pascal does. Very creative.
• 21:22
  Speaker 2: But Pascal, you cannot cut my hair. Everyone wants to
• 21:24
  Speaker 2: cut my hair. Everyone's always wanting to cut my hair.
• 21:26
  Speaker 2: You can't cut my hair.
• 21:27
  Speaker 3: No, no, no, I like I like you. I think.
• 21:31
  Speaker 1: Guys, this is of the.
• 21:32
  Speaker 2: Problem is when you date someone that that's in the
• 21:34
  Speaker 2: hair business. Is that like people would be probably be
• 21:37
  Speaker 2: thinking that I would be like this, like you know,
• 21:40
  Speaker 2: golden locks all the time, but like, because you're in
• 21:43
  Speaker 2: the hair business, probably be like, oh, it's fine, just
• 21:44
  Speaker 2: let your hair naturally you like hair dry. I'd be like,
• 21:48
  Speaker 2: with this prizzy hair.
• 21:49
  Speaker 4: I've learned one ten other years old. The woman I
• 21:53
  Speaker 4: married to never never touched their hair. Yeah, jarguments. So
• 22:00
  Speaker 4: I let them use one of my stallies of east
• 22:03
  Speaker 4: and that's them.
• 22:06
  Speaker 1: Very see. And you said you wanted someone who was
• 22:08
  Speaker 1: very smart, very creative. There you go. You got both
• 22:10
  Speaker 1: of them. A very smart man. All right. This next
• 22:13
  Speaker 1: one is very simple. It's a simple yes or no answer.
• 22:17
  Speaker 1: Do you kiss on the first date? No? Oh, Bosco,
• 22:24
  Speaker 1: I like that not what I was expecting. From a frenchman. No,
• 22:30
  Speaker 1: Kelly ben Simon, what is your answer?
• 22:33
  Speaker 2: Suspense is killing?
• 22:35
  Speaker 1: I can't. We're gonna cut for commercial birds. Kelly ben Simon,
• 22:48
  Speaker 1: do you kiss on the first date? No? Oh no,
• 22:53
  Speaker 1: what are you an? Also?
• 22:58
  Speaker 2: Oh, my, guys going for the kiss of the first stay.
• 23:00
  Speaker 2: I'm like, whoa, whoa, whoa whoa, Like this is like
• 23:02
  Speaker 2: a marathon, not a sprint.
• 23:04
  Speaker 1: There you go.
• 23:05
  Speaker 3: I agree with you. Take plenty of time for kiss.
• 23:09
  Speaker 1: Yes, I like this guy's we're playing the long game.
• 23:11
  Speaker 1: This is good, this is very good. I love this answer.
• 23:14
  Speaker 1: I can assure you that guy would have gone in
• 23:17
  Speaker 1: for the kiss on the first day.
• 23:20
  Speaker 3: Guy would have gone for the kiss.
• 23:22
  Speaker 4: And it sounds like his DMZ went in for the kiss.
• 23:29
  Speaker 2: And then wipe off, wipe it off with his pocket scarf.
• 23:31
  Speaker 3: Like exactly, and then Ice flicks his muscle after that.
• 23:37
  Speaker 2: We guys so nice.
• 23:39
  Speaker 1: He's super nice.
• 23:42
  Speaker 2: We're just making fun. We're just making fun.
• 23:46
  Speaker 1: This is a good time. Here we go. You guys
• 23:48
  Speaker 1: ready for your next one? Yes?
• 23:49
  Speaker 2: Yes?
• 23:50
  Speaker 1: What are your three non negotiables? Right? Three things that
• 23:54
  Speaker 1: you gotta have in a partner and if they're not there,
• 23:58
  Speaker 1: you just cannot do it all right, and we're gonna
• 24:00
  Speaker 1: let Kelly. We're gonna let Kelly go first on this one. Kelly,
• 24:03
  Speaker 1: whenever you're ready.
• 24:05
  Speaker 2: Let's see three non negotiables. I would say, one who's
• 24:11
  Speaker 2: not good to their ex. So if they're not good
• 24:14
  Speaker 2: to your ex, like, that doesn't work for me. If
• 24:18
  Speaker 2: you are not a good provider, that doesn't work for me.
• 24:25
  Speaker 2: And if you're competitive with me, that would not work
• 24:30
  Speaker 2: at all. A lot of guys are very competitive with
• 24:33
  Speaker 2: me for some weird reason. I'm like, don't compete with me, please, right?
• 24:37
  Speaker 1: Yeah, And when you say when you say good good
• 24:40
  Speaker 1: to your ex, you know what's funny. So, as a
• 24:42
  Speaker 1: divorced man myself, I remember people thinking it was so
• 24:45
  Speaker 1: weird that I got along so well with my ex wife,
• 24:48
  Speaker 1: And I said, well, we loved each other and still do.
• 24:51
  Speaker 1: We just want to write for each other.
• 24:53
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 24:53
  Speaker 1: So I was like, you know, in my and thankfully
• 24:55
  Speaker 1: my wife was always so cool with that, and she's like,
• 24:58
  Speaker 1: you know, I think it's it's great, you know, So
• 25:00
  Speaker 1: I think that should be the rule, not the exception.
• 25:03
  Speaker 1: I agree with you on that one. And then the
• 25:04
  Speaker 1: second one you said was to be a good provider.
• 25:07
  Speaker 1: What do you mean by that?
• 25:09
  Speaker 2: I mean you can't be like a dead bee dad
• 25:11
  Speaker 2: or like you know, you have to be a provider,
• 25:13
  Speaker 2: like you have.
• 25:14
  Speaker 1: To able to like you know, he takes care of
• 25:17
  Speaker 1: the people around them, and it takes yeah.
• 25:20
  Speaker 2: You know, be able to like you know, live your life. Yeah.
• 25:23
  Speaker 1: Sure, just and because I mean you you have always
• 25:26
  Speaker 1: been you know, you make your own money, so it's.
• 25:28
  Speaker 2: Never been something I've been the only provider.
• 25:31
  Speaker 1: Yeah, and then your last one was what was the
• 25:40
  Speaker 1: last one? Again? Oh? Not to be competitive with.
• 25:42
  Speaker 2: You, Oh, not to be competitive yet.
• 25:43
  Speaker 1: Yeah, that's because I can see that happening too, especially
• 25:46
  Speaker 1: with you when you're with someone else in the public
• 25:48
  Speaker 1: eye and they feel almost like if you're noticed then
• 25:51
  Speaker 1: they're not like it's a I mean, that is crazy
• 25:54
  Speaker 1: to me. I agree with you one thousand percent. I
• 25:55
  Speaker 1: love that, all right. I like those, Pascal. I'm excited
• 25:59
  Speaker 1: to hear you answer. Go ahead when you're ready, sir.
• 26:01
  Speaker 3: Okay.
• 26:02
  Speaker 4: For me, will be the non negotiable is smoking drugs
• 26:07
  Speaker 4: and heavy alcohol.
• 26:09
  Speaker 3: That's that's a no no no for me. Okay, Okay.
• 26:12
  Speaker 4: I don't mind the alcohol when it's a moderation, Okay,
• 26:18
  Speaker 4: when the other it's no no for me.
• 26:20
  Speaker 3: Okay.
• 26:21
  Speaker 4: I don't drink, I don't smoke, and don't the drugs.
• 26:24
  Speaker 4: I'm living a very healthy lifestyle. I would like that person.
• 26:27
  Speaker 4: I don't mind the drinking, as long as they they
• 26:31
  Speaker 4: know their limitation.
• 26:33
  Speaker 3: Okay.
• 26:34
  Speaker 4: Sometimes is no negotiable. Young children. Okay, I've raised my children.
• 26:40
  Speaker 4: I've I'm part to be to love my children. But
• 26:43
  Speaker 4: I'm a free man now. I could travel in where
• 26:46
  Speaker 4: I want. And I would like my partner to be
• 26:48
  Speaker 4: in the same situation and me when they When there
• 26:53
  Speaker 4: is a young children, I don't want to be father again.
• 26:57
  Speaker 4: So to me, the children as to be gone out.
• 27:01
  Speaker 3: Of the house.
• 27:01
  Speaker 4: Okay, and but you are my baby, Okay, I'm talking
• 27:09
  Speaker 4: about chldren. The third one is independent. I want a
• 27:15
  Speaker 4: woman who is independent, the woman who has own ideas
• 27:19
  Speaker 4: on the own values. A woman who could raise their
• 27:23
  Speaker 4: opinion and debate issue I agree to disagree.
• 27:26
  Speaker 3: I like the deep conversation. A woman who has her
• 27:30
  Speaker 3: own who make her own living. It doesn't have to
• 27:34
  Speaker 3: be allowed of money.
• 27:35
  Speaker 4: But it's a woman who is independent to our who
• 27:38
  Speaker 4: has wake up in the morning, got something to do.
• 27:41
  Speaker 4: I don't need I don't want a housewife. I want
• 27:43
  Speaker 4: an asset. I don't want a liability. I've had liability
• 27:46
  Speaker 4: all my life.
• 27:47
  Speaker 1: Okay, sounds like you two might have been dating the
• 27:50
  Speaker 1: same people.
• 27:54
  Speaker 3: Said liability.
• 27:56
  Speaker 2: It doesn't goar very similar.
• 27:59
  Speaker 1: You guys are very similar. I'm loving this, guys. This
• 28:02
  Speaker 1: is that's what I'm doing. You know, y'all knew. He
• 28:07
  Speaker 1: knew then when he was DMS.
• 28:09
  Speaker 3: That's when I contacted you actuality, you know.
• 28:12
  Speaker 2: And no, it was sweet. It was so sweet. It
• 28:16
  Speaker 2: was very sweet.
• 28:17
  Speaker 1: All right. So far, guys, I've asked let's see here, one, two, three,
• 28:21
  Speaker 1: four or five five questions. I think we're we're really
• 28:25
  Speaker 1: doing well here. We're at least the five for five
• 28:28
  Speaker 1: with my if my numbers are correct. What's that?
• 28:32
  Speaker 3: Who know?
• 28:33
  Speaker 1: You guys are evenly tied. The score here is remarkable.
• 28:36
  Speaker 1: I've never seen anything like it. Okay, so we're gonna
• 28:39
  Speaker 1: get one more question. Okay, and this question. I'm gonna
• 28:44
  Speaker 1: look over my questions really quickly here.
• 28:47
  Speaker 3: Actually you ask a three question?
• 28:49
  Speaker 1: Have I only asked three? Well, I'll see. Math is
• 28:52
  Speaker 1: actually technically my strong suit. So I don't know what
• 28:54
  Speaker 1: that's what's going on with me there? Okay, I'm gonna
• 28:57
  Speaker 1: ask one more. Actually, I'm gonna ask two more. I'm
• 28:59
  Speaker 1: gonna ask two Okay, yeah, so we'll be fine assuming
• 29:04
  Speaker 1: Pascal's math is correct. So here we are. What is
• 29:06
  Speaker 1: your favorite movie genre? This is just a real you know,
• 29:12
  Speaker 1: lighthearted like you know what type of movie? Like do
• 29:15
  Speaker 1: you like a romance or an action film or you
• 29:18
  Speaker 1: know crime or you know drama. I don't know like
• 29:22
  Speaker 1: that type of thing. So like a type of movie
• 29:24
  Speaker 1: you know, is it romance, is it mystery? Is it action?
• 29:30
  Speaker 1: Science fiction? You can use my topics if you'd like
• 29:35
  Speaker 1: romantic comedies. All right, here we go. I'm gonna start
• 29:40
  Speaker 1: with Kelly on this one. Kelly, if you had to
• 29:43
  Speaker 1: determine what particular types of movie you like best, what
• 29:47
  Speaker 1: would they be?
• 29:49
  Speaker 2: I mean, I love rom coms, but I'm also you know,
• 29:53
  Speaker 2: I'd like have such a strong affection for Disney movies.
• 29:57
  Speaker 2: Nice like throwing some aristocrats and pizza and a grilly
• 30:01
  Speaker 2: good glass of wine and I'm your girl.
• 30:03
  Speaker 1: There you go. Okay, I love that. Yeah, very nice.
• 30:07
  Speaker 1: That could be The Tramp with spaghetti. There you go.
• 30:12
  Speaker 3: I love it.
• 30:13
  Speaker 1: All right, Pascal, you're finding out that Kelly is playful
• 30:16
  Speaker 1: yet at the same time, Uh, you know, enjoys a
• 30:19
  Speaker 1: little Disney magic, which I think is lovely. How about you, Pascal,
• 30:24
  Speaker 1: if you had the name like you could even make
• 30:25
  Speaker 1: it like name your favorite movie if you wanted to,
• 30:27
  Speaker 1: But what would be your favorite movie type?
• 30:29
  Speaker 4: I have a very wide range of movie I like, Okay,
• 30:33
  Speaker 4: I like your Murder Mystery. I like a peak movie.
• 30:37
  Speaker 4: I think one of my favorite of all time is
• 30:39
  Speaker 4: the Shindler's List. I think when when I watch a movie,
• 30:44
  Speaker 4: is not used the movies, the cinematographees, the acting is
• 30:48
  Speaker 4: the core graphy. It's a lot of de film them
• 30:51
  Speaker 4: to me, what appeeled your movie? I think the Shimler least.
• 30:55
  Speaker 3: Has it all for me.
• 30:56
  Speaker 4: It's got He's got that, that passion, he's got that
• 30:59
  Speaker 4: that's troug all it that that cinematographic is that the
• 31:02
  Speaker 4: acting is got bitten. I like Disney, and I think
• 31:06
  Speaker 4: I spent a lot of time with my children watching
• 31:08
  Speaker 4: Ladin on the Trump Too, which wasn't my favorite.
• 31:13
  Speaker 1: I love.
• 31:15
  Speaker 4: My favorite woman me and like I said, I like
• 31:19
  Speaker 4: I like Evitan. You know, I mean, there is no
• 31:21
  Speaker 4: just I can't pick point one type of movie.
• 31:25
  Speaker 1: I like it all.
• 31:25
  Speaker 3: I like it all.
• 31:26
  Speaker 1: Yeah, And as I understand, you're also a grandfather, so
• 31:29
  Speaker 1: you're probably back in the Disney genre again. All right,
• 31:32
  Speaker 1: you probably watching it.
• 31:33
  Speaker 4: Yeah, my my, my, my grandchildren live in Calgury, Canada,
• 31:38
  Speaker 4: so we don't see We see Shadow a couple of
• 31:40
  Speaker 4: times a year, so I don't have the chance to
• 31:43
  Speaker 4: watch those Disney movies, but I have a whole collection
• 31:46
  Speaker 4: from Actually I still have the v h s and
• 31:50
  Speaker 4: the DVD from all those Disney movie which I used
• 31:53
  Speaker 4: to go to the ice Ice Disney on Ice and mean,
• 31:57
  Speaker 4: I love that.
• 31:57
  Speaker 2: Sure, yeah, no, I love guys, that scal that's so cute.
• 32:02
  Speaker 1: There's differing math here, but I think we're still at
• 32:05
  Speaker 1: one hundred percent for each of you. So this is
• 32:08
  Speaker 1: this is our last question right here, guys.
• 32:11
  Speaker 2: Okay, question number five, Question number five, Question.
• 32:14
  Speaker 3: Number five, that's your question, never five?
• 32:17
  Speaker 1: Okay, Yes, what kind of relationship are you wanting right now?
• 32:24
  Speaker 1: So you know, I liked I liked one of the
• 32:26
  Speaker 1: things I saw that Pascal had said, you know, that
• 32:29
  Speaker 1: he felt like that he was the guy you should
• 32:31
  Speaker 1: be looking for. And I liked that, and I liked
• 32:34
  Speaker 1: his confidence. I know I should stop talking now, but
• 32:36
  Speaker 1: I see you both writing, so I want to give
• 32:38
  Speaker 1: you a moment. So, Kelly, if you had to say
• 32:41
  Speaker 1: what type of relationship you are looking for right now,
• 32:45
  Speaker 1: what would it be.
• 32:47
  Speaker 2: I'm looking for a forever relationship, not just dating around,
• 32:51
  Speaker 2: not just having fun, but an actual, real forever. I've
• 32:56
  Speaker 2: learned so much about myself Bob on the show, like
• 32:59
  Speaker 2: from therapy and just talking to all of my new friends,
• 33:02
  Speaker 2: including you, and you know, even just listening to Pascal today,
• 33:06
  Speaker 2: like I would never I am a playful human, but
• 33:10
  Speaker 2: to really like listen to what the other person is
• 33:13
  Speaker 2: saying is something that I wasn't doing before, and I
• 33:17
  Speaker 2: just am ready for that forever person.
• 33:19
  Speaker 1: I love that answer because you do have to be
• 33:22
  Speaker 1: ready for that person to recognize that they're there, right,
• 33:26
  Speaker 1: I mean you have to be ready or you have
• 33:28
  Speaker 1: to not be looking at all and then be blindsided
• 33:30
  Speaker 1: by it. There's really no ine between, right, you can't
• 33:32
  Speaker 1: be going into it, like you know, I love that answer.
• 33:34
  Speaker 1: That's a great answer, all right, pass.
• 33:36
  Speaker 2: My meaning like I'm open to it. So if I
• 33:39
  Speaker 2: if it, like you know, if it if it hit
• 33:42
  Speaker 2: me in the phase today, like I'd be like, oh okay,
• 33:44
  Speaker 2: because I was I'm ready for it.
• 33:46
  Speaker 1: You'd recognize it. You know it all right, Pascal, You've
• 33:59
  Speaker 1: got a chance to knock this thing out of the
• 34:01
  Speaker 1: part having to knocking down.
• 34:02
  Speaker 4: What I'm looking for in the stage of my life
• 34:05
  Speaker 4: is my best friend, Somebody who have for me, somebody
• 34:09
  Speaker 4: you understand my needs, Somebody who could count down, Somebody
• 34:13
  Speaker 4: who I could trust. Have you see, Somebody who have
• 34:16
  Speaker 4: chemistry with which I think it's still very important in
• 34:18
  Speaker 4: our age. Somebody who has a sense of passion, Somebody
• 34:22
  Speaker 4: who could take out and be part of. Somebody who's
• 34:25
  Speaker 4: confident and secure by yourself. I don't have to watch
• 34:28
  Speaker 4: a bit to me or watching me what I'm doing,
• 34:30
  Speaker 4: because I've experience in the past relationship I had the
• 34:35
  Speaker 4: women I go out with are very insecure.
• 34:38
  Speaker 3: And then they.
• 34:41
  Speaker 4: Spend more time watching what I'm doing than I enjoying
• 34:44
  Speaker 4: the event. To me, so I think security, confidence, best friend, chemistry, longevt.
• 34:53
  Speaker 3: I mean, have you see you know?
• 34:54
  Speaker 4: I mean I want a lifetime partner, and that's what
• 34:59
  Speaker 4: I'm looking for.
• 35:00
  Speaker 1: Incidentally, for for listeners and viewers at home. If I'm
• 35:03
  Speaker 1: not mistaken, Pascal, you recently turned down going on The
• 35:08
  Speaker 1: Golden Bachelor, in Paradise or The Golden Bachelor in Paradise,
• 35:12
  Speaker 1: And that's probably why, right, because you you're not looking
• 35:15
  Speaker 1: for why you know.
• 35:16
  Speaker 3: I turned down.
• 35:17
  Speaker 4: I turned on The Golden in Paradise for for a
• 35:19
  Speaker 4: couple of reasons. Number one, as you don't think it's
• 35:22
  Speaker 4: a good fit for who I am as a person,
• 35:24
  Speaker 4: you know, I mean, as you don't thank me being
• 35:26
  Speaker 4: the beach.
• 35:27
  Speaker 3: With bench of a senior citizen, which I am. Okay, uh,
• 35:33
  Speaker 3: the bringing the mean.
• 35:36
  Speaker 4: I don't want to criticize anybody because that's my personality.
• 35:39
  Speaker 3: But I think when I went when I went into.
• 35:42
  Speaker 4: The Bachelor, the Bachelor of It, I was very specific
• 35:45
  Speaker 4: about who I wanted to be the Bachelor of It,
• 35:48
  Speaker 4: and do you know I had the chance.
• 35:49
  Speaker 3: I've never watched the show.
• 35:50
  Speaker 4: I'm not into the The Bachelor of show, and now
• 35:53
  Speaker 4: it seems like I am into it because it's.
• 35:55
  Speaker 3: Kind of fun to watch.
• 35:56
  Speaker 4: Okay, but so so so when I when my daughter
• 36:00
  Speaker 4: signed me up and everybody, so you got to do it,
• 36:02
  Speaker 4: I said, look at time out, I got to see
• 36:04
  Speaker 4: what it's all about. So I want to watch three
• 36:07
  Speaker 4: episodes of The Golden Bachelor with Gary, and I had
• 36:10
  Speaker 4: the chance to meet the first one.
• 36:11
  Speaker 3: Every woman and one.
• 36:13
  Speaker 4: So I got the concept. Okay, I don't need my
• 36:16
  Speaker 4: five minutes of fame. I don't need the glories. I
• 36:19
  Speaker 4: don't need to be in TV. I live a beautiful life.
• 36:22
  Speaker 4: So I said, if it's not that person, I'm not.
• 36:25
  Speaker 3: Going to do it. When I went then.
• 36:28
  Speaker 4: I felt like I was going had a purpose. But
• 36:31
  Speaker 4: I'm not the kind of guy who was going to
• 36:33
  Speaker 4: go into the show and pretend and then play the
• 36:36
  Speaker 4: games used to be in TVs and and it's not
• 36:39
  Speaker 4: my personality. And the unfortunately, you know, John wasn't what
• 36:43
  Speaker 4: I was looking for, okay, for whatever reason is. And
• 36:49
  Speaker 4: so when they offered me the Golden Bachelor in parise,
• 36:52
  Speaker 4: and I look at all the women in the Golden Bachelor,
• 36:54
  Speaker 4: which I have no antists and any of them okay,
• 36:57
  Speaker 4: And they were telling me, then they'll bring him fifteen
• 36:59
  Speaker 4: new woman. That would have been a different game that
• 37:02
  Speaker 4: sometimes I would have considered. But as you stand, than
• 37:06
  Speaker 4: me going on the beach and drinking and party and
• 37:09
  Speaker 4: kissing everybody, which as you still, Kelly, I'm not. I
• 37:13
  Speaker 4: don't get me wrong, I'm a kisser, okay, but I
• 37:16
  Speaker 4: don't I don't kiss on the first, second, or third date.
• 37:19
  Speaker 3: I need to know who it is.
• 37:21
  Speaker 4: Before I'm getting involved more physically.
• 37:26
  Speaker 3: So going into the Golden Bachelor in.
• 37:28
  Speaker 4: Powders and have to pick up a girls and and
• 37:31
  Speaker 4: try to play this is not my personality. I mean,
• 37:34
  Speaker 4: if they were offering me the Golden Bachelor, that will
• 37:36
  Speaker 4: be a different thing, because that's more who I am
• 37:39
  Speaker 4: as a person than being on the beach with a
• 37:42
  Speaker 4: bunch of guys who could care less about So.
• 37:47
  Speaker 1: I love it you are not afraid to give you
• 37:49
  Speaker 1: a real answer, which I appreciate I have around that stuff. Yes, Kelly,
• 37:53
  Speaker 1: of course.
• 37:54
  Speaker 2: Do you wear a speed out or would you wear
• 37:57
  Speaker 2: box like boxer like swim trunks?
• 37:59
  Speaker 3: So like swim trunks or more speed boxer boxer?
• 38:04
  Speaker 2: Would you wear like trunks on the beach or would
• 38:06
  Speaker 2: you wear a speedo?
• 38:07
  Speaker 3: I wouldn't wear a speedo, No, no speedo.
• 38:10
  Speaker 1: Right, but he probably would wear more like I would.
• 38:13
  Speaker 1: Guess you wear European cut type of bathing suit though
• 38:15
  Speaker 1: like not the big long ones down pass now.
• 38:17
  Speaker 4: I wouldn't wear the American show up when he goes
• 38:19
  Speaker 4: to the knees, you know, I will wear the nice one,
• 38:22
  Speaker 4: you know, me.
• 38:23
  Speaker 3: I'm a roupier, okay.
• 38:24
  Speaker 4: And and and and and and you know, I'm in
• 38:27
  Speaker 4: the gym about six days a week, so then I
• 38:30
  Speaker 4: have a very nice physique. I still have my six
• 38:33
  Speaker 4: packs that had eight at one time that they went
• 38:36
  Speaker 4: down to six. So I'm not a freat to be
• 38:38
  Speaker 4: on a bidding. I'm not a freat to walk on
• 38:40
  Speaker 4: the beach. But I just don't think deseas my tenth
• 38:45
  Speaker 4: for me, Pascal.
• 38:46
  Speaker 1: I am fifty three and I still don't have a
• 38:49
  Speaker 1: six pack, and I work hard. I love it. I'm
• 38:51
  Speaker 1: gonna borrow a couple of years.
• 38:53
  Speaker 3: All right, guys, what you eat, it's what you eat, Bob,
• 38:55
  Speaker 3: It's what.
• 38:56
  Speaker 1: That's what they say. Yeah, they say that all the time.
• 38:58
  Speaker 1: It's ninety five percent what you put here and five
• 39:00
  Speaker 1: percent what to do.
• 39:01
  Speaker 2: Here is your mom sending you, like all these goodies
• 39:04
  Speaker 2: from home, Bob. I'm sure she is, just.
• 39:05
  Speaker 1: Like my little Bob.
• 39:08
  Speaker 2: On the podcast. I'm gonna send them some yummy food.
• 39:10
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna send them some bunk cake. That's my life.
• 39:12
  Speaker 1: My life's always like, here's some more bunk cake. Okay, cake, guys,
• 39:16
  Speaker 1: I have some very good note. I'm waiting for our
• 39:19
  Speaker 1: tabulations to come in and it looks as.
• 39:22
  Speaker 3: Though it's a match.
• 39:26
  Speaker 1: It's a match for everyone ten out of ten. I
• 39:29
  Speaker 1: was gonna go to commercial break, but we're running up
• 39:31
  Speaker 1: against time, so I got a hurry, guys. I feel
• 39:33
  Speaker 1: like I'm a matchmaker, you know, like what I use.
• 39:35
  Speaker 1: I try to weave the hearts and souls of America
• 39:39
  Speaker 1: together when I find them, and once in a while,
• 39:42
  Speaker 1: I've got to go international to make it work. And
• 39:44
  Speaker 1: this time I.
• 39:46
  Speaker 2: Call Global Matchmakings.
• 39:48
  Speaker 1: It's a global matchmaking service here and I do part two.
• 39:51
  Speaker 1: So I think it's time to let you guys know
• 39:54
  Speaker 1: what your prize is because I have deemed the two
• 39:57
  Speaker 1: of you a wonderful match. Now you're already getting along great.
• 40:01
  Speaker 1: I think the next step is to get to meet
• 40:03
  Speaker 1: in person, which according to both of you, will not
• 40:06
  Speaker 1: evolve a kiss, but it might if the right kind
• 40:10
  Speaker 1: of vibe is going on. I mean, I'm never gonna
• 40:12
  Speaker 1: say never, right. So, Pascal, you mentioned earlier that you
• 40:15
  Speaker 1: feel like you've been left out a little bit. You
• 40:16
  Speaker 1: haven't gotten to go cool places. My friend, I am
• 40:19
  Speaker 1: sending you somewhere very cool with your date Kelly Ben Simone.
• 40:24
  Speaker 1: We are going to send you both to live in
• 40:27
  Speaker 1: the vineyard in Napa in Napa Valley, California. It's an
• 40:31
  Speaker 1: amazing music festival. You get to meet each other. Actually,
• 40:34
  Speaker 1: a couple of my friends are even playing in this
• 40:36
  Speaker 1: music festival. Adam Doleyak's one of them, Raylen's the other.
• 40:39
  Speaker 1: You're gonna love them, really wonderful artists. So pack your bags, guys.
• 40:45
  Speaker 1: It's April twenty second through the twenty fourth in Napa Valley, California.
• 40:49
  Speaker 1: I hope you got your passports because you aren't gonna
• 40:52
  Speaker 1: need them. You're gonna be flying to esting, so that's okay. Pascal.
• 40:57
  Speaker 1: Do you like dancing? Do you like?
• 40:58
  Speaker 3: Do you like?
• 40:58
  Speaker 1: I mean, because this is primarily more country music, which
• 41:01
  Speaker 1: there's a lot of ballads, there's a lot, but there's
• 41:03
  Speaker 1: a lot of great music that's gonna be played. Do
• 41:05
  Speaker 1: you enjoy dancing?
• 41:06
  Speaker 3: Actually? I do love country music.
• 41:09
  Speaker 1: I do. It's awesome.
• 41:11
  Speaker 4: Always said that's probably besides the the the soft frock
• 41:15
  Speaker 4: like YouTube Coldplay, I like that, Oka like Actually I
• 41:19
  Speaker 4: like the new Beance cowboy Cowboys.
• 41:23
  Speaker 3: I love I do love cartoon music.
• 41:25
  Speaker 1: Yes, well that's amazing a Kelly, uh darn you Country music. Yeah,
• 41:30
  Speaker 1: darn Duton Boots. All right, let me read some of
• 41:34
  Speaker 1: the names that around here, guys. The headliners are Brett Young,
• 41:37
  Speaker 1: Ray Lynn, Katherine McPhee, Max McNown. Then, like I mentioned,
• 41:42
  Speaker 1: we've got my buddy Adam Doliak, who's got some great
• 41:45
  Speaker 1: songs out there. We got c. C. Roman, Alexander Harper, Grace,
• 41:50
  Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, you got some great ones, Carolyn Jones,
• 41:54
  Speaker 1: Shane Stevens. I mean, the list goes on.
• 41:58
  Speaker 2: I love Kathin McPhee.
• 41:59
  Speaker 1: She's so I do teach, she's so talented. Plus Napa Valley.
• 42:03
  Speaker 1: I mean, you know, you get to try some wine together,
• 42:05
  Speaker 1: you get to, you know, possibly do a wine tasting
• 42:07
  Speaker 1: here or there. There's some wonderful vineyards out there for
• 42:09
  Speaker 1: that as well.
• 42:10
  Speaker 2: Don't worry, Pascal, I'll try all the wine, but within reason.
• 42:13
  Speaker 2: Don't worry.
• 42:13
  Speaker 1: Yes, she'll keep it.
• 42:14
  Speaker 3: Dialed in to kill you out.
• 42:17
  Speaker 1: Okay, Well, guys, this has been an absolute pleasure. Thank
• 42:22
  Speaker 1: you so much for coming on. And I really feel
• 42:25
  Speaker 1: like I'm going to get it right this time. You know,
• 42:27
  Speaker 1: I've tried this a few times, and Kelly's got a
• 42:30
  Speaker 1: she's selective, you know, and we've global global. We always
• 42:35
  Speaker 1: combed the earth for this, but I do feel like,
• 42:39
  Speaker 1: you know, it's really lovely though. Is there are some
• 42:41
  Speaker 1: really wonderful threads of commonality between the two of you
• 42:45
  Speaker 1: that I think are very organic. It's not like someone's
• 42:50
  Speaker 1: just saying the right things, you know, because they know
• 42:52
  Speaker 1: the right things they're supposed to say. You guys are
• 42:54
  Speaker 1: really responding naturally to this, And I think it's really
• 42:56
  Speaker 1: awesome because I'm feeling good about this one, Kelly, I
• 42:59
  Speaker 1: really am in Pascal, I'm feeling very good. I know
• 43:01
  Speaker 1: we're just new friends, but I'm feeling really good about
• 43:03
  Speaker 1: this for you as well. So congratulations, guys and Pascal,
• 43:06
  Speaker 1: Welcome to the travel town of iHeart.
• 43:09
  Speaker 3: You speak French? Do you speak French?
• 43:12
  Speaker 2: You? Yeah?
• 43:25
  Speaker 1: What mean? Open translator? App? I'm trying to figure out
• 43:33
  Speaker 1: because I'm just loving everything you're saying. But I have
• 43:35
  Speaker 1: no idea what you said, but I loved it. Beautiful language.
• 43:38
  Speaker 2: You know what is so funny, Bob, is that Cheryl's
• 43:40
  Speaker 2: always like, you have to ask these right questions. She's like,
• 43:43
  Speaker 2: when you're when you're meeting guys, you're not asking the
• 43:46
  Speaker 2: right questions. And you just asked five of the right
• 43:49
  Speaker 2: questions for me, so I'm like ahead of the game.
• 43:52
  Speaker 1: Well you know what, I'm glad I could help. I'm
• 43:54
  Speaker 1: feeling really good about this one. I love the love
• 43:58
  Speaker 1: connection that we have made here on the show today.
• 44:00
  Speaker 1: I want you guys to try and keep in touch beforehand,
• 44:03
  Speaker 1: so you know, feel free to connect off the show.
• 44:08
  Speaker 1: You don't have to wait to talk to each other
• 44:09
  Speaker 1: for another month. Feel free to connect off the show.
• 44:12
  Speaker 1: I'm looking forward to hearing all about it, and thank
• 44:15
  Speaker 1: you both for being here today. I really appreciate it.
• 44:17
  Speaker 3: Thank you, thank you, thank you for having nurse and
• 44:20
  Speaker 3: and Kelly.
• 44:21
  Speaker 4: Let's let's let's talk on the phone versus texting.
• 44:25
  Speaker 2: Okay, okay, let's talk.
• 44:27
  Speaker 3: So we sent you if you want.
• 44:28
  Speaker 4: To send me your phone number or I'll send you
• 44:30
  Speaker 4: mine and then we could communicate versus phone versus texts.
• 44:34
  Speaker 2: All right, perfect.
• 44:35
  Speaker 3: Thank you, and it was very nice to meet you.
• 44:37
  Speaker 3: Thank you for inviting me.
• 44:38
  Speaker 4: I'm very touch and honor to be part of that
• 44:42
  Speaker 4: incredible experience.
• 44:43
  Speaker 3: Thank you very much.
• 44:44
  Speaker 1: You're so welcome, my friend. I hope you guys have
• 44:46
  Speaker 1: a beautiful time together and I cannot wait to hear
• 44:48
  Speaker 1: about it.
• 44:49
  Speaker 3: So thank you.
• 44:54
  Speaker 1: That's right, that's right, thank you. There we go, Kelly
• 45:02
  Speaker 1: Ben Simone.
• 45:02
  Speaker 2: Oh my god, you did it. Bob, you're the dating builder.
• 45:07
  Speaker 1: You know. That's what my kid says, Bob the builder.
• 45:09
  Speaker 1: I'm like, I'm the dating builder. I'm the dating builder.
• 45:12
  Speaker 1: That's what I do. I build dates. Oh my gosh, Well,
• 45:18
  Speaker 1: I hope you guys have the best time. I feel
• 45:20
  Speaker 1: like you're gonna have a great time with him.
• 45:21
  Speaker 2: Oh my god, what a great guy. And you're just
• 45:24
  Speaker 2: you honestly, you're just like such you just like know
• 45:27
  Speaker 2: how to break the ice, and you're just like you're
• 45:29
  Speaker 2: such a good spirit and sport and like you know
• 45:32
  Speaker 2: you are you are, and it's been so much fun.
• 45:35
  Speaker 2: And Pascal, what a nice human. Oh my yeah, I
• 45:38
  Speaker 2: did the things I said.
• 45:40
  Speaker 1: You guys really connected, though.
• 45:41
  Speaker 2: I'm like such a hedonist. I'm like, yeah, we're gonna
• 45:43
  Speaker 2: go to this place I like to go where I
• 45:45
  Speaker 2: like to go, eat and drink and look at.
• 45:46
  Speaker 1: Myself, look at myself.
• 45:51
  Speaker 2: It's like I want to look into your eyes. I
• 45:53
  Speaker 2: was like, I was gonna look at my own.
• 45:55
  Speaker 1: Especially want to connect you. You're like, oh you can
• 45:57
  Speaker 1: see me right up there. What are you talking about?
• 46:00
  Speaker 1: I love you, Kelly Ben Simon. I'm so excited for
• 46:02
  Speaker 1: this date. I can't wait to hear all about it.
• 46:04
  Speaker 1: Have a wonderful time, and for everyone listening at home,
• 46:08
  Speaker 1: this has been a ton of fun. If you're needing
• 46:10
  Speaker 1: some matchmaking help and you're ready to find love, you
• 46:12
  Speaker 1: could call us or email us, follow us on our socials.
• 46:14
  Speaker 1: All the information will be in the show notes. Make
• 46:16
  Speaker 1: sure to rate and review the podcast. Make this one
• 46:18
  Speaker 1: your favorite. I'm hoping for ten stars. I don't even
• 46:21
  Speaker 1: know what that means. I think five is the max,
• 46:23
  Speaker 1: but it's I Do. Part two an iHeartRadio podcast where
• 46:25
  Speaker 1: falling in love is the main objective.