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You've Got Decisions: Update: Porn May Be Ruining Me! feat. Eddin · Decisions, Decisions

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  Speaker 1: If you would like to have us answer your questions,
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  Speaker 1: if you have a terrible job, a terrible boyfriend, or
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  Speaker 1: a terrible.
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  Speaker 2: Thruffle, guess what? You've got decisions. Hey, guys.
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  Speaker 1: Welcome to You Got Decisions. And Eden is here, so
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  Speaker 1: you're not getting a jingle.
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  Speaker 3: I'm sorry. And you and I do, too. Wheezy's in
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  Speaker 3: the back.
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  Speaker 2: She is eating a burger. I'm not going to lie.
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  Speaker 1: Wheezy reminds me of the kids that right before you
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  Speaker 1: go on a road trip, 20 minutes in, they tell
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  Speaker 1: you they have to use the bathroom.
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  Speaker 2: Every time we record.
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  Speaker 3: You look like you have a small bladder.
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  Speaker 2: She got to eat. She got to get a smoothie. She,
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  Speaker 2: every recording.
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  Speaker 3: And then she eating too much and you know we're
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  Speaker 3: going to have to stop this buzz.
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  Speaker 2: Bruh. Bruh.
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  Speaker 3: All right.
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  Speaker 2: Well, don't be talking because you ain't mic'd up.
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  Speaker 3: All right.
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  Speaker 1: Anyway, though, we got another update and I'm actually glad
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  Speaker 1: that you could be here for this because this is
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  Speaker 1: an update from a man who wrote in and talked
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  Speaker 1: about porn potentially ruining his life. Now, if you guys
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  Speaker 1: want to go and check what that episode was, the
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  Speaker 1: release date was July 15th, and the title was Porn
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  Speaker 1: May Be Ruining Me. And I do want to talk,
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  Speaker 1: if you don't mind, we have no HR, would love
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  Speaker 1: to know your porn experience.
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  Speaker 3: I like porn.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I know you do. So I was like, okay,
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  Speaker 2: this will work.
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  Speaker 3: All right.
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  Speaker 2: So here's the update, guys.
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  Speaker 1: And again, remember, if you want to send in a
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  Speaker 1: letter to us, please send it in to decisionspod at gmail.com.
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  Speaker 1: us in the messages and we will boost yours up
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  Speaker 1: to the top. Well, let's get into it. What's up,
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  Speaker 1: Wheezy and Mandy, and thank you for reading my letter.
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  Speaker 1: I was so excited to hear it being discussed on
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  Speaker 1: the pod. Thank you both for the advice, and I
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  Speaker 1: actually took suggestions from both of you. From Wheezy's suggestion,
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  Speaker 1: I definitely cut back to how much porn I consume,
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  Speaker 1: and I watch for about three to four times a
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  Speaker 1: week instead of.
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  Speaker 2: Watching it daily.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, that's good.
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  Speaker 1: I don't see myself completely going cold turkey or fully
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  Speaker 1: cutting it out, but it is still an improvement. A
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  Speaker 1: huge chunk of cutting back was not logging into Twitter
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  Speaker 1: as often.
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  Speaker 2: I know that's right. And the advice I.
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  Speaker 3: Listen, Twitter... I know, you're a Twitter meat.
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  Speaker 1: Bruh, as soon as I get on, it's dicks and
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  Speaker 1: pussy in my goddamn face. And the advice I took
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  Speaker 1: from Mandy was to encourage my wife to wear lingerie
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  Speaker 1: more often... as opposed to the spur-of-the-moment sex while she's
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  Speaker 1: in basic pajamas.
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  Speaker 2: Sometimes laying in bed.
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  Speaker 1: And out the you-trying-to-have-sex offer can feel awkward, but when
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  Speaker 1: I see lingerie on, I automatically know.
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  Speaker 2: What time it is.
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  Speaker 1: Overall, your tips helped me keep my head in the
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  Speaker 1: game and embrace what's about to go down when it's
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  Speaker 1: time to go down. And also appreciate my wife's body,
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  Speaker 1: as I should, instead of being too much in my
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  Speaker 1: head because of porn. And for anyone else who can
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  Speaker 1: relate to my initial letter, two other quick tips I've adopted.
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  Speaker 1: Putting her in blindfolds so she can get extra excited
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  Speaker 1: anticipating my touch. The same has worked when she blindfolds me.
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  Speaker 3: Very simple, but here we go.
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  Speaker 1: And sometimes, we've actually made sex a priority on certain nights.
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  Speaker 1: For example, when I head off to work, she'll say
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  Speaker 1: something sexy like, Be ready when you come home from work.
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  Speaker 2: I want you in my mouth.
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  Speaker 1: I hope.
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  Speaker 2: That's cute.
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  Speaker 3: That helps.
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  Speaker 2: P.S.
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  Speaker 3: That's cute.
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  Speaker 1: I know the majority of your listeners are women or
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  Speaker 1: people of the LGBTQIA plus community, but you're also doing
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  Speaker 1: some fantastic work for the cisgender straight men who listen
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  Speaker 1: to your show. Okay. I'm a 42-year-old black cisgender straight
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  Speaker 1: male to be specific.
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  Speaker 2: Okay.
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  Speaker 1: Now, he wrote in and felt like it was having
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  Speaker 1: a psychological and physical impact on his sex life.
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  Speaker 3: I'm sure it did.
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  Speaker 1: Have you ever had porn affect you in a negative way?
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  Speaker 3: I've definitely felt like I've watched too much porn.
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  Speaker 1: And what to you is too much? Because he was
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  Speaker 1: watching it daily. He cut back to three or four
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  Speaker 1: times a week.
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  Speaker 3: I think daily is a lot. I'm not going to
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  Speaker 3: hold you. And you might be being your shit every
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  Speaker 3: time you watch it. I mean, I would like to think.
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  Speaker 3: Not that I would like to think so. But you
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  Speaker 3: probably are being your shit while that's happening too. Like
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  Speaker 3: you need to leave some things for your imagination.
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  Speaker 2: In a sense.
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  Speaker 3: Actually, funny enough, Weezy. It was years ago you mentioned this.
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  Speaker 3: And I don't know why I remember. I know she's
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  Speaker 3: stuffing her face over there. But it was it was
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  Speaker 3: in a sense of like sometimes too much porn can be.
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  Speaker 3: I mean, there's I think there's a such thing as
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  Speaker 3: too much porn. And you should probably leave it up
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  Speaker 3: for your imagination. So you can just kind of get
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  Speaker 3: them like the juices flowing for the future.
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  Speaker 2: Or let me ask you. Oh, here we go. I
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  Speaker 2: watch porn daily.
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  Speaker 1: OK.
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  Speaker 2: I actually needed.
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  Speaker 3: How many times in a day?
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  Speaker 2: Oh, it depends.
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  Speaker 1: Did you watch it today already? I was embarrassed in Chicago. Well,
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  Speaker 1: first off, today I'm still recovering from a goddamn... That's
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  Speaker 1: not what I asked you. Did I watch it today?
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  Speaker 3: Already. Okay, let's clarify this.
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  Speaker 2: Okay.
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  Speaker 3: Watching porn to me is not you opening your Twitter
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  Speaker 3: feed and dick popping. No. I'm talking about you actually
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  Speaker 3: go on the tube or the hub and then you.
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  Speaker 1: So I don't watch on the tube or the hub.
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  Speaker 1: I literally watch Twitter porn.
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  Speaker 3: That's it. Got it.
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  Speaker 1: And why two is because I'm into new porn. I
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  Speaker 1: am into AI.
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  Speaker 3: Oh, my fucking God.
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  Speaker 2: And hentai.
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  Speaker 3: Hentai is funny for you.
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  Speaker 2: But here's the thing.
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  Speaker 1: Outside of the hentai, the AI and like sim looking.
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  Speaker 2: Porn is taboo.
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  Speaker 3: When you say sim porn.
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  Speaker 2: So it's like 3D.
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  Speaker 3: God, they're rendered.
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  Speaker 2: They're rendered.
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  Speaker 1: And you can tell because even like the dick will
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  Speaker 1: be so massive and then there'll be shots.
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  Speaker 3: I've seen those ads before and I'm like, ugh.
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  Speaker 2: I love it. I love it.
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  Speaker 1: But I'm really into taboo porn right now, which I
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  Speaker 1: realize is also harder to find, ironically. Unless you're doing
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  Speaker 1: like hot stepmom. I'm, of course, I'm watching gay porn.
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  Speaker 1: I'm watching, oh, this one is... I'm not going to
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  Speaker 1: say how bad, but I'm watching taboo porn where there's
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  Speaker 1: literally a warning about the tabooness of it.
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  Speaker 3: Oh, nah. I've never had a warning in the.
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  Speaker 2: Porn I've watched. But it's an animation, too. Yeah. So
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  Speaker 2: it's also letting you know that these are not real people.
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  Speaker 2: This is a depiction.
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  Speaker 3: Wait, you're watching this daily?
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  Speaker 2: When I watch it, yeah.
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  Speaker 3: You don't think that overstimulates a little bit?
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  Speaker 2: Well, that's why.
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  Speaker 1: Then it gets my brain going, I nut, and then
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  Speaker 1: my brain is off. And then I can go to sleep. Like,
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  Speaker 1: my thing is, I have a problem with going to sleep.
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  Speaker 1: It's why I said, like, my man did the sweetest thing. Like,
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  Speaker 1: I was telling him how hard it had been for
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  Speaker 1: me to go to sleep. Okay. And I had an
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  Speaker 1: Amazon box with magnesium gummies and magnesium lotion.
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  Speaker 2: He said, just put the magnesium lotion on the side.
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  Speaker 3: And you just didn't use it?
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  Speaker 1: Listen, oh, no, I used it. But I still watch
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  Speaker 1: some porn. But I'm glad that he... Took both of
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  Speaker 1: our advice because Weezy and I were definitely on different.
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  Speaker 2: Sides of the spectrum here with.
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  Speaker 1: What to do and how to handle this dilemma because
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  Speaker 1: I also think that as long as like it's not
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  Speaker 1: having a negative impact on your life, If you could
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  Speaker 1: go to Instagram daily and see damn near naked bitches,
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  Speaker 1: I don't think that's actually any different than you scrolling.
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  Speaker 3: Yes, I agree.
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  Speaker 1: You scrolling on Instagram and seeing certain things might not
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  Speaker 1: be much different than watching porn.
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  Speaker 3: I don't know. I don't know. Things that we see.
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  Speaker 2: Now on Instagram.
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  Speaker 3: Because your taboo compared to a shorty looking bad on IG.
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  Speaker 2: Bro.
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  Speaker 3: It's not that close.
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  Speaker 2: It's close.
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  Speaker 3: Because if one is me watching a fulfilled fantasy and
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  Speaker 3: the other one is just a girl looking good.
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  Speaker 2: Here's the thing. Pornographic material.
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  Speaker 3: Yes.
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  Speaker 1: Includes nude or scantily, like, scantily clad, barely nude. It's
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  Speaker 1: why the- Scantily clad.
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  Speaker 2: Scantily clad. I like that.
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  Speaker 1: It's why the, like, Playboy magazines and Hustlers magazines, even
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  Speaker 1: though it was bikinis, those used to be hidden. And so- Yes,
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  Speaker 1: we've normalized it. But there is a lot of people's algorithm.
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  Speaker 1: It's funny because I like to see what people like
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  Speaker 1: to look at. Now, if you look at my algorithm,
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  Speaker 1: it's food.
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  Speaker 3: Can you pop up your Twitter for me?
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  Speaker 2: Oh, my Twitter?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: So there's a difference also between the for you and
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  Speaker 2: the following.
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  Speaker 3: The following... Give me the for you.
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  Speaker 1: Oh. No, no. The for you is people I don't follow.
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  Speaker 1: It's just like the algorithm of hot topics. Well, let
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  Speaker 1: me get the for you first and then we'll talk
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  Speaker 1: about the following. I still think it's just the level.
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  Speaker 2: JBTV, here goes Ian Dunlap, and Real Housewives of Atlanta.
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  Speaker 3: That's the Ian.
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  Speaker 2: Like, you gonna see Housewives shit.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, now get.
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  Speaker 2: It's Real Housewives and... Cool. Beyonce sitting on a nigga lap. Jackson, uh, something,
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  Speaker 2: people on an airplane.
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  Speaker 1: Two black women celebrate after flying together. Love it.
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  Speaker 2: Drive Kings.
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  Speaker 3: Black excellence.
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  Speaker 2: Market Monday.
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  Speaker 3: Market Mondays.
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  Speaker 2: You know what I mean?
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  Speaker 3: That's porn to somebody. Okay, now give me the following.
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  Speaker 2: Now the following page. Hold on. Because.
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  Speaker 3: Ah. It's... It's not that bad. Three squirrels.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, it's just dick and ass.
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  Speaker 1: Oh.
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  Speaker 2: A man sucking in an elevator.
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  Speaker 1: Okay.
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  Speaker 3: Here we go.
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  Speaker 2: A woman getting fucked. It's like every three ones. It's
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  Speaker 2: like ass and dick.
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  Speaker 3: Man, this is so not my realm of porn. A
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  Speaker 3: poly love story. That's cool.
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  Speaker 2: A man sucking toes.
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  Speaker 1: And no shaming on that. It's just, that's not my
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  Speaker 1: type of time. Look at my, bro, my following is disgusting.
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  Speaker 3: A lot of ass eating. I'm mad. It's not that bad.
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  Speaker 3: I thought it was worse for some reason.
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  Speaker 2: Hold on. So let me show you because I bookmarked
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  Speaker 2: it because, you know.
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  Speaker 1: I learned that, hey, everyone, if you did not know,
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  Speaker 1: if you were watching porn on Twitter your likes oh
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  Speaker 1: yeah I shared I've your likes get shared to the
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  Speaker 1: people that follow you you know I learned this shout
• 10:08
  Speaker 1: out to Jade Jade from Jade and XD yeah Jade
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  Speaker 1: from getting grown was like last maybe a couple last
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  Speaker 1: year or so She was like, bitch, it'd be 8.30
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  Speaker 1: in the fucking morning.
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  Speaker 2: I do not want to see ass and dick on
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  Speaker 2: my fucking timeline.
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  Speaker 3: Reposting it on Twitter is crazy.
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  Speaker 2: No, but I didn't know a like technically shared it
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  Speaker 2: with the people.
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  Speaker 3: That follow you.
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  Speaker 1: So y'all got to bookmark that shit. So look, when
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  Speaker 1: I go to bookmarks, I'll be saving ones that are like.
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  Speaker 2: Over two minutes or whatever. But I want to just
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  Speaker 2: show you like the type of AI porn I'm watching.
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  Speaker 3: And while she's scrolling, I do think it's great that
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  Speaker 3: you lowered it down to three or four times because
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  Speaker 3: it's like, I also saved that nut if you're just
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  Speaker 3: beating your shit like Every time you watch the porn,
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  Speaker 3: every day, it don't hurt. Because it just also, if
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  Speaker 3: you're saving it for your lady, that's better. And yes,
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  Speaker 3: to your advice too, I think it's like, it's just
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  Speaker 3: making it more exciting in the bedroom. You know?
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  Speaker 1: I just think that that's the thing. Watching porn too
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  Speaker 1: much only matters if there's a negative impact.
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  Speaker 3: If there's an absence somewhere or.
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  Speaker 2: I ain't got no negative impact. Did you see how
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  Speaker 2: it's like?
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  Speaker 3: Is this the AI thing?
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  Speaker 2: This is AI. But this is like The Sims.
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  Speaker 3: I didn't like the repeated sound. I feel like that's
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  Speaker 3: not See? Oh, then there's just the dude pissing next door.
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  Speaker 3: Do you like that part?
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  Speaker 2: No, I like... Fuck. This is not a horrible decision.
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  Speaker 1: You're watching that kind of long, Ed, and I'm just saying.
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  Speaker 1: But are you looking at the graphics? Because the graphics
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  Speaker 1: are done really well.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm more intrigued about that.
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  Speaker 2: The graphics are really good. And I'm surprised because.
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  Speaker 3: They're not. They're not really good. That's where I was
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  Speaker 3: locked in. I was like, wait, you can... You know
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  Speaker 3: what it was? For me, it was more like mentally,
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  Speaker 3: if this was like, guy, girl, girl, girl, would I
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  Speaker 3: be able to.
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  Speaker 2: What about that one? It's the same guy who makes
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  Speaker 2: that one, too.
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  Speaker 3: I can't do it. I love it. I can't do it.
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  Speaker 1: I love the little Sims characters. Fucking sure do. And
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  Speaker 1: then I got some cartoons, too. The cartoons be a
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  Speaker 1: little weird because one of.
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  Speaker 2: Them is always a demon.
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  Speaker 3: Or an octopus or something like that, or an alien.
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  Speaker 2: I don't see the animals, but they be like demons.
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  Speaker 3: Not an animal. Well, yeah.
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  Speaker 2: An octopus is an animal.
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  Speaker 3: Yes, no, you're right. I'm sorry. I meant an alien,
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  Speaker 3: but they usually have like octopus arms.
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  Speaker 2: No.
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  Speaker 1: No?
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  Speaker 2: They're like really big or giants.
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  Speaker 1: Or, okay, one did have like a tail, but he
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  Speaker 1: looked like a man. So I guess he was like
• 12:29
  Speaker 1: a were-man?
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  Speaker 2: Werewolf man?
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  Speaker 1: Man-wolf?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, man-wolf.
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  Speaker 2: That dick was big, though.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, so whenever you go into your bag of these
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  Speaker 3: particular porns, what do you search? Okay. Now I have
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  Speaker 3: an algorithm. You about to go to bed, right? Okay, right.
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  Speaker 2: I got an algorithm on Twitter.
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  Speaker 3: So you just roulette.
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  Speaker 2: I roulette that hoe.
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  Speaker 1: And that's why sometimes it takes longer than others. It's
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  Speaker 1: crazy because my boyfriend says it all the time. Like,
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  Speaker 1: when he comes to town and he goes to my room,
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  Speaker 1: my vibrator be right there.
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  Speaker 2: I lay with it every goddamn night.
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  Speaker 3: Old faithful.
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  Speaker 2: Old faithful. Every goddamn time. But yeah, I am glad
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  Speaker 2: that we at least got to help you.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, a little bit.
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  Speaker 2: What do you mean a little bit?
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  Speaker 3: A little bit.
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  Speaker 2: We helped him real bad.
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  Speaker 3: Did he mention what kind of porn he was watching?
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  Speaker 2: No, right? He didn't mention what type of porn.
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  Speaker 3: I really think that matters.
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  Speaker 2: Why do you think what type of porn does not matter?
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  Speaker 3: I feel like the intensity of that matters.
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  Speaker 2: Why?
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  Speaker 3: Because it goes to almost your point of potential negative effects.
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  Speaker 3: What if it's something that he's really missing that he
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  Speaker 3: wished he could have? And in the absence of that,
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  Speaker 3: he just watches it. And now he's doing it on
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  Speaker 3: the daily. And that's just his fantasy that he'll never
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  Speaker 3: be able to live.
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  Speaker 2: Well, I think he did mention. And let me ask
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  Speaker 2: you if you would fill away.
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  Speaker 1: I think he mentioned that the type of porn he
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  Speaker 1: watched had women that did not look like his partner.
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  Speaker 2: Would you be.
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  Speaker 1: Bothered to know that your partner was watching porn that
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  Speaker 1: was BBC?
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  Speaker 2: All the men were over six feet.
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  Speaker 1: No. You wouldn't be mad that she was watching porn
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  Speaker 1: of men that didn't look like you?
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  Speaker 3: I'm giving you such an instant thought. I'm like, no.
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  Speaker 2: It wouldn't bother you.
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  Speaker 3: No. I'm like, whatever. Would that bother you?
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  Speaker 1: If the porn was completely different from who you are?
• 14:23
  Speaker 1: If she was watching white men fuck. See, look, you
• 14:28
  Speaker 1: such a hot damn wolf.
• 14:30
  Speaker 3: Well, yeah.
• 14:31
  Speaker 2: Wolf just raised the eyebrows.
• 14:33
  Speaker 3: Wait a second. I think when you say in white.
• 14:36
  Speaker 3: So now wait.
• 14:38
  Speaker 2: So then would you have a problem with your woman watching?
• 14:40
  Speaker 3: No, I don't think I would.
• 14:41
  Speaker 1: No. No.
• 14:43
  Speaker 2: Filipinos.
• 14:44
  Speaker 3: No, there's no there's no race and or ethnicity or nationality.
• 14:49
  Speaker 3: That would make me be like, what the fuck? What
• 14:52
  Speaker 3: kind of porn would bother you?
• 14:53
  Speaker 1: Because I think like I've heard and I think we've
• 14:55
  Speaker 1: had women write in before and I've heard it expressed
• 14:58
  Speaker 1: online that big women would have an issue if their
• 15:02
  Speaker 1: partners were watching.
• 15:03
  Speaker 2: Like little skinny girls.
• 15:05
  Speaker 1: Like there's that because they started feeling insecure about their
• 15:08
  Speaker 1: partner possibly not being attracted to them.
• 15:11
  Speaker 3: I think that's what I've heard a lot more recently.
• 15:13
  Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying. So maybe that's a woman thing.
• 15:15
  Speaker 1: Because I've heard women be insecure.
• 15:17
  Speaker 3: About the type of porn. I don't know, the look
• 15:18
  Speaker 3: that Wolf just gave us when he heard white man. No, no, no.
• 15:21
  Speaker 2: He said, so, oh, damn.
• 15:24
  Speaker 3: But also, I don't think you would like the idea
• 15:26
  Speaker 3: of your girl watching porn. Or am I wrong?
• 15:28
  Speaker 2: You think he really holds it.
• 15:31
  Speaker 3: He said you got to let that rock. Because some
• 15:33
  Speaker 3: girls really don't like their man watching porn. They don't.
• 15:37
  Speaker 3: I've had a girlfriend before who, like, when she found
• 15:39
  Speaker 3: out I was watching porn, she was like, why? Why
• 15:42
  Speaker 3: would you need that? I'm like, it's not that I
• 15:43
  Speaker 3: need it.
• 15:44
  Speaker 2: Right, right.
• 15:45
  Speaker 3: I just don't want to do it because why in
• 15:47
  Speaker 3: the fuck not? But yeah, no, I don't think there's
• 15:49
  Speaker 3: a type of porn for me that... I think a
• 15:52
  Speaker 3: category of porn would more so offset me.
• 15:54
  Speaker 2: Which category would you have a problem with?
• 15:56
  Speaker 3: If I found out my shorty was watching this shit
• 15:58
  Speaker 3: you was watching, I'd have a lot of questions.
• 16:00
  Speaker 1: Whoa!
• 16:01
  Speaker 3: I'd have a lot of questions.
• 16:02
  Speaker 2: What, taboo Sims? It's cartoons.
• 16:04
  Speaker 3: You need to tell me what the taboo... Yes.
• 16:07
  Speaker 2: Y'all have a problem with taboo porn?
• 16:08
  Speaker 3: That's not what I said. I don't have a problem
• 16:10
  Speaker 3: with it. I'd have questions, though.
• 16:12
  Speaker 2: First off, do you not know, and guys....
• 16:17
  Speaker 1: That's the crazy thing about you saying that. I am
• 16:19
  Speaker 1: working on an animated series.
• 16:21
  Speaker 3: But that's not a porn anime.
• 16:22
  Speaker 2: It doesn't matter. I'm working in cartoons now. I'm not
• 16:24
  Speaker 2: saying that.
• 16:25
  Speaker 3: I've watched anime.
• 16:25
  Speaker 2: I'm even going to DreamCon and Comic-Con next year. Like,
• 16:29
  Speaker 2: I'm into animation.
• 16:30
  Speaker 3: That doesn't mean that you could just, like, really get
• 16:33
  Speaker 3: into sex animation.
• 16:34
  Speaker 2: Why not?
• 16:36
  Speaker 3: No, like, that's fine. I'm saying I'm going to look... Bro,
• 16:40
  Speaker 3: I'm working on.
• 16:41
  Speaker 1: The pilot episode of Period Sis, and it literally starts
• 16:46
  Speaker 1: off with a baby coming out of a vagina.
• 16:48
  Speaker 3: That's totally cool.
• 16:49
  Speaker 1: So I like to see... I like to see then...
• 16:53
  Speaker 1: You know what I mean? You are not saying this
• 16:55
  Speaker 1: is research for your anime. animation first animation you you
• 17:01
  Speaker 1: watching ai sim porn is not anime is not.
• 17:04
  Speaker 2: But i watch all the animated porn it's not just.
• 17:07
  Speaker 3: There was no pussy there was just two dudes oh
• 17:11
  Speaker 3: yeah i like gay porn now what would like freak
• 17:14
  Speaker 3: me out more is it you want no i don't
• 17:15
  Speaker 3: care about you watching before i think it's the ai
• 17:17
  Speaker 3: version of that i don't know why.
• 17:19
  Speaker 2: I'm trying to think.
• 17:20
  Speaker 1: I think the only porn that my partner could be
• 17:24
  Speaker 1: into that genuinely would make me feel uncomfortable would be
• 17:27
  Speaker 1: Barely Legal.
• 17:29
  Speaker 2: Which are girls that look like they're underage or in
• 17:32
  Speaker 2: high school or younger than.
• 17:34
  Speaker 3: That is weird.
• 17:35
  Speaker 1: Like, to me, I would think that you have a
• 17:38
  Speaker 1: fantasy that could.
• 17:39
  Speaker 2: Be pedophilic, if that's a word.
• 17:42
  Speaker 3: I think pedophilic is a word. Maybe.
• 17:43
  Speaker 2: But, like, that would be the only one that bothers me.
• 17:46
  Speaker 3: I think, no, that would bother me, too. Like a young... Well, your.
• 17:48
  Speaker 2: Girl probably wouldn't be watching barely legal porn. That's, like.
• 17:51
  Speaker 3: Fair.
• 17:52
  Speaker 2: One that men watch. So you can't think of... Okay,
• 17:54
  Speaker 2: first off, don't use me. You said.
• 17:56
  Speaker 3: No, but that would... That would.
• 17:58
  Speaker 2: Don't you play video games, nigga?
• 17:59
  Speaker 3: Aren't you a gamer? You are not getting out and
• 18:02
  Speaker 3: playing video games. What's wrong?
• 18:04
  Speaker 1: I love video games. I'm sure a lot of these
• 18:06
  Speaker 1: people who watch this... So why can't I watch video
• 18:08
  Speaker 1: game sex? That's not video game sex.
• 18:10
  Speaker 2: They look like Sims.
• 18:11
  Speaker 3: They do look like Sims. They do look like Sims.
• 18:13
  Speaker 3: It looks like PS2 graphics.
• 18:15
  Speaker 2: At its point. PS2 graphic porn.
• 18:18
  Speaker 3: It's the taboo one. The taboo one is the one.
• 18:22
  Speaker 3: It's not that it's bad.
• 18:23
  Speaker 1: But to be fair, when I say taboo, it's normally
• 18:27
  Speaker 1: like a boss and their employee or a father.
• 18:33
  Speaker 3: That's like not new, though.
• 18:33
  Speaker 2: A father and his son's best friend.
• 18:36
  Speaker 3: That's not new either. Um.
• 18:39
  Speaker 1: Oh, there's one recently that I watched where it was
• 18:42
  Speaker 1: the father fucking.
• 18:45
  Speaker 2: His son's fiance.
• 18:47
  Speaker 3: That's not that crazy.
• 18:48
  Speaker 2: But those are all taboo.
• 18:50
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I think when you get into the step-sis, step-mom,
• 18:53
  Speaker 3: step-bro thing.
• 18:53
  Speaker 2: I'm not going to lie, I watch that too.
• 18:54
  Speaker 3: See, but that's where it gets a little weird. But
• 18:59
  Speaker 3: I know your line doesn't teeter to the bro-sis stuff.
• 19:02
  Speaker 3: I'm not watching kids. No, no, no, not that. I
• 19:05
  Speaker 3: know your line doesn't teeter to the actual bro-sis stuff.
• 19:08
  Speaker 1: It's just taboo. I watch the bro-bro. But they be
• 19:13
  Speaker 1: like step-brothers. And I'm not going to lie, hot take here.
• 19:18
  Speaker 1: I think you could date and fuck your stepbrother or sister.
• 19:20
  Speaker 1: Because you're not blood. It's through marriage. Like, I'm mad that...
• 19:24
  Speaker 1: Why the fuck would this person that could be the
• 19:27
  Speaker 1: love of my life doesn't get to be the love
• 19:29
  Speaker 1: of my life because our parents chose to be together?
• 19:31
  Speaker 3: There are over 8 million... Let's say if this was
• 19:33
  Speaker 3: in New York. There's over 8 million people in New York.
• 19:36
  Speaker 3: You don't have to.
• 19:36
  Speaker 1: And now I met someone that I love.
• 19:38
  Speaker 3: It don't gotta be your stepbrother or stepson.
• 19:39
  Speaker 2: You should be able to thank your parents for getting together.
• 19:43
  Speaker 3: There's almost 2 million people in Philadelphia. Don't ask me
• 19:45
  Speaker 3: why I know these numbers right now.
• 19:46
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 19:47
  Speaker 3: Find someone else that's not your stepbrother stepses.
• 19:50
  Speaker 2: You could find someone else who's always not someone else.
• 19:53
  Speaker 3: I would judge more if you're trying to date them
• 19:55
  Speaker 3: than if you're trying to fuck them.
• 19:56
  Speaker 2: What is the problem? Dating you going to lead to fucking?
• 20:00
  Speaker 3: No, no. I'm saying if y'all just get the one off,
• 20:03
  Speaker 3: I would judge you less than the relationship.
• 20:06
  Speaker 1: So step siblings can fuck, but you draw the line
• 20:09
  Speaker 1: at them actually caring for each other? Yep.
• 20:11
  Speaker 2: That's crazy.
• 20:12
  Speaker 1: Yep.
• 20:13
  Speaker 2: I'm just saying.
• 20:15
  Speaker 2: Parents getting together shouldn't keep you from your soulmate. And
• 20:18
  Speaker 2: your soulmate.
• 20:19
  Speaker 3: What are you saying? Did you hear that?
• 20:22
  Speaker 2: It's not blood related. It don't matter.
• 20:26
  Speaker 3: You are causing turmoil.
• 20:28
  Speaker 2: No, not there. One big happy family.
• 20:31
  Speaker 3: Oh, my God.
• 20:33
  Speaker 2: Okay. Well, anyways, guys.
• 20:36
  Speaker 1: Thank y'all for tuning in to another You Got Decisions.
• 20:38
  Speaker 1: You always have decisions. One including being with your stepbrother
• 20:42
  Speaker 1: or sister.
• 20:42
  Speaker 3: Tell us the freakiest porn that you watch down in
• 20:45
  Speaker 3: the comments below. Give me your freakiest porn. Your freakiest porn.
• 20:48
  Speaker 2: Your freakiest one that you would not even tell your partner.
• 20:51
  Speaker 2: You could tell us.
• 20:52
  Speaker 1: Yes.
• 20:53
  Speaker 2: Or you should tell your partner so they know.
• 20:54
  Speaker 3: You should tell them and then see if you guys
• 20:56
  Speaker 3: can find a middle ground because that was the healthy
• 20:57
  Speaker 3: advice that you guys gave.
• 20:58
  Speaker 2: Yeah, that's the healthy advice.
• 20:59
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 21:00
  Speaker 1: Anyways, we're so glad that we were able to help
• 21:02
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• 21:07
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• 21:11
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• 21:13
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• 21:15
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• 21:27
  Speaker 3: I like that you got your berries and bananas out
• 21:28
  Speaker 3: like you wasn't just eating a McDouble.
• 21:31
  Speaker 2: Anyways, bye guys.