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Craziest Birthday NIGHTMARES...With Updates · The conspiracy

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Speaker 1: Guys, it's my birthday today. Well, the day I'm filming this,
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Speaker 1: not the day that this is posted. But I'm thirty.
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Speaker 1: I am thirty years old, and I'm gonna need you
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Speaker 1: to be so for real with me right now? Do
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Speaker 1: I look thirty? Do not be honest in the composes?
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Speaker 1: I feel good? Look at this? Look at a thirty
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Speaker 1: year old? Do this? Yeah, I still got it. Dance
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Speaker 1: party by its partyday. She doesn't like to dance that much.
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Speaker 1: Forty true, but you look fantastic today. I might look
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Speaker 1: like a wrinkly old hag, but you look fantastic. Skin.
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Speaker 1: Thirty is not that old. When I tell like young
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Speaker 1: twenty somethings that I'm now thirty, they're like, ah, you
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Speaker 1: do not look thirty, as if thirty was like ninety
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Speaker 1: years old. Give us a break. Okay, thirty is the
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Speaker 1: new twenty. Anyway, today it's my birthday. I kind of
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Speaker 1: just wanted to relax and just film something, you know,
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Speaker 1: just kind of fun, read some tea, and then I'm
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Speaker 1: gonna go eat some cake, you know, maybe paint a
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Speaker 1: picture and hang out with my husband. So let's do that.
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Speaker 1: Let's read some Reddit, all right. Naturally, we're going to
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Speaker 1: do birthday theme Reddit stories. Okay with updates, so stay tuned.
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Speaker 1: Let's read first s up we have my friend's boyfriend
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Speaker 1: gave me an inappropriately expensive gift for my birthday. Ooh,
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Speaker 1: the drama is thick today. Just how I I get
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Speaker 1: on my birthday? Let's go. Hey everyone, last week I
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Speaker 1: celebrated my birthday with my friend group. We're all fairly
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Speaker 1: close and whilst we've never discussed present slash gifts explicitly,
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Speaker 1: we all kind of naturally fell into an unspoken pattern
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Speaker 1: around what kind of birthday gifts we give to each other.
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Speaker 1: We do gifts, but they're usually in the ten to
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Speaker 1: forty euro range. Think things like a book about your
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Speaker 1: first theater ticket, maybe a nice bottle of wine. That's
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Speaker 1: us A good, good budget for a friend gift. I
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Speaker 1: feel like that's nice, that kind of stuff. We're all
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Speaker 1: young professionals or grad students and that just fits our
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Speaker 1: general income level fair enough. A good friend of mine
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Speaker 1: brought her boyfriend to the party and he gave me
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Speaker 1: a gift of his own, separate from my friends. Do
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Speaker 1: you know this man or did he just come into
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Speaker 1: this not knowing what the budget was and all that
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Speaker 1: because these are two different things. I'll keep reading. I'll
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Speaker 1: shut up. Sorry, it's my birthday. Don't get mad at me. Okay.
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Speaker 1: Without going into too much detail, it was a small
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Speaker 1: object that had a very thoughtful connection to a trip
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Speaker 1: I took in winter. I was genuinely very thankful for
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Speaker 1: the gift and thought it was lovely. He gave you
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Speaker 1: a sentimental gift. Okay, so he loves you. However, when
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Speaker 1: I unpacked the item at home, something about it just
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Speaker 1: caught my eye. Certain parts of the item that I
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Speaker 1: would have expected to be made of glass didn't look
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Speaker 1: like glass. I ended up googling the maker's mark on
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Speaker 1: the bottom and found the exact same item online for
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Speaker 1: the price of seven hundred and fifty euros. Okay, he's
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Speaker 1: either rich rich or he literally wants to have babies
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Speaker 1: with you. I think now, it'd be one thing if
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Speaker 1: this guy was a trust fund kid he's not, okay,
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Speaker 1: for whom that kind of money was just peanuts. I'd
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Speaker 1: still feel uncomfortable, but at least there'd be some logic
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Speaker 1: to this then. But my friend's relationship with this guy
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Speaker 1: already has massive problems, largely centered around him being under
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Speaker 1: employed and making her pick up the tab for their
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Speaker 1: shared lifestyle to an undue degree. Oh my god. If
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Speaker 1: I was the girlfriend, I'd be so upsited. This is crazy.
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Speaker 1: I'm scared. We honestly all expect the relationship to fizzle
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Speaker 1: out soon because they obviously aren't compatible in some key aspects.
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Speaker 1: So now I've got this seven hundred and fifty euro
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Speaker 1: item on my shelf and I have no clue how
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Speaker 1: to handle this. It feels extremely inappropriate to have this thing.
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Speaker 1: I feel uncomfortable accepting the sort of gift from almost
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Speaker 1: anyone I know, But the fact that it's a a
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Speaker 1: friend's romantic partner. I'm gay and her boyfriend knows, but
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Speaker 1: still the block twist. The blocks be said friend has
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Speaker 1: issues with her partner's handling of this finances just makes
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Speaker 1: it even worse. It's also a highly specific item that
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Speaker 1: I don't think he'd be likely to just have, so
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Speaker 1: I'm pretty certain he must have bought this for an
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Speaker 1: occasion and must be aware of its value. What do
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Speaker 1: I do? My friend seems to be totally unaware of
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Speaker 1: the value of this item, and do I tell her?
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Speaker 1: Do I contact the boyfriend and ask him what the
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Speaker 1: he was thinking? How would you handle this, wow, ignore it.
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Speaker 1: So if you don't love this person, also sounds like
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Speaker 1: you're not into his variety, his vintage, then truthfully, if
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Speaker 1: it's your friend, I would definitely tell a friend and
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Speaker 1: be like yo, like I know, like they're probably gonna
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Speaker 1: break up already. This might be the cherry on the cake.
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Speaker 1: I would definitely say something and be like this is
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Speaker 1: way too expensive and just present it like that, like
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Speaker 1: are you aware that this is like seven hundred and
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Speaker 1: fifty dollars like I can't accept this, or like no, actually,
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Speaker 1: don't say that because you need to keep that and
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Speaker 1: you could do whatever you want with it. It was a gift.
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Speaker 1: Just be like this was a really expensive gift, like
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Speaker 1: am I missing something? And then she can do with that,
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Speaker 1: which she will, and then you saw it on Facebook
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Speaker 1: marketplace unless you actually like it and want to keep it.
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Speaker 1: But I'd be going to get something else. Take yourself
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Speaker 1: out to a real nice steak dinner. Yeah, I would.
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Speaker 1: I would definitely tell a friend. All jokes aside, let's
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Speaker 1: see what the comment said. I'd bring it up with
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Speaker 1: the friend. Okay, there's a chance that he got a
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Speaker 1: really really good deal or even a decent knockoff at
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Speaker 1: a lower price, but honestly, if he's bad with money,
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Speaker 1: even something half that price would be pretty inappropriate. Talk
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Speaker 1: to your friend and offer to return the gift. Now,
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Speaker 1: that's probably the right thing to do if it turns
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Speaker 1: out to have cost as much as you suspect it did.
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Speaker 1: Let them know you are incredibly grateful for his thoughtfulness,
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Speaker 1: but it wouldn't feel right accepting such a lavish gift,
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Speaker 1: and that their company and friendship is all that you
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Speaker 1: ask for. Just be honest about how you feel and
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Speaker 1: let your friend decide how she wants to proceed. Yeah,
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Speaker 1: I wouldn't. I mean, I guess you can involve him.
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Speaker 1: I don't really know what your relationship is like with him.
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Speaker 1: It sounds like he's like a part of the friend group,
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Speaker 1: but she's your friend more so, so I'd kind of
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Speaker 1: leave the ball in her court first and then see
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Speaker 1: how she reacts and then kind of proceed from there.
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Speaker 1: Another one says, my thought was that it's possible he
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Speaker 1: got it at a second hand or thrift shop. In
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Speaker 1: my experience, thrift shop pricers are not thinking all about
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Speaker 1: how much something costs. Initially, there will be plastic cups
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Speaker 1: and plates Ikia sales for twenty five to fifty cents
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Speaker 1: labeled as a dollar, and something obviously nice might get flagged,
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Speaker 1: but is more likely to just be labeled ten dollars.
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Speaker 1: I mean that's possible too, and then op answered that
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Speaker 1: and said, yeah, I think I'll have to have a
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Speaker 1: discussion with my friend. I also considered that he might
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Speaker 1: have got some kind of bizarrely amazing deal, and spent
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Speaker 1: all of yesterday night googling around for auctioning sites and
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Speaker 1: checking whether there might be a chance he bought this
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Speaker 1: without knowing what it was and how much it was worth.
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Speaker 1: I'm pretty sure though, that unless something genuinely absurd happened,
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Speaker 1: he must have paid at least five hundred euros for this,
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Speaker 1: and even that's a very generously low estimate. There is,
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Speaker 1: of course a chance that he just had this item,
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Speaker 1: but it's so specific and rare that I don't think
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Speaker 1: some random pseudo finance pro would just have this in
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Speaker 1: his house, sees it and thinks, huh, it's my girlfriend's
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Speaker 1: friend's birthday. That might be a good chance to get
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Speaker 1: rid of this totally bizarre behavior. I don't know what
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Speaker 1: this man was thinking, but I need this thing out
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Speaker 1: of my house. Okay, so you just want it like gone,
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Speaker 1: that's fair for me. I wouldn't want to like hurt
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Speaker 1: anybody's feelings, so I would just probably just let it
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Speaker 1: collect dust on my shelf, unless my friend was really
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Speaker 1: pissed about it. Then I'd be like, do you want it?
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Speaker 1: You can sell it and then we can go out
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Speaker 1: for dinner to get Wait, that's a good idea, do
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Speaker 1: that they can break up anyway. We do have an
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Speaker 1: update for two days later, so let's read that. I
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Speaker 1: ended up texting my friend and telling her that I
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Speaker 1: had researched the gift and discovered it was worth a
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Speaker 1: very inappropriate amount of money. She was very surprised by
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Speaker 1: the entire situation, especially considering her boyfriend now X but
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Speaker 1: more on that later. Thank you. Queen is perpetually broke
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Speaker 1: and makes her foot the bill for their shared lifestyle.
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Speaker 1: She came over to my place and together we called
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Speaker 1: him on speakerphone, where she demanded some answers. Long story short,
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Speaker 1: the molasses just turned into tar. He stole it from
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Speaker 1: his own mother, so he's a thief. He's a literal criminal.
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Speaker 1: That is insane. I was wondering. I was like, where
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Speaker 1: how would he stash this money? This is so weird.
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Speaker 1: He's still being a bit shady about some details, but
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Speaker 1: we managed to piece together the sequence of events to
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Speaker 1: a satisfying degree. My friend was supposed to be coming
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Speaker 1: to my birthday party straight from work. When she left
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Speaker 1: her office, she realized she had forgotten the gift she
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Speaker 1: had planned for me, a book at home. Since she
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Speaker 1: was already running late and her place is pretty far
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Speaker 1: from both her work in the flat, she chose to
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Speaker 1: text her boyfriend, who was having dinner at his parents'
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Speaker 1: home at the time. She knew he was there and
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Speaker 1: knew his parents lived close to me, so she asked
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Speaker 1: him to just buy a copy of the same book
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Speaker 1: at a bookshop on his way to my place, so
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Speaker 1: they'd have a gift. Okay, So they mutually gave it
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Speaker 1: to you. I guess the okay. I didn't realize that.
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Speaker 1: I must have missed that, or she didn't. She just
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Speaker 1: say grab a book, and he's like, let me steal
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Speaker 1: this like narrow thousand dollars item off my mother's shelf.
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Speaker 1: For reasons known only to him, he did not choose
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Speaker 1: this simple, reasonable solution to the We forgot our gift issue.
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Speaker 1: Instead of leaving five minutes early to pick up another
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Speaker 1: copy from the bookstore, he instead chose to grab a
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Speaker 1: random item off his mother's living room shelf without asking her.
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Speaker 1: He had no idea what it was, just thought it
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Speaker 1: looked pretty, took it and stuffed it in a paper bag. Okay,
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Speaker 1: so he's not in love with you. That's good because
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Speaker 1: that would have been weird. This is still weird, but
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Speaker 1: you know. He also did not text my friend or
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Speaker 1: react to her calls, so she reasonably assumed he hadn't
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Speaker 1: read her message and ended up going back to get
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Speaker 1: the book. Okay, so she did have a gift for you. Okay,
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Speaker 1: so I didn't read it wrong, thank you, which was
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Speaker 1: why they arrived separately with separate gifts. Meanwhile, the boyfriend
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Speaker 1: had unknowingly gifted me not just in any antique, no, no,
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Speaker 1: n nay. This item had been passed down to his
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Speaker 1: mother from her three times great grandmother. I'm so glad
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Speaker 1: you didn't sell it to go to his steak dinner
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Speaker 1: like I suggested. I'm evil. I was joking. Mostly, it
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Speaker 1: had been in his family's possession for literal centuries and
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Speaker 1: was the only tangible connection she his mother still had
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Speaker 1: to her home country, which incidentally is also my mother's
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Speaker 1: home country, which he wasn't aware, meaning what I thought
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Speaker 1: was a thoughtful connection to my trip, there was a
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Speaker 1: total coincidence. He had no idea of the item's cultural significance. Wow,
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Speaker 1: my friend immediately made him call his mom to fesce
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Speaker 1: up to the entire situation. His mother had been running
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Speaker 1: herself ragged trying to figure out where this item disappeared
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Speaker 1: to for days. Oh my, that poor mother. Obviously she
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Speaker 1: never suspected thavery and was blaming herself terribly for having
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Speaker 1: lost something this important. The boyfriend actually had the goal
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Speaker 1: to try to convince her not to make her call
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Speaker 1: his mom. What he wanted to sweep the entire thing
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Speaker 1: under the rug. Of course, we didn't let that happen.
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Speaker 1: His mother came by my place this morning and returned
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Speaker 1: the item to her, along with some apologies for not
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Speaker 1: starting investigations immediately and some nice chocolate. That's so nice.
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Speaker 1: We had a lovely conversation about our shared cultural heritage
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Speaker 1: and assured her that the item had been treated with
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Speaker 1: dignity for the entire time it was in my possession.
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Speaker 1: And then I fell in love with his mother and
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Speaker 1: we lived happily ever after. I'm just kidding. It doesn't
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Speaker 1: say that, but that would make it so juicy, wouldn't it.
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Speaker 1: And we parted ways with a hug. She also told
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Speaker 1: me that my initial estimate of the item's value was incorrect.
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Speaker 1: It's actually worth even more money. It would probably sell
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Speaker 1: for a four figure sum at auction. Oh my god,
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Speaker 1: he should go to jail for a night at least.
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Speaker 1: I don't know what she wants to do with her son,
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Speaker 1: but I hope she whoops his ass. Amen, my friend,
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Speaker 1: for obvious reasons, broke up with him. Lessons learned. Google
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Speaker 1: suspicious gifts and lock away your sentimentals, slash valuables when
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Speaker 1: people you're not entirely sure about come over the gall
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Speaker 1: of this man, that's insane. I never would have guessed that,
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Speaker 1: that's really crazy. I'm glad that she got it back,
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Speaker 1: Thank goodness. I'm really glad you didn't sell it to
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Speaker 1: get something else or go on a trip. Like I said,
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Speaker 1: I feel really evil right now, but I'm glad. And
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Speaker 1: luckily somebody asked in the post what the gift was,
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Speaker 1: and I think Gop answered. So let's read that because
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Speaker 1: I need to know. I'll write it right. It's super specific,
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Speaker 1: but it's a special kind of religious devotional triptych made
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Speaker 1: in a case of my particular one of silver and
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Speaker 1: real rubies. Oh that's my birthstone. I have a little
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Speaker 1: tiny anybity little tiny ruby right here. That's crazy. They're
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Speaker 1: called travel triptychs am I saying that, right? I really
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Speaker 1: want to look up what this is? Oh cool kind
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Speaker 1: of just they're like, look like those Oh yeah, what
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Speaker 1: a beautiful gift. Yeah, I'd be so confused. I'd be like, what, like,
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Speaker 1: first of all, how did you know that I just
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Speaker 1: guessed crazy crazy? Well, I've got it all sorted I
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Speaker 1: got it all sorted out, and that he's not in
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Speaker 1: love with you, and it's not like some weird like
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Speaker 1: you're still friends with your friend. You gotta fall in
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Speaker 1: love with his mother. It's gonna be great. I love
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Speaker 1: this for you. Let's move on. What do you guys think?
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Speaker 1: All right? Next up, we have am I the scilly
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Speaker 1: wig for skipping my friend's birthday without warning because his
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Speaker 1: girlfriend calls me the typical girl best friend. Okay, so
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Speaker 1: you skipped your friend's birthday without warning because his girlfriend
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Speaker 1: calls you the typical girl best friend. So you're the
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Speaker 1: girl I'm gonna. I'm gonna walk into this really open minded.
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Speaker 1: We'll see. Okay, I'm really rooting for you that you're
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Speaker 1: not that typical girl best friend. Okay, I want to
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Speaker 1: be on your side. Let's read. Miles and I have
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Speaker 1: known each other since we were two because our parents
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Speaker 1: are best friends. Now, I would not say Miles is
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Speaker 1: my best friend. He has a good friend and we
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Speaker 1: do hang out on occasion, but see each other on
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Speaker 1: all major holidays because of our parents. Okay, we're already
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Speaker 1: this is reasonable right now, we are in our early twenties.
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Speaker 1: The problem started because of a dumb childhood memory. When
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Speaker 1: we were eight, we had a wedding play on school
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Speaker 1: after care. I played the bride and Miles the groom.
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Speaker 1: It was a play with horrible songs and uncoordinated kids. Obviously,
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Speaker 1: our parents made pictures and videos of that, and we
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Speaker 1: each have one picture on our family picture walls. Miles
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Speaker 1: is dating Lindy. They met three years ago and started
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Speaker 1: dating last year. Lindy does not like me, so every
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Speaker 1: time we coincide at a celebration, she makes a comment
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Speaker 1: about me being the typical girl best friend. She one
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Speaker 1: time said that I secretly wanted to sleep with Miles.
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Speaker 1: I have no clue where she got that impression from.
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Speaker 1: Miles and I have different friend groups and schedules. Besides
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Speaker 1: the monthly catch up over food, we didn't really meet
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Speaker 1: that much. Things got worse when Lindy saw the wedding
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Speaker 1: play pictures. The comments just got more. She even started
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Speaker 1: dming me on Instagram saying she knew what game I
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Speaker 1: was playing. Okay, so Lindy, Lindy might have some insecurity
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Speaker 1: issues maybe, And you know, it's it's it's hard seeing
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Speaker 1: just another person probably of the same age, around the
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Speaker 1: same age as you, is that's really close with your
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Speaker 1: significant other. I get that that is hard, but you
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Speaker 1: also need to look at what is actually happening, Like
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Speaker 1: are they spending a whole lot of time together? Does
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Speaker 1: he care about her opinion more than your all the
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Speaker 1: there's little things that do matter. And I mean we
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Speaker 1: see a monthly food thing. Is it like is it alone?
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Speaker 1: Is it? I don't know. I need to read more.
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Speaker 1: I talked to Miles once about this and he told
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Speaker 1: me to give her time. So his birthday was on
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Speaker 1: Saturday and I was invited. Lindy wrote me saying something
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Speaker 1: along the lines that she was going to supervise me.
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Speaker 1: This was the first birthday as a couple, and I
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Speaker 1: was not allowed to take up his time. I was
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Speaker 1: honestly just fed up. I tried talking to Miles once more,
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Speaker 1: but he said the same thing. Okay, Well, sometimes people
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Speaker 1: get together, it's like they decide as a couple to
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Speaker 1: put up boundaries, which they can, and unfortunately you're getting
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Speaker 1: the short end of the stick there, And I don't
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Speaker 1: really know what there is to do about it, but
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Speaker 1: just like, let it either run its course or just
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Speaker 1: the friendship might fizzle out, unfortunately, but I'll keep reading.
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Speaker 1: So I just skipped out, probably the best thing you
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Speaker 1: could have done, because that just sounds exhausting to be around.
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Speaker 1: When the party started, I wrote a quick sorry I
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Speaker 1: can't come and told him my mother was going to
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Speaker 1: bring his present. Now he's upset with me for missing
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Speaker 1: his birthday. Lindy is mad that I made it all
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Speaker 1: about myself, and my parents are upset I missed a
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Speaker 1: family function, right, because I mean, the whole family's there.
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Speaker 1: That's what's weird. It's like it's kind of a weird situation.
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Speaker 1: I understand that, but like, the families know each other
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Speaker 1: and it's just like a thing that happens, So it
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Speaker 1: is something that Lindy would have to understand, but also
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Speaker 1: doesn't have to necessarily because I'm just picturing Lindy making
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Speaker 1: a post being like this girl always comes around like
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Speaker 1: I'm super uncomfortable with it, YadA YadA, And what I
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Speaker 1: would tell her is to just bring it up with Miles,
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Speaker 1: let her know how she feels, ask if boundaries are
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Speaker 1: a possibility, and then just go from there. So I'm
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Speaker 1: trying to see it from every angle. So it says,
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Speaker 1: am I the asshole. I don't think you're the asshole
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Speaker 1: for skipping out. I mean, clearly Lindy does not like you,
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Speaker 1: she's trying to set up boundaries, and Miles agreed with that.
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Speaker 1: I don't think you're the asshole at all in this situation. Personally,
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Speaker 1: I would have removed myself. I'm like, okay, and then
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Speaker 1: I'm not welcome, so I don't really want to be there.
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Speaker 1: There's an edit and it says I didn't show anyone
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Speaker 1: the messages because I didn't want to make more of
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Speaker 1: this than it is. I didn't want to poison anyone
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Speaker 1: against Lindy, especially not if she is a new fixture
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Speaker 1: in miles life. That would make both of our lives
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Speaker 1: more difficult. I hope they just talking about it might
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Speaker 1: be the more adult thing. I agree, Yeah, like sending
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Speaker 1: messages out to different people that would have definitely tainted
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Speaker 1: it and everything. I think you took the high road
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Speaker 1: in that way. My parents are not mad at me
16:47
Speaker 1: or blowing up my phone. I'llah Reddit fashion. They and
16:51
Speaker 1: miles parents were just bummed out that this was the
16:53
Speaker 1: first birthday that I ever missed. That's fair as to
16:56
Speaker 1: why she's jealous, I have no idea. Neither of our
16:58
Speaker 1: parents ever wanted us to get together. There were no
17:01
Speaker 1: jokes or anything about it. I think they also never
17:04
Speaker 1: would want that the wedding play picture is in the
17:06
Speaker 1: living rooms because they loved the picture and it was
17:08
Speaker 1: our first play. That's fair. I guess people were, you know,
17:11
Speaker 1: mitching and moan in the comments and all that kind
17:12
Speaker 1: of stuff. But she answered it and there's an update,
17:14
Speaker 1: so I'm just going to go right to that. I
17:15
Speaker 1: will update you in the first part and clarify some
17:17
Speaker 1: things later. After my post, I talked to Myles. At first,
17:20
Speaker 1: he was kind of mad and thought I'd been blowing
17:22
Speaker 1: things out of proportion. Some more details are in my
17:25
Speaker 1: latest post. We came to the conclusion of taking more
17:28
Speaker 1: distance while he figures that out, mainly because I did
17:30
Speaker 1: not want the added stress of petty drama. Then I
17:33
Speaker 1: talked to my parents and explained to them what was
17:34
Speaker 1: going on. They were really upset by how Lindy treated me.
17:38
Speaker 1: Obviously they weren't going to get involved, but it was
17:40
Speaker 1: nice to get that off my chest. Then nothing else
17:43
Speaker 1: happened until Tuesday evening. Wednesday was a holiday, so some
17:47
Speaker 1: of the friends took the opportunity to go to an
17:49
Speaker 1: Irish pub to do karaoke. At some point, my best
17:52
Speaker 1: friend and I went to pee and touch up our makeup.
17:54
Speaker 1: Then Lindy and some of her friends walked in and
17:56
Speaker 1: kind of cornered us. It wasn't pretty. They started loudly
17:59
Speaker 1: to talking about man stealing bitches and how some women
18:02
Speaker 1: were just born to be home wreckers. Okay, see I
18:05
Speaker 1: don't like Lindy. I'm not on Lindy's side. I'm in
18:08
Speaker 1: the bathroom with you touching up your makeup, okay, And
18:10
Speaker 1: then we're to Lindy right the elbow, right in the face.
18:15
Speaker 1: We're face wreckers, not home wreckers, man. And imagine being
18:18
Speaker 1: pathetic enough to pretend to be a guy's friend to
18:20
Speaker 1: fame and how pick mees are the worst. That sucks
18:23
Speaker 1: that she was just going off like that. That's like
18:25
Speaker 1: embarrassing for her in so many ways. I would have
18:28
Speaker 1: just been like, yeah, that's crazy. I don't know. Like
18:31
Speaker 1: they kept kind of edging us physically into the part
18:34
Speaker 1: where the hand drivers were while pretending we were not there,
18:37
Speaker 1: until my best friend had enough and just pushed through
18:40
Speaker 1: them while pulling me behind her. We were almost at
18:43
Speaker 1: our table when Lindy went right behind me and pulled
18:45
Speaker 1: my hair. Lindy, she's about to get its whooped? Pulled
18:51
Speaker 1: your hair? What is she? Five? This is insane. So
18:54
Speaker 1: that I fell backward onto like a metallic piece where
18:58
Speaker 1: you were supposed to put your your feet on. It
19:01
Speaker 1: hurts so bad that I started to see white. So
19:04
Speaker 1: that's a salt. And you could call the police and
19:08
Speaker 1: get her rested, okay, And I know they have cameras
19:11
Speaker 1: because you're at a bar. Hopefully if it's not like
19:13
Speaker 1: a dingy dive bar or something, you could literally get
19:16
Speaker 1: her arrested for that. You did nothing to provoke that,
19:18
Speaker 1: that's insane. And then a girl next to Lindy poured
19:21
Speaker 1: beer on me. I cannot really tell you what happened,
19:24
Speaker 1: but there was a scuffle and someone dropped one of
19:27
Speaker 1: those heavy pint glasses on my head. You got assaulted
19:32
Speaker 1: by multiple people. I hope they all trip on the
19:36
Speaker 1: lines of a sidewalk for the rest of their lives
19:39
Speaker 1: and fall up and downstairs. And their pillows always hot,
19:43
Speaker 1: and their coffee is always cold unless they like it cold.
19:46
Speaker 1: Then I wanted hot. These bitches, the Lindy's were taken
19:49
Speaker 1: away by police woo woo, and I was taken to
19:53
Speaker 1: the hospital. My parents were furious, as were Miles's parents.
19:56
Speaker 1: They both came to the hospital. I was severely concussed.
19:58
Speaker 1: My nose was fracture, and the worst thing is that
20:01
Speaker 1: I have a hairline fracture in my back. I stayed
20:04
Speaker 1: in the hospital till yesterday morning. Myles did try calling
20:08
Speaker 1: me a bunch. According to my parents, they told him
20:10
Speaker 1: not to visit me right now. I did get an
20:12
Speaker 1: official notice saying that apparently there was now a legal
20:15
Speaker 1: case open against Lindy and one other girl for not
20:18
Speaker 1: only assault but also public disturbance in the bar. So
20:22
Speaker 1: now I'll have to deal with all that legally. I
20:24
Speaker 1: finally talked to Myles. Long story short. Those of you
20:27
Speaker 1: saying Lindy was isolating him was a sign that of
20:30
Speaker 1: an abusive relationship was right for sure, Like there are
20:32
Speaker 1: relationships where that is okay and healthy, where it's like
20:35
Speaker 1: you're spending way too much time with that person. I'm
20:37
Speaker 1: not super comfortable with that, Like, if I'm going to
20:39
Speaker 1: continue this, there needs to be some balance. But this
20:42
Speaker 1: seemed like you barely saw him and your famili's were friends.
20:45
Speaker 1: Like she was next level crazy and I mean assaulting you.
20:49
Speaker 1: I'm glad that that we figured that out early on.
20:53
Speaker 1: Like it's just like this is pretty reasonable, and I'm
20:55
Speaker 1: glad that she got arrested. That's awesome and that'll be
20:58
Speaker 1: on her record forever. He told me all the things
21:01
Speaker 1: she said to make him, to make him feel awful.
21:03
Speaker 1: She would freak out about anything in her life and
21:05
Speaker 1: take that out on him. She would scratch him and
21:08
Speaker 1: bite him when she was mad. Our talk ended with
21:10
Speaker 1: both of us crying and apologizing. We will be closer again.
21:13
Speaker 1: At least we can talk about these things more often.
21:16
Speaker 1: He broke up with her and it is hiding at
21:17
Speaker 1: my parents' house. I'm really sorry that you and him
21:21
Speaker 1: had to go through that, but thank goodness that she's
21:24
Speaker 1: out of y'all's life. What a monster. And now, low key,
21:28
Speaker 1: I'm going to need you guys to get together for me.
21:31
Speaker 1: It's my birthday, come on, just kidding. No, I'm glad
21:35
Speaker 1: that you guys have each other as friends. That's really
21:37
Speaker 1: great that you can support each other in this. So
21:39
Speaker 1: let me know what you guys think. Have you been
21:40
Speaker 1: in a situation like this? And all let's read another one?
21:44
Speaker 1: All right? Next up, we have a today. I screwed
21:47
Speaker 1: up and it's today. I screwed up my wife's birthday present. Okay,
21:51
Speaker 1: so let me preface this by saying that my wife
21:53
Speaker 1: is not a gamer, but I'm a gamer. I'm a gamer.
21:56
Speaker 1: I'm a chad gamer. I played to hims like Cod
21:58
Speaker 1: and Ring and like skyriman Oblivion and I'm so Alstone.
22:04
Speaker 1: I like all those games. I'm not gonna lie. Actually
22:07
Speaker 1: I don't really play a lot of cod Halo, though
22:09
Speaker 1: Halo is fantastic. But I managed to get her into
22:12
Speaker 1: animal crossing and she's put one hundred and thirty hours
22:15
Speaker 1: in over the last years. Am she is a gamer?
22:18
Speaker 1: That's cool. I've never played Animal Crossing, but I hear
22:20
Speaker 1: a lot of people like it. I've never played it myself,
22:23
Speaker 1: but she has a great time, so we're all happy.
22:25
Speaker 1: Cool awesome. Get to today, where I am in possession
22:28
Speaker 1: of a shiny new switch too. I thought it would
22:31
Speaker 1: be nice to give her my old switch for her birthday.
22:34
Speaker 1: You're going to give her a hand me down switch
22:37
Speaker 1: and get yourself a new one, did I hear that correctly?
22:40
Speaker 1: I thought it would be nice to give her my
22:41
Speaker 1: old switch and buy her a copy of Animal Crossing
22:44
Speaker 1: for her birthday. So I transferred all my data off
22:47
Speaker 1: and initialized the old switch and waited well when she
22:51
Speaker 1: booted up her very own copy on her very own
22:53
Speaker 1: switch and was prompted to start a new island. Weird.
22:57
Speaker 1: I poked around for a bit as the horrifying realize
23:00
Speaker 1: dawned on me. Her island didn't transfer. I have hundreds
23:06
Speaker 1: of hours in multiple games, don't judge me. If my
23:10
Speaker 1: save didn't transfer for like Oblivion or like Skyrim or something,
23:15
Speaker 1: I would be devastated. So I am horrified. For her
23:20
Speaker 1: right now, not only that that she got a hand
23:21
Speaker 1: me down switch, but because you deleted oh my god,
23:26
Speaker 1: her island didn't transfer. Turns out you need to do
23:29
Speaker 1: a manual backup, and I didn't know that. So now
23:31
Speaker 1: her island is gone and she's devastated that I nuked
23:34
Speaker 1: one hundred and thirty hours of her life. Happy birthday. Listen,
23:37
Speaker 1: I know accidents happen, Like if I don't know, if
23:40
Speaker 1: Caleb like tried to transfer something for me and something happened,
23:43
Speaker 1: like it would suck, but I wouldn't. I'd just be like,
23:45
Speaker 1: it's okay, Like it's you didn't know, there's nothing you
23:48
Speaker 1: can do about it, but that sucks. But we're just
23:52
Speaker 1: glazing over. Not only did you delete it, but it's
23:54
Speaker 1: like you got a new one for yourself and you're
23:57
Speaker 1: giving her the old one. You suck, Like what, I'm sorry,
24:03
Speaker 1: I don't know. That just seems crazy to me. It'd
24:05
Speaker 1: be one thing to just give her your switch. That'd
24:08
Speaker 1: be really nice. I don't know. Maybe I'm is that crazy.
24:11
Speaker 1: I feel like that's like that's so weird. Maybe I'm crazy.
24:14
Speaker 1: I don't know. I need to read the comments. But
24:17
Speaker 1: you did. You did screw up. This isn't like, am
24:19
Speaker 1: I the asshole? But honestly, you're a little bit like
24:21
Speaker 1: a soft No, you would just kind of are I
24:24
Speaker 1: think you kind of r I need to read the comments.
24:26
Speaker 1: Thank you. First comment, you need to give her your
24:28
Speaker 1: brand new switch to for her birthday now, it's only fair. Amen. Also,
24:32
Speaker 1: if she put one hundred and thirty hours into Animal Crossing,
24:34
Speaker 1: she's a gamer. Now if she played AC on your
24:37
Speaker 1: old console on your account, there's a chance that the
24:40
Speaker 1: save is still on your account, if you had any
24:43
Speaker 1: saves in the cloud. Yeah. I don't know how all
24:44
Speaker 1: that works totally, so hopefully not. The comment says, happy birthday,
24:48
Speaker 1: here's our used shit. Also, I deleted your stuff either
24:52
Speaker 1: rage made or genuinely a brain dead person? Oh like
24:55
Speaker 1: actually though, thank you? So I feel Oh we have
24:58
Speaker 1: an update. Okay, let's read the app. So yesterday I
25:01
Speaker 1: posted how I screwed up by deleting my wife's Animal
25:04
Speaker 1: Crossing island in a failed transfer. She was very sad,
25:06
Speaker 1: but I promised her I'd start my own island and
25:09
Speaker 1: play with her so she wouldn't have to rebuild herself.
25:11
Speaker 1: That's nice at least also give her the new switch.
25:14
Speaker 1: When I went to start my own island, Tom Nuke
25:17
Speaker 1: told me he had some old saved data he didn't
25:19
Speaker 1: know what to do with. Turns out it was my
25:21
Speaker 1: wife's island. I went onto her account, enabled back and
25:25
Speaker 1: let it do its thing. Back up, saved overnight, and
25:27
Speaker 1: she was able to log into her island this morning,
25:29
Speaker 1: and everything is still intact. Not much more to share, really,
25:31
Speaker 1: thanks to everyone who was wishing me well and gave
25:33
Speaker 1: advice on how to recover it. Just glazing over the
25:37
Speaker 1: fact that he gave her just a shitty old switch.
25:41
Speaker 1: Comment says good. Now go buy her an actual birthday present.
25:44
Speaker 1: Ohpi says she really enjoyed the necklace and giant plushy
25:47
Speaker 1: I got her. I didn't cut that part, so I
25:49
Speaker 1: didn't mention it. You should have mentioned that in the update,
25:52
Speaker 1: my guy, I don't know. I still don't really. I
25:54
Speaker 1: mean whatever, she seems happy. I'm glad she got her
25:56
Speaker 1: safe back at least, you know, and she could enjoy
25:59
Speaker 1: the game on her own sweat which whatever. Maybe I'm
26:01
Speaker 1: being petty. Maybe I want the best for her. Sue
26:04
Speaker 1: me be better, Chad. I think we have time for
26:06
Speaker 1: one more. So let's read one more. All right, let
26:08
Speaker 1: me know the worst birthday gift that you've ever gotten.
26:11
Speaker 1: I know mine, and I think I've mentioned it here before,
26:13
Speaker 1: but it was a sandwich maker that that I didn't
26:20
Speaker 1: even get to keep at my house. I had to
26:22
Speaker 1: make sandwiches at their house for them, but it was
26:25
Speaker 1: for me to make sandwiches for them. I won't go
26:27
Speaker 1: into any more detail, but yeah, all right. Next up,
26:29
Speaker 1: we have Emily the Scallywig, for showing up to my
26:31
Speaker 1: nephew's birthday party without the cupcakes. I said, I would
26:35
Speaker 1: make better have a good excuse, because cupcakes. Dessert makes
26:40
Speaker 1: a birthday. Okay, we don't need dinner, you just need dessert.
26:43
Speaker 1: In my personal opinion, and I have I can. I
26:46
Speaker 1: can stand by that because I went to go visit
26:48
Speaker 1: my family in Canada and this was the They know
26:52
Speaker 1: I like desserts. So look at the amount everybody. Everybody
26:57
Speaker 1: brought desserts. Look at that so many desserts. I was
27:01
Speaker 1: in literal dessert heaven. It was awesome. Let's read. A
27:04
Speaker 1: couple of weeks ago was my nephew Sam's tenth birthday.
27:06
Speaker 1: I love Sam so much. I will probably not be
27:09
Speaker 1: lucky enough to have my own son, so I'm so
27:11
Speaker 1: happy to be able to know him. But I don't
27:13
Speaker 1: have a great relationship with my older brother. He did
27:15
Speaker 1: everything the right way, good grades, good school, good job,
27:18
Speaker 1: good wife. I've always been jealous at how easily being
27:21
Speaker 1: normal comes to him. I did not do well in
27:23
Speaker 1: school and got on a lot of trouble, didn't finish college.
27:25
Speaker 1: I picked shitty boyfriends. Basically every wrong choice you could make.
27:28
Speaker 1: Suffice to say, he and I are not on the
27:30
Speaker 1: same page, and he doesn't take me seriously. But the
27:32
Speaker 1: one thing he does appreciate is that I can bake.
27:35
Speaker 1: He asked if I could bake cupcakes for the party
27:37
Speaker 1: in a Spider Man theme, of course, edited to add
27:40
Speaker 1: that Sam did not know they were going to be
27:42
Speaker 1: a surprise. Spider Man is just his favorite superhero. Well,
27:45
Speaker 1: then I was laid off. I didn't do anything wrong
27:47
Speaker 1: except to be the last person hired. I was devastated
27:50
Speaker 1: and ended up drinking with my roommates instead of baking
27:52
Speaker 1: the cupcakes. It just felt like another and a long
27:56
Speaker 1: line of stupid things. I ended up going to the
27:58
Speaker 1: grocery store and buying cupcakes. Okay, well, at least you
28:01
Speaker 1: brought something at two different stores, which was hard on
28:04
Speaker 1: the bus, but it was important. Thank god it's graduation season.
28:08
Speaker 1: I showed up and told my brother upfront what happened
28:11
Speaker 1: and apologized so they she didn't come empty handed. He said,
28:14
Speaker 1: you've got to be kidding me. He was furious. I
28:17
Speaker 1: apologized a bunch of times. I never once made an excuse.
28:19
Speaker 1: It was one hundred percent entirely my fault. He told
28:22
Speaker 1: me that I shouldn't have even come, and the cupcakes
28:25
Speaker 1: were the only reason he'd invited me. That's just me.
28:28
Speaker 1: I felt awful and left without seeing Sam. Oh, don't
28:31
Speaker 1: take it out on sam. My mom called me when
28:34
Speaker 1: I was on the bus ride home to ask me
28:36
Speaker 1: why I would be such an airhead and show up
28:38
Speaker 1: without the only thing I was invited for. I am
28:41
Speaker 1: so your family sounds horrible. Like, I get that he
28:45
Speaker 1: screwed up a bit, but that's rough. She said. She
28:49
Speaker 1: thought she raised me smarter than that, but then said, well,
28:51
Speaker 1: I guess not, with an ugly little ha at the end.
28:54
Speaker 1: This is like so unbelievable that I almost don't believe it.
28:57
Speaker 1: But I'm really sorry if this is true. This is crazy,
29:00
Speaker 1: except that I have fully one thousand percent responsible for
29:03
Speaker 1: not having Spider Man cupcakes. But I think I did
29:05
Speaker 1: my best to try to make up for it by
29:07
Speaker 1: getting any cupcakes I couldn't I could find. I didn't
29:09
Speaker 1: show up empty handed. I didn't put it on them
29:11
Speaker 1: to come up with a solution. Am I wrong? And
29:14
Speaker 1: was it the wrong thing to do? I mean Sam
29:16
Speaker 1: didn't expect them, so that's good at least, and I'm
29:19
Speaker 1: glad you came with something. And I mean I don't
29:21
Speaker 1: know the history. I mean you told the history. You
29:23
Speaker 1: said that you know, stuff is just not worked out
29:25
Speaker 1: in your favor and all these things, and you know
29:28
Speaker 1: your your brother is very like he's doing really well
29:32
Speaker 1: in life, and YadA, YadA, YadA. I don't know. I mean,
29:34
Speaker 1: your family sucks, first of all. And it was just
29:37
Speaker 1: like the one thing you were supposed to do. So
29:39
Speaker 1: it does suck that you didn't pull through with it.
29:41
Speaker 1: I like, if you didn't bring cupcakes, I would have
29:43
Speaker 1: been like, dude, what like, come on, I get you
29:46
Speaker 1: got fired. That does suck. Some of the comments say,
29:49
Speaker 1: did you tell Sam that you're making the cupcakes? What
29:51
Speaker 1: the theme was? Hi? I just wanted to correct one thing,
29:53
Speaker 1: but I'm not arguing I didn't tell Sam it was
29:56
Speaker 1: going to be a special surprise for him. He wasn't
29:57
Speaker 1: expecting Spider Man cupcakes and that's just favorite superhero. Sam
30:01
Speaker 1: didn't know I was making the cupcakes. I took the
30:02
Speaker 1: toppers off the cupcakes. They were all black and white
30:05
Speaker 1: and yellow. Though. I don't understand why you're making things
30:08
Speaker 1: up that didn't happen. He didn't ask for a Spider
30:10
Speaker 1: Man theme. He didn't know he was having a party
30:13
Speaker 1: to begin with. Another comment says, not the asshole for
30:15
Speaker 1: the question that you asked for judgment on, which is
30:17
Speaker 1: if you were the asshole for showing up without the cupcakes,
30:20
Speaker 1: given that he didn't even know he was getting a
30:22
Speaker 1: Spider Man cupcakes. He got cupcakes in the end. I
30:25
Speaker 1: don't think you're the asshole for showing up. You said
30:27
Speaker 1: this was a few weeks ago. Has anyone in your
30:29
Speaker 1: family REACHEDHUT or said anything about you being laid off
30:31
Speaker 1: or do they care? Oh? He says my dad did
30:34
Speaker 1: because he saw there was news about layoffs at my company,
30:36
Speaker 1: but no one else has said anything. They might not know.
30:40
Speaker 1: I don't think they look at the same news as
30:42
Speaker 1: my dad does. Dang. Another Copt said, your family is awful,
30:46
Speaker 1: but I'm more concerned that you couldn't control your desire
30:48
Speaker 1: to drink enough to fulfill your promise. You may need
30:50
Speaker 1: to consider you have a drinking problem that is far
30:52
Speaker 1: bigger than cupcakes. Your family is still being awful, But
30:55
Speaker 1: my guess is that this isn't the first time substance
30:58
Speaker 1: has been an issue with you. And then, yeah, as
31:00
Speaker 1: someone who has somebody in their family that has an
31:03
Speaker 1: issue with this, yeah, I get that vibe. It's hard
31:07
Speaker 1: to like assume that though, you know, because we only
31:09
Speaker 1: have so much information, But based off the information we have,
31:12
Speaker 1: it's probably habit and families probably just over it. Does
31:15
Speaker 1: I give them the right to treat him like a
31:17
Speaker 1: subhuman No, not at all. Op answered that and said,
31:21
Speaker 1: you are correct, it is not the first time substances
31:23
Speaker 1: had been a problem with me. In them When I
31:25
Speaker 1: was in high school, I got drunk at a party
31:27
Speaker 1: and had to call my dad to come get me.
31:28
Speaker 1: It was two am, it was very tired, and we
31:31
Speaker 1: had a minor accident on the way back to the house.
31:33
Speaker 1: He was very proud of that car because it was
31:35
Speaker 1: the first thing he bought new and paid off and
31:37
Speaker 1: then in college, I participated in the end of the
31:39
Speaker 1: year campus party. I made a poor decision to wear
31:41
Speaker 1: new heels and drink and slipped on some stairs, broke
31:44
Speaker 1: my ankle, and needed them to come get me earlier
31:46
Speaker 1: than expected. Okay, So, I mean, it doesn't sound like you're,
31:49
Speaker 1: you know, a raging alcoholic or something. You've had a
31:51
Speaker 1: few classic younger years where you know, you go a
31:55
Speaker 1: little crazy or whatever. But I don't know. Yeah, really
31:58
Speaker 1: kind of just kind of seems like everybody's suck, especially
32:00
Speaker 1: your family. I feel like there's an update, though, so
32:02
Speaker 1: let's read that. Hi. Thanks off for the comments before
32:04
Speaker 1: about me failing to bring the Spider Man cupcakes to
32:07
Speaker 1: my nephew's party. I think I have an okay update
32:09
Speaker 1: to share. I was sort of spiraling when I wrote
32:11
Speaker 1: my post before, and that it happens very often to me. Yes,
32:14
Speaker 1: I messed up, but life goes on. I have not
32:16
Speaker 1: been able to find a good job, but I have
32:17
Speaker 1: been making ends meet with cleaning houses. I did that
32:20
Speaker 1: for ten years. It was a great cake. I just
32:22
Speaker 1: want to listen to podcasts and music and just cleaned.
32:24
Speaker 1: It was also last week my family got together for
32:26
Speaker 1: Thanksgiving and surprised my nephew by bringing him a small
32:28
Speaker 1: batch of Spider Man cupcakes, and he was over the moon.
32:31
Speaker 1: My brother thanked me for it, so that was nice.
32:34
Speaker 1: My mom said better late than never, I guess, and
32:36
Speaker 1: she and my dad laughed together. I also baked a
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Speaker 1: pie to bring, but I ended up dropping it. I'm sorry.
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Speaker 1: That sucks. It's just like sometimes it's just the amount
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Speaker 1: of things, the amount of times I've just like made
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Speaker 1: something and dropped it or since been ruined. I just
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Speaker 1: I've sympathized with this. For the first time in my life,
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Speaker 1: I stood up for myself against them and told them
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Speaker 1: that it was really hurtful that they can't ever just
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Speaker 1: be supportive, reflect on all the ways over the years
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Speaker 1: they haven't just taken me seriously or have ignored my
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Speaker 1: small wins because I don't get the big ones like
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Speaker 1: my brother. They argued with me, and then probably the
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Speaker 1: best thing ever happened, my sister in law stood up
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Speaker 1: for me. We love that. She said that ever since
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Speaker 1: she's been part of this family, she's seen the way
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Speaker 1: they talked to me and about me and laugh at
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Speaker 1: me behind my back and treat me like someone else's daughter.
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Speaker 1: She said they have been doing it for years. They
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Speaker 1: tried to pull the she knows it's out of love
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Speaker 1: card on me and told them that I don't feel
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Speaker 1: loved by them and never have, and brought up that
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Speaker 1: she said the only reason I have ever been invited
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Speaker 1: to a party was for the cupcakes fire your family.
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Speaker 1: Mom tried to say that wasn't true, but my sister
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Speaker 1: in law stopped her and said that's exactly what she said.
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Speaker 1: My mom and dad were quiet for a little bit,
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Speaker 1: and then my dad said he didn't realize how sensitive
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Speaker 1: I am, and they'll try to do better. Just backheaded.
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Speaker 1: Didn't really so sensitive? You were, Yes, we won't just
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Speaker 1: we just won't talk anymore. I hate that reaction so much.
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Speaker 1: I was so happy. I mean, you know we're not there,
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Speaker 1: but it sounds like you guys resolved it to a
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Speaker 1: certain degree. Really glad you have a boss bitch sister
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Speaker 1: in law. Yes, I thank my sister in law so much,
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Speaker 1: and we have been texting a ton. I didn't realize
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Speaker 1: she liked me. I think twenty twenty six is going
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Speaker 1: to be my year, and I'm excited. I think so.
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Speaker 1: My biggest hope is to find a job that helps
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Speaker 1: me save money so that I can get my own
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Speaker 1: place by twenty twenty eight to marry Holidays everyone. That's good. Well,
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Speaker 1: I'm glad you have somebody in the family, even if
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Speaker 1: it's like technically you know, you're guys married into the family.
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Speaker 1: But I'm glad you have somebody that you can at
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Speaker 1: least talk to about this, because not every family's perfect.
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Speaker 1: But it sucks to feel like a like a outsider
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Speaker 1: in your own family. Like what a rough feeling. But
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Speaker 1: you know, I think it is going to be your year.
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Speaker 1: I think it's gonna be awesome, and I think it's
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Speaker 1: gonna be everybody's year out there. I think it's gonna
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Speaker 1: be everybody's year. I'm thirty. I know what's gonna be
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Speaker 1: by year. Man, this is where life begins. I think
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Speaker 1: that's what I've heard. I feel like it. I care
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Speaker 1: less and I'm just like happier in general. I feel
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Speaker 1: like I just comparisons the thief of joy, and I'm
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Speaker 1: really living with that. I'm coming into who I am
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Speaker 1: and I love my job, and I love the people
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Speaker 1: I'm around, my husband and my animals and my family
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Speaker 1: and friends, and it's just it's really good. I'm trying
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Speaker 1: to just focus on all the good things in life.
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Speaker 1: It's awesome and I'm really, really extremely grateful for you,
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Speaker 1: So thank you so much for hanging around and listening
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Speaker 1: to me. Yeah. Please let me know, though, what other
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Speaker 1: videos you want me to see. I'm open to doing
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Speaker 1: literally whatever. It's my channel, I can do whatever I want.
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Speaker 1: I'm thirty, I don't care anymore, all right, but thank
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Speaker 1: you so much for tuning in, and I'll see you
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Speaker 1: in the next one, all right. Bye.