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- 0:00I'm practicing fat defiance by being on the Fat Con tea, not
- 0:03only planning for this year and next year, but planning for the
- 0:06future of fat liberation and fat joy.
- 0:09It's not going to be a long future.
- 0:11It is a. Huge.
- 0:13Can you call it? A fat defiance.
- 0:15She's kind of giving like if one of the seven dwarfs ate one of
- 0:18the beans from Jack and the Beanstalk.
- 0:23Hey guys, welcome back to Normal Gaze where we take insanity.
- 0:27I'm Brad Palumbo here with Clarkson Lawson.
- 0:29What's up guys, I'm feeling a little sick and manic because I
- 0:32went out this weekend and life is hurting my bowels.
- 0:36I don't. I just it's the drinking.
- 0:38Is it life or is it anyway? How are you practicing?
- 0:42Make sure you subscribe by the way.
- 0:43How are you practicing fat defiance?
- 0:45Fat defiance by taking a GLP. No, no, no, no.
- 0:49I'm defying no. That's literally.
- 0:52Actually, this folia. Guys stop.
- 0:55No get it. You are literally promoting body
- 0:57culture, diet culture. Used to be fat.
- 0:59Phobia. Look at this waist.
- 1:01I can finally wear these. Tanks, you're literally
- 1:02promoting genocide. Where is he?
- 1:04You are promoting the genocide of fat people.
- 1:06You can't even see me when I turn.
- 1:09Well, maybe you can, because he's.
- 1:10I'd like to apologize to the fat bodied community for the harm
- 1:14that was just inflicted upon them.
- 1:16Oh my God. Sorry I'm getting now my stomach
- 1:19feels better so I'm getting a little hyper.
- 1:20OK, anyway this is. My pants though.
- 1:23This is from the organizers of Fat Con.
- 1:25Did you hear about Fat Con? It's like a conference for fats
- 1:29where they all get together and they like talk about how happy
- 1:32they are as fats. I'm I'm trying to be good.
- 1:38All right, well, let's see if you can make it through this
- 1:39video while being nice. How are you practicing fat
- 1:42defiance in 2026? One of things I'm doing, just as
- 1:46any year, I'm probably staying fat.
- 1:49No, I'm staying fat. I'm wearing what I want you're
- 1:55wearing. I'm confused.
- 1:56How is this fat defiance? Because I guess the logic would
- 1:59be like, because I'm in a big body, they don't want me to wear
- 2:02sexy things or whatever was probably the logic.
- 2:04So you would be. So it's not fat defiance because
- 2:07you're not defying being fat. You guys are exemplifying it.
- 2:09No, no, that's the point. Fat defiance like defying, is
- 2:14it? Sure I get it, like I get what
- 2:16they're trying to do but just it doesn't make any sense when you
- 2:19actually put like put pen to paper.
- 2:21You are not defying being fat because defiance means
- 2:25rebellion, no? No, no, but fat defiance is
- 2:28like. I understand that what they're
- 2:31trying to do, I'm just I'm making the point that it doesn't
- 2:34actually make any sense. You're right, the name doesn't
- 2:35make sense, no. But if you look at the
- 2:37definitions of words because it doesn't make any sense.
- 2:43And I don't care who sees it. And I'm being comfortable in it,
- 2:48period. I'm practicing fat defiance by
- 2:50being on the Fat Con team and making events like this happen.
- 2:55And not only planning for this year and next year, but planning
- 2:58for the future of fat liberation and fat joy.
- 3:02It's not going to be a long. Future I totally get it because
- 3:05this ass 5. To 10 years maybe.
- 3:07This ass is so fat that like I really need to work on like I
- 3:11should be allowed to wear what whatever.
- 3:12I should be allowed to wear booty shorts if people not
- 3:14stare. I should be allowed to do
- 3:16whatever I want. But like it sometimes gets hard.
- 3:18Like my back hurts when I'm walking because it's just a lot
- 3:21to carry around and like you think.
- 3:23You have a lot to carry around. Look at these ladies.
- 3:26Well, yeah, that's why we're all practicing fat defiance.
- 3:30OK, it's like you what if you put a tenth of the energy that
- 3:33you are into organizing conferences of fat people to
- 3:36eating less? I, Yeah, The thing is, is like,
- 3:40I just don't. OK.
- 3:42So on paper, if you say I want to love my body, I want to,
- 3:46there shouldn't be this much shame because we do shame fat
- 3:49people a lot. And we misplace a lot of shame
- 3:52that we could put on other behaviors like, I don't know,
- 3:55cheating spouses or things like that.
- 3:57Like, there's so many things wrong in the world that I think
- 4:00fat people do get the brunt of a lot of things.
- 4:02But you have to choose what you want to focus on.
- 4:05And if you're choosing to focus on accepting your body as it is,
- 4:10you are taking away focus from getting healthier.
- 4:12But yeah, exactly, I was going to say you shouldn't accept your
- 4:14body as it is if it's morbidly obese because it's an active
- 4:18health problem. Well, you should be able to I, I
- 4:21don't think fat people should not feel be able to feel any
- 4:23sense of confidence ever and and be told that they're obviously.
- 4:26Should accept your body how? It is.
- 4:29I'm not saying accept your body. I agree.
- 4:31You shouldn't shame, you shouldn't hate, but you should.
- 4:33Love your body where you're at and work towards a better goal
- 4:35you. Should also love your body
- 4:36enough to to want to prove it. Whether they're like literally
- 4:39arguing that it's somehow defiant and joyous to actively
- 4:46strive to maintain their serious health issue.
- 4:49They should this If you want to put, if you want to help fat
- 4:52people, you should have made a convention on helping them get
- 4:56healthier. And then you can also have a
- 4:58little area, a speaker come in and say it's important to give
- 5:03yourself positive affirmations on the journey because you don't
- 5:06want to feel like on the journey it's going to take.
- 5:07Literally promote. Them right and it's going to
- 5:10take these people if they actually commit to it like four
- 5:13years, three years to get a body that is actually like healthy
- 5:17and you shouldn't be miserable for those four years.
- 5:20But that is a that is a talking point that should exist in an
- 5:23ecosystem that promotes getting healthier, not accepting you for
- 5:26being fat. That was a good point and I feel
- 5:29like after I said that, that should be televised.
- 5:32OK. Like it just rolled off the
- 5:34tongue. Do you ever just say something
- 5:35you're like? All the time, actually.
- 5:37That ate, no pun intended. Well, they ate everything you
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- 5:42If if you don't yet, If you haven't yet, we got over 1000 of
- 5:45you signed up. Texted me.
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- 5:51to confession. You should do that.
- 5:54You should live stream your confession.
- 5:56I could totally go to confession.
- 5:57Oh my. God, that would.
- 5:58Be so funny because The thing is is I feel like the only time I
- 6:01ever have success on the Internet is when I genuinely do
- 6:04not care what comes out of my mouth and I have to just like
- 6:07air all of my. That would be funny.
- 6:10Because that's the only way. Like we start getting
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- 6:24Addiction and that was actually really fun but really gross.
- 6:27Also, I think we're going to do something fun with Blair White
- 6:30when she comes down to Miami soon at the end of the month,
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- 6:399/20/30 In five years we want to be exactly where we are today,
- 6:44but except like a bigger hotel with maybe like twice as many
- 6:49amazing fatties in the building. So Oh my God, yeah.
- 6:52So their business model is reliant on people getting
- 6:55unhealthy and fatter. Also, I love this.
- 6:59Should be illegal. I'm sorry it's illegal in Japan.
- 7:01The. Lug, I don't know but.
- 7:03Pretty sure it's illegal to be fat in Japan.
- 7:05Well, that's probably a bit much.
- 7:06No, I'm not kidding. Google it saying but I'm saying
- 7:10it shouldn't be illegal. Is it illegal to be fat in
- 7:13Japan? I hate ChatGPT because they're
- 7:15so woke they can never just admit I'm right.
- 7:17No, it is not illegal to be overweight in Japan.
- 7:20The misconception arises from the Metabo Law about Metabolism
- 7:24in 2008, which mandates annual waistline measurements for
- 7:27adults aged 40 to 74 to identify metabolic syndrome wrists.
- 7:31Individuals exceeding waistline thresholds receive counseling
- 7:34and lifestyle guidance, but there are no fines.
- 7:35Oh, wait. So it's not illegal.
- 7:37So it's not illegal. OK, so you just fact checked
- 7:40yourself. Yeah, I should have read it
- 7:41before I said something. That's OK, It's kind of funnier
- 7:43this way. Yeah, whatever.
- 7:45Yeah, that's what we're working on.
- 7:47Just having the body, the fat, black, disabled fem body that I
- 7:52own is an act of defiance times 4.
- 7:56Everything I'm doing is all about pushing the fat agenda.
- 8:01I am practicing fat. Everything I'm doing is pushing
- 8:05the fat agenda girl. The only thing you push it is
- 8:09the fork to your mouth. Place or is that she's in a
- 8:11wheelchair so she does get pushed.
- 8:13I I don't have any. I don't want to do this.
- 8:19You can just sit there silently. And just play it.
- 8:21Science in 2026 by leaning into fat community, fat pleasure and
- 8:27fat joy and I am finding those. Because they fill my.
- 8:31Heart and they make me happy and they make me feel more grounded.
- 8:35They. Lasted 10 seconds.
- 8:37I'm sorry, but like the pond, like there's just so much
- 8:40opportunity. Like it fills your hearts.
- 8:42Maybe that heart is full. That heart's already struggling.
- 8:45It doesn't need. Anything more?
- 8:47To support. And look, I'm sorry, I can't
- 8:49help it. The joke was there.
- 8:50I had to say it. I don't feel bad meeting in
- 8:52front of these people, they are the problem.
- 8:54These people are the problem. They deserve to be made fun.
- 8:56Of a random fat person who's just living and maybe not making
- 9:00the best choices. I'm not going to bully you or
- 9:01shame you, whatever. It's your life, it's your
- 9:03business. I might encourage you if we're
- 9:04friends or something to like be healthier, but it's your life.
- 9:08I'm not going to just be mean to people.
- 9:09But once you start behaving in this toxic sick way where you
- 9:14are poisoning society contributing.
- 9:16To public health crisis. Like smokers, yeah smoker smoke
- 9:20con, but it's all get together to smoke 3 packs a day and give
- 9:23ourselves lung cancer and then practice lung cancer defiance.
- 9:26I saw a video of this girl who's like life should not.
- 9:30It was a video about body positivity.
- 9:32And she's like, life should not be hard.
- 9:33It went viral. And losing weight so you don't
- 9:36have to live life doing things that you don't want to do, blah,
- 9:38blah, blah. And I was like, oh, OK, so I
- 9:40guess I should have just never quit smoking.
- 9:41Yeah. Like, vape.
- 9:44Oh, you know that. OK.
- 9:46And. I had a jewel when I was like
- 9:4716. And is the quitting in the room
- 9:49with us because somebody still orders a vape every time they
- 9:50get drunk? Every time I drink, but I've
- 9:52only drank 3 times this year. Hit a vape.
- 9:54I did hit a vape on Saturday. Mad you sent me or are you
- 9:57posted a shirt on your story and the shirt said like.
- 10:00It was Katy Perry. Don't let me borrow your.
- 10:03Yeah, it said. No matter how much I asked, do
- 10:05not give me a vape. Or something like you need one
- 10:08that says no matter how drunk I am, don't let me door dash.
- 10:12Don't let me door dash. The thing is he every time it's
- 10:14a waste of money because he throws out the vape and the next
- 10:17time he's drunk. DoorDash is another one.
- 10:19It is not a waste of money because if I kept the vape I
- 10:22would get addicted to it and then just like.
- 10:24Put it in a box. I need a chest.
- 10:26And lock it and then give me the key and I'll give it to you once
- 10:29every three months when you're drunk.
- 10:30And that's it. Yeah, but drunk nights are so
- 10:32spontaneous I can't rely on you for a vape.
- 10:34But you can rely on DoorDash because.
- 10:36They're always around. That's such a waste of money.
- 10:39All right, let's keep watching our fat con friends.
- 10:43In my gorgeous, powerful fat body.
- 10:46Perfection. Oh, in every single way
- 10:50possible. But really trying to stick it to
- 10:52the man I think is the best way to do it.
- 10:54So part of my fat defiance is just my willingness to stay.
- 10:59I. Refuse to fall.
- 11:01In girl, you can't be hold on pressure.
- 11:05The you of all people GOP ones literally are meant to save
- 11:09people like yours lives. You cannot be advocating against
- 11:13GLP ones while wearing a bed sheet.
- 11:16I, I, I need anti GLP. I know I need, I need anti, I
- 11:21need anti GLP people to be skinny.
- 11:25That's what I need. The GLPS.
- 11:27Some people abuse them and I saw an anorexic girl.
- 11:30I don't abuse them. Look at how good I look.
- 11:32Do I look malnourished? And do you need one?
- 11:35Really. No people like this that need
- 11:37it. I just, I mean she literally
- 11:40can't even fit in the frame. Like I don't think she could fit
- 11:43in the elevator of my apartment. This is just depressing because
- 11:47it's like we're just watching people who refuse to recognize
- 11:50they have an addiction. Yeah, and they're and.
- 11:52They're just gassing each other up.
- 11:54Really embrace like narcissist narcissist I.
- 11:56Haven't seen one man. I think there might have, I'm
- 11:59not sure there. Has been, I'm sure some of them
- 12:01identified as a man. What actual man?
- 12:05That's very problematic. I know I'm being problematic all
- 12:08right. Your new woke man is not going
- 12:10to like that. Yeah.
- 12:13And then building fat community. I just want to be with other fat
- 12:16people doing things that our bodies are what we're not
- 12:20supposed to do. How about exercise?
- 12:22No, you know, that's a similar sentiment is shared amongst
- 12:25crack addicts on the street. They they they tend to operate
- 12:28in packs because the packs validate each other.
- 12:31What do you call a pack of fat women?
- 12:36Is this a joke or are we just making?
- 12:37No, I'm like saying like, come up with a name for it.
- 12:39I don't know. If you can think of something
- 12:42funny, comment it OK. Well, you know what?
- 12:45Just. Bitch has a mask on.
- 12:49This is The thing is, is like all of these conventions are
- 12:52not, it's not about being fat. It's not about being.
- 12:55They are all if about like the same woke ideology of like the
- 13:00oppression Olympics. It's all identity stuff.
- 13:02And being fat is one of the identities.
- 13:05But like, if you came to this convention and you didn't buy
- 13:07it, like maybe you believed in body positivity, but you didn't
- 13:09believe in like, I don't know, don't know, whatever.
- 13:12Like other woke identity politics things they were you
- 13:15would feel very isolated because everybody here like buys into
- 13:18that. But my point is that.
- 13:20Do we have fat in the LGBT alphabet yet?
- 13:22I'm I'm going to make a prediction and say that's
- 13:24coming. Oh my.
- 13:25God. Yeah, that's coming.
- 13:27The plus is for plus size. Stop.
- 13:35You're literally going to give them idea.
- 13:36That's going to happen. You know you do real, they're
- 13:38going to do it. And you know what?
- 13:40Isn't that already kind of included by non binary?
- 13:44Good one. Actually no, I've seen a lot of
- 13:47malnourished non binary yeah. But so here's my point about
- 13:51this this this woman is so concerned about her health that
- 13:56she's wearing a mask indoors in in 2026.
- 14:00But you're not concerned about your morbid obesity.
- 14:02In fact, you're literally what if these things is much more
- 14:05like you. Know causes like chronic
- 14:07inflammation, it's. Much, much.
- 14:09More I'm pretty sure that weakens your immune system and
- 14:12makes you more susceptible. So like.
- 14:14And listen if she does have. If you're wearing a mask because
- 14:17you're fat and you're working towards.
- 14:19But clearly that's not the case here.
- 14:20The Hell's here literally have fat fat defiance.
- 14:24This reminds me during COVID when people would yell at me it
- 14:27was so annoying when they would like yell at me for an I had one
- 14:30of the fake masks that was just like MASH but they would try to
- 14:33yell at me but they would be the size of a house.
- 14:35They couldn't even fit through the door.
- 14:36And I'm like bitch you have bigger fish to fry and the
- 14:39problem is is that you're frying too much fish.
- 14:41You need to grill it anyways. COVID.
- 14:45Pictures, that was. My red pill pipeline.
- 14:47As it should be. Yeah.
- 14:49Space, unapologetically, every single place that I.
- 14:52Go OK. I'm fat and happy staying fat.
- 14:59That's sad. We found a man.
- 15:02Not well, not really, but. That is a man, I think.
- 15:05That's a Tran. It looks like a trans man to me.
- 15:09Well, I don't want to say this joke because it's going to be
- 15:11really mean. Just say it.
- 15:13Do you still identify as a man if your stomach it's so large
- 15:17that it absorbs your Dick? It's not.
- 15:21That's just gender affirming obesity.
- 15:25This is really mean. I don't want to be mean.
- 15:28I want to be loved by everybody. I don't actually want to be
- 15:32nice. I just want to be.
- 15:33I just want a virtue signal that I'm nice, yeah.
- 15:37Not shrinking myself for other people's comfort.
- 15:41Well, you need to shrink yourself for your own comfort,
- 15:43love. That's not comfortable.
- 15:45You are in pain. You're.
- 15:48Shrinking if this person. Can you imagine like if I lost
- 15:52an inch I would not be happy all.
- 15:55Right. We're not doing that.
- 15:56I just don't understand that, like, or if I went pee and I
- 15:59couldn't see it, like I enjoy looking at myself.
- 16:03So that's like, wouldn't that be a big motivator?
- 16:08Clearly, nothing is a big motivator for them.
- 16:11I don't know man. Obesity is an illness and GLP
- 16:14has proved that. That doesn't mean it's outside
- 16:15of the realm of your control. Well, it's clearly also
- 16:18partially a mental illness for some people.
- 16:20Well, yeah. And, and also like, it's, it's
- 16:22an, I look at it as an addiction because your body, like a lot of
- 16:25obese people get more hunger signals than people who are have
- 16:29the genetic like who are not prone to it.
- 16:31Just like if you're prone to alcoholism, if your parents were
- 16:35Alcoholics, you're more likely to like fall into alcoholism.
- 16:38It's the same thing, I think. But again, just because
- 16:43someone's prone to alcoholism and they become an alcoholic
- 16:45doesn't mean that they can never stop being an alcoholic.
- 16:47Yeah. Completely no.
- 16:49No, that's right. Actually just being here.
- 16:51This is my first time at Pet Con and so I'm.
- 16:55Learning a lot, being the me I am, that is a fat.
- 17:01I'm out. I can't do this.
- 17:06What the hell is even that? Oh my God, there's.
- 17:08So many layers to this one it's like.
- 17:13AI. Deep Dish.
- 17:15This has not like I I don't I don't God.
- 17:20That is a fat me and a happy me and through everything else.
- 17:25We are practicing fact defiance by really being representative.
- 17:29We have a lot of books that we're carrying through a big bad
- 17:32bookstore that really celebrate being fat and highlight what it
- 17:35means to live in a bigger body. And so that to me is how we
- 17:39celebrate fat defiance is. What do you think?
- 17:41Do you really think these books are highlighting the reality of
- 17:44what it means to live in a bigger body?
- 17:45I just The thing is, is like you're not happy.
- 17:48That not a single one of these people looks happy.
- 17:51You're not happy comparatively to how you would feel if you
- 17:53were healthy, correct? Like you may find pleasure in
- 17:56life. I'm not saying that being
- 17:57overweight people like they can't be happy, But as somebody
- 18:01who has been a little heavier, like I've had some fat on me,
- 18:04even then I've never been obese, not really.
- 18:06But even then, or anybody that has actually been fat, when they
- 18:09lose the weight, there's a big difference in how you feel.
- 18:12You can fit in seats better. You can walk better.
- 18:15Your. Hair smells fresher, you can
- 18:17breathe easier, you're not out of breath when getting
- 18:19interviewed. Like, I don't know.
- 18:21Imagine the airplanes on the way to this convention.
- 18:24Don't get me started on that. I know they had a whole keynote
- 18:28speaker about whether or not planes should give you a free
- 18:30seat. I think they literally.
- 18:32Did. I'm sure they did.
- 18:33It was probably J Bay or whatever.
- 18:35She's. In.
- 18:36Jail. I wonder if she has education.
- 18:40I wonder if they gave her a free bed, A free extra bed in jail,
- 18:44like a cot next to hers Or does she only get one?
- 18:47I wonder if they accommodate plus size people.
- 18:49In a world that's trying to make us minimize ourselves, I'm
- 18:53maximizing and it's all about expression being.
- 18:57The. Biggest version of.
- 18:58Yourself and take I'm going to need them to shut this stuff.
- 19:01I'm so tired of this stupid ass nonsense coming out of their
- 19:04mouths just because you think it sounds like poetic bitch, you
- 19:07sound stupid as in a world that's trying to minimize us,
- 19:10we're going to maximize ourselves.
- 19:12Bitch, that makes no sense. She's like, it's my goal to get
- 19:16as big as possible to own the people who want me to be
- 19:19healthy. It's not people that want you to
- 19:20be healthy, it's your own body. Screaming at you your joints
- 19:25can't handle any. One point you have to
- 19:28acknowledge the reality that your body reacting to your fat
- 19:31negatively can't be changed by you just having a positive
- 19:35mindset. No, no, it's you understand,
- 19:37it's only happening because of the negative social stigma is
- 19:40placing stress on them. So it's actually not even have
- 19:43anything to do with their. Bodies.
- 19:44I need them to define medically what stress is and then ask
- 19:47their kneecaps if it feels it. I'm being so mean but these.
- 19:52I'm just being loud, proud and boldly.
- 19:54There will be no shrinking. I'm not a shy Violet.
- 19:58How are you practicing fat defiance in 2026?
- 20:01Oh my gosh, I'm throwing fat con.
- 20:03That's what I'm doing in 2026. I'm throwing a whole.
- 20:05Convention. What are you?
- 20:08Doing period. All right.
- 20:10I hate when bitches just say period today period.
- 20:13It's like that doesn't make she didn't just eat.
- 20:16Have you seen the TikTok where it's like the Gen.
- 20:18Z girl with no personality and it's.
- 20:21Period. Boots down, Mama.
- 20:24It'd be like, that's not and you'd be like.
- 20:26Oh, oh, that's not oh, oh, you should get educated on that.
- 20:32Oh God. All right, Part 2.
- 20:34There's more. I've got another 3 minutes on
- 20:39this pulled off. I just do this to torment
- 20:45Clarkson. Because I have like these.
- 20:48I just, I struggle. It's like the devil on my
- 20:51shoulder wants to crack a joke. Please, Angel, I'm OK.
- 20:55Well, I don't. This lady on the right is the
- 20:59national director of like, the National Association for Fat
- 21:03People's Civil Rights or whatever she was that this bitch
- 21:05was in Jubilee with. Oh, I'm Julian Michaels.
- 21:08Oh. My God.
- 21:09Fat defiance in 2026. I'm, I've been fact practicing
- 21:14fat defiance for many, many years in 2026.
- 21:18Well, I'm going to keep doing that by continuing to lead NAFA
- 21:21and civil rights work. I'm also going to do it by
- 21:24wearing whatever I want to at whatever size I happen to be in
- 21:282026. Bigger, smaller, same, whatever
- 21:32it is. That's how I'm defining the
- 21:34standards of being told what I'm supposed to do with my body and
- 21:37doing what I want to do with my body.
- 21:39And I know that's right. Fat joy.
- 21:42Lots of fat joy. Can we talk about the idea that
- 21:45like fat, fatness is a. Civil.
- 21:48I was just about to say the fact that there is a black woman
- 21:50listening to a white woman compare her being fat.
- 21:53To civil rights black women, I think not this one in the first
- 21:58one OK, well they're. Both black ones.
- 21:59The amount of delusion like that's insane to compare civil.
- 22:03Rights Rosa Parks ran so these people could waddle.
- 22:08Yeah, this is really annoying. I'm very annoyed.
- 22:15We should go next year. They they'll ban us.
- 22:18No, we can. We can dress up like Madea we.
- 22:21Could put up fat suits. Yeah, well, not the blackface,
- 22:23but like, yes, we could do, I'll do.
- 22:25We should. Do it with the blackface?
- 22:27Probably not. No, that's crazy.
- 22:29I'm I'm too woke. It's all about.
- 22:31DND. And fat.
- 22:32Yeah, I think we should go. We should crash Fat con indeed.
- 22:36Fat Joy. Well, I'm a fat physician
- 22:39working in weight inclusive care and I'm the program director for
- 22:42Awesome medicines. But that's the defiance.
- 22:47Illegal. Oh my God this is like that
- 22:50therapist on Jubilee that I had I had beef with.
- 22:53She works for a specific therapy company that focuses on
- 22:57basically just condoning this behavior.
- 22:58If you are a physician of who identifies as a fat physician
- 23:02and promotes weight inclusive care instead of telling your
- 23:05patients how they can be healthier and not die early,
- 23:08that is like medical malpractice.
- 23:10Well, you should. Lose your license.
- 23:11I was because the girl who was in the Jubilee have episode I
- 23:13made a video about and then she commented back and she basically
- 23:16just said like she literally thinks that obesity is not
- 23:20causal to all 'cause mortality. She completely rejects.
- 23:24Like they reject all the science.
- 23:25No, I said no. You can kill all that right now.
- 23:29And I'm like, OK, so that's like me saying smoker cause basically
- 23:33her argument was, well, the diseases that fat people get,
- 23:37skinny people get too. And it's like, that's like me
- 23:40saying just because smokers get lung cancer.
- 23:43That. Yeah, smoking is healthy.
- 23:45It's ridiculous. Non-smokers.
- 23:47Non-smokers get lung cancer. So how do we know if smoking
- 23:49causes lung cancer? Non-smokers get it too.
- 23:51It's I really thought that like school.
- 23:55You thought wrong, babe. That's crazy that I'm.
- 23:59Doing I'm increasing my fat community I am.
- 24:02Loving on fat people. I am loving to get to know
- 24:05people like you and. Other fat amazing people out
- 24:07there like existing. And just being and knowing.
- 24:12That I'm a bad bitch, period, period.
- 24:14I am living authentically. I am exploring fashion in
- 24:19different ways and taking up. Space.
- 24:23Oh my God. Physically.
- 24:24Emotionally, yeah. All these people got their
- 24:27personalities from Tech Talk. Of.
- 24:29Masks. At this is crazy.
- 24:32Yeah, because they have to protect their immune systems.
- 24:34Because it's compromised by their but obesity or because
- 24:37they're all like Taylor Lorenz COVID truthers in 2026?
- 24:41Both, both, probably both. But it's crazy to be so
- 24:44concerned about your health that you're wearing a mask just to be
- 24:46around other people, but not concerned enough to not eat
- 24:49yourself to death. I That's crazy.
- 24:52I'm I'm still stuck on the doctor's thing.
- 24:55I guess all doctors can have addictions too, and addiction
- 24:58is, I mean, you know what I mean?
- 25:00You shouldn't be allowed to professionally.
- 25:02No, no, no, I'm saying, well, what I'm struggling with is
- 25:05like, how can a Doctor Who has gone through this type of
- 25:07schooling actually logically, like, make this make sense in
- 25:10their head? Yeah.
- 25:11Like, how do you make this make sense to you?
- 25:14Because as a doctor, you, you were trained on like, logical
- 25:17reasoning. So.
- 25:18And on the fact. And and on like scientific
- 25:21studies how to read them. So the level of cognitive
- 25:23dissonance that comes from not only just like being a doctor
- 25:26and promoting body positivity, but then like, I don't know,
- 25:29it's like it has to just be addiction.
- 25:31It's just addiction. Or let it all.
- 25:34Hang out. Hi, I'm donating to Napa and fat
- 25:39con. You too can practice fat your
- 25:42fat defiance by joining a Napa pod for just $5 a month.
- 25:49However much you can, it is. A.
- 25:53A. Fat defiance.
- 25:54To put she's kind of giving like this is going to be really mean,
- 25:58but I can't help where my brain goes if one of the seven dwarves
- 26:03ate one of the beans from Jack and the Beanstalk.
- 26:09Your brain goes crazy. I can't help it, but I just
- 26:12imagine it like she's like she's got like the.
- 26:15Wild proportion. She just gives me like A7 dwarf,
- 26:19but she's obviously not a dwarf so I had to think like, how did
- 26:21she grow? So she ate one of the magical
- 26:24beans. Defiance to put your money
- 26:26towards great causes where we are creating fat community and
- 26:30creating change in the world like these organizations are
- 26:33doing. I think it's just been more
- 26:35confident in myself and like being.
- 26:38She has a shirt that says Fatty in the Barbie text.
- 26:43Please sue with that. I don't.
- 26:45I don't want this. Copyright be used like that
- 26:47people. Wait, what is it?
- 26:49It's in the Barbie. It's the.
- 26:50You know how it says like Barbie it says.
- 26:51If you have to convince yourself that you're like.
- 26:54They're doing too much. Yeah, like you're not it.
- 26:56You're not that girl. Like, I'm sorry if you have to
- 26:59wear Barbie stuff to make it seem like you're a can, You're
- 27:01not a can. Taking up space and not
- 27:03apologizing. I like an accent, yeah.
- 27:05And that's both like you're a slut from now digitally and
- 27:08making. Sure that people know.
- 27:09That this is normal. This.
- 27:11Weekend has. I mean, it is normal.
- 27:12It is. Unfortunately, that's the
- 27:14problem. That is the problem way.
- 27:16Too normal. Honestly, it's so normal that
- 27:19I'm kind of shocked that we still have a culture that like,
- 27:22like, I'm shocked that this isn't bigger than it is because
- 27:25it's so normal in America that you would think people would buy
- 27:28into this, these types of ideas so much easier.
- 27:30Yeah. But most people, even people who
- 27:31are really obese, aren't like this.
- 27:33Delusional. No, no, it's bad, but they just
- 27:36can't. Or choose not.
- 27:37Exactly the. Choices and they have things
- 27:39holding them back or addiction problems or whatever, but like.
- 27:42But I'm just surprised I'm. Surprised as well that you're
- 27:45right that more. People, I think it has to do
- 27:47with sexual attraction and deep down everybody is more like,
- 27:51even obese people are more attracted to like.
- 27:54Well, there's some exceptions. There's some exceptions, but I
- 27:56think in general, people, there's a beauty standard that
- 28:00humans are attracted to. Whether it's based on
- 28:02conditioning and that I don't know.
- 28:05Maybe that's plays a role in it and.
- 28:07Has really made me feel even more of that and.
- 28:11Seeing she looks fine doing what they.
- 28:12Want No. She's big, they.
- 28:13Want and not worrying about what everyone.
- 28:15Thinks half of her is not even in the frame.
- 28:16Letting go of perceptions and expectations from society or
- 28:21other people around you and just doing what makes you feel good
- 28:25is really the most impactful to me and has helped me grow and
- 28:29gain confidence and feel joy every day.
- 28:32Yes, love that. Thank you.
- 28:36How dare fat people? Be like I look.
- 28:38Good. Smell good, feel good.
- 28:42What? How serious?
- 28:46Period, period, period. What did he say?
- 28:52How dare I feel good, look good, smell good, the sex good.
- 29:00I'm well listen, I'm glad he's having good sex.
- 29:03I'm glad he's having good sex. Verification.
- 29:05Everyone deserves to have good sex.
- 29:07Yeah, and maybe you could burn some calories.
- 29:09But your sex does get better when your stamina goes up, so.
- 29:13And if you'd like to be alive. For more unless, unless you're
- 29:16with a smaller person with a lot of salmon and you just lay there
- 29:19like a dead fish. I'm, I don't know, I'm done.
- 29:21I'm done with. It all right, that's enough for
- 29:23this video guys. Thanks for tuning in.
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- 29:28back with more normal gaze real soon.