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Dumbbihathon · We Talk Back

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  Speaker 1: Welcome to We Talk Back Podcast, the production of iHeartRadio
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  Speaker 1: and the Black Effect Network.
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  Speaker 2: So we're just two unapologetically black women with an opinion.
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  Speaker 2: Who talks back.
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  Speaker 1: What's up, y'all? Girl? A j holiday?
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  Speaker 2: What's up, tam dam y'all. It's me Tampa. I love y'all.
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  Speaker 2: I'm miss y'all. Welcome back.
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  Speaker 1: How you feeling Welcome back? Welcome like ship. Okay, it's
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  Speaker 1: that time of the month and I'm trying to start myself.
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  Speaker 2: Look, I'm trying to fight me.
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  Speaker 1: Up, like we need a disaster. Pay as women for
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  Speaker 1: having me walk around and still be happy while fucking hemorrhaging.
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  Speaker 2: In your girl doing these inspections with a pad on?
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  Speaker 1: What the fuck you need to try the cups? Man?
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  Speaker 2: You scared? I'm I'm scared of like what that shit
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  Speaker 2: like pouring it out?
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  Speaker 1: No, it is a mess, I'll tell you. I No,
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  Speaker 1: it is kind of messy, but it's more it's just
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  Speaker 1: healthier than the tampon sitting up in there for a
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  Speaker 1: while or getting home. Yeah, because you're supposed to change
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  Speaker 1: your Maxi pad like every two hours or some shit.
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  Speaker 2: Girl, I'd beware. I'd be at the point where i'd
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  Speaker 2: be wearing the sleep ones all day.
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  Speaker 1: I know that book get me looking like a panther girl.
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  Speaker 1: I remember Ramon Chisholm. If you listening in middle school,
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  Speaker 1: I might have been in sixth grade, and you know
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  Speaker 1: I've always been self conscious about the pads.
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  Speaker 2: Man mm hm.
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  Speaker 1: And I remember one day we was outside at recess
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  Speaker 1: sixth grade and he was like, I can say you're
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  Speaker 1: bad ever since that nigga. Those that shit has lived
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  Speaker 1: rent free in my head since grade.
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  Speaker 2: And now you be worried about somebody seeing your pants.
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  Speaker 2: I don't.
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  Speaker 1: I don't wear them.
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  Speaker 2: I was doing this and I always ease on.
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  Speaker 1: Okay if they can sell.
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  Speaker 2: I know it is in my butt already. Big would
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  Speaker 2: always be on the back.
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  Speaker 1: Even buy like the Overnight ones. I just put two
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  Speaker 1: of them together. Yeah, because you need to try always ease.
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  Speaker 1: It's like a it's a penny. Oh it's a little pamper.
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  Speaker 1: I mean like a like a pamper.
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  Speaker 2: It's yeah, it's like an adult pamper. I had that on.
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  Speaker 2: I wore one of those the work to do that.
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  Speaker 1: I already hate wearing underwear, so now I got to
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  Speaker 1: wear a pamper.
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  Speaker 2: I don't want to I'm still.
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  Speaker 1: Gonna feel like, like somebody see all of the ship
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  Speaker 1: that I got going on, man the way disaster hazardous
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  Speaker 1: hazards paid and extra time off of work, and we
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  Speaker 1: need free female products, Like why are we paying for that?
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  Speaker 1: That's like a uh something we have to pay for
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  Speaker 1: for our entire lives down there, Yeah, forty of our
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  Speaker 1: lives and then if you have a daughter, yeah, for
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  Speaker 1: the rest of our lives exactly.
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  Speaker 2: It just seems unfair. I don't feel like other countries
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  Speaker 2: require that of their women to pay for sanitary Americans.
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  Speaker 1: It's probably some places that don't even.
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  Speaker 2: Have Yeah, they just free bleep. That's the thing in
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  Speaker 2: the States now, rags, you know what I'm saying.
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  Speaker 1: Before before paths and tampons and stuff like that, I'm
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  Speaker 1: pretty sure that Grandma's is wearing Oh though they.
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  Speaker 2: Used to the little pas. This is mm hmm yeah better.
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  Speaker 1: Like we've come a long way, yeah, because it's probably
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  Speaker 1: one hundred percent call. And have you seen those videos
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  Speaker 1: online with people holding the paths up to the yes.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, and you got it up against your vagina.
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  Speaker 1: I've been using cups for a while now, so I
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  Speaker 1: use the paths when I go to side, this is,
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  Speaker 1: this is. But anyway, I used to pass it and
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  Speaker 1: I used the cups you know, during the day. But
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  Speaker 1: you do have to be careful with them nam cups
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  Speaker 1: because you got to position it right. So if y'all
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  Speaker 1: got a crooked kouchie on the inside, it ain't gonna work.
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  Speaker 2: It ain't gonna work.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, some people got.
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  Speaker 2: Somebody finally passed out on the floor trying to pour
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  Speaker 2: that cup down to it.
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  Speaker 1: Oh my guy, what.
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  Speaker 2: You do the weekend?
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  Speaker 1: What the hell did I do this weekend? You know,
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  Speaker 1: the weekends be a blur. A lot of the times
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  Speaker 1: I went, I did work out. I went to hopilates
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  Speaker 1: and hot yoga, went to my mama house, sat there
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  Speaker 1: for about four hours on Sunday catching up on life stuff,
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  Speaker 1: and that's about it. Just worked out and grocery shopping.
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  Speaker 1: I probably spent about four hundred dollars on groceries. And then, oh,
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  Speaker 1: I didn't hang out with my homegirl on Saturday. And
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  Speaker 1: I told her explicitly that I was not eating out
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  Speaker 1: because I got groceries at the house. And then she
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  Speaker 1: late out, so she was like, well, I'll treat you
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  Speaker 1: because we ain't do nothing for your birthday. Right, because
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  Speaker 1: I was out of the country. So we go eat
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  Speaker 1: out at this new restaurant and my job. I have
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  Speaker 1: been fasting from sugar and bread since I got back
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  Speaker 1: from Costa Rica, and I broke my bread fast because
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  Speaker 1: they brought this fucking loaf to the table. The waitress
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  Speaker 1: were saying how great it was. It was like the
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  Speaker 1: feature item, like appetizer at this restaurant, this new place
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  Speaker 1: in Charleston. My homegirl bragging about how good it was
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  Speaker 1: when she took her boyfriend to that restaurant for his
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  Speaker 1: birthday just a couple of weeks ago. Girl, that bullshit
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  Speaker 1: ass fucking bread bitch. I could have made my mom
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  Speaker 1: he sandwich like I wanted the day before, broke my fast,
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  Speaker 1: and I'm like, you know, you're really not a good friend, bitch,
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  Speaker 1: because if you know I'm doing this, why did you
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  Speaker 1: even order that bread?
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  Speaker 2: Right?
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  Speaker 1: When you really like trying to change and do something different,
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  Speaker 1: you kind of gotta really be by yourself.
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  Speaker 2: You do have to isolate, yes, man, because why the fuck?
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  Speaker 1: And then the bill. All we had was tuna, tartar
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  Speaker 1: and twelve oysters, two drinks, one hundred and sixty four
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  Speaker 1: dollars and bread and bread ten dollar bread and ended
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  Speaker 1: up at my house. I'm cooking crab legs because we
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  Speaker 1: still ain't full now, right, we got to my house.
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  Speaker 1: I cooked crab legs, scallops and shrimp. So she came
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  Speaker 1: to my house and ate my fucking girls, ate my
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  Speaker 1: hair groceries up. Yeah, and we watched from So that's
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  Speaker 1: what I did. That was Saturday.
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  Speaker 2: I need to watch this show because I keep seeing
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  Speaker 2: people making like just hilarious. She'd be going chat with
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  Speaker 2: some video her.
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  Speaker 1: That video was funny as hell because it's the truth.
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  Speaker 2: I ain't got nothing to tell you about my weekend,
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  Speaker 2: so we can just move on. I ain't do ship,
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  Speaker 2: so we could just delis.
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  Speaker 1: Let's get in a stupid internet news then, so I
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  Speaker 1: seen this headline. It says woman was deeply moved by
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  Speaker 1: the story of a missing pregnant woman that she decided
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  Speaker 1: to take matters into her own hands by dating her
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  Speaker 1: murderer to get information about her case. So imagine, like
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  Speaker 1: there's a headline about a pregnant woman missing, police have
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  Speaker 1: deemed her probably you know, somebody's probably done something to her,
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  Speaker 1: or actually she is dead, right, and this woman then
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  Speaker 1: starts dating the murderer to solve the crime. So it says.
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  Speaker 1: Kelsey Shooling Skaling was a twenty one year old pregnant
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  Speaker 1: woman who disappeared in Pueblo in Pueblo in February twenty
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  Speaker 1: thirteen after traveling to meet her boyfriend Don de Lucas.
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  Speaker 2: Is this real?
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  Speaker 1: Who the fuck is Don de Lucas? For years, the
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  Speaker 1: case remained unsolved and deeply troubled the community. In twenty sixteen,
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  Speaker 1: Lauren Shure became personally invested in finding answers and took
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  Speaker 1: an unusual step by guiding excuse me, what the fuck?
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  Speaker 1: By building a relationship with Lucas to gain his trust
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  Speaker 1: and learn more about what happened. Over time, Shore gathered
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  Speaker 1: critical information, including Lucas admitting he was the person seen
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  Speaker 1: on the surveillance moving Kelsey's abandoned car. She later turned
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  Speaker 1: everything over to investigators and became a key witness in court.
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  Speaker 1: Her testimony helped strengthen the case in twenty twenty one,
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  Speaker 1: I mean, and in twenty twenty one when Lucas was
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  Speaker 1: convicted of first degree murder and sentenced to life without parole.
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  Speaker 1: So yeah, Even with the conviction, kelsey remains have never
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  Speaker 1: been found. Leaving part of the story unsolved.
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  Speaker 2: Damn, that's crazy to put your own life on the line.
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  Speaker 2: And and you have Johnny because you know she was
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  Speaker 2: sleeping with him.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, because how he's not about to get vulnerable with
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  Speaker 1: you and just start talking about Yeah I heard on
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  Speaker 1: that camera.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, that's wow. She kind of nuts a little bit, right.
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  Speaker 1: Yes, bitch, you're weird. But she's a girl's girl. Sorry,
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  Speaker 1: ultimate girls girl, super girl's girl. This is next level
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  Speaker 1: taking one for the team, and.
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  Speaker 2: Next level nosy is that nosy?
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  Speaker 1: She's a detective at heart. She's just in the wrong field.
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  Speaker 2: Well, she need to join the TESK force because her
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  Speaker 2: name was hiring her.
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  Speaker 1: The FBI was hiring.
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  Speaker 2: Right, get paid for it, because that is the next level. Damn.
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  Speaker 2: All right, so listen to this one.
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  Speaker 1: Hey. Somebody commented and said, FBI females be investigating, period.
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  Speaker 2: So listen to this. A Long Island family is counting
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  Speaker 2: their blessed blessings after eleven year old Jamal Johnson, a
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  Speaker 2: boy with autism from Valley Stream, was safely united with
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  Speaker 2: his loved ones after making his way to JFK without
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  Speaker 2: anyone knowing. According to officials, Jamal ordered an uber by
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  Speaker 2: himself and traveled to JFK before being spotted standing in
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  Speaker 2: TSA security line at Terminal one around six thirty am.
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  Speaker 2: This nigga was on the way to Japan while ticket
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  Speaker 2: he know he was. He probably just walked straight up
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  Speaker 2: to the TSA line because you don't You can have
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  Speaker 2: a ticket on your phone, you don't have to go
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  Speaker 2: to the counter.
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  Speaker 1: But I'm saying, did he purchase a ticket to Japan?
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  Speaker 2: Like? How? So? I did?
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  Speaker 1: Read like he has autism? Right? So first of all,
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  Speaker 1: he had an uper black pull up at his parents' house,
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  Speaker 1: right whose credit card is connected to the uber that
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  Speaker 1: he's using? And I want to know, did he just
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  Speaker 1: go to the airport like he's flying somewhere and didn't
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  Speaker 1: purchase a ticket, or did he actually have a ticket
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  Speaker 1: and about to go through TSA to fight in Japan?
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  Speaker 2: Well, don't say nothing about him having a plane ticket,
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  Speaker 2: but I wouldn't doubt it. This nigga different, right.
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  Speaker 1: He's smart as hell? You know this? When I when
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  Speaker 1: I think about shit like this is almost like especially autism,
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  Speaker 1: people with autism, because everybody pretty much has some characteristics, right,
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  Speaker 1: everything is deemed some type of something. Now, so that's
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  Speaker 1: why it's a spectrum. But imagine that him in another lifetime,
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  Speaker 1: was it was a Japanese.
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  Speaker 2: Man, Right, he's just trying.
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  Speaker 1: His spirit is longing for Japan because out of all places,
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  Speaker 1: Like what were you watching on TV? What made you
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  Speaker 1: some anime? Right? You just fucked my family. I'm about
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  Speaker 1: to fly to Japan at eleven.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, that's kind of wild, but it's kind of cute.
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  Speaker 1: You remember the movie Leave the World Behind?
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  Speaker 2: No, I've never watch it, damn.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, So it was one of the first movies on
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  Speaker 1: Michelle and Barack Obama's production studios, and Leave the World
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  Speaker 1: Behind it's like one of them dooms Day, end of
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  Speaker 1: the World type ship.
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  Speaker 2: But mars Hasha Salam, I don't know how to say
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  Speaker 2: his name. Uh, it's a main.
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  Speaker 1: Yes, I believe that's yeah, I believe that's the accurate.
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  Speaker 2: I do do that.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah. So remember the little the White family, their daughter,
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  Speaker 1: It's like she couldn't wait to get the fuck away
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  Speaker 1: from them. So when she got real fucked up, she
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  Speaker 1: went to like somebody had like a doomsday type house girl.
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  Speaker 1: She was over there watching friends, not giving a fuck
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  Speaker 1: what was happening to her with her family, Like I
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  Speaker 1: guess I don't know. Some people don't need tribalism. I
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  Speaker 1: don't need no fairy. That baby said, I'm getting the
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  Speaker 1: hell up out of here.
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  Speaker 2: She just was watching Friends, starting from episode one.
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  Speaker 1: All Right, y'all, so we all love spin that spin that. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: that is the summer banger at this point.
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  Speaker 2: But I was home. Let me just say this. I
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  Speaker 2: was in a car with my little old boom because
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  Speaker 2: we ain't booze no more. But we was in the
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  Speaker 2: car and I put that song on. I was like
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  Speaker 2: pointing at him. I was like, spinach it, and he
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  Speaker 2: literally turned music down and remixed it to a save
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  Speaker 2: that shit. And I mean, he just was coming up
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  Speaker 2: with all the reasons I need to save my money
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  Speaker 2: and ryman.
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  Speaker 1: I seen somebody do it like a remixed save that shit.
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  Speaker 2: Oh maybe that's what he was singing in because I
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  Speaker 2: don't know what happened.
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  Speaker 1: Women arrested after posting a TikTok to Young miamis spend
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  Speaker 1: that showing off Louis tan bags she stole worth seven
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  Speaker 1: thousand dollars ah. The connection between Janis Downs and Young
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  Speaker 1: Miami stems from a social media video used as evidence
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  Speaker 1: by detectives doing sound good right, Downs, a prolific organized
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  Speaker 1: retail fifth suspect in western Washington, was recently arrested on
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  Speaker 1: June twelfth, twenty twenty six, for shoplifting high end designer goods,
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  Speaker 1: according to court documents followed by the Bellevue Police Department investigators.
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  Speaker 1: Investigators linked Downs to the crime after discovering a TikTok
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  Speaker 1: video of her mother, Dannis Wiley, holding up sol and
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  Speaker 1: Luxury handbags while a viral Young Young Miami song reference
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  Speaker 1: in boosting and scamming played in the background. Surveillance footage
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  Speaker 1: from a Seattle Norstrom captured Downs wearing what a brook?
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  Speaker 1: What is a b u r q qa? What's that?
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  Speaker 1: To conceal her identity while she and an accomplice distract
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  Speaker 1: opoy I don't know, distracting employees to steal two Louis
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  Speaker 1: Tan bags were almost seven thousand dollars. Oh is that
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  Speaker 1: m birock.
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  Speaker 2: So.
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  Speaker 1: Shortly after the heighst the Solar merchandise was showcased on
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  Speaker 1: Down's Instagram account, while her mother posted the video future
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  Speaker 1: in Young Future in the Young Miami track. Downs is
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  Speaker 1: currently being held in King County Jail on two hundred
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  Speaker 1: and fifteen thousand dollars ail God Damn. Her charges include
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  Speaker 1: first degree organized retail theft, as well as an outstanding
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  Speaker 1: fugitive warrant from Oregon involving sixteen theft for late accounts.
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  Speaker 1: This arrest comes just months after she was released from
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  Speaker 1: a previous thirty three month prison sentence for multi store
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  Speaker 1: Lululemon theft operation.
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  Speaker 2: Girl, you was in jail for thirty three months, and
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  Speaker 2: now you came home and went right back. Did you
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  Speaker 2: have you did they teach you nothing in jail because she.
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  Speaker 1: Man, Especially if you go to the fast girl, you
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  Speaker 1: will come up.
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  Speaker 2: With more skills knowledge as at least you would at
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  Speaker 2: least have the tense enough to know not to post
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  Speaker 2: the bags, post the money that you made from selling
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  Speaker 2: the bags. If you want to post something, they can't
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  Speaker 2: you know.
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  Speaker 1: And the boosters get on my nerves because y'all, she
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  Speaker 1: will steal two bags for seven thousand and be trying
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  Speaker 1: to get the same price you paid for him. I
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  Speaker 1: mean didn't pay for him the same price for the product.
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  Speaker 2: Where you could go in the store. Why would I
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  Speaker 2: buy it from you?
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  Speaker 1: I could get right sure at this point, bird Greens,
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  Speaker 1: why do people have to post everything on the fucking internet. Man,
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  Speaker 1: just dumb, just dumb.
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  Speaker 2: You belong to jail, you belong back. You ain't been
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  Speaker 2: at home three months, so you already back for some
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  Speaker 2: dumb as shit. Change disappointed in you spend that shit
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  Speaker 2: locked up? Okay, because I ain't mad at I mean, listen,
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  Speaker 2: get it? How you live? What were talking about today, ch'all?
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  Speaker 1: All these goddamn dumb bitch stories. Listen. We'd be asking
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  Speaker 1: for dumb bitch stories every week, damn there. And we
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  Speaker 1: have a whole another email box that I know in
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  Speaker 1: the beginning of the podcast, like that is the email
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  Speaker 1: address that we would share for dumb bitch stories. And
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  Speaker 1: we haven't been checking it. So we got a hella
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  Speaker 1: dumbitch stories. So today's episode is dedicated to the dumb bitches.
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  Speaker 1: This is a dumb Bitch Files.
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  Speaker 2: Here we go. We'll be right back, all right, y'all,
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  Speaker 2: We're back with the dumb bitch Files. Like so these
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  Speaker 2: are some of these. It was really good, all right,
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  Speaker 2: So listen to this one. Hey, Aja and Tam, I
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  Speaker 2: swear I'm not making this up. I've been seeing my
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  Speaker 2: therapist for almost two years. She helped me through anxiety,
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  Speaker 2: losing my dad, and honestly, she's the first therapist I've
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  Speaker 2: ever trusted. About six months ago, I started dating this guy.
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  Speaker 2: Things have been going really well. He knows I'm in
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  Speaker 2: therapy and he always encouraged me to keep going. A
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  Speaker 2: few weeks ago, during one of my sessions, I was
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  Speaker 2: telling my therapist about him. I mentioned that he sings
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  Speaker 2: on the praise team at his church. Okay, without thinking,
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  Speaker 2: she smiled and said, well does Marcus still? Then she
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  Speaker 2: immediately stopped.
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  Speaker 1: Talking, bitch co playing with me like me, and said.
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  Speaker 2: All hold on, it's getting good. She got really quiet
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  Speaker 2: and said I'm sorry. I shouldn't have said that. Now
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  Speaker 2: my ears done perked up. I asked, wait, you know Marcus.
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  Speaker 2: She looked uncomfortable, and she told me she couldn't discuss
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  Speaker 2: anyone she might know outside of therapy.
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  Speaker 1: Yo, you already mentioned them. Is why did you do that?
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  Speaker 2: Like you say his motherfucker name, bitch, I ain't never
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  Speaker 2: name dropped a nigga. The rest of the session felt weird,
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  Speaker 2: I guess. So when I got home, curiosity got the
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  Speaker 2: best of me. I searched the church's Facebook page. Guess
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  Speaker 2: who I see in the anniversary picture from last year,
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  Speaker 2: my therapist. She's standing right beside my boyfriend, not in
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  Speaker 2: the same room, not in the same role, standing together, smiling.
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  Speaker 2: Since then, I can't stop thinking about it. Every time
• 19:12
  Speaker 2: I tell her something about my relationship. I wonder if
• 19:14
  Speaker 2: she's thinking, girl, if you only knew, every time she
• 19:18
  Speaker 2: tells me to communicate it with him better, I wonder
• 19:20
  Speaker 2: if she's secretly judging me because she knows him in
• 19:23
  Speaker 2: real life. Then last Sunday, my boyfriend casually mentioned that
• 19:26
  Speaker 2: a woman from church that had asked about me, but
• 19:29
  Speaker 2: he couldn't remember her name. Y'all, what if that was
• 19:33
  Speaker 2: my therapist? Who the fuck else would it be? Just
• 19:36
  Speaker 2: don't about you? I asked him if they were close?
• 19:40
  Speaker 2: He said, not really, everybody at church? No, everybody now, sir.
• 19:46
  Speaker 2: I don't think my therapist did anything unethical on purpose.
• 19:50
  Speaker 2: She hasn't shared any of his business, and she immediately
• 19:53
  Speaker 2: caught herself. But I also don't know how I'm supposed
• 19:55
  Speaker 2: to keep opening up when I know she sees this
• 19:57
  Speaker 2: man in real life. Do I a new therapist? Do
• 20:02
  Speaker 2: I tell her this is bothering me? Or am I
• 20:04
  Speaker 2: making something out of nothing? What y'all think? What do
• 20:08
  Speaker 2: you think?
• 20:09
  Speaker 1: No, her the this is this is equivalent to remember
• 20:11
  Speaker 1: on when I told y'all how the bitch came at
• 20:13
  Speaker 1: my page and like the picture of my nigga on
• 20:15
  Speaker 1: my page, and I asked him who the fuck was this?
• 20:18
  Speaker 1: Because why I was just random, some random girl and
• 20:20
  Speaker 1: come to find out with somebody he used to fuck with.
• 20:23
  Speaker 1: To me, that is equivalent to you just throwing his
• 20:26
  Speaker 1: name out there right quick, Oh Marcus?
• 20:29
  Speaker 2: What you are a lad drop?
• 20:33
  Speaker 1: Yes? And see the thing I don't like about like therapy,
• 20:36
  Speaker 1: right these people go to school for many years, and
• 20:40
  Speaker 1: if you're not a good therapist, you could fuck with
• 20:42
  Speaker 1: people's heads. They have the ability and the skill set
• 20:45
  Speaker 1: to do that. And I really feel like that is
• 20:50
  Speaker 1: the beginning of some type of she's called She's she's
• 20:55
  Speaker 1: intentionally trying to cause that girl mental anguish.
• 21:00
  Speaker 2: Because and I ain't the way I would have been
• 21:01
  Speaker 2: able to just move on talking like bitch, you ain't
• 21:03
  Speaker 2: say just like you ain't just say Marcus. I would
• 21:06
  Speaker 2: even be like, oh, so tell me what you know
• 21:07
  Speaker 2: about Marcus.
• 21:08
  Speaker 1: And you have to know if she's never mentioned to
• 21:12
  Speaker 1: her therapist that her boyfriend or the guy she's dating
• 21:14
  Speaker 1: name is Marcus, that means Marcus probably lied to talk
• 21:18
  Speaker 1: about some random lady at the church. She said, she's
• 21:22
  Speaker 1: assuming it was a therapist.
• 21:23
  Speaker 2: She didn't say, but I guess, you know what, their
• 21:26
  Speaker 2: boyfriend and girlfriend. So it could be other people at
• 21:28
  Speaker 2: the church who know that y'all are dating. But I
• 21:33
  Speaker 2: would automatically assume it was her too. But then he
• 21:37
  Speaker 2: said they were standing. She said they were standing right
• 21:39
  Speaker 2: next to each other in the picture, so that wouldn't
• 21:42
  Speaker 2: be random. He probably know exactly who the woman like
• 21:44
  Speaker 2: that is. You know, girl, we would have a.
• 21:46
  Speaker 1: Whole therapy session and n ain't bit y'all do a
• 21:48
  Speaker 1: charge back. We would have a whole therapy session talk
• 21:53
  Speaker 1: about Marcus and how the fuck you know him, and
• 21:55
  Speaker 1: I would definitely do a chargeback on my debit card
• 21:57
  Speaker 1: after that session.
• 22:00
  Speaker 2: Would you keep her as a therapist because she said.
• 22:02
  Speaker 1: That, No, No, she's definitely playing games. Absolutely not fired.
• 22:05
  Speaker 2: I help her through, like she's the only therapist she's
• 22:08
  Speaker 2: ever trusted. You know, it's hard to get a therapist trust.
• 22:11
  Speaker 1: She can't trust this therapist. First of all, this therapist
• 22:13
  Speaker 1: is too far in her life. If you're mentioning somebody,
• 22:16
  Speaker 1: I never told you this man's name. Mm hmm, okay,
• 22:20
  Speaker 1: what to me, it's like stalking, That's what I'm feeling, Like, Mitchell,
• 22:25
  Speaker 1: are you were you asking Marcus about me? How do
• 22:28
  Speaker 1: you know I'm talking about Marcus? How do you know
• 22:31
  Speaker 1: idea about this?
• 22:32
  Speaker 2: Exactly? Yeah, says something about her. I had to, right,
• 22:38
  Speaker 2: because how would she know that that's him? And it's
• 22:41
  Speaker 2: a lot of niggas that's seen on the praise team
• 22:43
  Speaker 2: at churches at different churches.
• 22:46
  Speaker 1: Right, Damn Marcus is a praise team, Yeah for sure,
• 22:52
  Speaker 1: with a big booty, big booty Marcus home Gray Marcus.
• 22:59
  Speaker 2: Well, you know, if you're man, We're sorry. We ain't
• 23:01
  Speaker 2: joking on your man.
• 23:04
  Speaker 1: But the part about the communication, now, so what if
• 23:06
  Speaker 1: Marcus found out that she was a therapist, befriended her
• 23:13
  Speaker 1: to then manipulate the girlfriend. Befriended the therapist to manipulate
• 23:21
  Speaker 1: the girlfriend, like telling them personal things like I'm in
• 23:24
  Speaker 1: I'm in therapy, talking about my relationship and talk about
• 23:27
  Speaker 1: all type of other things. Right, but you have knowledge
• 23:29
  Speaker 1: about my relationship, may it be true or false? Right
• 23:33
  Speaker 1: that I'm not privy to. So now you're telling me
• 23:37
  Speaker 1: you need to communicate more with Marcus and shit like that,
• 23:42
  Speaker 1: or you need to do this with you know, not Marcus.
• 23:44
  Speaker 2: But yeah, but I mean, like because of what he
• 23:47
  Speaker 2: may be saying to you outside of my therapy session. Yeah,
• 23:51
  Speaker 2: that's a slippery slope, girl, I don't know. Maybe it's
• 23:53
  Speaker 2: time to find a new therapist after that. That's one
• 23:57
  Speaker 2: of the two, which one you value most?
• 23:59
  Speaker 1: That's your suspect. But I would not be able to
• 24:01
  Speaker 1: leave either one of them alone until I get to
• 24:04
  Speaker 1: the bottom of emotion. Yeah, I need to know, bitch,
• 24:08
  Speaker 1: I need to know.
• 24:10
  Speaker 2: But I don't think you should leave Marcus either, because
• 24:12
  Speaker 2: he sounded like a nice guy here on the praise
• 24:13
  Speaker 2: seem at church.
• 24:15
  Speaker 1: Not if he using your damn therapist to manipulate you, like,
• 24:19
  Speaker 1: because how they had to have had a conversation.
• 24:23
  Speaker 2: They had to, but they fucking for me I needed
• 24:30
  Speaker 2: because I don't think you're therapist. You go ahead, and
• 24:33
  Speaker 2: girl going there crying and hollering.
• 24:36
  Speaker 1: She should have did it that day when when she
• 24:38
  Speaker 1: said Marcus.
• 24:40
  Speaker 2: A question, I would have we wouldn't have been able
• 24:43
  Speaker 2: to move on no zero per.
• 24:47
  Speaker 1: All right, so here's when I found uh yeah, oh,
• 24:54
  Speaker 1: sorry for the final advice. Yes, yeah, leave Marcus fired
• 25:00
  Speaker 1: that will not leave Marcus fire at therapist, But not
• 25:03
  Speaker 1: until you get to the bottom of the shit.
• 25:05
  Speaker 2: Because maybe there's something like you know, honest about.
• 25:09
  Speaker 1: It, a coincidence?
• 25:11
  Speaker 2: No, yeah, perhaps, well you find it. When you find out, come.
• 25:15
  Speaker 1: Back and tell us, right, all right, hold, hold, all right, Hey, Tam,
• 25:24
  Speaker 1: bam and aj y'all can call me the dumb bitch
• 25:28
  Speaker 1: because I really thought I was smarter than everybody involved.
• 25:33
  Speaker 1: I worked for a large company. In about eight months ago,
• 25:36
  Speaker 1: I started messing with one of my co workers, boy
• 25:43
  Speaker 1: too close for Comfort JAB. At first, it was just
• 25:46
  Speaker 1: flirting in the break room, then lunches, and then eventually
• 25:50
  Speaker 1: we started dating. We agreed from day one that nobody
• 25:54
  Speaker 1: at work would know, because neither one of us wanted
• 25:57
  Speaker 1: the drama. Okay, could know? Okay? Well, well, somehow this
• 26:03
  Speaker 1: man kept getting promoted. First he became team lead, then
• 26:09
  Speaker 1: about two months ago, he got promoted to department manager.
• 26:13
  Speaker 1: Once that happened, he technically became my boss's boss. I
• 26:19
  Speaker 1: asked him if we should tell HR because it was
• 26:22
  Speaker 1: starting to feel risky. He kept saying, relaxed, We've grown.
• 26:25
  Speaker 1: As long as we keep it professional, ain't nobody going
• 26:27
  Speaker 1: to know? Fast forwards. Last Friday, around three o'clock, I
• 26:32
  Speaker 1: get an email from HR asking me to come upstairs
• 26:34
  Speaker 1: because I leave before I leave for the day. My
• 26:37
  Speaker 1: stomach immediately immediately dropped. Oh, I know what I'm feeling shy.
• 26:42
  Speaker 1: I walk not saying look, not saying I was fucking
• 26:44
  Speaker 1: the coworker, but I laugh. I just didn't get call
• 26:48
  Speaker 1: it HR bitch. Ill was living with one of my
• 26:51
  Speaker 1: supervisors once for a few months until my apartment was
• 26:54
  Speaker 1: ready in Columbia. Anyway, I walk in and there's two
• 27:01
  Speaker 1: HR ladies and one director and the director sitting there
• 27:05
  Speaker 1: looking real serious. One of them asked, can you tell
• 27:08
  Speaker 1: us about your relationship with Michael now, y'all? I panicked.
• 27:12
  Speaker 1: I said, we don't have a relationship. We just worked together.
• 27:17
  Speaker 1: She looked at me, dead in my face and said,
• 27:19
  Speaker 1: you sure, and my dumb ass doubled down. I mean,
• 27:24
  Speaker 1: we've hung out in groups before. But that's it's what
• 27:27
  Speaker 1: she told them. She nodded. She nodded, opened a folder
• 27:31
  Speaker 1: and slid about twenty printed pages across the table. Tam, tam.
• 27:38
  Speaker 1: It was our text messages, not just regular messages, good
• 27:41
  Speaker 1: morning baby, vacation pictures him talking about coming over after work,
• 27:45
  Speaker 1: me telling him to stop leaving his hoodie at my apartment,
• 27:49
  Speaker 1: even one text where I said, don't be looking at
• 27:51
  Speaker 1: me in the meeting before somebody figures us out. I
• 27:54
  Speaker 1: wanted girl, I wanted to floor. I wanted the floor
• 27:58
  Speaker 1: to open and swallow me.
• 28:00
  Speaker 2: You've ever been table.
• 28:03
  Speaker 1: She said. Apparently, when we got promoted, they audited his
• 28:07
  Speaker 1: company phone because their were complaints about favoritism. He had
• 28:11
  Speaker 1: been texting me from his work phone this whole time,
• 28:14
  Speaker 1: even though I repeatedly told him not to. Here's the part,
• 28:18
  Speaker 1: here's the part that's really fucked up and messing with me.
• 28:21
  Speaker 1: After they questioned me, they brought him in. He admitted
• 28:24
  Speaker 1: we were in a relationship. I denied it. So now
• 28:28
  Speaker 1: HR thinks he's the honest one and I'm the liar.
• 28:32
  Speaker 1: It's true, right, right, Uh, yeah, it's true. I wasn't fired,
• 28:38
  Speaker 1: but I'm under investigation because they said I was dishonest
• 28:42
  Speaker 1: during an internal inquiry. Michael keeps apologizing say saying he
• 28:47
  Speaker 1: never thought they'd pull the phone records. Now he's asking
• 28:51
  Speaker 1: me to tell HR lie because I panicked, and I
• 28:53
  Speaker 1: was and I was scared. The problem is, I don't
• 28:56
  Speaker 1: even know if I can trust him anymore because he
• 28:58
  Speaker 1: put us in this position to begin with, So tell
• 29:02
  Speaker 1: me what should I do now?
• 29:04
  Speaker 2: What? You can't blame him, bitch? You joy, you did?
• 29:07
  Speaker 2: You were willing participant in this relationship.
• 29:10
  Speaker 1: Yeah, you just you just gotta update your resume, sweet pea.
• 29:17
  Speaker 1: Tell you. I'm gonna tell you right now, girl. And
• 29:19
  Speaker 1: it's tough out here because people be getting laid off
• 29:22
  Speaker 1: left and right. But God might just bless you. This
• 29:24
  Speaker 1: might be divine redirection, bitch, and you just stuck Michael's
• 29:28
  Speaker 1: dick in peace. Y'all aren't worry about getting caught. And
• 29:32
  Speaker 1: he makes more on that job.
• 29:33
  Speaker 2: Than not letting him go. There, gonna let you go
• 29:36
  Speaker 2: exactly right.
• 29:37
  Speaker 1: So he's in a better position there. He's your boss, boss, okay,
• 29:41
  Speaker 1: so we know he makes more than you. You need
• 29:43
  Speaker 1: to go find your new job if you want to
• 29:45
  Speaker 1: be with Michael, because if you're under you know, some
• 29:49
  Speaker 1: type of preliminary investigation right now, they probably just try
• 29:54
  Speaker 1: to find your replacement and you're just gonna work your
• 29:56
  Speaker 1: waft death.
• 30:00
  Speaker 2: Dy't on this message. You might already be fired then
• 30:09
  Speaker 2: from a new job or she listening unemployed.
• 30:14
  Speaker 1: Cuean shit man I'm sorry.
• 30:17
  Speaker 2: I'm sorry, Hope. It's a new job that you love.
• 30:23
  Speaker 2: If you come, you can.
• 30:24
  Speaker 1: Come check out email for us. We got a little small,
• 30:26
  Speaker 1: little budget, real small. You need somebody, so he would
• 30:30
  Speaker 1: have co worked and we talked back. We got you
• 30:32
  Speaker 1: and it ain't nobody ever here for you to fuck,
• 30:35
  Speaker 1: so you ain't.
• 30:35
  Speaker 2: Got nothing to worry about. Damn man. Thank you for
• 30:41
  Speaker 2: sharing about it all the time. Workplace romances.
• 30:46
  Speaker 1: You spend a lot of time there, and if she's a.
• 30:49
  Speaker 2: Value uh you know, employee, they might not let her go,
• 30:53
  Speaker 2: especially if everybody don't know about it.
• 30:55
  Speaker 1: You know, I'm gonna tell y'all if y'all ever worked
• 30:57
  Speaker 1: in a corporate setting, everybody be fucking if you are
• 31:00
  Speaker 1: working in the office, you are at work, you know,
• 31:03
  Speaker 1: eight to twelve hours a day. A lot of times
• 31:05
  Speaker 1: people be having those work conventions and conferences. And she's
• 31:08
  Speaker 1: like that they already know who they fucking in That
• 31:10
  Speaker 1: corporate paid for a hotel, they renting a car together,
• 31:14
  Speaker 1: and they cheating on it. Listen, it goes down in
• 31:18
  Speaker 1: corporate offices and a lot of them own coke, so
• 31:22
  Speaker 1: they just whood it up. Mofucker's having a good old time,
• 31:28
  Speaker 1: Like girl, when I used to work at a certain bank,
• 31:31
  Speaker 1: I used to work in the customer service department, like
• 31:34
  Speaker 1: and it was two bitches got caught fucking in the
• 31:37
  Speaker 1: office each other. Yes, two women, two white ladies, and
• 31:42
  Speaker 1: they these aren't One was a butcher and the other
• 31:45
  Speaker 1: one I didn't even know she would.
• 31:46
  Speaker 2: I think I.
• 31:47
  Speaker 1: Told you about this, this ship before. Had the ladies
• 31:48
  Speaker 1: us to be putting her titties on my back. Yeah,
• 31:51
  Speaker 1: like you coming over doing some coaching shit and you
• 31:53
  Speaker 1: got your fucking titties on people's back like she was.
• 31:55
  Speaker 1: Sally had wrapped in us. And when I found out
• 31:58
  Speaker 1: she was fucking the damn neighborhood butch from the job,
• 32:01
  Speaker 1: I was like, whole time, whole time, she was really
• 32:04
  Speaker 1: sexually harassing us.
• 32:05
  Speaker 2: Yes she was.
• 32:06
  Speaker 1: So it wasn't just my back. Her titties would be
• 32:08
  Speaker 1: on you like you be scooting up in your chair, like, god,
• 32:10
  Speaker 1: damn bitch, back back, can you give me fifty feet.
• 32:15
  Speaker 2: The whole time I'm.
• 32:16
  Speaker 1: Getting molested in at work, bitch, I was not paying
• 32:19
  Speaker 1: enough for that. Put this shit on the IMAX. The
• 32:24
  Speaker 1: fuck I.
• 32:25
  Speaker 2: Needed to get paid more.
• 32:27
  Speaker 1: Telling me about that, Yeah, there was fuck they got fucked.
• 32:30
  Speaker 1: They got caught fucking in the empty office for sure.
• 32:34
  Speaker 2: Did they get like somebody walked in on them or
• 32:36
  Speaker 2: it was on camera, like someone caught them, like there
• 32:39
  Speaker 2: was a.
• 32:40
  Speaker 1: You know, I don't remember because I wasn't with the
• 32:42
  Speaker 1: company at the time when they got fired, but it
• 32:45
  Speaker 1: was shortly I got This is when I worked there,
• 32:47
  Speaker 1: when I was in college. I got fired like for
• 32:49
  Speaker 1: attendance and shit, and the bitch was to put her
• 32:52
  Speaker 1: titties on my back. The day they were coming to
• 32:54
  Speaker 1: fire me, I already knew I was fired. I got
• 32:57
  Speaker 1: into a fucking car accident and this is I couldn't
• 32:59
  Speaker 1: be late for work anymore. And they fired me after
• 33:02
  Speaker 1: for being late. And I kind of knew because I
• 33:05
  Speaker 1: was already on a pip, so I kind of knew
• 33:06
  Speaker 1: they were coming. And this is a gody.
• 33:10
  Speaker 2: God don't play they were coming another ways.
• 33:15
  Speaker 1: God don't play about me, because anytime somebody tried to
• 33:17
  Speaker 1: play with me and like on a real like some
• 33:20
  Speaker 1: shit be happening. What they asked.
• 33:22
  Speaker 2: I'll be looking at all the niggas that I gave
• 33:24
  Speaker 2: a shot and they did me real dirty. None of
• 33:26
  Speaker 2: them are having good luck. Yeah, they didn't have to
• 33:29
  Speaker 2: finger right, So.
• 33:32
  Speaker 1: I knew they were coming to fire me, right, So
• 33:36
  Speaker 1: I was like, oh, let me just gather myself. They
• 33:38
  Speaker 1: was like no, no, no, we just want to talk right quick.
• 33:41
  Speaker 1: So y'all take me in the hallway to tell me
• 33:42
  Speaker 1: I'm being fired to then walk me back in there
• 33:45
  Speaker 1: in front of everybody to get my stuff when I
• 33:47
  Speaker 1: was trying to get my shit initially.
• 33:49
  Speaker 2: Right.
• 33:50
  Speaker 1: Shortly thereafter, that bitch got fired for fucking in the office. Right,
• 33:54
  Speaker 1: good ugly ass, ugly white bitch with her titties on
• 33:58
  Speaker 1: my back right said he was a fine ass blonde bombshell.
• 34:03
  Speaker 2: Get you martle ass.
• 34:05
  Speaker 1: These is fifty year old women fifty at the time,
• 34:10
  Speaker 1: they still got a fuck is different.
• 34:13
  Speaker 2: Child, And it's for our listener who sitting in her
• 34:18
  Speaker 2: dumb bitch story. Don't fuck nobody else on the job.
• 34:22
  Speaker 2: It's too close on comfort.
• 34:24
  Speaker 1: It's too close. So get your new job.
• 34:27
  Speaker 2: Go, get your new job. Work nobody I wanted to
• 34:30
  Speaker 2: fuck on my job. The job work is always like
• 34:34
  Speaker 2: either women and gay men.
• 34:36
  Speaker 1: Yeah, like you do here so and you know, the
• 34:40
  Speaker 1: office life is like heavy rotation of new meat, especially
• 34:45
  Speaker 1: for the men. Usually a lot of women in the
• 34:47
  Speaker 1: office so for men like it's a great place to
• 34:49
  Speaker 1: be because you just got your pick of the litter.
• 34:52
  Speaker 1: But I used to always like, why fuck would you?
• 34:54
  Speaker 1: I know exactly how much money you make. No, I'm
• 34:59
  Speaker 1: not fucking you. I fuck with the boss, not you.
• 35:03
  Speaker 2: That all right? The next sturry, Hey, AJ and Tam.
• 35:10
  Speaker 2: I've been sick to my stomach for almost two weeks,
• 35:12
  Speaker 2: and I need somebody outside of my circle to tell
• 35:15
  Speaker 2: me if I'm over reacting. My best friend and I
• 35:18
  Speaker 2: have known each other since college. We've been friends for
• 35:21
  Speaker 2: almost fifteen years. About three years ago, we started a
• 35:25
  Speaker 2: business together. It took off way faster than we expected.
• 35:29
  Speaker 2: We split everything fifty to fifty and built this thing
• 35:31
  Speaker 2: from the ground up. I genuinely looked at her like
• 35:35
  Speaker 2: a sister. A couple of weeks ago, we hired a
• 35:37
  Speaker 2: new assistant. She's young, sweet and honest, and has become
• 35:41
  Speaker 2: cool with both of us well. One evening, she called
• 35:44
  Speaker 2: me after work, sounding nervous. She said, she said, I
• 35:48
  Speaker 2: don't know if if I should even be telling you this,
• 35:51
  Speaker 2: but if it were in your.
• 35:53
  Speaker 1: Shoe, but if I were, I'm sorry.
• 35:55
  Speaker 2: She said, I don't know if I should even be
• 35:57
  Speaker 2: telling you this. But if I were in your shoes,
• 36:00
  Speaker 2: I want to know. Apparently, while I was out of
• 36:03
  Speaker 2: town for a conference, my business partner had been talking
• 36:06
  Speaker 2: about me in the office. Not little stuff either. She
• 36:10
  Speaker 2: told the assistant that I'm lazy, that I only show
• 36:13
  Speaker 2: up for fun parts of the business, that she's real
• 36:16
  Speaker 2: reason we've been successful, and that without her I'd be
• 36:19
  Speaker 2: probably back working a regular nine to five. The assistant
• 36:22
  Speaker 2: said she didn't say anything because she didn't want to
• 36:26
  Speaker 2: get involved, but she felt guilty after hearing it for
• 36:29
  Speaker 2: almost a week. I honestly didn't believe her. I figure
• 36:32
  Speaker 2: maybe she misunderstood. Then she sent me voice recordings. Turns
• 36:37
  Speaker 2: out our own security cameras record audio. Tell when I
• 36:44
  Speaker 2: tell y'all, hearing your best friend talk about you and
• 36:46
  Speaker 2: her own voice will change you. She laughed about how
• 36:49
  Speaker 2: I think I'm the face of the company. She said,
• 36:51
  Speaker 2: I spend too much time trying to build my personal
• 36:54
  Speaker 2: brand while she's actually running the business. Then she said
• 36:57
  Speaker 2: something that hurt me more than anything. She said, if
• 37:00
  Speaker 2: she ever leaves, she'll realize nobody's coming for her. She'll
• 37:05
  Speaker 2: realized nobody's coming for her. They're coming for what we built.
• 37:09
  Speaker 2: I cried, what does that mean. I don't know. If
• 37:14
  Speaker 2: she ever leaves, she'll realize nobody's coming for her. Not
• 37:22
  Speaker 2: because I think she's right, but because I never knew
• 37:24
  Speaker 2: that's how she saw me. Here's the crazy part. The
• 37:27
  Speaker 2: very next morning, she came into the office with coffee
• 37:30
  Speaker 2: for both of us, hugged me and asked me about
• 37:32
  Speaker 2: my trip and told me she missed me. Dang, I said,
• 37:36
  Speaker 2: they're acting normal knowing what I heard. Now Here's why
• 37:40
  Speaker 2: I'm writing, y'all. Nobody knows I have those recordings. She
• 37:43
  Speaker 2: has no idea. A part of me wants to confront her,
• 37:47
  Speaker 2: part of me wants to quietly buy her out of
• 37:49
  Speaker 2: the business and never speak to her again. And another
• 37:52
  Speaker 2: part keeps me wondering has she always felt this way
• 37:56
  Speaker 2: or what she just venting after a stressful week? Would
• 38:00
  Speaker 2: y'all be able to forgive your best friend after hearing
• 38:02
  Speaker 2: something like this?
• 38:06
  Speaker 1: So you got two people in a business, and only
• 38:11
  Speaker 1: the people in the business understand the different aspects of
• 38:15
  Speaker 1: the business and nuance. Right, So if somebody's in an
• 38:20
  Speaker 1: office venting about their perspective and perception of what's been
• 38:25
  Speaker 1: transpiring in an office, the person who's hearing it she'ld consider,
• 38:31
  Speaker 1: and I really feel like, yeah, she was right for
• 38:33
  Speaker 1: telling the other person needs to confront the other person
• 38:40
  Speaker 1: for sure, and it's a conversation.
• 38:42
  Speaker 2: I think you should definitely talk to your business partner
• 38:48
  Speaker 2: because you said y'all were best friends, and y'all been
• 38:50
  Speaker 2: best friends for fifteen years, so you definitely should go
• 38:57
  Speaker 2: to her and find out why she's feeling the way
• 39:02
  Speaker 2: she feels about you and what y'all can do to
• 39:04
  Speaker 2: move forward, especially because you have y'all making money together
• 39:10
  Speaker 2: and y'all have a relationship.
• 39:13
  Speaker 1: But sometimes just like a a like a like a
• 39:18
  Speaker 1: romantic relationship, people stay together because of obligations a lot.
• 39:23
  Speaker 1: So if they didn't have those obligations, what they still
• 39:25
  Speaker 1: be together. So now you started a business with somebody,
• 39:29
  Speaker 1: you got all the things, and this can actually relate
• 39:31
  Speaker 1: to our business relationship, right, you got all the things together.
• 39:36
  Speaker 1: You can't it's not that easy to just walk away.
• 39:38
  Speaker 1: So sometimes all you can do is vent and talk shit.
• 39:42
  Speaker 1: That's all you can do, because what can you do
• 39:45
  Speaker 1: otherwise because things get really messy. We're courtshit, Okay, Now
• 39:51
  Speaker 1: somebody can buy out. That could be an option. I
• 39:54
  Speaker 1: actually have a Homegirl, her and her friend. They didn't
• 39:56
  Speaker 1: even get started with their business, and before they god started,
• 40:02
  Speaker 1: things already started looking crazy, like one person felt like
• 40:05
  Speaker 1: they was doing the most while this one was chilling,
• 40:08
  Speaker 1: and it really was. That's like, that's just again like
• 40:10
  Speaker 1: a romantic relationship, there's ebbs and flow, right, But if
• 40:14
  Speaker 1: you're in a situation where somebody is doing one hundred
• 40:17
  Speaker 1: percent of something, it shouldn't be one hundred percent. And
• 40:20
  Speaker 1: it's not going to ever be fifty to fifty either, right,
• 40:22
  Speaker 1: So if I'm doing seventy and you doing the thirty
• 40:25
  Speaker 1: right now, it should switch up at some point.
• 40:28
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I think, you know, and I think based on
• 40:30
  Speaker 2: even with us, you know, it will go back and forth,
• 40:34
  Speaker 2: you know. I feel like there's times where AJ has
• 40:38
  Speaker 2: been taking the brunt of the work, and then times
• 40:41
  Speaker 2: I feel like I was doing more, and then there
• 40:43
  Speaker 2: were times where we felt we would be very angry
• 40:46
  Speaker 2: with each other. I feel like we're in a better
• 40:48
  Speaker 2: place now. I mean, we six years in at this point,
• 40:52
  Speaker 2: as long as fuck, yeah, and so I can get it.
• 40:56
  Speaker 2: How shit can get rocky when it comes to friendship
• 40:59
  Speaker 2: and business, and it can be hard trying to navigate
• 41:03
  Speaker 2: both and remaining in both. It really can be very difficult.
• 41:08
  Speaker 1: But we had a whole episode about that, like remember
• 41:11
  Speaker 1: the guys, what's the guys from the pizza the pizza shop.
• 41:14
  Speaker 2: Oh, this just is a marriage. Yeah, and just like
• 41:20
  Speaker 2: people get divorced slim and husky, Yeah, just like people
• 41:24
  Speaker 2: get divorced in real life.
• 41:26
  Speaker 1: It's well not in real life and in romantic relationships.
• 41:30
  Speaker 1: Sometimes some businesses do run their course and there has
• 41:33
  Speaker 1: to be some type of some type of separation. So
• 41:37
  Speaker 1: I really feel like she was venting and it could
• 41:40
  Speaker 1: be true to her.
• 41:43
  Speaker 2: Right, So talk to her, you know, definitely talk to
• 41:50
  Speaker 2: her and see what's up.
• 41:54
  Speaker 1: Or buy her out or let her buy you out.
• 41:57
  Speaker 1: That's what I was getting at my homegirl. So her
• 41:59
  Speaker 1: friend and she really didn't. She wasn't trying to like
• 42:04
  Speaker 1: sell her portion of business. They hadn't really even started yet.
• 42:07
  Speaker 1: They had their initial investment like together in a pot,
• 42:11
  Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, And her friend had more
• 42:14
  Speaker 1: money than her, so her initial investment was higher. But
• 42:19
  Speaker 1: if we're friends and we're starting a business, that shit
• 42:21
  Speaker 1: shouldn't matter. So they both ended up walking away from
• 42:25
  Speaker 1: It's just up in the air now, ain't nobody doing
• 42:28
  Speaker 1: nothing but nothing at this point, it's just fucked up.
• 42:34
  Speaker 2: And I hate that through Yeah, especially if it's something
• 42:37
  Speaker 2: that you had that was good. But good luck to
• 42:41
  Speaker 2: you with that girlfriend, because I mean, business, friendship and
• 42:44
  Speaker 2: money is a slippery slope and it can get ugly
• 42:47
  Speaker 2: or it could be something very beautiful. So you just
• 42:49
  Speaker 2: have to discover how you want to navigate it and
• 42:53
  Speaker 2: move forward.
• 42:54
  Speaker 1: Hey, from my personal experience with a few different things,
• 42:58
  Speaker 1: starting businesses, doing different things, I suggest people don't even
• 43:01
  Speaker 1: do business with family or friends. I don't suggest it,
• 43:05
  Speaker 1: I actually suggest, and I don't know how you do
• 43:08
  Speaker 1: a thing by yourself or how you vet. You still
• 43:12
  Speaker 1: need to vet your family, You still need to vet
• 43:14
  Speaker 1: your friends to determine if this person would be a
• 43:17
  Speaker 1: good mate for this business. Because just because you have
• 43:20
  Speaker 1: a good friendship that does not translate into business. It
• 43:26
  Speaker 1: just doesn't agree. Everybody doesn't have the same work acumen
• 43:31
  Speaker 1: or business acumen. Everybody doesn't have the same work ethic.
• 43:34
  Speaker 1: You know, you just got to know your strength, that
• 43:36
  Speaker 1: person strength, everybody's strength and weaknesses. You got to work together,
• 43:41
  Speaker 1: and you got to be able to communicate and excuse me,
• 43:44
  Speaker 1: not even communicate comprehend. And I feel like in any relationship,
• 43:49
  Speaker 1: if you are no longer comprehending what that person is saying,
• 43:54
  Speaker 1: and they're not comprehending what you're saying, that is really
• 43:57
  Speaker 1: the end of a relationship, because y'all not listening to
• 43:59
  Speaker 1: each other no more. So this, I mean, could it
• 44:03
  Speaker 1: could be that she has talked to her about something before.
• 44:06
  Speaker 2: M h, but she said, I mean, she was surprised
• 44:11
  Speaker 2: to hear it. You know, hear the audio and hear
• 44:14
  Speaker 2: her say these things. So maybe she hasn't, you know,
• 44:18
  Speaker 2: like or maybe you just didn't hear her when she
• 44:21
  Speaker 2: was saying. It's trying to express the well, good luck
• 44:26
  Speaker 2: to your girlfriend. Right, it's in and tell us because
• 44:28
  Speaker 2: it's old too, y'all still got the business. Listen, all right,
• 44:42
  Speaker 2: let me see what we got. This is the last one, y'all.
• 44:44
  Speaker 2: Where we at, We're round on the dot. Let's go
• 44:46
  Speaker 2: all right, y'all, this is the last one.
• 44:48
  Speaker 1: Okay. It says, please keep me anonymous, because if anybody
• 44:54
  Speaker 1: in my life here is this, they're going to know
• 44:55
  Speaker 1: as me. I need advice because I genuinely don't know
• 45:02
  Speaker 1: what's wrong with me. I'm thirty two years old. And
• 45:05
  Speaker 1: I've always dated men. I've never questioned my sexuality, never
• 45:10
  Speaker 1: had a question a woman, never been kissed, never even
• 45:13
  Speaker 1: kissed one. If somebody would have asked me six months
• 45:16
  Speaker 1: ago if I was gay, I would have laughed, Oh shit.
• 45:20
  Speaker 1: Three years ago, I met this girl through work and
• 45:22
  Speaker 1: we instantly became best friends. We're together all the time.
• 45:27
  Speaker 1: We text from We text from the moment we wake
• 45:30
  Speaker 1: up until we go to sleep. We travel together. People
• 45:35
  Speaker 1: always joke that we're an old married couple. I never
• 45:38
  Speaker 1: thought anything about it because that's my best friend. A
• 45:41
  Speaker 1: few months ago, she started dating this guy. At first,
• 45:45
  Speaker 1: I was happy for her, and then I started noticing
• 45:47
  Speaker 1: how irritated I was every time she talked about him.
• 45:50
  Speaker 1: Oh shit, Well, she'd cancel plans because she was with him.
• 45:55
  Speaker 1: I'd be in a bad mood the rest of the day.
• 45:58
  Speaker 1: If she didn't answer my text but posted that she
• 46:01
  Speaker 1: was out with him, I'd feel sick to my stomach.
• 46:04
  Speaker 1: I kept telling myself I was just being a jealous friend.
• 46:07
  Speaker 1: Then one night we were on vacation together. We had
• 46:10
  Speaker 1: gone out, had a couple of drinks, and got back
• 46:13
  Speaker 1: to the hotel. Wait what Oh, they was on vacation together.
• 46:18
  Speaker 1: She fell asleep on my shoulder while we were watching TV. Girl,
• 46:21
  Speaker 1: what bitch? I never fell asleep with my friends shoulder
• 46:24
  Speaker 1: unless we've been on the airplane together.
• 46:28
  Speaker 2: My friends shoulder.
• 46:30
  Speaker 1: While watching TV.
• 46:32
  Speaker 2: Mm hmm, y'all gay, gay, right, you wanna lay on
• 46:37
  Speaker 2: your sister's shoulder? Yes?
• 46:41
  Speaker 1: I would, Yeah, I mean, but I haven't in a
• 46:43
  Speaker 1: long time, not as an adult for real. I don't know,
• 46:46
  Speaker 1: all right.
• 46:49
  Speaker 2: I feel like that's where the story is handed.
• 46:51
  Speaker 1: Exactly, y'all, gay, Remember a little episode of them girls,
• 46:55
  Speaker 1: your friends' kids. She was like, Mama's be gay, all right.
• 47:01
  Speaker 1: So we had gone out, I had a few drinks
• 47:03
  Speaker 1: and got back to the hotel. She fell asleep on
• 47:05
  Speaker 1: my shoulder while we were watching TV. I wanted to
• 47:09
  Speaker 1: kiss her, y'all, Not because I was drunk, but because
• 47:11
  Speaker 1: I was curious, because I wanted to. I said that exactly.
• 47:16
  Speaker 1: I sat there for almost an hour trying to figure
• 47:18
  Speaker 1: out what was wrong with me. Since then, it's only
• 47:21
  Speaker 1: getting worse. When she hugs me, my heart races. When
• 47:24
  Speaker 1: she tells me she loves me, I have to remind
• 47:26
  Speaker 1: myself she means as a friend. I catch myself wondering
• 47:30
  Speaker 1: what I'd be like, would it would be like if
• 47:32
  Speaker 1: she looked at me the way she looks at her boyfriend.
• 47:37
  Speaker 1: The crazy part is I don't even think I'm attracted
• 47:39
  Speaker 1: to women. I'm attracted to her. I've never looked at
• 47:43
  Speaker 1: another woman like this. I've even tried going on double
• 47:47
  Speaker 1: dates with men, hoping these feelings will go away, But
• 47:50
  Speaker 1: all I do is compare them to her. She must
• 47:53
  Speaker 1: have got some masculine ass energy, because what she has
• 47:59
  Speaker 1: apps no idea. She tells me everything about her relationship,
• 48:03
  Speaker 1: ask me for dating advice, and keep saying she can't
• 48:06
  Speaker 1: wait for me to find my person because then we'll
• 48:09
  Speaker 1: both be in a relationship together. Every time she says it,
• 48:13
  Speaker 1: I feel like my heart breaks a little. I would
• 48:16
  Speaker 1: never tell her how I feel because she's straight, and
• 48:19
  Speaker 1: I would never want to make her uncomfortable to risk
• 48:21
  Speaker 1: losing her losing our friendship. But I also don't know
• 48:24
  Speaker 1: how to keep pretending I'm okay when every conversation feels
• 48:28
  Speaker 1: like I'm secretly grieving something I never had. So my
• 48:32
  Speaker 1: question is, do y'all think it's possible to fall in
• 48:35
  Speaker 1: love with one person without changing your entire sexuality or
• 48:40
  Speaker 1: have a been lying to myself about who I am
• 48:42
  Speaker 1: the whole time. And if you were me, would you
• 48:46
  Speaker 1: tell your best friend the truth? Or would you take
• 48:48
  Speaker 1: the secret to your grave? Girl, I'm not you.
• 48:51
  Speaker 2: I don't know, bitch. That was too much. Girl?
• 48:57
  Speaker 1: What weird?
• 49:00
  Speaker 2: Like?
• 49:00
  Speaker 1: So I wonder if, like does her friend have like.
• 49:03
  Speaker 2: Like, it's not weird, She's not weird.
• 49:05
  Speaker 1: She's just when I say weird, it's not like real weird,
• 49:08
  Speaker 1: you know what I mean? Like, I don't mean I'm
• 49:10
  Speaker 1: not calling her like she's a weirdo. That's not what
• 49:13
  Speaker 1: I'm saying. I'm just like, how does that happen? Though?
• 49:16
  Speaker 2: Yeah? Because the weird part is like you never being
• 49:22
  Speaker 2: gay and then fall in love with this female friend
• 49:27
  Speaker 2: but not ever liking any other women, just in love
• 49:30
  Speaker 2: with her. What do why? I don't know. I've never
• 49:34
  Speaker 2: had to happen because I love my friends, but I
• 49:36
  Speaker 2: ain't never want to lie smash them, they take them down.
• 49:42
  Speaker 1: So I wonder how they start, Like, how does how
• 49:45
  Speaker 1: does the relationship start? I have met, you know, females
• 49:49
  Speaker 1: women friends in my adult life, right like my home
• 49:52
  Speaker 1: girl Ryan. She was the first person I met when
• 49:54
  Speaker 1: I moved to Saint Louis. I literally met this bitch
• 49:56
  Speaker 1: in the club and got her phone number, Like I
• 49:58
  Speaker 1: don't I can't even remember how we started talking. I
• 50:00
  Speaker 1: was in there with my homegirl who came to visit
• 50:03
  Speaker 1: me from out of town, and I can't even remember
• 50:06
  Speaker 1: how we ended up exchanging numbers. Girls shut up, And
• 50:09
  Speaker 1: she's a gemini, so that's probably it was just an
• 50:11
  Speaker 1: energy thing. Her birthday a few days after mine, and
• 50:15
  Speaker 1: she was the first person with a first female I
• 50:17
  Speaker 1: met in Saint Louis and then I, you know, met
• 50:19
  Speaker 1: other women through her. But yeah, we met in the
• 50:23
  Speaker 1: fucking club and I'm like, yeah, I just moved here
• 50:26
  Speaker 1: that I don't know nobody. Girl give me a number,
• 50:28
  Speaker 1: Like I don't have a problem making friends new friends,
• 50:33
  Speaker 1: but to then like meet some I'm giving this an example,
• 50:37
  Speaker 1: like you meet a person organically in that way, and
• 50:41
  Speaker 1: then conversation with this person then turns into you like
• 50:45
  Speaker 1: liking them intimately. And it's the same sex.
• 50:47
  Speaker 2: That she had.
• 50:50
  Speaker 1: I always feel like people had to have you have
• 50:53
  Speaker 1: to already be having these feelings, maybe not for her,
• 50:57
  Speaker 1: but like some type of homo eroticism and homo erotic
• 51:01
  Speaker 1: like feelings about the same sex, she said.
• 51:04
  Speaker 2: She said if you would have asked her six months ago,
• 51:06
  Speaker 2: she would have told you no.
• 51:10
  Speaker 1: That's because maybe she wasn't being honest even when she
• 51:13
  Speaker 1: said no. Because maybe that's why I always say people
• 51:15
  Speaker 1: be gay to mind m they just have Yeah, they
• 51:19
  Speaker 1: haven't been in the like the situation or the it
• 51:23
  Speaker 1: just hasn't come up for them to actually act on it.
• 51:26
  Speaker 1: I remember this girl who I was in high school with.
• 51:29
  Speaker 1: Hey girl, she always be telling my best friend how
• 51:34
  Speaker 1: I actually always knew I was gay because I remember
• 51:37
  Speaker 1: we were sitting at the fucking lunch tatem when she
• 51:39
  Speaker 1: was looking at me. I'm like, bitch, you a dyke,
• 51:41
  Speaker 1: like just fucking with her, but yes, whole time, whole
• 51:44
  Speaker 1: time because I could feel her energy when she looked
• 51:48
  Speaker 1: at me, and it felt like how a man looks
• 51:50
  Speaker 1: at me. I could feel her. I could feel that
• 51:54
  Speaker 1: masculine energy off of her. So that's why I'm like,
• 51:56
  Speaker 1: maybe her friend has some masculine energy. But so I
• 52:00
  Speaker 1: guess some gay women are attracted to femininity, right, so
• 52:03
  Speaker 1: not even but maybe she's the one. Maybe she's the
• 52:06
  Speaker 1: more masculine one in her friend is like the super
• 52:08
  Speaker 1: feminine woman and that's what she's attracted to maybe.
• 52:14
  Speaker 2: I don't know. I need to see these bitches.
• 52:16
  Speaker 1: Me too, right, and we need illustration, Hey girl ask
• 52:21
  Speaker 1: such and such. Can you please send us some illustration
• 52:25
  Speaker 1: we used to see?
• 52:26
  Speaker 2: How y'all look?
• 52:26
  Speaker 1: Because best friend pat your battye?
• 52:30
  Speaker 2: So would you tell her or would you take it
• 52:31
  Speaker 2: to the grave? I would never tell her. I would
• 52:34
  Speaker 2: never tell Sally.
• 52:35
  Speaker 1: She might have to stop being that girlfriend, man, because
• 52:37
  Speaker 1: you're not be honest with yourself or her and then
• 52:40
  Speaker 1: it's breaking your heart.
• 52:42
  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, you're killing yourself.
• 52:44
  Speaker 1: Is that not how fatal attraction shit starts?
• 52:47
  Speaker 2: I don't know, but I had some homegirls. Well I
• 52:50
  Speaker 2: feel like their best friend was gay for them because
• 52:53
  Speaker 2: once they're getting for them, yeah, like they start being
• 52:56
  Speaker 2: mad and mean to them and stuff like that. I've
• 52:58
  Speaker 2: seen that happen to at least two women that I know,
• 53:00
  Speaker 2: Like they would be with their female friend all the time,
• 53:03
  Speaker 2: and when they got a man and they start sharing
• 53:05
  Speaker 2: their time with their man, the other female friend would
• 53:09
  Speaker 2: be acting like all crazy, like trying to start fights
• 53:12
  Speaker 2: with the nigga and stuff like that.
• 53:14
  Speaker 1: Y'all. This has happened to me in real life, now
• 53:17
  Speaker 1: that I think about it. I had a friend I
• 53:21
  Speaker 1: had a friend and we are stole like we like
• 53:24
  Speaker 1: family because we grew up together from real young but
• 53:28
  Speaker 1: some super weird shit transpired in our like early twenties
• 53:35
  Speaker 1: that she never gave me a good enough explanation for now,
• 53:41
  Speaker 1: I got a boyfriend. My boyfriend knows her too at
• 53:44
  Speaker 1: the time, right, we all know each other. And again,
• 53:48
  Speaker 1: this is a friend from elementary damn near, I'm listening somebody.
• 53:55
  Speaker 1: I never checked my voicemails. It'd be months before I
• 53:57
  Speaker 1: check my voicemails. I check my voice and I'm like,
• 54:01
  Speaker 1: I'm listening. It's somebody fucking on my voicemail. Is somebody
• 54:05
  Speaker 1: physically fucking or getting a pussy eight on my voicemail?
• 54:08
  Speaker 1: Is what I was hearing. So I kept playing it,
• 54:11
  Speaker 1: kept playing it, kept playing, Like is that so and so?
• 54:16
  Speaker 2: So?
• 54:16
  Speaker 1: I lit my boyfriend here it because he knows this
• 54:20
  Speaker 1: person very well. They are actually family. I just go ahead,
• 54:23
  Speaker 1: go ahead and throw that in there. So I said,
• 54:25
  Speaker 1: listen to this. Does that sound like so and So?
• 54:29
  Speaker 1: He was like, Yeah, that's that, that's her ass, that's her.
• 54:33
  Speaker 2: Sure it sounds like his cousin. You. I wouldn't want
• 54:36
  Speaker 2: to hear my cousin.
• 54:38
  Speaker 1: Needed somebody to see, like I needed somebody to confirm
• 54:41
  Speaker 1: that I'm not crazy. And on the thing, she like, hey,
• 54:45
  Speaker 1: head talk to her, and she said, you want to
• 54:47
  Speaker 1: talk to her, talk to her. This is what she's saying.
• 54:51
  Speaker 1: So when I called to confront her about it, because
• 54:53
  Speaker 1: I ain't up texting bitch now, I'm gonna call you.
• 54:56
  Speaker 1: So when I call asked her about it, you know
• 54:58
  Speaker 1: what her explanation wants. This is now twenty years ago.
• 55:02
  Speaker 1: At this point fifteen years ago, she said, you would understand.
• 55:08
  Speaker 1: I'm like, what would I not understand? Like, can you
• 55:11
  Speaker 1: explain to me why you're fucking on my voicemail? Ma'am?
• 55:14
  Speaker 1: She told me I would never understand, and I still don't.
• 55:21
  Speaker 2: But you're right now.
• 55:22
  Speaker 1: I was like, to me, I would never understand, and
• 55:25
  Speaker 1: she never explained to me. She never denied that being
• 55:28
  Speaker 1: her telling me.
• 55:29
  Speaker 2: She fucking one of your niggas on there? Or was she?
• 55:32
  Speaker 1: I haven't known. I thought I think she was fucking
• 55:34
  Speaker 1: her nigga on it. Because the weird thing is I
• 55:37
  Speaker 1: had just seen them like at the grocery store, like together.
• 55:41
  Speaker 1: I don't know if they was like married at the time.
• 55:43
  Speaker 1: These people are so together too. I don't know if
• 55:45
  Speaker 1: they was married at a time or not, but I
• 55:48
  Speaker 1: remember seeing them like a few weeks prior, So in
• 55:52
  Speaker 1: my mind, I'm thinking maybe her nigga might have said
• 55:54
  Speaker 1: some little slick shit, you know what I'm saying, Like,
• 55:56
  Speaker 1: you got some men who'll be trying to play with
• 55:57
  Speaker 1: their women self esteem been a bad bit since we
• 56:01
  Speaker 1: was kids, Okay. I don't feel like the nigga she
• 56:04
  Speaker 1: married to deserves her, Okay, So maybe he was fucking
• 56:10
  Speaker 1: with her, like like you you see me, right, you
• 56:13
  Speaker 1: with your girl, my friend? You see me out. Maybe
• 56:17
  Speaker 1: he said something to her and that's why she's saying hey,
• 56:20
  Speaker 1: and she said, you want to talk to her, talk
• 56:21
  Speaker 1: to her, talk to her. Why he eating that pussy
• 56:22
  Speaker 1: on my voicemail that happened in real life. So I
• 56:29
  Speaker 1: don't know if she wanted me. I don't know, because
• 56:32
  Speaker 1: there's not a layer to this shit that I won't
• 56:35
  Speaker 1: even get into it, because I mean, no, I just
• 56:38
  Speaker 1: can't you know. But yeah, so I don't know. I
• 56:41
  Speaker 1: don't know if she was I don't know what the
• 56:43
  Speaker 1: fuck that was about. And like she said, I will
• 56:45
  Speaker 1: never understand, and I still fucking don't bitch because I.
• 56:49
  Speaker 2: Wouldn't been like, help me understand.
• 56:51
  Speaker 1: I said that. I said that, I said, I said
• 56:54
  Speaker 1: all right, I said, okay, we just got off the phone.
• 56:56
  Speaker 1: But I definitely said, well, help me understand, Like, what
• 56:58
  Speaker 1: the fuck that's you though?
• 56:59
  Speaker 2: Right?
• 57:00
  Speaker 1: She just said you won't understand, and I had this
• 57:05
  Speaker 1: little piece. I have heard about her fucking with girls before.
• 57:10
  Speaker 1: She has never said that to me. Left that lay out,
• 57:13
  Speaker 1: this is year, this is still now years after this point, right,
• 57:17
  Speaker 1: So then when I heard that, it wasn't even years after.
• 57:20
  Speaker 1: It might have been like a year or two after.
• 57:22
  Speaker 1: That then made me think about the voicemail.
• 57:26
  Speaker 2: Like she probably drunk too when she did it. And
• 57:28
  Speaker 2: then she was shame when you.
• 57:29
  Speaker 1: Call her girl, I don't know what the fuck, but
• 57:35
  Speaker 1: get off my voicemail, bitch with this shit, and I
• 57:38
  Speaker 1: don't want your nigga. I can't hear you be muted.
• 57:51
  Speaker 2: Damn you hear me say nothing?
• 57:52
  Speaker 1: Not just now you said what?
• 57:53
  Speaker 2: No, we ain't offered this lady, no advice though, girl, my.
• 58:00
  Speaker 1: Bad, Like I don't forgot that got there? What the oh? No, yeah,
• 58:08
  Speaker 1: you gotta girl, you gotta get out of there, because
• 58:13
  Speaker 1: if it's I did kind of right, if it's breaking
• 58:16
  Speaker 1: your heart. Does Stow have to deal with this person
• 58:21
  Speaker 1: in any capacity, in the friendship capacity, and you know
• 58:23
  Speaker 1: you're actually in love with her, and you want to
• 58:25
  Speaker 1: see if something is actually there. You need to be
• 58:29
  Speaker 1: honest with yourself and possibly with her, or maybe at
• 58:31
  Speaker 1: least be honest with yourself so you can get out
• 58:33
  Speaker 1: the friendship or maybe change your mind about the friendship.
• 58:37
  Speaker 1: Because this just doesn't sound good.
• 58:39
  Speaker 2: But I don't think like she because how would you
• 58:41
  Speaker 2: dissolve the friendship without you know, outing yourself.
• 58:47
  Speaker 1: You just start being a bitch and acting like that
• 58:51
  Speaker 1: person did something to you. That's what people usually do
• 58:53
  Speaker 1: instead of actually discussing actual problem. Just create some shit
• 58:58
  Speaker 1: out of thin air. I don't know how else she
• 59:01
  Speaker 1: would be able to, or she could just, I don't know,
• 59:04
  Speaker 1: just slowly start not communicating. I don't know how people.
• 59:09
  Speaker 1: I just always think that type of energy is weird anyway.
• 59:12
  Speaker 2: I kind of think, what would I do if I
• 59:13
  Speaker 2: fell in love with one of my homegirls? Yeah, no,
• 59:17
  Speaker 2: shade y'all. I love y'all beautiful people, But I just
• 59:21
  Speaker 2: I know where that puss have been at. I know
• 59:24
  Speaker 2: where the body's at. Yeah, all the bodies.
• 59:29
  Speaker 1: Damn, that's how you do your friends.
• 59:33
  Speaker 2: Yeah, but you know, you're just not that they have
• 59:35
  Speaker 2: like bad guys, but you just know, right, you don't
• 59:38
  Speaker 2: need to know all the sexual partners of the next persh. Yeah, yeah,
• 59:42
  Speaker 2: you know, Like so I it.
• 59:44
  Speaker 1: Is kind of different because you're putting your Yeah, it's.
• 59:47
  Speaker 2: A lot going on, and I don't need to know.
• 59:49
  Speaker 2: I already know where that thing being, you know, So
• 59:51
  Speaker 2: it's just kind of weird.
• 59:54
  Speaker 1: But so you can have high mileage, I just can't
• 59:58
  Speaker 1: know who's been driving.
• 59:59
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I just don't know they got his owners. Yeah.
• 1:00:06
  Speaker 2: Oh no, that's so difficult one for me because I
• 1:00:09
  Speaker 2: don't because I love them. I don't want to lose
• 1:00:11
  Speaker 2: my best friend, right, I don't want to lose my
• 1:00:13
  Speaker 2: best friend because we have a beautiful relationship. But I
• 1:00:16
  Speaker 2: also don't want to keep breaking my heart every day
• 1:00:19
  Speaker 2: knowing that I'm romantically in love with my friend.
• 1:00:22
  Speaker 1: That's not your friend. You that's not at this point,
• 1:00:27
  Speaker 1: that's your lover in your mind, You're not that's not
• 1:00:29
  Speaker 1: your friend, because how do you fall in love with
• 1:00:32
  Speaker 1: your friend that was never your friend?
• 1:00:34
  Speaker 2: But shouldn't everybody you fall in love be your friend first?
• 1:00:39
  Speaker 1: We like to say that, right, But don't you feel
• 1:00:42
  Speaker 1: so betrayed by these niggas when they don't When they
• 1:00:44
  Speaker 1: do you terrible. They do shit that your friend would
• 1:00:46
  Speaker 1: never do. Right, they're really a boyfriend, that's it. They're
• 1:00:51
  Speaker 1: like a significant other. They're not really a friend per se.
• 1:00:56
  Speaker 2: Right, But I do think that you should explore sexuality
• 1:01:00
  Speaker 2: more and get to know who you are, because you're
• 1:01:03
  Speaker 2: saying like you're not gay, but yes you are.
• 1:01:07
  Speaker 1: Really you gain't a mind, you no gay shit yet?
• 1:01:12
  Speaker 1: She just like her friend right now.
• 1:01:14
  Speaker 2: But I mean, maybe you need to explore that, but
• 1:01:16
  Speaker 2: not with your friend. Maybe you need to just explore
• 1:01:19
  Speaker 2: who you are right now and kind of take your
• 1:01:22
  Speaker 2: friend out of the question. Because you said she got
• 1:01:24
  Speaker 2: a man, so why you even try to fuck that up? Right?
• 1:01:30
  Speaker 2: She got a new boo, so she's not. I think
• 1:01:33
  Speaker 2: if she was romantically into you, she wouldn't have got that. Nigga,
• 1:01:36
  Speaker 2: y'all haven't been on all these vacations. Girls be eating
• 1:01:39
  Speaker 2: each other Couchi's on vacations all the time.
• 1:01:40
  Speaker 1: Put that rumor out there because the niggas already think
• 1:01:42
  Speaker 1: that's what be happening on all girls' trips, and really
• 1:01:45
  Speaker 1: they's getting fucked on the canoe in Jamaica by something
• 1:01:48
  Speaker 1: dom Maybe you're going to trash bag huh, I said, Really,
• 1:01:52
  Speaker 1: the bitches be getting fucked on them canoes by random
• 1:01:56
  Speaker 1: niggas with grocery bags on they dick. Did you see
• 1:01:59
  Speaker 1: that video.
• 1:02:00
  Speaker 2: That only happened one time? That story out there, I'd
• 1:02:05
  Speaker 2: be seeing some trash bag six.
• 1:02:08
  Speaker 1: And they wear glasses too. They usually school teachers is.
• 1:02:11
  Speaker 2: Going to the grill and wild out in Jamaica. Yeah,
• 1:02:15
  Speaker 2: but ehd recipient, grocery bag on your on your dicky
• 1:02:19
  Speaker 2: and somebody's next level. I ain't never want to know.
• 1:02:24
  Speaker 1: The nigga eat my pussy was some ran rap one
• 1:02:26
  Speaker 1: time when I was in my twenties.
• 1:02:27
  Speaker 2: Well that's a dental damn basically.
• 1:02:30
  Speaker 1: But I'm like, I'm good, okay, if you got to listen,
• 1:02:33
  Speaker 1: I like rawm out, I'm sorry.
• 1:02:36
  Speaker 2: Yeah, to get that get that plastic autolay.
• 1:02:43
  Speaker 1: Now, I gotta be like a nigga who's trying to
• 1:02:45
  Speaker 1: slide raw dicken. I gotta try to sign rock pussy
• 1:02:48
  Speaker 1: in his face, like you gotta curhearse the nigga into
• 1:02:54
  Speaker 1: eating his pussy, Like just leave me the fuck alone.
• 1:02:56
  Speaker 1: Did you play entirely too much. I don't even want
• 1:02:59
  Speaker 1: the head. No, well, keep that bag ahead. What they say,
• 1:03:07
  Speaker 1: the plastic produced because it's supposed to be hot, so
• 1:03:09
  Speaker 1: when the pussy heat up. Now you got all these environmental,
• 1:03:14
  Speaker 1: non degradable plastic ship going right, head for me, please
• 1:03:22
  Speaker 1: please rock had me.
• 1:03:25
  Speaker 2: I don't know how we got here, but here we are.
• 1:03:29
  Speaker 1: Girl, Get out of there, girl, get out of there?
• 1:03:33
  Speaker 2: All right? I think that ship for our dumbitch story,
• 1:03:36
  Speaker 2: the dumb bitch fowls. Mm hmm, you broke your fingernail.
• 1:03:46
  Speaker 1: No, all right, y'all, alright, move Dasha. All right, y'all.
• 1:03:51
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• 1:04:03
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• 1:04:06
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• 1:04:09
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• 1:04:10
  Speaker 2: To read, get the audio, find a way to get audio,
• 1:04:15
  Speaker 2: or just have people call and during filming, because I
• 1:04:18
  Speaker 2: know y'all be tired of typing all that shit, and
• 1:04:20
  Speaker 2: that's probably why, you know, we probably would have more
• 1:04:23
  Speaker 2: if people could just talk.
• 1:04:25
  Speaker 1: But they will audio only give them like thirty thirty
• 1:04:28
  Speaker 1: three minutes. Yeah, I'll still be talking too long. Ando,
• 1:04:31
  Speaker 1: Like girl, they talking to us like we on the
• 1:04:33
  Speaker 1: phone with them.
• 1:04:34
  Speaker 2: Yeah, but I love it.
• 1:04:36
  Speaker 1: I got a call back a couple of times. Yeah,
• 1:04:38
  Speaker 1: we're gonna figure it out.
• 1:04:41
  Speaker 2: Kick it tam all right, y'all. I love y'all so much.
• 1:04:44
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• 1:04:48
  Speaker 2: speak now.
• 1:04:51
  Speaker 1: And never hold your dumb bitchism.
• 1:04:55
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• 1:04:57
  Speaker 2: once or twice.
• 1:04:59
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